Hot or Not: Spit Domination
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So, you and your hookup or regular fuck buddy are getting hot and heavy when all of a sudden he spits on your face, what will your reaction be? Will you be in shock or will you be turned on?
We are bringing this up because a curious Adam4Adam reader wrote to us saying he wants to hear what you think about this subject and how many A4A members are into it. His curiosity stemmed from his best friend’s experience while hooking up during New Year’s Eve and also that he had seen guys spitting into each other’s mouths in porn a couple of times recently. Is spit fetish more common than we think it is?
Our reader said he doesn’t mind getting spat on in his ass before getting rimmed or on his dick before blow job but spitting on a person’s face without a warning is a huge no for him. He added that his best friend was in complete shock (had his mouth been wide open, the spit would have landed on his mouth). His best friend quickly instinctively wiped the spit from his face and sternly told his hook up that he doesn’t play that.
We did a little digging and that is called spit domination. I always say everything in life is relative; it applies to sex acts, too. According to this article, the author is also only quoting another writer by the way, “A slap can be aggressive or playful, hurtful or stimulating. Likewise, a wad of spit can be contemptuous or loving, depending on the intention. There’s nothing inherently demeaning about wanting to devour your lover’s liquid essence.” In addition, the author said spit domination’s origins can be traced back to BDSM and the act involved the “dominant partner spitting into their submissive partner’s face and/or mouth.” The submissive on the other hand, “may also be forced to swallow the liquid spit.” Lastly, in spit domination, spitting is seen in the same way as ejaculation, ‘facials’ and bukkake (sex act in which one participant is ejaculated on by two or more men) in particular.
If it were you, would you swallow your hookup’s spit? Do you find spit domination hot or not? More importantly, have you tried it before? Did you like it? Why or why not? Share with us your spit domination stories in the comments section below. Also feel free to send your blog posts suggestions if you’d like us to discuss a special subject, the email is [email protected]