Hookup: Would You Sleep Over After Hooking Up With Someone?
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So, you went home with a guy you just met for the first time in your life and had sex with him. It was amazing and you could say with all honesty that the two of you had a great time but the question is: would you let him sleep over? And what if your hookup doesn’t ask you and he just went up and settled himself down for the night on the other side of your bed, would that bother you? Do you let a hookup sleep beside you or do you find that strange?
What if it’s the other way around and the two of you went to his place instead, would you sleep there or would you rather wait for his invitation? What if the invitation does come, would you take him up on his offer? Why or why not?
Personally, I would allow a hookup to sleep over especially if we had a great time and he was being all cuddly and sweet after sex because it could be a start of something? A question mark of course because I could be reading too much into it and there might be nothing there after all but at the same time, giving the two of us a chance isn’t too bad. On the other hand, me staying over the guy’s place, I’d say it depends. If I could feel that I am welcome, that he wants me to stay (translated as: he couldn’t get enough of me), then why not? If not, then I’ll go because I don’t want to overstay my welcome and also because staying when the other party clearly doesn’t want me to sounds clingy and clingy equals cringey to other guys so there. But of course that’s just me, what about you?
Do you have hookup sleepover stories to share? How did that go for you? Share your hookup sleepover stories with us in the comments section below and while we are at it, please always keep in mind our dating safety tips!