Speak Out: Ever Met A Flirty Straight Guy?
Reality show junkies probably already know this, but for those who aren’t glued to their TV sets, RuPaul’s Drag Race alum Courtney Act has been making waves on the United Kingdom’s Celebrity Big Brother.
Courtney Act – Shane Jenek in real life – not only won the audience over with his grasp of LGBTQ and gender issues. He has also won them over because of his great rapport with the other guys in the house, specifically The Apprentice UK star Andrew Brady, who is straight.
In fact, Brady has ingratiated and kept himself in Courtney’s orbit, asking to be made up in drag and even letting Courtney take a look at his tucked penis. Things have quickly escalated between the two, with the two of them sharing a bath, shaving each others legs, and even sharing a quick kiss.
. @itsandrewbrady is loving a bit of @courtneyact! Watch this space 😜#CBBBOTS #CBB pic.twitter.com/a9nO2c6aDH
— Big Brother UK (@bbuk) January 12, 2018
Bubble trouble! Shane J (@courtneyact) and Andrew (@itsandrewbrady) take a romantic bath… complete with leg shaving! 🛁 #CBB pic.twitter.com/WBUusyaCC9
— Big Brother UK (@bbuk) January 12, 2018
While this flirtation may just be for show, we’ve all had that straight friend that’s just a little too flirty and affectionate. Whether we want to admit it or not, that kind of attention can feel really good. Why else would there be a whole genre of porn involving gay men having sex with straight men?
Have any of you ever had that particularly flirty straight friend? Did you ever flirt back? Did it ever go beyond flirtation? Share your stories with us in the comments section below!
Another blog where guys are either Straight or Gay, completely ignoring the long time and we’ll understood concept of The Spectrum upon which yes some guys are 100% Straight and some others are 100% Gay while many (some would say “most”) fall somewhere in between. Andrew Brady is for sure anything but 100% Straight. If he was, he would not go anywhere near Courtney Act and would not participate in Act’s act. He’s a percent point or few off 100% Straight.
When guys present themselves as Straight, I respect that and never cross the line. I’ve met some guys who present themselves as Straight, but who exhibit various levels of stereotypical Gay behavior. Again , I don’t cross the line with them. Some of them, no surprise, have revealed after years that they are Bi or Gay. Given the opportunity, I’d step up to the plate with them if an attraction were to come about.
I’ve met plenty of them, but they aren’t Straight. They are “Straight”.
When are we going to leave these tired and homophobic paradigms behind? The straight/gay paradigm is a lie and we’ve known it since Kinsey. Sexuality is innate… “sexual identities” are cultural phenomenon that reflect no discernable, underlying, biological reality whatsoever… at least as far as anyone had been able to convincingly demonstrate to date. To continue to beat this dead horse so loudly merely for insipid titillation is to serve the continuing purposes of homophobia. When are you going to step up and start serving the purposes of developing post Homocaust paradigms of liberation rather than continuing your Stockholm Syndrome kowtowing to our oppression?
Reminds me of a close friend of mine of 15 years who is straight but teases me affectionately about how I like (and lust) him. Used to grind and dry hump me and flash his ass or nuts. He grew out of it but now I tease him for it.
Judgmental gays will say men are either gay or straight when Kinsey long ago found it was a spectrum or sliding scale.
You are over-cautious. You can have sex with straight guys, but don’t expect it to be emotionally fulfilling. Especially when they’re married.
Now do something useful, and write a blog about being gay with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, when even if you get to have sex, it takes two days or more to recover from it. Where it’s impossible to have an income to match your date’s, let alone impress someone. Who’s impressed by being on disability, or being unemployed, or supported by your family? Who’s willing to take on taking care of you? Who’s willing to stay home night after night because going out is bad for you? Anyone?
Get a grip. You’re off topic and have made it all about you. How gay.
I know, right, lol..
And did I mention, there is no support organization, no help in the gay community, meanwhile guys who get themselves infected with HIV run around, leading “normal” lives, taking medication, infecting others, while gobbling up buckets of attention, time, money from others, having virtually every need catered to. As if they are somehow sacrificial lambs. As if they are more deserving, more worthy. As if their complete lack of responsibility must be rewarded. It’s enough to make someone sick. And it does. The least all these wealthy organizations could do is open their definitions to include other incurable, chronic diseases. Yes, in some cases, HIV can still kill. Is dying young worse than living a full-length life of misery and suffering?
Pretty much half my straight male friends are this to some degree. One eventually came out as bi, another says he probably is bi (but he’s all bark and no bite and we both know it), and the other two just clearly enjoy the positive attention. Lots of flirting with those two, even running hands through hair, thigh caresses, knee rub fights, flirty talk.
Honestly, it’s just nice for everyone involved. It’s a positive feedback loop. We all feel wanted in a world that’s… incredibly harsh sometimes. And it’s refreshing compared to the all-in-good-fun but rough ribbing usual to the group.
This is nice to hear. And so true that is good for everyone. Thanks for sharing.
You know, I think the “gay/straight thing” is just as old as the sex w/black/white thing, frankly, no big deal. I mean, I think the majority of us have or will encounter hetero guys flirting with the idea of male on male sex. I long ago, once lived in one of those boarder-type situations
where one of the guys there about 10 yrs my senior had a friend whom began sitting next to me on the sofa pressing his body into mine, and when I had my bare feet prompt up on the coffee table, he began actually fondling-playing with my toes! And if that wasn’t enough, the dude flashed his dick at me! Yeah, I looked, wasn’t much to see, lol….
I just wonder if they-hetero dudes, spend so much time obsessing over gay dudes, like some of ‘us’ do them… is it about wanting what you, mostly, cannot have?
Was visiting a friend in Boston in the 80s and were going out to dinner with her co-worker and co-worker’s husband. She told me he was ex-Marine so cool it on the gay thing. HE flirted with me so blatantly all night in front of his wife friend and I wondered if it was a kink of the couples. Hilarious.
We’re evolving into less boundaries as a culture and that is even in the bedroom. I’m a rideshare driver and it’s a blue between gay and straight. My most direct straight guy told me he’s not gay but I can fuck him in the ass. I did. Another curious guy said he saw me on Grindr. I said I didn’t have a face pic then he asked could he masturbate. I said yes and helped him finish (9 minute trip). Lots more examples and I kinda wonder if I have a reputation because it’s at least a weekly thing. I try dates and get stood up last minute but when I’m trying to earn a living, it’s pants down city. Go figure.
Chaterbate is another aspect of this. I’ve seen 2 customers on there in the past month. One of them is really hot but he’s definitely friendly for pay. He’s very lean, hairless, about 9.5″ , and totally cocky. The other guy has a nice ass. I’m so late to Chaterbate. So my new hobby is finding these guys. Lol