Speak Out: “BBC Only”
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A survey says 78 percent of their white gay respondents believed black men have large cocks. Moreover, 60 percent of them believed that “black men are more active, strong, and dominant in the bedroom.”
How true is the result of the survey for you? Do you also believe all black men are hung and top?
In a previous article titled Being Black and Gay where Ben talked about stereotypes, he said black men in general are perceived as masculine, strong, and protective. This perception perhaps is how this stereotype formed.
I’ve read many articles about these statements/questions because of course there are black guys who are bottom, too. On the other hand, statements like, “I have never had sex with a black guy before,” aren’t helping things any. The speaker makes it sound as if he only wanted to experience how it is like to sleep with a black guy. The respondents of the survey who had been told this felt fetishized and objectified, like they were only good for sex and not for a long-term relationship. Is it really the case or is it just a bad pick up line influenced by the many stereotypes around us?
What do you think guys? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comment section below.
Why is this still a thing? BBC is a continued racial stereotype that needs to go away. It’s so boring to be judged on site well before you even get to the bedroom. Sure there are plenty of Black Men who can put it down in the sack, but don’t discount others who can do the same thing. Penis size is realative, so if the connection between the two of you works, enjoy that. I haven’t seen many requests for BWC, BLC etc.
I enjoy men of all ethnic backgrounds and have been with many African American men. While they weren’t all above average in size most have been on the larger side and nearly all of the guys who were truly hung were black guys.
As a submissive bottom I thoroughly enjoy giving it up for these guys!
I believe people are buying into stereotypes and are missing out on wonderful handsome men from all races if you only think ‘bbc only.’ Black men aren’t the only ones with a big you know what, but apart from that, I think the constant objectification of men of certain races is actually hurting the gay community bad.
Well it depends on when they were born, back in the day it was natural for some not all, however, today’s black male and. White. Males have HUGE onus due to steroids placed in food and other factors Hack look at all of the young girls who look so much older coming out with double D’s.
Im percieved as white (half asian though), and have been w many black men…from fem to more masc…n most have bottomed for me, even very masc guys…so idt the stereotype is very accurate…but i do love black men, they r so hot n their man scent n taste gets me rock hard
I doubt most of the black men you meet bottom for you. Especially with you being Asian. Truth is while we may be talking about black men the elephant in the room is the smallness of the asian man. Even though you half white zero times any number is still zero.
I don’t think that is a fair assessment, you don’t know this guy and I don’t know him, but what I do know is that you are judging him on the fact that he is half Asian. Does he have to be a half Asian man with a small penis or he could just be a man with an average or bigger than average penis?
I think you guys are losing the whole point of this topic! It is not discussing whether or not black men have a larger penis or not, or if they would bottom or top for another partner! It is simply stating that black men straight or gay have been stereotyped and fetishized, and men of other races believe they are only good for being a strong dominant top in a sexual situation; Which is not true. As a black man myself I have experienced guys (bottoms) of all races throwing themselves at me because they think I’m super hung and would love to drill them deep. It becomes a problem when the guys already have you pictured in their bed and they can’t even recite back to you, your first name, or interest. I believe gay men of all races have to do better when it comes down to racial profiling a sexual partner.
Funny been with many hot young black men all are not hung either besides size is no measure of good sex. Some hung men think banging the hell out of a guys ass is all needed. Many don t know how to really please their man s needs. Many black guys I have had opportunity to enjoy are not butch but more on fem side and most are bottoms. Hung or not! I m lucky never had any racist thoughts thanks to my great open loving parents. Too bad there are many black guys that like the image of being a thug though. We all should just be open minded and enjoy all that is around us.
Well I am a black man who was raped 3 times as a kid. I am not well endowed and neither was my father. Those three men who raped me were huge but i have been with white guys who had dicks like horses . I don’t consider myself a bottom because I don’t like a dick in my ass. If I can’t suck it or jack it I just pass it by. You are right If you have a big dick and don’t know how to use it or meet the needs of your mate you need to move on. It does not matter what color the dick is or the size as long as it makes you content and happy..Ijs Joe
Yea i believe among the many things black people in general get judged by is that we get objectified by what we do in the bedroom. I feel the gay community has this singlized tunnel vision of what kind of guy they want and does not consider the other factors that makes the man as a whole. But to comment on this, most white guys in general i feel believe thats all they want from a black guy and i second guess myself when i do get involved with a white guy in asking myself, does he really like me for me or is he fascinated on the idea of bbc?
I have always been amazed at the size of the Cocks on black guys. Most are 8″. Maybe I have been lucky.
Most of the blacks were masculine, and seemed to be dominant. They would take charge and fuck me hard and deep, make me take their load on the face roo
I’ve been with two black men. One was 7 inch and so thick. It hurt like hell but after 5 mins it felt so good and would have a big orgasm. The other black man was pushing 9 inches, he could last forever, he’d still be hard even after cumming! I’ve seen some amazing black asses that would be great to pound also.
I just had my first black dick this week. It was a beautiful, thick and long piece of dark meat. But even better than that, the man had some serious stamina. He took command of our time together, stretching my hole as he penetrated me. Then when I fully accepted his dick, he worked it deep, faster and faster, balls slapping. It was a beautiful experience. I know we can’t base all BBC on a single experience, but from what I’ve seen around the gym- the thick cocks and the beautiful guys attached to them- I’m a believer in BBC.
I feel like we (blk gay men) are objectified and it shows through porn ads and sites. Most of the time when I log on, I see blk men under titles of thugs and are fetishized by white men. Does the whole fantasy derive from a “buck breaking” mentality or past? Or is it truly a fantasy that some white men don’t know how to vocalize and not sound like a douche. It does piss me off to be approached/messaged by a white guy and the first conversations have reduced me down a common denominator.
Omg!!! Some real truth!!
Im a black male 6″ 2 and slim with over 9 inches of rock hard BBC. The white men that ive fucked(im very equal opp) would do almost anything to get down my pants including lie about their skills and dipping into their kids college funds.
I am fully aware that me AND my dick are objectified. Its a shame when i run into other black men who are not aware that we are wanted simply for what we can do for OR to a white man.
In the world that we live in black men are ONLY thought of as “thugs” and “fucking machines” ……whats new?
Well. i have fucked more black ass than taken black cock. in fact most “tops” out there like to go bottom more frequent. If the survey is biased in anyway, it is porn to be blamed. My ex were a marine, masculine, not so big dick (7.5, if anyone thinks that is big), and he likes to be topped by other masculine men, despite the fact that he is more masculine than 99% of the gay guys i have met out there. With that being said, the survey is biased to me, and i don’t believe the stereotype.
The problem is deeper than just black men. Gays have been objectifying black woman for what seems like the beginning of what gay is today. And black women objectify black men while stereotyping them as those protectors, masculine, strong “brothers”. So naturally, whether or not it makes any sense, the results of the survey make sense. It coincides with the big booty phase to me. Most darker skinned races have some genetic code to have smaller waists and still retain an oversized ass. So it seems like nature would design their counterparts dicks to be able to accommodate that ass- at least in a perfect world. I’m black, I have a nice dick and muscular physique, but I know a few white guys whose dicks are bigger than mine too.
When someone says to me that they want my BBC, or that they only deal with black men, the first thing that I do is hit the block button. Yes, I have a large, thick dick. But, I’m so much more than that. I don’t want to be a fetish. That’s disgraceful and distasteful to me! If you rule out whole races of people, you’re an idiot and I’ll be the first to say it. Don’t bother writing, ” no offense” after that dumb shit, either. If you have that on your profile, you’re not negating your offensive comment- you’re asking that it be overlooked and accepted. Well, neither of those happen. Wear your racism and bigotry proud!
My preference is black dick and the black guys I’ve had have not been any smaller in length than 7in and up to 12 true inches measured from top side out to tip,over the last 15 yrs I’ve had 38 black guys.I love the stamina they have they can go a long time and several times.they are very masculine in the bedroom there is no other like black dick!!!superior to me…..
I can only speak for myself, but being in the South, I’ve found that myth to be a load of crap. But, even this site participates in it’s perpetuation. I doubt Adam would sell many videos of a tiny dick flaming bottom black man. No, all the videos are of monster size.
If they are out there, I sure can’t find them. What I have found come in the same wide range as white cocks from OK that’s big, to damn that’s a disappointment.
This is not completely true. I have had some Anglo guys who have had huge cocks…maybe they were the exception. I have had Anglo guys with average sized cocks. The same goes for Black guys. That adage is a MYTH. True, lots of Black guys have a bit larger than average dicks but most are just average. Nothing to write home and tell momma about. Currently, it appears that every one on the various sites are BOTTOMS or supposedly “Bi”. If a guy proclaims he is bi — hell, he really likes dick/cock as well. Personally, I prefer a MANLY TOP GUY — that knows how to lay good pipe — color does not matter to me and no I am not a whore either. I know what I like….something I can FEEL!!!!
not exactly sure what you are going for here, man. I’m white (now a daddy/bear type) I’ve played with dozens of black (btm) guys, and penis -wise, they are all over the place. below average to well above. personality- wise, again, all over the place – macho, passive, fucked up, well-adjusted….in other words, human individuals.
maybe you are looking for a bottom’s perspective?
As a black man, my experience with white guys on this site is almost exclusively about “BBC.” At least 90% of white guys approach me like I’m a piece of meat instead of as a man. Their convos never begin with “Hello” or “Nice Profile,” but rather with something like “Stick that big black meat inside this hot white hole.” Or, “Tie me down and treat me like a slave.” Yes, that’s their VERY FIRST message and somehow they believe those are magic words that are going to entice me. It doesn’t. I just laugh and click delete without responding because that approach doesn’t interest me AT ALL!!
The underlying belief is that black men are objects or just a piece of meat instead of an actual man. There’s also a belief that every black man wants a “hot white hole” and all a white guy has to do is flash it and we’ll run to it. Delusional! Yes, some black men are well hung. Yes, some of us like role play. Yes, some of us are attracted to white ass. However, to assume that ALL of us are hung or top or interested in treating anyone like a “slave” is not only ignorant, but a bit racist.
Stop approaching us like we’re a T-Bone steak on the BBQ grill. We are MEN not meat!!
William I am from the South as well…you can’t get any more Southern than Mississippi. While this may be your opinion (and you are entitled to have it) I must beg to differ. As a Black male in the south I am constantly barraged by profiles of white males and all they do is dwell on the fact that they want a pic or they want to orally satisfy me. Sadly most of them are flakes and just want to get a picture. Never the less, I do have to agree with most guys that online (porn, apps, people, etc) objectify the perception of a Big Black Dick! I have met several black men with smaller penises and some white males with larger ones. I think once the stigmata between racial boundaries are broken down even further we will realize that there are enough big dicks to be shared by whomever whenever! If that’s all your looking for of course.
Sorry Antonio that was for William earlier
Dang smart phones but I 2nd your comment and raise it to the floor for a vote. Motion carried….yes we are MEN not meat!
Amen brother!! That’s exactly how I feel about this issue. And not only that, I also feel that we as black men have been fantasized for centuries, yet revered for our attributes and constantly sought after for the preference from white men. It’s like saying we black men are trophies for sex and at the same time hunted and conquered for that “sex”. And for white males, I can see the underlying tone ” yeah I had a black guy and the sex was great!” type of thing. Men are men gay or not. We as a ” human race” must not disrespect each other regards to sex or not. If you a black man or white man want to enjoy peaceful harmonious sex amongst you, then do so without the stereotypical nonsense, bigotry, racism, bs that goes with it. Not every black man is endowed or proportionate just like any other man that walks this earth. If “man”can by pass that thought, then he’ll realize we as men on this earth are all the same in thought….We just want dignity, especially about our interracial sex…Gay or not.
I am a bisexual bottom white guy. I personally prefer sex with black men. I like guys with a larger dick. Black men also seem to have better stamina so the sex lasts longer too. No stereotypes just my opinion.
So you’ve had sex with every black guy there is yeah? i don’t think you’ve even touched 0.1% of the black guys out there, so how can you come to that conclusion, i don’t know!. Im a black man and my stamina is shit. So what your saying is stereotyping and opinion is based on some sort of facts, i see non in your statement.
But statements like that is probably only said to make people angry, so what ever god you support, may he bless you with some intelligence.
Oh boy, you really hated his opinion didn’t ya? Lmao!
I just love black men in general…I do love when they are able to take control and be the dominant in the relationship and in the bedroom
I am a white guy. I very seldom meet up with white guys, I prefer to meet up with Men of color. I KNOW that all Black men do not have large dicks but most of them seem to. I have found more often than not Black Men I have been with have bigger dicks. And I have sucked a lot of black dicks. (several hundred) Most with 7-10 inch dicks. Also have been with black guys with dicks smaller than mine and believe me that is small. 2inch to 4inch fully hard dicks, but mostly have been with bigger dicked Black Men. I have black friends and I mean real friends, not work buddies or something that I have no interest in having sex with, and yes some I wish I could. The Black guys I have had sex with have started out as hook ups. Some have turned into FWBs but not friends to just hang with. I just started to bottom so I have only experienced being fucked a couple of dozen times and only by Black, Latino, and Asian guys not white guys.
Some of the Black men who have fucked me have been strong dominant types and some have needed a how to manual and have been a disappointment. The best fucks have been by Latino Man and a Black Man. I prefer to hook up with Black men because I find the black skin tones and black bodies (fit or not, young and older) attractive. and I like the contrast of skin tones between their blackness (no matter the shade) and my whiteness. White dick just doesn’t excite me. A soft or hard black dick, cut or uncut is just plain beautiful. It is difficult for me to compare whether Black Men give better sex then white guys because my sample numbers with white guys is so small or in the case of being fucked non existent.
I have found the Black Men I have been with are Good men who also give good sex. I enjoy being with Black Men, and I respect Black Men and I never forget my white privilege. I also like the scent of a Black Man. It is different than other men. The Black men I like, I like because who they are, and not what swings between their legs. I won’t meet up again with a guy who has a big dick and acts like a big dick.
More often than not If you treat someone how you want to be treated you usually are treated that way too.
Race based sexual preference is still bigotry, even if it is in favor of a different ethnicity, placing fetish over personality traits is erroneous, wonder what the stereotype for White men are?… Other than the one about skin privilege.
Ok as a white male I find black guys more attractive then white guys and from my experiences with having a relationship with black guys it’s hard. Most black guys I have tried to date only want sex but talk about having a real relationship moreover the fact that there are big differences in the things black guys and white guys like such as music, food, movies, etc. I have found it hard to find a black bottom, as I am a top, most black guys I talk to claim to be total tips. Now it could be the fact that I am in louisiana and it’s a different environment here but I am 35 and I like guys my age or younger and finding a good relationship today is hard but I’ve found that finding a good relationship with a black guy is harder but as far as stereotyping that black guys are going and strong and protective that would depend on the person it is black guys are no different than white or Asian or any other race. Although in my experience the black guys I’ve been with, or at least most, have bigger dicks than the white guys I’ve been with but I’ve been with some black guys that are average. Its not cool to stereotype anyone no matter what race or how different they are.
So you’re saying that a majority of the gay “community” consists of shallow, racist white males who have no perception of black men as unique, independent human beings?
Gee, who would have thought?
Try, majority of this great country of ours.
There are quite a few studies out there that do actually show that black guys are, on average, larger then white guys. I had the great pleasure to meet up with some black guys and all of them were above (some way above) what I would call average. But it’s definitely not only that. I am very attracted to guys of color. just the way I am wired I guess. One more thing. I do like to kiss and for me, I have not found anybody kissing better then man of color… sorry to everybody else lol !!! … I am white by the way.
My! I can’t wait to read the comments.
As a black gay man I can tell you that the stereo types about black men not only exist but they are perpetuated by gay porn and gay culture in general.
How many times have you see a black man being fucked by a white man? It’s out there. There are definitely movies where the black guy is the bottom, more now then ever before, but the movies showing black men as aggressive tops far out number the one’s showing us as bottoms.
Also many white men that would have sex with lots of black men but would never consider dating one is more comments then most will admit.
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve made it clear that I’m a masculine bottom on a sex site with the header reading; “Masculine bottom looking for mascyline top”and I still get some white guy thinking he has the persuasive mind control power of professor Charles Xavier of the X-Men and can put his tow fingers to his temple’s and make me a top.
It’s frustrating, insulting and probably some form of racisim.
What do you guy’s think, (black and white)?
i am one who dates only black men, but no……not all black men have big dicks as a matter of fact I more often find black men with average size dick than I do with really large dicks. Dominance in black men I have found depends on the level of education. I have had sex with black men that are highly educated and IN MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE, they are usually more sensual and delicate.
At the same time, I have also had sex with many many thug-like dudes, and yes, they fuck guys like they fuck women, hard and tend to me quite dominant. In fact many call a guys ass PUSSY. I am severely biased because I am not attracted sexually to white men, so I haven’t had sex with a white man since my 20s (im 45). All in all I appreciate many things about black tops, I am a very sexual individuals and definitely black men’s pheromones have a very strong effect on me.
^^^Did this white man just say a black mans dominance is based on his EDUCATION?!?
THIS IS RACISM AT ITS FUCKING BEST!!!
Just when you think you’ve heard everything… Then something like this happens SMH!
Its true, i totally feel fetishized iv been treated like a sexual object instead of a person “white or latins only no blacks or asians” but there quick to change there mind when comes to sex.
Its hard to find people to date cus white guys who date black guys in my experience
Either are all druggy and are white trash or its the whole “ughh bbc in my white ass” bs it gets old fast
Or you may find someone of quality stable, good looking, all around good guy but even they ten to be “oh im not normally into black guys but im pretty horny right now” or they play the looking for a relationship date for 3 weeks “oh im not sure i want a relationship im not sure what i want” stop dating than turn around in a relationship with some white or latino guy. “Its not that u didnt want a relationship i just didnt want you and by you i mean black” iv been told that too many times for comfort. Gay people wanna talk about equality and all that but they done even know what it is
That is a myth. I have had some Anglo guys who have huge cocks. Not all Black guys are gifted in the “dick department”. Most times, Anglo guys are average but I know some Texas and Indiana Anglo guys who had huge cocks and knew how to lay some good pipe. I have had a few average sized Black dicks; therefore, I do know the difference.
Don’t let the myth fool you. True Black guys are a bit more aggressive but most are not “lover material” because they (the ones I have met) are not interested in settling down. They like to fuck and move on to the next hole…sad but true.
Ray, Anglo is such a nice word for White….whats your nice word for Black?
Cant think of one? Maybe that’s why you cant get one to “settle down” with you.
I’m A Black Guy Myself, And All I Got To Say Is Don’t Believe The Hype. I’ve Seen A Lot Of Pathetic Black Ding-A-Lings. So Not All Black Dudes Are Hung Just Saying. Just Check Out Some Of The Profiles On Here(With Tracking Turned Off) And See For Yourself, And See How A Lot Of Guys(All Colors) Exaggerate Their Sizes. The Only “BBC” I See On A Regular Is On My Cable Package, In HD(LOL)
Yes, I think it’s definitely over-hyped. I’m a bottom too
Maybe there are more masculine blk guys out there, but only because so many white guys are total pussy wimps and now have next to zero survival skills, As far as size goes “white” is a far more diverse and encompassing term than “black” I’ve seen far more large white dicks than I have black, But it seems there is a huge market for for BBC in porn and fantasy, who knows why…? I find it amusing that there is rarely anything negative said about guys who post BBC only,
My first top was black when I was 14. I have had many black men since then. I just love the dark meat inside me.
I’ve slept with black guys, and most of them were hung. Dominate, not so much.
This BBC thing has gotten way out of hand. I get many messages that only state the letters “BBC” and nothing else. Since they have the “BBC” classification, then all other stats (ie; age, race, height and weight) should not be a factor. Just bend over and take that the “BBC”. Like it is some type of royalty. I don’t care about the “BBC” or “BWC” status, it’s all about what the entire body looks like for me. I call it Big Black and Crazy or Big White and Crazy.
People of all races make assumptions regarding what sex with Black tops should be like, based on the way we’re all taught to experience Black Masculinity and Black Sexuality.
For example, I happen to our be a hung, Black top but I don’t identify as dominant. People becomeven quite confused to hear that I’m not seeking a submissive or that I don’t want to engage in raceplay to put White People in their place.
Conversely, I don’t know what it’s like NOT to have folks make assumptions about the experience of sex with me.
Andre, black size queens and power bottoms regard black tops the same way that you describe. I am a black versatile bottom and there is nothing like being fucked tenderly, face-to-face and locked in a deep wet kiss by a top.
Amen Andre!!
I’ve been fucked by Black man, White man, Latino man, and few Asian man. Not all Black guys have big penis. What I love of Black man is their lips they’re very sensual and makes sex intercourse more pleasureable.
Black men in general are much more “manly” than other races, I don’t think that’s in question.
But yes, they do have larger cocks as well. Perhaps those things go hand in hand.
Yes I have experienced this objectification by a large number of non black/African gay men. Seen as just a sexual object. Pre conceived ideas that I am a dominant sex crazed top running around having every willing hole that steps in my path. Most are only interested in my penis..or at least it fuels most of the interest. No one wanting to get to know the person. This article spoke to me.
Will, how about the black size queens? They do the same objectification and they seem to proliferate nowadays. By the way, I am a Black versatile bottom who enjoys a GOOD dick, regardless of size and especially if there is lovemaking associated with the action.
As a black Top I get turned off from white and latin guys who when u read there profiles and the entire profile is about monogamy and finding a soulmate boyfriend and LTR. But when they contact myself or other black men it’s all about Cock size uncut or cut, immediate fucking quick hooking up and dating is off the table completely.
I am a 6’4, 180 lb, black gay bottom with facial hair and moderately hairy body. I usually get approached by men who think that I’m a top with a “BBC” and they’re disappointed when I tell them otherwise. I say all this because I have dealt with this all my life, but I understand where all of this stems from. It is part of the history of this country, going back to slavery. It is sad that in 2017, we are still dealing with stereotypes and racism, especially in the gay community! I love white men as much as I love any other race, but I am tired of being looked at just for the size of my dick! If you get to know me, you might find out how big it is instead of assuming, which makes an ass out of you, not me!
To be honest, I’m just usually not into black men, and I’m getting a little sick of articles that feel heavy handed like you want me to apologize for that. I’m not attracted to women either, so am I a misogynist too? There’s a huge difference between a guy saying oververtly racist bullshit in their profile like (no jungle bunnies or spear chuckers apply), and someone saying I’m just generally not attracted to black men. I have no problems being friend with anyone, as long as they aren’t assholes and are capable of independant thought so they can hold a decent conversation, but when it comes to sex, black guys don’t normally top my list, neither do Asians. As you may notice I’m using a lot of qualifiers like generally, usually, normally; this is because I’m not completely closed to the idea. I have met and seen black men that I am attracted to, that if the feeling was mutual I would definitely be down to try, and yes I have even tried it before. Not because I felt like it was an expierence that I needed to have in order to check something off of some cosmic check-list or to feel vindicated in saying what I’m saying now. We as gay men already face quite a bit of scorn and shaming from some straight folks because of the people we are attracted to, do we really need to do it to each other?
Stop playing the innocent card. First of all, your “list” doesn’t exist. Whatever ego trip that you think you’re on is highly overrated. Unless you’re a young, millionaire, stud body, genius, charming, demigod, no one is lining up to be with you. Hate to break it to ya.
The problem that white, gay men have is that they think men of color have to be “exceptional” to even be considered to fuck. Your own comment proved that. You won’t even be friends with a black unless you believe that they “are capable of independant [sic] thought so they can hold a decent conversation.” Wow, so you’re saying that a majority of blacks can’t hold a decent conversation? That objectification of us IS racist. Physical attraction has nothing to do with it. You don’t see straight men saying (besides racists), “I wouldn’t sleep with _____ race.” Even they know that people come in all sorts of colors, sizes, attitudes, looks, and wealth. Stop using your homosexuality as a crutch to be racist.
Blk33 I couldn’t agree with you more. NSLASHA or whatever her/his name is prob the biggest size queen you ever met. She really need to wake up and stop playing that innocent fool card like you said. I won’t be surprise that she’s the exact opposite of what she pretend to be. Sorry !
A long-standing collateral effect of white male hegemony in what was at one time gay subculture. And a two-way driveway. Certainly it’s an extension of sociopolitical attitudes and realities in the antebellum New World, as much as in colonial Africa, but with a peculiar twist in its modern context, where the positioning and fetishizing are as often subconscious as voluntary (IMHO) and common terms clearly evoke the Old World Order whence they derive.
well,MOST black men are very hung,had many and enjoy their lovemaking.suprized to find allot enjoy kink,bondage,being fucked,and many SPANKED!,they also give spankings better than most,more sensual and fun.i choose them mostly for their looks,body,and personality,cock size really doesn’t impress me, i go by ”at least a good handfull”,ect.REALLY huge cocks,black,whatever to me are at the least UNUSABLE,who wants some giant oversized cock up their ass,NOT ME,not into being fucked at all though.but riding some big hot bulls hot bubble ass,YEAH BABY!!
What survey? Who are these “respondents?” Is that all the survey asked? My white husband chose me because I’m smart, independent, and an all around good guy. Based upon what’s written above, it seems like the “respondents” are a bunch of shallow insecure idiots.
It is clear the “respondents” KNOW nothing. I’d like to know how many of them have tried to foster a meaningful long-term relationship with a black man? And, if that’s all you want and ask for, that’s all you may get.
Ugh.
Like it or not, we are all subjected to racist and homophobic stereotypes. Just as one example; the ads for porn sites on A4A; overwhelmingly you see way more white guy unless it is a back themed site. One currently depicts a black chauffer being seduced by his rich client–there is a subliminal racism to that. Have not seen the movie but I wonder if the chauffer assumes the top role? I have had sex with men of all races and ethnicities, and while it was not enough to create any real research (DARN! He, he), I have not found black guys to be more often tops or all hung. This disappoints me since I am a bttm–but ANYONE not preferring to top disappoints me a bit. I’d like to hear if African American men here find that they are EXPECTED to prefer topping?
P.S. Could you not have used a pic of a black guy with a small or average-sized cock to help make a point in this article?
hahaha, good point. I was thinking the same thing.
Lmbao!!! Me too!!
As I black man that been with both black and white men equally have experienced white men to be far better overall than black men in bed. Orally white guys have really excelled on me over the years. Creativity white guys really break the bank with their knowledge and skills. Another thing that stands out for me is that over the years I experienced white guys to be straight forward to what they want and are more willing to please than to be pleased. As far as the bbc thing, being a versatile/top guy leaning more toward top, bbc hurts me when they are too thick. My main goal when I bottom for a bbc is survival. My mindset is to satisfy the bbc top and try to get him to cum as soon as possible so it could be over with. Same with white tops with big dicks and there are plenty. I adore dicks that are meduim thin and about 8 inches long. I want it to slide right in comfortabeling. They feel good and are easy to suck.. I’m sure every guy that respond to this article will agree that the main thing about having sex with a big black cock or big white cock is that the cock be nice and hard. Nothing more fustrating than a floppy soft cock during anal or oral sex. In closing I found over the year that white guys that I personally been with are way better in bed. As a african American it takes all of me to say that but it is the absolute positive truth. Attention to detail, stamina, creativity, knowledge etc. Big black cock is a huge turnon when you can find one that knows how to make love, creative, sensitive, polite, desire to please, patient, super clean, confident and straight forward know exactly what he wants.. Just my personal experience as a 35 year old black male living right in the middle of a white resort and a black community.
Ummm that’s your opinion. You can’t say its the absolute truth, because I find white guys to be in adequate. Yes, they’re nasty af and will probably do ANYTHING you tell them to do especially when in comes to big black dick
I couldn’t disagree more with your comments. Granted, this has been your experience, so I give you that, but mine is the exact opposite. As a white male, I find most are less inhibited in bed than black guys, and crave the big black dick. For me personally, I have had maybe 10-12 black dicks and on average are far superior in the sack than my white counterparts. The movement, stroke techniques drive me crazy, so given the choice, I will always bet on big black dick.
Big black cock and black men in general are thought as taboo
I have had black men and bit all are hung
The ones that are feel great and love to go deep. Others try too hard to match that stereotype
I have had many black partners…some short term and several long term. They were cute sexy hot bottoms. There are a various reason for them being my partners and one was they were black. Btw they all had average to big cocks. They were great in bed and great overall as people and partners.
What happened to my comment? Why post an article about BLACK men and prevent those same men from voicing our opinion?
Because “our” opinions about “us” are not needed or respected.
I’ve had black lovers and boyfriends. Initially, thought black men were allegedly hung. Over the years I found they are varied in size and top/bottom roles as other men. From 5″ long or more, hot bottoms and talented tops. My boyfriend Ron was hung about the size of dry erase marker. He was just he a most talented and wonderful top. It wasn’t about size but the way he fucked.
Funny everyone responded to WHY SKIN COLOR MATTERS but not this one and I feel these to stories go hand and hand
Like so much about stereotypes, they’re often based on truth. When I was a young guy with very little experience I met a black guy and went home with him. I had never seen a cock like that – before and in the 30 years since. I have a big cock, 8″ long and 6″ around. His was much much bigger – at least 12″ long and thicker and it wasn’t fully hard.
He wanted to fuck me but I thought he’d break me in two so said no. Since then have seen a lot of black cocks, some big and others not so big. So the stereotype is true-ish only. And, btw, have met a lot of black bottoms along the way.
I’ve enjoyed having sex with black men. Some have been hung larger than average, some smaller. Not sure if black men are more or less dominant/assertive than other guys. That’s more of an attraction issue, like who catches your eye. I do think the black men I have been with have been more relaxed about exploring sexual gratification. But, I haven’t been with every black man on Earth. If you see a guy you like, then go for it. Don’t get hung up on stereotypes or fantasies.
I have known and enjoyed time with several Black bottoms or vers, all gorgeous and very nice. I don’t care about cock, for the most part, and have a special appreciation for shapely butts. To each his own and good luck to the BBC cravers, but give me that booty!
A single tear runs down my cheek for all the black guys who have big ducks and people are dying to pleasure them.
“BBC only” is racist. Just like “only into white guys” is.
However in light of all the oppression black people in America once were subjected to, it’s not much of a consolation prize.
But, I see more of the BBC stereotype promulgated by black men.right here on this site. BUT, what are you going to do to break the myth? Publicly declare “I’m black and I don’t have a huge cock”?
I think not. You’re stuck with it fellas. It’s a catch 22. The person I really feel sorry for is the poor black guy who isn’t huge. Or as I like to call them, permanent bottoms….the gay community honestly is the most bigoted of them all.
I am a mature SWGM….and have found some black men to be very exciting both intellectually and physically….I tend to gravitate towards men that have large cocks but that goes for both white and black men….although some of the best sexual encounters I have had over my life time have been with men who have small cosk…it all depends on the chemistry….
I want a black dick
Well my first anal experience was with a bbc and let me tell you yes I think that they do run bigger then others, the second time was also with a bbc. yep it was painful but I enjoyed it all. in the last 30 years I’ve only had one other bbc and I am always looking for another one. the other men I’ve had were some big and some small. I will continue to look for the well endowed bc.
I like them big black and strong.
Honey ive had over 100 black dicks and theyve opened my hole up like a rainbow. They have the biggest dicks and if u dont clean out properly dooky will push out so u have to deeply clean your pigeon hole when with a black man becuz his dick was made for a real hole honey chile
Lmao. You made my day!
junjun your comment was freakin hilarious.
hahaha hilarious but true
This is so hilarious to me!!! Usually there’s dozens of comments by now. Hello!!! Is this the “elephant trunk” in the room white guys are not comfortable talking about? Lol. And btw I prefer BBD the word “cock” is ugly and not sexy at all.
Agreed! Ugh, “cock” is such an ugly word. “Dick” should be the official word.
I concur. “Cock” is a lame and disgusting word. That’s how we know this entire “BBC” thing stems from white men, black men say “Dick”.
I blame the porn. Because
they are one’s who keep these stereotypes going.
I agree with the article…I prefer Black men because of their dominance in the bed room…My first dick was a black guy in college..been my preference ever since!!!!!
Pretty simple. Do a search of 9+ inches in your area and see how many are black vs others online with pics. 59 came up. 57 categorized themselves as black or visually black, one chose other ethnicity, and one was asian witha stated 20″ cock. Next question?
The black think about BBC is not always right and true, Im sure a certain amount of black guys are hung,but i see few of them, most are smaller then me,,white,im 7 to 7.5, but once long ago, i had to younger white guys that, took it a bit to far and forced and held me down while they both took turns on me, and they both were approx. 11 inches and about as round as most wrist would be, so a number of whites are just as big if not bigger, its a percentage of both races im sure.
I think this is really a conversation about Exotification, not opinion.
I don’t see this is an issue. We people tend to see patterns and induce conclusions. We see people pushing shopping cart on the street we assume they are homeless. We see people driving expensive cars then we think they are rich. What’s wrong with that? To be honest This is how science developes. We observe a phenomenon, if it happens quite a lot then we conclude then observe more to see the conclusion is right. When it has enough samples and we raise a theory out of it.
I am asain chinese. Tell me your stereotypical observations I won’t get upset at all. If i agree with you. It’s good. If not i just laugh it off. No biggie.
I’ve observed 50+ gay black men are “invisible” w/n many gay communities. Unlike other cultures, the US porn industry (gay & str8) infrequently exhibits black, 50+ “bears”, etc. Do 50+ yo black men have sex with peer aged black men? Seems there are no varieties of 50+ black men as there are for other cultures. No ads, vids & few pix or websites have embraced 50+ black men. I’d guess the marketing angle: more guys buy old “white” guy magazines and vids bcuz they’ve always did. Youth items have “thugs”, “niccas” and “in the hood” titles. Can gay communities, porn industries, etc continue to ignore 50+ yo black men unable to see themselves in vids, e-mags, etc? Invisible is when u can’t be seen and not needed.
another forum opened to degrade black men…classic A4A.
We’re talking about it so that people stop being racist… Obviously after reading some comments so bigots are still racist. I personally love black men, not because “they are powerful” or because “they’re hung” or anything like that. Simply because I am attracted to them they are usually very generous and fun men to be around and they are also very beautiful to me. My generation (in Montreal) the majority of people don’t see black people, arab people, asian people etc as “different”. Montreal is 50% not white. So most of our colleagues are from all around the world and I grew up in that city, so I don’t even see the skin color anymore. We’re all HUMAN :))
Dave xx
I wish America had the same mind set as Montreal. It’s really silly we’re still having this talk in 2017, but then again, look who’s running our country, and the people that voted for him. I know that was off topic, but it just to show you how behind America is, while claiming to be a free ‘modern’ country that accepts the ‘melting pot’….
I know exactly what you say…
Outside of Montreal (suburbs) it’s almost 100% white and there are racists people…. That’s why I dont go lol.
I just hate close minded people. Not everybody is white and christian
Oh no… don’t believe entirely what Dave says about his generation being colorblind and not putting different races into partitions. I’ve observed the gay scene in Montreal and on gay social sites. Please… the same racial cards that are played anywhere in Canada are play over there. I’d like to read more opinions from other gay men in Montreal before fulling being convinced by Dave’s comment. He doesn’t really speak for the entire gay community in Montreal.
And can I say that the partial proof of my counter-opinion is based on my run-ins with guys from Montreal who live in Toronto… oh boy do those guys sure only prefer one group of guys in the gay community based on their skin color.
With decades of anecdotal evidence under the sheets, including being an Army vet, I can say that black men, on average, are likely to have bigger cocks than others…And sometimes they are smaller. And while a big cock looks awfully hot in a bathing suit or freeballing in loose pants, it doesn’t make for a better fuck necessarily. One of the best fucks I’ve had recently is a guy from Thailand, with a beautiful thick 7″ cock. He’s not particularly good looking, and not as masculine as I like, but this man knows how to FUCK like there’s no tomorrow.
So yes more black men are well hung on average, but that won’t necessarily make for a good time.
When I was younger, huge dick was all I wanted whether it was a black, white, yellow etc, etc,..to be able to suck, fuck, jerk off, and play with a huge dick was what I needed…As I got older, and wiser, lol the size of a man’s dick was still very important but I wanted to be with black men more because sex with black men was so much more intense. I’m NOT talking about the huge dicks, and there were some that were NOT huge, but the foreplay… the kissing, the touching, the licking, the smelling, the way we vocalizing what we were feeling, the ” nastiness ” we got into…that sexual intensity, along with sharing everyday life experiences, led to some of the best relationships I’ve ever had..
I only once did it with a black guy. We both had a wrestling fetish. He’d wrap me up in erotic holds and put me in humiliating pins. He forced me to to rim his asshole, tongue his crotch, lick his balls and suck his cock until he came in my mouth.
I’m an equal opportunity dater. Call me naive, but I’m most concerned with how you treat me and others.
I won’t bullshit you though, a nice package gets me attention!
I’m a black bottom, and I haven’t been able to find the white top I’ve been dreaming of, certainly not on A4A. I would prefer to be in a biracial relationship, but thereby it’s almost implied that the black partner must be the top. :/
I wonder what happens to black men and women when they are strong, intelligent, and dominant beyond the bedroom?? it is so funny how blacks are put constantly in a sexual category or any other category that makes the other races happy. Unfortunately as a black gay man myself, i can say that gay blacks are the most self- hating, hateful, hated and prejudicial people on the face of this planet; and too many times they remain content and complacent when being objectified and dehumanized by other races and their own. Funny how gays in general love to slide progressive ideas out of their mouths, but in practice prejudice, discrimination, racism, ageism reigns supreme internally.
And what bothers me is how everybody likes to advocate for blacks when blacks don’t give a dam about their community or their well being or themselves for that matter. I end in saying you cannot help one who cannot get up unless they want to get up.
WOW! You have some other issues going on…
“And what bothers me is how everybody likes to advocate for blacks when blacks don’t give a dam about their community or their well being or themselves for that matter. ”
You’ve drunk too much of the media “kool aid”.
John, you hurry up and go get some help. YOU are embarrassing EVERYONE
Im a masculine black man with a large dick. BUT im a TOTAL bottomqueen in bed 😉
Its utterly frustrating how men, especially
white men believe should top because I have a bbc. Ewwwww…I AM bottom period.
I’m an African American man who has one Caucasian friend who primarily is into black guys. Much of his beluef is because when he was in his more formative years, he wad treated most nicely and protected by African American guys his own age.
That graciousness awakened a desire for black men, with no awareness of they’re dick size.
He hasn’t complaints in that area, but the dick size is not where the attraction began.
A black man taught me that sexual intimacy is about being human, open and reciprocal with your man. I learned what intimacy is about and little about size being the prize. I learned how not to be a “selfish bottom”. Before my first experience(s) with men of color I knew sex through the lens of a bottom boy – be pounded – be submissive – be whatever the guy wants you to be. Guys (mostly white) seemed to simply want a hole to get them off. Most came on hard, unloaded quickly and wanted to move on sometimes with a “thanks that was great or a be in touch” comment. I pushed off the stereotype or the urge or novelty of posting “bbc ++ etc” or “I prefer black” because I felt it was demeaning and not indicative of what I was truly feeling. As I write this I want to say the men of color I have been with are truly men of distinction and few of my white guy brothers have come as close. Sex can be very beautiful and what two men bring to it regardless of color makes it so. When I see a guy who interests me I go into it with an open mind looking for human qualities that encourage and warm the spirit. When I see a man of color what interests me most is that feeling deep within me that says, I want to meet this guy and explore his and my humanity in ways that enrich us both as men. Rjtopher
How I feel about it…
I don’t have a massive cock. I’m kind of happy I don’t.
Why? Well in the face of the people who adhere to this bullshit:
If you have a look on Adam4Adam most of the tops that have these well endowed penises are HIV+ I mean Adam4Adam can only really speak about those who engage it.
Look at tops
And notice the trend of more HIV+ men the larger the cock gets.
I’ve messed with some well endowed men and it’s not really for the sexually ignorant.
Most of these white dudes (typically) that only want a large cock (forget if it’s black or not the chances are just more likely among black men.)
can’t take one. They really can’t. It’s like 1 out of 20-30 men will be sexually experienced enough to handle it.
As far as performance goes yeah, Black men tend to out perform the most of white guys.
Most white guys are too gentle like they’ve all bad sex with women 70+
No not everyone needs or wants to be roughed up, it’s not about that.
The odds of finding a stronger top among black men is higher.
However…typically the sissys are the only ones that hunt them down.
Like look at these comments…It’s like every dude with daddy issues comes out of the woodworks like rats and roaches Ugh.
That’s what bothers me. These bitches don’t want, they NEED BBC and are codependent on it.
We end up having these men that are considered and perceived as good to fuck but not enough to date. It’s not healthy for the long run. In my personal opinion there is nothing positive to behold about these guys that don’t really like black men but just the black cock and just tool them out.
It’s like if a white guy is horse hung: “Cool, nice, it’s a bonus. The ICING on the cake.”
For a black guy: “Well, that’s their only defining feature is their cock….and that’s the cake.”
I have been incarcerated, several times, and also was in the navy, I have seen many black guys naked, I’ve been with about 20 black guys ( I love em ) my experience is, their not all hung, but the ones that are, are really HUNG, They seem to be very physical in bed, with great stamina. I have been given a ration of shit on a4a because my profile specifically says “black men wanted” by some black men, as some form of racism?? I not only like to be fucked by BBC, but for the most part, I like their company 🙂
Unfortunately I believe this to be true. Black men are viewed that way and I think a lot of it has to do with porn. It’s rare to see a black guy bottom for a white guy or any other race and when or if they do it’s more of a white guy bangs thug type of deal lol . you can take a white older guy and he will still be relevant in porn because you label him as “daddy”, you can put a white heavy set guy in porn and he gets labeled “chub” you don’t see that with black guys. If we are heavy set we get called fat, if we are old we are not seen lol you only see hat one type of black guy in the porn industry and that is mainly the issue at least in my opinion.
Yeah, you go for that BBC…and they’ll want it BB, of course, and they’re “just tested” and you’ll have an 8 TIMES GREATER chance of getting pozzed up from that, along with 15 TIMES greater chance of getting syph. NO THANKS!
This comment is amusing to me because BEING a black man with a large dick, i NEVER fuck anyone BB even though practically all white guys I’ve been with have almost BEGGED for it.
I dont trust that AT ALL and i refuse to be set up and infected by “men” who we KNOW wish us nothing but DEATH.
I find this article to be funny. BBC shit i have been with over 40 blk guys im a top and have yet to meet a black guy as hung as i am. Its a stereo type just as many white guys if not more are as hung or bigger.
Lol. ok.
Well this post went every direction I could imagine. I’m black even though that not important. I got a nice dick but it don’t matter… I’m a total top(rare) who only like fems, transgenders and transexuals. Most here are not one and NO submissive don’t make you one. Most men I’ve met look too manly or handsome which is a total turnoff to me.
I like the foreplay with the kissing cuddling, ect and nice soft sensual voice… the majority here aren’t even close. I get the mean type who come on strong about the dick and when I say I prefer non masculine they go negative even if I compliment their looks. Funny how a minute ago they want to ride my dick. Hardly anyone wants a relationship, NSA and keep moving. Respect goes both ways get to know me before wanting some dick, it will save both of us sometime.
I prefer someone whose a freak…my stereo type if you want to call in that. I was born under the cursed sign(SCORPIO) a natural freak. I’m bisexual but rarely act upon it because true freaks can keep me in check. Regular people do nothing for me sexually. I view anyone I’m involved with sexually as a woman no matter what sex you were born. I’m not for everyone and I understand that… so keep it moving if this turns you off. You being negative or calling me sick in the head won’t change who I am…. all dick aint for you so find the right one for YOU.
LOL. I knew I would have a good time reading the comments on this blog!
Race- based fetishism is a societal issue. I’m bi and many (rich white) women offer me $$ to get my large “BBC.” This transcends into a larger societal issue: objectifying humans both men and women. Specifically I am ok being objectified on a gay dating website because it is established for hook ups. I am not on A4A to find love. Furthermore, that (not all but most) white men objectify me for my penis and whatever race-based fetishes that extend from their individual and collective backgrounds (what they know and/or were taught about blacks) DOES NOT directly affect me because I realized they cannot help but be as racist as they have been taught. That 78% of white men believe/assume blk men are hung is indicative of societal influence on people’s feeble minds – when there are 5 million blk men in this country versus 156 million white men (i.e….there are far more hung white men in the USA than black).
It is easy to simply block (profiles) extreme forms of those who are too feeble-minded to form their own ideas on attraction. Thus I pay for blocking service on Grindr Scruff and Jack’d as I realize most white guys who hit me up are society-thinkers; porn has them hooked on fantasy.
I am nonetheless attracted to white men who aren’t racist; there are white men who treat me like a human being without objectifying me.
Those guys are my type.
As a “white” guy, I rarely see a slave/owner fantasy dynamic at work. What is most common is a reaction to the macho attitude many black men. It’s the cultural differences at play, as much as the physical. I don’t know that black men are objectified more than anyone else. If you’re a muscular guy, you’re likely to get viewed like a piece of beefcake no matter your race. And if you are working out to attract attention, don’t complain when you get it!
I think the BBC statement is only part of the equation. Yes I have met many bottoms who crave the black peepee, without any concern about the person that it is attached to. That is a lust and and fetish. I am attracted to black men because of all of their wonderful qualities. The sensual lips, lean muscular bodies, big brown eyes, actually a little jealous of their muscle building genetics. Now for the aggressiveness, I am 6’6 muscular blonde blue chilean/swede and white guys seem to be a little intimidated by me, where as Blk and Latino guys will go for what they want. It could be higher testosterone, but i always wondered if it was upbringing. Minorities, including me have had to fight for rights that white people have taken for granted, and maybe that is why a black guy may seem more aggressive. in the end, a bbc might attract you initially, but the man should be the reason you should be interested in.
Ive got thin lips and hazel eyes so stop it about “genetics”. You havent mentioned one ” quality” just more racial stereotypes! You ARE NOT helping.
It never ceases to amaze me that this “MYTH” still exist, we’re still having this “discussion”, and this is even a topic!!!! Some of the most famous names in porn are NOT Black/African American men but are Caucasian men. Has anyone ever heard of John Holmes, Jeff Stryker, Ron Jeremy to name a few. All the latter men are “WHITE”/”CAUCASIAN” NOT African American/Black males!!!!!!!!! It all comes down to pure “LUCK”!!!!!!!! PLAIN & SIMPLE!!!!!!! And I happen to be an African American/Black male too!!!!☺
Damn, do you know anyone under 50? Or still ALIVE?
Time to update your porn collection Sir.
The gay community is the most non-inclusive social group around. We objectify everyone based on stereotypes and ideals. I’m a white top who has dated and hooked up with men (bottoms) of all colors. When I’m with a black man, everyone assumes I’m a bottom after his bbc, when actually he’s getting my bwc. It’s ridiculous that these assumptions exist, and it’s ridiculous that you feel the need to continue these racist discussions.
If the assumptions still exist then the conversation is necessary Seth.
Smh
Lol. My Dick is usually bigger than most blacks. I love my black men but it usually disappointing to see so many average 7″ or less and thin. You measure a man by his heart and actions but its nice to give my booty to a black man that can at least touch my prostate. And better if they can hit the second chamber.
BBC (I personally prefer “BBD”–Big Black Dick) is part of the fetishization of black men, some of whom are marvelously endowed. On the other hand, though, as a connoisseur of BBC, I can tell you that I’ve been with lots of black guys who have 7 or 7.5, which to me is not especially large. Funnily enough, anyone been to Italy? Omg. I saw one of the biggest monsters ever on a gorgeous Italian at a railway station restroom. Italians are smart. They provide condom dispensers at rail station restrooms because they know guys are going to do stuff anyway.
Italy, like most of Western and Northern Europe, is NOT puritanical like the United States.
I love big black dicks. Been with many, 7, 8 and 9 inches. Now my dream is to be double fucked by two huge black dicks.
I am a white guy and I grew up in coastal South Carolina in a majority black community since the 1700s. My school was 90% black . Having showered with these guys I figured that a lot of them were show-ers not growers. They hung large soft but just stiffened when hard. White guys start small and get big. So everybody’s about the same, but black men come by hot defined bodies more naturally. That’s my take.
I have seen extra large and extra small, and I have seen aggressive and passive in both White and Black. I think interracial relationships are seen as taboo still for many people, and there is something exciting about taboo. I am in an interracial relationship and sex is only part of our relationship. Its not about dick size, who’s on top or bottom, or color…it’s about intimacy, companionship, support, and a thousand other words that mean two people love each other.
BREAKING NEWS, BREAKING NEWS!
The Big Black Dick (BBD) fetish is also alive and well in the black communities. Read the black profiles on Adam4Adam or go to any black sex parties, or the parks at night, etc. and you will see the black size queens, who are now the majority, in action. You will see them feeling and measuring dicks with their hands before choosing a partner, and rejecting those that they deem are not big enough for them. It is not just the black bottom size queens but many so-called black “tops” also want the BBD. On Adam4Adam or the former Men4Now, once I even read a New Jersey black top profile in which he said he was interested in fucking BBD bottoms only!
I know what I am talking about well since I am a black versatile bottom and I have a LOT of experience with these places. It’s not a problem for me because when I go to these places, I am almost always a strict bottom and I top only in private, usually at my place and one-on-one. Most of the times though at the sex parties, parks, etc., there are not enough BBD tops or versatiles for these size queens to go around and while they are swarming around and fighting over the few BBD tops and versatiles, I am having a ball with all the small and medium dicks. At the end of the sex party or my park tour, I go home happy, filled up and fulfilled while these size queens go home frustrated because there were not enough BBD for them there.
I’m a white masculine bottom, not sure why but really into black guys.. it’s the best sex I’ve ever had being his bitch in bed.. size is a extra treat for me , but not all about size. Pleasuring my top is my goal, getting that nut out
As a blk bttm with a phat bubblebutt. I can honestly say that on average, most blk men are well endowed. And it goes both ways….a well hung blk guy is looking for that bubblebutt bttm, trust and believe me Ive caught them checking me out. They make it obvious. But here’s my deal, I’m a blk bttm but I love Wht tops and there’s a difference. Most Wht tops are not well hung, not ‘mind blowing sex’ but I find them attractive and they actually make love…not just fucking.
Most of the well-endowed black men are SIZE QUEEN BOTTOMS nowadays. Some of them say it upfront but many are either “ashamed” to say it or play games to get the Big Black Dick (BBD). They usually say on Adam4Adam that they are “tops” or “versatile tops” looking for another big dick dude and when they hook up, after getting fucked, they don’t return the favor and leave.
As for the bubble butt, it is a question of taste with many guys going strictly after the bubble butts while other guys going for the facial looks, skin complexion, body shape, and personality. As they say, “the proof of the pudding is in the eating”. Well, many bubble butts have holes that are very unremarkable (usually dry and requiring constant lubrication) instead of being wet and velvety. Of course, when the “top” is wearing a condom, he usually cannot tell the difference. It is when the “top” is fucking bareback that he can EASILY distinguish between the unremarkable dry hole and the wet and velvety hole. Some holes, like mine, can become so wet that the “top” sometimes has to constantly wipe the vagina-like fluid that comes out of it.
I live in Toronto and oh please… the obvious truth about the whole BBC referencing is that it’s made the black men who live in this area of Canada are becoming egotistical and high strung because they are getting a huge image boost based on how the size of their penises are objectified. The blacks guys in Canada love that and they don’t consider it as any form of racial judgement. For me they probably feel that it is the first step to being actually being seen in a better light in the sex pool.
So many gay men here in Toronto want to jump at the chance of getting their hands and lips on a black guy’s girth and the blacks here now play hard to get, by being sketchy and flaky because they know the other guys are still going to desire their cocks even if they are rejected.
The black guys in American can yell that they being objectified only because of their cock sized, but come is that really any to feel offended about?
And have you guys seen the recent bunch of gay porn films, both professional and amateur. They all feature blacks guys who enjoy inserting their hard black cocks deep inside a willing and moaning white or latino bottom guy. So why are black guys complaining that their cocks are being put to use in a good way. Because of these porn films, alot of gay men now want to get hitched with a BBC. Black guys be happy about it.
And guess what guys… The BBCs over here will willingly stain their cocks by inserting them in the eager holes of certain groups of guys in gay scene, and guess which groups of guys are given immediate priority… hint, hint BubblebuttW/L/MBs
The biggest cock I ever had was many yrs ago and he was just under 12 inches long but on the thin side of average thickness, I do love cock and race is not an issue with me as long as they love to top. Of the black men I have been with (not many) most were between 6 and 8 inches and average to a little over average thickness. The one thing I have noticed is they can last longer when topping me which I love but I think it’s a stereotype issue where others think as soon as he pulls his pants down there is going to be a BBC but get disappointed when they see an average cock.
Not all blacks have big long cocks. It’s just a stereotype that’s been passed on through time. I have seen many white cocks, black cocks, Asians, and others, and some have big cocks, others don’t. Mine is somewhat small, but it’s just the way it is. I’m sure many guys don’t like small cocks, some guys like large or thick cocks, it’s all about personal preference, I guess. I am white, and I have a black boyfriend. He has an average size cock (only slightly bigger than mine), and I don’t think either of us has ever worried about how big our cocks are. Our caring, friendship, and love for each other is much more important than who has the biggest or thickest cock.
It’s an illness, is what it is, psychologically, we’re all mislead by those promoting such, which is really nothing more than dysfunction. It’s what’s left over from centuries of ignorance about each other, actually.
It’s when you know better, you haven’t anything to complain about, ’cause you stop being victim of such ignorance; might clear out your date calendar; your little ‘black-book’ might look a little bleak. Alone you might sleep more often… When you as “ebony and Ivory” can see the beauty of each other period, making that connection, respecting ‘all’ of one another, you dispel the evil of the “color objectification.”
Learn, to recognize, folks, I have…
This has nothing to do with the subject but a suggestion. Is it possible to have a ‘thumbs-up’ and a ‘thumbs-up’ symbol beside each comment. That way commenters can click one and readers will know how and what others are thinking. Kind of like YouTube.
I been with sooo many black guys that over 60% were average size and the ones who were hung, over 80% of them talk their shit. I gonna fuck you till you bleed, you gonna lose your bowels as I breed you, they couldn’t fuck to save their nuts. Cum within a minute. Gave up on black men. White men and surprisingly Asians can FUCK!! Big black dicks. Big for nothing. Just good to look at. But useless. Only very few could fuck like an animal. But only a very few
Nonsense, but I use it to my advantage nonetheless.
Most of these are just white guys telling stories about how much they love black dick or about the many experiences they’ve had with black men. Can we please Jeep with the topic being discussed. This isn’t the Playboy readers forum.
I am biracial black and white mixed. I am about 6 inches uncut. I don’t consider myself a size queen. I love big cocks my hipocracy can only go so far… I’ve always said that it’s the man that makes the dick not the other way around and I stand by that. I think the guy that has some class and integrity about himself makes me want to give him all the head and all of my asspuzzi that he can stand.
As a black gay man who’s position I can say that I’ve been approached by many white men on dating apps that ask me for dick pics by saying things like “BBC?” “Can I see your cock?” “How big is your cock?” “Are you hung?” I also have recieved these messages often from Hispanic men. It seems to me that there is a fetishism with the black male and our penis. We are not viewed as potential partners but more so as sex tools by many especially if we appear to be masculine. It’s happening with straight black men also. If you notice in both straight and gay porn BBC seems to be a fetish and often black male pornstars with big dicks are used in interracial porn. I’m just speaking from my experience and personal observation.
As a black 29yr gay male, actually reading the article and the responses. I’m amazed by how many of you missed the mark and just got on here to vent and not address the question at hand. Only like 3 really hit the mark.
Yes “us” as black men are sexualized (BBC) currently in 2018 and in the past history will keep repeating itself until there is real effective change!
Yes we are rarely seen as potential life partners aka “Husband” … Because we are to busy fulfilling there fantasy’s, or short term goals “top daddies” breaking them off a piece. It’s like that one saying why bye the cow when you get the milk for free!
The proof is in the responses of this article!
Porn, dating apps, gay community itself, “I use to date this black guy,” “I finally had my 1st bbc”
Be the change you wish to see or take several of seats!