Speak Out : Wanted – Hot Young Males
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I surf A4A hoping to find a hot young male who could qualify as my full-time lover and playmate—LTR. I am a Silver Daddy who likes the magnificent beauty of a young Adonis and a 30 year age spread is hot! The eye candy appeal intoxicates me and my animal instincts rise up almost out of control. I selfishly want a hot young lover who can bottom and top with me—so the flipping will be fantastic! I want him to be my monogamous playmate and partner for years to come.
As a dominant bull, I want my young lover to perform mostly as a bottom, but I want him to top me occasionally so that I can enjoy his magnificent cock deep inside me. He must be physically fit and workout at a gym. He should be well-educated and capable of holding a meaningful conversation on more than the latest ball scores. I want his undivided attention 24/7 and in appreciation for his sex appeal and stamina to fuck and suck with lots of gusto, I will reward him financially with housing, living expenses, transportation and a spending allowance.
My search is sometimes discouraging become some twenty-somethings block my messages and blast me as a cradle snatcher or pervert. (They just don’t know what a bull cock I have.) I wish these guys would be kinder because I am sincere and want to satisfy my desires for a playmate while offering my playmate lots of benefits too. Sometimes I don’t even have an opportunity to plead my case before they cut me off, balls and all! They are short-sighted because my financial support, counsel, and affection are offered free of charge—at least almost free! I will want to be rewarded with frequent access to my playmate’s magnificent body.
Unfortunately, too many young twenty-somethings don’t know that lots of senior males are hot when it comes to kinky techniques and energy. Senior males enjoy edging and rimming young guys for long periods of time before allowing them to shoot off. The young twenty-somethings I have fucked attest to my ability to deliver my loaded cock. I don’t need anything for ED…I just need access to the young hot body that will be mine full-time. My thick eight incher will be ready for action!
Sugar Daddy Waiting
You know, I don’t usually post on things like this, but this is beyond fucked up. I’m 21 and I date older guys, but if a guy came to me like you seem to be doing, telling me I need to be perfect and that you basically want to pay me for sex, I’d cut your ass off too. That’s disrespectful, disgusting, and demeaning. As for your, I’m so amazing at sex shit, if you have to brag, it probably ain’t true. It’s a shame you’re grown in age but not in the mind.
I have no idea where you are located. I live in a college town and there are plenty of hot young men looking for sugar daddies or just daddies. I’m 63 and even have 18yo coming after me.
If this is real it’s a sign of someone who needs help. Paying for a relationship…how sad. Or a young man jumping at this opportunity and lowering himself to nothing more than a paid for trophy is sad also.
Lover?? Why don’t you just hire a prostitute? The scenario you are describing is the same thing. When you have to pay someone to be with you and have sex with you, they are a prostitute – not a lover!
Well sugar daddy, just take those that cut you off to the quick before you have a chance to plead your case as immature, ignorant people. It is there way of saying, “don’t waste my time”, which is hurtful but honest at least. The young mate you are desiring will be worth the wait, even though the search seem futile at times. You being apparently well off to afford such a playmate, might consider looking outside your area for such a sexy playmate. I to am a mature male who enjoys a younger playmate from time to time, but they are hard to find for sure. Good luck on your search buddy!
Pick me
I offer to cum in person and help with the hands-on interviewing process!
I was the hot, hung, muscular teen male that 4 silver daddies supported. I have no guilt about that. I was poor, liked fucking men, and needed the financial stability. I was the top and they taught me a lot about sex. They also taught me a lot about life and business to the point that today I oversee a significant portion of their combined holdings. They were in the same business. Three have passed and I was there for them as they declined and died. I inherited well. I’m still hot (I think(, hung, and muscular, but at 30 I’m in that age where I’m too old to be young and not old enough to be the hot older guy. I’m OK with that.
Into yourself much? That’s probably why a lot of young guys just aren’t interested in us older guys.
I can see why younger guys cut you off. I’m not a young guy (40) and I’m creeped out by reading it. It reeks of desperation and immaturity at the same time…bragging about inches, not having ED, and paying for companionship. Creepy and a major turn off.
Damn. That sounds hot. Many times guys my age are very selfish in bed. Mostly bottom here but will top if encouraged
I wish this blog would go away.
This is exactly the type of daddy I’ve been looking for. I’m 26 living in Central Florida, I’ve been dl bi, but am looking for a daddy to have something serious with. I am a professional college educated longing for a daddy. Please reach out to me daddies
No judgment here – but you making it sound like you offer the cure for HIV. I don’t know how is it in the rest of the world – but I live in NYC sugar daddies are everywhere – sure i was fascinated by the fact to have an older gentleman take care of my every financial need whimp – but as seen similar arrangements ( and i use the term arrangements cause this is not LTR or true love) – it’s like work, even worse you have to be present 24/7 like you said “undivided attention”, you loose your self and what you want there is no saying NO to daddy, i saw it in my own eyes, the money overpower you – for that reason NO THANK YOU. your age is not my problem -i don’t mine if you 40,50 or 60, Men are hot at any age its the energy not the look – i slept with 56 year old man who cared about my shooting i saw the stars that night – but it was just for fun. I prefer to work hard and earn my money and play with guys i choose to and i will buy Gap instead of Burberry but my soul will be whole and my life will be free. However i do hope you will find true love as we all deserve one at any age – Good day to you, Sir.
Really — whining because you can’t find a whore to pay to be your “boy” get a life. Seek counseling.
I’m a 58 year old top and have no trouble hooking up with hot young 20 something guys. There are lots of young men who love to have good sex with older men, in fact, the comment I frequently hear is that age is just a number. I have a couple of regular FB’s and they are both under 25.
Attraction does not come from “pleading a case”. If they don’t want an old guy, or you in particular, then they don’t. It’s quite offensive that you would publicly criticize them for that. Move on.
And you most certainly are not offering your financial support for free. It’s in exchange for sex. That’s called prostitution. Again, it’s offensive you would disparage guys here for not considering selling their bodies to old men. Maybe it’s this attitude of yours that’s turning them off more than your age.
I would love a daddy like you
I’m 30-something,but I would love that.the twinks need to get on board.
Well that was pretty hot to read. My user name is Timarrie123
Hey there stud I really loved your story and actually turned me on 🙂 I’m 23 and Latin and would love to hear more about yourself.On a4a I’m sbdude805 so I hope to hear from you soon 😉
Im wet just reading that! Where were you 30 years ago? Interested in an contemporary Vers bottom lover?
WTF…this isn’t anything but an extended profile text masquerading as a blog or commentary. There seems to be plenty to offend anyone. Older aggressively pursuing younger, monetary offerings, sex for favors, not small measure of ego as well. This adds nothing to dialogue or discussion.
This man needs help. This kind of attitude is for sicko’s. How rude is it to make young guys sound like sex toys and prostitutes? Notice how this creep didn’t make any inference about what that young guy should like or be into do for fun besides be this old crone’s boy toy. That’s a lasting relationship base right there. LOL! Oh, except having a perfect body, which I guarantee this guy certainly doesn’t have. Notice how his stats aren’t discussed too and his personality wont’t redeem him with this attitude but maybe his “bull cock” will help if anyone ever wants to see it. This guy and those like him makes me thank god for the block button.
To all the young ones, make sure the sugar Daddy puts your name on the deed to his house, otherwise you may leave with nothing but a used up hole.
I know this post will attract a lot of attention, so guys that are looking for a real relationship hit me up. popgoespunk.
@TIm It’s surprising how many older men aren’t tops. Sometimes it’s because of ED, but you are right about getting something in writing. I worked hard in their businesses and worked my way up. Thankfully I was rewarded. As they declined, I was given power of attorney.
Sounds a lot like what I want in from an older man. I wouldn’t mind getting with a man like this. I find daddies like this very hot whether they have money or not.
what the fuck? Creepy, party of 1
Make the old troll marry you without a prenup or one that gives you something when the old troll spots a younger guy guy and dumps you. But think hard before you give up your twenties for this dirty old man who can purchase a hottie.
How do we find him?
lvanholten is my profile name on a4a check me out
I’m interested
Wow, another person looking for someone young enough to be their own kid…YIKES!!!!!
This is one of the problems with gay men in general. You get older, the young hot guys catch your attention and you forget how good it can be with a guy closer to your age! You make it all about fantasy and sex and forget about the connection and bond with a down-to-earth good guy close to your age!
Cliche, and obviously fake. Poorly written also.
Gee,sucks to be you. I seem to have young fellows approach me all the time. Maybe if you don’t try so hard……
And really, this belongs on Sliverdaddies or Scruff or something.
You can have your way with me Daddy muah
why you put something like this on here? You know there be mixed reviews
I know plenty of young men who want a so call “sugar daddy”. the main reason is because “supposedly’ that the sugar daddy is financially stable, just like their are men who you like “sugar babies”. most of the guys who posted comments on here are upset about it but the fact is there are plenty of young men who will date this kind of guy just for the “money benefits”, especially here in Tampa (I see it all the time online. people talking about “generous” men). I’m not saying it’s right, but each their own. I prefer guys around my age when it comes to dating, if its a booty call maybe a little younger. Me personally, I don’t want to be a sugar daddy or be someone’s sugar baby. it’s not my cup of tea and I leave it at that.
I’m 50. I like attractive men who are 21, 31, 41, 51 and 61. I don’t get men who are not attracted to men their own age. If they find their own age unattractive then why should someone younger find them attractive. Sounds like self loathing to me. To each his own, but men who won’t consider dating men their own age are sad. Got a young hottie? Great. But don’t leave guys your own age out. Because one day you might find nobody wants you because you’re too old, at least by their own self loathing standards.
With a blog like this…..you asking for everything…..its no wonder younger guy’s are so messed up. What about the other person there feelings and needs. You have an opportunity to impress upon somenoe and influence them positively. You sound like a little kid going into an ice cream parlor for the first time. Grow up…..
Why is this even on the Adam4Adam blog this sounds like an ad from Craigslist I don’t get it myself I am 60 years old I did a lot of younger guys it never ever ever have I said to them hey I’ll be your sugar daddy and had it work out it’s not doesn’t work that way just best of luck to you dude
Hey guys why don’t you just let him be? He is not asking you, what he should do, nor what you think of, he is just trying to reach out some people, don’t be haters and if you would like to give an advise, be polite, no one listen to rude advices and that won’t make you smarter , if you are not interested , then it’s fine but just don’t be negative, I’m new to this and it’s sad to find our people so hateful and harsh at Us, when we should be supporting each other, since we have other to hate for what we are. Think about it and let Him Be.
Hey that’s all I’m ever looking for …hot me up I love older men!!
Sounds to me like you don’t want an equal relationship, you want a prostitute holding a mirror. Good luck with that.
Am… am I the only one who is kinda wishing the guy would pump the brakes? I’m in my late twenties and when I was younger, a lot of older men wanted me… they still kinda do… the Gay selection around here isn’t great…
I always turned them down because I’m one who is a big fan of growing old with someone, not having them grow old before you. Age is more than just a number in my case, it can mean all sorts of things.
With that being said, I avoid any twinks younger than me by a significant age gap. (17 year olds really need to google the definition of Daddy by the way) I’m not interested in an age gap on either end of the spectrum.
Usually, these blog posts are better. The occasional amateur porn story can send my head spinning, but I get over it. But this entry sounds like a very bad paid advertisement. It’s both bad and sad.
If it real I’m down
Every gay boys dream. But the money makes it shallow. There are tons of boys (like me) who would enjoy an older man without being payed. CaliforniaKid576 message me daddy’s :)))
I want a pony but it ain’t gonna happen…..
It might be difficult finding anyone as completely head-over-heels stupidly in love with you as you yourself are. Money, kinky techniques, energy, a lack of ED, and a hyper-selfish desire to be the center of the universe for an unlikely perfect package of stereotypical unrealistic ideal physical characteristics won’t buy you love, but you can always rent.
Good luck with that.
Oh my what a post. I really go out of my way to stress the importance of never confusing my friends and my acquaintances, and I’ve never entertained paying people to be my fucking friends.
Big difference in helping out someone struggling to make ends meet, and paying someone to make ends meat.
The more I read post like this the more I realize that no matter how fucked up my life has become, I must be doing ok after all.
Call me old fashioned, hell call me cheap, but I’m 55 yrs old and I’m still banging ass that I’ve never once paid for. I’d like to think my bttm and I have a mutual interest in something other than a C note.
Interesting. I’m 60 and looking for the same thing from a black or latino guy my own age but, since I can take care of myself, this is not happening. I’d LOVE to meet Matt with the 4 sugar daddies. that is interesting and has potential. Matt, send me a greeting okzebra! bye.
I’ve always wanted a nice looking Silver daddy, was always into older guys. I’m now 29 I could never date anyone around my age because I just found them too immature and not on the same level as I was on ( romantically ). I can’t judge on this post, we all have needs and some of us aren’t as fortune as other with it being with looks or money. I’m an average looking guy with an average body but I give you my applause Silver Sugar Daddy 😉
I’m an older bottom living in a college town. All the college kids want college kids and all the older guys wnt college kids. I don’t get it, sure they are great eye candy, but in the end their inexperience and desire for instant gratification leaves me disappointed. I DONT want a fucking child and I surely will NOT pay for it either. I have raised my kids, I don’t need to be trying to support another. Most of the kids that will speak to me either wznt money. Have no car so they need a ride, or no job. Even for play, I want a responsible person, not a kid.
If your bull cock is that hot… why don’t you shove it up your own ass, cause God said, ” Good things can’t hurt you”. You’re a pig…Look in the mirror. You think some guy with all your must this and must that would want to lay for you. Ewwww You’re a borderline pedophile.
I’m so turned on by this. I think I’m his match!
Thought it was worth a shot. I’m open and looking for a real man. My ultimate dream is to be a house wife. I love to cook, clean, and exercise. And you would never hear my day no to that bulls cock
A dry lake bed is deeper than this guy. I somehow feel very sorry for him…and yet extremely irritated by him.
Here’s the thing, yes, you could have a sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship happening. For me personally it’s just not something that I aspire to (because I see myself as more than just property), but that has nothing to do with me.
Everyone has to ask themselves that question, am I okay with my relationship to be based solely on just physical? Or do I want something more? Do I want my partner (regardless of the age) to love my mind as well as my body?
If you are okay with your relationship to be based on superficial reasons, that’s fine. But just be warned, that your relationship more often than not has a time limit.
Because the fact remains, nobody stays young and cute forever. Age is the one mountain that no one can overcome.
Despite their youth, you know being blind at birth, dogs can usually commit to a 15+ year relationship. Thats an LTR I think. They make great companions, loyal, faithful, trustworthy, always at your beck and call, laying at your feet, constantly wanting to please you, even sniffing your crotch every so often and God gorbid – the forbidden hump. You are his world and Nobody else matters to Him, he loves how you shower him with treats every so often, just not the big bone ones, too much calories. It seems you just haven’t found the right breed probably because of your constant yapping about kinky stuff /sexual prowess. This affects his style and the last thing you want to do is diminish his doggy style. You might as well get a cat instead.
Just another old troll. What happens to the young guy when said troll decides he’s no longer interested?
Beware Hot Young Males!
I was just offered this same kind of deal this guy wanted me to let him watch me jerk off and fuck girls and him if I wanted to and just to hang out he said just watching me jerk off would be enough if he could suck me off too.. I knew I wasn’t about to go for that but I still entertained him with conversation….
This has got to be a fake post. You can’t possibly think your demands for a mate are realistic. I’m 33 and all I ever see on this site are old men who are so full of themselves or jaded beyond repair. Basically your looking for a whore to lock in the closet and bring him out when you want to play. That’s not a relationship, that’s slavery.
I don’t think mores are changing. What I think, is that there is a critical mass of eldergay boomer narcissists who are resorting to criminal solicitation/begging to maintain their illusion of youth. That they make it sound as romantic as renting an apartment shows how empty their souls are of anything sane or healthy. Is there a single word in that alarming post that sounds like he’s capable of love? (Answer: No.)
These old guys are sadists. They and their friends will push you around, call you names to your face, and treat you like crap. They will break promises and short-change you at every turn. The sugar daddies’ families and friends will be embarrassed to see you together. You will feel the sting of being kept at every turn, and it is horrible.
I know the economy’s bad for young guys, but what you will give these guys in exchange for a few bucks is going to be very hard on your spirit. If drugs are involved, it will be even worse. If you’re HIV- now, don’t expect to be for long, because daddy’s libido/need to prove himself sexually is limitless.
My opinions on the matter are, if you are young and contemplating such a horrid thing, have no illusions, and get it in writing, a contract with specific dollar amounts and time limits. If you’re just tricking, and your SD wants to use your apt (because he’s married most likely), tell him he’s helping pay your rent each and every time he comes to see you.
This sort of ghastly behavior was looked down upon when these old guys were young, and it still should be now. The only reason these geezers don’t want to get with their peers is because they are delusional and self-centered, and all they want is a trophy. walkerd36
To each his own. I think what this wants is great. I’d love to be able to give him, or another older guy, something like this. If both guys are consenting, there is nothing wrong with it. Since Ive known that I’m attracted to men, I’ve always wanted this type of arrangement with an older man
Is this a joke? Lol.
I bet youre no brad pitt or other silver daddy that guys my age would even fantasize about. Soo with that being said, what gives you the right to ask for perfection? Money? Are you gonna put me on your will? If not then bounce.
If I’m gonna be with you and probably watch you pass away eventually, I better leave with everything and not just a loose hole.
Feel free to hit me up 😉
Im 48 and just read that post…i need a shower bad now, i can’t get the feeling of creeped out and soiled for reading it off of me. Pathetic, no wonder i like people less and less these days, begging for paid boy and then the ones whos who want to be sugar babies…I shudder at the thought of leeches like that. disgusting doesnt begin to cover it.
As an older guy in my 50s this embarrasses me . I will feel sorry for the young man that he will most likely find thanks to A4A running a free sex ad . I’m sure this man who obviously feels an entitlement because he has money . The two guys who left him there profile name will be contacted. If I had a wall size photo of this guy I’d be throwing darts at BULLSeye . With that said my profile name is wray12463 and reside near Daytona Beach . I am in my 50s ,have all my hair and I’ve held onto my looks . I’m not everyone’s cup of tea but worth a look . I am not rich but I am funny ,quick witted and have a heart of gold .lol .
I agree that you should just hire a full-time live-in prostitute. I also agree that this is pretty fucked up on many levels. No real guy of any quality or substance would subject himself to this paid boyfriend bullshit. Also, the requirement of them having a gym membership and have a perfect body and whatnot….you’re a conceited, superficial, totally self-absorbed person. The likes of which is what the fuck is wrong with society today. Who are you to make such demands, and how dare you make them regardless. I actively stay away from people like you because you’re hollow beings, not even human. A guy I used to see and went on quite a few dates with is now like this. And he’s also a big name porn star. His profession isn’t what bothered me, I could date a porn actor. It’s his attitude like yours. “don’t even talk to me unless you have a gym membership and less than 3% body fat”. Fuck you and all your worthless kind. The rest of us will continue to act like human beings.
Yet another made up story about the dregs of the gay community
So I read this morass one more time and it became more disturbing. You want to pay a guy out of your league to be MONOGAMOUS with you, and tend to you 24/7. That’s slavery and smacks of what kidnappers are trying to achieve. Beyond creepy and messed up.
Hello. If you are real, I’m willing to wait for your response. I’m a 25 year old guy. I have a slender swimmer type body. I’m really looking for someone who is older than me. I’ll wait if you are going to contact me.
Well look no further. Look at my profile. I believe I am everything your looking for…
This sounds like rape. Unfettered access to another male’s body regardless of his desire? With only the banal promises of fiscal assistance?
It’s not even prostitution; a prostitute can deny sex based on price per sexual transaction. This is rape.
Worst part of this is the “undivided attention 24/7”. That’s slavery. There is no relationship including marriage where undivided attention 24/7 is a reasonable part.
Just because someone is gay that doesn’t make them any less of a man, so be a man and support yourself. I have way more respect for an escort than I do a gold digger trophy boy. Then again I’m not sure which is more pathetic the guy paying for it or the guy getting paid.
Where can I sign up?
I’m thinking of someone like Donald Trump and his keeping a young, hot spouse despite his aging.
Otherwise, someone else like any given pedophile loses interest in his sexual prisoner, and he will leave that prisoner on the street when he’s done with it.
Perhaps someone like the narrator in this post was the street refuse at the end of his young age, and he’s just circulating the cycle of abuse publicly now.
Stop it.
I see a lot of shaming for this post. It’s “disrespectful”…”demeaning” yadda yadda. Just as the gentleman has made his claim to how he wants his partner….younger guys in my age bracket (early-mid20s) day that older men shouldn’t even say hi to them….or that no daddies or what not. And older guys shame the younger for saying stuff like that. All in all….let him want what he wants. If you’re about it…submit and application…if you’re not…why are you on a site like A4A to begin with? Just sayin #stopshaming #stopbeingangry #myob
P.S: usually older men are hotter than younger guys anyway lol both physically and personality wise.
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Sadly this entire pathetic post has morphed into a flea market of “Pick me or me” responses.
To each their own, but I think it clearly demonstrates that A4A needs a personal classified ad section so those that have little to no respect for others can attract and find those that have little or no self respect.
I was 27 when I got together for what I thought was a one time hook up with a guy 20 years older. He didn’t look it. He was so skilled. So sensual and so open to helping me realize my fantasies and experiment with fetishes. For three years we had the hottest sex I could imagine. Then I moved. Ever since then I’ve been searching for someone as good. I found one who was 10 years younger than I am. I then realized that I was now the teacher; the daddy. He was just as great a lover. I must admit that he was hotter because his youth let him whip into shape with ease. Miss them both though. In a perfect world the three of us would live together with no drama or jealousy. Just great sex.
Spot on Marko!
So y’all passing up free money from a sugar daddy? Hell sugar daddy if you reading this the hit me up cause I’m trying to pay off my student debt and start my restaurant business. I’ll be your playmate, I’ll show you want a young man can do. I’ll cook dinner every night so my culinary use don’t go to waste. The men up here that’s mad and saying rude shit clearly has no life or is scared to be sexually intuned with one person. Now if anyone up here has anything negative to say to me about it then feel free to say it but I must warn you I don’t argue back with ppls I you will be wasting your breath and time typing anything negative.
Well if u wanting a hot boy im interested in getting to know you my page for a4a is son4dad1990
I understand exactly what he’s saying. I have not seen an older person, gay, straight, male or female that didn’t desire a younger playmate. Outside of the “24/7” need this arrangment can have benefits for both. Usually the older one has extra money and the younger is in need of money. If both parties agree, no harm no foul. Most of the one’s talking trash are the same one’s running around sleeping with multi people, including threesomes, etc.Sexing multi guys(for FREE at that)does not make you morally superior to the one paying for it. The “risk” are the same. And please tell me what are these 20 yo going to do when they turn 40, 50, 60, etc? Are they going to stop being gay and get a wife? I have reviewed this site for a long while and have seen many 20 somethings start to change their attitudes as they approach the SAME ages they previously discriminated against. For some, like me, having extra funds means cutting out the bs and getting to the point. It’s a lot easier than taking a week to get to what you wanted from day one. I have found that this type relationship often grows stronger than a “play toy” relationship but without all the drama of a LT relationship. There is good and bad in everything, but if BOTH parties(Sugar daddies/sugar babies)agree to that situation it should not be a problem for others.
When Im 40, 50, or 60 I hope to not be hitting on man half my age or old enough to be my child ….it’s just sad. And for the record a lot of 20 somethings (myself included) have a great fear of turning into the same creepy men that hit on them… We want better!
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I am 25 years old, and typically date up to 10 years older than me.
Far from having age hangups. But if you are twice my age and old enough to be my father (or grandfather)you should be prepared for any negative backlash that comes your way. I can’t speak for all the gays out here, but there is not enough money in the world to make me someone’s “boy”
If a guy is too young I get that yuck effect and start to see him as being a nephew and not a potential love interest.