Speak Out : Why Are You A Slut?
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“I’m so tired of sluts!!! Why are all the gays fuckin’ sluts? Where are the men who want to date, discuss, train together, travel and more? In an era where everybody wants everything now, where geolocalisation apps show you who’s horny now at a click away, where is the gay species going? Not only that, when you thought about meeting this guy you’ve been talking to for days, he goes “ghostline” and don’t even answer your messages anymore. WTF?
You know what these sluts will become when their bodies will fade and get older? Mad, single, angry whores…left alone because they will be too old to pick up the hot guys. Wake up guys! We are not just sex toys! Sex is fun yes, but there is more to life than just this!
Anonymous
If a person is sexual or overtly sexual they are just like any other person. If you do not know or understand their sex life then why involve yourself? I have been hit on by men online asking me to do some heavy sexual things and want me to behave like a whore but when you tell them you are a escort they revert and retract and tell you they do not pay for sex or believe in whites…I always reply “you want to fuck me Like a whore but won’t pay me like one?”
No one is perfect and those who decide to judge and insult others because of their sexual issues has to understand that everyone deserves happiness…sex and dead people…anywhere you go someone has been there.
If you want a companion and you want to date some one who you find sexually intimidating then ask them out. If you focus too much on their past sexual history how are you going to be happy in the present and have a better future.
Some people like to be called a “whore” but if you are calling someone a negative name to hurt them then there is something wrong with you.
Yay, another bitter guy who can’t get laid. “Where is the gay species going?” Seriously? We’re men – we’ve always enjoyed sex and we always will. If you need a wedding ring attached, try Christian Mingle.
Written by an angry,lonel bitter queen.
So sad but true. Many guys feel that they need to have as much sex with as many guys as possible, In order to feel that they are still relevant. What’s even more scary is that many of them are not using condoms, which only increases their risk of disease, and contracting HIV. Don’t get me wrong I love Sex, and there is nothing wrong with wanting it regulary, but please treat it with a little more respect. Remember when we used to talk to eachother, you didn’t need an app for that.
So true…so true. I will be that person to walk in the club with my main squeeze purposely to badger the old lonely fuck who passed me up for some sleazy quick fuck. Haha
we “live” in a DEEPLY sick society, don’t believe for a second this a gay “thing” it’s part&parcel of our DEEPLY shallow sick “society” in general. Goes right along with the shallowness of our phone “society” that dis-connects us from each other and steals all empathy. Our “society” of celebrity and appearance and instant “satisfaction”. There are no quick fixes to this. I frankly only see this society getting worse, wish it was otherwise…
that is one fuckin HOT pic!
Why am I a whore? I’ve got a taste for black men! I’m addicted too! Like most bottoms I’m a slut for BBC;) I really don’t know why but I’m cool with being a black guys bitch in the bed or where ever I can get some good dick! It’s not just a size thing , but the dark creamy skin! Thou size does help me be a whore for BBC !
Technically gays are not a species, lol but I get the point. I for one rarely find anyone looking for more than one maybe two times at the most. I think it has a lot to do with the rampant porn culture that so many guys grow up on today.
It’s sad for many reasons, not the least of which it takes time and getting to know someone for the sex to reach its best potential. Like all things practice makes perfect. Now’s there’s an entire generation that have no clue what they are missing. They want you as nameless and anonymous as possible. They all screw exactly the porn guys they grew up watching. Mount up, pound away like a jack hammer, no finesse, clueless to what real love making can be like.
I don’t know if it will eventually change, i certainly hope so. But I don’t think that makes anyone a whore. I just think a lot of guys don’t know there are better options out there.
I think sometimes we put ourselves in this box, “gay”. And we define ourselves by this one characteristic of ourselves. We forget about youth, sex drive, etc. We are gay men, but we are men and men are, by and large, physical beings.
Yes…many gay guys enjoy sex. It stands to logic that we would cultivate this in gay culture because it’s so easily accessible to us. It doesn’t make it right, and it doesn’t make it easier, but we don’t spend a lot of time focusing on relationships so it isn’t a foremost thought; we discuss sex, and glorify porn stars and this is the culture that we created. If we’re going to change it we’ll need to do so on a grand scale. Otherwise you just have to hold to your standard and continue to look for someone else who possesses an equal standard.
Why? Why? Why?
Cause I do what I want, not what YOU in your little mind’s eye think I s, or anyone else in the world should be to satisfy your needs. You don’t like my whoriness, well yippie, move on, take your wares down the street. Control freaks suck. Maybe that’s why you really aren’t finding “The one” ugh in today’s world, with so many forces demanding our time and stresses and everyone who thinks they are he only person whose needs matters, THAT is why being a whore is fun, uncontrolled control.
I can say in the last 12 years these mobile social networks have done something to us. I remember messing with guys after highschool so many were genuine and although sex was why we met some wanted to be actual friends. Now it’s a contest on whose the sexiest and whose fittest. So now we become Whores because things aren’t the same. I’m a Whore because no one is true and I don’t approach ppl in public. Not my thing. So I fuck and I see the varieties in ass n dick and ppl.
Why be a whore? Why not? I enjoy meeting new men and I enjoy sex immensely. And while making out, body contact, intimacy and all that are fine, at this stage of my life I’ve BEEN through the heavy relationship stage. I’m 50 years old, and I’m not interested in a relationship; I want SEX! I don’t get on my knees or spread my ass for just ANY guy; I am very selective about the men I have sex with, and it’s not like I have an unreasonable number of encounters. I do it with an average of four guys a week (some weeks more, some weeks less), and I enjoy the sex without attachment or intimacy. If that makes me a whore in anyone’s eyes, so be it!
Bitter, party of one, your table is ready.
This guy’s terminology is off. If you trade sex for money, stuff or social gain, you’re a whore.
If you have sex with multiple partners because you enjoy the pleasures the male body offers, you’re a slut.
And there’s nothing wrong with that. As long as you’re honest about it, don’t let the opinions of slut-shamers like the original poster bother you.
Unless you’re sitting in my lap, what I do with my cock isn’t your business.
If you don’t understand or enjoy recreational sex, don’t have it.
Maybe you shouldn’t be looking for everlasting monogamy on a hookup site. It’s like getting pissed off because you can’t find a backbrace at the International Male website. Adjust your search parameters and keep your bile to yourself.
Thats why most of these guys are becoming hiv positive or should I say (undetectable) they are actually telling guys that they cant transmit the virus because they are undetectable and I guess some uneducated horny fags are having unprotected sex because they think this is true. Im starting to think there are more guys hiv positive.
Wow. What an asshole.
First of all, whores get paid for sex. You should use the word slut or teams. Second, wayto lump everyone together. My guess is you used to be a slut and now you’re the bitter, old guy who can’t get sex or a date. What’s wrong with being promiscuous? It’s a PERSONAL lifestyle choice.
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL THAT PIC
I meant tramp. Damn autocorrect.
Lol the dude who wrote this got this wrong. First off whores get paid since it’s a another name for a prostitute. So he is talking about sluts. Now since we got that outta the way, these sad, basic and low life individuals seem to be scared to see passed their exterior asetethics. Cause the moment they do they will realize there is no substance of any kind on the interior. No solid foundation to be a actual human being of purpose can be found or detected. The idea and aspects of making them actually use neurons and show emotion of any kind other than self indulgence is totally foreign to them hence they don’t understand it and choose not to. They only know sex which is not acceptable in any intellicual and respectable means. With the invention of social media, this has caused the slut to somewhat transcend to a false hood of celeb status to which they will NOT be swayed easily. Just because one is good looking doesn’t mean they are a good person. These people are not worthy of being seen in public with or worth spending your money on. Unless you’re an ugly person with money and have no self esteem or respect for yourself what so ever then maybe sluts are for you. But for someone like me with an IQ over 140 these individuals cannot be far enough beneath me. Then again men in my ststus use these men for nothing but sex and get treated as such so for them sluts too are beneath them but will treat em as low as possible cause they know they can. The best sex is sex with men who are confident hold values and see sex as plus not a life necessity such as H20 as 98% of the gay community thinks it does. BHAHAHAHA. Makes one wonder why we think porn stars are so hot and so want to be with them. In retrospect it’s the same dudes having sex with the same dudes in the same situation. They are one step up from being street walkas!!! You can’t take these fools homes or even to a political event or respectable gathering of the best and brightest. Just remember you slut bags. . . . .
BEAUTY FADES!!!!! DUMB IS FOREVER!!!!!!!
I don’t think everyone here is a whore. Most are married or in relationship and don’t get everything they want/need from their partner. This is a sex place. Men come here for sex. There are dating sites for relationships but this is for sex. JMHO
You sound bitter.
Referring to all gays as whores..you need to wake up. Its not just a gay epidemic its a HUMAN epidemic gays and straight. Nautral order is procreation is the key to our species survival. Monogamy is a term and expection of human people and not a natural thing. If you want something long term and monogamous then it requires work and is not an instinct, to expect it to be is ludicrous.
Society dictates that monogamy sgould be thw norm not mother nature. If you have a problem with the way some on acts then that is an issue with yourself and you hav3 no real right to judge another when im sure yourself you have been the one looking for random hook up and whrn you dont get it ita thw others fault. Before you judge another judge yourself. We are in the 21st century and not the midevil nor the past. Grow up if you dont like the way the people act. Then ahut up and delete your profile, thats the simple answer. You have no right uto judge another and throw atones qhen 6ou live in a glass house. The minute you think you are “better” than someone you are providing that you are actually below them becaue you judge people that you have no tight as another human being to do.
Call me a whore or a slut or whatever you want. Actually turns me on. But if I could find a man that would fuck me regularly then I would be HIS slut. I have no problem with a man using me for his sexual pleasure. In fact I wish my schedule would allow me to enjoy sex more often. As for size color or age, well a dark skin man does something to turn me on but personally I like an older man. That’s where I become a slut. Put me in a room of middle age men or older and I will get on all 4’s and do it all. So why am I a slut? Because I enjoy it. To each their own.
Etenne i think you need to relearn what a species is. Gays, straights, by, transgender, everyone HUMAN is a species……reguardless of their sexual orientation.
whorerus, get over yourself. You are an idiot. Yes, I am a slut….and proud of it! I’m also sure I’m smarter, better looking, make more $, and maybe even more loved than you…..
all of you who think he is a bitter queen, are probably sluts
All you guys that thinks he is bitter, are probably whores!
Would bet your life is based in cock!
I love sex, period! Call me what you want but I love anonymous hookups as often as possible. Ok, I’m a slut but I’ve fucked so many hundreds of hot guys that I’ve lost track. No apologies here, I don’t need a relationship, just lots of dick and ass.
What a bitter queen
I am a slut, not a whore. I have multiple sex partners because I enjoy sex. Also, I have been in relationships where sex was nonexistent or it was something the other partner felt obligated to do. I want more than that.
I tried being celibate for about three and a half years. I reached a point to where I was craving human contact. So, never again will I deny myself the feel of another naked body next to mine.
I have to agree with Etienne. A lot of the guys I’ve hooked up with don’t know how to have hot, passionate sex. They fuck just like the actors in their porn movies. They use me for a cum dump which is getting pretty tiring for me.
On those rare occasion where the guy knows how to kiss, caress, cuddle, along with sucking and fucking; the sex is amazing! WOW!
For those guys, I can see myself in a long-term relationship with one of them. Unfortunately, there always seems to be some obstacle to prevent us from taking the relationship to another level.
So for now, I am content with pimping my ass out until I find the one guy with whom I just can’t be without.
BTW, I get tested every three months and I am on prEP. In addition, I have taken the Hepatitis A and B vaccination and been tested for Hepatitis C. Just because one is a slut doesn’t mean one is an epidemic waiting to happen.
Yes the pic is my favorite part of this post.
It’s not that we try to be sluts. Just something usually ends up happening lol
I just finished a phone call with a friend about this very thing. Guys do not want to be friends. It’s all about sex. I am not a piece of meat. And I do not treat other guys like v that. Why do gay men do not want or know how to be a proper friend? What the hell is wrong with with them? A movie, a walk, dinner, watching TV or just a nice conversation. If that’s all that gay men perceive themselves to be, sexual beings then they are in big trouble. And no I’m not a bitter, old man. The ones that say that are young, arrogant and could very well be good looking. They don’t believe that they are going to age and men will start pulling back. Oh and this starts in your 30s especially as you get close to 40. Young gay men have a good time. It’s all about a party right?
I don’t think this is just a gay thing, it is a straight thing too. The traditional concept of a relationship and marriage is losing favor, then combine this with a more sexually open society. Over 50% of millennials have seen their parents divorce and are moving away from traditional marriage. As long as you are being safe and using protection, go out and have sex.
Why am I a whore? I’m gonna fill you in from my perspective. I wasn’t. In the beginning I was sweet. Innocent. I believed in monogamy. I wanted to sexually fulfill my partner and vice versa. I wanted it to be us against the world. You know what happened? Nobody else wanted that shit. And after 20 years of dating and constantly being cheated on *not to mention being sexually unfulfilled* I was going crazy and getting bitter because I wasn’t coming across guys that believed in reciprocation. They felt as long as I was being faithful it was ok for them to screw around. And this behavior drove me to this point. F#ck it. I’m doing me. I’m still kind and caring. And still a good guy. I’m honest. But I’m not interested in playing games with idiots anymore and I’m not gonna starve myself sexually either. This behavior isn’t limited to gays either. Women are also becoming aware of double standards. And having a healthy sex life even though everyone calls them sluts. Statistics show that 50% of marriages end in divorce and open relationships are less likely to get stds than lying monogamous ones. If you want someone to blame….blame men for always wanting it their way. This is where that got you. Now technology? I’m with you on that one. But not for slut shaming. I remember going to bars and actually having conversations with people. Now everyone is on their damn phone and won’t even say hello.
“Where are the men who want to date, discuss, train together, travel and more?”
They certainly aren’t on a hookup site such as A4A. sure, people can meet dates on here but that has to be something less than 10% of us are doing on here. Besides, we have friends to discuss, train and travel together with: Why would we look for that from a complete stranger trying to hook up on a site like A4A? LOL
And as for the angry, hateful tone of this post: David, is this really how you want your blog represented? What’s next, racial slurs and hate-crimes?
Largely, I think it is because people are afraid. They are afraid they will miss out of having sex.They are secretive and anonymous because they have shame about their behaviors. Especially the HIV positive guys who do not disclose their status. The fewer questions asked of that type of person, the better. That is why I will not do anonymous hook-ups. Oh, I may flirt, but if we don’t get real with each other, I am never going to get with you.
Gotta get me a plant like the one in picture. Wow!
I agree my personal conclusion based on my experience is there aren’t any monogamous gay men. I come from a heterosexual lifestyle my first encounter was with an older man. Who I was with for almost 10 years, before I even found out that actually the person he live with his cousin…was his lover my personal conclusion Is that there aren’t gay men that can be monogamous. There always going to be someone better looking with better abs ans and a better personality and always that man will always find his way in temptation. I am a good guy I desire to find true love and great sex., but I don’t want to do it at the expense of traveling through every single man to find the right man. It’s ridiculous. I can’t even have a descent conversation without the talk of sex and what you want to do to my body. With that being said,it kind of makes me turn back toward heterosexual relationships.
Like all natural products. Lol!
Sounds like you’re the “single, angry, bitter, gay”
Don’t act like you’ve never fucked a couple guys
Now who wrote this article? My guess would be some old, overweight queen who’s pissed he couldn’t get laid during Thanksgiving
your comments seem a little personal, has a bit of anger built and biased! judging and generalizing! Well angry!
I am old slut. And get a lot of sex here. Love it. I am near my 60 years. Had very young tops to old ones very big dicks and small ones. I don’t discriminate I still getting lots of dicks and they love it. Many are regulars. I don’t understand why your so bitter. Get a life…
Luv the PIC. It made me stop and really LOL!!!!! Whore it up, slut!!!!
If you’re looking for your soulmate try my new app “Go Outside!” and leave your judgment of others at home.
I think it’s a combination of many things.. Some are married and in love but don’t get everything they desire from home. Some are lacking love at home and may see “love” through sex. Some maybe addicted to sex. Some are just “lacking” common sense and believe they just have “fun” because they are young. Some old people been in love cheated on their significant other and get mad because they chewed them out and now they just want to be “single” forever meaning they fuck everything in sight. All I know is mentally and economically when u truly get to know someone and understand them and except them flaws and all TRUE LOVE is a beautiful thing. And shallow people need to stop asking for things they don’t have themselves.
To be honest,
In my last 30 years, I’ve been trying to find a guy who’ll give me a fuck daily or at least weekly.
I was once bi sexual so I had the best of the both sides of the bed.
But then some idiots thought my life would be better if they took away the guy and girl. That seriously turned out to be a mistake. The guy I had got lured and tricked into a bed with a HIV poz guy and he became HIV poz. He died. The girl got married to someone else she found to love and was mistaken. So those, who thought my life would be better for me, did a big UH Oh and ran for the parts unknown.
So look, I’m no longer young guy any more. Even I get some sex once in a while but not often.
So when you are looking at those who are slutty as they are and they’re young, they’re enjoying the prime of their life. But when they get beyond 35-45, they’ll wish (like me) were that again. Some of us still get it when we can. So pray for them to play safe as they can.
I don’t like relationships. I learned early on that they are incredibly overrated. I dated friends a couple times, and they aren’t friends anymore. For the most part, friends who were occasional fuckbuddies are still both. Nowadays I’ve since moved somewhere a lot less open minded (before you ask, it wasnt exactly by choice), and it’s a small town where your business is everyone’s business. Since being outed could seriously hurt me here, I prefer not to get involved with people I know. I hook up with people when I’m traveling – the farther from home the better, because the farther from home you live, the less chance there is you can blab something and have it get back home. If preferring open, random sex over an unnatural monogamous relationship that has a better chance of ending badly than not makes me a slut, fine. I’m a slut.
dear anonymous your really bitter that you will never get any that you sound like really bitter old nasty trole
I am a whore bc I am insecure with who I am within myself and I feel like no one would be interested in me or have anything to do with me unless I had mouth or hole open…
Oh who would be so stupid to stick a corn cob up their butt? No self respect?
Depression…..
Man just own and be who you want and say fuck the rest. I get guys hitting on me daily and when tell them I only like fems or I’m more than a fantasy… they get mad. I laugh at them for calling me sick because they can’t get this black dick. I’ve never been with a masculine dude and never will, beside I like intimacy and NSA guys offer none of that. Quit being mad and just hold out until get exactly what you seek. Most these guys are sex dumb and have no skills. Fucking 100 MPH back and forth without any left right left up and down aint about shit. I could go on and on but why aint nothing changing these guys. Just be youy and don’t get used. HAVE FUN…. LOL
Love the pic, but those grains must really be uncomfortable!!!! No lube in the world could ease that.
As for the original post.. Blah blah blah. This is America baby. Get over it and you do you… And at the same time let other people do them..
But really can you imagine if guys could get pregnant from all the nut taking going on in our community???? This country would have to have real talk about abortion!
Hmm sounds like someone was once what they now call a “slut”. I’ll take a guess that they’ve come to a point where they want to settle down and date. Well those guys you long for are out there but I’m willing to bet none are you type so its up to you to change what you’re doing it insane to think that you can do the same thing over and over and get a different result
I’m not a slut I’m just popular.
The author of the post sounds like someone who doesn’t get it enough ………………
So according to who’s standards am I a slut. Because I enjoy what I find to be the most beautiful form of art to be free an express myself in all ready judgmental society. A mow my own peer finds a public forum to judge. We are beautiful we the gay man have found a way to express ourselves in what is the ultimate form
Mansex the intertwining of our bodies defying what society has called normal.i am not married or in a committed relationship I find peace and joy in mansex. Yes I know the difference ibgave children. So please don’t hatr participate you will find it is freeing.
OMG… Just wait until you get older. I personally have not had this much sex in my life. I have a couple regular fuck buds and the fucking and sucking we have done. It only gets better the older you get. I thought by the time I the age I am I would not have any interest in getting laid… boy, was I wrong!
Hi my name is Tabias and I’m a man whore.
Who’s first to go!?!
Well, perhaps if you stop shoving vegetables up your anus you won’t be so agitated and bitter…
All of this judgement and anger seems to be the reason why you’re not getting anywhere. Not the reasons you claim, which are just small-minded, homophobic generalizations.
I can never understand why some people get so mad at others they deem less superior. Shouldn’t you feel better off without them?
I wish I was a slut then at least I would be getting some.. LoL.. Some say this is a hook up site.. Well you can make it whatever you want. If you aren’t looking for a hook up just say so, don’t worry about what other guys think or do. Many guys are looking for different things in life and on here. As perfect as some of these guys seem, many have their own problems, from self fought to self-esteem. No one is ever perfect. And for all those that think we are old bitter queens, one day you will look in the mirror and go “what happen to my good looks, hot body and my hair”
May you all enjoy life and live it the way you want.
sometimes the brain in the head of my cock, outwinds the brain in my head.
Mister T1
An ear of corn up ones butt,think I did that in my 20’s. Was in a relationship for years and was the guys hole for his use of anything he wanted to do with it or put in it.
I’m now Married and not getting it that way. I’m able to go out for just that,once a month if I want to have my hole used by any one that will. I don’t see it as being a slut, just needing.Safe sex is first and anything they can get up there is game. Love is at home always waiting for my return.
I think the writer is just bitter cause he can’t get the loose and free guys.Not even a nerdy one.
Hey Dragonwizzard, The definition of species: a group of living organisms consisting of similar individuals capable of exchanging genes or interbreeding. Gay men are not capable of exchanging genes no matter how much fun it is to try. I am all for gay men breeding but it will never lead to offspring which is the definition of a species. But thanks for the input.
I just like making guys cum. It’s a major turn on when you here a guy having a orgasm.
That’s a HOT pic, fucking a corn!
On articles that matter, there are MAYBE 10 responses. One stupid trash like this, there are way over 50. And look at all the Millennials calling the poster a “bitter old queen!” See why I hate gay men so much lately? THEY FUCKING SUCK! Gimme my bi guys anyday…at least they don’t have their heads up their asses! (Well, with some, that’s NOT really a bad idea!) Oh, and the cornhole pic? GREAT choice, Dave! Whadda joke….
I’m a slit because I fucking love it! I love crawling between a man’s legs and sucking him dry until I’m done with him. I love the feeling of a cock in my mouth and balls on my chin. My jaws are still sore from getting skull fucked by an 11 inch black cock yesterday and I still want more!
Goodness, what a can of worms this original post has created! I have my own opinions on the “whore/slut” issue but won’t go into that. I just think it’s great we can have a forum where everyone can express their views. I have read all comments and am thankful we live in a society where we can do this. Thanks, Dave, for doing what you do. I’ve been so blessed in life and have had many men in various types of relationships that I’m so thankful for — familial, romantic, sexual, platonic, academic, neighborly, and so on. Peace, all you guys.
10-to-1 the fella who wrote that diatribe is likely one whom most would not consider æsthetically-pleasing to want to “whore” or “slut” with anyway
L.o.L.
look, i understand the whole “don’t reduce me to a walking meat stick/hot dog bun” idea — really
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i even understand that there really are a fair number of people who “overdo” with their sexcapades, to the extent where their activities do in fact constitute a Public Health & Safety hazard — those are the guys who make it difficult to safely slut around
but, seriously: complaining about Promiscuity on this specific platform just won’t do.
as others have said here, and on other posts towards similar complainants: if yer lookin’ for Dates & Monogamy, go to christian mingle, OkCupid.. ..or just go outside or somethin’
I used to think like the author. I was once athletic, tone, cute…that was my 20s. I’m now in my early thirties and after a car accident and gaining 40 pounds, it is much harder to get off than to put on. I lost all confidence in myself sexually. I went on a 4 year celibacy, only believing I wasn’t sexually attractive. A year ago I was approached by a beautiful man who told me I was attractive. We hooked up, then another guy did the same thing. Now I realize I’m not hideous even with a few extra pounds. Guys find me attractive and I’m not refusing. If having 5 partners in a year after 4 years of draught makes me a slut…that’s fine. I don’t and never wanted a relationship so Fwb is perfect for me.
I seriously think , we gay men are inherently promiscuous, it’s just in our DNA, I have friends who finally found “the one” and 6 months later, they’re back on here prowling. And these guys are good looking. I forgot my point….oh well…
I love making men cum. It’s nothing like letting someone fuck you till they orgasm.
Bottom Line: MEN ARE PIGS.
I am thankful that over several years I have developed relationships with a number of men. Good, quality gentlemen,. My “buds”. We meet one-on-one or sometimes in multiples for sex whenever our schedules allow. We’ve gotten to know each other well and talk about our lives, our work, our families, etc. when we’re done playing. Are we “whores”? No. We are “friends with benefits”.
Another bitter homosexual
MistrFistr – why is every post from you filled with hate, bile, profanity and ridicule? Why are you so unhappy? Have you been like this your whole life of is it something just in your twilight years? I hope you’re able to find some sort of peace and happiness during your years on earth before its too late if it isnt already. Good luck.
Sidd : I agree..
Well Sidd it’s very sad, that’s actually who we’ve become, the scariest part of it is there’s no coming back from this, most of us humans just have our brain set on the clock of “new dick, new hole, and repeat” I personally don’t like, not to say hate it, but there’s nothing I can do about it. I wish I could make a change… in a world like this we just instinctively learn to shut up, move on and go with the flow. Unfortunately now, Love is a “Forever Rest in Peace” somewhere in our memory. I personally believe it’s not to late to make a change even when reality is the obvious contradiction to my belief.
I suppose I was a real slut for about 3 months when I first came out and went with dudes. Then I had sex with someone I’d been just seeing for that period. Difference was like between a sweet orange and a sour lemon.From that time on personality was the main draw and I could have cared less about looks. I like sweet oranges. Getting to know people well became primary. Sex curled my toes and was emotionally fulfilling. Can’t compare the two types of sex.
I not only gave up being a slut, I opted only for sex within a relationship. The payoff was a soul mate and sex uncomparable with anything else.
A drawback….sometimes, I just wasn’t their type…and it never happened. I’ve loved and cared deeply for two people. The first one knew it…for 32 years. The current one probably never will….I’m not his type. I’ll just let it dissipate over time…and probably settle for someone I just really like at the moment who wants me to move in with him. Been dating him for several months. Know him well enough for sex to be really enjoyable, but not nearly the same ecstasy as when I have a deep love for someone.
Wow this post really Men to respond. I guess one could speak on how one feels about himself, in terms of am I a slut, or not. Some are proud to say fuck yeah! But honestly are you really a slut, to the point where you think so low of yourself to that you put yourself in that category? I don’t think the writer meant that we are whores in the street walker sense. But having sex for the sake of it, with no emotional attachment, well does the shoe fit? Or in this case, does the meat fill the hole? Like I said in my earlier post, I love having sex, and what’s wrong with feeling something when you do? Gays aren’t the only people grappling with this issue, and iam sure discussions about random acts of sex are being talked about.
I believe everyone has a slut side inside of us and each of us know how to express you feelings in every way…so just live you life and may be you will find you better half but in the mind time left the others to enjoy their sex life and look for you lucky guy
i pu[[ed into a gas station to get a cup of coffee and started talking to a trucker. He ask me if i wanted to see his cab on the truck.i knew what that meant. i said yes. one thing lead to another and i left his truck with a smile and a buttfull of cum. Then i got my coffee. this happened yesterday.
i love sex. been doing it since 18 and now i’m 64. i know i’m a slut and so what. it’s my life, i’m having fun. i’m healthy. so people can mind their own business
I’m so sick of these words being thrown around. Seriously, the gay world needs to stop with all the labels. I love sex…so what? Does that make me a slut? Fuck you. We are biologically created to crave sex throughout much of our lives. I’m sick of society trying to tell me that that is not right. Its so irritating. Why do you post these moron’s sentiments which is just perpetuating divide within our community?
You’re on a hookup site instead of at an event sponsored by one of the thousand gay clubs & organizations. Walking, running, square dancing, eucre. Plenty of chances to meet guys in a nonsexual setting. You are on a sex site complaining about whores. Why not go to a MCC service & complain aout all the people praying. Sorry with all the the time you spend on sex sites, you prob are unaware of groups like MCC.
Oh fuck yea Im a slut. Matter fact anyone wants some good black dick……well Im ready for you.
Besides now days that’s all you get. So would all the sluts please line up ass up?
Hot pic tho….
I don’t label my self as a slut but one who enjoys sex a whole lot. Deprived of sex for the majority of my adult life, I was a bit of a late bloomer. Moving to a larger city I was embraced by men who were interested and unaware of the community life style began to date. In the beginning I longed for a boyfriend to pursue a relationship but quickly realized that the gay community did not embrace relationships and instead craved open relationships, anonymous sex scenes, and multiple partners. Now, I have joined the masses of gay men that enjoy sex (a whole lot of sex) in efforts to find the one guy who can tame me and accept me for who I am. Slut shaming will not stop me from enjoying sex and instead provide me with more fortitude to find the right guy.
Is it just me or is that pic a little too corny?
Everyone on here is looking for a guy thats more straight looking and acting than the guy they had the night before. That is why they are perceived as white, so its,and so on. Usually the more masculine guys that are looked at as being the “man” are the main ones taking dick and will fake their sexual position for the moment thats why most gay relationship dont last. The guy starts off as a top then he turns to a whole woman. By the time you have developed a relationship he is lying and sneaking around getting fucked while your at work then he all of a sudden starts to change and you end up going your separate ways. Then when you get over him and move on you want the next guy to be like him or better then you find yourself creating a pattern of meeting up with numerous guys to get over this one guy you were in love with. In hopes that you will find someone exactly like him or better than him. Almost every guy I’ve met told me “you remind me of my ex” thats always a deal breaker because I know he still has feelings for this guy and he will probably go back to this guy for sex. I dont think this is our intention this is just a pattern we create as human beings to deal with the loss of a guy who we were once in love with?
Fuck the labels fuck the judgement if we all just be. We are free as long as my actions harms no one why should others try and lable it. I am me I am sexual I enjoy a man in me and yes guys I truly enjoy being in a few man. Deep in the man first the with my tongue the a finger and I am man my penis. Oh no said to much. Go ahead lable me. I am still me. Babyblue4him
Everyone I’ve gone for has always reminded me of my first love. Same personality type. Looks and sexual preferences were irrelevant. They became amazingly handsome when I fell in love with them…based on personality.
That doesn’t mean I’d like to be with my first. Nope. He was a “slut”. He couldn’t stay out of bath houses. The last one wasn’t. I had no interest in anyone else. I’m very much a one person dude. The only thing that separated us was the Grim Reaper.
I don’t condemn daily hook-ups. Different strokes for different folks. It just was never my thing.
Anonymous…
Every human being on earth, male and female alike, are hardwired for sex. Regardless of sexual preference. We are built for pleasure, and made to fuck…Heck, I know I am. As a male and bi, I have a high sex drive. I believe all males have a high a sex drive, that’s why we like to fuck.
As for me, health and looks are important. I like to look good naked. I enjoy working out and staying in shape. I take pride in my looks, and that will never change…regardless of age.
Speaking for myself and hopefully for others on this site. I’m not sure why you are so upset, because all we want is sex?!? Well, if us males are taking care of ourselves, not spreading any diseases (HIV/STDs), being safe, and not hurting anybody, I have no problem with what you call a “slut.” If conditions are met as stated above, I’m uninhibited. In fact, I say, “let’s naked and fuck!” This is a hook-up site for males who want sex with other males.
Here’s to passing judgment…
You know what, you’re vague. You sound like a gay bigot, and I hate use that label. You’re terrible for posting your social ills. It’s seems apparent you’re not hooking-up…and that shouldn’t be anybody’s problem, except yours. Because, I enjoy sex with other males however, I will not risk my health and have sex with any males. I have standards and I’m selective.
And you, I can only speculate…you’re probably fat, ugly, and out of shape. If that is the case, to me that says something about personal health and character. Hold yourself accountable, take personal responsibility and do something about it. Take some advice…
Based on what I’ve read, I’d stay far clear from you.
Well said, and extremely encouraging to know that there are people who realize that we can be both gay, and traditional..) Hooray for romance. If I was only interested in sex I could easily satisfy myself. The days of the chase, the encounter, the romance? I do sincerely hope they are not gone…..Those truly were the best of days. It would be wonderful to talk, share, DATE (to some a 4-letter word!) before becoming sexual. I can’t help but wonder that in their haste to the BR (or wherever), many men may be missing the better part of their latest conquest–their personhood! We are all unique and wonderful….seems like a very high price to pay for some quick fun at the expense of knowing how good and perfect another person can be, even in their imperfection….