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Hi guys, I am curious to know something. Gays are known to like sex a lot, but do we have sex as often as we would want? What about some of us who like sex but very rarely meet, face to face, or never meet anyone. I’d like to know how often do YOU have sex. Is it every day? Once a week? Once a month? Never?

I personally very rarely meet guys for REAL sex. I usually have sex with myself, I jerkoff at least once a day. But like we say in french and I translate ” better be alone than be in bad company”. I’m a picky guy. I’m not looking for a top model but I like my guys tall, fit and want ’em 100% top.

Montreal is known for its enormous proportion of 100% bottoms, so it is hard to find a 100% top that is physically my type. So instead of being disappointed I rather jerk off watching porn or thinking about hardcore scenarios in my head.

What about you? How often do you meet guys? Do you fuck a lot? Are you picky? Do you take as many dicks and asses you can get? How does it work for you?

Dave


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  1. 55btmguy

    I live in a small town area and it is very hard to find guys to hook up with. I would really like to find a boyfriend maybe even a live in boyfriend but I really don’t see that happening where I live so I am left with trying to hook up with guys either on A4A or craigs list and most are players and don’t really plan on meeting. As for sex I probably have sex once every few months to as long as a year between, so mostly jerk off and ride my dildos but it’s not the same as the real thing. I even thought about buying a fuck machine but skeptical as to if they really are worth the money

  2. augustaman

    i meet guys for sex 5x a week down here augusta. we have an abundance of tops so I guess that’s why we are known as the home of the Masters. no need to jo here. after I get my fill , I always tell my company, yall cum back now, ya hear.

  3. onyxonbottom

    lots of sex alone here because online most gays are so immature and even with a profile that specifically states what you are looking for everyone hits you up that isn’t what the profile says. TOP then vers guys hit you up. In shape then everyone whos out of shape hits you up. HiV neg then all the poz guys hit you up, etc, etc…its pathetic what a bunch of losers there are online

  4. Ric

    i love sex 3-4-5 times a day if possible cant get enough but im kinda picky i do like big cocks and guy must be clean age is not an issue

  5. SanDiegoTop

    I am in my 50’s, in shape, 100% top, large cock. I think I am lucky by living in a place with majority bottoms. I have sex 5 to 6 days a week on average, often more than once a day. These guys are usually very hot and in their 20’s and 30’s, so like I said, I am very lucky.

  6. Hunter0500

    Once or twice a week with any one of my good local playbuds. Once or twice a week I “self-serve”. If I know I’m meeting a bud in a couple few days, I’ll hold off on the ” self-serve” to help ensure the bud’s efforts are well rewarded.

  7. joey

    I believe bottoms out number tops most everywhere, I don’t know why, just seems to be the way it is. I to and picky, rarely hookup, so I have my share of fantasies to help get me off. But you know what they say, fantasies happen the way you would like a hookup to happen, so they are always hotter then a hookup with strangers.

  8. andy

    First of all i guess im a size queen,i dont like label, but thats wht they call it,i perfer 10 in, plus, in my area lots of tops that size, no trouble getting, i more or less hook up 8 to 10 times a week, ill tell ya one thing, ill never be the same size, as i did before 🙂

  9. Soft & Fluffy

    Umm , once every 20 years , maybe less ? Hey , that the same thing a never ! wtf ? ?

    I guess when you live in a very small place filled with lying , confused , self centred , albiet delicious , players , that’s what it’s like .

  10. Toughnut69

    You would think living in a somewhat bigger city (Milwaukee) the market would be overflowing with bottoms for a 100% top like me. I do find some occasional hook ups (1 or 2 a month) with traveling visitors but any of the in town regular bottoms are simply a tease and never commit to hooking up. I think they get off on the email dialogue and pics vs getting together for some intense sex. I am also very particular about who I hook up with which usually means jacking off daily is a better remedy for me.

  11. John E

    “… want’em 100% top” … Maybe that is the source of your difficulty. I was sexually active for decades and I never once encountered a “100% top” who was not a sexual head case of internalized homophobia. In every instance, “100% tops” have severe issues regarding perceptions of their own masculinity (being 100% top makes them a “real man,” and they see bottoming as somehow less than manly). And “100% bottoms” are just plain selfish. Or at least that is my opinion. I feel quite sure a lot of guys who claim to be 100% tops will of course object very strongly to my characterization. As for frequency of sex, when you reach a certain age you become dead to the gay world and your sex live ends. Mine has recently ended through my own “aging out of the system.”

    • rparktop

      What a huge load of crap. You aged yourself out of the gay world. I have regular fb’s & have sex 3 or 4 times a week. Someti es more, every once in a while more than once a day. The occasional 3 way, best ones just happen & aren’t planned. One of my buds is 22 years younger than me. I’ve never been hit on more at any age.

  12. Aaron

    I work a lot and go to school so it isn’t easy to find a guy who can work with that schedule. Lots of fun flirting online but it doesn’t often play out. I live in a military town so lots of willing bodies (bottoms and a few tops – or guys trying to be tops lol). I was lucky though; about a month ago I found a soldier who had a similar crazy schedule and we started fucking. So I have sex about 4 to 5x a week.

  13. Staggerlee

    It’s SUPER hard for me because I only like asian guys.
    I swear, there are only like 4 Asian guys in this entire state!

  14. Ettienne

    I need to bottom at least daily to be borderline satisfied. Have a couple of regular FWB’s fortunately as there is a definite shortage of tops in Metro Detroit. Does anyone else think the proportion of tops to bottoms is changing? Seems like there are a lot less tops around everywhere.

    • Smoothbottom4BBC

      Man in Detroit there’s more tops than most any where in all my travels. Lots of hung horny black men ! Who like to dick down a white bubble bottom 😉 I gladly give it up too

  15. Tennessee Bottom

    My sexual outings are inversely proportional to the amount of hours I get at work. When I’m not getting a great deal of hours I’m prowling for cock. I hookup 3-4 times a week.

    There have been a few times when I have had three hookups in one day! I paid the price for my sluttiness with a very sore ass the next day.

    Now, I getting full-time hours. I’m lucky if I get fucked once a week.

    Regardless to how many times I get fucked, I’m always horny and looking for more.

  16. chris

    Take things in my own hands at least once maybe twice a day. Have a reg bud when he is in from work we fuck twice a day for sure…

  17. Ronnie

    I am 100% top, mid 50’s, just WAY back down south from Chicago.. in Chicago i had sex 6-8 times and week, guys mostly in their 20’s and hot.. and turned down a lot of guys because i just didn’t have the time… here is just the opposite although it does appear to be getting better.. once you siphon through the flakes

  18. MistrFistr

    LOL!!! I don’t know what district of Montréal Dave lives in, but I never found that “huge proportion of bottoms” there. In fact, I was en garde to keep the tops out of MY bottom most of the time! I did have a fairly LTR with a beau from Trois Riviéres and he was an übertop…two, three, sometimes four times a day with dick when we got together and then onto other things. I was on the Shower Shot and not eating all the time with him around. Mon Dieu!

  19. Piweetothemoonandback

    I rarely or sometimes never had an encounter with a dominant top. I guess I am too picky I fall head over heels to white and Arab guys. When I had a rendezvous with either an Arab or White guy it will just be once and it will never repeat again. I hate cruising and I discourage hooking up with random which is unhealthy and risky.So I decided to be celibate for more than a year now. I don’t know why I am still here on Adam. I guess I was hoping in my deepest longing that I will meet a single soul willing to embark a journey of commitment with me.

  20. hardrock34

    Generally it’s once or twice a week. I have two regular buds. Once is usually weekly and the other every 10-14 days. They both leave me satisfied for a,few days

  21. john

    I have been a bottom since I was 14. I have always like the feel of a nice cock inside me. Lately I have been getting laid 5 or 6 times a week and I love it.

  22. Upstateguy2

    I have been seeing two separate partnered guys for several years now and having mind blowing raw sex about every week. There are times I wish it was more one to one but I’m totally satisfied with the arrangement After all, I’m a top and I love to fuck my bottom guys hard and deep for hours at a time. In a horny pinch, I’ll JO but it’s certainly not the same.

  23. Heirophant

    I used to have sex at least 2 or 3 times a week. I am in a 8 year relationship but now it seems we don’t have sex at all…. Like for months…. Ugh…. So I jerk off to relieve the stress and give head to him every chance I get. I’m not sure if it’s a rut or if he finds me incompatible anymore…. But before him I had lots of sex…. I live in a nice college town so guys usually aren’t the issue, besides the usual bullshit…. Lol…. What do you think?

  24. BillyBush

    Is that photo of the guy who won your contest to be fucked by a porn star? LOL

    Why are all the photographs to your blogs so cliche’? Can I see nonwhite gay dudes in the photographs accompanying your blogs once in awhile please?

    Sorry to digress, I usually get physical with someone maybe like 2 or 3 times a month. I have a full schedule so I rarely have time for sex, although I do think about it a lot!

  25. Forever Ryan

    I speak of my story, simply that it is mine. Given that I have a long enough and storied history having and living with bipolar disorder and similar mood concerns such as social anxiety and usually more of depression–sexual activities come along as quite an event such as rare or even otherwise frequent within other higher moods episodic.

    My best mates and memories of these kindly-mannered guys have been of both the versatile and one-sided sexual roles.

    Early in my beginning active years, I felt very versatile; however, I soon found more guys just wanting to top this bubble butt that I’ve got. Too many needed to contort me to work with their beer bellies, which was something that began to hurt my back. I even was traveling hundreds to one-thousand miles to be there for some guys. Time for me to work on some personal, inner-self growth, I ended such escapades. Even so, my last memorable guy fit just great inside me, and he was local! It wasn’t to be: See, I wanted a relationship. He did not. We lost touch.

    Some other once-every-other-year guy to top me was more closeted and wouldn’t even give me his phone number most recently. He said that he has no phone. He was very strong as compared to me, over 6′ tall whereas I am just 5’5;” with this, he was a magical beast when it came to fucking me, sometimes too much. Sometimes, I thought that he could go on and fuck me for hours.

    Today, I find myself listed as a versatile top. At 6″ cut, my mates who have favored my action, length, ejaculating pulses but not to leave unmentioned the pulse-feeling of my dick’s veins when cumming, I am asked how come I don’t call them more often. At age 33 now, I am comfortable with my sexual identity, gay, and I am aware of myself in regards to my changes in moods. Given this, I am content to inform those who ask, “I have bipolar disorder.”

  26. Sweetceline

    I feel like my preferences have fluctuated over the years. First thinking I’m about 80% top, and now I’m always feeling 50/50. I’m glad I’m vers like that. It also depends on who I’m with. I’ve been fucked by someone I don’t care about and I wanted it to just end. And then also by someone I trust and its amazing. Topping can be boring or euphoria. I just want a bf sooooo fucking bad. I haven’t done any anal in over 8 months. I find a dick to suck maybe once a month if I have the time.

  27. Lay There

    More often than not, I do it myself, which is not good because I’m used to doing it a certain way so with a real person, its more difficult to nut.

    Anyway, its either feast or famine. Sometimes I nut 2-3 times a day; sometimes I go up to a week without, which makes things better.

    As of lately, since there are so many bottoms out there I’ve started to fuck. Its hard work. All you bottoms have to do is lay there (heheheheh). If you want to help me out, my screen name is tobaccoleafpie.

  28. Matt

    Toys are the answer for areas with a top shortage. A toys is ALWAYS horny when I am, never causes drama and gets the fuck out when I cum (back into the toy bag).

    I never have to buy a toy dinner to get fucked and if by chance I am not 100% clean – the toy never girls up and bitches about it.

  29. real1

    if you live in los angeles chances are you’re more likely chatting with a flake, liar and time waster, so hard to meet even if a total top like me

  30. WB

    As men we have both sets of plumbing and were designed by nature to be versatile. The great thing about two (or more) men having sex is that you have different people with different desires, techniques, and skills that can add up to great sex. Lately it seems that so many men are only willing to participate in what they themselves want and are completely unwilling to make any accommodations to their partners’ wishes. If it always has to be exactly what you want you and you are unwilling to vary your routine to please your partner you probably should just jerk off. And John E you hit the nail on the head–a total top who has never experienced a good (or bad) fucking is not going to be a very good top. It has nothing to do with being more of a man.

  31. echostar119west

    Seldom, Once A Year Maybe If That. It’s Dildo For Me. Just A Nice Piece Of Fake Dick Sticking To The Wall That Can Satisfy Me Better Than The Lame, Immature, Racist, Ignorant, Drama Queens And The “Lights, Camera, And No Action” Shutter Bugs In My Area. If I Could, I Would Proudly Send Them All On A All Expenses Paid Trip To The Sun For One Good Regular Top Any Day. Ain’t Nothing Like The Real Thing.

  32. Leaddag35

    It’s hard to find a guy who is willing to meet after they say they will fulfill my fetish. I think they are saying yes just to edge themselves and get off without actually hooking up. I’ve got no problem with self gratification, hell I do it 3-4 times a day.
    Back to the hitachi wand and dildos for me

  33. tomzuk

    It’s been 4 years since anyone else was involved and I take care of business everyday. Just call me Hand Solo!!! Can never find an around my age in decent shape top. Just not worth the effort anymore.

  34. al

    being bi married in the closet, i dont have enough sex to keep me happy. maybe once a month if i am lucky do i get to spend some time with a man. so my more common for of sex is self-dating. yep stroking the bone, chocking the chicken what ever you want to call it. the question is, will masturbation get out of hand?

  35. joey

    I read some of you have sex, weather it be with yourself or with people, several times a day, every day, do you have jobs and a life to be that self absorbed in sex on daily. I believe that pretty much borders on addict needing sex that much. You know when you do anything that much, it becomes routine, how exciting can that be for you and your partner if you have one. Just my thought here.

    • Mick

      Not at all. Masturbating takes a couple of minutes and is very good for you physically and mentally. Can be easily done a couple of times each day without getting in the way of other activities.

  36. Chris

    I was a late bloomer with no self confidence. This kept me celibate for most of my life. Now in my 50’s with no family left, I have begun listing on craigslist. Have become popular. Got 5 married/straight guys meeting once a week minimum. It’s great being so old that you don’t have anyone to answer to. I am a size queen so not one is under 8 inches. I throat em and have let some in my ass. I went 10 years without getting fucked so I am incredibly tight. You young uns may be missing out not giving us old guys a chance.

  37. Wayne

    I’m 100% top but I haven’t had sex in almost 8 years. I guess since I have a mental when it comes to sexing anyone who not fem. I get hit on by masculines daily but handsome or hairy men turn me off sexually. When you add my age it turn them off. It’s funny because on the phone I sound old but in person I look way younger… I workout a lot. My question is where are the fems with soft features who want a relationship. I’m not into the flaming types but you can flame or get as freaky as you want in private. So I just off alot but not to porn… I like slow sensual sex and don’t care if I cum or not… I enjoy the act more!!!!! Come one fems hit me up my profile is justrelaxnow.

  38. 5 To 6 times a day

    I am so into sex, I have it 5-6 times each day. All off this website! Everybody here on this site is a top with a big dick. RIIIIIIIIIIIIIGHT.

  39. Its All Good

    I’m over 40, not a 10, not built, not well hung, and a bottom, and I have a great sex life. What I find funny is that guys who bitch about their sex lives only have themselves to blame. Here’s a few tips I have found helpful over the years.

    1. Be yourself all the time: Gay guys tend to get caught up in trends. If you want to try something that’s new cool, but don’t be afraid to break from the crowd. Nothing is sexier than a confident guy and nothing is sadder than a poser.

    2. Be nice: That overweight, chain smoking guy your not into today could lose the weight and be a non-smoker 5 years from now. People get over and forget rejection, rarely do they forgive being burned bad by a bitchy faggot.

    3. Step outside your comfort zone: No one is saying go after guys your not attracted to, but keep an open mind. You may be into tall hairy guys, but if a short smooth one and you happen to develop a rapport, don’t hold back, you’ll surprise yourself.

    4. STFU: All guys want to experiment with something new once in awhile. That doesn’t mean they want it announced all over town, especially if it didn’t go well. Gossip queen’s always end up alone.

    5. Try to make it about the guy: Hey we all have urges, and some pics are damn hot, but always connect with the person. If a guy knows your into him, it’s hotter than you being into just his dick, or his ass, or his tats, or his muscles, or his leather outfit, or the kink your both into. In other words, quit being so damn shallow.

    6. Communicate: No one is a mind reader. The more open and honest you are, the more open and honest they tend to be, and a better time had by all.

    7. Relax, it’s just sex: It’s great when it all comes together, but one bad time is just one bad time. Be willing to take the pressure off and have a good time no matter what happens. Many guys expect perfection, stupidly. My best buddy and I had one of the worst first times two gay men could have had, most guys wouldn’t try a second time afterwards, and that’s their problem. Never sell yourself short by tossing away someone due to a tiny glitch in the system.

    8. It’s sex, not a pizza: You want to pound ass but the only decent guy you find online wants to keep it plainly oral, and your not leaving the house just for that. Well then you deserve a lousy sex life. In the first place its not all about you, and in the second place a mouth on your dick is better than your hand anytime, least to most. One of the best tops I had for over a decade and I only 69’d the first year or so we met. Time and trust lead to more for many guys. Just cause a guy isn’t going to give you your ultimate tonight, doesn’t mean he won’t eventually.

    9. Be friendly: To this day I still meet more guys through others than at a bar alone or online. It doesn’t pay to be a snob either. Maybe your a successful executive and your ideal guy is in the same educational-social-economic group. Maybe your blue-collar union and think guys in suits and ties don’t really “work” for a living. Either way drop your crap. The ability to be a good cocksucker is not dependant on whether or not one has a masters degree, or works in an office or shop. You can learn something from everyone.

    10. Expand your horizons: I’m not talking about trying a new kink,(course that can be fun too). Do something different. Go to a new bar or event. Even if it’s not something your really interested in check it out. So many guys compartmentalize. The same group of friends, on the same nights, etc. No wonder your not getting laid.

    In short go with the flow. Do this and you will meet more guys, have more sex, have more buddies and be more satisfied, even when slumps occur.

  40. byzmonk

    Ask “how many times every ten years”, and I could give you an answer. 0. Before my partner became really ill and died, about 5 times a week.

    Never was into role playing in or out of bed. Not masculine, not femme. Just a dude. Couldn’t define myself as a top or bottom. We just did what we did from one night to the next…and he usually determined what that would be. I liked him doing that.

  41. Older Gentleman

    It would be nice to have sex once a week… I live behind the orange curtain in California.

    I would luv to have a friend to share in the mutual pleasures of giving and receiving of one another’s desires

  42. byzmonk

    @Rparktop: When living in a monastery, there is no sex that I’m aware of. Now that I’m back living in the regular world, I get hit on once or twice a month…even at my age…76. So have I aged out of the gay world? No. I love people..a lot….maybe it shows.

    You’d be amazed at the “hotties” who are into old men, and if they aren’t at least 35, I’m not interested. Closer to my own age would be better.

    Many my age go for twinks…I don’t. Turned away a handsome 20 year old.

    Sex has never been a priority in my life, even when I was young. I can really enjoy it in a relationship, but I leave it up to my partner for frequency. Sex, for me, isn’t the “main course”.

    I just don’t like sex for sex’s sake. Never did. I need an emotional connection…and that takes a bit of time. I told someone that last night when he wanted me to go home with him. Then he took me into the Karaoke room to sing me a love song and buy me a drink. Wants to see me again.

    It’s called dating. I date another guy once a week. Dates and sex aren’t necessarily the same thing, are they…though dating can lead to it.

  43. goldenloverinmym

    in the past had a long term thing with a guy, I was the happiest I have ever been, I was in love he only wanted a FWB till his ex changed his mind, and it was the best sex I ever had, he returned to his ex and I was out, then it was on to MR right now some good sexy along the way, but knowing what I know that time and friendship makes the sex better, have seen a guy a few times I like to think that maybe something is possible but don’t know yet he comment was last weekend he’s not ready to pick out china yet we both got a good laugh, but will have to see what the future holds for us

  44. byzmonk

    @Goldenloverinmym: You discovered something many don’t bother with…sex, with love, is way, way better than a one night stand. Different….and better. One’s whole life becomes different…and better.

    Many are so into the chase, excitement over the new and immediate gratification, they forget how to love. It has to be learned all over again…difficult.

    30% of the population are never taught how to love by their parents through example. That’s a psychological fact. As they age, they find themselves in an emotional desert

    A loving partner can show them how to love through example…if they are willing to learn. Many aren’t.

    Love is an internal thing. People have it, or they don’t. If they have it, they can express it physically to another. If they don’t, they can’t. Then sex is just a mechanical thing fulfilling personal gratification…and it can feel like love…but isn’t.

    Eros love: physical attraction…romantic feelings. Primarily concerned about what oneself gets from the relationship. Disolves if it doesn’t advance to philos love.

    Philos love: Begins with friendship and is mutually beneficial. Partners become concerned about the well-being of one another. Can advance to Agape love.

    Agape love: Unconditional…no matter what. It lasts a lifetime.

  45. BlackTopVersinVirginiaUSA

    If I am lucky I’ll have sex 3-5 times during the course of a month. I have fwbs/fuckbuds and they hit me up. I wish I hooked up more often (I really do enjoy sex), but black men are not that popular here and because I am not a skinny twink or jock my bodytype sometimes becomes a dealbreaker with other guys as well. I used to joke with my gay friends saying I might as well be a monk due to the lack of sex, but after reading all of these posts, I must admit, I’m doing pretty damn good sex-wise. Also, I rarely jack off, rather get off by another guy.

  46. byzmonk

    From above:

    “I might as well be a monk due to the lack of sex,”
    ————–

    As a monk, I find that funny….and limit sex as an expression of love. “God is love”. “Where love is, God is”. That sort of thing.

  47. Richard

    Not that much anymore I am so damn tired of gay men and their hangups. What is this with the arrogant, mean nasty attitude. They are all like that. And the young gay men? They’re lost. They actually believe that they are always gonna be young. So here comes the attitude. I’m 58 but people say I look like I’m in my 30s. Still I get this nasty, snipy attitude. I’m young and always will be so go away old man. And one day and one day they will be 58 and get treated the same way. And they will certainly deserve it.

  48. byzmonk

    I’d suggest trying a relationship with another 58 year old…if you can find one who still isn’t into 20 somethings.

    Young gays, like heterosexuals, tend to be attracted to those near their own age…accepting a 3-5 year age difference is the norm. It’s the older ones who have the problem. They spent too many years running after sex and sex alone. Suddenly, that party ends abruptly.

    There are exceptions in both the gay world and the straight one. Some older/younger relationships work really, really well. There aren’t many.

    It should probably be noted that the divorce rate among married gays is about 1/2 of straights. That sort of blows away the notion that gays can’t form stable relationships, doesn’t it?

    It depends on which scene you are into, doesn’t it…and the long-term outcome you’re looking for. The future comes to everyone, and choices in life determine what it will look like.

    Looking back over my own rather long life, I’ve seen that most 20 year old gays become miserable, lonely old men. Usually, it’s their own doing.

  49. Richard

    The older you get the more lonely you are and the more love you need most gay men end up by themselves with no one therapists and pills for depression and hospital stays on the mental health floor sorry it’s just the way it is

  50. Richard

    I’ve known seven gay men since 2004 that have died alone in their bed 35 40s 50s 66 their family didn’t want them we could have all been friends but no they wanted to be by themselves could have taken care of each other but no

  51. mark oldenkamp

    if you don’t want to have regular sex, just push for marriage or until that occurs (just a matter of time, not politics, duh!) just move in lezbianic style! works like a charm —

  52. TopCat

    I am a verse/top. I mostly like to fuck. I trying to have actual sex at least twice a month. I jerk off everyday to keep the pipes in working order. I have several friends, bottoms and verse, that I meet up with when we both wants our needs met. Sometimes I feel like being fucked but mostly I like being on top and blowing my load into my buddy’s ass.

  53. addict

    100% Top, tall, hung, white, fit, 25 year old in NYC. I have the maybe unhealthy tendency to think of cute boys as sexual conquests. There were probably less than 50 cute young gay guys in my medium sized college city. I think seeing the promiscuous lifestyle of attractive big city gays made me feel that I was missing out on the best years of my life. I would go to big cities for vacation with the goal of fucking as many guys as I possibly could, then go back to my college town to be celibate for weeks or months at a time. When I first moved here, I thought of the city as an all you can fuck buffet, and I was a little obsessed with fucking as many guys as I possibly could as long as long they were decently attractive. Once that started to get tiring and I got used to the fact that cute dtf bottoms aren’t exactly a scarcity here, I became much more selective. I have a taste for Asian twinks or hairless white twinks, especially blonde twinks. On rare occasions I look for girls. On my most extreme petite twink craving days, I will set my Grindr maximum age at 18 or 19, and I rarely meet guys my own age (25) unless I am really craving a muscle body. I guess I am compensating because I feel like I didn’t have enough sex in high school and college. If I cannot find the type of guy I am looking for, or if I don’t have the time or energy to spend hours scrolling through Grindr, then I prefer to just watch porn instead of lowering my standards. I sometimes get busy and go a week or two without sex. On the other extreme, alcohol and dim lighting lower my standards and I have gone crazy at a sex parties and fucked 10-20 guys, or I just go to this sleazy bar and close my eyes and let every willing mouth in the crowd suck me. I meet most boys only one time, but there are a few that always find their way back into my bed. I do Grindr hookups probably between zero and five times a week, averaging maybe two times. I am sure I will slowdown as I age, but I hope and expect that I will have over 1,000 partners in my lifetime, not that I am counting. Fucking a new cute twink brings me more joy and pleasure than anything else, but then I am back to being unsatisfied within a day or even a few hours. I don’t really think all this hooking up has brought me true satisfaction, but I’m still glad I have the opportunity to do it.


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