Speak Out : Small Cock VS Big Cock
Some like big ones, some like medium size, some like tiny ones….but I’ve noticed that a majority of gays like big cocks. Why is that? Is it because the penis is the symbol of masculinity and that the bigger the penis, the more you’re a man? What is behind this love of big cocks?
Because you have to admit when you get fucked by 11 inches of meat, it hurts a bit more than a 6 inchers… And don’t say no, because I tried both, so I know what I’m talking about! So it can’t be the physical sensation….is it psychological? Liking the idea of being stuffed by something “abnormally” big?
So what is it about the size? Why a size more than another?
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Dave
When I have a huge cock in me at the bathhouse, I love to have other guys watch and exclaim as they see my talented little tight hole take every inch of that monster cock. It’s a feeling of pride and accomplishment and showmanship — and it hurts so good!
I’m obsessed with big, huge, gigantic, enormous cocks. If any guys with 12 inched or bigger wants to fuck me, I will fly, drive, take a boat, walk, whatever to get to that gargantuan cock of yours. Let me know — sbobs13 in Michigan
Bigger is definitely better: a 10 inched up my ass puts me in ecstacy. And if it’s black, I’ve gone to heaven.
Give me a 10-inch cock over two five inchers anytime! I cum sometimes without even touching my dick when a 9 or 10 or, yes please, an 11-incher or bigger is slamming my hole.
a dick is dick that is kind stupid that would think just beuse osme got small dick they are not mascl;ine that that about duck up saying aaftican aamercian guys have hige ones wic not ssifentic fact
It’s all about the size and knowing how to use it! As a bottom, I’ve seen and taken a lot of cocks. The friction of a good Fucking is what gets men off! Too thin and it’s like a finger. On the other hand, a huge hung cock will be painful but fun to sick on. Tops; practice your technique.
Ive had big and small cocks through out my sexcapades. Ive topped ive bottomed sucked swallowed..stuff like that. I personally dont care if someone is huge big average small or whatever as long as they know how to use it. To me. The average sized guys were way better. Also they can pound me with out me feeling so much pain. Cock is cock
BIG cocks are nice!! Have to get use to them, I have NO gag reflex. So going down deep does not bother me and I know how much a guy with a BIG cock feels, when he cums all the way down my throat. Have to take my time and a lot of lube when getting fuck. Guys with BIG cocks like to see them go deep. Guys with small than 8″ seem to move around more and make good lovers. Big or small, it’s what you do with what you have. THAT COUNTS!!!
Being on the smaller side I can’t tell u how many times I’ve been rejected because of my size…but I understand that some guys are size queens. I’m not being rude or mean spirited, just telling the truth. Personally I like them all sizes, but the most important thing about a potential bedmate is that they are clean and normal. There are to many guys out there that love playing games. Why can’t the gay community just act nice to everyone (as we always are wanting from the rest of society)There have been times when I’ve turned someone away because I’m not physically attracted to them…nothing more. Many guys are passing up a truly enjoyable experience because the are looking for a porno star body that doesn’t exist in most guys. There are a lot of lonely guys because their expectations are based on porn video standards…..sad really. I’ve been with horse hung gents and smaller guys….and in both cases there are times I couldn’t wait until it was over…and vice versa…wanting it to never end. Some guys think that their oversized cock trumps all other aspects of an encounter….not. Good sex begins with your brain and unfortunately some guys aren’t working with much.
When I feel like getting boned, part of the incentive and excitement is really satisfying the guy who is banging me. Most guys with big dicks have more confidence and seem to have more joy when they are humping their brains out and it makes me feel totally mindless and happy to be able to help them get off.
I’ve had all sizes of cocks over the years and have found it’s more of a matter of knowing how to use what you’ve got. I prefer bigger cocks just because they go deeper and can hit areas that small ones just can’t reach. But I’ve also had smaller ones that knew how to use what they had and had me begging for more.
Also I know for me larger cocks are more of a challenge. I like knowing I can take the larger ones. Gives me something to brag about…LOL.
Oh…and the web site after the jump…are black guys the only ones with donkey dicks? I’ve met some really hung white guys too….lol
Did you suck their big dicks ?
Hey Lisa, can I fuck you in your big fine greek ass while Anette watches ???
I find it does take a little longer to get a big one inside and it does hurt at first. Maybe it’s just me but after first min of active pumping I get really into it and pain give way to pleasure and I really get nasty. I get loud saying stuff like “fuck me harder” “own that ass” “is that all you got” ” pound it (X3)” “fucking own that ass” ect. ect. ect. I just love it small once are okay tights with small dick in my experience tend to be more sensual and make it a wonderful experience.
For me the thing with a big dick is everytime he thrusts into me it feels like I’m orgasaming. Even though j don’t it feels like it and when I finally do cum it is fuck amazing and I shoot like a fucking bull.
Yes size does diffenant matters! I’m a bottom, if he’s not 7inches or bigger it’s hitting the spot! Ask any bottom. The brothers with a 9+ really go deep on my white ass;) ya got to love it!
I prefer to have a bigger cock than the other guy, then I feel more manly I guess and more want to be top. I have only been with one guy who was bigger (much bigger) than me, there was a thrill and a “wow” factor to it and I could take that enormous man meat just as easy as a 6″. I find to get all the spots in my ass, a 7 to 8 inch cock is perfect for me, but I am a bigger guy (6’4″) with bigger parts…
I LIKE THE BIG!!!
Personally I am fine with average, but you assumption that 11s hurt more than 5s for everyone could be quite false. People can be built almost completely different from their peers. Of course your eyes are still on your face (well, hopefully at least) and you have a liver, lungs, heart, etc in generally the same places, but nerve centers, ending, and transmitting speed can be different for different people. I have always wondered this when it came to the sense of taste. Do two people get the exact same stimulus form say a peach, and it’s the brain the does the interpretation of “oh my god that was awful, never eat one of those things again!” Or “well that was sweet and delicious, we should have these all the time!”, or do the taste buds actually send different chemical signals or electrical impulses which the brain just translates as “good” or “bad” stimuli? Why are some guys obsessed with feet? Why do some people get into BDSM? Why do some people want to be degradated to gain sexual arousal? Why does a night partying and having sex with strangers sound like heaven to some but hold no interest for others? It’s all just subjective. Personally I believe that most men will stand stupidified and awestruck by a huge cock (even straight men) just because most of us would wish it was ours because it’s know worldwide as the “measure of a man’s worth” so to speak. I do enjoy playing with a big cock, but there comes a point for me that it just becomes unmanageable and have even said to a few guy “it’s very pretty, I wish I owned one of my own, but frankly that thing is not getting anywhere near any of my orifices”. It’s even harder in the straight community for well hung men, in the gay community they’re the toast of the town but in the straight community unless the woman you’re with is either a huge slut, or has just somehow had a string of above average men, they run screaming from the room, because lets face it, they don’t see nearly the amount of dick that we do, and it’s not everyday in real life that 9″ comes walking through the door.
I don’t get it either. I have a huge one (9X5) And guys go nuts over it. To me it’s more how attractive a guys cock is. I’ve seen some big ones that were ugly and i didn’t want to touch it. And I seen some small ones that were beautiful in proportions and shape. I’ll admit I do like the attention I get, but I didn’t do anything to deserve it, other than the luck of the draw from the gene pool.
It is fun to feel a big cock in my hands, and even try to get as much as I can in my mouth. When it comes to putting one in my ass though, I learned years ago that the most comfortable size is about the same size as my own cock, which I’ve found to be pretty average at 6.5″. I’ve tried bigger ones but can’t relax through the pain to get to the pleasure. I figure, leave big enough alone so we both enjoy the activity.
I’m 27, with an 8.5 cut cock, and I’ll admit I’m a HUGE SIZE QUEEN. Nothing feels as good as a big cock. My thought is that dick size is a sexual turn on just like six pack abs, big arms, or a nice smile. Its a sexual trigger
I tend to like 7-9″ x 5-6″ cut. I also, not for dick size reasons, like black guys. Smaller can be ok but can also hurt more as they don’t seem to fit as well in my bum. They don’t go in deep enough. Big dicks seem to fit a bit more snug and give me the full feeling that gives me an ass orgasm. An 11″x7″ for example would simply be too big and wouldn’t feel great.
I disagree with the notion that big necessarily hurts more than small. I have been hurt more by cocks under 6 inches than I have cocks over 9 inches. The smaller cocks seem to get off track easier and stab more while the larger ones stay where they should. I personally like bigger cocks because of the challenge, and also their rarity. It’s easy to find an average cock to suck or ride but when you find one with some size, well that’s just nice. Also for me, one large cock is enough but if they are average then I seem to want more of them. I like to know that I have been fucked, whether it be from the stretch of a large cock or just the sheer numbers of smaller ones.
I think the guy that is focused on cock size has a serious issue about penises.
I have found that it isn’t so much the cock as it is the person. You can have a huge cock and be an ineffective lover. You can have an average cock and be the most incredible lover. His touch electrifies, his kisses are passionate and his ardor is passionate – because he sees you and knows that seeing to your needs and you seeing to his makes the most incredible experience.
I would also like to kno I am vers/top and honestly no shame here I am not ‘hung’ I would say I’m below average . I get rejected sexually a lot because of the size . The ones that do like it they all say it’s the best they had so I don’t know . I don’t like big ones I say 6-7 inch is the perfect one anyone wanting 10+ is just plain greedy
It isn’t the wand that matters. It’s the magician. 😉
For me it depends on the person. I like average cocks (6 – 8 as long as its thick). Smaller than that does nothing for me especially with me enjoying being a bottom. I have found out that a small cock shoots a huge load, the majority of the time. I have a married bud with 9 thick who gets with me every now & then that feels wonderful. Each time he fucks me he makes me cum. Unfortunately, he has a gf and I can’t see him like I want to.
I’d rather have an average one than a huge one. A big one is fun and impressive, but it can be too big to suck. If I’m not pleasing him I’m not getting off, either.
im very tiny only about 2 1/4 erect so I love all cocks big ones and uncut one are my favorites
The best sex I’ve ever had was with a 6 inch pencil dick. He knew how to work it and there wasn’t any adjustment time. The anal canal is not designed for big dicks. Stretching by a big dick can cause irreparable damage. Seems more psychological than physical as evident by those referencing black dicks etc.
BIG
Small cock … large cock. Nothing about them or any size in between guarantees a good experience or results in a bad one. Cock size is nothing more than another single-minded attribute on the Guy Buffet be it age, hairy/not hairy, slim/heavy, muscled, bearded/shaved, tall/short, etc..
Good luck with using one attribute as a sole or main selection criteria.
I like 8 to 10 cut anything smaller than 8 is boring
I love all cocks medium to big
Bigger is better, sorry guys that’s how it is. You ever had to try a DP with less than 7, nightmare for all involved. I will not even entertain less than 7. Call me shallow, but I know what I like and need.
i love big huge fat blond cock up my REAL TIGHT ASS
very clean pink hole bottom here
i love to eat HUGE BLOND COCK , and then beg to tear my tight hole
anyone with big monster blond cock, HELLOOOOOOOOO iam here
vic328i
Lol y’all are stretching it with the “I take footlongs up my ass but I’m still tight” bitch please y’all got a puckered hole the size of an orange.
I note with interest that you contrasted the sizes by race. Lol. Don’t think its intentional. Being a top I can tell you that dick size does matter. There is a desire and fantasy of being fucked by a big dick. As a black male there is the anticipation that all black males have super big dicks. It goes across all races. Dick size Matters and the bIgger the berry the sweeter the fruit. EQually one must know how to use it. One can do some damage to another.
7 To 9″ Is My Fave. I’ve Had Smaller Ones, They Just Bore Me To Death. It’s Very Funny To Me When I View Profiles And Guys Claim They’re 7,8,9,10,11 Or More To Make Them Seem More Alluring(LOL). #STOP ALL THAT LYING, GET A FRIGGING’ RULER AND MEASURE THAT SHIT RIGHT!!
Personally I like 6-7.5 not too sure bout girth but I know what I like what I can handle and if the curve can help or make it harder to enjoy. Riding I can take a bigger dick. On my back a bigger dick hurts if I’m not completely intimate.
My perfect dick is probably uncut slight curve up 7″ with some thickness.
Visually penis size is a pride/envy thing.
Being a bottom I had a few guys say I should be a top with my dick but it’s nowhere near 8+” but proportionatly it is bigger for my small build plus I think it’s aesthetically pleasing lol
I prefer bigger. 6″ doesn’t feel worth it unless they have girth. For me the “pain” of thick and long cocks going deep inside me makes me weak. I love feeling a big cock push my threshold. I’ve slept with guys smaller than 8″ and there isnt much feeling for me personally. The bigger the better, and that pain has always been orgasmic pain for me, never hurtful.
I can’t help it. I obsess about the guy when I see a big dick. That’s doesn’t mean I let him know that. It’s a sense of pride and pain. That I can take a huge fucking dick and give the guy pleasure that many women and men cannot give to him.
The drawback: I am nearly always flacid when getting fucked by a big dick. In fact, if I can get it up I can’t really cum (when I was younger pain was more of a turn-on than it is now). So I feel great afterwards but it’s harder for me to get off. But I love the pain. But I didn’t get off. It’s a strange oxymoron because I wouldn’t like it if that happened with an “average” size cock.
Now, that said. I love small dicks. I love being fucked by small guys, because they’ve usually resigned themselves to the category of bottom-only. I make them top me. I love the way it feels and the look on their faces (I tend to sit on small cocks, bend over or on my stomach with big ones.)
Just the idea that a little dicked guy is getting off on (finally) being able to top – I usually shoot my load at the exact same time they do!
So big, small makes no matter really. But, if you love someone you’ll stretch it if they’re big, and be patient if they’re not. All deserve love. Or at least sex.
I’m such a fuckin’ whore, what was the question?
Hi Guys, like most of you i have had cocks as small as 3″ to 11″ I, like most of, loves a cock in my ass. Now I have also had small dicks that hurt because they don’t fill u up and moves around too much. Yes big cocks hurt when they first enter, I find after the head enters you it slides in easy. For me, I like em best aroun 8-9″. But, man there is something about a huge cock and uncut just seems to be soooo much man meat there :)!
I have a small cock and feel inadequate! But I do love bigger! 8+ is cool!, but have had a few smaller ones that gave me more satisfaction. I dont believe cock size means they are more of a man, that has to with attitude!
Here’s the thing, even though the femmies call it their man pussy, it’s not a pussy. A woman’s vagina can adjust to the size of a bigger penis. But here we’re talking about an anus. It’s not natural as is for a cock to go inside an ass, so if you need a big cock up your ass it’s because your damn loose. I’m a bottom and I’ve had all sorts of sizes. I hated most were the big one’s, It wasn’t pleasurable at all. It does look nice to look at but that’s it. And this is from someone who had a promiscuous past. I admit when I look at pron a big cock is a turn on but not inside my ass or in my mouth, it’s also uncomfortable to take the whole cock in your mouth. As far as it being a sign of masculinity associated with a big cock, I say LOLOLOL..having a big cock has ZERO significance of how much of a man someone else. I’ve got average and I am more masculine than the typical gay. And got more balls too and not talking about the one’s that dangle.
I love all cocks. Haha. But honestly, I prefer smaller or average cocks. I’m 27 and 99% bottom and had all sorts of shapes and sizes. But in my experience, the 6-7 inchers seem to know what they’re doing. I’m not big, at all. Only around 5.5″ so I’ve never been too hung up on size. I will say, I thoroughly enjoy deep throating a huge cock, but if it’s going in my ass, I’d probably prefer more on the smaller size. Those guys tend to get more into it anyway.
for me a 8-9 is great as it hits that sweet spot every time and causes ass orgasms. love to get bigger inside me when possible as it is a turn on. would totally enjoy trying two 8-9’s at once someday though as i just know it would be a fantasy come true. My buddy has an 8.5 and makes my ass orgasm every time we are together. My toy is 16.5 long and 6.5 round and am able to take it to the end most times. anyone care to join and see for their self?
i love big long fat cock
i wanna eat it, then put it in my ass
vic328i
I have to say that I really prefer larger cocks. We all have our preferences, so it’s not a big deal.
For me, a big cock sliding in me, slowly fucking me stroking it in and out of my ass makes it all the more enjoyable. Getting pounded by someone who has no clue on what they are doing, big or small, is not fun either.
I have some friends that are a couple, and I love to bottom for them. They have nice 8″ uncut cocks, nice and thick but not too crazy, one latino and the other a brother, and they love to fuck my white ass and I love their big cocks at the same time. Filled with big cocks at both ends, I swear there’s nothing better!
I have a nice 7.5 cut, and when you play with a room full of big dicks your size or bigger, it’s just more fun for me.
IMHO, big dick (as in over 7 inches, in my world) is HIGHLY OVERRATED…I am just a cocksucker…but an eager, hungry, voracious, and insatiable cocksucker. It is, by default, significant to me that, when I’m about to go down on a lovely penis, I can actually deepthroat it. I’m not a deepthroater as a rule, though God knows I try, but when I see a sweet 6 inch penis in front of me, I love knowing that I can swallow that shaft and bury my nose in a dude’s pubes and hear his moaning because he knows his whole penis is quivering in my throat. I can’t give that kind of pleasure on some gigantic monstrosity…and not to sound biased but that gigantic black penis in the pic above grosses me out…sorry…
Matt: your toy is 16.5 inches and you take it all up the ass?!?! This I gotta see. When is your next show? I’m there.
I find this topic part of the problem in the gay community. When we reduce a guy down to nothing more than a dick size how can we expect a lasting relationship. Sex is more enjoyable with someone you have a connection with/care about. For that the size of the dick doesn’t matter.
I prefer the smaller, the huge cocks are such a waste, too hard to deep throat, I like to suck as well as get fucked, anything over 9 just isn’t worth messing with in my book
Ive got a Big pretty cock and I am proud of it. Guy’s like how clean I keep it and myself to.
Me, it’s all about girth. Thick over long any day of the week.
rather have an average cock. long skinny cocks any day of the week–can have it all the way down for a longer time….bigger ones nice to look at but giving head to large ones–can’t stay on it as long 😉
Like Marc above if its the same bathhouse you have to see how all the size queens follow the black guys around but can those same guys say they have a friend that’s black in their lives.
Really? The fascination with oversized penises is “classic” stereotyping. In all my years of playing with cocks (I started at 9, and I’m 43 now), I can honestly say that SIZE is probably the WORST indicator of whether a guy is any good sexually (or not).
In fact, I’ve mentioned before that – in general – guys with bigger dicks tend to be WORSE lovers because they rely too much on the size of their cock. Not to mention the prevailing attitude many “well endowed” dudes seem to have that they’re somehow better than others.
That’s not to say that a hot dude with a big dick can’t be a decent substitute for a good dildo — but far too many of them (guys with bog dicks) can’t really get past that stage! And personally, if all I want is SIZE in me, I’d rather have the dildo!
While I’m on the subject: it’s a pet-peeve of mine that guys with big cocks somehow think it’s some kind of accomplishment. Seriously, a big dick is no more an accomplishment than are my blue eyes or my long fingers.
A 6-pack of abs, or a 40 y/o guy who is still in excellent physical shape are MUCH bigger things to be proud of than a cock.
Finally, the “common wisdom” that a bigger cock is more manly is just plain bullshit! Some of the most masculine men I know have small cocks, and I know I’m not alone in knowing more than a few fem drag-queens with monster cocks! Far be it from me to claim isolated examples as being statistically significant, but I think the REAL science on the matter has proven that the concept of tying masculinity (or virility) to penis size is fallacious. (pun intended)
Chip
St. Pete
PS: Not that it matters in this forum, but I like a man who can flip… I don’t really give a fuck if he’s bog or small, if he’s all top or all bottom, I get bored!
My gosh that is one beautiful black dick in this pic
Average sized and big dicks are cool in my opinion. Tiny dicks are just…eww lol.
I agree with Jonathan. For me I like the attractiveness of a guys dick. Sure, I think a larger one is usually nicer, but I’d rather have a shorter and nicer looking one than a less attractive big one. And I’m not a big fan of uncut. I know many guys like that, but I prefer a cut dick that goes straight out when hard, maybe shows a vein and that has some nice appearance to it.
For me, it’s about the person attached to the dick. If a guy is confident in their own skin, that confidence is the sexiest thing to me. My most memorable encounter was with a Marine who’s dick size was 6″cut. He was a master in the sack.
I am use to getting average size ones in me. The big ones are a beauty but they’re so painful. I’ve had butt orgasms with the average size cocks with no pain.
Cock-size preferences are social constructions. In times of antiquity (esp the Greco-Roman era), small penises were considered more attractive (representing the balanced and intellectual man), and large ones were considered humorous (representing a more basic animalism).
I LAUGH IN THE FACE OF HUGE COCK! HA HA HA!
I think small and medium ones are great for sucking on a long time as they don’t wear out your jaw easy and you can deep throat them for a lot longer. BIG ones are great to getting fucked by they may hurt going in but then that turns to ecstasy and they can ride me for hours. Smaller ones and hurt a lot more as they poke you inside in the wrong spots if they get carried away and bruise you inside.
Well, what a very interesting opinion. It is almost arrogant, assuming all gay men think alike. If this were true, they’d all be tops or bottoms and there just might be no variety.
For me, it is not psychological at all. Nor does it represent any particular person’s manhood compared to others. For me, it is about the physical sensation: the stretching of my throat as a cock grows down and around its inside, the stuffing of my ass as a monster cock loosens it, now that’s what I like!
Unfortunately for me LOL in my area the only men with big dicks on a4a seem to be on black men. The white guys are apparently non-existent. 😉 Some variety would actually be quite nice!
I never wanted to be labeled a ”size queen”, but I really loved a guy who was about 5” and thin and when he fucked me it hurt! I like to be fingered, but only as a reason to gentle open me up for cock, but no bottom wants a finger hammering their ass! It’s the same feeling with someone under 5 inches. I guess I would be okay with a real thick cock of average length, but it feels so much better if a guy has 7 inches or more. Bottoms need to feel good too!
Well theres comments pretty much does me in. I do not have a large cock only about 6 inches uncut and not very thick. I am a masculine guy but have always worried I couldnt satisy they guy I am fucking and now after reading these comments and Daves take on the subject just leaves me kind of numb and empty. It really sucks when you get you turned down consistently because you dont have at least 7 inch cock and thick. I am ususally very confident when i do get to fuck a guy but after readiing the blog day in and day out i see the MAJORITY of you guys wouldnt even consider giving me a chance to show you what kind of person I truly am or how good and passionate i can be. Thanks alot guys
There is so much (1) pride and (2) envy about cock size in our little corner of the world. Makes no sense to me.
The size of your cock is not an accomplishment. You (hopefully) didn’t do anything to obtain that big (or smaller) cock. Instead, it’s what you’re born with.
Deal with it. Whether it’s your’s or your partner’s. There are more important attributes. Things like character.
Either is doable. All cocks are pleasurable as long as the guy is fun. Its not like you can do much about it. Ive not beenable to fit my cock all the places I have wanted to and scared off quite a few hot curious guys. Small guys can be a blast and come a hell of a lot. Just saying. Small cocks aren’t hell on your jaws the 3rd time around.
In all honesty, when I bottom, I prefer small to average. I don’t really care how big a guy’s dick is, and to be honest, I don’t see why we should care so much. As far as I’m concerned, if I fell in love with a guy with a small dick, it wouldn’t bother me in the least, because that is not the most important part of a relationship. If all you want is big cock to fill up your hole, I have some news for you, you are a size queen, and probably a tool to be with in a relationship. If I had to chose between a nice guy with a small dick, and an ass with a big dick, I would go with the nice guy with the small cock anyday. Quantity is for boys, quality is for men.
Bigger is better. I definitely love the feel of a long, beer can thick cock in me. 8-11 inches can make me cum w/o even touching myself. Anything under 8 just doesn’t do it for me personally.
The bigger that better!
I am a top, but I do prefer guys with average to large cocks for practical purposes. I like to jack guys and I’ll suck them if they’re hot enough. I have large hands though and small cocks don’t fit well in them. They need something large to get a nice grip.
I’m curious what y’all define as average and what’s large? I feel I’m average at a thick six inches, but all my partners say I’m big and even try to say I’m bigger than six, but I doubt both my ruler and measuring tape are inaccurate. Lol.
Medically, a good gauge to consider dick size & anal pain is this: Turd size. Practically all guys can handle a long turd coming out of them – however, if the turd is too thick, then there’s a problem – only pain……and certainly no pleasure there. By the same token, a long cock that’s no thicker than the average turd should give the receiver pleasure. Too thick (like a beercan) is torture – there’s only so much the O ring and the rectum can take – and
As a physician who is gay, I can tell when a guy has taken too much thick penis – and over time, “too thick” creates a great deal of damage to the rectum – not to mention the O ring (many guys don’t consider the reality of fading elasticity with age.
For me, I prefer my guy to finger my ass – he prefers me to fuck him. But I’m not super thick, although – I am 9″. So he’s satisfied. One thing I should note: Many years ago, I had a guy – having a dick the thickness of a beercan – fuck me and I nearly passed out from the pain. He was more concerned about his satisfaction rather than mine, as the tightness of my ass was a turn-on. I was screaming in pain with every thrust of his thick penis that he only fully understood that I was in pain when my body went limp (I was near unconsciousness). There was no pleasure whatsoever from that experience. Bottom line, his dick was more than 2x the size of any turd I release. So while the idea of a having something that humongous in you seems exotic, the reality of such an experience does not bring fond memories.
I’ve had big and small but, as a bottom, I PREFER 7.5 or less!!! No pain, ALL pleasure! Big dick are best to look at and play with… THAT’S ALL!!!
Its not about the size.. Its about the love and passion i need during sex. Even an average size can satisfy if we have good chemistry. And i can’t take bigger cock. It hurts my ass for days
I agree with Jonathan’s comment regarding having big cock due to luck of gene pool by the gay desire. I guess this blog hits at the right pussy spot of the majority young bottom profiles here. I consider myself versatile with the right proportional size equipment and had challenged myself with the impossible big size cocks in the past. I haven’t been with smaller than mine or little cocks so I can’t say anything. However, big cocks might look and feel nice slapping onto to you but after a few rides your ass will need time to heal for days, hey even a short stubby thick cock can still give you a swollen hole after a rabid fuck. Perhaps I determine the hotness based on the hardness and longevity of an erection regardless of size in addition to the ability to cum bucket at will at the right time. Most of the times the big cock guys are only good at the in-n-out motion and quite bad at Foreplay or passionate sex for that matter. The lack of trying new sexual experiences from big cocks guys can kill the mood for me. Of course, if you’re a size queen then the goal is sitting on one bigger cock after the last big cock until the next is the whole arm in your ass in no time. I know It’s incredible to look at a small guy taking a giant cock in his ass as in hot porn but sorry if you still want a gripable sphincter after certain age then you’d better watch out for the damage to your hole inside lining and of course internal hemorrhoids too, big cocks are not so hot hey!
I’m probably one of the few gay men who don’t care about cock size because I personally don’t like cocks haha.. I care more about the male torso and facial structure.
Like Marc above at the bathhouse you gotta see how
The size queens follow the black guys like a puppy after a bone
Size is important, but cocksmanship trumps it. Sure, the visual of that huge 12 incher as I male it disappear in my tight hole is enough to make me spew, but there are smaller cocks that have made me cum from how they fucked me. Thing is this, I guess; You can give a 12 inch cock to a dumb ass and it would not make him a stud…he would be a dumb ass with a huge cock.
i’m just average size 6.5-7″ depending how turned on I am, I’m versa and love to take it and give it my biggest was 8.5 beautiful cut cock but he was not passionate he was wam bam done , my ex was versa 7.5 very thick omg we’d go all nite rest and go some more fucking each other silly, his cock was great but what made him so good was we were on the same page in what n how we wanted it. Dean
The man matters more than the cock to me. I prefer shorter and fatter cocks. They seem to beat-up my prostate better and put me in the “please fuck me forever” zone. Some guys are simply too big for me handle. I wish guys would stop exaggerating the size of their cocks. Most of my buds advertise they have 8″s when in reality they have about 5″ to 5.5″ in length and from 5″ to 6.5″ in diameter. Only one has a true 8″s and is 6-3/4″s around; I’m in-training on that one. 😉
Yes yes the dick makes the man just like tits make the woman. Thank you for another fine article expressing just how shallow you are.
size doesnt matter. i just want cock.
Am a jamaicam bottom and I dnt like small dicks as it do ntn for me. 8inch or more to my sexy ass. Love to feel wen it touch my gspot. Lol
Suh mi need a big cocky man fi suck ah skin out pan every min of the day. Not saying that i hve a problem with small dicks cze as long as u knw hw to perform with it. But small dick dnt work for a goodaz btmm sorry.
I prefer at girth to length. The length makes it better position wise. However length isn’t what does it for me. I have had a 9 inch penis that was very thin and his friend had a 7 or so incher that was as thick as a coke can and it was so much more satisfying. During our 3 some every time the 9 was in me all I could think of was how do I get the other cock in me and keep it there.
I like hung white men up to 8 inches, but if the white man is cute with a great heart, 6 inches will do. Any white dick over 8 inches is a waste.
I give or do anything for big cock
Well I think a bigger dick can make the sex more intense, I found two guys with dick 7-9 inches, Over the course of the night, they fucked me 3 times each. It was good. but I wanted more.
So the next week, I found two guys will 12-14 inches, The fucked me 3 times each that night. Well I was filled, gaping and fully pleased. They made my ass cream continuously. So, i guess I am a size queen.
Now, I have two regular horse hung fuck buddies, that will come to see me every weekend,
BTW!!! They were white men. so the stereotype about them having small dicks is false.
As a big dick WHITE guy, I will say that guys rave over the size, however, I think it’s all on how you use it. I do enjoy pounding a hot ass knowing he is thinking OMG!!
Big cocks are better, no question. I am a fifty-something guy that no one would look at twice in a bar, but when I show my bigger-than-average cock online I’m completely amazed at the young muscle studs that come running to suck it and get impaled on it. Not bragging, just saying it’s a natural animal attraction thing to be attracted to a large cock.
Everybody holds their breath when their first time lovers drop their drawers, but to reject them after inspection, shows what a shallow jerk you really are. Those smart-ass remarks might be humorous to you,(I bet you mistreated pets as a child) but have a lasting effect on the people you unleash them on. I’ve found that all cock is good. I’ve also found that all these horse hung guys are usually worthless as lovers after age 40, unless they have some 10$ blue pills in their pocket. Would you rather have a Bentley in your garage up on blocks or a Camry in the driveway that is dependable to start every time. Most size queens will more than likely die alone unless they mend their ways.
I enjoy all dick, but my favorite is uncut brown dick….I also turn into a white whore for big black dick…I had a fuckbuddy whose black dick was 12 inches long and as thick as my wrist…. He used to let me ride him and I’d always shoot my load without touching myself…. Then he’d say it’s his turn, he’d flip me over and pound my ass deep and hard,,,he’d shoot his load deep inside ….then make me clean if off my fucking my mouth! If you’re in the Bay Area and need a deep throat or thick smooth ass hit me up,,,blondcub4brown…
Bigger cocks are more fun to ride. In Amsterdam at the Thermos, having a nice uncut Dutch cock inside me is the best. They are huge! I sucked off a nice thick one in Copenhagen, too.
I would rather be with a man who has a small or average dick and a huge technique than a man who has a huge dick and a little technique.
It’s not the Appendage; it’s the guy attached to it that’s most Important.
I’m a pipefitter by trade, and my hands can fairly accurately measure a cock without the use of a tape measure.
I’ve always thought of myself as a size queen, but have realized there are limitations. Sometimes my eyes have been bigger than my ass, so now I look for well hung, but not gigantic.
The Goldilocks ideal is about 7.5 X 6, but it’s also about the whole man, his attitude and abilities.
I took 11×6 many years ago and he had all the charm of a dead fish. As a boy I was with a bodybuilder with about 6×4, and the sex was awesome, so for me it’s a mix.
I might let a horsehung man ruin me for all other men if he’s willing to have an LTR, but the horsehung are usually far too popular to settle down.
Fisting, and dildoes? Forget about it. It’s more about pleasing the man than just stuffing a hole.
For me it’s thick..will take thick 24/7…if it’s big it’s a +++
Have to agree with Pageboy50 and some others. It’s really NOT the size that matters.
Yes, there is a stigma that says look what I’ve accomplished taking all 10 inches!! Yet, I have been with guys with 10″ and they can’t keep enough blood going to their member to keep it hard. What fun is that?
I’m smaller in size, but have packed a wallop in my time. A dick is a dick…period. Personally speaking, I sometimes prefer less pain and more enjoyment when getting “it in the end”, so I consider passing on the “gifted guys” and go for someone under 7″
I love big dicks I mean I love a big dick dude, but…I have an issue with what I notice is some sort of mandingo fantasy thing going on.
There are black dudes who are average as well and white dudes that had me begging for dear life LOL.
I Love huge cocks. It’s a challenge to see how muck I can I take i think.
I have to admit that I enjoy the sight of and sucking on a huge cock. It just makes me horny! Being a bottom though I hav really come to appreciate thick cocks when I get fucked.
For me personally a big cock is fun to look at and to play with but when it comes to getting fucked I prefer an average cock over a large one. If the guy knows how to use it I can go for hours and enjoy it immensely often cumming a few times sometimes without even touching my cock. Those are great times!
I’m a total top with a 8.5 inch dick. When I see or fuck a guy with a big cock, it’s such a turn on for me!! I like to measure other big dicks next to mines. At times, I get in the mood to suck. When I do, it has to be a big piece of meat! I need something to choke me out….Mmmmmmm!!!
Big and small are both great as long as the dude can keep it hard. Seems like the big ones never get quite as stiff as the small ones. I’d rather ride a smaller rock hard throbbing cock than try to stuff a big floppy one in my ass anyday.
I am average. Bigger is definitely visually more exciting. I prefer 7″ of less when giving BJ’s as it is easier to do a great job and keep my teeth covered. I can also let my man go nuts when he cums without worrying about gagging or sofocating. For catching, longer don’t slip out as easily, but More than 8″ can hurt on vigorous thrusts. Again 7 or so wins because I am more relaxed if things get vigorous.
I prefer a shorter but very thick cock. I like to feel it stretch my hole as it goes in but find long cocks painful when al l the way in. so give me a guy with 6-7″ of very fat hard cock and im in heaven
I am a tall big man….. I prefer bigger cocks because I love the feeling of being full, but I have had smaller guys who fucked better…..YOU BIG BOYS SHOULD LEARN TO PLEASURE US BOTTOMS BETTER. but in general I love sucking cock, whatever the size……..
I would say not so much to do with masculinity.
A big dick is so much more satisfying to hold, to look at to try and fit in your mouth. When it comes to buttfucking, it may hurt at first, but you’ll adjust and when you do you can still feel that thick man meat pounding you in and out..
Now for smaller dicks, i mean its a dick, probably not a mouthful, maybe not a handful, and unless they really know how to use it, its kind of an annoyance when it comes to fucking. Like someone poking you- over and over and over.
Well I like to frot and I will suck a nice dick as long as it is not too tiny.I like uncut thick ones (clean of course).. So it is not a problem of size as long as you know how to use it. Satisfaction is the key. and if you are getting sex be thankful. as I have not touched one other than my own in months…I myself am about 6 if somebody don’t like it move on and find someone who does.. and most of all enjoy life!!!
Chip I agree with you size is nice but passion and pleasure is what REALLY gets me going, I think i’d rather have a lover who knew how to use his 6-8″ over a 10″ dumb ass stud anytime. Dean
Depends on what I want. If I want to suck and try to deepthroating I prefer average to smaller cock. If I want to get fucked deep in my pussy, I love a big cock. Length is more important to me than thickness though. It definitely hits the right spot and not as painful as a really thick cock. I do love to be fucked by either I must admit. Nothing like it. North Florida boy here.
I’ve had my fair share and as the saying goes, “It’s the motion of the ocean, not the size of the boat.” Big is nice, if you know how to use that tool and know what you’re doing. Many times it’s not the case. Not to mention, the majority of men with big dicks, cum quick! I say average is good.. 6,7 inches along with a good lover is always the best!
Big is def better…Black is a bonus. Anything under 8 unless very very thick is pretty much a waste w me. My ass gets lose and I cant feel much. Having taken 11 plus a few times, def is the best. I have cum without being touched while being taken deep. And big cocks make me drool more- makes giving head more fun and wet. Any 12″ out there hot up my profile lukin4bbc in jersey
why is that pix of black man so huge and white guy so little .. I am Italian got 8 1/2 incher .America is out to make whites look less then other races . the average is not 8inch difference its 1 ,1/2 one and half inches at most . I like white guys and not racist , was recently published on a4a country with biggest to smallest the difference is not that big . porn industry is paying all these huge dick guys to fuck pretty white twinks . I love twinks and fuck them very good . guess little jealous but not hateful
I will say 8.5 black cock is perfect 🙂
First up, I have an average sized 8 inch dick, don’t want it any bigger, don’t want it any smaller. Proud of what God gave me and very happy with it! People on here are basically saying how loose their assholes are LOL!!! Soon, no dick will be big enough for ya’ll! Fisting anyone??? Gay men are a joke!
What really gets me is that these so-called “small” penises, such as 6″ are actually larger than average. According to one study, the average U.S. man has an erect penis of 5.57″, with most (one standard deviation) being between about 4.5″ and 6.5″. The largest in the sample of 1,661 was 10.24″.
I looked at A4A in Chicago, at men who had been online within two weeks. The average was 7.67″. Less than one half of one percent reported smaller than 4.5″, while 43% reported 8″ or larger. 2.5% claimed larger penises than the largest in the study.
I think there’s an awful lot of lying going on here. Internet inches seem much smaller for penises, slightly smaller for height, and larger for waists.
Source: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed?term=10.1111%2Fjsm.12244
How about ANY cock! After years and years of rejection, I cannot figure out what is so wrong withe me that I can’t even get a date.
Big dicks to suck on, little dicks to get fucked by. Doesn’t matter what size to shoot big loads on my face.
First off let me , guys, stop kidding yourselves…if you like 8,9,10,11 inch cock…your hole IS NOT TIGHT! Youre embarrassing yourselves by adding “in my tight hole” and everyone knows it, admit that you’re a big dick whore and move on.
I have a small cock, and I am black. it sucks because everyone I ever try to hook up with expects me to be hung far more than what is normal. It has caused me to feel like staying to myself, and I hate it. As for what a partner should have I would say average, six to seven, maybe even eight is best. I mean how many pornos do you see where half the guys dick is bone dry because whoever is servicing them can’t get even half down their throat, it is a waste. Also if it is hurting you after the first five minutes, they are clearly doing something wrong and need to work on their technique.
I definitely believe that it’s a psychological thing. Especially for females. They can’t take it, they’re just in love with the thought of it. Most can’t take me and I’m not even hung. Drewbea69
To me the size of the cock does not matter. it is how the cock is used. It is also what king of personality the guy has. Rather have a small cock with a great personality than a large cock who is an ass.
both dicks in the pic for this post look gross. Anyway this topic is just an excuse for everyone to get off on each others big dick stories. lame.
Im versatile and like to bottom at times. When bottoming the best size is 6-7″ as I can’t cum as intensely while getting fucked with a larger cock. I think it’s all about how you’re built physically..no judgement at all. To each his own.
I just came to this country 2yrs ago. N i only had 5inches Fuck me. But a few weeks ago i FINALLY had the courage to suck BLACK COCK. N sucking n gagging on that huge man penis really turn me on!!! I didn’t let him fuck me….im to scared to let it in me. But i definitely LOVE giving him blowjobs. He said i suck better that his wife….n that was a huge compliment:)
It depends on the guy. You gotta know what you are doing. I had a guy with 5″ rock my world. I mean my legs were tingling and I almost came without touching myself. Yet I got the same experience from a guy who was 8″. But my first was 9″ x 6″ and he bored me every single time. That being said, I usually go for bigger guys. I just lead with the assumption you have no idea what the fuck you’re doing, big or small, and if I’m right, at least I get to play with something that actually requires the use of both hands.
Big cocks all the way. After using larger dildos than the regular size vibrators I grew fond of being stretched. I love the pounding you get from a bigger dick.
Small cocks hurt…Period! I love big (black) cocks to massage my prostate. Small or even medium ones can’t even reach my prostate. Hit me up on Adam if you like to party and are in the Atlanta area: bbpartybottom.
If we want to be scientific about it, the question should be: “All else equal, does size matter?” What if we could take the same guy and swap out his 6 incher with a 9 incher, but everything else stays the same… same hardness, passion, good stroke, etc. Would the dick size make a difference? I think it would. He would get more ass and more repeated hookups with the 9-inch dick. True, he can still please a guy with he 6-inch, but its just so much more work.
Size isn’t an issue with guys for me. Let’s say u get a huge one but he only gets the urge 2-3 times a week or less. Then let’s say u get an average guy that seems to not get enough of u. It’s a personal choice but I enjoy the average guy that wants more action. Race is a non-factor. I’m black and have had the 8.5″ thick, white, country switch hitter (divorced 4 months at 29) that was poking me everytime we made eye contact. Intense definitely comes to mind but he chose not to get disowned and miss inheritance because his grandpa peeped through the bedroom window unit. It was awesome for almost 6 months. He remarried another woman with a number of children.
Side tracked a little on that one. If a guy has that intensity, desire, and sheer will to do in the bedroom, it makes smaller ones a non-issue for me.
Spoken like a true size queen, Dave.
gs999 : I am:) , 8+ for me!
I am a cocksucker. with that said I love big cocks because they fill my throat. Also a guy with a big cock and the thicker the better is a huge turn on for me and them usually as they are trying to see if they can get their whole dick balls deep down my throat and as I oblige to work it down and my goal is to have them balls deep and sticking my tongue out to tickle their balls while they pump my throat. for me thick cocks are more important than longer however I find for my comfort 7 inches or above is what hits my prostrate to a point I orgasm. smaller cocks tend to be thinner and actually hurt more as it feels more like being stabbed than fucked. Like wise a really narrow 7 inch cock would not feel as good as a thick 7 inch cock. I have no teeth and no gag so sucking big fat cocks are my ultimate favorite and guys with big cocks seemed to be turned on by my throat and ability to take them deep. the act of them getting into using my throat is what I get off on.
I have an average dick, and I like average. It seems to me that guys with huge cocks have issues with getting and keeping hard erections. Small to average size cocks get harder and stay harder longer.
There are times I like (and want) a big one, and other times a smaller one. I’ve experienced so incredibly HOT times with a couple of FB’s with like 5-6″ that had be clawing the sheets and having orgasm after orgasm. (I’m one of those guys who get anal orgasms.
On the other hand, sometimes you just NEED a BIG THCK COCK stuffed up there.
The majority of bottoms that want huge cocks are on some kind of high to numb the body from pain to increase the pleasure.
I have a small cock. I get the rejection every time. But the way that I view it, smaller cocks might not knock up the intestines but its enough to please. And will decreases the chances of wall rips causing potential infections and diseases. As opposed to huge cocks are a huge trigger of ripped walls.
I can already assume a guy is into big cocks; they are to a point of a ripped hole that I will not get no more pleasure from. Let alone both parties. Its useless. I just keep trying to find that one to satisfy me and love me as I do for him… In Time!!!
I am a lover of big cocks. I can only suck on a cock that is 7.5 or bigger. 7 is ok if thick. Also prefer uncut cock to suck. If It can’t go down my throat I just can’t get into it. Love to take my time with a nice big hard throbbing cock. Just worship it. But the man has to know how to respond and what to do.
I am all about size like many others however I differ in that I have a small one and love them small!! I am into slim to average build guys who either are naturally smooth or shave their bodies. My cock is tiny when soft and even tinier when it’s cold and it ‘hides’ lol! Hard it is about 6″c so I suppose I am somewhat of a grower. I am btm/vrs and love mutual sucking and rimming with flip fucking. If my playmate is a total btm I am ok with being the top when we fuck. I am not into tops or any guy who won’t eat my ass. I am VERY oral and love deep tongue fucking a guy alternating sucking him until he feeds me his sweet reward!!
Personally I love big cock. There’s nothing that gets me hotter then seeing a HUNG guy in front of me especially a bbc! I’ve had problems getting fucked by them but I could service a hung cock with my mouth for hours! It makes me feel like such a little slut and I feel so submissive to a huge one! Kissing it rubbing it on my face deep thoating it’s just so fucking hot
as the perference of big vs. small also brings the ? of what is classified as big? there is very well endowed and then there is monster cocks. as it has been said, it’s not the size of the ship but the motion of the ocean that makes the difference. it’s been my experience and perference for big dicks. i’m a very greedy bottom so small dicks does nothing for me. i love to feel the dick in me!!! small dicks tend to stab in the same spot to get their sensation therefore causing soreness. big dicks dive stay down the middle getting sensations from all sides and also hitting spots to pleasure the bottom. i don’t need a monster cock to pleasure me but i will run TO a big dick before i run FROM a big dick. orally, if i’m going to suck and swallow a small dick, i may as well suck my thumb. personally, size does matter. overall, 7-8″ with girth gets the job well done.
Hate big cocks, I feel more pleasure with average and small cocks
For me it’s more about girth than length. I’d rather have a short fat cock than a long skinny one (feels like getting fucked by a pencil). But if you’re hung and girthy I want to take it even when I know I can’t. The best cock I’ve had was about 7×7 and curved up–he always hit my prostate with every thrust (not to mention a continuous orgasm for twenty minutes).
i think being big is slightly overrated. I’m pretty big and I’m thick and I face more rejection once I get it almost in and teeth marks on my junk (from the over confident) than anything I don’t mind too much but I’m sure smaller guys don’t have this problem ha ha
Heres the deal, I like bigger cocks because I have often found that the smaller than average penis don’t necessarily hurt but…they are really uncomfortable poking around down there. It’s like pins an needles.
I am not going to go into detail too much about this because this is a clearly biased post.
It should really be a question of length and girth! Which in turn are two things that can make a penis bigger.
Thin cocks take a little more effort to work with. You can have all the inches in the world but if your penis is fairly thin it doesn’t do you or I any good.
NOW if you are Short in length but abundant in girth all sorts of wonders can be had.
Even better if you are long and “girthy” but honestly girth alone is more than enough sometimes it’s not the most enjoyable being both long and girthy.
As I was once told “I may not reach the back but’ll tear them sides up!” which is really where most of your pleasure is going to come from; is the girth the thickness of the penis.
Trust me it doesn’t feel good when someone reaches the end of the road down there. And as for women I am pretty sure they don’t want monstrum cocksum banging against there cervix either.
That being said yes, bigger relative to length and girth is better to short and thin (concerning mostly anal sex)
can we talk about how asian gay men are discriminated due to penis size?
As a bottom myself, I’ve had a lot (A LOT) of dicks, from small to average to large to “ohmygodwhatthehellisthat?”. The guys with larger dicks, at least in MY opinion, seem to think that their larger-than-life size entitles them to do whatever they want; they’re not apt to realize that sex is an act between TWO parties (not one). Plus, I fear that if I meet a REALLY BIG guy and get him rock hard, he’ll pass out. No thanks. For my money, the small to average guys are best. They know they have something to prove, and they’re more willing to take the other guy into account. To wit; the last small(er) guy that I had sex with had me in paroxysms of ecstasy as he fucked me outright RELENTLESSLY, but he always asked me if he was hurting me. That made it sexier, and when I came (we went on for a while), it was explosive. Yum.
Definitely big cocks. 8+ As a bottom it just feels better for me. Just my thing. I do prefer black men. Again just my thing. It just seems like my best sex has been with big black men.
How many times are we asked about our cock size when we are trying to hook up online? But no one bothers to ask if any of the other stats (including cock size) is true. I have been rejected a few times by size queens. But the majority of guys seem to like my smaller than average cock. I’m told it’s very suckable and not a choke hazard. What I don’t get is guys that say they are 50 and are actually closer to 70. This really happened to me. Athletic/Swimmer’s build? Yeah, right. I really don’t care about cock size, or body type, or age. Just be truthful about it, and let’s have some fun.
Anybody who says size doesn’t matter has never had a guy with a big hard 9+ pounding his hole ! Yes I do belive black men are better hung than most. That’s probably why I love getting with black men so much! Lol
The bigger the better 😀
As a total bottom I love big cocks, and so far I’ve never had one that was too big. I’ve definitely gone over 10 inches and had meatpoles in me as thick as a coke can.
I think I love big cocks for reasons both psychological and physical. Mentally, the idea of taking a porn star size dick is just a matter of pride — especially if I can do it in front of a group of guys. Also, like some bottoms, I love being dominated, and there’s no better way to be dominated than having a huge dick balls deep in your ass or stuffed down your throat (or better still, both at the same time!).
Physically, for me it hurts only if you don’t do it right. Obviously you have to really clean out and use lots of lube for the monster cocks. Beyond that, the top just has to move slowly at first to open you up, and gradually go deeper and deeper until the whole thing is in. Once you’re there, for me at least, there’s no pain or even discomfort (except the feeling that I have to take a piss).
But the physical pleasure is intense. I love the feeling of being totally filled up, stuffed with cock. And the thrusting and friction on the lips of my anus is amazing! Last but not least, a big cock can really massage my prostate. It’s rare, but with a good size cock I’ve been able to cum without ever touching my dick at all.
Small dicks, I’m afraid, just don’t do it for me. Anything less than 7 inches and I really won’t waste my time, unless it’s nice and thick (or unless I’m insanely horny lol).
Having said that, it’s true that there are big dicked tops who have no sexual technique, cum in 60 seconds, and are basically just rubbish in bed. But the problem isn’t their dick size, the problem is they’re just have no skills.
A final comment– I disagree with comments that say you can get permanently stretched out. I’ve been stretched out by very, very large cocks for a few days, but the muscle always snaps back. It is a good idea to do kegel exercises.
Smalls and smaller cocks feel like a dagger when it hits the back of my throat, the curvature is such that its like a battering ram down my throat ….guys built like a red bull can or bigger never hurt the back of my throat, they slide right past and down my throat…end of story…sigh …the problem arises when all the red bull can cocks and can and a half cocks also want into my ass!! No thanx. That’s one very positive thing about living in Gary Indiana. There are hundreds of big black cocks, and because of their prison time and no jobs in the area and no woman looking to date a Brooke prison scrub they get desperate. I don’t know if they learned the value of gay sex in prison or on the outside. All I do know is that I’ve never seen a small dick here and thus no painful throat!!
I am a 6’5″ man. My cock is just beautiful, a grower, not a shower, 6 to 7 inches hard, nice balls, I top and bottom, ever had a complaint….. I tend to bottom more, and I enjoy all sizes equally, It depends on the man behind the thrust…… I just like a top who wants both of us to enjoy all of it. this past Xmas I got a PA, and that has had quite a few men not willing to stop sucking me…..
To me, it’s not about the length, but the thickness of a guy’s cock. Not much into a cock over 7 inches long, but the thicker the better. Love when a guy is thrusting a very thick cock in me and I can feel my hole being stretched without mercy. It’s fantastic after a guy with a thick cock pounds my hole with no concern but his own pleasure, then, when he’s finished with me and pulls out my hole is still gaped open.
Hey there! I just recently lost my virginity as a bottom, so I guess my scope isn’t huge. Here’s my view anyway. I was super nervous as I’m sure you all were as well. He showed up to my door and I honestly nearly had a heartattack. We talked and had fun getting to know each other at first, but of course we both knew what we wanted. His dick was 11 inches and it was thick too! The man knew how to use it, and after a nice but of icebreakers foreplay, we began to consummate if you will. It was amazing, he took the time to loosen me up, so when he went to take the plunge I felt almost no pain, only friction really. It was amazing. I loved every minute. A big cock for me just fills you up so nice, and the deep penetration is just completely mesmerizing. He knew how to have sex, and he proved it! A smaller dong I feel may be able to saw in and out, but those deep feelings of complete depth that he was able to hit is unmatched I feel. There’s my two cents.
Also it was a blast to suck!
It depends on what I’m doing. I don’t get enough practice sucking cock, so I have a bad gag reflex. Therefor, I like small cocks when I’m sucking. I love the feel of a man’s ball sack hitting me in the chin. I like to feel him bottoming out in my face. When I’m getting fucked however, I like something between 7 and 8 inches. I’ve been fucked by a lot of 5.5″ penises and I can barely feel them. A 7.5″ cock stretches me and fills me up just about right.
I personally love long, thin cocks, or short, thick ones. I’ll occasionally go for a long thick one, but it’s usually one or the other