Speak Out: Top to Bottom
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Hey, guys! We have a question for Adam4Adam members who are tops, have you ever bottomed? Why or why not? For those who have, did you enjoy the experience? Did you like it enough to repeat it or maybe you realized you are a bottom all along?
Conversely, Adam4Adam members out there who are bottoms, have you ever tried topping? Why or why not? For those who did, did you love it? Do you think that topping is something that you’ll do again or maybe you realized that you are a top all along? I’ve read something along those lines in this thread . Others are adamant that no, they can never top or they can never bottom but there were plenty who at least thought about it seriously and even asked what other guys think about the matter.
On the other hand, some of the men who did try claimed it was the best thing they’ve ever done for himself and his partner. However, there were a few who said it was (their words of choice not mine) too weird, uncomfortable awkward, or ridiculous, even that their attempts have been just that: mere attempts, they were never able to go forward with it.
What about you, though? Have you been a top or bottom for the longest time and suddenly you decided to do bottom or top? How did it go for you? What made you top or bottom this time around? Or maybe you refused to switch when your partner asked you in which case, how did he react to your refusal? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below.
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I’m a top bottomed once 3 years ago to know what’s it like cause I love my ass ate, it felt good and the guy was awesome and got, never did it again cause deep down I knew I want bottom, or verse, I tried it again last week Friday when I asked a buddy of mines who is a nurse with a 8 inch thick cock to do me (thinking he would be gentle and considerate and I told him I haven’t done it in 3 years, take in mind when I went to his place I was to top him) there I was ready to give my ass phat ass to my buddy and this dude was poking my ass and I’m tight as they come and he just pushed his cock into my ass the shit hurt like a mother fucker had to have him get out my asa and asked WHAT THE HELL, he said no matter what he did I wasn’t opening up to him so he decides to push it, I was pissed but understood after all he didn’t have me over to bottom for him he had me over to fuck his Brains out and all that it took is for his sweet lips to suck me off for a minute and position his Dilf ass for me and I had him moaning in minutes his cock rock hard flipped into missionary and different position the dude came while biting the mattress and his ass clamped down on my cock and I made sure pound his ass more and cum in that condom, its not that I wouldn’t bottom again its just that the dude gatta be special and worth it and gatta eat this booty like groceries.
This is one of the reasons I’m starting to hate gay sex. Too many vers guys trying to change people’s minds about their preferences. That’s just one example. Seems like to get anywhere in the gay hookup scene you have to be “open” to anything. In other words, you have to be initiated into the cult and do whatever the master wants. That’s why so many guys have diseases now. Every damn thing is “group” based. No room for individuality in thinking or sex.
I totally agree with this.
THANK YOU!!!!!
So… it became very clear, very early in my sexual life I was a BOTTOM! I was young, had a hot ass and that’s what the guys I dated wanted. Some 20 years later, yup, I’m still a bottom, just one who will occasionally top. Sometimes ya gotta do that ya gotta do.
I couldn’t have said it better, I third that degree. I’ve always said, there’s this “sophomoric” element within the gay culture that really is like a “clique” when you’re an individual thinker.
Yeah I’ve bottomed; I can really get into it once the initial shock is over, depending on the guy. On a few occasions I was yelling in my head “cum already.” Like I said, it depends on the guy. Still prefer the top bunk!
I would love to be able to bottom, but I have the world’s tightest anal sphincter. I’m told you can tell the size of the cock you can take by the size of your stool. I’m cursed with nothing fatter than my index finger. I love being rimmed, love a finger massaging my prostate, but sorry, no, your thumb isn’t going to fit.
Luckily, my husband’s primary sex organ was his ass, so we were a great match. Ah, yes, sex. I remember it well.
I’m an easygoing guy, and as a teenager it never occurred to me to be adamant about a position.
You jump into bed, get down to business and, surprise, surprise, there are 2 hard cocks- somebody’s going to be the top, the other will bottom.
Next week it might be different with someone else. For me, it’s how good your partner makes you feel- not who is penetrating who. I learned both are fabulous with the right partner!
So, if you haven’t tried, flip! You might love learning both are great, depending on the time and circumstances.
Sometimes, when you get that hot bottom to try topping, the hysterical laughing is better than the sex!
Was always a top but one night I got talked in to being a bottom and I loved it! Felt so good being the reason the top got off. I now almost always insist on a flip. Nothing makes me harder and ready to top than just having been the bottom!
When i first started having sex i was more attracted to older guys. Being a bit of a twink at the time, I kind of fell into the bottom mode. I enjoyed being “schooled” by these men, but as i hot older i started to enjoy topping . Loved the feel od a toght whole wrapped around my dick. Now in my 50’s i find it harder to sustain a hardon long enough to pleasure us both so i have gone back tobottoming. Nothing like the feel of a big cock sliding inside me!
I’ve always been a top. A rather Doninant one. I’m 7” Long and a full 6” around. I LOVE using bottoms for my pleasure.
However here recently I was having sex with a man and his wife, a cuck couple. She asked if I’d ever bottomed and I said no. She said I should so I could experience what I’m doing to the two of them and others I Top.
She has me thinking. Perhaps I’d be a better top if I found a hung guy like me to top me. I’m seriously considering it.
Any other tops felt like this before? anyone in the Knoxville area HUNG and down to take my cherry?
V
Vince, go for it but I wouldn’t recommend hung for your first time. 6”-6.5” and not too thick is a good start.
I prefer to bottom, but have topped and did and do enjoy it. However the most intense orgasms I have ever had occurred with something hard up my ass.
Bottom here because I have a small pencil dick and can’t hold off and cum to fast plus I love being a submissive to men
By best friend and I are both tops and from time to time we bottom for each other. And?
Top here. While I have bottomed a handful of times it’s only something I’ve done while I was in a relationship, because I was in love with my bf and did anything to keep him happy. Alas, this was to no avail every time. But still, I’d still do it to keep a significant other happy. Aside from that, I get absolutely no pleasure from it AT ALL. It’s not that it’s painful or anything, it just literally does absolutely nothing for me. I’m in my mid 30s now. When I was in my teens the only reason I did it is because nobody was ever brave enough to let me fuck them in the ass because they were all scared of it. Like the previous commenter said, it’s ridiculous at how the gay community has become closed off to those of us who are either one or the other with no in between. This new generation is just ruining that. And yes that’s why everyone contracts stuff now. They want what they want and damn anyone else. It’s not that WE’RE closed minded. Most of us have determined what we like through good old fashioned trial and error experimentation. Monogamy is dying a slow death (if it’s not dead already) because of this. Hence why most of this new generation all want open relationships and/or group sex. While us old fashioned type guys that still believe in the way things used to be get left by the wayside because nobody is ever satisfied with what is or could be the perfect guy for them.
Like both depends on the person ,, mostly where I lice it’s 90% bottoms so only time I get to bottom is when I travel or meet a visitor …I knoow there’s usually more bttm in each town or city but Hawaii is the bottom capital of the US.
I have topped one man only. I don’t think being a top or a bottom is something you have to choose in order to be labeled. I believe you do what your comfortable with and who you are with. I seek men who enjoy casual no attachment sex. However I also have had my moments when I wanted to be in the driver seat and feel the joy of putting my cock inside a warm ass. Does that make me a bottom by desire? Or bottom because that’s what I do most? Or does that make me mostly vers? Confusing. I like to feel cock inside me and I like to work my love muscles.
I have always been a top, years ago gave it a try and I felt no excitement at all, it was like no pleasure was possible through my ass. So been there done that lol, no interest in bottoming again
I had always been a top until my fiance wanted to top me! Lol I loved him so much, he could do anything he wanted. He was on the small side but he would rock my world. He’s passed away and I have never again let anyone top me. I had the best and no one will ever make me feel the way he did – in or out of bed …
There is nothing hotter as a top that dominating a guy that has never been fucked. This little snip it of hole popping had me hard in the 2 seconds you see penetration. this is awesome.
joie521
I’m a Top and have bottomed a few times before about 6 years ago out of curiosity. I didn’t like it, I received no pleasure from it at all, just Pain. Fast forward to about 1 week ago, I meet this guy who I was Topping. He ask if I would bottom for him and could he rim me (he’s a vers bottom), I decided to try the bottom bunk one more time… again, no pleasure.
I can say that I am definitely a Top man! Love it, love it…. loooooooove it!!.
I’ve been a life long top but I have tried bottoming three different times in the past. It was never enjoyable, felt wrong and very awkward for me. It might have been different if I was able to extract some pleasure from it but I was never able too.
Naw, I’ll stick to topping….
I love to fuck a str8 or inexperienced “anal” gay guy watch his ecstasy face as I give it to him slow and deep with an occassional burst of aggression. I see lifes stressors melt away from his soul.
I’m a top. When I started having sex with males I was 14. So was my friend. We were both straight and this was an experimental phase for us. It lasted ten years before we settled on our sexualities and he went straight and I went bi, but I digress. We were both tops.
Opportunities to play were few and far between as we both lived at home and didn’t drive. So the first few years were mostly kept to parties when our families would be together. No one thought anything of us being off somewhere so it was easy to go to my room and play. When we got our licenses opportunities presented themselves more often. If one of us had the house to ourselves and we’re horny, wed call the other. If the other wasn’t in the mood, we’d offer our assholes as a bargaining chip. “Come on. I’ll let you fuck my ass.” That usually tipped the scales in favor of a play date.
We both hated bottoming. Especially the first time or two. But having bottomed made us better tops. As time went on we each became gentler tops and learned the value of warming up the bottom. Neither of us took to bottoming yet, however.
Fast forward to age 36. I have a new fuck buddy who is a total bottom. One lazy spring day, we were napping naked in his bed. I was big spoon. Then I separated and turned over to my other side. He followed me and became big spoon. His cock was poking around back there and I didn’t mind. He wet the head and started rubbing my hole with it. It felt nice. Then a little bit went in. Also felt nice but I warned him not to go further. But after a while of this, further he went. Finally, I broke character and told him to get a condom and lube. Next thing I know I have my ankles at my ears and he’s pounding away until I have a gloriously thick and gooey hands-free orgasm. I LOVED IT!!
Haven’t bottomed since. I’ve tried. I’ve taken tongues, fingers and even a rude boy. But the stars need to align for me to bottom. I hope they do some day because I would love to be more vets.
I used to top all the time, I tried to bottom a couple of times many, many years ago. Here lately I have been suffering ED so I switched to bottom and love it a lot.
Im a versitile bottom and i love tp bottom more than top i never thought i would but i love the feel of a msn who knows whats hes doing in me working my hole i dont mind a little pain from time to time but i love to be fucked more than fucking
I started out with men as a top and discovered what can happen when you are fucking a nice bottom and stroking his cock at the same time. When the bottom cums, blowing his load all over his chest and belly, the muscles in his ass throb and contract and gave my cock a really nice squeeze. The sensation was pretty wild.
Fast forward to years later when a lover talked me into to trying the bottom. It took a while, some patience, and his magic fingers working my ass while he sucked my cock. Finally, I was ready and taking his cock was an incredibly intense sensation. He reached down and stroked my cock and after a long slow fuck, I finally blew my load. It was then I understood the pleasure of being the bottom. Cumming with a squirmy cock in your ass is one of those moments that cannot be described.
Now I understand.
It’s great when a guy declares what he’s looking for. Top. Bottom. Saves everyone a lot of time. There’s no need to get to know a guy when it’s all just going to come down to “a pole for my hole” or “a hole for my pole” anyway.
Saves everyone a lot of time discussing kissing, licking, nipple play, frotting,
riming, hugging, facials, bondage, paddling, role playing, hooking up, friends with benefits, monogamy, pick your kink, etc.
For gay guys, it’s all about anal. The sterotypical thing.
Right?
Yep, all too often, it is…. when you’re not stereotypical, I agree with you too.
I’m a bottom. I’ve topped before but I just love having a cock inside me. I like being treated like a slut and an object.
Sometimes i want to fuck. Other times i want to get fucked. To me it all good
i have always been a bottom i guess it the fact im a real redhead..more auburn now years ago orangered i was asked once if i was real redhead….
ive tried topping twice ..recently he was younger and i mounted doggie id do it again right guy
dave
All bottom. Always have been, always will be. Knew from the get go. I tried topping twice. Lost my erection both times. The whole top/btm thing is a mental state. And my state will always be btm.