Speak Out : Hairy Real Life Tale
A recent A4A post on chest hair brought back a memory from nearly 30 years ago. True life experiences are always interesting. I am retelling this story as I remember it being told to me.
We all have the “type” that makes our head turn.
My friend, Johnson was living with me as a roommate. There was no attraction in the romantic department. Johnson was a delightful willow of a man in his very early 20s, with very sharp features and light brown hair, who had a soothing twang in his voice as he was born and raised in Tennessee, somewhere down in one of the out of the way places so common to that area. Johnson carried himself with a degree of sophistication that did not seem to equate with his upbringing.
Johnson only lived 24 years on this planet, but he did all those years with grace, charm and intensity. Johnson had a particular type of male he found attractive. Tall, husky and hairy was his preference — and when I say hairy — rug like was his inclination.
During the course of the three years Johnson and I cohabitated, it became very clear what turned him on. Intelligence was not always a factor in his dating requirements. Johnson one night at a local gay bar, met Lew. Lew was actually pretty bright in the I.Q department and fit all the rest of Johnson’s requirements — right down to the hairy everything. Lew was of good old Italian stock without a doubt.
As their new found attraction played out — a couple of weeks after they met an overnight stay was arranged. Lew came to the house to pick-up Johnson and they went to dinner and then the plans were for some extended hot tub play lubricated with champagne. Dinner went well. The arrival at Lew’s home began with a flute of champagne and strong foreplay.
As things started to get rather heated, Lew told Johnson to go hop in the hot tub and he would be along after he gets another bottle of champagne. Johnson strips and dunks himself in the churning waters of the hot tub. A couple of minutes later out comes Lew, in a monogrammed robe. He walks over to the hot tub, drops the robe and Johnson gasps. Lew has had a full body wax, the only hair he had left was on his head and arms. Everything else was gone. This was not the image Johnson had been dreaming of –and expecting to play with long into the night.
The telling of the story stopped here, as Johnson arrived back home before midnight. As far as I ever knew, there was no more interaction between them.
Lew was pretty annoyed that he went through all that pain for nothing and Johnson was miffed that the hairy man was not such!
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I think hairy men are sexy
I’m with you, Rodney! Hairy guys are damn sexy!
Hairy chests should never be shaved, trimmed what ever. It was given to you so enjoy it and let others enjoy it too! I love my hairy chest and hope others do too! Now how’s ever chest that is in the speakout, please give them my name and number I want to play with that chest, damn that is hot!!!!
I have been attracted to hairy men since a very early age. Just the sight of any hair on man always got my erection going. I would try to think what that man looked like naked i.e. thinking what the rest of him looked like, wondering if he was that hairy on the rest of his body. The picture of the hairy man in the piece was always what I dreamed of looking like when I grew up, even though today I am somewhat hairy I am nothing like him. I still find men like the picture a real turn on for me and wish more men would just leave the hair on their bodies alone. A smooth man is somewhat of a turn off for me in the at it make them look like I did when I was 13/14. Keep the hair men.
Not sure that this is completely germane to this blog, but as a 57-year-old fairly hairy-chested guy whose razor only removes my face hair every morning, to this day I just don’t understand why such a growing number of guys (mostly gay, mostly under 45) insist on shaving, trimming or waxing any/all body hair. And this comes from someone who actually prefers smooth or smoothish younger bodies, but I like them ‘au naturel.’ The rare occasions I’ve gotten in the sack with guys who shave their pubes, I’ve really been grossed out because unless they just shaved or did whatever to those areas, they get all nubby and pimply – just totally disgusts me. I know I know – guys say they like that bare feel. But it’s almost never bare – it’s just….just…not natural. Not for me! When will this fad go away, somebody please tell me…
Maybe because to some of us it’s uncomfortable and hot. Itchy at times. Nothing like waking up in the morning and having the sheets covered in back hair. Or the bath tub floor the same. Hate the year round sweater.
That’s the thing tho. Hairy guys are like “embrace it” or “I don’t see why anyone has to shave it” or whatever. Smooth guys are like “wouldn’t have it any other way”. I hate it. It sucks. I find it gross. Mainly because it’s unflattering and messy. Hate it even more when the word bear is thrown around. That word is said and I imagine some fat dude covered in hair wearing some leather contraption and jeans. Not me. Not even close.
Wear your fur proudly, my fellow bears!
Fur is what’s on bears. Hair is what’s on humans.
It sucks.
“What we have here is a failure to communicate.” Cool Hand Luke.
I want to know who that hairy chest and armpits belongs to? I would so love to play with that. Love a hairy body. Can not be to hairy for me!!
I’m a hairy guy and I HATE it. Hate it on me and don’t like it on others. My back, shoulders and chest. Ugh!!! And what pisses me off is when I get called a bear or whatever. I’m the furthest thing from that stereotype. I’m a gay dude, pretty straight acting, minus the liking dick thing, who wears shorts and tees and sandels all day. I keep my shirt on at all times, even during hook ups unless the lights are out, or until the dude takes it off for me. Beach time is ruined. Pools I wear a shirt in. I know no one cares but I do. It’s unkempt and untidy. And now I’m at that point where it’s turning grey so looks Uber gross. I know others dig it and will take offense but this is how I am. I’ve trimmed, waxed and used lotions. I’ve even tweased my arms to see if that would help.
I would love to meet the waxed guy. Smooth hairless is sooooo sexy. When I am enjoying a guys body, the last thing I want is to be pulling hairs from my teeth.
Hairy guys are my favorite
Nice read! I personally appreciate a nice manicured hairy chest…when it’s too long or looks unkept, it turns me off.
I like hairy men. That being said, not grizzly like, lol. I don’t want back hair or overly hairy, Facial hair turns me on as well as long as it isn’t a huge unmanaged beard. I do not like when men shave their entire body. It is too feminine for me. Love hairy legs!!!
I’m pretty hairy but I love smooth bodied men over hairy bodied men.
I think there is such a thing as too much hair, but generally, I find hairy men very desirable. I won’t use/refer to the term “bear” because I know, it is offensive to some men. It’s the same thing as being referred to as a basketball player just because I’m extremely tall/athletic, black; like ALL of us play b-ball, yeah, I get it
I like my hair and fortunately so do the men I go to bed with!
I am really hating this shave-it-all trend going on. I do appreciate a nice clean-shaven face, a little afternoon stubble goes a long way for me getting serviced orally, love it. But anymore you hear the term “bear” and it’s associated with hairy guys a hundred pounds overweight. Where are the studs with that perfect T-pattern I’d always jack off over as a kid? I’ve had exactly two guys with that look, that’s not even half of one percent, and one was like the third guy I’d ever messed with in a bathhouse in the early ’80’s….and what was worse was I didn’t notice the ring until after we were done. I get it when a guy is part Wookie and the hair wraps up over his shoulders and down the back. I understand when the war up top is a lost cause and the guy embraces it rather than embarrass himself with the bad comb-over. And I’ll admit that tuft on the lower back should go. But chest hair, treasure trails, deep dark mounds of pubes are what make a man a man. I’ve even grown to love hairy legs and butt crack hair. A blond guy with thick hair covering his forearms and I’m transfixed. I was born hairless, I may have all of fourteen hairs on my chest. I used to take ice cold showers as a teen reasoning I’d kickstart some dormant hairy chest gene. I’ve shaved my balls twice on request (because I really like my balls worked), but never again, itched like hell all the time and grew back in all wild and crazy. If you have good fur, leave it the hell alone, some of us are still attracted to sexually mature adults.
Hairy men RULE, have always been attracted to furry men all my life. My husband is a very hairy man and after 35 years together he still gets me standing to attention while rubbing my fingers through his chest hair. Shaving anywhere on the male body should be overruled and against the law .