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Gay Stuff: Best And Worst Big Penis Experience

For better or for worse, having sex with someone who’s hung is going to be a memorable experience.

On the plus side, there’s the fact that a huge tool is probably instrumental in some really great sexual experiences. Just ask our reader Friendsorbust, who left a comment on our story on having to bottom for the first time that talked about a guy he fucked four times last year. The guy had a “10″ cock but he knew what he was doing”. Which was to give “full body orgasms” to Friendsorbust, apparently.

In the same article, reader Gregg says he’s able to take a 9-inch cock that give him “intense pleasure”. Another reader, Ioe, says he loves to bottom “especially for a big dick.” George, who had been a top until last year, became a vers after having sex with a guy with a “thick 7.5 inches”.

Then there’s the flip side. When the dick is too big it leads to pain and literal shit, especially when the bottom hasn’t prepared adequately or the top is just inconsiderate. There’s also the fact that having a huge dick doesn’t automatically make you a better lover if you don’t know how to use it. In the first time bottoming article, for instance, reader Royalthings talks about how his partner “was so big” that he “couldn’t take his dick.”

We’d all this in mind, we’d like to ask all of you Adam4Adam readers about your best and worst experiences with big dicks. What’s the best time you’ve had with a big dick? What big dick experience would you like to forget and made you swear off bottoming? Share your stories with us in the comments section below!


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  1. Guy

    Lot of guys with big dick are aggressive, and are only out to make themselves feel good. Average dick guys really want to make sure bother people get off and do not like their dick is a magic wand you have to earn the right to touch.

    • MarvelDick

      I’ve been with plenty of average dicked guys who were aggressive and only cared about getting their own rocks off.

  2. Dwdlow bttm

    Well I’m a total bttm and for me big dicks are nice to look at, taste, play with but to have it deep in your ass is a whole other thing. Now I pride myself on being able to take dick but Im no “pwr bttm”, the biggest for me was 9.5 Military he beat the booty up so bad that I had to be on bed rest for week! But for me the perfect fit is 7 or 7.5..anything bigger is just uncomfortable.

    • unagrad27

      I would LOVE to meet a real Military guy preferably a Marine especially on that big. I would love to get in tough with that Military guy!!

    • nemiss25

      I would love to find a Military guy that big to work me over. Where is he and how do I get in touch? LOL

  3. sexdad

    I love a big dick, some guys know how to use it others dont. Tip…Ramming it balls deep at the start is not using it correctly.

  4. TOMmyyboy12

    I Hook up with this guy occasionally. Fit ginger with a 8.5 thick cock.
    The first time we hooked up, I was nervous. He helped me calm down and take it all the way down My throat patiently. Then, he fucked me.
    Now, usually, I go slow, take a bit at a time and get used to it. I thought that’s what he was going to do: no. He shoved the whole thing in, let it sit for a couple seconds and pulled it right back out. Mi thought I was going to die lol
    BUT he knew what he was doing and I was able to take it no problem after that.
    Now, he puts me in a sling and smashes the hell out of me.

    Also, bought a dildo same size. Can’t take it. Only his lol
    You have to know how to use it

  5. mike

    I’m like how a big cocktail looks but I love a normal cock because the guy tries him best to please big cock guys most of them don’t care about the bottom just pounding

  6. Newbe7

    My first experience was with a guy much older. His cock was close to 9″ and thick. It was delicious and I sucked it until my jaw muscles were sore. I loved every minute of it. He then asked if I was interested in anal. I was terrified and declined. I wish now that I had gone for it because I haven’t seen anyone with such a nice one since. As a bottom, I enjoy how each cock feels different inside me, and I have learned to relax now to the point where I would like to have someone that big come along again.

  7. Mark

    I’ve had a 9″ cock, but it was on the “thinner” side. The best I’ve had is an 8 1/2″, thick as hell. He didn’t stop until he had 3 loads deep inside me. Best night I ever had.

  8. Soapy

    Best sex I’ve ever had was 6.5″. Second best was 10.5″.

    You don’t eat Twinkies™ for the cake, you eat them for the creamy filling!

  9. Jack

    In my experience, big dicks are a much more pleasurable fuck. Purely medical! Guys with big dicks don’t get as hard. Some Guys with average dicks can pound Nails with their cocks cause the get so hard. It a blood flow thing. The bigger the dick the less hard because, let’s face it, theys pass out from lack of blood to the other head! So Gus with 8 Or more have this nice slab of meat that isn’t going to stab you when they fuck you. Just fills your hole fully and is hard enough to hit all the good spots. That not to say that guys with average size dicks are bad fucks. If they know what they’re doing they can be pretty amazing too. I just love that feeling of being stuffed with a big sausage !!

  10. Jamie

    I’ve had two instances of too big. One was painful, the other fun. The first guy wasn’t so much hung, 5″ actually, but was thick. Too thick for me to take no matter how gentle he was.
    The second guy was hung. At least 8″ and 2″ across. This guy I just blew. All that surface area was in my mouth. Mmm. Practice my deepthroat​ with him.

  11. Sean

    if your really into a guy the dick size is really unimportant. I have been fucked by 3″ and 10″ and both felt equally as good. I was really into both but did have a little trouble taking the latter. The little guy I dated for over 3 years, he was exceptional and knew how to use what he had, plus he also gave up his awesome str8 ass.

  12. brightred123

    For the most part, I’ve had memorable experiences with monster cocks. The worst I could say is that my butt hole muscles were sore for a few days after being fucked by a very thick cock. However, I agree with a lot of guys here.. an average cock (6-7.5??) fits very nicely and usually feels good inside my ass and mouth. The WORST.. most damaging fuck I ever had was with a guy with a tiny dick. After he fucked me, my butt was bleeding and sore.. I had to go to my doc to get the cuts treated. He told me that often.. because a tiny dick is.. well.. so tiny.. it gets much harder than a bigger cock…so that, in essence, it’s like getting fucked by sharpened pencil.

  13. CrazyEddie

    Among my many big dick encounters, my favorite involved a dark room in a sex club. When I entered the room, I saw a shadowy figure on a sofa. After sitting down next to him and reaching for his dick, I discovered a long, hard cock that I sucked and swallowed and sucked and swallowed for at least a half hour until he shot a big load down my throat. In the next few months, I occasionally ran into him again and loved teasing and milking that beautiful dick over and over again!

    Other episodes at that same club included two hung men who fucked me so hard and deep that I shot big loads without touching my dick.

    Ah! Those were the days!

  14. Kev

    The first time I had anal was with a 9.5 thick guy I met at a bar.
    I never meant to be a top or botom., now its 8+ that I seek. I was turned on when he told me his size, never beleived him until he undid his pants. I said, let me suck it, before you know it he was rimming me, but Once Im rimmed, its like a spell on me. I took it all and all night.

  15. john

    My biggest was 9in. kinda thick. Hurt a little at first but then it felt good, the only problem was that he did not last long and shot his load in less then two minutes. I would like it a little longer. He did kiss me after he came inside me.

  16. j.ty

    The beginning of my profile starts as such:

    “For my first gay sex experience, I was the top. For about a whole year after, I was a (power) bottom. In my experience, I quickly found out that SIZE DOES NOT MATTER. I’ve had big dicked guys that were terrible, and small dicked guys that were great!”

    The best big dick was a guys who kissed and caressed me, played with positions and speeds. The worst, a one pace, one position guy. I think of all dicks like this song: “it don’t mean a thing if it ain’t got that swing”

  17. Mark W

    He had 13″ and thought he was all that, he thought the Dick was all that was needed, no talent, no stress or strain, just his dick… Swinging Meat doesn’t trump a complete asshole… So I flipped him and listened to him scream about taking my Fat 7″ of which I knew HOW to Use, unlike his Perfect 13″… Dicks are a dime a dozen, but an informed user is worth 1 in 100,000,000….

  18. Mr V

    I find most guys with large dick lack skills and intimacy,most try to fuck like they are in a cheap porn movie,yet I have had guys with med to small dicks with skills and passion that the large dick mofo’s lack

  19. Boi_Pussy4u

    Honestly, I love being fucked by both small and large dicks. It’s all about the way a man use his dick. Although, a man with a big dick can reach deep into my boi_pussy. I’m more likely to have a full body orgasm with a big dick man. I just love dick whether it’s big or small. I love being fucked by a man.

  20. Moiko

    I prefer to suck on and jerk off a nice thick cock. Taking it up the ASS is a struggle since I don’t have sex often and I’m very tight.
    I’ve had the experience of being so relaxed I took a big one with ease and pleasure and others times when I get ripped and feel sore for days. It’s all up to how the top uses his tool and how well you communicate your feelings.

  21. ARMYDAD

    Syracuse NY 1982, I was 17 (looked 21) and I had to pick up my sister who was working late & missed her car pool. I left an hour early to check out Boulevard Books for the FIRST TIME.

    I walked into the video booths in the back. There was a hideous queen back there, I think she thinks she owns the place and a few booths with lights on. I went into one, dropped some tokens and I heard the door close next door. Next thing I know I see two black fingers swirl around the glory hole. I bent down and looked, it was the queen. I left the booth.

    I checked the list of videos and saw a Brawny look a like step out of a private booth and into one with a glory hole. I beat the queen to the adjoining booth.

    I decided to mimic the queen and swirled my fingers in the hole. LAWDY LAWDY! Here comes this cock as big as my fist and wrist coming through the hole (like the one pictured at the beginning of this article) and it scared me. I threw open the door and left.

    Today I would mount it like I did the Marine in Annabelle’s Bookstore in Winston-Salem NC, but that’s another story.

  22. Robert P.

    The biggest I’ve ever had was 13″. We met when I was 18 or 19. We fooled around off and on for about 2 years. I still wish he lived in Richmond Va so I could stop by for a quickie on my way to visit family in NC. Great memories. I still like them big but I will never throw a guy out of bed for having less.

  23. sndydunedog

    The 1st time i experienced a big cock i thought OMG ,the head of his cock was the size of at the end of a small perrier btl , but since I’ve learned to swallow and take a Hot passionate fucking and love it , 9 + yum yum yum , Small cocks poke hurt

  24. Neal

    The perfect size for me is a thick 8.5 inches. But I often go for bigger, just for the challenge. As long as a guy isn’t tryna nc to mangle my innards, I can take them big. There was a younger guy with 12″ (and it really was) who could give it to me so it caused no problems, but I’ve had problems with smaller than that because the guy attached to the cock thought he had a jackhammer in his grip. But I do love a big, hard cock!

  25. Mexverpas

    I agreed with DWDLOWBOTTM. Years ago when I started going out I met a Black guy with a 10.5 dick. I was never expected to do well, but it seem that top guys with big dicks they only concern anout their own pleasure not what the bottom is feeling. With time I learned that dick size doesn’t really matter, what it matters is that my man is able to take to heaven. I enjoyed big dick don’t get me wrong, but small ones are good too.

  26. Mexverpas

    My best experience was with a 7 inch dick. That guy took almost one hour to eyaculate…man, it was the most pleasureable moment of my life because I came without j.o. my own dick.

  27. dignme14

    My first experience was with a guy who was a grower not a shower and he grew to 11″ and it was heaven however I didn’t learn what an orgasms was until I was with my fb that was a 9 but I still never achieved hands-free ejaculatory ecstasy until I had an 8/8.5!!!! Let’s just say the sheets was soaked and I hadn’t touched myself at all and no it wasn’t from golden fluids either. Amazing!! I tend to like bigger but it really is subjective and how the top knows how to sex albeit big or small thick or thin. All can give pleasure so long as he knows how to Work the middle. Although #Ipreferbiggerthan8

  28. andy

    I do like big, but not so big to be a discomfert! My time that was on the boarder liked it and also dont want it again,Still thinking on that one! It was back a good 10 to 12 years ago, i was at a bathhouse and as most bttm, to vers bttm do they leave there room door open just a bit, i did so but i did fall asleep, honest, from a rough night before hand and of course i was layying there for a few hours! all of the sudden i felt hands,half sleep half awake,, the hands proceed’ed to hold me down so i could not look up, or move legs and arms were held down to bed tight,turns out there was two buddys i guess, one held me down while the other proceeded to drive it it almost all the way and it was no mercy type, he fucked me for seemed 20 to 30 min, it was very long and very think, When he was done, he held me down while his buddy did me,,not much more mercyful either then first, his bud fucked me for almost as long, the two were in my room a good hour or more,it got to the point where they rolled up my undies and stuck it in my mouth as each held me down. As they got done it was able to look at them, two guy in 20s or so and no lie, first one was 11 in or so, wrist thick, his bud was not much smaller 10 inch it looked and little bit not as thick, aftersome time it started feeling pretty good after the pain eazed up, the first guy was so thick,beside being in alot of pain,i did bleed alittle,it stopped after awhile,so im tossed between wanting that big,but i still remember the pain!

  29. Tabias

    I’ve hooked up with guys of many different sizes I’ve had 3 guys 9+ inches all three were pretty bad one was 10 inches and about as thick as a coke can fun to play with but he didn’t last long. A guy who was 8.5 n thick was by far the best I’ve ever had he hit all the spots n took his time. He clearly knew what he was doing

  30. Greg

    A huge cock is hot to look at, fantasize about and play with, but if he wants to fuck me deep around 8 to 9 and thick is perfect for me

  31. John R

    After bottoming a couple thousand times, I’d sum it up by saying it’s not how big it is, it’s how hard it is. A nice fat knob is nice too. For regular use, anything over about 8″ is just too much work in being clean. And not always, but too often, getting and staying hard can be difficult for a big one. My favorite still is the hard 7″ who could unload multiples. 52 times in one weekend with me was very impressive. I didn’t think it possible.

  32. Ed

    Who does the measuring? I have been with about 50 guys and have only seen one that was truly 8 inches (my palm is 4″ across). Most are in the 5 to 6 inch range. I had one guy tell me his was 9 and I had it in my hand and I saw 7 at most. I really want to try a big one but have no idea where to look. Bigger may not be better but it has been so far.

  33. Goldenloverinmym

    I have had 4″-8.5″ . Prefer 7+ for a truly great experience. I had a 5″ I thought he was killing me. The 8.5″ took his time foreplay etc. When he got balls deep it was great.. it’s not the size it how the man uses what he has. Have played with some huge toys. My 12″ dbl dildo is thin it’s no problem to make it disappear

  34. Tom

    I am a total bottom and love to get pounded HARD!! I have only had one guy that made me cum when he was fucking me. He was a real young guy in his early 20s with a thick 6.5″ dick. He hit just the right spots and made me shoot rooes of cum!

    That being said…I had a fuck buddy that had a 9.5″ dick that I loved to feel inside me. I used to suck him to get him hard and then bend over & grab my ankles as he pounded me deep and hard!! He never got me off but I loved feeling him shoot his load deep inside of me!

  35. Chris

    Had a guy fuck me who said he was about 7. But when i showed up and he pulled it out. Ended up being about 9. It was the most incredible fuck I’ve had in a long time. He shot a strong and hot load deep in me.

  36. ME623

    The biggest I’ve had was 12. It was good, wasn’t as painful as I thought it would be. He told me to relax, and he took his time. Very good experience. I also had a guy with 8 and I was sore for 2 days. I also had a guy with 8 and couldn’t fuck to save his life, after a few pumps, I told him to get the fuck off me. I believe if a person has a big or small dick, if he can fuck it can be enjoyable.

  37. FRED

    HAVE A BIG DICK CONSTANTLY, I LOVE IT. 9 INCHES. I PUT IT IN FIRST.THEN HE MOVED SLOW THEN VARIED. SOMETIMES HE COME INSIDE. SOMETIMES HE DOESN’T. IT FEELS GREAT. HUGE BALLS ALSO.

  38. Jon

    Omg, reading this kinda made me ill…as an barely average guy I’m scared to be rejected and with all the talk of large Dickson I realize how small and undesirable I am…I feel it a curse to have a small dick and simple want to be looked st with some kind of dignity, but alas there is none for me.

    • Doug

      Hey man don’t let some of thensize queens make you feel bad I have topped men and women I have 6.5 inches never been kicked out of bed can make both sexes cum without touching themselves it comes down to how you please them treat them great in bed and their eyes roll back and curl their toes and call you daddy and they don’t have to wear a depends!!

  39. NitroSuperdave

    I’ve had my experiences with guys with big cocks before.As a gay black versatile bttm with an average sized dick who wants to make myself and my partner feel good.Str8 and gay guys rejected me because their dicks were larger than mine and the fact is that they ONLY want one- night stands before moving on to the next person.White bisexual guys only want to be with white people just because of the preference with white people or just because they keep their family and friends happy.Then there are hustlers who only care about themselves making money off a blowjob or quick fuck which is an automatic turn- off for myself.

  40. Thad

    I was in Kingston, Jamaica, for five nights in February. I had 15 guys over to fuck me in those five nights, and those guys all had 8 to 11 inches. Love those big black Jamaican dicks! And the guys were all nice young men, too!

  41. JJ

    The first time me taking a big Dick when I was very young felt natural no pain not till I got older he was a 12inches he didn’t know what he was doing he fuck like a jackhammer I had him to stop and I told him I see why nobody want to hookup with you

  42. BetterOptions

    If you love wearing depends in your old age, keep messing with them large ones. Those are the types of people who go from normal dicks to big dicks to huge dildos to taking some guys arm and still arent satisfied.

    That aside, i did have one bf long ago who was HUGE, but he was very patient and gentle. He was about 9″ long and thick as a beer can, the type you can hold and your hand can only make a “C” shape because its too thick to fully wrap around it. The most I had ever taken was up to 6″ and very average thickness. It felt good, but even with a ton of lube i would be sore for a week to two weeks. Eventually I had to break up with him and he was a little disappointed but understood because everyone would do the same. Everyone fantasizes about taking a huge dick but when it comes down to it they either cant take him or get punished once and never call him again.

    Big dicks are fun to look at, maybe jerk and suck off, bit as far as getting fucked I’ll leave that to the loose hole power bottoms.

    • Little Clittie Dick

      Really….want to spread some old wives tails about big dicks n old men with loose holes.

      Have to ask? How many do you know?

      Remember size does matter, otherwise why all the replies to this topic.

  43. bowlerbro

    i ‘ve always been fascinated with big dicks..my biggest was 11 inches and thick dude had my screaming like a little girl,but he would’nt pull out.. he just let me get use to it and it became some of the best bottoming i’ve ever had

  44. Ross

    I find it dumb. That everyone is always interested in the length when ascertaining size. But not the girth as much. I can take any size girth. However, length can be a problem when it’s too long. Little dicks hurt. As the anus is stimulated by being stretched and filled up.

  45. drainer

    my first “big cock” 7.5″ was quite easy…had a relationship with a guy for some time and decided to just fuck…very enjoyable..held his balls while he pumped his cum (protected) into me..

  46. MN5500

    Long story short, met up with a guy about 7 years after we graduated from high school. Never was interested in him back then, but after high school be joined the Marines and came back a few years later and was dating a gay friend of mine. I was actually interested in his bf at first, but they broke up and I was all over my buddy the very next day. He was interested in me too but thought i was just playing coy with him. I told him I would take him right now. We were driving, so I pulled my shorts down to his surprise and showed off my tool (I say its average length, but thicker than average). He did the same, already hard too. His cock was nicely shaped and thick with a thick bush of hair. After playing with each other in the car, we went straight back to his place and stripped in the living room, never got to the bed. I had my ass up for him, he went for it and bred me after a hard fuck. That was the first time I ever came without touching my dick, his nice thick marine thick cock pounding my prostate while I laid on my stomach. Then i suddemly felt the tension in my nuts and bam, I shot a huge load and soaked the sheets never touching my cock. Now I am hooked on military guys 100%. Left my load in another one last last summer, acted like he’d done it 1000 times. Let me rim him for a good long time, I spread his ass wide and tasted it. Could do it for hours. His light blonde ass hair, and then sucked his cock till he was begging me to drill his ass hard. Only took a couple minutes and my balls tigthened up and I blasted my load up his ass. Afterwards he said he was married but loves taking cocks and loads in his ass. Then he grabbed my head and forced his cock all the way down my throat him off till he came. I swallowed drop of his sweet baby juice. Just guessing he spent most of Marine Corp stint on his back. But its all good. If you were/are in the military, look me up!

  47. ken

    I havnt had a big dick yet as 7 is too much for me but i will say i love those short fat dicks havnt had a fat one to thick yet. bring on the girth!!!!!

  48. David

    Biggest I had was 8 and he didn’t know what to do with it. He just jabbed away and I had to tell him to stop. I’m currently fucking a guy with a nice 6 and he fucks me perfect. All my best fucks have been with guys who had 6-7 inch cocks. I do have a fb who has a fat 7.5 incher but I only exchange bjs with him since he’s a bottom like me.

  49. Sean

    I was top only for years. The thought of taking any dick scared me as even when I had tried even the tiniest dildo it jut plain hurt. Boy was I missing out. So glad to be vers now. And Yes- do prefer bigger dicks now- in general. One of the best experiences I ever had was this hot porn star in NYC. I met him the first time 4 years ago- and I still look forward to my trips to the city to play with his big 10.5 incher. He is relatively short like 5’6 but what an amazing dick. He was vers and knew I was scared so he was truly gentle and accommodating. When he finally had all 10.5 in me I was so amazed. He took it gentle at first, and then when I was ready really started hitting my prostate. I came so hard I hit his headboard. He really seemed to be hot by my tight ass, as he insisted on me fucking him right after to get me hard again, then he fucked me again. SO hot repeating hooking up with him a few times a year- He is SUCH a good sex partner.

  50. zulua

    So are we just gonna ignore the huge grown man head dwarfing monstercock in the pic above this article? Is it shopped? I dont care i got some fapping to do regardless. 🙂

  51. BTTM

    I’m a bttm all the way and pride myself on being able to take big cock and there was this guy Mexican guy at this “party” I was at who had a 13” cock that had to be as thick as my forearm and he himself was big like 6’9 and looked so intimidating but it turned out he was real gentle and at first then he really gave it to me and lemme say wow what a hell of a load this guy had it seems to be a common factor with most big cock guys.

  52. Brad

    Hey I love a big dick as much as the next guy..erotic, enticing, great to look at and touch., a total turn on. They can also be a considerable challenge for oral or anal. I prefer longer and thiner for oral ( they seem to allow me better control of gag reflex) and shorter but fatter for anal (girth is more filling and till hits the prostate.


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