Pornstars : Kayden Gray Says He’s More Than His Dick
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When your dick is a big part of how you make your living, it’s difficult for other people to see you as anything else but that. But gay porn star Kayden Gray is calling on his fans to see him as more than just his member in a two-minute video he shared on his Twitter.
Captioned “More than a dick”, the video starts with Gray talking about how he’s “obsessed” with sharing his life to his followers, but there’s been something that’s been bothering him for a while. Apparently, even when he tweets stuff not related to his work as a porn star, all he gets are replies that go “Daddy” or “Fuck me”.
While he clarifies that he’s not complaining about the attention he gets, he does stress that even before he became a part of the porn industry, he understood that porn stars are people too.
“I understood that they are people with lives and personalities and complexities that goes way beyond the sexual aspect,” he reveals. “So I am just a little bit disappointed that when I share the parts of my life that are meaningful, a lot of people can do no better than to reduce all of that – all of me – to sex.”
Watch the Twitter video below
More than a dick pic.twitter.com/3jGITGIVtn
— Kayden Gray (@KaydenGrayXXX) March 21, 2017
Adam4Adam readers, are you able to see the person behind the porn star when you’re watching porn? What do you think of Kayden Gray’s video? Share your thoughts with us in the comments section below!
So if the brah has only his dick to offer and does not demonstrate any other ability which requires intellectual or neurological stimulation what else does he think he’ll get I mean come on dude looks smart but I guess Aristophanes said it best:
“Youth ages, immaturity is outgrown, ignorance can be educated, and drunkenness sobered, but STUPID lasts forever.”
I love porn, but these men sign on as sex objects as soon as they do their first movie. Hey porn stars, want us to “see past your dick”? Make a major motion picture and win an Oscar. We’ll notice!
Never heard of him….
Okay how can I take someone so serious when the first words that come out of your mouth is ….”hey bitches….” So boo hoo, just smile and look pretty! Oh and Daddy!!! Lol
I can understand his frustrations. It must be multiplied for him. Coming onto a site like a4a, or any sites where chat is available, it is nearly impossible to have a serious or significant conversation with someone. it all reverts to sex.
Of course, Kayden is so much more than just his looks and dick(as we all are). However, in the end, he is getting paid for those looks and what he can do with that dick…pure and simple. If he wants people to see him as any thing different, then he should examine other vocational venues or, at least change his expectations.
Who cares
Just like I don’t care about what actors in Hollywood think. Their job is to act.
Get a life
So let me get this right … This guy is so self-absorbed that he believes all of his wonderful qualities are important to consumers who pay him to get naked and engage in pretend sex so they can derive shallow sexual pleasure from his performances? And then he has the nerve to be offended when his audience isn’t interested in who he is as a whole person? Geez, if the guy wants to be taken seriously, maybe he should have chosen – I don’t know – any job besides one in the porn industry. Yep, he is a dick!
Get over it. Thousands of people only know u from your porn and all that they know about u is your great cock.
Dude – you make your living with your cock and frankly I don’t see you flying the Space Shuttle , Winning a Super Bowl or curing the next disease – so why be shocked that people think of you as a body attached to an amazing porn star cock. Want to be seen as anything ELSE – then write a book, invent something, win a sports championship – otherwise better hope those erections never fail ya……
When watching porn, my mind is not on the “man behind the action” as a person. That is not why we watch porn. However, having met many porn performers when they were not..working..I have found mant to be funny, entertaininhg and engaging. There are, of course, a few bad apples, but thats just life. We all need to make a living, some just seem to have better jobs…but looks can be deceiving. I hope Kayden finds the repect he desires to go with the adoration he already gets.
Never heard of him.
Honestly, I don’t feel sorry for him. That’s the industry. You know what to expect when you sign up for it. You can’t expect to work and subject yourself as a sex object to millions of people, and then pout when they don’t see you beyond your skin as something more. If you don’t want to be seen and treated like a sex object, then don’t continue to market yourself to the world as one. You abuse your self image by getting fucked on camera for a living for everyone to watch and then cry because nobody will see you for more? Comical. Leave the industry. Get a real job and stop complaining. But Once you start porn, it’s hard to recover from that image. I’ve seen so many kids ruin their “real” lives because their “experimental” porn life is on the internet for everyone to see from here on out. They will always be known as doing porn before anything else. And will never have a good job because no decent non porn business will want you to represent them.
He seems like a genuinely sweet and intelligent guy. I feel kind of bad for him and I understand exactly what he’s saying. People never get to know another person past what they look like or what they think that person can do for them though unfortunately. I had a boyfriend for like 9 years and I don’t think at the end of the day he could have even told me what my favorite color was and NEVER knew what to get me for Xmas or birthday (which he would invariably confuse with his cousins whose b-day was like 10 days after mine) and ended up getting things he liked for ‘me’ or jsut gave me gift cards to places I don’t even shop, but he sure knew when I got paid.
I’m sorry Kayden! 🙁 Get used to it though.
“I’m more than a dick,” says the guy who only talks about porn, sex, and working out.
What about all the fat femme guys who aren’t even noticed?
It’s a shame that these kinds of fans are out there. They truly were not blessed with the good common sense that God gave us. If that were false, they know the blatant line/difference between the person being both a player within the Adult Industry and them being an individual outside of that – you know; their family and friends, work (if they have another job), school (if they’re still attending or returning, of and just basic life as we travel it’s vast, scary, wonderful and yet nurturing road(s).
Point is, you should have the mental capabilty to see, understand and acknowledge the difference between their real life and their porn life. I mean its not a hard task to acomplish. Know when to say something and when not to say something and always take the consideration of another into play when you deal your cards (One of Life’s many lessons, my mom taught me – I think, lol).
In the end, a little respect will make a huge difference. And as for you many…. you overtly sexually, horny for porn c*ck fiending, hormone bullied folks whom for whatever reason seem to not be able to control your impulsive traps just because you feel it’s your given right to say anything ya deem fit no matter that consequences – calmate por favor!
Oh, and as someone that not only has met and been in the company of a good some porn stars – I definitely simpathize and understand where Kayden Gray is coming from (plus a few many of them happen to be good friends of mine).
I hope that didn’t come out weirder than what it sounded like in my head.
Kayden, watched your video here and got your point … Solution? Just stop showing your dick altogether and we’ll stop watching and bothering you about it any longer. How about that? Might be a bit frustrating though when the bills come due, huh? Yeah, point taken. But think about mine here. Just cover up your dick from here on out and never show it again if you think that’s all we think of you. Believe me, we’ll find someone to take your place. :-/
Omg, im sorry but this is stupid. You do porn. You portray yourself as an object. Get a real job if you want to be taken seriously.
Depends on the model. If the ONLY time/place I see them is when they’re having sex on camera, then I tend to really only see them as a sex object. If they’re active on social media (And not just tweeting/retweeting videos and pics from their scenes), then it allows to get to know them beyond just a sex object
Yeah, he’s more than a dick, he’s a prostitute, a fool, an egomaniac. The best porn stars are the anonymous ones who know their proper place in the world. On their knees. If you value yourself, you don’t go into porn.
But the gay community would cry a flood, if there were not hot gay guys willing to sexually perform for them in porn
whiny cry baby.
Blah, blah, blah. Show us your dick.
Go Trump!!! Oh wait wrong room! What are we talking about…..? Oh yeah, I’m called a bitch by a bro with a tad bit of a falsetto voice and I am supposed to care about what are we talking about? Really? Oh the comedy!! “Sup’ bitches…..” I wish I could do porn…..sigh…..(
Marilyn Monroe wanted to be more than just a sex goddess too. But, well, she marketed herself that way and wound up unhappy but only AFTER she got achieved everything she wanted with that marketing. When the marketing fails, the human reality sets in. What a shock. And, here, another one bites the dust or, more likely, this is just another clever form of marketing now that the “stud muffin” image is fading and career re-tooling is needed.
Frankly, I never heard of him but, then, I’m not obsessed with porn and their member stars.
B O R I N G.
No. You’re just meat for us to use for our pleasure. You made that choice when you entered the industry. If you don’t want to be seen as just meat, then leave the industry and doing something positive with the money you earned. Go to school. Get an education. Start a business. Be philanthropic. Something. All talk and no action. What’s to be pitied for selling his body. Gtfo.
“Adam4Adam readers, are you able to see the person behind the porn star when you’re watching porn?”
When watching a video where a guy is ramming his cock up another guy’s ass, who doesn’t think “I wonder what he does in his spare time. Does he donate time at the local food bank? Does he collect anything?”
boo hoo wish i could make his kind of $$$$ just doing my real job. never heard of him anyway now ANTONIO BIAGGI is a porn star i’d do anything for or with
Never heard of him..nice cock tho
People now a days are so shallow that they fail to see the beauty within anything. Yes he’s a porn star but he’s STILL A HUMAN. How would you feel if people only saw you for one thing and only that one thing? I would date anyone despite the job they have because at the end of the day, everybody deserves to be loved for who they are, not what they are or do.
No human being should be disrespected. However, making a living with your dick and then playing the victim of your own actions either makes you an idiot, a narcissist, or both most likely.