Watch This : This Video Will Make You Cry!
This beautiful video was filmed in Escondido, CA on September 20th 2014 during the wedding of Jimmy and Jonathan! The images are beautiful and very touching. I always cry when I watch this kind of video and this one wasn’t the exception, I cried my eyes out! I never know why these videos always have this effect on me. Am I sad of being single? Am I envious of their happiness? Do I wish this would happen to me? I think it is a little bit of everything.
Watch it and let me know your thoughts! It is always nice to dream…
Dave
Now that several states allow gay marriage, I’ll be watching to see if the media tracks and reports the divorce rate for gay couples. I’ll be interested in seeing how it compares to str8 couples.
Great! Made me cry too Dave. Nice looking couple and so nice to have so many friends and family there. A little bit of tradition was heart warming. Thanks for sharing.
Very sweet. Have you seen this one too? This one really brought tears to my eyes. https://vimeo.com/122224180
VIDEO OF JIMMY AND JOHN MADE ME CRY AS WELL LIKE ALL VIDEO OF WEDDINGS IT WAS BEAUTIFUL HOPEFULLY ONEDAY IT WOULD BE ME GET MARRY TO THE LOVE OF MY LIFE. DAVID
Two fags getting hitched. Big whoop.
It was beautiful and I think it was both for me too happy and sad yes we can always dream.
The video didnt make me want to cry, it made me smile that these two made it. In a world where noting seems to be forever it was awesome to see these two. I have been single for over 15 years and hate it. As my profile says, gay men are partnered, eternally single, or chasing guys one half to one third their age. Add to that the partnered ones who cheat non stop. We have progressed into a world, where sadly, we seemed to have stopped dating and getting to know one another. The “gay handshake” per say tho is alive and well….. you know, sex with someone first to see if they are worth knowing past an orgasm.
We dont take the time to get to know people anymore, the internet has ruined dating. People used to go out to meet people, now its all behind the laptop. Men cannot take the time to get away from the keyboard to socialize. Its sad that men do not interact and when they do, they bat so far out of their ballpark its laughable. The typical profile always looking for someone who could upstage a Chippendale dancer.
What happened to realism?? I see the same guys on line that I did 15 years ago still looking for the same thing, the “Adonis” hookup. Guess what boys?? We are ALL getting older and the age gap is widening every day. What is it with gay men who are so afraid to give someone the chance, to take it past the profile pics. One day we are all going to wake up for the last time alone and wonder…. where did all the time go?? How did I get here?? When did I get old?? It all happened while sitting behind the keyboard instead of getting out of the house and giving someone a chance………
Holy crap batman! this site bills itself as the “largest hook up” site and then you cry when 2 hot guys make a commitment like real people in adult relationship do? I dont get it. Im not soap boxing you but if you wanted that you would do everything in your power to make it happen! There are real guys out there that want a powerful relationship. obviously that’s not what your selling here. its not a dream..its real life. sorry to be such a bitch about it..but damn guy…make it happen if you want it…lifes short! 🙂
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Very touching and nice to see two people so in love.
This was great. Love the little dog. Also, I like the fact they used greenery, instead of flowers. A good masculine choice. Best Wishes!
2 of the luckiest guys. congratulations men
OMG!!! That was so beautiful. I loved the video……made me cry also and……and wish it was me getting married to my lover. Oh well i hope some day soon…….before i die.
Thank you for posting the video.
Definitely envy! I love the powerful message of commitment. I can’t help but wonder where I would be if my ex was strong enough to realize that not every day is sunshine and rose blooms but if you wait out the storms beautiful days are ahead! I’m definitely envious!
Very nice video. I am very happy for people like this, as they can live their own life and dreams. I am from a small town, with family, business and all have ended up staying. Many nights, I would be thrilled to have somebody to talk to much less spend time together. I really wish them all the happiness and others like them.
Didn’t make me cry,
Really felt no feelings towards this your thoughts guys?
That was a beautiful video. We all have that need, that want to be with someone else.to come home to a husband who asks us “how was your day?” The Important thing is to remember, these to beautiful men have found one another. We should love ourselves, truly love who we are. Then, it all falls into place. Much love to you.❤️
It’s a sweet video. But it’s actually great camera work that showcases “their” perfect day. That company SweetCinema seems to have a great crew to get it done… ;0)
Make me cry? Hardly. To me, this slickly produced video looks like a commercial for a bank or an insurance company.
Geez when did a4a turn into eHarmony?
Beautyful. Thanks for sharing. Speachless.
wish I could find a guy. Made me cry to Dave
Congrats to them both! Best wishes for the future.
My thought (hey you asked) … It was not “touching” for me. Just not something I could relate to. Two picture perfect perfectly primped and primmed guys in a movie-like setting with a large supporting cast just doesn’t hit home. Not reality or even close. Not something therefore that hits me emotionally. It’s like porn (better, of course, but still like it) … unreal guys in unreal settings doing unreal things.
I’m glad to have real buds that I care about and have real feelings for, a couple of them more than the others. Marriage, however, isn’t a direction any of us seem to be heading.
So, great for the two guys! Really! And great for anyone who finds that clips of other peoples’ lives brighten or bring meaning to their day.
Visually pretty shot video. That’s it. No tears.
@ Rail_Man – Amen.
Is there any website that is solely dedicated to men who wish to do the old and seemingly out of fashioned ‘get to know you and go out on a date first’ out there?
I like A4A allot but i would really like to date and also be a part of that kind of specific website.
Please don’t be upset by the question Dave. No disrespect intended.
wait did i miss the part i was supposed to cry…. nuts
Well said Rail man, sure lot of negative haters here. I suppose they are the strong ones and have no love for anyone but themselves. Well, good luck to them.
Nice video. I wish i had the money to make a beautiful wedding like this to my babe.
Cry? No. Beautiful video though. This first generation of same-sex marriage will be full of more downs than ups. We weren’t raised with a mindset of getting married and will make more mistakes along the way. However, future generations of gays and lesbians will know from an early age that they can love and have the right to marry. Good luck to everyone that “jumps over the broom”.
I hardly know where to start with this comment. Yes, loved the video, nice to see groom and groom getting married, shows how far we’ve come, it’s well produced and all that. Some very thoughtful comments, though. Yes, partners in gay relationships cheat on each other…Sounds like gay couples have problems just like our hetero. counterparts.
Very much a beautiful video. Thank you for sharing … but I have a lot of the same thoughts from the other comments. It brings mixed emotions and all because I think it is something all of us dream about. I’m a bit different in I’ve been married and had that fairy tale wedding … it was just with a women of 17 years and have no regrets but I’m now looking for that dream to happen with a guy… but only to find myself at a cross road to that dream with somewhat of a wall up … I have now found myself wanting that dream and fighting for a dream to live and not die due to being HIV poz. Guys think its hard to just have the first dream … try wanting both with someone who will love u unconditionally through all of that … it so much harder… I would say to those that can achieve that without having any other obstacles to stop making it so hard and be open to love and finding it let us as a community get back to the basics of what it takes to have a relationship and get away from wanting it from behind a website… thx for allowing me to share …
I think Sam Smith made me cry more than the actual video. But I did love that little dog lol
You know it’s amazing to me how someone can throw the word fag around. Now who is this person? Is he gay or someone straight? Would be interesting to find out. But why would a person use such a word? I’ve always said if someone calls me that I’ll just plainly knock their damn teeth out. They never have. But its like my mom always told me, it’ll always come back to them and it always does. So jay quit with the name calling. Who are you to call someone a fag?
I liked it very much. I didn’t get emotional, but it was a beautiful moment for them, to be able to share it with their loved ones. Even the Dog was included, I wish them all the best in their lives together. It won’t be much longer before this is old hat, and Gay Men and Women can marry across the Nation. For those who are flip out this, just know that when you are ready to make a commitment to someone, you’ll be able to make that choice without some idiot trying to make laws to deny you that right.
Brought tears to my eyes as well. Very happy for them, maybe one day I will be their as well.
Rail_Man (I also worked the rails) has it right, as does Joey. I was engaged to a guy I’ve known for 17 years, and we’re both married hetero, and I was preparing to bust that loose so I could marry him, but…well, he just couldn’t divorce his wife, because the state in which he lives now doesn’t allow for community property…she’d wind up with everything except his truck and his tools and his clothes. So, he broke it off, after a lot of trying to keep me on a string for awhile. Sad…but it made me SMILE because, at least, thanks to the work of those like Harry Hay, Morris Kight, Troy Perry and numerous other pioneers in gay liberation, we have what all those guys could scarcely have dreamt of having…a real, legal marriage. It’s a pity that so many guys fuck it all up by cheating, and having “open” marriages, and all that. Remember, that’s how MANY a guy got pozzed up in the early ’80s…their supposedly monogamous lover traipsing off to the tubs for a quick one before coming home to hubby. That said, straights cheat almost as much, sooooo, they’re really not much better. But, the fact that I was asked and COULD have gotten married still makes me smile through the tears of it not happening. Yes, we get old…but love’s eternal. (Ex-SP brakie here.)
I disagree with the comments about A4A and marriage. These two guys will definitely want to visit A4A from time to time to bring a top into their relationship.
Yes made me cry but only because I will never have it.
Nice video but no tears here. Let’s see more of others in the gay community no matter how they look not just if they came from a glamour magazine.
Most beautiful!!!
The song makes me tear up when ever heard. I’m lucky to be in a twenty year relationship, and soon will making the death do us part commitment!!
Peace and love xo
Ive yet to cry at a straight wedding…this one…pass me a hanky. 🙂
I wouldn’t call them hot or picture perfect as others have. They seem a little above average, and well dressed.
No tears. Nice for them tho.
But why do people assume this is forever like some storybook. Most relationships end. Or at least the happiness ends if not the coupling itself. Married or not. You’re all projecting storybook fantasies because its a storybook wedding. But that’s not how life works. I don’t know nor care if they last. But they’re just another couple. Nothing magical. Yawn
Oh yeah and who tailored their suits … Yikes. Stevie wonders for better.
I never cry at weddings, I don’t see the point. It’s nice two guys are getting married and I wish them all the best, but cry? I don’t think so. Unless they were both dying and this was their last kiss, then maybe, if I knew them. I guess I never understood the crying at weddings meme. What’s there to cry about? People should be happy. smh
So many want this..and few even attempt to make an effort at it….too worried about the DICK they may be missing out on. I am gay and most gays I find pathetic…two faced and double standard. Get real boys…the tears are for your own selfishness and nothing else. Once dried up..it’s back to the same old discriminatory BS…ADMIT IT…give it some thought and change your ways !
And I agree Dave with Janus2005…is there a was you can diversify and make this site a little more complete?…like add a section for those that want RELATIONSHIPS…and something more….it gets mixed up with all the fakes that just want sex. Someday you will be older and possibly sad that you haven’t acted on this like right now !!! It’s not that big of a request…yet it gets completely ignored.
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It was a nice ceremony. Who knows if they realize the import of what they are doing? Some people have forever in them and they never have a ceremony, and others have ceremonies and may also have forever in them. I wish I had someone who realized my worth enough to marry me for sure! I’d be forever but my life will end in a few years at best and there have been no loves to come along after my partner died 21 years ago. I’d like to think if he had lived we would still be together. I wish everyone to be both deserving of a true love, and to have it once in life. Guys don’t work at being deserving much. Peace.
Very sweet video, and a cute couple… I think the music is kind of crappy, but that’s just my preference. I wish them every happiness in their life together!
Thank you for sharing this video Dave, I did cry, this video was well made and it also helps that I know one of the grooms, I am very happy to see them very happy.
Pictures and video are not proof of happiness, dependability or longevity. For all I know, the two men in that presentation are in a loveless, dysfunctional, drug-addled relationship.
With that being said, after spending time on A4A, I find it hard to believe that gay men are capable of real love. The pictures and narratives associated with most of the profiles on this site are enough to make the CDC cringe.
1) The only thing that makes me cry is they can button their jacket and I no longer can’t.
2) How long do you think they will put up posts here or on a mobile app “married but playing,.”
I didn’t cry, I shook my head and rolled my eyes.
What a waste. Those gorgeous specimens should be bringing new human beings into existence via marriage between a man and a woman ! Two men should wait until they’re too old to raise children then get married and fuck each other if you’re still able.
My partner and I were together for over twenty years. He cheated on me not once or twice bout three times. I stayed with him thinking I could do no better. Finally left him. Now I am on here looking and hopefully that will be me one day. Could relate to their little dog. Mine has become good company until the man shows up…
Let’s see how long it takes for them to reactivate their A4A
It’s a nice video and I am happy for them and am glad for those seeking marriage have the option and opportunity to do so. But it isn’t for me, at 43, after a string of failed relationships, I found that I like being single too much to be constrained by heterosexual cultural norms, and feel that queer culture is dying away behind the assimilation I.e. marriage, which is basically a contract of ownership and asset protection, don’t get me wrong, I love wedding pageantry, but I don’t see myself and definitely not the married couples I know both gay and straight maintaining sexual fidelity, most I know are in “open” marriages.
It didn’t make me cry but the SONG…the song took me to different places of my life. Is that SAM SMITH? Their wedding was like every other wedding. Nothing fancy, nothing special. Congrats tho…happy for ya.