Gay Stuff : Your Score on What Turns You ON or OFF
How Did You Score on What Turns You ON or OFF?
There were 84 respondents to the survey by Sunday evening, May 24th. Of the responses tabulated, only 60 answered all of the items in order to be tabulated on a scale of 1-5 that in turn provided the importance of the following averages:
- 4.4 Touching each other
- 4.1 Foreplay
- 4.0 Safe Sex or Anything Goes Practices
- 3.9 Kissing
- 3.8 Desire for Fellatio
- 3.5 Importance of anal penetration
- 3.1 Getting acquainted before first play session
- 3.1 Cum delivery in mouth
- 3.0 Cock size
- 2.8 Significance of seeing a prospective playmate in street clothing
- 2.8 Desire for an LTR
- 2.6 You Initiate contact
- 2.5 Shaven versus Unshaven genitals
- 2.3 Cut versus Uncut cocks
- 2.3 Role Playing
- 2.2 Age difference more than 10 years apart
- 2.1 Shaven versus Unshaven body
- 1.8 Body ink art
- 1.7 BDSM
- 1.4 Body piercings
- 57.3 Average (Highest: 79 Lowest: 21)
Summary: The top five (5) scoring items were Touching, Foreplay, Safe Sex, Kissing and Desire for Fellatio. (These had composite scores of 3.8 to 4.4 and represented 35% of all items.)
Comments: Some respondents included additional items such as Hygiene, Truthfulness and Honesty, Nipple Play, Water Sports, Rimming, Edging, Good Cook, Drug Use, Good grooming, and Physique. As in many surveys, there is no right or wrong answer and the composite scores indicate many hot, sexy guys subscribe to A4A and desire happy and fulfilling sex lives.
The weight of the top five (5) items constitutes 35% of the total average score and suggests the importance of human touch—and the nervous system’s role in sexual activity.
DAVID M in Texas
The most important thing for me is race ! I’m into black men ! All most exclusively. I almost never get together with a white guy, but sometimes that’s all I can find in my small town ;( I’m a bottom who loves taking it from black guys period.. Guess you can say I went black, and ain’t going back;)
so basically, these responses indicate two things to me. One, that most gay men are incapable of actually reading and following directions. And second, that the higher the score your get the more of a picky bitch you are about what you think you want and the more likely you are to discard quality men based on preconceptions I have nothing to do with who they are as an actual person.
Devon got it right on this one…which is probably, now that I’ve reached IMOQ (Incipient Mad Old Queen) stage, there’s little, if anything, I have in common with most gay men that responded to the survey, except for me. That’s why I’ve more or less dropped out of the whole gay scene anymore…bunch of goofy twinks with iPhones posing in bars (if they even go) or trying to portray themselves as something they’re really not on online hookup sites. The “dumb” is strong in today’s gay world, and I’m glad I got to live through the “golden age” of gay liberation and all that…there were some REAL guys back then. Now? Fahgeddaboudit…it’s OVER.
I have not been on A4A in a while. The major mistake that most guys are making, is really simple,tell the truth upfront, be honest, lots less drama in reality. Folks might not or can’t or want the truth, as yet, they can not say that you lied. Read my profile and grow up or keep it moving, plain and simple.
Well, I haven’t figured out how this score thing work yet, but what really turns me on or off . I hate clean shaven manscaping I love a natural guy down below. I’m all bottom in which I love top white guys can’t find any in my area do I’m doing with out. I’m a light complexion. Blk guy who loves white dick. A pierced cock is a big turn off as well as cock rings on a guy make me go limp quickly . BDSM is sorta turn off for me, but I love an all top guy and a guy who loves getting his dick sucked feel as though it’s a must. Safe sex is a turn on for me as well only during penetration.
This is not eharmony, it’s a hook up site, I don’t know why I am surprise but I continue to be amused at the number of guys that I hit up that says friends/relationship but I end up sucking him off and never know his name.
I think the results would be different if the question was what qualities do you look for in a guy you are going to bring home to meet the family.
Note that “Safe sex/anything goes practices” rated a solid ZERO. And people wonder why HIV is spreading at its fastest rate since the epidemic in the ’80s…joo fat buutt EEEEEEEEEEEEEEDjyuts!
What Turns me on is Doing it in all kinds of different Positions. I like a big Dick Masculine Body Doing me Hard.
MistrFistr put on your reading glasses. Safe Sex rated 4.0 out of 5 with 5 being the highest or most important.
@Love to Suck.
“This is not eharmony, it’s a hook up site,…”
This site is whatever members choose to do with it.
Hey, many guys I start chats with fade after a few back and forths. Some after a few chats over days.
Others, however, are interested in getting to know each other … occupations, sex-capades, history, etc. Chats go on for a while before we meet. A few of those latter guys are good buds I have played with again and again over a couple/few years.
Some of the former ones, well I don’t know. I expect they’re still sitting at their computers whining that all guys suck and they they just can’t get a good hook up even though this is “supposed to be a hook up site”.
Hey MistrFistr
Take yet another look:
For those readers who think SafeSex practices are important,
they probably rated the question a 4 or 5
For those readers who strongly prefer AnythingGoes,
they probably rated the question a 4 or 5
The survey question results are bogus, because
both ends of the continuum rate the question the same way
Hence it is not surprising, that the average is 4.0
So no predictive results can be drawn from this survey
about whether people prefer SaferSex or AnythingGoes practices
Most of the other 19 questions have similar flawed survey results, because strong feelings either way, get a 5
Overall, VERY poor survey methodology.
I want to meet a guy and have ltr with.
I am very impressed with this website.
I’m a single Gwm looking for a boyfriend.
I love cocks, cum filled cocks and hard cocks that want to fuck. I’m easy, bring me a cock I can suck hard, and if all goes well. I’ll give you my ass to use. If none of my tricks can get you hard, no biggie. I got to suck some cock. If I get you hard and offer you my ass, I expect you to proform. And before you cum, I want my legs wrapped your waist, and making love, so I can use my ass and milk your cum out.