Fantasy: Straight Guy Fetish
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Straight guy fetish, do you have one? Maybe you don’t but you still find yourself get sexually turned on by straight men? Or maybe you find yourself constantly fantasizing about having sex with a straight man?
We are asking because sometimes we’d read comments here on Adam4Adam blog saying that straight men are definitely off-limits because they are nothing but heartache or something to that effect. Others on the other hand, prefer straight men more than gay men.
I always say to each his own, yes; but how about you? And why do you think it is that some gay men are drawn to straight men? I’ve read in this particular thread how it really is just a matter of statistics because in 10 men, there is only one gay man. A sentiment that is echoed by many because put that way, it does make sense. One guy said he couldn’t even tell if the guys he liked are gay or straight in the first place and it isn’t like he could just walk up to them and ask them whether or not they are gay.
Additionally, this article says there are many reasons why gay men are attracted to straight men the first one being that they have internalized homophobia. Why? Well, the article explained that for these “conflicted gay men, straight men are desirable precisely because they will never become available.” Also because straight men are considered as forbidden fruit and indeed, there’s an old saying that forbidden fruit is the sweetest. Do you find forbidden things (or in this case, straight men) attractive? Do you usually want who you can’t have? Anyway, there are other reasons cited and you can read the article in full here.
What about you, guys? Do you fantasize about getting straight men to bed with you? Do you have a straight guy fetish? Yes? No? Why do you think that is? Share your thoughts and stories in the comments section below.
The straight guys fetish is just a fantasy about being with a straight guy because it’s something a real straight guy would never do. Notice I said “real” straight guy. All these “straight guys” on here and grindr and any other app where guys go looking for dick, aren’t straight. They are closeted. You’re just having sex with a gay guy pretending to be straight because he’s scared of who he is. Doesn’t make it real.
3 years ago I was on a trip to Madison and went to a sports bar there was just one guy sitting there and we talked a while Then he said he was in the same hotel as me Since I drive to the bar.. I offered to drive him to the hotel Once in the hotel he followed me to my floor I had some whiskey in my room so I asked him if he wanted another drink He said sure and came into my room. We sat on the couch and had a couple of shots then all of a sudden he put his leg on my thigh I put my hand on his knee. Then he leaned over and placed his lips on mine
He is a very Hot guy and my lips opened and his tongue entered mine and be thing led to another and he ended up being inside me more time than not during the entire night He was married so he did me bare and came in me several times I dismissed it as him being drunk but in the morning when we woke up he wanted me again and entered me again We kept in touch and we have met a few times and he has done me a few times and I crave him all the time
“He was married so he did me bare” ???????? Why does him being married make it okay for him to do you bare? I don’t understand that logic. Can someone explain that?
bc he think married men for some reason don’t give him shit (std hiv) like gay men would because married men have less chance to play around like gay men do. That’s one logic reason I can think of and it’s a stupid one in my opinion. Some married men are the worse and messy as shit. I know some married men that just want to get fuck all day lol
Myself, I love seeing straight men. I find most of them very sexy. And it’s nice sucking a straight guy off knowing I’m giving him something he wants as much as I am getting exactly what I want. No hang-ups. No drama. No other expectations. He wants a mouth and I want his cock in my mouth.
Well, there is always the lure to forbidden fruit, the desire to expose the unviewable, to touch the untouchable. The fact is, the majority, or close to it, of straight guys, are not completely straight. At least, not among porn viewers, which is the majority of straight guys, I imagine. I have had better blow jobs from a straight guy than 90% of gays. They have utter respect for the cock and treat it right. They may not want foreplay, but they know how to get down to business.
I’m a straight or mostly straight man but meet to give it up to a hot gay man at tomes. i love it.
I feel like all men, at some point in their life, have considered or fantasized about having sex with another man. Personal experience has taught me that. Example #1( a best friend and I reached puberty about the same time and when we started experimenting with our bodies, we slowly moved into experimenting on each others body. He was far more straight and I had bisexual tendencies running amuck. We both dated girls and our families knew all of them through the years. What they didn’t know was their straight son and I were playing on the other side of the fence now and then. One night I just let him take me and he topped me like a big dog. It was one of our closet situations that rarely ever happened, but I knew he liked it. Eventually he married a woman, had some kids and life went on.
Example #2( A door to door sales guy knocked and I let him in. He was sorta cute and I thought by his mannerisms, that he might swing a little. I had him come back later in the day when he had finished his route and I wasn’t so busy so I’d have more time to hear his pitch. When he came back and did his routine, I started flirting and making subtle moves on him. At first he seemed a bit nervous, but my gentle nature kind of grew on him and he relaxed. He asked me if I was gay and I asked him, if that bothered him much….yadda yadda. Long story short, he said, “Well, I always said I wanted to try it once, so what the hell.” He seemed to fold right in as if he had given this a lot of thought before and even imagined what he’d do if he ever got the chance to do it. Almost as if he had been waiting for the right opportunity to come along. I guess I’ll never know if he stayed straight, or not.
There were two other “straight” guys I knew that I had flings with, but honestly, I couldn’t tell you if they were simply bisexual and buried it deep in the closet, of if they really were straight and crossed that fence with me. I know that the both of them came back for 2nds, 3rds and so on.
The bottom line here is, I believe all men fantasize about it, but many won’t act on it because of peer pressure and the fear of getting caught. I also think every woman is by nature, a lesbian. Whether they ever have true sex with another woman or not. Women have no reservations about locking lips with each other for either a public stunt, or a deep show of affection to one another. Sam & I gave each other THAT look when we saw his wife and my GF locking lips at a party we threw. He shook his head in disbelief and I said, “I think all chicks would go there if they so decided. Me? I’m attracted to men, straight or gay. And neither one of them is a sure bet to getting laid. And there’s a fair chance that straight guy just might be willing.
There is no such thing as straight people. They are simply recipients of the breeder impulse that is the cause of untold misery. Gay is the escape button from nature’s cruel game but so many idiots fail to see the truth.
That’s bigoted and intolerant thinking.
In my opinion, all men and women are bisexual. We just fall on different levels of the spectrum. I don’t believe that anyone is 100% gay or straight.
How pathetic!
Just as pathetic as believing that 10% statistic is significant.
The only unfailing truth about human psychology (hence sexuality) is that misery loves company.
Let’s not pretend that that is not the entire basis of the urge to breed in the first place.
To be honest idk what the fuss is about gays going after straight men, its like women going after gay men, leave the straight men alone, no wonder that article a few mornings ago had them arrested in the steam room, these pornos’ have gay men in situation of taking a straight man from his wife, but do a porno where a woman takes the gay man from a gay relationship u would hear and see nasty comments etc, just leave straight men alone, and go after gay or bi men period.
“Straight” guy fetish is born out of self-hatred. Looking for good looking guys is obvious and I believe, normal. Sex feels good no matter how one is stimulated. But looking for “straight” guys intentionally perpetuates the straight man privilege in the world. Having sex with one is an attempt to “soil” him or make him aroused as easily as we are and enlarge our “club”, so to speak. The bottom line is that they will only hide more and continue to leave us vulnerable economically and emotionally in society as a whole.
I would love to see the day when I could ask a guy out and not have to feel that I have to look over my shoulder in some way or have to watch my back!
It’s always good for a smile when a gay guy brags about “getting” or “turning” a “straight guy.” No 100% straight guy will let you near him. The guys who do are guys who present themselves as straight but who are actually somewhere toward gay on the sexuality spectrum.
Most of my buds (me as well) are or were straight, married guys. Most of us are dad’s, too. We all recount how when we were coming of sexual age (in the 1950s, 60s or 70s) we all knew we were attracted to men, but the only gays we saw we’re the loud, obnoxious, pink, fems who paraded in the streets or bars. We said “nope. We’re not that,” and became “functionally straight.” We stayed that way until the Internet enabled us to meet other guys lke us. My buds now who are widowers or divorced have revealed their sexual preferences to friends and family over time. All say some family and friends didn’t care while a few told them to go to hell.
The point here is, many guys the world knows as straight are actually quiet gays, those who don’t fit the sterotypical gay mold and who have never felt a need to step out. However, they will easily play when given a safe, sane discreet environment to play in for the first time with a guy they trust. And most likely after that will continue to do so.
You can’t help who you’re attracted too… I have found myself in the situation where I have ongoing relationships with several straight married me… they’re all married to women but enjoy doing with/to me they can’t with their wives…. some are very dominant with me and as we’re having sex they do act out a fantasy of sorts ,,, calling me fag spitting in my face shooting their load on my face… one even likes to pee on / in me…. after the sex is over they change back to their normal self… my point being sex can’t be put in a box… people like what they like and as long as no one is being hurt or forced to do what they don’t want … just enjoy the ride…
I luv my str8 men , I play with 4 married men on a regular basis ,,it works for me , NO DRAMA, NO BIG MOUTH telling everyone , it’s safe and it turns me on when I see the look on their face from the receiving the best head of their lives,, then it’s HOT as they are feeliing more safe with me that they start learning how to suck me…takes time and patience for that ..all 4 say their wives don’t give head at all anymore and was never as hot as when I suck them…3of them have eventually wanted to fuck me after their bj…the fourth has been fucking me since we met .thus has been 4 years with all 4 and I couldn’t be happier
ANY man who has sex with another man is “bisexual” and not “straight” = “heterosexual”.
1) A “bisexual” man is a man who is sexually interested in BOTH men and women although the degree of interest varies : some bisexual men are far more interested sexually in women than in men while other bisexual men are more interested sexually in men than in women.
2) A “straight” = “heterosexual” man is a man who is sexually interested in women ONLY. He has NO sexual desire for other men. The only time a “straight” = “heterosexual” man will fuck another man is if he is confined to a place where he cannot find a woman, like a prison. Even in those cases, the “straight” = “heterosexual” man is thinking about a woman while fucking another man. That’s why these guys plaster their prison cell walls with pictures and posters of naked women so they can look at the naked women in order to get hard and to keep the erection while fucking another man. That’s is also why one should stay away from any man you meet online or in a cruising place and who says that he will come to your place only if you have straight porno movies at you place. That man is “straight” = “heterosexual” and he needs to watch naked women on the porno film to get hard. After he fucks you if he can get hard, he will ask you for money or even rob your place.
3) A “gay” = “homosexual” man is a man who is sexually interested in men ONLY.
Let us stick to the definitions. Otherwise, people will be unable to communicate with one another since they will using the same word to mean different things.
If a “gay” = “homosexual” man or a “bisexual” man goes after a supposedly “straight” = “heterosexual” man and the latter accepts his advances, then that supposedly “straight” = “heterosexual” man is “bisexual” even though it might be the first time that he acted on his pre-existing sexual desire for men. The “straight” = “heterosexual” man has NO sexual desires for other men.
This agenda that every man is “bisexual” or every woman is “bisexual” is being pushed by the same people who are pushing the agenda that all “men who like or love other men” should be “versatile”.