Sexuality: How Do You Remain Sexual In Your 80s?
Sexuality: How Do You Remain Sexual In Your 80s?
Warranted or not, the common perception is that once you reach 80 and above, sex is pretty low or non-existent on your list of priorities. But one octogenarian certainly believes that shouldn’t be the case, and prove his point in spectacular fashion by becoming a “porn star”.
Norm Self is an 83-year-old “sacred intimate” at the Moon Hearth Ministry who just made his porn debut on Davey Wavey’s Himeros TV. The video features Self masturbating, interspersed with scenes featuring Blake Mitchell and Joey Mills.
The video is beautifully shot, and also gives Self the chance to talk about his own experience and struggles with his sexuality Watch the preview below:
Self certainly isn’t the only elder that’s been having great sex even at his age — just look at some of the comments here on the Adam4Adam blog and you’ll find that there’s still a lot of them still enjoying sex and their sexuality. We’d like to hear from those guys! How have you managed to remain sexual even in your 80s and beyond? What lessons about aging and sexuality can you impart? Share your stories and your advice in the comments section below.
Why do I need to?
I’m not even sexual in my 50s LOL!
I had a lot of sex in the 70s. I met my husband in the 80s and had more sex overall with him but far fewer partners. Wait. Oh. Did you mean _my_ 80s?
Never mind.
A beautiful message for all ages.
I’m not quite 80, in my early 60s, but this is what I’ve experienced as I get older: I get fewer propositions and more rejections than when I was young. That’s ok because my sex drive has also decreased somewhat. I still get horny, and I still hook up, with guys younger than me and with those around my age. While a lot of men are not particularly turned on by older bodies, there are still plenty who are. I have some wrinkles, grey hair, and the body is not as taut as it used to be, but I exercise regularly and try to stay fit. I’m pleasantly surprised and flattered when hot guys half my age want to hook up with me. It takes longer to get an erection and it’s not as stiff as it once was, but I try to accommodate them.
There’s a lot of younger guys into older guys!
And if he believes that there’s a bridge you can sell him, eh?
Strange as it seems, it IS true. A lot—not a majority, of course—are into older men. My thought: it is nice for us older men, even if we don’t understand it!
At 57 I am starting to get ED and feeling down about sex so couldn’t imagine sex in my 80’s although at this point I feel like a horny teenager because I am always horny even when not hard. Gonna check with the doc in April when I get my check up. Having sex over the age of 55 if single is hard enough and those that do should feel very thankful if their single
I definitely like Norm, I’d love to have dinner and talk with him or someone like him as friends, like him, I don’t think I’ll ever, forget, that first time with ‘myself’, I had no such guilt though. “Sin”, is why Jesus, was born and died? Evil, to me is something different; will-fully, consciously, causing someone else, undeservedly; pain-anguish, that’s what I refrain from.
As soon as ED kicks in I am getting castrated. The thought of a new sexual phase as a eunuch is rather exciting.
I have read the comments. but the one thing we all must face is our aging bodies. I’m 66 and will be 67. I enjoy sex with a man I’m a TOP and don’t have an age preference and have never had one I have always felt that everyone that desired sex regardless of their race or age is fair game if we clicked otherwise. the one problem I have with age is to young it makes no difference to me if you are a teenager I have no desire to have sex with a child even when I was in my 20’s I said all that to say children should not be having sex with adults no excuse. as I have aged I enjoy sex as much as ever but,do I have sex as much; No, and I have experienced some ED but not enough to not want sex. If I’m able to and have the ability and desire and a willing partner I will continue to have sex to an age that I don’t have the ability. By the way I have had sex with an 81Y/O and several 70 somethings so there you have it don’t dismiss an individual because of age.
I’m in my late 60s, and I have had sex with a man who is in his 80s, so must say sex can be gratifying at any age. Oh we may not shoot a load as easy as when we were in our younger years, but just the feel of being close and intimate is a great feeling. I’ve had sexual contacts from guys in their 20s, and on up, all the way through the late 80s. If I live to be 100, I hope I still will be sexually active. I just wish younger guys were more accepting of having sex with older guys, and would look past the age thing.