Sexuality: Ever Had An Orgasm From Anal Sex?
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As much as pornography would have us think otherwise, the truth is not all gay couple engage or even like anal sex. The authors of the 2008 book “Psychology Applied to Modern Life: Adjustment in the 21st Century” revealed that in an internet survey of MSM (men who have sex with men) across Europe, it was shown that “oral sex was most commonly practised, followed by mutual masturbation, with anal intercourse in third place”.
It’s easy to understand why this is the case. Anal sex requires a lot of preparation — from douching to lubing to making sure that you don’t hurt yourself in the process. It’s a lot to worry about, so it’s also not a surprise that not a lot of bottoms can maintain an erection or have an orgasm while having anal sex.
To quote Michael M. Ross’ Psychopathology and Psychotherapy in Homosexuality, “Most men seem to accept that stimulation from receptive anal intercourse alone is unlike to result in an orgasm.”
But that’s not to say it can’t be achieved. After all, the best way to reach and stimulate the prostate is through anal activity. And there’s no shortage of people who will tell you that an orgasm achieved through prostate stimulation is much more intense, long-lasting, and probably make you bask in feelings of ecstasy afterwards.
So, here’s some questions for all of you Adam4Adam members. Have you ever had an orgasm from anal sex? If you have, help out those who’ve never experienced it and tell us how you achieved it! What tips can you give your fellow Adam4Adam members? Share it with us in the comment section below!
I can achieve what feels like an anal orgasm which for me feels like my ass tenses and tightens and I get a tingling rush. I can have a few of those while bottoming. If my top sucks my cock first almost to orgasm and then enters me I can achieve full on orgasm while he fucks me. Of course some poppers may help it along after getting pounded a while. If I do cum with him inside me when I do come either by his mouth or hand and my own the orgasm is amazing.
Yes, I have multiple times. I look back and still think the first assgasm I had was probably the most intense and amazing. I remember moaning, shaking in sheer pleasure, my eyes rolling back and it lasting for what felt like 10 mins. Or more. I still get hard thinking about it.
The best position that’s more of a sure thing for me is to be on top and riding deep and hard. Sometimes I can shoot so hard it hits my FB in the face.. Definitely nothing like a good assgasm….
I agree. I also get hard often thinking about not being able to help it or stop it, when my cock erupts after stiffly bouncing all directions from a dude slamming into me. I am bi and have never cum harder than hands free bottoming. Period! God I want to get fucked now. Lol.
Yup! Me too. First time I remember cumming hands free from getting fucked, I couldn’t walk for a few minutes I was so weak in the knees!
I’ve had many powerful orgasms while being fucked. If the top knows what he’s doing, he can make a bottom blast a load without having to touch his dick. As recently as this morning I orgasmed from being fucked. We were off a hiking trail and just being naked outside turned me in like nothing else could.
what hiking treail wre you on so i can go meet some hot tops and get laid?
I have. I identify as a top, though have bottomed a few times in the past and 2 out of those 3 times I orgasmed uncontrollably from the anal stimulation of my partners penis in my ass. Apart from that, I found bottoming very uncomfortable and not for me. Since then, though, I do welcome anal play with fingers and have at times been brought to orgasm. Sorry to say, I have no advise for others on how to achieve.. perhaps it’s how we are built
I have. was actually surprised the first time it happened with a dildo. started leaking a little and thought wow that felt hot. the next time and since then I cum a lot while dildoing. two guys have made me cum with their cock during anal! it is a hot experience to see your cock not fully erect start to cum while you are being fucked!!
this was my experience honestly. as i am bottom guy ,i had anal sex once with guy who was not member in Adam and that was my first experience as he was top and that time he HURT me at the beginning and i stop him ,and after that i never have anal , basically it turns me OFF ……..
now i am more into oral , not much enjoy anal
I had a similar experience, not that painful because i didn’t let him in all the way, but he made me felt like peeing like crazy. I was too tight even with lube and he was too um thick? Not really a sexy event. But me and him we didn’t really click that well anyways.
Yes…I had always heard about it, and then it happened to me. It was intense, and I was so I love after that experience that I let him cum in my mouth
I have only bottomed a few times and yes it does require that a guy make sure that his hole is cleaned so when the cock is in there that it has an unobstructed path.
I have to admit that i have not experienced an orgasm from anal yet. I say yet because it may take some experimenting with a few different positions.
I agree. I think it is definitely the position or more accurately the angle. I really never thought it possible to achieve anal orgasm, but was with this guy once whose cock curved slightly left. We often masturbated and 69ed but this one time I decided I wanted him inside me. So, since I rarely get fucked, we lay on the bed and he entered me from behind. It was intense. I was enjoying the fullness and the fact that this guy, who I liked, was into me too, when all of a sudden the pleasure kind of blossomed . I started rocking back a little faster and my breath became more ragged and the next thing I know I was rasping “I cumming”! It was sooo hot. Not sure if it was just the surprise or what but I always remember that fuck as one of my best!! We were able to make it happen one other time and then he left town. I really miss him and his fun cock and body.
Yes I have a hand full of times. (Probably 3-5) and they were amazing. All of which have been when I was on top riding their dick. Feels amazing when it does happen. From what I’ve noticed it happens when the sex is super hot and has maybe been a few weeks since Ive been fucked. Plus I’m usually with guys 8″ or bigger. Amazing experience. All times I’ve done it ended with me shooting on there face and chest by accident without even touching my dick.
I always use to come hands free when I was getting fucked
I think you may be going at this the wrong way… Anal stimulation (usually, getting f*ckd) can stimulate the prostate enough to cause ejaculation, and that often is accompanied by feelings of orgasm. A very luck few can be stimulated enough to continue to ejaculate over and over (see RyanCummings, porn guy, social media, member here and bbrt)
Some other guys have “true” anal orgasms. The stimulation of their prostate causes anal spasms that are much more intense, and they tell me it feels more intense than a “regular” orgasm. And most of these lucky guys (at least the ones I have cum across, so to speak) can experience this over and over and over.
So, as with all parts of sexuality, it is not a simple answer – there is a whole range of answers….
My ex partner had one of those curved banana shaped thick dicks.And everytime he penetratd me for some reason his dick knew how to rub my prostate the right way and it would just make me cum without masturbation.
No better orgasms than while getting pounded by a thick cock with a fat head. One of my tops could fuck back to back shooting his load without pulling out and every time I felt him twitching inside me, his spasms would make me ejaculate. He would fuck me for an hour and it was never ending bliss.
I’ve had many orgasms with my ex while bottoming never having to touch myself. I found the best position for this was missionary. It helps that he was well endowed also. He was the only man who made it happen though so I’m pretty sure that the mentality of being deeply in love was a major factor for me.
The 1st time my 1st true bf fucked me, I had the most amazing sensation. Precum, which I had never leaked before, spurted out of me with each thrust of his cock against my prostate. Each hit was more and more sensitive, until I thought I’d sure start peeing everywhere. Then, ultimate orgasmic pleasure. I was out of control, cumming for what seemed like many minutes. It just kept pouring out while I was so sensitive in one tiny spot deep within me, yet pleasure felt through every nerve in my body. I was heaving, so out of breath. I never found out if he came, as he was the bottom. He indulged me that one time, and was the only one to ever take me that close to heaven.
My bud shoots a load off without even touching his hard cock when i fuck his ass with my 8″
Drives him crazy.
Top here. Never feel anything when I occasionally btm.
You and your bud are a match sexually and that is a good thing! If you have more in common with him, maybe you should consider a full relationship.
Since you never feel anything when you bottom, I would suggest that you stop bottoming altogether because you are really a top. Besides, there are so many bottoms out there that there is absolutely no need to add a new “fake bottom” to the pool.
Keep up the good (top) work!
Yes, I can achieve multiple anal orgasms when my top is 11 inches and bigger and he has been digging in my ass with his dick for 15 minutes or longer, the first anal orgasm trigger more that usually happens every 5 minutes. The best way for me is to be on my knees with ass up, so he can go deep. Only two guys with 9.5 inches have made this happen. It is easier when you trust the big top guy and like him. My orgasm are heavy and the white creams drips from my ass.
Yup, my first “real” bf was a top and would stroke the nut out of me frequently. Whether he was rabbit pumping or slowly long dicking me, he always had the right angle and i could never hold back. Cum literally flowed from my dick until i was drained even if he pulled out. There is no other feeling like it. It definitely engulfs your whole body and lasted way longer than me cumming by jacking or topping. I would lay there in bliss with a pool of cum between us or under us, usually with him still inside of me. He was also the first Top to make me “cream”. (No i dont need any Internet scientists explaining what “creaming” really is).
Ive only had 2 other tops like him in 10 years. I mostly prefer to top myself. But i gladly accept his occasional offers to “catch up” from time to time lol
Damn if that wasn’t like the Marine I talked about past your comment…we would only ever fuck doggie or missionary but damn the head on his cock pushed all the right buttons inside me and I’d cum right with him. I mainly top anymore but damn if I still can’t remember the head of his cock blowing inside me while I came as well. Nothing like making out while you’re rubbing cum all over each other’s chests.
doggy style or guy on his back with me on top facing him….works like a charm everytime. I get rock hard and cum like a rocket!
Only experienced it once from a random hookup. Fuck yeah! Best ever orgasm I’ve ever had. Guy kept pounding and pounding hard non-stop and I just started shooting like crazy.
I’ve been with a couple guys who can and did each time. I came close once.
I have had a tremendous mind blowing orgasm while being rimmed, it was a full body orgasm and an internal orgasm. I also have had an orgasm from anal sex but I was soft and limp. I get the best orgasms from being rimmed and eaten out.
Cant wait to try. I love ass. Can edge for hours eating ass
Oh god yes. I can cum when getting fucked often, most of the time I am soft and no one touches my cock. But I still cum a lot.
I have had it happen to me a few times, without even touching myself! I will say that it’s AMAZING how different it is from any other orgasm I’ve ever had! !.. Not saying it happens all the time but I absolutely love when it does. I normally do maintain a erection when I bottom, the only time I didn’t was with a guy who was huge! I wasn’t able to stay hard at all I’ve never moaned and grunted like that before was more pain than pleasure. But back to the question YES hands free anal orgasm is well worth it!
Long ago, when I used to bottom, I only had one guy who could give orgiastic stimulus. Foreplay, energy, compatibility, position, rhythm, and responsiveness did it. I had to use will power not to ejaculate. The biggest thing is to relax and be into the sensation of each other and not be seeking to get there. Especially don’t be trying to cum at the same time. Imitating porn illusions is the surest way to ruin a good collaboration between playmates.
Our trick was nipple play, caresses, fingering, things to make the nerves thrill and cause those kegel squeezes on the prostate. If the bottom is precumming before the top gets behind him, that’s part. I would kneel resting my body on the sofa, so the hips were just rekaxed enough, and so his every slow stroke massaged the prostate and mabw me reflex squeeze my rectum. I forgot to mention, I never douched. I just had a relaxing bowel movement followed by a finger test in the shower, followed by prelubing myself. So I was clean, relaxed, wet, and anticipating beforehand. So my mind and body were already warmed up. That and enjoyable foreplay, position, and timing and sensitivity made it happen. If it is the goal, you ruin it. Enjoy the journey, and it will surpeise you on its own.
Just remember, cumming is mechanical, but orgasm is a culmination of sensations into an overload release. Overthink it, and you will break the spell. Ride the waves, and you will get wet. You’ll see.
Now that I top, that experience comes in handy.
Fantastic. Thanks.
One of the very first times I had anal sex I did have an amazing orgasm . And very close many other times
Why assume douching is necessary? That is a health hazard in itself.
I hate douching. It scares me. But I dont want my partner to get a dirty ass. How to approach this?
call me crazy, but if you wash your butt hole in the shower letting the water pour on you like a Japanese toilet, and use maybe like shampoo? that does the trick, you have to finger it in to get the soap and water in it and wash it out. Also helps not to eat heavy greasy gassy foods.
Even for a blowjob I avoid eating too heavy for obvious reasons.
Ok so never had an orgasm from anal with a cock but have had with finger stimulation. Maybe I’m peculiar but to me orgasms are all different from anal(top and bottom) oral. Heterosexual and J/O. All different and all great in their own way. For me the best is either Heterosexual or anal (top), oral next then anal (bottom)and lastly JO. I mostly bottom with men. Love to be submissive with men. I always start with oral then will bottom for them if we areally clicking. and then depending on situation I orgasm oral or JO or not at all of he just wants a blo and go.
blow and go with the right guy is a hot intense experience on its own, and most guys want to nut bad, so it’s a win win 😉
we’d be lost if it weren’t for blow jobs 😉
When I am being fucked missionary position does it for me every time. Either I cum with no hands or I cum with very little stroking. And yes they are the most intense orgasims. I’ve never had a problem staying hard…everyone is different
I had an orgasm while being fucked. It surprised me. I was on my back and he was on top of me but on his hands so he could look at me. I shot all over myself. His dick was the perfect size. Not too large. It was so pleasurable. He knew what he was doing. A fantastic lover. His kisses were amazing.
I’ve had many orgasms with my ex while bottoming never having to touch myself. I found the best position for this was the missionary. It helps that he was well endowed also. He was the only man who made it happen though so I’m pretty sure that the mentality of being deeply in love was a major factor for me.
Well I’ve never bottomed, but had one of the most intense orgasms ever being rimmed. I was sitting on the guy’s chest, my feet on the bed on either side of the guy’s head, leaning back on my hands. The guy was going to town on my hole. I was hard as a rock and pointing straight to the ceiling…I started feeling the tension build and thought “no way.” But it continued to build until all I could do was yell “shiiiiiiiit!” and shoot all over my chest. He was the best hookup. We met about four times…maybe I need to go look him up!
Yes. I orgasm hands free from anal. Every time. I learned an “up-curve” at 7″ missionary position makes this fool proof. My partners quickly learn this happens, and I get to be a “lazy legs in the air” bttm 99.99% of the time. The intensity and contractions involved often mean we orgasm simultaneously. Find your position!
I’d like to correct one misconception in the article. Bottoms don’t lose their hard on out of worry. When a guy sucks or strokes my cock I get very hard. When he starts playing with my ass, my focus goes from my cock to my ass and I lose my hard on. That’s probably true for most bottoms.
To answer your question, yes it happened once. I met this guy at the bath house, he laid down on the bed and I got on top and slipped his cock into my ass. He was very stiff and his cock felt delicious in my ass. Without my noticing, he acquired some lube and started stroking my cock very fast. Between his cock in my ass and his handjob I only lasted about ten seconds. I had a powerful orgasm and I did hit him in the face with it.
If the top has a clue, anal sex can be profoundly erotic. If he is a clueless knucklehead who just gets hard and jams it in, it is unpleasant at best and painful at worst. Once I realize I’m with a bad top, I end the sex and go find another stiff cock.
I’ve had many, it depends on the top whether he can fuck or not or care if the bottom even gets off some guys are just interested in getting their own nut, but all the cleaning yourself out is worth it because besides the sucking there is nothing like a big cock sliding in and out of your ass.
yes, i have a few times when I am on my back and top facing me on top. It seems like this position for me massages from prostate the most and when the top really pounds me in this position, it will cause me to shoot a big load and even my toes quiver because the orgasm goes into my feet.
I’ve never been fully fucked. Still too tight. Several times I’ve cum from just a finger poking into my ass without touching my cock. I work my beloved dildo just about every night, and sometimes in the morning…getting deeper every time. Love the feel & Cumming is magnificent! I’m definitely all bottom. Every time I’m sucking a dick I instantly want a cock in my ass…now I just have to make it truly happen. It’s strange, I don’t use lube with my dildo ( it is quite thick w/ about 7″ to insert-I’ve made it about halfway) but it feels fine going in so far as it goes…I seem to provide a natural lube which in my mind confirms my bottom state of mind.
Having an orgasm while getting fucked by a big hard cock is the ultimate experience in MSM. I will never forget the first anal orgasm I had… it seemed to last forever. It changed my life forever. I used to be a total top. I had tried getting fucked but chose the wrong partners (everyone on here has met them or someone like them). I met Kevin at a group party. He was a handsome, confident man around 50. Everything about him said he was a man’s man. He was 6’2”, blond, blue, clean cut, down to earth and packing a nice cock. 9 cut and very very thick and veiny. I would not let him fuck me in front of the others because most of them knew me as a top. Things changed that fateful day. Kevin loved to eat ass and I love to have my ass eaten, but the way Kevin at my ass was out of this world… He was a master ass eater and knew how to make my hole open up for him. He then laid on his back and told me to sit on his cock and get it all the way in. This took some time but as I was getting all of his huge fucking cock in my hole I realized that there was no discomfort or pain like I had experienced with those other want a be tops that said they know what they were doing. Kevin was a master of getting inexperienced bottoms to relax and let their hole love the feeling of a big cock filling it. After about 5 minutes of getting used to having a big cock and actually loving the feeling he asked me to get on all 4’s and he came in from behind me and had me back on to him going balls deep nice and slow… From this position where he was buried all the way he started to slowly fuck me… in and out slowly, then almost all the way out … just his huge mushroom head holding him from exiting. Then he would thrust back balls deep. It was such an amazing fuck… He fucked me like that for 5-10 minutes… I was actually backing up on it as he was thrusting forward and he tagged my 2nd sphincter inside…. I felt the head go thru the opening and snuggly fit on his shaft… I was in heaven… this man knew how to own a hole and make it love getting fucked. He was able to power fuck me for a while and then I started to cum… OMG… I fucking came like a fire hose… My ass grabbed onto his cock and we came together… him pumping my guts full of his DNA and me convulsing in extasy for what seemed like 5 minutes. Needless to say the other guest heard what was happening and came in and watched me get off with one of the biggest cocks in chicago fucking me like i was a power bottom.
For me there are two distinct experiences. One is an orgasm from the penis that is definitely heightened by being fucked. I’ve cum hands free and if the guys torso hits my dick or he masturbates me it’s easy to feel great and cum. Separate from that is a true anal orgasm or sexgasm where my ass spasms and my prostate rings like a bell. On occasion it can be overstimulation but it can be absolutely amazing too. I can have a penis orgasm and then keep going for an assgasm while my dick is soft but it’s all about my ass. It’s like waves of pleasure, a vibrating feeling. After sex it keeps going for about a half hour. Doesn’t happen often and only when I’m in a true bottom mood.
Oh, hell yes. i have cum from getting fucked and it is absolutely incredible. i had a top that i get with from time to time fuck me hard and deep. i actually asked him to go it dry which was amazing. he has a big dick, probably 9.5″ and think. he fucked me in all kinds of positions. he made me cum once while missionary and then a second time doggy style. i keep that scene in the spank bank
OMG yes I have. For those who haven’t or can’t i had a few gender issues I had to deal with first. After which I do more often than not. Also I do not need to shoot or anything else to feel completely satisfied. On a good day I immediately after want to go domestic and or fawn and paw any man in the vacinity bake cookies and do the dishes maybe even laundry. Usually a few rounds of Halo brings me back to my senses and squashes that. Puts me back right.
I have a couple of times, the first time was with a random hookup I met online, he had a quite large cock I would estimate 8″ or more and thick. he started doggie style then laid on the bad and I rode him facing him, I usually don’t stay hard while getting fucked but once he was inside me I got extremely hard from the prostate manipulation and I was concentrating on riding his thick big cock and quite unexpectedly shot a huge load all over his chest. he was quite surprised as well as he said he had never seen a bottom cum while he was fucking them. the other times was with a young man I had met where I go on vacation and had met up with him several different times over the years when I would be there, he only fucked me the first time but after that he asked if liked getting rimmed and said yes so he was really into that and also very good at it, he would rim me for awhile and then fuck me until he came and then would massage my prostate with his fingers until I had an awesome orgasm.
Being fucked is very sensual if the top is patient enough to build up to penetration, and in that case I maintain a super hard erection. I have been fucked to a hands free orgasm a few times, the tops had about 8 nicely thick inches and well ridged mushroom cockheads, and were stroking over the prostate in the best possible way. Missionary position, and super intense orgasms!
I have had a huge orgasms while being fucked. There was a guy that used to fuck me who had a thick 9 inch cock. It would take me several minutes to get it in and it would hurt like hell at first. I would sit on top of him and ride his big dick. I wouldn’t even have to touch my cock and I would shoot a big load all over his chest. I have also came with a few other guys. Bottom line is that they have to be well endowed and I have to be really turned on. Total tops who just want to bang the hell out of me on all fours will not get me off.
I had a FB that I met through A4A when I was living in DC, he was a Marine, and I was usually bottom then…and he knew how to fuck. The second time we hooked up I was ass up and I was rock hard for his cock to enter me, and he rode me long and had my legs up the entire time, but my cock was also, stiff and plastered to my chest while he was enjoying my hole and I was feeling every inch of him inside me, as well as his tongue all over me. Literally the only time I’ve ever cum at the same time as my guy, because my cock was stiff against his chest and blew my load all against him and me while at the same time I felt him release deep inside me. I didn’t even bother reaching for my cock as I knew my load was spent, and I simply enjoyed the spasms from his cock.
Im mostly bottom and have been with many guys. But there’s only been two guys who have made me cum from anal sex. One guy was my ex. Knew all my spots and knew how to fuck my big ass hard. He’s even managed to make cum ooze from my hole. Or at least what I think is cum.
Other guy was one guy I would have NEVER expected. Guy I met online on a hookup app. It was around 4 am and we chatted and exchanged pics. He was short, kinda fem, but an amazing body. His cock wasn’t the biggest but it definitely wasn’t the smallest. He fucked me so hard and for a long time I had multiple orgasms. We finished. Showered, and he had to go to work and I had to leave. Last thing he ever told me as I left his house was “come over again sometime and I’ll make your muscle ass cum more”
Second most of what’s been said. It’s the best! Proves how close pain and pleasure really are. Takes a patient, skilled top to cause a hands free cum tho. I think I get why few tops wait tho, what with drugs leaving bottoms limp and the tops’ uncertainty or skepticism about anal orgasms.
I most certainly have, and it way spectacular! I have a fuckbuddy who topped me on my back and I came without anything touching or stimulating my cock other than his cock pumping my ass. Felt incredible and was as thorough an orgasm as if I were cumming as a top. Highly recommend the experience!!!
Most all of the comments posted talk about penis orgasms while penetrated. Few talk about anal orgasms. One used almost clinical description of rubbing the prostate to cause ejaculation and spasm. But that too misses my own experience. There is no good way to say it so I will say it badly but reserve the right to correct when I find the right words… The rectum secretes a mucus to help lube and push out waste. When I’m fucked, the prostate spasms and my rectum secretes the liquid. Basically, my ass cums. Not once, but several such orgasms during each fuck that leave me shaking with aftershocks long after its over.
I think a lot of the pleasure a bottom gets has to do with his top’s ability to last. Some bottoms are size queens and think it takes a huge one but I’ve found that my 6.5″ can more than satiate a hot hungry bottom lover. I’m able to last and even after I cum the first time, I don’t go soft so I’m able to continue fucking and that can go on for an hour or more. It does require an involved bottom who’ll switch up positions allowing different sensations for both my cock and his ass. A top watches his bottoms cock to see if cum/precum is oozing or dripping/streaming and knows that is a sure sign he is making contact with the right spots. Just slam fucking an ass porn style isn’t necessarily sensation giving to the bottom. I’ve found the bottom on top riding, either facing me or reverse cowboy is best for my bottom and it is a position I cum in as well. Another good position, especially for bottoms I’ve found is them on their side sorta, left leg up on my shoulder, me straddling their right leg and going inside deep. This position allows the deepest penetration since anatomy provides just the right V from him and V for me to go deep. I have just the right slight curve to the left so it makes good contact with the prostate too so as another earlier commenter stated, has to do with our own makeup somewhat too. Most of my bottom lovers cum while we are fucking. I’ve found some don’t like to and like the sensation my cock gives them to continue by not cumming. Lasting a long time seems to be the most important ingredient though. I was with a bottom recently who orgasmed by cumming three times in the span of less than an hour as I fucked him. Most bottoms don’t do that but he was exceptionally attuned to my cock and my technique I guess. Good fucking everyone, and finding what works for you is the most fun possible.
I am mostly oral and have never bottomed, but when I fell in love with another top, I went out and purchased a toy to prepare to allow him to fuck me. It can take a little bit of work, but on one particular occasion, I wa lying in my back, legs in the air and using the toy. I had a mind-blowing orgasm and shot over my own shoulder. Have had an couple of times similar, but not quite as intense. Sadly, my relationship with that friend has not developed as I had hoped.
I have had many orgasms will get my my fucked. I have ejaculated while being pounded. Usually then I am stroking my dick while he is hitting my ass hard. The most intense orgasms are anal orgasms. I truly love these. I can have multiple in one session. It puts my entire body in a euphoric state, my body is quivering and my ass spasms uncontrollably plus it gets wetter and wetter. I one session I soaked the bed my ass was so sloppy wet. I would rather have anal orgasms than ejaculate. It does help if the top is at least 7″ plus thick and with a nice curve. Once I start having anal orgasms I do not want my top to stop. I just want him to fuck my ass as long and hard as he can. It helps if you have a few guy tag team fucking you to. I just cannot get enough cock when I start having anal orgasms.
Wow! Another great question with perfect timing.
I’ve been a life long top since I was 15yo. Now 38. I met this guy 28yo Brazilian with the most amazing gym ripped body 8.5″uc. It was love at 1st site. The first time we hooked up it was primal oral beyond words and he was the aggressor. The part that frazzled my brain is I am a masc/Dom/top. I wound up fucking him and we were in heaven.
He flew into see me and we went to his hotel. I wasn’t even in the door 3aeconds and hadn’t even dropped my overnight bag. He had me pinned up against the wall with his rock hard cock pressing me in the ass as he kissed my neck. 30 seconds after that we were naked and the room was drenched in the smell of sex. He loves the way I suck his cock, he is hard and forcefully and I love getting face fucked. He shot his first load down my throat (so hot I almost drown). We kept at it. He was blowing me and then we switched to 69 and a whole bunch of stuff inbetween. He said,”now I’m gonna take what’s mine!” I laughed. Told him,”I’m a total top.” he said,”not today!” I said to myself lets do this. We pulled back the gears. He was so slow and gently. He was coaching me like I’ve coached all my newbs. He got in me with just the head. I was breathing like I just finished a marathon. He calmed me down. Kissing my neck and talking slow and soft as he inched his way into me. He was so awesome. He pushed and all of a sudden stopped. He couldn’t get past “the third ring”. He told me,” Dylan..you have to relax baby. I’m not gonna hurt you. Relax.” I was able to. Next thing I know he was in me ball deep. He worked me slowly. In and out. Always coaching me along the way. Once he burried it as deep as he could get into me I realized one huge thing. I am now VERS! He now started to FUCK me. Everything you’ve ever heard about Brazilians are true. He had me face down and his arms were under mine wrapped up. He poured on the power of that muscle body. He pounded me like I’ve never even seen in a vid. He was a locomotive in full speed. I turned into all the bottoms I’ve ever fucked at once. The pain/pleasure was so intense. He was slamming me and kept telling me I was his. In that Latin accent, he owned me. I begged him for more like a three dollar whore. He was now at ludericous speed. I couldn’t take the pleasure any more. I was now screaming,”more, harder, deeper!!! This only enticed him. He said my name in Spanish and I was literally his slave. He kept fucking me hard. We were fucking for 45min (I consider myself a champion bottom). he asked me,”can I do this to you when ever I want?” I begged him “YES!!!” He told me to take it and all of a sudden I was feeling amazing. My cock was rock solid. I could have smashed a diamond. all of a sudden the OMGs started coming And he went ballistic. I was shooting my load all over the bed. The puddle of cum was amazing. He just kept fucking me and never slowed down until he shot. It was the most intense sex I had ever seen/been part of. I came from never touching my cock. That never happens. He fucked the cummright out of me.
WOW Dylan,
Your sexual rendezvous with this Brazilian dude,
was utterly amazing!! Your attention to detail, literally had me hard as a rock.
I’m sure the two of you, flipped back and forth, continuously throughout his trip visiting you. Ciao
Yes I have – I find the best position for this is facing the guy riding his dick. I can usually cum without touching myself.
Ive had a couple. No hard-on but did orgasm. It really felt incredible as it approach. Both times doggie and it didn’t take long. His cock just rubbed the right way.
Hell yes I cum , with the right Top in me . That’s where size matters to me. Those tops going deep with 9inchs and more.. hitting that 2nd hole deep in me is the best.. I’m a total bottom who loves to suck dick, get my fat ass pounded good and hard.. Black guys really do it for me.
Yes i have. I had this black guy do it, he is the only one to ever do it and no one elase has done it since
Ok, here’s my experience, I apologize for the length. I wrote this a little while back, for a blog.
I do NOT get with just any guy, in fact, I’ve been “bi”
since I discovered sex, and have had male sexual connections with only 3 guys.
All could be considered somewhat long term, occasional.
I guess my criteria for choosing a compatible fuck buddy
is the reason for that.
I have always thought of myself as a bottom when with
another man. I believe there is a large psychological aspect to sex.
at least there is for me.
I’m not effeminate in any way but, whenever I’m with
a male partner for sex, It’s almost complete surrender, much of
my focus is on his sexual pleasure and on being certain that
he or she experiences maximum pleasure(this is the same for me
when I’m with a woman, I enjoy being an un-selfish lover).
When I’m with a guy,
I suppose, from his perspective, I seem somewhat feminine to him, and I like it. I
don’t mean dressing or acting like a woman, but the feeling
of being physically connected, in that way, I mean how
much more connected can one human being be to another than
by having him inside.
I’m not a overly philosophical guy, but it’s almost a spiritual connection.
I discovered the pleasure of receiving anal sex kind of
early on, quite by almost accident. That’s a whole other
story. Anyway, it lead me on the thought path to believing sex is sex,
with the same sex or the opposite, I mean why would it feel
so good in so many ways, if it is wrong? Just my opinion of
course.
That said, when I do get with a guy, it’s because I really
want to be there, all the way, this refers to the psych thing.
I don’t expect anyone to understand this next part, I’m not sure I completely understand…
I have experienced what I think is an internal orgasm.
Not the usual male orgasm, way different. I initially thought I was somehow making
this happen in my head, but with a bit of research and I find there
is something to this, it appears some other guys are experiencing similar.
Hm-mm, makes sense, why not?
I’m not talking just the prostate thing, I’m sure that’s part of
it, but there’s more. Even if I don’t cum in the traditional
way, I feel more than satisfied.
I do have these “internal orgasms” and they are extremely powerful.
They come one after another during sex in waves,
my nipples are highly sensitive, and so hard it almost hurts, lots
of nerve endings firing off. No usual orgasm during this, no
cumming, at least in the “usual ejactulatory way”
and it can last for as long as he is making all the
right moves. The best way I can describe it is un-realistically
intense pleasure…like going to heaven for a fraction
of second and back. Similatr in some way to edging…
If this is all in my head, yeah for me!
If my partner is attentive to my penis, at the right
moment, it can add a whole other layer to the internal thing,
and when I “cum” it is mind blowing, earth shattering. I would
not be able to stand up, I’m shaking short of breath, every
nerve is tingling. Words can’t explain it.
The usual hand job etc. is just like a whimper compared to
big big bang.
I really don’t expect many to understand any of this,
pretty sure I’m not too far off from being a normal human
being. Also I’m pretty sure we people probably don’t
know / understand as much as we’d like to think we do.
Nice to know there are others out there pondering these kind of things. 😉
Not on my own without stroking – whether it’s myself or someone’s hands rubbing or jacking my dick. I’ve had anal spasms that felt great without my touching myself but that’s about it.
Quite a few times have cum via getting pounded by a great thick long lasting cock. The best was a gay couple saw several times that did me orally and anally at once. Drove me wild. Also like a talented cocksucker who works my hot ass with fingers or toys.
I have a couple of times, both times I hadnt had an orgasm in a week and my partner was well hung and I spent plenty of time sucking on him getting me even hornier. Very intense orgasm.
Anal pleasure for me is second hand. Not wired for it. Where I “get off” is monitoring buds while they are having their way. Listening to them moan and groan as the work themselves in me. Listening to the tempo of thir breathing as their pleasure builds. And once they shoot, bringing them down over sevrral minutes from their high. And damn the deep kiss after, a toll I extract for being their fuck toy.
I have had one truly memorable anal orgasm many years ago. Wow! It was the best orgasm with cum that I have ever had. However, the very best one was a full body orgasm with a 10″ cock fucking me. This guy made love to me like I have never experienced before. He came, I didn’t but it didn’t matter. Every cell in my body was orgasming and I didn’t want him to ever stop. It kind of ruined sex for me. It has never been the same, yet, I crave that experience every day.
I have experienced anal orgasms many times. The last time I got fucked was the hottest and most intense ever though. I was out of town visiting family. This guy came to my room. Sucked my cock and ate the hell out of my ass. Lubed me up, put on a condom and while I was on my back put my legs back and slid his cock in me. His cock was not huge but thicker and had a slight upward curve. He started pounding me and I ended up cumming 5 times while he fucked me. Shooting cum each time. 3 times I was not even hard the other times I was. He took a break and sucked yet another load out of me. I had to make him eventually stop fucking me because I could not take it anymore. Was the most intest orgasms and sex I have ever had. True damn story!!!
Well, I can assure you that the 1,000s of guys who have fucked me all have had orgasms…
LOL. Out of subject but funny! You go boy!
I top,and have seen men cum from me fucking them. I like to eat ti first and they can relax and take me in.My cock is bowed like a banana so in the missionary position it rubs the prostate to ecstasy. I have been topped but don’t like the full sensation and have not cum. I have cum from being eaten while in the 69 position.
The guy was fucking me, My orgasm was internal, intense, and gave such a feeling. Then he wanted to see me cum, so I did.
So I’ve had a guy penetrate me anally and he did it so well that liquid of some sort, came running down my leg. I thought it was urine, cum or blood, but it wasn’t. I’ve also had it to where the liquid squirted out all over the bed and on the wall that the bed was against. Is that normal and what is it? It’s clear, thick and a little sticky.
Where was this clear, thick and sticky fluid secreted from Tony?? From your cock or ass??
Tony, your ass is wet like a woman’s pussy. It’s Antoinette, the woman inside you…
Yes all time when i get fucked and its better with a thick or longer cock in me
Top here, still experimenting trying to bottom for the first time though. I never really experienced anything like that yet, but a couple of guys who I been with was able to do that with me. The first one I thought was just him because he kept having orgasms one after another when I was in him, but after the third or forth one I began to believe it could work with just the right guys I’m with
i met a hung bear and we played on his porch in a rundown trailer park while a neighbor watched and jo. I came twice with him up my ass, hands free. both were big loads.
Once, when riding a very thick 8″ vibrator. I’d been edging for awhile but thought I was in one of those ‘down’ periods when I started riding the vibrator and watching porn. I quickly got hard and had a toe-curling orgasm that seemed to go on forever…
Now what did I do with that vibrator…?!
Yes I have only one guy was able to make me cum while fucking me. My old fuck buddy would be nailing me raw and his dick was so perfect i would tremble and explode everywhere. Unfortunately we dont hookup anymore.
Yes I have had an orgasm while being fucked. It takes an experienced lover that can multitask…lol lie on your back ass under a sofa cushion better support. Legs up and a top entering your sweet tight hole. Slowly going deep in you he strokes your cock and slow pumps you deep hitting your prostate gland. You’ll want to play with your nipples too while you orgasm. The intensity is incredible..and yes let him milk every drop out.. til it’s so sensitive you scream out in pleasure. Hope this helps…be sure to lick his hands clean tasting your own cum…lol
Yes, once, about five or six years ago. It’s a bittersweet story. I was in my early fifties at the time. Hooked up with a black dude in Oakland (met on here). I drove over to his place, we both liked what we saw. His name was Theo. His dick was huge. Long and thick. He kissed like a king and got me so hot, the clothes were off in seconds. We crawled in his bed and continued to turn each other on. Sucking his dick was hard, it was thick, but I gave it my all. He ate my ass like a pro, then he started to lube his cock. I’m not a power bottom and told him to be kind. He had me sit on the bed facing him as he faced me, grabbed me close so my legs were on top of his hips and began to penetrate me while holding me close and kissing me deeply. It felt great! I was expecting pain but he slid right inside and began rocking me. It was incredible, with his lips on mine and my hands hugging his shoulders and back. I started feeling myself beginning to tense up a bit and I looked down at his giant cock moving in and out of my ass and my rock hard cock and all of a sudden my hips started to shake and I felt a euphoria like I’ve not felt in my fifty plus years of living as cum started shooting out my cock, tons of it like I’ve never seen happen before, and the kicker was I WASN’T EVEN TOUCHING MY COCK. I heard about hands free orgasms but never experienced one until that moment and it lasted a good forty five seconds. He came as well and we laid back and I kept saying “in-fucking-credible” over and over. His dick was the magic stick that hit the right spots to give me an orgasm that I never had in my life. We said bye and I told him I would love to see him again, soon. He was cool with it and as I drove back home I couldn’t believe what just happened. I wanted to feel it again and again. I texted him thanking him for a wonderful afternoon. Later on, I texted another message before I went to sleep letting him know when I was free the rest of the week, and he responded with interest but somewhere over the course of the next two days, my desire to see him again outweighed my common sense and I overkilled it on the texts because he responded to a late night one not very nicely. I apologized and told him I wasn’t some nut case, but he gave me something incredible and I wanted to feel it again. Afraid I scared him off, I told him I wouldn’t bother him anymore and that I’d wait for him to get hold of me. He never did. I remember crying for a good day over the irony of the situation. I’m the least pushy or bothersome person around, but I scared him off. I would run into him online from time to time after that and would say hello but he remained guarded and that second invite never came. It was painful seeing him online, I even stopped using A4A for months because I didn’t want to see him online, remember that feeling of looking down at my untouched cock squirting out streams of cum and the my body shaking with tremors of pleasure. I’m now 57 and I still think about that one glorious afternoon with Theo of Oakland (near the Piedmont border). If only I would have handled things differently, but looking back, I can see I scared him off, the same way I get scared off of a dude coming at me way too strong, too many nut cases, why take the chance. Maybe this story will find it’s way to him, I have to admit that being an underlying purpose. Until you’ve had this kind of orgasm, you don’t know what an orgasm is. Chetzz
oh hell yes i started as a bottom so have been fucked many times and enjoyed most all of them but the guy Mike that really made me cum hands free was a hot younger guy he wanted me to fuck him the first cpl times we met. he lived about 1.5 hours away. i got his txt about 10pm one night so i cleaned out and relaxed with a drink waiting for him. i’m not a stoner but i knew he liked to smoke weed so when he got here he said he had some wicked purple weed that smelled great so he loaded a bowl while i sucked his curved 8.5 thick cock then we spent some time just sucking n rimming he was never a kisser before so that was a surprise to me telling me he was getting into it. and that got me into it even more. i was on my knees sucking him he was fingering my hole he is a big precummer i was getting some good taste so i knew he was turned on we were on my couch i removed the back cushions for a little more room had him lay back i got on top my leg across his right arm other leg on the floor and slid down on his sweet cock taking him deep almost immediatly and slowly started stroking him deep my cock was rock hard n bouncing around then he pushed me on my back into the missionary position my legs over his shoulders and he was hammering my ass and started kissing me that was it for me i started shooting my nut all over my chest n face his chest n belly while he continued fucking me like crazy my dick went soft he kept pumping into me all the while making out we was slick n sticky with my cum he slowed a bit but kept pumping my ass and surprising to me i cam some more while soft and never having touched my dick prob in the top fuck of my life
another was a young nerdish student from IOWA STATE University i dont think he was a virgin since he knew how to clean out. but he was used to the college guy syndrome wam bam done dont worry about the bottom effect . so we sucked each other and 69’d i rimmed his ass for a bit when i thought he was ready i pushed him into the doggy position and took my time working deep into him with my 6.5″ cock started pumping him slowy at 1st then working up the power n speed i was kissing the back of his neck and pinching his nips then he started fucking back against to me then he screamed i’m coming and wow did he shot a puddle of cum all over the carpet. i know he never touched his cock since his hands were holding himself up . so i’d say he enjoyed himself. he came back a few times but never with the same result
my ex bf is another guy that we had some great times in bed on the couch the floor many times with him have had him beg me to stop after he gets his 2nd or 3rd nut while fucking him most times in the missionary position then he would finish me off sucking me then kissing me with my come in his mouth hottttt
I enjoyed the last story the most
Never Have, Probably Never Will Achieve An Orgasm. I Don’t Think There’s A Top In This World That’s That Damn Good That Can Take Me There.
I have the most intense orgasmic sensations when the top does it in just the right way. I don’t get hard or ejaculate but wave on wave of pleasure courses through me, my toes curl and in the end I am left so relaxed…and then hours late, little shudders of pleasure appear out of nowhere reminding me of the joy. so much better than any orgasm I have had by any type ofcock stimulation.
I can shoot a load (cum) while I have a cock in my ass and has cum. While going limb inside of me I will cum all over my sheets Wow what a feeling.
Ps. try it
YES!!!! I ve been fucked 4 times and every single time I had orgasms. The first time I had 1 after he fucked me for 20 minutes slow and gentle. Then the other 3 times I was able to orgasm several times depending on how long the top fucked me. The must I have so far was 5 times and he fucked me for 1 hour. It was amazing!!! I just cant wait to get fucked again.