Love : Did You Meet Your Lover on A4A?
Last year our Twitter account was tagged tagged by none other than New York Times! The famous newspaper has a wedding section in which they mentioned that “Neil and Daniel met through Adam4Adam in 2007 and finally got married”. When we say that Adam4Adam is what you make of it, that’s the proof!
In a post we made last year on our blog, we discussed about wether or not gay love exists. It does! You just need to be patient I think. And for those who said that A4A was a hookup site, yes it is, but it is also a dating site and a social site. Many of you have been here since the beginning, 2003, and have developed friendship, some found love, some found sex parties, some found hookups over the years. There’s definitely something for everyone on A4A.
You rarely get to hear about the couples who formed on A4A because most of the times, they delete their accounts. But our support team get messages every now and then about couples thanking us. What I would like to do is to create a mosaic made with photos of couples who formed on A4A. I would post that mosaic as a Facebook and Twitter header and also on Instagram and the blog. If you’d like to get featured during the month of February (Valentine’s Day month), let me know by email at blog @ adam4adam.com. We will also share your story on the blog if you want. Other users like to hear real love stories.
Thanks everyone!
YES ive had very good luck just had to thin them out . like the that promises to hook up my rating 10 being geat id give adam
whats preferred smooth bottom or hairy
my ex was on here and several other sites. I should’ve paid more attention to the other sites.
Lover????
are you kidding me?
as of my experience, i NEVER,EVER, can find anyone as a lover
most of guys looking for hit & run
or make fun of each other with horrible words and nasty tongues , so sad
Well… here is my thought on this. It’s true that most on here looking for hit and run and that’s why we have to be careful on the selection. I do believe there are nice guys on here with good intentions of meeting the “right” kind of guys for dating/longer commitment etc. but that I find extremely rare. Also I think long distance can also be a problem when you meet nice good people. Just go with the flow, not have high expectations then you will be ok
I have met several great guys on here. And have kept several of them as ongoing play buds. Hit and run guys are pretty easy to spot and avoid. They’re going to lay on pressure the first time you chat to meet n-o-w. Stick with guys who are willing to have several chat sessions before you meet. Use the sessions to discuss not only what you are looking for but also what you bring to the table (or bed). Look for guys who are willing to talk more about what they’ll do for you than what’s in it for them.
My husband and I met through A4A over 10 years ago and were married on Christmas Eve 2014. Yes, you can find love on the internet, but it is not a slam-bam-thank-you-Sam type of thing..we saw each other every weekday for over 18 months and then moved in together at the suggestion of his then wife. we have been together ever since and we are very good friends with the ex-wife. I had a partner for almost 21 years until his death in 2003, alone for three years and then met my future husband here on A4A
I’ve hooked up with at least 200 guys on a4a over the years. One guy has been a regular lover for over 10 years. I love this site!!
Nice:)
I met eight of my lovers on A4A and five are still with me. Thanks A4A.
John, are u in a couple? or those are your sex buddies ?
i still haven’t found ‘love’, not really in a hurry though. as for the ‘fun’ part, it’s a hit or miss. not as hot people would think a site like a4a would be. and it’s not the app’s fault, it’s mostly the guys, they’re just…. there acting stupid and playing mind games to say the least. for a ‘hook up’ or ‘dating’ app you would expect better results lol
however i have made some friends here, so it’s not all lost.
I was robbed and almost got killed from someone on here after having sex with me. Don’t get me wrong I’m not blaming the site but what it attracts. Just saying. And yes I found my lover on here (he is a foreigner) we been together since after that horrible incident. 2008 and still going strong.
Hi Tony, can u get in touch with me? blog @ adam4adam.com
I’m so tired of the games people play here on Adam4Adam. No one is ever serious and stands by their truth. It’s all about hit and run, which is the main theme here on this site. Look at the advertisers who support it…Sex sites, gay porn sites and male impotency drugs. A lover, not in my experiences here. Its was mind games and random hook ups. Good luck to those who found true love here!
I agree with you 100%..
Yes…I found my husband on this site 10 years ago…we married on Christmas Eve 2014.
chick, can you get in touch with me? [email protected] adam4adam.com ( no space)
Have not found but still searching. I am not holding my breath on finding him here on A4A though.
I havent found him yet…I gues I meet the wrong ones but I dont blame A4A,i am still searching and I hope I found the one,its either here or somewhere else..but wont lose hope love
I notice the men who found a man on here permanently did so about 10 years ago. Apparently, the site has evolved since then. I find, and I’ve used this on travel to multiple cities with my work, that most of the men on here are (a) playing games; (b) all show and no go (they don’t meet); or (c) are flakes and wierdos. However, and this is why I like A4A, one does, on occasion, meet really nice men who are (a) healthy; (b) meet; and (c) sane and grounded. When I meet those A4A men, and I have, there is truly nothing better. Nothing.
Besides the numerous and generally good hookups, I have met several “interesting” and apparently qualified men on this site as far as possible relationships were concerned. In retrospect and with what I know now, these men were NOT genuinely interested in ME.
I did find a number of interesting sex parties on this site, one of which was located in the Bronx, NYC, near the Mosholu Parkway Station on the #4 train and which led to my disability. I went there several times over a period of a year and a half and then on Sunday morning, December 7, 2008, I was assaulted there. They slipped something into my vodka punch while I was chatting in the kitchen with thee or four guys and I lost consciousness from about 1:30 am until about 5:00 am when I woke up on the bed, in the bedroom, with a guy holding me down while another one was punching and a group of guys was standing and watching by the head of the bed. I did not know any of them them although I had run into the guy who was punching me about two weeks earlier there. What was even more peculiar was that the previous guys who were before I passed out had left and were now replaced by this new group of guys.
When I finally pushed the guy off me, the one who was punching me said that he was going to get his gun from his car to shoot me. As I got up from the bed, I realized that I had three small puncture wounds with dried-up blood on my left leg, the biggest one about the size of a small fingernail. Then I left the party in a hurry in my boxer shorts and made my way back to Brooklyn half-naked on the subway.
Three or four days later, the leg started to swell and turned partly red to the point where it became three times the size of the right leg and the wounds were oozing with blood and pus. I did see my physician once and did go to the hospital emergency room twice during that time but on December 17, 2008, I was admitted to the hospital emergency room unable to walk. They performed a first surgery that same night to save the leg and two days later, the surgeon said that he had to amputate the leg above the knee. I had “NECROTIZING FACIISTIS” or as it is better know “FLESH-EATING BACTERIA”.
I obtained my disability retirement from my work in February 2009 and I also retired from the sex and/or relationship life.
On the second day at the hospital after the first surgery and before the amputation, I called a good friend that I knew since 1989. We used to talk on the phone every day, go the movies and ski resorts and I told him what happened. However, he never visited me at the hospital even though I stayed there until January 27, 2009. Also about two years after the assault, I contacted on Facebook a man that I knew and used to consider as relationship material and related the story to him, he told me: “Sorry but I do not know you and I never met you before”.
Fortunately, I woke up early enough that morning of December 7, 2008 to prevent these guys from injecting the same toxin in my right leg. Hence, I could still walk with my crutches or artificial leg and do what I HAD to do. Events still TOOK PLACE notwithstanding their coward and, in the end, futile action. The universes do have a way to take care of matters.
That was my adam4adam true story.
I would have never thought I would have met my Husband of 7yrs now on A4A but I did,,,,,
freespirit wow sorry to hear of your experience, but i had a ltr of 2 yrs i thought he was the 1 now still looking