Sexuality : Secret Erogenous Zones
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Whether you’ve been around the dating scene for quite some time now or just a young buck looking to make that first physically intimate connection, chances are you’ve already got a “plan of attack” in mind when it’s just you and the guy in the bedroom. The knowledge could be from your own years of experience or from whatever you’ve heard from your friends’ stories.
But ever guy is different, and one man’s erogenous zone could conceivably do nothing for another guy, and probably even leave then cold and unreceptive. To help you navigate these zones (pun intended), here’s a list of not-so-obvious erogenous zones that you can check out the next time you’re with someone!
1. Soles of the feet
If the comments to this Adam4Adam post is anything to go by, it would seem like feet in general and soles in particular are a sadly neglected erogenous area. Pay attention to it next time, and you may just tickle more than the other guy’s funny bone.
2. Sides of the chest
Here’s another part of the body that you wouldn’t usually think to focus on when you’re getting it on with someone. Some may be tickled by you going for this particular body part, while some may be tickled in much more adult way, if you know what I mean.
3. Nipples
Yes, yes, there’s probably going to be people in the comments saying that this isn’t exactly a secret erogenous zone. And the whole lot of you were very vocal about your preference for nipple play in a previous Adam4Adam post. But since you’re already in the general area after playing with the side of your man’s chest, you might as well take the next step and tweak those things.
4. Inner Thighs
With the main event literally up for grabs right in front of you, it’s no wonder that the inner thighs are often overlooked when it comes to the bedroom. In fact, think of it as the preview before the main event. If you do it well, your partner will probably lose his mind when you finally get to his dick.
5. Ear Lobes
Ear lobes certainly aren’t top of mind when it comes to foreplay, which makes them the best thing to surprise your partner with. And depending on how rough he wants the foreplay to be, there are a variety of things that you can do with it: nibble it gently or pull at it with your teeth. The choice is up to you and your partner.
6. Armpit
Here’s another body part that arouses a lot of emotion from you guys, pun intended. In a recent Adam4Adam post, there were a lot of impassioned arguments for or against the sexiness of armpit licking. While there isn’t a consensus on that, one thing is for sure – don’t count the armpit out when it comes to foreplay.
7. Underside of the Balls
This isn’t the taint we’re talking about. You’re all mostly fine with getting fingered or rimmed, at least from the comments section in this post, so why not venture up a little higher and play with this rarely-explored area? Your partner may just find it to be a pleasant surprise.
Do you know of any other erogenous zones that you feel aren’t given enough attention? Share it with us in the comments below!
You are missing SOOOO many:
1) Palms. Gentle strokes, licks, even sucking, can drive a man batshit.
2) The filtrum. That divit under your nose above your lip. This is a wonderful place to gently lick or stroke.
3) Behind knees, especially the hollow portion. You can suck, lick, even bite, and it can feel intensely sexual and sensual.
4) Back of the neck, just on or above the most prominent backbone/neckbone joint, and just below the small of the back.
5) Inner elbow. Just like the knees above.
6) Navel. Tonguing a navel or nibbling a belly just around it will have a guy squirming for release.
7) Scalp. Whether gently scratching and massaging through the hair, or licking and rubbing a bald head, this is intensely sensual — ask anyone who has had his hair washed by a professional.
That’s just off the top of my head.
Above all, ask if he likes his nipples pinched.
Personally it pisses me off. It is painful to me.
It takes my boner away and kills the moment.
Don’t pinch a man until you discuss it.
It is like biting the foreskin of a person you do not know.
The neck.
All those hickies don’t end up there by accident.
Back & nape of the neck, eyelids, lower abdomen… an article for tops on how to find a prostate would be a good idea!
the neck,,,,,massaging the sides from shoulders to the back of the ear….another is putting the toes in your mouth,,,,,great after a full body massage or a romp in the shower
the neck,,,,,massaging the sides from shoulders to the back of the ear….another is putting the toes in your mouth,,,,,great after a full body massage or a romp in the shower
Neck, arms, buttock, fingers, Toes, what else?
Just above the knee cap can be very sensitive and exciting. I had a fb who knew just how to induce pleasure working that area with his tongue and teeth. Try it sometime!
Behind the Neck/ The arch of his Back
Besides the fact thats one of my own zones, Those are usually my go to spots on most my partners. Not only that I’m 6,2, most dudes like being the small spoon when we cuddle so instead of suffering a hard dick cause of his Ass pushing on me, my best rebuttal to kiss, lick and bite behind his neck
They’re different on each person, but the ones you list aren’t all that secret. But the importance varies from one to another. If you have such a zone, putting a tattoo there is a pretty stupid idea, as they are in general. When someone is trying to make love to you or turn you on, having to look at a stupid picture in your skin is distracting, a real turn-off.
The back of the knee, inside of the elbow, anywhere on the loins, just above the cock, just below the navel, there are many sensitive spots, anywhere one is ticklish.
Yes to the nipples
The neck on me and a great many guys. Just nuzzling, licking and sucking will identify what part
Balls
The sides of the balls and cock..
The brain ?
Once a guy gently lick the underside of my sack. Thought I was going to lose it right then.
For me, the “Adonis Wings” (that V in the lower abdomen), the lower abdomen itself, and my wrists can be extremely erogenous with a sensual guy. They are both very difficult to arouse, though, and most guys fail horribly… I’m guilty of faking it with these fellas. But I’ve had two guys that have been able to get me to cum with only focusing on these spots.
I had a guy he loved belly buttons more so around it. Wow got me extremely difficult not to cum
Very slowly worked his way down my red happy trail
Lightly gliding your finger over the skpine gets hairs raising as well.
I met a guy who ran his tongue up n down my back before kissing my neck and ears. I turned to jelly right on the spot.
The neck.
Among the discussed erogenous zones above, I have to say the buttock when being licked and lightly bitten. So heavenly amazing! Well, what I can say, I have a nice rum and enjoy that every time, more than being rimmed.
The entire ass. Just to gently kiss, nibble and suck those buns is so hot
The ear does it for me and my FB. Just start licking, kissing and sucking the neck under the chin work your way back to under the ear then up continuing licking, kissing sucking then the ear lobe and even into the ear giving it a good tounge bath. Drives us both wild.