Speak Out : Kinky Birthday
Salutations A4A Blogosphere!
One of my closest friends is having a birthday this coming weekend and I had asked his boyfriend if they had any plans to celebrate. It is his 31st birthday so the big blow out was last year and I was rather surprised when neither of them made mention of any sort of celebratory festivities to commemorate the year of his birth.
Turns out no one really thought about it, such a sad circumstance. You see – it is Thanksgiving weekend here in Canada and most people are either making plans to head home to be with family or planning a male bonding weekend out of town. Sad reality is that if you are one of those fellows whose birthday falls on a long weekend + National Holiday, you’re pretty much sh*t-outta-luck for attendees.
This particular friend and his beau don’t seem to mind as they tend to have a very healthy and rather adventurous sex life so I can only imagine that his beau is planning some kinky weekend full of cake and a whole lot of other shenanigans. I am almost jealous that these two are seemingly content just being in each other’s company and don’t appear to have a care in the world about whether the festivities take place or not! Of course, me being single and not in the same mind frame as those two lovebirds, I would be pretty upset if any of my friends forgot about my birthday celebrations. I guess those are the fringe benefits of being in a relationship.
One of the things I love about these two is how free they are about their sexual proclivities – these guys have a penchant for giving deep details about their sexual exploits and say it without care or embarrassment. A story that stands out, and I am pulling this up from memory so my details may be slightly exaggerated, they spoke about setting up a tent in the middle of their living room – pulling the mattress off the bed and putting it inside the tent. From there the two slowly start to undress each other in a tender moment of romantic lust for one another. With foreplay out of the way they’ve moved onto some pretty heavy and kinky fu**ing. Complete with toys I didn’t know existed. I always say that the two of them are lucky that their neighbors like them because the sounds coming out of that apartment that night most certainly would’ve warranted a visit from the Noise Police… or perhaps even a kinky neighbor wanting to get in on the action!
One of the scenes that inspired me to write this story is on our Next Door Ebony site starring Brandon Jones and Marlone Starr. Marlone is alone at home feeling dejected and alone because no one has wished him a happy birthday. Brandon arrives as a special delivery from a friend wanting to make sure Marlone’s birthday isn’t for not! Check out the hot scene here!
Now I’m turning it over to you!! Have you done something special for your significant other, whether it’s your lover or friend(s) with benefits? I want to hear something sexy and romantic or perhaps even something that deviates from your normal sexual appetites. Tell me in the comments section. As usual – best story gets a 1 month free pass to Next Door Buddies where you can enjoy the scenes in their entirety!!
Awww , it’s so sweet how some people can make such a big fuss about their birthdays and expect the world to stop for them on their ‘special day’ .
At this point in my life I’ve endured living through 6 ‘zero factor’ birthdays and I never even had sex on any of them !
In fact , when I turned 21 my pops never even wished me a happy birthday even though it was a big one for him back in the day . Youngsters of today have no recollection of the significance of things like getting the keys to the house or car , much less the fuss family would make of the occasion . Did it fuck me up for life ? No . I suppose you can tell that I’m not a millenial .
Guess I won’t win any prizes with this submission .. lol
sounds like some issues to work through
When my str8 fuckbuddy turned 21 we spent a quiet night of him deepthroating my 9″ like a pornstar, while I ate his ass like a paroled convict with a free pass at a whorehouse. Cuddling up and sleeping the early morning away enjoying being men who love men.
Hey, my birthday is next week. I would love to deep throating you like a porn star. I can take a good face fucking.
I personally don’t like it when people try to do things for me on my birthday that are too over the top. It’s fun to celebrate, but more with the people I’m closest to in an intimate way, like over dinner out somewhere. I like to just do things that I enjoy that day, and plan something special for the evening. I don’t want to feel like my birthday has to be so spectacular that I’ll never live up to it. Just being with your significant other, or a few family and friends is enough for me.
Have to agree with Soft & Fluffy …
Hey, for me, it’s great that a guy treat his man on the man’s birthday. Something intimate and special between the two of them. But every birthday should not be an over-the-top experience. It’s nothing more than the “attention whoring” that results in most of society laughing at many many gays. And a disappointment when “my man of five years let me down this year.”
For sure, no voyeurs need to know about the intimate and special event. They’ll just turn it into today’s fix for their porn addiction. “Here today, gone tomorrow” as is said.
But, hey, if you and your partner want to have at over-the-topping each other year after year and letting yourselves be social spectacles, that’s your choice, of course. No whining, however, if everyone doesn’t respond with “puppies and butterflies”. After all, that’s their choice, too.
This topic is so timely. Today is my birthday and a fuckbuddy called to come over and said, “It’s your day, anything you want!” I’m totally rung out! Haven’t smiled like this in years!
You’re just gonna leave us hanging like that? What happened? What’d you guys do? Details, details!!! We need details!!! Happy Birthday.