Hot or Not : Group Sex, Are You In or Out?
Group sex or group fun, however it is called this day and age, is it for you? Anyway, I asked because I was watching this video released over at Reality Dudes titled A Spit Delight. The plot revolved around a new pledge to their fraternity and four other guys who welcomed him by spit roasting him and fucking him. This got me thinking: Ah, to be young and reckless.
But it was admittedly hot.
Hot. Hot. Hot. But, we can’t all be frat boys being welcomed by their fraternity brothers, can we?
How does group sex work in the first place? Is there a protocol? And how do you find willing participants? It’s not as if you can just approach a guy and then ask him: are you up for a group fuck? For some it could be like asking for a punch on the face.
Or is it that simple? Maybe you were out with a bunch of friends drinking and then things progressed from the dance floor in the club to the bedroom.
Possible? No? Maybe?
But the real question here would be if the friendship could withstand proclivities of this kind? Because friends remained our friends for a reason and there’s always this line you cannot cross with them or you risk losing them.
Is there really such a thing as sex parties? The news travel via word of mouth and you got invited to one of them. Or get regularly invited.
Has that happened to you? You went to one but didn’t enjoy it because you lay on the other side of the bed forgotten while the others got all the action.
Maybe you’re that someone currently in a relationship and are longing to tempt the significant other into trying orgies but had no idea how to bring it up to him lest it leads to drama or worse, separation?
What about public sex clubs? Ever been?
I had a friend who told me he participated in several group sex with people he met online. That he might even have sex videos online as souvenir. He said the hookup method was pretty simple and straightforward. They chatted online and exchanged phone numbers. He was given the address where the guy and the others waited and he just went there—materialized on the front door and things happened from there.
Sounds familiar to you? Then by all means please share with us your very own experience below and don’t forget to check the video of the college guys enjoying each other here.
USUALLY ME AND A FRIEND KNOW SOME GUYS THAT ARE FREAKY LIKE US WE CALL THEM TO PLAY CARDS,DRINKS THEN SOMEONE GETS HORNY THAT SET IF OFF
Where do you live LOL
I think its a bunch of bullshit to cover up something of other people activity.
I go to a regular hotel room party that I found on-line. Sometimes its hot (1st time I got spit roasted with 2 big cocks), sometimes not (last time everyone just seemed to stand around, it took me 30 minutes to get fucked). But when its hot, its the best sex to be had! I love being watched when I can be slutty.
Been to a number of them set up by two different buds who establish groud rules and vet who is invited. For the most part it’s guys who know each other already and know any new guys really well
There is no pairing off behind closed doors allowed. Guys who ask too many questions about if you have to undress or who will be there are not given the location. “No thank you” means just that once play starts..
All the parties I have been to have been good safe fun because of how they’re run.
what city are they in?
Hit me up in my profile.
Naw I’ll pass, but have fun all of you that will say yes…
I don’t think group fun is as hot as one-on-one, especially if there is any emotional attachment. Engaging in group fun with someone to whom one has even a slight emotional attachment produces some conflicted feelings, which diminishes the fun aspect. That being said, the “orgy” experience is fun “interesting,” but it is sort of devoid of any emotional content, more a “mechanical” experience (“practice” love-making) of getting off! It is also sort of an ego boost if there is a fairly large group and one gets sought out by a hottie for a one-on-one in front of the others.
No, group is nasty as hell.
Hell yeah….as long as I am the center of pound town 😉
I was in a gay orgy type scenario once with four other guys and I was the only bottom . It was without a doubt the hottest thing I have ever done sexually . If you have never had sex with more than one man at a time you are definitely missing out . Its a great feeling when you have accomplished getting four men to shoot nice loads of hot cum inside you and still cumming back for more . I have always said the only thing better than one hard cock and a lot of hard cocks .
Hmm. You mentioned “gay” before orgy. So does that mean that also get into err involved in “straight” or “bisexual” orgies as well?
IN!!!
Is it wrong for me to have thought, “oh great.. here come the haters with their judgemental comments like ew, gross, or nasty!” lol
Yeah but then they get double fisted behind closed doors…
Not “double fisted”! Bwahahahahaha
no, you’re wrong. it’s also judgemental to imply every gay guy in order to fit in, has to be into random hook ups or orgies. there’s a large diversity within the community.
I gotta a buddy who puts groups together, knows the guys well. Usually 5 or so tops, 1 or 2 bottoms. I’m a top and I fucking love it. Real camaraderie with your buddies. I like watching my friends fuck and I like being watched while I fuck. I love 1 on 1 too, this is a totally different experience.
I’ve been in two groups, the first was terrible where I joined a young guy and his older than dirt partner (didn’t know he was that old, lied in profile). The second was in a hotel room with three of us tops and one bottom to share. It was hot and a lot of fun. SO, I’m 50/50 on it right now. Need to get into another one to break the tie.
Don’t mind watching group porn , but in real life ? No .
And I’d be skeptical of picking up someone who lists in their profile likes , ‘Group sex and 3 somes’
I’ve never been in a group, but I would like to see what it’s about. I’ve seen parties on A4A but I leery about attending. I’ve never had a 3 some, so that’s on my “fucket” list. I would like to be invited to a poker game to see if it is really poker being played.
I have done 4 before and we met at least a dozen times. We were all into kink, so it provided a outlet for that. Sometimes it was theme based, sometimes it was body part based. Every time we stayed and got off at least 3 times, it was at hotel, we would sleep and if someone woke up instigating another round, you were woken up. Some times it was a rude awakening as we all agreed that ws was open and you could wake someone up doing that
Still do 3somes all the time, even some mmf and mmf
hooray, another page where pozzed up worn out old bottoms get to tell everyone how much they like to get fucked
loll and then you take the time to read the whole thing and even comment on it.
Group doesn’t mean “poz”. Group fun can be with condom, with PrEP… Ever thought of that?
#respect
while i agree that condoms can be used, let’s be real here, many of those ‘parties’ are done bb.
on and another thing, if i got a boyfriend/husband, i’m not ‘sharing him’ and no, i won’t be cheating behind his back. stop making it sound like all gays like to fuck around random guys, even in serious solid relationships. it’s a wonder why we’re never taken seriously with articles like this…
who is taken seriously? You think straight people are all married and have kids? LOL
Some of my straight friends are wayyyyy sluttier than I am, they do orgies on a weekly basis, they are lawyers and engineers… normal people.
I’ve done it once, had loads of fun (no pun intended!) Would do it again, but I’m very picky about age, weight, and most of all, super super cleanliness. Married guys seem to be more passionate than single guys, but that’s my opinion.
Always make breeding parties. All tops breeding my cum soaked asshole. Always into group sex
Where are you guys. Wecanfk.
I did it once. Was a terrible experience as I got “voted off the island” so to speak.
Group sex is hot but I won’t know cause have only ever had sex with just guy at a time
I’m Out. I like to pick what I like and not share it with anyone. It’s one on one for me.
Ive been to group gatherings and things were hot, there are group parties listed online but they all seem to have standards if your not hot & built your not welcome.
I have been the top in a three way with these guys who were partnered. Older/younger. I loved it but found that I spent more time with the younger guy …. like younger better and felt I was leaving the older guy out of the scene. In general I loved it.
Groups are freaky HOT
Just wish i could.find more 🙂
At what number do you start considering it a “group?”
I been with up to 3 other guys….. But definitely yes i am into it…..
I enjoy group gathering’s, have a group in my town that gets together couple time a year. Hot and friendly. Also there is always a couple new guys that come. When the sling comes out you are sure to have some hot sweaty play.
I have done the group thing a few times. Once I hosted 5 other guys. Lately, I’ve been going to a group that meets once a month. There are usually about 15-20 guys there, all ages (18+), shapes, sizes and ethnicities. It’s a pretty hot time, lots of oral, some fucking. Everyone has to strip naked upon entering the room. I’m a chubby dude, and I get plenty of action anyway. It’s so fucking hot to basically be in the middle of a live porno. Last time I went, there was a hot built young guy lying on the bed next to me. He was getting pounded while I was getting a blowjob. We started making out and I was jerking his big cock while he was getting fucked. It was incredible.
I have been involved in several 3 ways (and one 4-way). All but one were great especially where I got spit roasted. The bad one was when the other two were so into each other, I don’t think they noticed me sucking their cocks.
Went to my first group get together last night. Pretty much we all knew each other through this site (thank you!!). It was the best time I have ever had, not just the sex but the atmosphere, and being with “family” and letting my guard down for a few hours. Thank you Adam for being part of making this happen. With out you we would not have known each other and YES I am a dom top and all the bottoms rode me non stop.
Nasty and more nasty …the stank of it all is documented by the many comments in here of people who think it’s awesome…well you nasty and your mom’s got to be nasty ..disgusting
i will repeat what i said earlier, the society will never take us seriously with articles like these.
just because we might like certain themes in porn, doesn’t mean our life ambition is to be an ‘unpaid’ porn actor lol!
I myself have indulged in a few here & there. It’s not something that I always looked for but just seemed to happen. It usually started aftergoing out to the club. A few friends or just 1 would invite a bunch of people over to their place and it would either just go straight into people stripping and getting busy or just hanging out listening to more music and having more drinks and well one thing would lead to another and there ya go.
A good amount of them were organized and by an ex-boyfriend I was seeing off and on for several years – whose sexual lust nearly matched my own. We had sort of an open relationship thing going on so it never bothered me if he flirted with or invited somebody over (as long as they were cute, and if they didn’t fwt more attached to me than him since my ex had a retarded jealousy thing when it came to other guys that he felt would get more of my attention than he did – weird?, yes I know. lol). I will say this, he was really good and getting a good bunch of cute guys together and even just as god at breaking the ice between everybody and getting things rolling. The sweet-talking bumb he was.
Oh yeah, uhmm….. some were exciting and just non-stop fun yet others were boring and just fowl as so many things can happen. Its always risky when you have more than 2 people together. If the right people are not good together you will always find that somebody will ultimately be left out – its happened to me before, ugh. The good thing in my experiences is that some if not most of the group fun I’ve have been mainly with good friends of mine. A few that I had gotten with sexually numerous times before and a few where the desire to get with them was always there but never the chance or right setting where it could actually happen – were the main or usual participants. And because of the friendship, what we did only made some of us just that much closer to each other. Some of those friends just saw as something that just happened and others (the more fun and adventurous ones) liked it and even became repeat players. My ex when he would invite people over would have me and usually always invite this friend of his – which became my friend as well. A good thing yet not so good as me and this guy developed more of an attraction to one another than to any other in the group – even towards my ex (which he enviously noticed and as I mentioned earlier he would get jealous should any other guy pay me attention especially if he thought he should be the one recievig that attention from me or the other person). Also not every time I was in a group setting did everybody get down into anal. There were a few times where some or somebody got fucked and others didn’t. Some other times it just turned out to be a bunch of us just drinking, watching porn while jerking off and maybe a little suck here & there.
All in all, I do miss some of those times as I don’t have sex that much or even as often as I would like to. I’ve found that I’ve gotten addicted to having sex with a certain friend of mine (who I’ve known now a little over a decade. It took us almost 6 years of knowing each other before we got the chance to get naked with each other) and because of that most other guys I tend to compare him to them or see if they can give me a simular feeling as he did. And because I onlyhook-up with him about an average of 2-3 times in a year, I just don’t get out to have sex with anybody… oh and because I can be a tad bit lazy when it comes to hooking up with somebody (especially a new person, as I tend to rather hooking up with friends).
I organized a sex party from local guys on adam. It was super bowl Saturday and theme was “brothers for sex” I got a suite to a hotel and 8 black guys showed up. No offense but I advertised and only accepted masculine guys to stick with the football theme… It was something I always wanted to try and living in a small rural town made it even more daring. It turned out great. Started off kinda slow at first until we started drinking. It got really hot about 1 pm when everyone got comfortable. I supplied the drinks, mints, condoms and lube. Admission was only 10 dollars…. I was impressed with how clean and fresh everyone was. Bottoms and tops was squeaky clean. Lot of ass were being ate. The bottoms (2) were really punished. I could tell they were enjoying it nevertheless from their loud moaning. We had a super time and some of the guys want to do it again but like I said it was something I always wanted to orchestrate and it probably will be just a one time thing for me. It was alot of cleaning up after everyone left.
There’s a weekly party in a basement “dungeon” in conservative little New Hampshire that’s been going on for several years. Up to 20 guys show up sometimes – I went a half dozen times before I met my BF and it could be soooo amazing! Also could be a dud – all about who shows. Condoms are provided & required for fucking, but everything and anything goes on there! Loved fucking some hot stud with a half-dozen guys circling us, jacking. A great married couple host and I give them a lot of credit for providing such an incredible outlet! if you’ve never done a group but fantasized about it, I highly encourage seeking one out!
I always wanted to try this out.. But never know how to approach it.. So curious about a 3 some or even 4 some.. Sounds really hot to me
Wow, it would be so much fun to be in a group, swapping with each other, sucking one guy, as another fucks and plays with my ass. Then we switch, and do it all over again with different guys. It would also be fun to have a group composed of guys and gals, but it will never happen. I am an older fellow, in my early 60s, and it’s hard enough finding just one person to have sex with, let alone a group. I have joined in watching and jerking in an adult bookstore booth with others, but usually the younger guys just avoid me. The younger guys may let me touch, and watch, but they never seem to participate with me. Really gets met down. I don’t know if I were ever to walk into a group of younger guys sucking and fucking, how they would react. Most likely they would just give a “no thanks” or wave good bye.
@James. Agree
Sensual kinda guy here, so I love a threeeway or group scene if I can get into one. If I have one guy licking my nips & another licking my cock at the same time, I’m moaning like crazy. Chemistry is key & hard to come by. Just recently tried to setup a threeway, but once we all got together, one guy was not comfortable enough, so it didn’t work out, which is fine.
Been to a few group scenes organized by others in private homes or hotel rooms, & these are usually great. It’s usually a bunch of guys that know each & have played together before.
Here in SF I’ve been to Blow Buddies. The crowd skews older, & guys mostly pair off to play, so it doesn’t feel like a group scene to me, really.
I am a total bottom and love cock I am in.
I think group sex is hot….
Would love to be the only bottom in a room full of horny tops and be filled with hard cocks and cum for hours….
I’m not your average in guy here, to be honest. I don’t do anything anal, though I have a extreme oral fetish fixation, I love sucking cock and I love it when a group of guys put me on my knees and tells me I’m gonna suck all their cocks, man that gets me so horny. Love seeing all those cocks surrounding me especially knowing all of their hot gooey cum is gonna cover my face, I’m so fucking hard and ready. So far the largest group I’ve had the pleasure of sucking has been 10, I really want to try more than that, in fact I’d love to suck at least or try to suck 50 over a weekend
I participated in an intergenerational 3-way. All of us were 100% versatile. It was great.
Others were lousy due to group incompatibilities, when there’s suspicion someone may is HIV+, and when there are ad misrepresentations (lied about age, height etc.)
Several 3sums over the yes, and a few larger groups. Mostly very hot and arousing, lots to do, suck,lick, and to watch as well. Best was a 3way with MM couple that used to invite me over for pizza beer and cock nights. Have seen the invites for large hotel room events, but still too ‘not out’ to do that… So far. Have been in a few. 4 or more, and like others here, sometimes felt ‘outside the circle ‘ at times, but it can be variable, and is steamy to actually watch other guys suck and more, actual 3D porno … Overall, has been more HOT than Not.
Sorry – I’m more of a 1-on-1 kind of guy.
In my wellspent youth, I probably had group sex more often than any one-on-one that reached a bed. I like to keep sex light, I really don’t have a desire to be intimate and frankly most gay guys are more effeminate or bitchy in general for me to want anything LTR. I constantly traveled the country so I would always be a fresh face with none of the entanglements (reputations, past histories) that local guys seem to have. Most often I’d cruise the bars, pick up something cute and nine times out of ten he’d have a fuck buddy we could pick up. I consider an orgy as sex with a minimum of five people and at the same time sex in a bath or sex club is too chaotic and disorganized to classify as a true orgy. To me an orgy is planned, hosted and by invitation only with most of the attendees actually being attracted to each other. My best opportunites (pre-internet) would to be to hit the gyms and put out a few feelers, cuz everybody tones before an A-lister. Most of my orgies were in southern California with memorable mentions to Key West, New Orleans, Chicago, Seattle, Orlando and others. The largest being about thirty guys, but most ranged around twelve. Rule of thumb for orgy attendence is 10% of the guys that swear they’ll be there actually will have the balls to show. The problem with group sex now is actually the internet, so much bullshit and lies that it’s hard to organize anything. Too much time verifying whether the guy matches his profile or if his pics were twenty years or fifty pounds ago. And the internet is physically morphing even the younger guys, less time sweating their shirtless bods off at a club and more time thumb texting while sucking down a thousand calories of “game fuel” and that ruins one’s body image and sense of self worth. Unplug gentlemen, there’s a world out there and you don’t get a second run. I am concerned about the suicidal path of barebacking growing in popularity. I survived the 80’s and 90’s fucking and sucking about four hundred guys and never once did I fuck without a condom.
Ive had many more the one on one ..1 it take the right guys to get along. Best is when there is only one bottom (me) having them all breed …gang bag is very hot for a single bottom more tops the better
Some years ago I used to attend a certain gay bath house in Charlotte NC. Everyone was there for sex so hooking up was not very difficult. One night I was finally brave enough to go into the orgy room where there was a large raised platform in the center of the dimly lit room. Varying numbers of guys would stand around the wall waiting for someone to climb onto the table. I was finally brave (or careless) enough to get up there. Soon I had a dick in each hand, one in my mouth and another one up my ass. It is something I will definitely never forget. It was sensual overload. Awesome. That event and another one there where I wound up with an older brother of someone I knew were two of the instances from there that I still remember.
Has this been quite some time ago, or does this place still exist?