Hot or Not : Long Hair?
(Photo : Falcon Studios)
With the revamping of TARZAN and the XXX Parody produced by MEN already out and creating buzz, I though I would suggest a blog for the A4A community. The question being: “Is long hair on a guy hot or not?”
Have you noticed that it is rare to find porn videos that include performers with long, down-to-the-shoulders or even longer hair? There are a few exceptions of course including Kip Johnson (the bottom in the picture), but overall they are few and far in between. Why is that? Is it that long-haired gay performers (especially bottoms) are “boner-killers” in the gay community? Could it be all that hair swishing around makes the sexual encounter way too “straight” for some viewers? Maybe too feminine looking?
Personally, it does not bother me. Hell, my first boyfriend had hair that came down to his shoulders, and I would be lying if I said I didn’t enjoy pulling his hair from time to time when he would bottom. But that’s just me; everyone is different. So, let’s hear from you guys!
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Yes, can be very hot… After all, some of the most rugged men have long hair. Also, depends on preference.
I like everything from bald to long hair, it makes no difference to me either way. It’s what is below the hair that counts!
Long hair, a beard, suit-wearing, boots-wearing, hairy, smooth … all of these are singular, superficial, changeable characteristics. Chasing after them is the thing that terrible connections are made up of and then the victim’s whining follows “Oh, I met up with this guy I thought was hot because of his (superficial characteristic) and he turned out to be (terrible because).”
Nailman has it nailed. Guys are hot because of their personality, character, and how talented they are when it comes to sex. It’s all about what’s in their head, not on the outside of their body. They may not always come in a “hot!” package.
Guys who chase after a “hot!” trait are like dogs when they see a squirrel. They’ll bark, whine and complain long after the squirrel is gone.
A good blog topic would be … “What makes a guy hot? Overall hot? Hot to the core?” Specifically, NOT singular, superficial, changeable characteristics. What does it take for a guy to be all-around, smokin’, overall h-o-t?”
I had long hair for almost 20 years before I cut it (mainly because I spend a lot of time on my bike and detangling afterwards was every time consuming). I am not fem nor a bottom, and my hair was never an issue with anyone I was going out or hooking up with. In fact I got more compliments about my hair than my eyes – theyre steel gray with a ring of blue around the pupil (that’s apparently a very rare combo). Personally for me the hair isnt a dealbreaker. It all depends on who it’s attached to.
I have quite long hair, have had it for years. Millennials hate it, therefore I’m keeping it. That way I don’t have to fend off the “sugar daddy” routine with them. After all, I’m a “Splenda daddy,” at best!
Not hot.
As long as they got a fine COCK TO SUCK who cares if they got long hair or not. And a great hole to eat and slide my uncut in and out of till I bust my juices….
Long hair is everything!
Long hair on a guy is very unattractive. It’s made worse with a pony tail.
However, the ultimate look killer for a guy is………”THE MAN BUN”. True story: I was sitting at McDonald’s when a guy with a “man bun” came in. The rubber band he was using WAS BIGGER than the hair he had sticking out from it (& I would have had to stretch the rubber band just to get it on my little finger).
Anyways, long hair makes me want to grab some scissors & give them a decent haircut!
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Long hair on a man can be very hot if kept up and doesn’t get ratty looking. The hottie in the pic is a good example of long haired hotty.
Nothing wrong with long hair. As long as I can pull it while pounding that ass.
For me, no long hair….shoulder lent and longer is not a turn on…it gets in my way.
Love longer hair. Can be a little messy when you both have long hair but sexy when cuddling.
Doesn’t really matter. I’m more into a slim muscular body than hair.
Long hair has always been sexy. Plus I’m bald and have major hair envy since there is still no realistic looking way to get my long hair back!
I don’t like long hair. There’s an extreme rare guy who looks good with it, but those are the exceptions to me not the rule. Maybe Jon Snow looked good with it.
I can’t stand long hair on a man. It’s an instant turn off for me. I just don’t like the way it looks. I like short hair in men.
I had long hair for 4 years, about Kip Johnson’s length. The city I live in, most guys found my long hair to be “femme” and I even had one guy ask me if I did drag! I’m as masculine as they get and when my hair was pulled back in a ponytail , neither my employer nor any of my clients had a single issue…but getting it on with guys was like being picked last for a team sport. So stupid.
Why did I do it? I grew out my hair because 1) I wanted to try it and 2) a friend’s daughter was going through cancer treatment and got a wig from the Pantene folks and I thought that was a pretty cool cause…so why not? Guys visiting my town/passing through had NO trouble with it at all and like Dave mentioned, the long hair does come in handy for some hair pulling…and trust me, there is something SO hot about having one’s hair wrapped around another guy’s hand as he’s slamming into you…or you him. 😉
I’ve actually considered doing it again for the charity and for the fact that there is something to be said about not looking like virtually every other guy with short hair. Plus, I got a really cool letter several months later from the young woman whose wig was made from most of my hair and several others who donated. Altruism is sexy as fuck. 😉
Long hair …. yes
man bun …..no
Never have been with a guy with long hair. Guess I prefer short, neat kept haircut but if he was hot and into me….what the hell!
I prefer short clean cut hair men. I also like some men with long hair but depends on the type of guys for me. Men that are muscular and that look manly are hot with long hair such as Italian model Fabio and the guy in this blog pic. Though I get turned off by men with long hair that are slender body or men that are out of shape with a hairy body.
As a man with long hair myself I find that most other gay men automatically think I’m feminine and are shocked to know that’s far from the case, which does kind of make it hard when looking for a late night hook up cause most bottoms think I’m one of “the girls” and most tops will assume I’m not masc enough to go out for drinks with without raising an eyebrow or two…which has made me think of cutting it, BUT when I do find a guy who’s it there REALLY into it!
The longer the better for me if the guy has facial hair it’s even hotter.
It all depends on that person.
Doesn’t make a difference to me. I never had it, but always did imagine a guy with dreadlocks dangling over and onto me while in the bed. 🙂 Need to find me a guy with some.
I wear my hair long and find long hair very attractive on a guy, especially if he’s muscular and masculine. Think Tarzan or NFL linebacker. White gay or black, it’s all good.
YES! Dear god, yes. All the way back to those 80’s hair bands wearing spandex (another fetish) and their cocks bulging (yet another one)…always loved long hair. (Rag on me now, but Bon Jovi was smokin’ hot back then.) Admittedly, it can get in the way in bed if not managed. Long curly hair on a guy was always especially hot to me for some reason. Sigh…memories.
Not!! I find it feminine and sloppy
i would say out of 10 guys with long hair 1 makes it look hot.
Healthy clean long hair is way hot on a skinny twink bottom with smooth skin and soft features. Especially when going in from the back aka handlebars…total boner killer on masculine/buff guys….Should stay reserved for those fem boys
people are fucking sheep, they only like what they see in porn lol which is fake. FAKE. Thats why they are miserable.
Totally depends on the long hair and the person wearing it. If it’s neat, clean and maintained, it’s beautiful. If they look like a hipster hippy from hell, not hot at all. I think of it as Fabio (hot) versus Weird Al (NOT hot)
I love long hair, its fing hot
Not hot men, only on women.
Man, you can sure spot the Millennial comments on this one! LMAO! Losers…don’t get run over by a bus (again) while playing Poke-a-man GO today…I want that privilege for myself!
I think long hair, Just like facial hair, it only looks good on some guys. I mean not all guys have the face for long hair. I used to have long hair, shoulder length, it just didn’t look good on me. So it all depends on the guy.
I find it unattractive personally. I also don’t like bald guys. Buzz cuts turn me on on a man more than anything. With women (I’m pansexual) I don’t really care about their hair, unless she just can’t rock the shaved look. Despite my preference for hair on men, I’ve got a rat tail (it’s thin but rather long). It wouldn’t offend me if a guy was turned off by it.
Long Hair NOT hot on men and don’t get me started on the man-bun, my grandmother was the only one that could pull that off…1965!
I have dred locs so my hair is long, and I’m a top. Until last year it grew past my butt but decided to cut it–shoulder length–because it became too cumbersome. Now it’s grown mid-way on my back. It’s funny because a lot of my sexual partners found it to be a turn on. I even got lots of compliments from women, many of whom were surprised or disappointed after I cut it.
As for me, I personally don’t mind how a guy wears his hair so long as he owns it. Everyone has a different face/bone structure therefore one style does not fit all. I’ve noticed lots of guys shaving their head bald when it doesn’t even suit them yet no one talks about that. So, as long as the guy with the _______ hair is a good guy/has a good heart, we have chemistry and he can handle what I’m gonna dish out in bed, I say ‘game on.’
PS: It never ceases to amaze me how in the gay community everything seems to boil down to fashion. Now they’re letting it judge who they find attractive and sleep with? Talk about issues.
I hate long hair on guys always have equated it with hippy men.
I had hair down to my butt crack, curly, shiny. Was a handful when surfing and working on vehicles. But it looked great. On a man it looks hot, the right man.
I have had long hair on and off since high school, with it long now. I’m 5’11” and 155 so most guys think I’m “fem”, couldn’t be farther from the truth. I need to find another long haired guy to get tangled up with.
Very hotttt!! Clonerd haircuts are boring !! Hair adds alot of sexual turn on for me lol
Long hair is very sexy. Especially on a white guy
Depends on the guy, looks good on some, not so good on others.
I have it and I love it. If you have it hit me up!
I grew up with it kinda long, HATED being told what to do. I felt like this is MY HEAD and if I want long hair so be it.. NOW I am growing it long and May do the DONATION route also, but just doing it for now, no real reason. But looking back at them early day photos around 21 years old and the big hair days with the females, IDK If I personally like it. BUT I do have to LIKE a guy for WAY more reasons than HAIR, unfortunately other characteristics are NOT acceptable, UNFORTUNATELY that is the way I AM. I think my young looks takes their eyes off my hair! and you can also play with style and looks. But if the right one said you should cut it HELL YEAH baby!!!
never judge a book by the cover! long hair, short hair , medium hair. what the hell damn difference does it make anyway. I thought that you promoted diversity here. sound like a bunch of damn fickle people that want everything handed to them, prepared just the way they like it. sound like a bunch of I, I, I, and Me. Me, Me people. As the old timers use to say, the proof is in the pudding.
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FuckYES! I love a sexy man w long hair..Always have…It’s like a fetish almost…More guys need to get away from the typical crew cuts and get it growing long n flowing, but styled too…not just a wet mop look, lol! Love to grab hold when he’s down mouthin my cock or when my cock is up his butt crack to hold onto and give me that power to do as I want to the boy! So YES Long Hair Is HOT!!!
I love pulling long hair on a bottom when I’m pounding deep! Just needs to be well maintained!!
long hair is just a chick with a dick – NOT HOT AT ALL!!!
for the people saying long hair is not hot, well, i think it depends on the guy. if he was a hot ripped masculine porno actor with an 8 or a 9 inch , you’d all be saying yes!