Gay Stuff : In Sync with Others
Comments on A4A suggest our body chemistry is in sync with other guys if positive contacts get off the ground! If not introduced by a friend or colleague from work, some guys start the process by glancing at other males while sitting at their favorite hangout. Hopefully their eyes will “lock onto” those of another male. If eye contact is made, they glance away quickly but then return for a longer look while they size up each other. Body chemistry can set up a strong emotional draw through eye contact. That can lead to an initial impromptu “hello.” Some responses can escalate rapidly into more than “hello” and you exchange greetings with “my name is…..”
When looking for a potential playmate, you may find yourself evaluating his physical assets. After making eye contact, his physique will usually get your attention first and his personality will come in second. You may discover his personality is friendly and warm and revealed in the way he expresses himself. Although you may suppress your initial feelings, desire for physical encounters cannot be ignored. Some guys don’t want to come across as taking inventory of the meat market and thus will meet the first time without any significant physical contact.
Age disparity is notably present in increasing numbers where guys are finding more interest in intergenerational playmates/partners. Although sex can be a common denominator, meaningful conversations and activities other than sex can also be very stimulating. If you have not considered age differences in the past, now may be the time to recognize “age is but a number.” Some males agree but others don’t accept anything greater than 5-10 years.
Interest in sports, hunting, fishing, camping, hiking, etc. are common among males of all ages. There should be no age categories that suggest limited interests. Many senior males have enthusiastic interests in physical activities that equal guys many years younger.
Yes, chemistry is a significant component for relationships. If there is significant disagreement between two males, the prospects for an LTR are not great. If compromise is acceptable prospects increase.
A4A members, how significant is initial eye contact?
SexCounselor4U
These days, if you go to your favorite hangout, what you’ll find is everyone with their face in their phone, cruising by app, looking to see who’s in the room with them. They don’t talk, they text.
Thats what im going through at work right now. Im 27 and he is 19. We work in a market but in different depts and his dept is mostly in my sight,so the eye contact is there. We started first talking then gave me a pat on the back to letting me jam on his music. He even hugged me a couple of times just from us joking around. He says he is straight and I respect and honor that but I feel more of a connection towards him than I did from my ex lol. Sometimes I want to say something to him that I like him but im sure it will cause problems at work and the fact that I will have to see him mostly everyday after that. So until I really get to know him more,I will just accept his companionship. Ive only been in one relationship so I could just be naiive to be in love again.
Checking guys out is easy. They are all on their phones so no one knows you’re bulge shopping.
Only been with one guy. Ever time i hook up with a chick it goes thre my mind. Spend hours on the phone trying to get a decent get me off type of guy. Oh well stilllooking
So right!
yes! no one really looks at anyone. people have turned into robots for the most part. everyone is addicted to phones, phones phones!!! Fakebook, youtube, instagram, etc. coffee shops and bars used to be a great place to meet. not anymore 🙁