Gay Stuff : Would You have Sex With Yourself?
A user of A4A asked me this question last week right here, on the blog and I thought about asking you the question too. If you met someone exactly like you, exact same stats, same personality and looks exactly like you; would you have sex with him?
I would be interested to know why you would or why you wouldn’t.
I personally told him I would probably not have sex with me because I’m bottom, BUT I would totally suck my own dick because it looks yummy! What about you? Don’t be shy, be honest!
Dave
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YES! I think younger than I am, I can relate to older than I am, I very skilled sexually, emotionally available and nurturing. I look great, have a decent cock, wicked sense of humor, intelligence, care about my guys having a great life.
Many gay men are with, or go after, guys that seem to be their exact double or twin so it would not be surprising that there are many guys who would have sex with themselves.
I totally would. I have a hot cock and I’d love to suck it and I would love to feel my cock inside my hole. I think my hole is really hot looking, so I’d love to rim myself, too. So yeah, I’d fuck me! 🙂
I sure would have sex with myself. I really like my dick and I would love to suck it and feel it sliding in and out of my hole.
Absolutely.
Heck yes I would. I’m cute sexy and Vers!
Hell yeah. I would implicitly trust me but thats because when i look in the mirror i am honest with myself every morning and i know what my values are.
Sure. As a former sex worker, I’d be interested to know what other guys were feeling. This would help me find my weak points, and I could work on them.
That and almost every guy I’ve been with thinks he’s being original by saying how amazing my dink feels inside him. Am I *that* good??? I want to find out.
Yes and it would be great but then I’d get up and leave myself right after, feeling both used by myself and guilty for using myself. Then I would never call myself because it was just one night. And I’d be wondering why I didn’t call myself. Then eventually ID see myself in a shop window downtown and know that I had seen me but ignored me… Is too late to say, “No. I wouldn’t”? I’m not worth all the trouble I bring myself.
I would love to have sex with myself and on a daily basis.
What a coincidence ! I had sex with myself this morning before I got up .. I hate the cleanup afterwards .. LOL
No , seriously , I would def not want to have sex with myself because what ‘I like’ is totally different than I am including race.
Sorry to say I would not date myself. I have often thought that I set my standards much to high for the way I look. I do have, even if I say so myself, a great and outgoing personality, but physically am not attracted to guys with my build or age.
I may not connect as much as others, but when I do, it is usually FIREWORKS!!!!
Well, I’m going to be a little different it looks like. I don’t think I would. The reason is because I prefer guys that are the opposite of me. Im really into guys that are more masculine than me. Yeah, if I could, I would suck my own dick, but I’m really looking for my opposite.
I def would. I love to worship cock. Getting face fucked, deep throating, edging…name it. To me it’s an art form. I don’t gag (unless your name is Brian and lives in southern Maine with that 11″x 6″ cut massive hunk of meat) and take sucking cock seriously. I just want to see how I’d feel. I’d love to find a guy who can suck like me. Every guy I’ve ever had said I give the best bj. I just want to feel what’s it’s like to get worked over.
I was surprised to see so many respond with yes. I, for a fact, have no interest in having sex with myself. Not that I have low self esteem but rather… I’m old hat… I want something new and different all the time. I am a huge fan of variety. And well, I’ve been having sex with myself since I was 12… I already know I’m good… I just would rather someone else.
I would have sex with myself but wouldn’t date me because I’m def not my type. I like slimmer tall guys with muscular built. I am very good in bed and would love to experience having sex with a guy that can put it down like me. I like slow lots and lots of foreplay before the main course. My total sexual experience usually last from 3 hours to 5 or 6 hours but it has to be the right person and I fit that bill so yes I would have sex with me.
Actually if i was drunk enough to want sex with myself i’d want three ‘me’, one on top, one on the bottom and one in between and we would rotate to make sure every ‘me’ is having fun.
My cock is basically exactly the size that is ideal to me, so yeah, hell yeah!
I certainly would. I know what I like and the pleasure I’d give myself would be the most amazing sex ever…not that I don’t have amazing sex all the time anyway, but if I was doing me, it would truly be amazing!
I would have sex with someone exactly like me because he would love the exact type sex I do it would be a prefect match. We would both be vers so that wouldn’t be a problem
I totally would. Anyone that would say otherwise, needs some self esteem.
Hell yea, I already do using my hands, why not go all the way, I already know what I like, being hung like I am, I will fuck myself crazy
Yes I would have sex with myself. I’m very passionate and a great kisser which is what I like in others. And I’m kinky which is another turn on.
If I could self suck. I would never leave home.
Absolutely NOT, it’s boring. Never understood gays who date/fuck open clones lol. I prefer to have sex with anything opposite of what I look. 33 yo 5’9″ 157 lbs hairy middle eastern with 7″ cut thick dick so I meet fat/skinny/tall/short/amputees/deaf/mute/smooth/old/young/tiny cocks/huge schlongs … Anyone as long as they look different from me. Hell it’s way more fun this way
I’d like to know your A4A screen name, you sound sexy as hell.
No, I would not. I am not at all attractive. And the men of A4A agree with my assessment. I am just to ugly to fuck.
No. I’m a total top who hates oral. What exactly would/COULD I do?
I have an ex that could self suck and it was so hot, so yea id do me. Like my dick size and good kisser and in bed
I have been FUCKING myself in the ass all my life with whatever will fit, pleasing my cock since the first hard on and taking my loads forever so why not?
I’m not my type now, but if present me could have sex with 20 to me, then yeah.
If you would never be willing to have sex with yourself, how could you expect anyone else to?
Hell yes!
I have often wished I had an identical twin so we could fuck and suck with no worries.
I can suck my own cock does that count?
Sex with myself? No way, really. Opposites attract. I rarely have sex with people from my own continent, and certainly not from my country. All races but my own, all origins but my own.
Hell Yeah!! I’ve always been turned on by myself to the point where I thought something was wrong with me.
Great response @ Hunter0500. My sentiments exactly!
“Hunter0500
April 28, 2016 at 16:17
If you would never be willing to have sex with yourself, how could you expect anyone else to?”
Read my statement. I don’t like anything in/around my butt & I can’t stand oral (giving or receiving). So, what should I do with my clone?
Yes I would have sex with my self
When I first came out, I was attracted to guys who looked just like me–preppy, white, intellectual, horn-rimmed glasses, the works. Then I moved to the exact opposite–working-class, Latino, dark, immigrant. Having dated for a while, I can say that my preference is for Salvadoran, Mexican American, and Filipino guys–that’s where the looks and personalities and sexual chemistry seem to be the best. But I always wonder if I will meet my old preppy self again and rekindle that passion.
It’s such a strange question. Aside from the trying to picture it, I still have a hard time getting my head around it. Personally, I love me for who I’ve become as an adult. As far as the sex goes, iam not feeling it. Guess iam just not that into myself. But if I met someone who acts like me, has the same personality, and the same soul, it would be very enjoyable.
Hell no, I’m too masculine and I would never look at a masculine bo matter how fine or handsome… total turn off. Since I only like fems and transgenders, I could never see myself being fem… sorry me but you’re out of here.
Yes, I would even film it. Totally into sharing.
Muscles is a turn on.
absolutely I believe that I am the perfect sex partner for myself my dick is the perfect size my ass it’s just juicy enough LOL LOL and I’m nowhere near selfish I like to please and b please lol lol always willing to explore new avenues
I believe the majority of answers here coincides with reason why gay men are single and friendless. While looking for someone who has some of same interests as we do, I believe if you found someone exactly like yourself, what a boring relationship it might be. Having some differences with friends and partners is what helps us grow and keep interested in people. Don’t it?
FUCK YEA. I would be in fucking heaven. Id finally be able to live out all my kinkiest fantasies. I would have so much fun.
Well I responded earlier. Kept thinking about it all day. I just had sex with myself. It was hot but not everything I thought it would be. I know the other me would love the loads.
I can. And do. And I’m not talking about sucking myself either. Not sure hat it’s called when you can bust one in your own but it’s pretty intense.
NO, Never..
I’m not that desperate!
If i met someone that looked like me, was my clone, or a exact twin, i would do em (me)
Why? for several reasons:
Same likes & dislikes
Want to try the same things
Would understand and respect each others limits
Lets face it, i have a nice looking cock that id love to blow!
I know how i like to get popped, and fingered, i know how i like to be touched and teased, and i am a great kisser. I love to look into eyes.
Sure I could stand to lose a few pounds and am working on that very thing! But most of all, i am comfortable with my self as a person, and would delight in befriending someone like my self.
I would have great fun!!
I think there is a fine line between self love and narcissism. Masturbation is really not narcissistic for most of us because we usually imagine ourselves with someone else or we watch porn to add to our jerk off sessions. Narcissistic personality disorder is a real DSM diagnosis and is not at all healthy or attractive. If you think you are the only one who can do anything correctly,you might be a narcissus. If you only use others compliments of you and disdain healthy criticism, you might be a narcissus. If you are emotionally detached and just use others to feed your ego, you might be a narcissus. If you envy others and what they have to the point of rage, you might be a narcissus. If you have trouble seeing yourself as a solely individual human being and not separate from others, you might be a narcissus. I just thought I’d throw that out there for those of you who say things like, “If I could make love to myself, I wouldn’t leave the house.” You might just be a narcissus.
How can I even have sex with myself? LoL With other guys that look exactly like me? YES! With an identical twin brother if I had one/some? YES! Though it may be incest but thats having sex with yourself. I’m versatile & cute so there’s no problem. So my answer is yes
If you had sex with your clone, are you gay or are you masturbating?
Fuck yea I would. But isn’t that still masturbating? Haha
Hell yes! I did suck myself off often when I was younger.
HELL YES CAUSE I KNOW HOW TO SUCK MY DICK THE WAY I LIKE IT SUCK AND TO FUCK ME MY WAY.
No. I’m a chub and I’m not even a little bit into chubs. Although I think I’m gorgeous, I’m still a chub
I would date myself, but I think I can do better, hehehe
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Me being versitile i would in a heart beat my slim figure and hot tight assalong with 7inches of playful cock heck yeah I’d satisfy myself better than what another man can do
Yes, absolutely. I have a nice thick hung cock and if I could go down on It, id never leave the house. I’d love to suck out every drop.
@SouthernboiSB “I don’t like anything in/around my butt & I can’t stand oral (giving or receiving).”
So no ass play and no sucking … never ever with anyone.
The great news is that you and yourself have many options available for great sex.
I know it seems a little narcissistic, but hell yes! I have always thought it would be hot and from the time that I was a teenager it has been an occasional masturbatory fantasy. How hot to be in bed with someone who knows exactly what I like and (in my case) is just as vers as I am and I wouldn’t have to hide anything from or worry about crossing any boundaries.
Of course, if we could all find that great partner—and actually be emotionally, intellectually and honestly open with another person—we wouldn’t need such a clone.
Silence of the Lambs answered this years ago, “I’d fuck me.”
As an identical twin I have sort of have had sex with myself. I perfer other men that are more aggressive then my twin brother.
Wish now me could meet me when i first had sex with men,I would enjoy the encounter from the perspective of both me’s!
Nope. Im not my type, never have been nor am i a narcissist
Wouldn’t that be incest?
I do every day……
Hell yes I would.nice cock,decent bod ,I know what I like to do,and have done.I’m never in a hurry like to make sure we both have good time D
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Frank
April 30, 2016 at 06:35
Wouldn’t that be incest?”
I thought incest was if your were a blood relative with the other person. In this case, just a double in looks.
I wouldn’t do anal….but I would for sure cool around with myself – nipple play, oral, etc
I would definitely suck and fuck myself. Who would know how to satisfy me better than me?
I would..Guys tell me I am “hot” and attractive for my age (55) and seem to like how I fuck..I am verse so it would be interesting to feel what my partners feel.
Hell yeah. I love all aspects of sex and think I am pretty damned good at it. I think I would be a perfect fit for myself anatomically speaking. And as someone else on here said, If I wouldn’t fuck myself, then who else would!-)
Of course I would! I know exactly what I like. I’m also versatile, been told I have some good ass, guys really like the way I fuck them and I give great head. What’s not to like?
I probably wouldn’t. Mostly because I don’t find myself attractive at all. I definitely don’t fit the type that people want to be intimate with.
Why not? I’m cute, handsome, nice body, cock, and a hot ass to fuck. haha
I am not attracted to guys like me and probably wouldn’t have sex with my clone unless I was desperate. Sounds harsh but just being honest.