Fantasy : Dominance Can Be Exciting
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In the broad spectrum of sexual pleasure we find males who especially enjoy being dominated by their playmates. The following statements reflect on five (5) submissive bottoms extolling the pleasures their dominant tops provide:
Bottom ONE: “For me, it’s about shutting off my brain. I have a lot of stress in my life and it’s so great to be able to have physical, emotional and spiritual release with someone I love and trust. I don’t have to think at all, I just feel and react. It’s glorious. And on the occasion I slip into dreamland, well those are the nights I really remember later. Plus, I’m into receiving pain and being degraded. I like the kink and dirty talk.”
Bottom TWO: “I have to be in control in all aspects of my life except during the time I am with my Dom. During that time everything else falls away and I don’t worry or think about anything except my Dom. That is when I get out of my head and into my body. My Dom makes me feel that he really cares for me. Sometimes I wonder what he is getting out of fucking me when I feel like I’m receiving all the stimulation! Sometimes I feel selfish with his attention, but it’s what he likes to do, and it’s definitely not my submissive place to question him when he is in control. I do try to make sure that I please him as much as possible because I’m so grateful for what he does to/for me.”
Bottom THREE: “In the simplest way I can put it: What gets me off literally more than anything else is getting my Dom off. The concept of being “used” by him to provide the best kind of pleasure for him makes me absolutely go wild. It is a win, win time together.”
Bottom FOUR: “I’ve never really dissected the reasons that I enjoy being dominated. I know it pleases me because it feels amazing when I give up control. I’m so in control of all other aspects of my life that in bed I just want my dominant bull top to take the wheel and head home. My Bull definitely calls the shots and takes action based on what he wants. It pleases me when I see the visual demonstration of his physical strength, his manliness and the effortless, easy way he takes me. When I feel dominated by him, I feel he owns me and has total control over me, and that’s a huge part of my pleasure. It excites me beyond anything! I feel like I belong to him and the things he does to me cause me to feel he has ownership rights. When he seeds me I know that he has staked his claim on my body—especially my ass.
I love being told that my cock is his as he grabs it and takes charge. I really feel special when he sucks me off and shares cum with me in a French kiss. I can’t explain it. But I just know that I like what I like. I like being fucked like a bitch and told that he will command me as his slave. I like being spanked and telling me that he is going to take what he wants and I have no say in the matter.”
Bottom FIVE: “Pleasing my Dom top makes me happy. I feel most content when I can fully serve him. I get to relax and let the world drift away just by focusing on his needs. I’m a masochist, so I crave pain. I also want this pain to come from my submission because I feel there is no better way to serve than to give my dominant bull top my total submission and desire to please him by taking anything he wishes to dish out.”
A4A members, what are your dominance and submissive experiences to share with the rest of us?
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I don’t think so!!!
Over my dead body!!!
Not in this lifetime!!!
I’m over 18, not even as a joke!!!
And no, I’m not a Dom, but I think that sex
Should be a mutually enjoyable experience!,
Not for anybody to be humiliated!!!
But again, free country, to each its own!!!
I also enjoy the thrill of being dominated and submitting to a powerful top. I get pleasure out of him taking control of my body and the pleasure he receives when he cums. There is nothing like feeling those two or three powerful strokes as he cums in me.
@Lostinthesticks. The point is *MUTUALLY ENJOYABLE EXPERIENCE*. Did you bother to read what the guys in question stated? They get off on the lack of control and in some cases being used. It’s obvious that doesn’t appeal you. Don’t like something, don’t do it. But don’t try and put up a standard that it’s ‘wrong’ because some enjoy it. To each their own, and as long as its 1) ADULTS of LEGAL AGE and MENTALLY COMPETENT and 2) It’s consensual, who gives a damn what they do and how they get off.
Some aspects of BDSM turn me off, while other aspects I enjoy. Some take things to an extreme that make me question their mental state. But like I said, if it’s consensual, I’m not going to judge.
Simple courtesy says worry about your own likes and leave everyone else alone. Provided they are legal, sane and it’s consensual
I have never tried this and I dont think I ever will. not for me
Right in there with Lostinthebsticks. No. I dont want to be dominated. Sex for me is a two way street. Almost a battle where the men take what they want but give as well to the guy with them. If some guys want to give to guys who always want to take, great. Whatever works for the two of them is what rules. I’ve got guys I’m willing to let call the shots at times when we’re together. But they also known there will be times I’m running the show. The change is good. Volleying over how it’s gonna go “this time”, all the better.
Though I started as a complete dom, I’m now much more submissive oriented. Primary interest is spanking and nothing is hotter to me that to be told to get over a knee for a good spanking, working from shorts to briefs to bare ass. I know the guy spanking me is in total control and only he determines when I’ve gotten what I deserve.
I understand this. But no one should be humiliated or put in danger. If don’t know how to still respect yourself, then you shouldn’t do it. And I believe in safe sex as well.
I mean if you don’t know how to respect yourself that you shouldn’t continue on with this type of sex and human behavior, lest it affect other non-sexual elements of life negatively and maybe feed back into your sex life with negativity and so on and so back and forth.
And what lost in the sticks said is a very good answer, but it is not necessarily the truth. It depends on the person and the situation, I think.
Hmmm I don’t think so. Doesn’t appeal to me at all. Sorry a4a