Fantasy : Describe Your Ideal Man

I can only speak for me but I prefer someone whose fem with medium to full lips. Nice butt, smooth face and chest who love to kiss, cuddle, hug and enjoys foreplay. I don’t drink, smoke or do drugs so someone similar would be ideal.MUST HAVE THAT INTELLECT FOR MUTUAL MIND STIMULATION!!!!!! Reply to justrelaxnow.

After becoming good buds with several guys, for sure there is no one ideal guy for me. My buds come in a variety of ages, shapes, personalities, ethnicities, etc. with a multitude of likes when it comes the music, clothing, careers, sex play, etc.

I’m very glad to have never limited myself to a tight list of requirements for my “ideal” guy. I would never have this group of great guys in my life.

Very tall crimson haired green or gold eyed well groomed beard,suit wearing gentleman that can hold a deep conversations for hours. Most refer to them as gingers… I call them my dream guy.

Thanks Rick, that was probably a little harsh, not everyone is like that sorry

WAYNE

probabbly you could love me……loll

i thought i had a type of ideal man until i felt in love with the opposite one. so i can say i just need a good man to spend the rest of my life with

for hookup only bigger older hung guy a guy not into kissing or rimming jus sex then thats all not n this for a relationship jus sex NSA

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I have to say I like this question , we all have our likes , for me personally I have a thing for lighter hair and lighter eyed guys , yes blond and blue are like total MMMMM , for me . Just has been from a very early age that I like blond hair and lighter eyes ESP blue , I think it’s cuz there weren’t any in my immediate family , ….BUT I WOULD DARE SAY ITS THE GUY OVERALL , HE HIMSELF , IS HE KIND AND FUN , AMD SWEET , PLAYFUL , LOVES ME FOR ME , AND WILL LET ME LOVE HIM TOO AND BE THERE FOR HIM , GUYS CAN TEND TO BE PAINS IN THE ASS IN THAT AREA , ITS BEEN MY FINDING THAT THEY TAKE IT AS A QUESTION OF THEIR MANHOID AMD BEING LIKE CONSIDERED MASCULINE ESP IF ITS SOMETHING THEUR THEUR APPERANCE OR FASHION , I FOUND AND FIND MANY MEN CANT GET BEYOND WHAT IS DEEMED MANLY OR WHAT A MAN SHOULD BE LOOK ,LIKE OR DO IN THIS SOCIETY… THE OUTSIDE WRAPPING IS GREAT IF THE INSIDE SOUL OF SOMEONE IS AMAZING TOO ,.
I HAVE BEEN WITH AND DATED AND SUCH ….. Some Of the MOST BEAUTUFUL MEN ,… IVE EVER ENCOUNTERED , They were all attractive to me & No they weren’t perfect physically or otherwise , my main deal breakers , shallow , self serving , and just a coward , ESP if I have a disagreement with them , if you can’t last or show consistent integrity , I’ll be majorly turned off and disappointed BIG TIME ESP if you give up on me , Then it’s over FOR ME …, I’ve always warned anyone I’ve been with ….I give up when and only when, they do .. then … ITS OVER !
YES, THE PHYSICAL WAS SO ON SPOT IN MY CASES, BUT IT WAS THEM AS PEOPLE , THEY WERE KIND AND FUN AND SWEET , COULD BE SERIOUS IN INTIMACY AND yet PLAYFUL ,.. OR TIMES THAT REQUIRED BOTH , ESP IN DECISION MAKING, BUT IT WAS ALL OF THEM THAT MADE ME WANT THEM , ANY & everything they offered and displayed and was willing to show or give to me but vice versa … But again when they stopped /Trying , then it WAS OVER …
Guys like Chris Hemsworth , I think he’s gorgeous but I’d prefer a lil less tall , since I’m not so tall as he , but guys like Sam Worthington , Matt Bomer , Jonathan Groff , Nate Berkus , Robert Gant , yeah these have blue eyes , some not so blond , but it’s them as men , they are so genuine , seem, so nice , from what I read and seen in interviews and otherwise ,.. they do much more than just act or whatever , they do charity , they actually are trying to make difference in The world , so I doubt many aren’t that way in life,.. privately , that’s what I find as an ideal man , but there’s guys like Guillerrmo Diaz or Tim McGraw Mark Consuelos , that are dark and I think are So HOT , again , I think it’s their looms yes initially but their personality with their looks which really have all caught my eyes as well , it’s extremely Atrractive , & Yeah there are others like Matt Damon , and countless other big celebs , in the eyes of Hollywood , deemed as A-listers, but it’s guys like I mentioned above first earlier that I find to be so much more , they got the goods , in all, the aspects I’d find attractive ,… but there’s guys that I’ve seen from b4 my time like Robert Redford , and Troy Donahue , James Dean that were very handsome , but I think it had to do with maybe an initial physical attraction , but there’s gotta be other stuff going on ,.. or its like a nicely wrapped present , only empty inside,… if there isn’t anything else beyond that , then it would get old really quick , I could even admit that

Dave – that is a total coincidence I am sure ;). And you are well written. Enjoy the blog.

My Ideal man I would be with for awhile would be tall (6’0 to 6’6), someone rugged otter, husky toned of just lean fella. I could do the hairiness, I want either White, Spanish, Jewish, Middle Eastern, someone exotic. Someone to compliment me and keep me on my toes. A freak but smart and sense of humor. Just be independent and socially aware.

I agree with Hunter, I don’t have an ideal guy on mind, but what I do enjoy most from the guys I have met, is that we had a common connection on several levels. Not only did he stimulate my body, but also my mind, and I did the same for him. I have to say there are a lot of attractive Men in this world, so why have a set formula to strive for, it only keeps you closed off to the possibility of meeting the Man of your dreams. Still on the hunt for mine.

How about going a little deeper here? Sure, there are physical things that attract me at first, but the guys that really turn me on are those who are confident yet not arrogant, authentic and transparent, who are spiritual, and who have brains. Anyone can descrube the physical attributes they like and I submit that this is the very problem with the gay community. Guys pick guys based on the exterior when we should be concerned about the interior.

GIL-
You have nothing to apologize over and I dont think your comment was harsh at all. In fact, I say that you are right on the money & hit the nail right on the head.

It would be nice meet such a guy as you have described however just like you i have not met one yet, and dont think I ever will.. Doesnt seem to be any out there..
Darn good thing that I am not looking and instead my my priorities focused elsewhere.. I am saving myself from all the disappointment and headaches others seem to experience.. and i have had my share of it as well. Quite frankly, This concept of someone “Ideal” is an illusion.. especially in this lifestyle.

I like muscular, tall, (6’1 to 6’4) slim built guys with broad shoulders and a 32 inch waist with a little cute round ass. Age range from 40 to 55.. I want him to be kinda quiet and a good listener because I love to talk. I want him to be masculine and very very neat and clean. Personal hygiene to me is very important. Sexually I want him to be truely versatile. Race doesn’t matter but I don’t want him too dark to too pale.

I’m bisexual,51 years old and a vers/bottom. I’m not into fem me guys so my ideal man is masculine and very secure with his sexuality. He should be slim to muscular since bigger guys don’t turn me on. I’m not saying I’ve never been with bigger guys but I have a hard time keeping an erections and I just can’t get into the mood. I also don’t like guys to be pushy. I had a 4 year relationship with a guy who was 18 years younger but he was very insecure which made the relationship difficult. I prefer younger guys but that is not written in stone. He should be intelligent, witty, easy going, fun loving, well read, and be able to carry on a decent conversation. He should be into outdoor activities, especially camping, hiking, canoeing, fishing, festivals, playing non competitive pool, etc. He shouldn’t be insecure. Most of my friends are younger than me which has been the case all my life but I do have older friends. He should be a total top or at least a vers/top and loves to give full body attention. I’m not looking for a relationship but looking for friends with benefits. It doesn’t matter as to which race he is since I don’t play that card. Thanks for reading. I am bi_dude4u

My ideal man is someone with a big dick, knows how to treat me right, and loves me for who I am.