Speak Out : I Have A Small Penis :(
Hi guys, I received this message from a member who would like to get your opinion about small penises so I am just posting the entire message he sent me, let’s discuss about it and comment below!
“Allo Dave, I am aware of an interesting situation right now and wondered if you could bring it towards group discussion. Can we discuss the topic of men with small penises, how it affects their social / dating life / sense of self / sense of manhood? Can we discuss with the group if they would or would not have a man with a small penis as a sex partner / life partner. How do men who are average to above feel about men with smaller penises? Do you reject such men? Can we hear from men with smaller penises about how they cope with any perceived or self perceived pressure about the small size of their penis? How are they treated by other men?
Thank you “
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Dave
It’s like this for me it’s not how big or small you are it is what you do with what you have since the object is to create pleasure and have pleasure for all that are involved with the pleasure .
I like big and hairy myself but have on the other hand some rather great fun with small as well so small or large it’s all in how you use what you HAVE.
And yes I would take on a small cock as well as a large.
It’s all about the pleasure not the size.
Lots of guys with small dicks get laid plenty and have strong love / sex lives.
Bringing topics like this up is what creates further social riffs, turning small dicks into big concerns. There’s a certain divisiveness to many of these blogs and topics that is rather trite and reflective of a small mind. Time to broaden your horizons and move along from the superficial.
I have no issue at all with having a sex partner who has a small penis. There are advantages and disadvantages to both small and large, an I think the tendency to automatically assign greater value to large cocks is foolhardy. That said, while I am not seeking monogamy, I suspect I’d think twice about a relationship with a small-cocked partner is monogamy was an expectation. As a bottom I’ve enjoyed pleasure with dicks of a variety of sizes and a like the small ones too, but for me, I want something big at least some of the time. To make that sacrifice, I’d need a hell of a good reason.
I don’t mind small penis size . In fact , I love and prefer smaller size under 5.5 … At least not fat stomach. I can’t stand huge fat stomach ( don’t have required flat , little fat is cute )
Wish there were more ppl lije you!
Personally I enjoy the company of a short man with a small penis, who’s in in decent shape. I prefer to date and be with someone who has a small penis. Because it’s not always about the size, but what they can do with it. If a guy is obsessed and have a low self esteem because of it, then it’s a turn off. Just embrace what the universe have given you and enjoy. Believe it or not, there are men out there that really do enjoy what you have.
Now are we talking about girth or length? As for myself, I have 7.5c but not very girthy. a very few say it’s small others say it’s just right. Each person have a different perception in what is small or not.
I actually perfer the smaller guys. Their not so cocky and honestly they make up for it in other ways. Some of the best times ive had with a guy was with a smaller cock, like 5.5-5in something like that. He didnt post his size nor did i ask. He just said he wasnt that big and thats what i like. I do wish i was huge like 9in but sometimes i grateful im not cuz u ever had your whole dick in a mouth and their tounge rub ur balls while they moan… Just sayin. Lotsa luv for all u smaller guys out there, just know that their are people like me out there for you. Btw im only 6in and thats not big but ive had no one ever complain or not come back for seconds and im a novice with men 😉
My boy friend loves my 4″ cock he has never had any problem with it…iam the bottom but i had also top sometimes and people have still tell me iam a good fuck
I was fucking a 20-year-old with little experience, and he yelled, “Take it out — it’s too big!”. A few days later, I was fucking a 50-something guy with lots of ” experience” (i.e., a slut) who actually said when I finished, “I wish your penis was bigger.” I had to laugh. Small, big, enormous, fat: it’s all relative. Instead of discussing size of penises, let’s move onto something more relevant, like, say, the Kardashians.
Being someone who finds anal sex painful, big penises are nice to look at, hold onto and suck. They are also fun to JO. Smaller penises on guys might seem a bit challenging to deal with, but more often than not, I have seen guys with smaller penises shoot a lot of cum very far – plus, they tend not to inflict the kind of anal pain larger ones do.
Bottom line, it’s equipment that every man has: A bad personality with a big dick is a turnoff – however, a great personality and a small disk is a turnon.
Size worship is a modern phenomenon. The white guy’s penis isn’t even small and is more versatile. I prefer average-size penises because I can suck them without choking and all around have more use for them. Look at the statue of David; for the longest time, “small” penises were considered beautiful.
I hate the feeling seeing a guy with a very large penis I have a 5.5 penis
I think the best size for sucking cock is average to smaller, however when getting topped a larger cock is much more appreciated! I have been with men with cocks so big I could barely get it in my mouth. I have the problem of having an above average cock, both in length and thickness. Being a small stature guy, most men want me to always top when they see my cock, and I love to bottom a whole lot even though I consider myself to be a “versatile bottom”.I feel short changed when it comes to bottoming. All in all, I feel it is how a man uses what he has to satisfy his partner. I have seen very small penises(and guys who know how to use them!) and penises so big you don’t know what to do with them(no, really!)I think I would rather have a well proportioned cock with a nice mushroom head whether it is small or large…Average is still best!Big ones or small ones, cut ones or uncut ones, cock are still a gay mans best friend!
To be honest iam a top,but l love sucking a nice cock,small penises just don’t do it for me sorry.
I think my penis is small. I would say maybe 6 inches and not real thick. I hear and see ads here and sites like these and craigslist where guys will not even talk to you if you don’t have at least 8 inches. well ofcourse that’s makes me feel very inadequate and I have been told the same by many more. I feel I have a lot to offer and I think I am very hot in bed and a good top for the few that will give me a chance. From my own experience most gay men are huge size queens, even from guys that have small penises they will not even talk to you. YES I feel very insecure about the size of my penis and it has haunted me all my life and I am embarrassed to ever have to be naked in public areas. I believe size of penis goes a very long way in self-confidence and self esteem and that is because of the way society perceives guys with small penises as someone to make fun of and jokes about. When you are told you are less of a man because you don’t have a large dick on you all your life then you begin to believe them and feel bad about yourself. Just one view point form a guy that is consider small in the gay world. I hear there are guys who enjoy a guy with a smaller penis but I haven’t found them around here. I also think its a bigger problem for a top to be small that if you are a bottom however a lot of guys require hung bottoms. Its the same with being a tall person, research has shown that taller people get hired for better jobs.
For me a dick size does not say who a person is. I have a small dick, I always up front about it. If someone is not interested me for my dick size it cool. I move forward. There is nothing I can do about it, it is what it is.
I have had great sex with big dicks, little dicks and in between, and have bad sex with all of the above.
So for me my dick size does not define me. I am who I am and I cant worry about what someone else thinks or does…
i have a small penis and used to be ashamed to even get undressed in front of anyone..it’s 4.5 cut thin. i was married previously and she really had no problem with it, she loved my magic fingers and tounge more. i’ve had guys with smaller penises, that knew how to work it where some hung guys just wanna lay there and do nothing.
i found that some married men liked it even more, they got the feeling and weren’t screaming in pain.
I will say i myself do like a larger penis more, what can i say? i’m at least honest about it. I also give honest stats when i’m trying to hook up.(unlike some men in here) I still like to bottom more, but if the right person comes along i will fuck the shit out of them.
I am a guy that has a small penis. I am very unhappy with it and have to say its embarrassing to go into the YMCA locker room to shower after my workout. I feel cheated out of something that should be larger. its embarrassing to get nude in front of guys when I see and know how big theirs is compared to mine.
It kind’ve depends on whether someone has a small penis just because it’s small, or if they have a small usable penis because of excess weight. I have absolutely NO problem with the former. As a guy who really isn’t into penetrative sex anyway, it makes absolutely no difference to me. But if someone only has a small section of penis because of excess fat, that’s a problem for me. I don’t judge people for being heavy, but I’m just not turned on by it. Sorry. 🙁 I don’t get bothered by a round stomach or love handles, but an apron of fat around the crotch is a deal breaker. Not a condemnation, not a devaluation as a person…just not my scene.
As a top penis size doesn’t matter. A nice ass does. My partner as a hard time finding his dick unless there is one up his ass. All is good. If you measure your manhood by your dick size you may have other issues in your life. Its just a dick there is more to a person then that.
On the sex side of the coin. I have men what(beg for my 8 1/2 inches of my cut cock. Only to find out they cant take it. Maybe smaller is better.
What is the sense of feeling bad because you don’t have a porn star sized dick? There is truly nothing you can do about it; be satisfied that if functions as it is supposed to. Life is too short ( pardon the pun ) to worry about it.
I write as someone who also has a “small” penis (4.5″ long, average thickness). I would say having a small penis has held me back sexually, but not because of how others respond to it. The biggest issue has been my own perceptions. Sure, there have been times where I take off my underwear and a guy has decided he’s not interested because he likes bigger dicks. We like what we like. I don’t get super upset in this situation (anymore). it has also only happened in a bathhouse/glory hole context. This is part of how we are wired and it can’t be helped. Getting rejected because of your dick size is no different than getting rejected due to your hair color or body hair. Some people are really limited in what attracts them in that area
For the most part, guys are generally okay with it. I’m nearly always a top and I’ve never once had a complaint, other than when hooking up with guys that have profound bubble butts. This can make the length an issue for getting a good penetrative angle. And the one time that happened we managed to get each other off in other equally fun ways.
Inside of relationships (dating, ongoing FWB’s, etc.), I’ve had a few guys that really like that I’m not huge because they can do some fun things orally and as said before, penetration isn’t usually an issue. Have had two guys in the past that I could get to orgasm without any stimulation on their own dicks because the length was just right to hit their prostate without being so huge they had to warm up to it.
It can also be really hot to be able to just go balls deep without having to go super slow. Sets a very hot tone to throw them on their back, put their ankles on my shoulders, and bury the whole thing in them right out of the gate.
A lot of it is coming to terms with the fact that it’s the only dick you’re going to have, embracing that, and focusing your efforts on getting good at what you can do well. You will never be able to leave a hole gaping open like some porn stars, so find the things you can do that make your partner moan and get as good as possible at doing those things.
Don’t worry about it, be happy that it functions properly. Not many people have porn star sized cocks anyway.
I have a small penis and I am conscious about you. When I first start chatting with someone I make them aware.. I like to be straight forward about it. Some guys like hung men but some don’t mind. Plus I am a bottom so does not matter as much. If they guy(s) I’m with don’t mind, then I have confident being naked around them, etc.
P.S. I’m single.. Small cock lovers hit me up. 😛
*conscious about IT
*if THE guy(s)
* I have CONFIDENCE
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Personally I like smaller endowed men. I’m not orally gifted and being able to take a man all the way down to the root makes me feel like a champ.
I dont have a small cock lol
I think my 5.5 penis is on the small size, but my backdoor hole makes up for the shortness I think. I never had anyone complain about my size and when they take my bottom they seem to enjoy it very much. I have had 11 inches balls deep in me and I think I could take more. so with that said I look for more of a top guy to play with and hope he enjoys what I can give to him for our pleasure. anyway always open for more comments. and cocks.
I am well-endowed so I have no personal experience having a small penis BUT I have been objectified for having 10 measurable inches. The bottom line for me if is a guy is a dick for his personality, then I don’t care what his dick looks like. If I like his personality, then the size of his dick does not matter.
Yes there are size queens, but they are hateful narcissists who bully men with normal to smaller endowments.
My dick won’t break any records, but it gets plenty of attention. When I get a BJ, the whole thing gets wet – not the hand on the shaft and just the tip licking. No one screams and runs away when I undress. It is the perfect size and shape to make a bottom cum from prostate stimulation. Women like it too. Having a smaller cock forced me to become a better, more passionate lover. I just ordered some Andrew Christian undies to show it off better. But I’m more than just a dick. I’m a complete person and I give my partner everything I have to offer.
It’s not the size.
My penis is so small sometimes I wonder if I even have one. I worry constantly that my lovers will just laugh and point. I wish I knew how to get it bigger. Don’t get me wrong, there are days it seems bigger than others but it’s a constant battle in my mind. I hope some of you other guys can boost my spirit:-)
I don’t care what size my partner has as long as he and I enjoy what we are doing size is just an accident of birth but knowing how to pleasure your partner and them receive from you is a skill all men need to learn!
I hace a small dick and I hate it 🙁 5.5″ and I don’t like to bottom I like to top. Seems like most gay men are size queens :-(. Interestingly enough I have never been turned away when meeting a guy and saw my penis but every time they ask me online how big it is and I tell them they just reply with “sorry to small, looking for bigger”…and I’m
Thinking wtf?
bottom here. ive had small penises that have rocked my world. ive also had baseball bats that cant get it done.
Speaking for myself of course, I LOVE guys with smaller cocks.! I’m not porn star hung myself but I think a bit longer than average but a nice compact hot smaller cock and balls that I can nicely fit in my mouth and throat gets me going every time. I really don’t like to date or hook up with guys who are bigger than 6″-61/2″(I know it’s not cool to discriminate-sorry). It doesn’t matter the age(legal of course!)but dicklets are thing a beauty to me. No one should ever be ashamed of their size because for every guy that worships big…there are just as many who worship smaller. Three “Woofs” to small……
A small penis isn’t a deal breaker especially if u r a bottom with a guy who is 100% top I wouldn’t think they would care about them size and a small penis could be good for a guy that wants to try dick for the very first time I mean personally I wouldn’t want a massive piece my very first time seems like a lot of pain
I love men with small penises!!!!
Personally, im average. If I care for someone,I would not care how small their penis is. I have dated some super sexy men that had a tiny penis. I was respectful and never mentioned size. I always said I liked their cocks and it made me feel good. Its the connection that feels so great. Not the size of their penis.
Granted, If im just looking to get laid by anyone, i would look for a big one to average.
A small penis on a man makes him no less a man, nor does a large penis on a man make him a better man.
I don’t have a problem with a guy with a small penis. I’m very oral and I do have a gag reflex, so a small penis is easier to deep throat without choking. I’m mostly a top but when I feel that urge to bottom, I prefer the small ones. But that’s just me.
Well if his dick is in that picture, tell him not to worry, because ANYTHING is going to look small next to that leviathan!
I just wanted to say that I always thought that bigger was better but I was in a relationship with a younger who had five inches it was awesome, it changed my mind on that subject. It is the overall person not just what they have in their shorts. He had a fabulous attitude that is what is important.
well I’m average. 7.5
I have been men that have bigger than 8 and small than 7. The size really never mattered to me it’s always the man that it’s attached to and if this man has confidence in what he is doing then I think that he would have know problem pleasuring me.
The size of your penis should never determine your manhood and I don’t think anyone should be ashamed of his size and no one should make you fell ashamed either.
This goes for all sizes. There are other ways of pleasing your man.
IJS
First things first….. Really? Just reeeally? Is it needed that you had to put the “big black vs the small white?” Anyways, a small dick isn’t bad to an extent. If you can fit it into a neden or get it sucked that’s ok. But if not then nothing shameful just means you get to surprise the bottom with crazy finger work or a toy collection might be in order. Aside from that there’s always being a bottom.
I’m only 5″ with no girth what most call a ‘needle dick’. I’m 51 years old and have had a good number of sexual partners throughout my life. Only one individual has made a derogatory comment about my lesser endowment. Although I’m quite sure some have been a bit disappointed no one else has ever made me feel less than adequate. While there have been moments of self conciousness in my life, I have always been able to overcome any anxiety that I may have felt by reminding myself that I am caring, compassionate and a robust lover. Do I ever wish to be more endowed? Hell yes, but I don’t feel the need to impress anyone with a large dick because I’m comfortable with myself and confident in my skills. I give and receive pleasure as well as any horse hung man out there. Making love is so much more than filling any hole beyond capacity. Passion goes farther than anything else.
Considering that most guys on here can’t give an accurate measurement to begin with I find it laughable that anyone would feel they have the right to judge another’s size. I have seen three inch cocks in pics that say they are eight inches and I have seen eight inch cocks that are rare and saying they are ten inches. Maybe we should start with real measurements?
Sadly I am cursed with a small penis (5 inches long 4 around) I have been rejected by both women and men, made fun of and ridiculed. Due to such treatment I often feel “less of a man”. This condition I believe happened as a result of being a premature baby and my trsticles not dropping into place until 17 with the aid of hormone injections.
It’s according to the guy. Lean hairy bodies; it sure don’t matter. Small dicked guy have a hell of a time in the social setting. Gay guys can be most cruel.
I have a fetish for small penises. I could just gobble them up, literally!
I was a male with an average size penis (6.5). When my penis was that length my social life was much better and at that time I was a versatile male. However due to some medical issues I have lost the size and am now below average. It is a shame to say that men out there prefer men with larger penis sizes. I am now a bottom and do fibd myself liking larger penises, however it really does not matter to me if a man has a small penis. The point is if he knows how to ise it correctly I’m fibe with it.
I’ve been cursed with a tiny penis compared to my overall frame. I am 6’1 with a 4 inch dick. It has affected me throughout my life. Hyper-insecurity abounds with me. I learned that being an overweight teenager and adult affects testosterone levels with can decrease penis size development in the long term. I have an unwavering envy of men that have been given long thick and heavy endowments. I use to see porn mags and thought perhaps they were physical rarities. Until i went online and saw how MANY other average men had so much more to offer in the penis size depo. It can be said that “size isn’t everything”, which to a certain extent is correct. But more often than not – It’s usually some guy with a good sized dick saying that.To be blunt, when i was 18 years old i was so depressed about being made so inferior to most other guys, that i had seriously contemplated slicing my sad little “dick” off with a box cutter from my job. Only thing that stopped me was realising i would spend the rest of my sad life having to use a pee bag. When all is said and done, for myself…i am just a mistake of natural selection. To those of you all too lucky men that have a BIG beautiful dick…never ever take what you’ve got between your legs for granted. There are pathetic individuals like myself who wish beyond all things to have what you’ve got.
Some of my best lovers have had smaller penises and to be honest I like to have sex with men who are less than 6 inches. My favorite top had a 6 inch pencil that hit all the right places and was able to make me cum without even touching my Cock. I have had large cocks and can handle them but the ego that is sometimes attached to then is hard to handle.
I dated for a while a guy with a very small penis. He was a bottom, I am a top. I actually liked his small penis. It was wonderful to suck on, it caused no deep throating problems, of which I am incapable. I’m not much of a cock sucker, but I adored his small cock. He enjoyed my large cock.
The problem came when he couldn’t believe that I was happy with his small cock. I could have been happy with him infinitely, but in the end, he couldn’t accept that I could be satisfied with his small cock.
Just saying……
I like all penises. small the most
I love men with a smaller penis. I have a crooked larynx and have a difficult time deep throating large penis’s but the smaller ones I can work on with no problem whatsoever. I love guys who are 5 inches or less. (:~P)
No, I absolutely have not rejected men with small cocks, whether for casual encounters or consideration as a life partner. This is one of about a half dozen superficial, silly reasons to reject someone.
There are many other attributes I look for in a man that are much higher on my list.
I don’t mind someone with a small penis I would just prefer them to be the bottom in the relationship
Honestly, my whole life I thought that I was much smaller than I actually was. Being bigger and having bigger hands meant that things were smaller in my eyes. I personally prefer larger dicks because they are what I look for when I look for in a man. Everyone is perverse, so no one should think they will be alone forever. I think those with small slongs are much more manly when they embrace it. Dont let pornos make you feel small.
I consider myself to be a top. I am 47 yrs old and have been openly gay in rural Kentucky and I can only say that to me a small piece would upset me. I feel those with small penis have a complex and they try and make up for it with attitude, muscles, and or flaunt money. Either way I like something to hold on too while ****ing a man hole. Small makes me feel sympathetic and I have to walk away dsappointed. 7″ or less and they have no chance, and the truth is I only top.
For some men (I guess) sex is mainly a mindless, NSA, feel-good bit of physical exercise. For another segment of gay/bi/whatever men the organ between the ears has as much (or more??) importance than the one between the legs. For the latter group, provided the interface between the personalities is working, the size of one penis or the other is probably not of major importance. For myself, the “smallish” penis is more “mouth-sized” for me than one that is donkey-hung.
This is an interesting post. I guess that I have matured in some ways and become practical in others. I’ve been with guys that have small cock but have always found some other quality about them that turned me on like a nice physique, body hair, nice lips and have gotten off on that. I like being able to deep throat and not gag. I’ve noticed that the smaller guys have had more imagination and were less inhibited that the larger guys I’ve been with. When I’m with a smaller guy I think “let’s have some fun” when I’m with a really big guy I think “if only I was that size . . .”.
I think that it’s because when I’m in a relationship or even when I hook up, it’s all about to horny guys getting off. That makes me hot! Hotter than just “I want to do _______ to this guy.” Great sex is when both participants are fully present mentally and into each other. When you boil it all down it’s always the same thing . . . penis in the mouth or the hand or the anus and create enough friction until ejaculation occurs.
Yes, I am small uncut 4.5-5″ myself and I have been laughed at and been ask “is that all there is” and “where is rest of it” among other rude things. I chat with guys on here and everything is ok until the find out how big then they type back we would not be compatible or they come over get there rocks off to there satisfaction then they leave and never come back and ignore you online that is the way my life has always gone. So I do think there is any hope to ever find anyone on here or anywhere. Guys are not looking for love unless you are 7 and bigger. Quite discussed .
I used to have a large cock. Two years ago i had prostate cancer. I had surgery and 8 weeks of radiation. Now i leak pee, don’t cum, cant get hard, and my penis is tiny….like sometimes need to look for it. How’s that info when trying to meet a life partner. Who wants that list of fun stats?
Personally I don’t particularly care about my partner’s penis size. As long as it works, we are all good 😉
I myself have a small penis. It is not quite 4″. Ever since I Kew I was gay, i have been put down, humiliated to no end. I even had one mam say under his breath,is that all. Needless to say,I didn’t have sex with him. I threw him out. Everyone I meet somewhere ,out in public or on line. It’s always the same thing. Within one minute, how big is your cock. Men just dont seem to think before they talk. Men, do you think that men like myself want to have sex, why yes we do. In the future don’t judge a man by his penis. This is something that men can’t change. Yes we could use a penis pump. But from what I am told . You lose some of your erection from using those contraptions. I am not young, but not old either. I know we all have certain types of men we like, but there is no reason to be mean to fellow gay men. Thank you.
I have small penis some time guys they don’t like it. Its very hard but what I do
I’m going to be honest I am a TOTAL TRUE TO THE HEART BOTTOM, when I was younger I thought I wanted all types of big dicks (Though it hurt like hell). As I’ve gotten older, soon to be 32, I’ve realized there is more to sex than having someone shove 10 inches inside you. Half of the guys I know with big dicks have a preschool stroke game!! I can say there’s a tie for best sex I’ve EVER had and that was with 1 ex who was about 10 1/2 the other was another ex who was about 6 1/2. I personally prefer 7 inches because it is comfortable. Big dicks are nice to look at, to me, but if it’s something that I have to inside me daily (because I have to have it at least 2 times a day from my guy when it’s convenient) then I want something that’s going to be a perfect fit that’s not going to have me walking around looking like a baboon lol. Little penis guys need to start telling people “Papercuts hurt too” lol don’t be ashamed just make sure your stroke game is on point fellas!
As a black SUBMISSIVE, cocksucking. Slutty Pussyboy.. I love to not be hard or in a chastity device I get a full and just over 8″ when hard but as a good bottom fag-pussy I love the humiliation of having a soft sma black dick And a man’s arm in my dark black faggot PUSSY to the shoulder able giving wet deep BLOW jobs and rimming… I like to CUM this way too without touching and a lot of horny men watching and fucking me two at a time..both holes.I have pics of u want give me the BIG dicks up in me deep hard and NASTY
My dick is average but I spent years thinking it was smaller than it was and being apprehensive about it. But I had many amazing sexual experiences with other guys of all sizes, and never once did anybody comment about my dick size. At the end of the day, if you’re enthusiastic, passionate, willing to go where the moment takes you, work with what you have and it will be an amazing experience.
I have a small dick. About 5.75″ and it really is a huge reason that I lack so much self confidence, especially in the gay community. Unfortunately, I also prefer to be a top and find it difficult to find a man that is completely ok with it. It honeslty scares me away from even wanting to meet people sometimes. I could live with my non muscley body and be confident in myself if it werent for the size of my junk.
To answer your question, I wouldn’t say it’s a requirement to have a big penis. It’s nice to get fucked with one, preferably 8 or better. Yes I am a size queen when I want NSA sex. In a partner I would rather thick than long. I myself am thick. To be honest it’s more of the motion. I have a buddy fuck me with an average dick and it was the most amazing sex I have had to date. It did help that I care for this person. Then I have had a guy with a big dick and not know how to use it. Dude don’t stress about there is a guy for you who will love all of you for you.
Hi I have a very small penis and am very self conscious of it. I myself have always wondered what other guys are thinking when the see How small This is why I am a total bottom. My cock no sooner gets hard and I have premature ejaculation.
Thanxs and have a great day
Jeff Owens
Bend over… thats how they are treated..him
That caption is absolutely silly. Why do you contrast a white penis with a black one to emphasise the point. White men and women always reduce the black to nothing but a piece of meat, a symbol of lust….
Personally, I like small penises! You can do so much more with a small/average cock! It’s so much more fun to go ALL the way down on a man than just choking on his knob. I LOVE to bottom for a small cock man…. I like to be able to walk after sex!
I have had great sex with men that have a small penis. Sex is more the person than the equipment. My last boyfriend was below average size but we had amazing sex.
Who cares about the size? Heck, it’s about the GUY, not his appendage. My current pal (we’ve been together over a year and a half – something of a record for me LOL) isn’t packing much (especially in comparison to my 7 inch cut Polish sausage) but at half my size / length he’s incredible. That being said, four years ago I used to bottom regularly for a cut 9-er (I miss you, Jacques!) who was so gentle, so tender, so loving that I was hooked after our first 45-minute non-stopper. Like I said, it’s not about the size, it’s about the GUY.
I have never been a size queen, so small is not a problem for me. Also being 99% top, if I ever do bottom I prefer a smaller than average guy. A cute face, sexy toned body and good personality are what’s important to me, not penis size.
As a bottom with some experience I must say the best sex I ever had was with a guy who had 4 or 5 inches. Hard as a rock and pounded my prostate like a jackhammer. Have had 11 that couldn’t keep it hard and wasn’t nearly as good. It’s not all about size; give me hard any day over size.
I am a man with a small penis (under4″ when erect). I know there are men that I met but after that first meeting and seeing my size they ended it. One man told me he almost felt like he was playing with a young boy and it turned him off. It does make me feel loved me less of a man compared to others.
Speaking for myself,I love and lust after smaller cocks. I love the fact that I can get both the balls and shaft in my mouth and down my throat and I don’t have to struggle and can give whom I ‘m with a really good ‘ball washing’. Not sure if I’m in the minority about my preference but I’m not a fan of cocks bigger than 6″-61/2″. No one should feel inadequate because of their size because there are alot of guys like me who really think smaller is hotter. Even most of my porn sites that I view are for average to smaller cocks.It seems like there is so much pressure to be ‘big’ like a porn star and if you are not then feelings of less self worth can creep in. But if you are lucky enough to be smaller be small cock proud and know that there are many guys that love a dicklet!
Penises are fun, but they’re the least important part of the man.
I’ve dated guys with 10″ cocks who were lousy lays cuz they thought all they had to do was get it hard.
I’ve dated guys with 4-5.5″ nails who were some of the most fun sex I’ve ever had.
There are lots of guys looking for guy’s with smaller endowments.
You can’t change what you’ve got behind your zipper. You can just enjoy it and not be embarrassed to share it.
Well, I’m a young guy… 23 years old and let me tell you it is difficult. I have a small, not even thick cock. Not until recently I had my very first blowjob from my ex boyfriend and even started to play the “top” role. I always bottomed, but having a small cock made it difficult to explore further, I always seemed as a pleasure giver rather than feeling embarrassed of having a small cock, the only way of coping is, “well once I hook up with someone and they see it and wanna go for it then why not, if you see it and you don’t like it then screw it. There’s plenty of fish in the sea! I’m not gonna let myself feel self conscious about having a small cock” yes sounds cheesy and corny but it does the trick. At times it still bothers me, I’ll like to be the perfect Vers/bottom guy but it usually won’t work… So I stick to being a good bottom, cock sucking gay boy. At one point i even doubted my sexual orientation thinking “crap, what girl is going to want to have sex with my small one? I rather be gay and just please others with my not to brag perfect bubble one I got 😉 lol” so that’s my story basically! Hope it somewhat helps or not! And now question… Is the term micropenis real?
Well, it’s obviously going to be an issue if you want to be a top, but not everybody wants to get fucked, so you can still have a good time. I’ve got a couple of buddies who are small down there, but they make up for it in other ways and we still have a good time. But a guy who is obsessed about his small dick would be a real turn-off.
I hate the fact that I am judge what is between my legs and not other things there are many gay guys won’t talk to me just because when they see a number on a profile
The bigger the better!
I am very small ( under 4″ when erect) and I feel very self conscious. I have had more than one relationship end because I was not big enough. One guy even told me it was a complete turnoff because it was like playing with a boy. I mostly bottom because size does not matter then. But I would love to look like a man and not a boy.
I’m not at all a size queen. I’ve been w guys whos cocks are on the smaller side and guys who are larger than I (I’m about 8 if you’re wondering). For me, a big dick is useless if the guy doesn’t know how to use it and painful may I add. If a guy knows how to fuck for me it doesn’t matter. I just need to feel it and rough too. 😉
A beautiful dick is just that.
Smaller than mine is fine, so is bigger.
No rejection here, if I like the complete package.
I have an 8 1/2 cock, but to me, a small cock is SO sexy. I’d rather date a guy with a small cock any day!
I’m a young (20s) very fit single digit body fat, very attractive guy that was blessed with a huge, beautiful penis. A true 8-8.5, thick rod. Not trying to sound overly arrogant but it’s amazing lol. So most penis’s aren’t necessarily impressive to me. Maybe it’s because of this that I don’t think size is that much of a factor. Here’s a Good example.
Think of the most attractive, fIt men on here. That’s my general crowd. One day I started talking with a completely average middle age man. Average looks, body, and small to avg penis (5″ mayyybe 6″ but very pretty). He reeled me in with his calm,cool, collected demeanor and I’ve been hooked ever since. His dick just fits me perfectly and he knows how to use it. I think the most important factor is to be confident in what you have. This is generally someone I wouldn’t go for at all but from the beginning he exuded confidence and it transferred to bed as well. Everyone is built differently and figuring out what size and sex style works for you is part of the fun of it all
if you are small and have a small penis, get off the site. The bottoms demand big, some now have to wear diapers because of it. Even though there is NOTHING wrong with it, this site will make you feel really bad about yourself. Every now and then there is a decent person that is respectful etc but that does not feel like the norm.
So thrilled that I don’t have this problem. Ive got 8.5 inches of Prime Angus Beef! Enough to make Stewart Anderson envious .
I prefer a man with small penis I would prefer to date man with a small penis if he was a top
i am on a relationship whit my bf for 6 years he has small size bout I don care cuz he has a great tongue he make so happy
When I was 19, I had sex with my buddy Eric who had the smallest dick I’ve ever seen, about 4″hard. Regardless, we had the most passionate sex that night as he was a phenomenal lover! I sucked and licked every part of his crotch and when I sucked him off, he shot an enormous load in my mouth.. Rather than roll over and crash, he kept on going all night., I think I came 5 times that night. In in my 50’s and I still get hard thinking about that amazing night with Eric!
I am only 5 1/2 and on the thinner side of average. I have seen a lot of cocks over the years and it makes me feel inferior to other men and for that I am a total bottom. Hell my package is small enough that I can wear women’s panties and not have to worry about my junk falling out of the panties.
And with being smaller that is the reason I feel I should wear panties instead of men’s underwear and being a pleasure bottom for real men
I’m top 8inches uncut I prefer fuck a guy with penis than a one with small one
Two of my best buds are “under endowed”. They are also highly creative, caring, fun, and reciprocal during play times. I’m glad they’re in my life.
I’d much prefer an attentive “under endowed” guy over a self-centered arrogant hung horse, picture perfect guy any day.
The real problem here is the belief by so many guys (under endowed, short, not “hot” looking, etc.) that they need to please all men, especially the “practically picture perfect” bunch. In reality, there are all kinds of guys … and they’re seeking all kinds of guys.
Guys come in all shapes, sizes, looks, builds, etc. Each guy should be good at being good at who he is and be confident in it. No guy will please all guys all the time. Hot, tall, short, thin, heavy, hairy, smooth, “under endowed” or hung … let guys who reject you (or “don’t feel the chemistry”) flow away. Keep seeking and find those guys who are good with you being who you are. They’re plentiful! Cultivate relationships with them by being creative, caring, fun, and reciprocal when you’re with them. Yes, you’ll have to kiss a few frogs along the way … and sometimes will be harshly rejected. Finding the good guys will be all the more worth it.
Having a small penis doesn’t mean you can’t have a successful relationship! I actually prefer small to average, I been with very well endowed men and very overrated. The gay community has become even more shallow and vain. We need to stop with “shaming” individuals.
First: scientists have studied cock size, and the average cock size is six inches. So the guys above who have five or six or six and a half inch cocks — they’re not small. Second: for those guys with, let’s call them “cute and petite” (not “small”) cocks, be glad you have a cock, be glad it works, and be glad we are a sum of our parts, not defined by one part, one’s cock. Third: Let’s move on past this.
I have a 6 inch, cut, mulatto colored Puerto Rican and Ecuadorean dick. I have, in the past, struggled with feelings of self doubt and low confidence because of its size. As I grow, I realize more guys like the face that comes with the penis. I just wish I could tan naked if I wanted too and not feel like a man with a kiddie pool sized penis. But, gotta live with it, man.
I am a man in his mid-60’s with a small penis, 5″c but used to be 6.5………..until 9 years ago I had prostate cancer. I chose to do radiation & liquid chemo shots as oppose to radical surgery. I was very self conscious for a long time of my new size but I look at it this way, I still have my life and still enjoying it to the fullest and have never been rejected by someone wanting bigger. I tell then up front and if they want more, then let them keep searching. I hate pretentious GAY size queens that think size matters and they are the ones screaming that it hurts. My partner, who is a vers/bottom prefers my smaller size because he said my larger size use to hurt but now I can fuck him for hours & he really gets off enjoying it better.
Size does not matter, its how two people make love and enjoy each other
First, I am disappointed that Dave couldn’t be more creative with the lead photo for this post, and choose NOT to endorse the stereotypical myth that all black men have enormous cocks and all white men are under-endowed.
Second, due to our exposure to porn and ignorance of the facts, both straight and gay men have an unrealistic perception of what is considered “large” versus “small” penis size. Sketchy marketers of “enhancement” products take advantage of men’s universal insecurity about dick size to push items that have no effect but to separate gullible guys from their money.
The question of penis size has nagged generations of men. Over several decades, numerous scientific surveys have been conducted across all age and ethnic groups. All legitimate studies have resulted in roughly the same findings. The average length of flaccid penises is 9 centimeters (3.5 inches) with a circumference (at the middle of the shaft) of 10 centimeters (3.9 inches). Erect lengths range from 12 to 16 centimeters (4.7 to 6.3 inches) and circumference is around 12 centimeters (4.7 inches).
Armed with the facts, most of us should rethink where we fall on the small-medium-large scale. And that might alter our appreciation for others who have a different endowment than our own.
I prefer bigger cocks. 8″+ for a multitude of reasons, but mainly because I enjoy rough sex and a bit of pain. Smaller cocks just don’t have the right feeling for me. I’ve had sex with men of all shapes and sizes, colors and creeds, and honestly the bigger cocks just feel the best.
Why do guys with big cocks brag about it as if it was an accomplishment? And why do we humans, gay men in particular, seem to be obsessed with same? Guys, you had nothing to do with it unless you were stupid enough to shoot your dick full of silicone or something, and how did that work out?
Most of my life, I’ve been told I’m big (tho I think I’m just a little above “average”) but never, NEVER have I bragged about it. If it was something I actually accomplished through hard work–like a good career, a great gym-built body, or being with the love of my life– perhaps some gentle mentioning of it would be appropriate. But cock size? I had nothing to do with it. Not brag-worthy.
It’s all in the genes. We had no role in it. Moving on…
As a total bottom, no one cares about my small penis.
Interesting topic, I’m a small dick guy. When I was younger I was very insecure about it. I was teased and many guys and girls were not interested in having sex because of how small I am. I’m 5 inch cut 4 in around. I was always a bottom and would submit and worship any man with a bigger cock who would dare put up with my little cock. I finally met a real man he was older than me by about 20 years. I was 25 he was late 40’s he had a large thick cock he was versatile with average looks and I felt so lucky he would hook up with me having such a small cock I was a good bottom and serviced him as best I could. One day he wanted me to top him. I was very afraid that he wouldn’t be satisfied and had a tough time keeping it hard. He was very patient and eventually I was able to penetrate him. I slowly worked up t o a steady pounding with his encouragement and he had the most explosive orgasm with out ever touching his cock. That gave me great pride that I could provide him so much pleasure. It gave me confidence. He was a great lover and an even better teacher. He taught me to not worry about my size but to concentrate on sharing passion and pleasure with my partner. He taught me to be a good lover and a good top as well as a bottom. While not every guy will be into my small cock, I don’t get any complaints about it either once they give me a try. I personally prefer an average size but I care more about the guy than I do his cock. In my experience bigger is not always better and sometimes it’s downright bad if the guy doesn’t know how to use it. Just my opinion.
The illustration for this entry is cliche and plays to stereotypes, and besides according to [my] diverse and substantial sex experiences, somewhat misleading. First, to address this awful picture: black man big dick/white man little dick? Really?? For a subject that (probably) is intended to gain feedback from the community on size preference and add a little nuance to the general preference for big dicks among gay men, and perhaps make men ashamed of their smaller size feel less shame, this lame picture is the wrong segue to that discussion. I’m sure more than a few readers made it no further than the illustration. Anyway, from I’ve seen there is (on average) similar endowments among black and white (and middle eastern) men. Black men do account for many/most of the truly enormous dicks I’ve ever seen, but that’s about it as far as discrepancies between these races. Other races have standouts but seem generally smaller-on-average than the other three, although my sample size for these groups is smaller and may not be representative. As far as virility is concerned if the men do have smaller cocks it obviously does little and has little do with reproduction, just ask India or China. So really the picture is playing to the getting-old-fast black mandingo/white power bottom angle. Black mandingos and white cum dumps should be pleased by the pic but I find it distasteful and unhelpful in this discussion.
To me, presentation is by far hotter and whether everything is in proportion of not. I find width to be more of a turn on than length. That and a natural looking cock. Lots of natural body hair is way hotter than length any day!
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with any penis size. My last boyfriend had what would be considered a “small” penis and I loved it. I got on my knees for him and loved to beg to and be fucked by him. I’ve had partners with quite large penises and those are fun, yes, but size truly doesn’t matter as long as you and your partner are enjoying yourselves.
There is a 30-something dude at my gym who has a small penis. I haven’t seen him erect, so not really sure how big he gets. At first, I noticed him turning his back to me so I wouldn’t see his penis when he was changing clothes. Then one time, I came into the lockerroom just as he was stepping out of the shower naked, so I got to see it. He probably noticed me looking at it. Anyway, now he doesn’t turn his back to me when he’s getting naked.
He’s a tad stocky with a bit of a belly and has a beautiful round ass that I want to bury my face in. Looks like it would be easy to suck him without any chance of gagging on his cock, which is fine with me, as long as he can squirt a nice load in my mouth. Also, he looks like he’d be great to cuddle with in bed.
I’ve said hi to him a few times, but he doesn’t seem interested in carrying on conversation with me, which is OK. (Maybe he knows I’d be up to no good with him.) I hope he knows just cuz his penis is smaller, doesn’t mean he doesn’t have anything to offer. I could have a lot of fun with him in bed without him doing much of anything, but laying back, relaxing and enjoying my mouth and tongue. I think sometimes people get stuck on one thing and overlook and miss out on something really special.
I like both big and small penis. My experience is a small penis is usually a good mouth full
I grew up with a complex about having a small dick until I found out different by direct comparison. I do enjoy well endowed bottoms now and then but the main pleasure I’m giving is plunging my cock into his ass. Making him cum at the same time is a bonus.
When I was born, the good Lord ask me if I wanted a big cock, and I thought he said clock, and told him I couldn’t tell time so a small one was fine,,,I’d rather service a cock around 5.5-6 anyday than a huge one. 7″ is more than enough, and not thick. Bring them on guys,,, I will take care of them for you..
I prefer to suck a small dick. it feels better in my mouth. When I fet fucked I prefer a decent size, otherwise I dont feel enough. It is also to the way they use their cock that’s important.
I’ve always thought mine was small (6″) but when guys see it, they say, “Nice tool, man.” I’ve thought them to be crazy, but think a lot of guys enjoy somebody confident as compared to huge and cocky (no pun intended).
I am married and I am seeing a married man (both are married to a female) who is about 5 inches and i am 9 inches. What he lacks in inches he makes up in other areas…great lover. He worries more about the size than I do. He is perfect!!! It isn’t the size that counts it the man behind it which makes it all worth while.
guys don’t let your dick define you or limit you…if it only about your dick then you are just turning tricks and no substance…but as a gay black male, its the first question i get..not even what my name..how big are you..most of the models you see on the sites are the exception to the rule. there more to life than dick size..
I have a small penis 5.5″ hard. There have only been a couple of times that guys have been turned off by my small member. I know how to use my penis…so that it give pleasure. I also like to be fucked by a small penis. Yes I do enjoy the big ones also.
big ones only good to look at….can stay down on a smaller one much longer…..but i at least want it to tickle the back of my throat. …re: joe—you need to stick with sucking/fucking your bananas
I’m concerned with the photo that accompanies the topic. It is highly stereotypical with a black and white dick being compared. It’s obvious we know black dicks are HUGE, so why use such a display. As a Blackman with a small dick I would love to see it represented against a huge white dick which do exists. Or black on black large and small or white on white large and small.
Jeff, I’m totally feeling you (pardon the pun) but I too do wish I were packing a lot bigger tool, but fortunately I’ve been told that I’m a power fucker, which maybe my vengeance on the hole I’m pummelling to make up for my lack thereof, but if there were anything I could do to make my basket more appealing I’d most certainly do and share with you my fortune in that respect.
Haven’t we discussed this topic like 10 times before???
Dillion : of course, but look at the amount of comments…
I’m going to start off by reiterating some of the things that have already been said here. To most well adjusted, self respecting individuals, the measurement of a dick is not nearly as important as the connection you have with the human being it is attached to.
Not to sound like a total conceited a-hole, but I am a good looking, confident guy. For anyone curious, my SN on here is Ouroborism. My dick is legitimately 8+ inches long and though I’ve never measured the girth, I am always told that it is a thick one. I have had partners with dicks of every size, shape and color. I do not actively seek a big dick, nor have I ever turned a guy down based on his dick size. For me, the interaction with the person is what makes the sex good or bad.
Additionally, I would have to agree that most of the individuals on here that feel inadequate because of their “small weiners” likely have a slew of other insecurities. I would even be willing to wager that most have a poor self image and are generally insecure about their bodies.
I would like to also comment about the general content of these blog posts. In particular there was an article about how a bottom “ought to always be prepared” I.e. Not have eaten and have a completely empty digestive tract at all times. This opinion was echoed by a large percentage of the barely literate adults who posted a response. The general consensus seemed to be that a human being that identifies as a bottom ought to be reduced to an unnaturally squeaky clean hole that ought to always be prepared for any possible back alley fuck they might encounter. I understand if you have arranged to meet someone then it is courteous to clean up where you’re about to do business, but it is not natural or healthy for a human being to be thought of as a walking fleshlight that should by virtue of it’s existence as a “bottom” be “ready to take a load”.
People can be vacuous, vapid, self-hating, mean, and generally inhumane. Why does our community feel the need to perpetuate these schisms? So some queen with a lisp turned you down because “your dick is too small”. Do you really want to have an intimate encounter with someone that superficial? Why not work on the things you can control, like your weight or your attitude towards life instead of beating yourself up because someone with poor self esteem found some way to put you down to make themselves feel better?
Take heart guys. The average penis size is around 5 and a half inches. An article in March of this year in the LA Times says 68% of men measure between 4.5 and 5.8 inches and 95% are in the 3.9- and 6.5-inch range. Do some looking online. For some of you, the size of your cock is measured from the top of the pubic bone to the tip and not from the asshole.
Personally, I measure 5.5 when I’m heavy and in a bad mood and just shy of 6 when I’m slimmer and in a good mood. Veiny with a helmet head.
That said, I’m right in there and had some mind blowing orgasms with it. It is easy to take down to the root but a little on the small side when it comes to topping. I could use an extra half inch to an inch. I’m not greedy. With my size, I have a power bottom buddy that moans when I’m topping him, and no he’s not faking it.
Large penises, say over 8 are an inconvenience and hard to take all the way down either orally or anally, at least for me. If you have an 8+ inch cock, good luck finding folks that can give you a hands free blow job. Some make nice art pieces, are fun to look at, pet, burp…….
To sum it up, average and pretty is better than big and ugly.
My bi lover has a very small penis but I love sucking that little dick is always hard I like it when I suck dick and balls at the same time
As a versatile male; it doesn’t bother me, nor has it ever bothered me. I don’t judge guys by the size of their cock. Mostly if any thing, I look at if they are attractive, have a nice body and/or a good personality.
Not all guys that had these 8 and above cocks are the best. Nor are they the best looking.
For me, my perfect guy would have a dick around the size of 7-8in.
I have a “small” penis “6.5by5” inches. Yet I love to eat ass and finger it and use the bottom like a bitch in heat.
It’s simple, be a lover, let him know he is there for your enjoyment and you are going to kiss, suck, fuck and do everything possible to roll his eyes in the back of his head, his toes curl and stretch his hole wide while his mouth makes that “O” and he shudders when you hit the internal sphincter and you see his cock dribble and spurt in orgasm. He and I will stare into each other’s eyes as I grab his legs and shoulders and head kissing him as I vary my fucking from mild to hard sport, pulling out to my head and slamming back in, or wait as he looks at me begging…
The job of a Top IMHO is to make the Bottom smile and walk loosey goosey with cum dribbling out of his cock from being fucked into a mind blowing orgasm.
If I get off, great, not what I’m looking for. I want you remembering me as the man who ruined you for other men.
remember: Its not the size of the ship but the motion of the ocean, spoken by a guy with a XXLARGE ship! The sexual attraction I have towards someone has
never been based on their ship size. It’s their personaility and how they come
across. Don;t worry about what you think you don’t have etc. Play the cards you
do have and enjoy life. BUT: ALWAYS PLAY SAFE
I’m a bottom packing 8.5in that obsessed with horse hung me..I’m first lover carried 10in.When we first had sex I was amazed to see a dick that huge..Being a beginner he had me screaming but no for long…After a month I was taking thar dick like a pro.I have tried sex with small penis dudes but its like are you done yet..Big dick dude have me nutting without touching my dick…
Small is relative. I’m not big, but have had guys choke on it. Have slid it in an had the dude say stop it’s too big. Then again I did go home with a good friend one night and damn if my pinky was bigger. Enjoy the dude you are with! I had a bf who was 10″ and thick who was a great bottom.
In my experience, guys with average to below average work harder to please me, and I get into it. Therefore I work harder to please him. I’m average and, generally speaking, larger guys are lazy/selfish in bed. I’d rather be with a guy who is average to below average, because it’s always a better time.
I’m a black guy with a small penis and I feel embarrassed by it.I’ve been on this site for years and has not found a decent guy yet.They are turned down by my penis size.My dick is only 6 inches long and I met white guys with 9 inch dicks and would turn me down because my dick is too small that it’s difficult to perform anal sex.Does anyone feel the same way I experienced to feel?
I dated a guy with a small dick, I really liked him and enjoyed our sex life. From the beginning I was top. then one day I asked him to top me. He was shocked and confused. but after talking about it he tried. It was hot and he loved it. He had always assumed that because he was small that made him a bottom. It made me sad that he had never been given the opportunity. from that day forward we switched roles, and he became the top. he could never get enough. the best sex I ever had was with him, not only did it feel good, but was a major turn on to to see how happy it made him.
I never considered myself a size queen. guys who show me a picture of their dick before a face pic, or announce that if you are not 8 or bigger to not contact them are a major turn off
I like to bottom for guys 5-7. I want my hole to be fucked but bigger guys hurt me and many think look at my cock I rule. Good lovers come in all sizes.
Well my dick is 5″ on most days. On a good day tho, or when i am LUCKY enough to be a young guys first. Or the “straight” guys i know there are other people that are going to read this and laugh. Like yesterday this “buddy” was pounding my ass. And after about15 mins and 10 years of random times he has stuffed my ass, drops his big load and leaves. BUT yesterday i got to shove my jumbo hot dog balls deep in that vergin ass Oh ya 😉
I have NO problem dating a guy with a “small” dick. Moreover, I would expect him to TOP from time to time; our relationship would be 50/50. I am only concern with the size of his heart and character.
While size is relative, I av had small ones a lil above 6″ and I find that they gave me mind blowing pleasure. There really wasn’t any particular position we didn’t try out and it was great. The big dicks however, I only wanted missionary and it had to be done gently. Every other position was just painful. How satisfying can that be to both partners? That said, my initial impression of ‘little’ dicks is ALWAYS refusal…until they work their magic.
Personally I prefer small cocks. I especially love to suck guys who have about 3-5 inches. If anyone small guys in georgia are looking for someone who loves smaller, hit me up.
Love a small penis..tired of choking on horse hung cocks.
Like being in control of it and not gagging half the time
You get the penis you are born with. Can’t change the size. A nice butt, however, is up to you. Work it out!
I think a man with a small cock is very sexy. I personally love small cock and prefer over a bi 8 to 10″ cock. What are supposed to do with so big:-)
There are cocks that are too large, and too small depending on what you like to do with them. For that reason, I prefer cocks that I consider average to above average. I have a small mouth. So, when it comes to Sucking, I like them in the middle range. Small, stiff cocks stabbing at my epiglotis makes me choke. A bigger, less stiff cock, I can deep throat all day. But then there is too big. Cant do anything I want to do with it. For getting fucked, tiny cocks give me gas. Too much air gets pumped in. A nice girthy cock has a better tug on the backstroke, Something to grip onto, and maneuvers well balls deep. Cocks that are too hard can sometomes stab into the wall or inner sphinter when the pounding gets heavy. Just the facts. Not hatin the guys on either extreme. Personality rates more towards an overall good time.
It seems that there are a lot of men here that think they have small dicks or big dicks, but really don’t. Average penis size is about 5.5″.
Guys I hate to admit this, but a small penis does not do anything for me, and especially if I am going to suck it and I love sucking a black man’s dick, I need 8.5 or better. I LOVE A BIG DICK TOP BLACK MAN
It’s all about the size….what can anyone possibly do with a dick the size of a pinky finger…Like women, most prefer larger dicks. So to all who are saying they prefer smaller “cocks” ….yeah fucking right…smdh
There are alot of size queens on this site, who expect me to have at least 10-12 inches because of my ethnic background (despite the fact that my length is disclosed in my profile info). I’ve even got emails saying “you’re not really a black guy” or “what a waste, you’re really cute”. This superficiality can in times cause a rift in the lgbt community. On the other hand, I’ve hooked up with guys that told me my size was just right and others would still tell me how painful it is at first. So I believe it’s all subjective to the preference of others. I still get enough play to know my size is appreciated, so I try not to get suckered in to penis envey too much.
Nothing wrong with a small penis but if you have a small penis you will most likely be a bottom. Small dicks can be good for a quickie and if the bottom likes to clean it up they don’t have too much to go in their mouth.
Most bottoms want a big dick to work on that hole for a while and make the booty hurt with some nice long stokes and a good pounding. A big dick that works(stays hard) is just thing to make a booty hurt good and is great for riding but the dick has to be 8″ or longer.
As long as u know how to it. That all that matter.
If 6″ is supposed to be average, that means that about 1/3 of men will be about that size, 1/3 will be larger and 1/3 will be smaller.
What’s that old joke? “I hate size queens… but I love their boyfriends! “
I like to think I have a big dick 8″L x 5.5″ T, but i was born with it and i love it. It gives me a sense of pride to free ball in umbra shorts. Even in my suit at work by bulge has a presence that catches everyones eye. My friends call me stunt cock because i am not shy and usually the first one to get naked at a pool party. That said, like dick of all sized. small and large… I was a top only for 20 years. then i had not a care in the world how big you dick was. As long as you didn’t have a gaping hole, until I made it that way.I am vers. and size for me depends on my mood. and i have had them as small as 6″ and as big as 11″. One thing i have noticed thought, most big tops want to be bottoms if they encounter another big top. or at a minimum have a great flip fuck session.
I couldn’t care less about penis size. I don’t really care for them in general, I prefer butts 🙂 so I guess I’d be more picky about the size of them.
If someone feels inadequate, perhaps they should look for sites that celebrate or are meant for small penises to get some encouragement. Maybe the more common you see having what is perceived as “small,” the more comfortable & confident you’ll become.
There’s something for everybody. What’s perceived as a popular opinion for enjoyable sex isn’t always true. 😉
Good luck & be grateful for what you have!
A penis is a penis it’s the man behind it that matters. I like sucking a penis and I don’t look at it as small or big just what comes out of it and how it make that guy feel when he cums in my mouth.
I like all cock size. I really love sucking small cock and getting fuck by them. I love the way it feel and some big guys have small ave cock, which turn me on. When come to jerk someone off a big feel good in the hands. So , it not the motion of the ocean but how long you can stay in port before you disembark
ugh! I’ve always cringed with this topic because I have a small dick 5hard. I have low self esteem in the bedroom and I always feel my partners are judging me because of my size. I have been contemplating surgery very seriously. However my sex life is amazing as I use my mouth and tongue as well. Recently had a black guy email me 5 inches? You wouldn’t be able to pump my gas with that! LOL I just had to laugh. What can you do. But it is all what you feel inside about the size of your dick. I just have to work on that. Good topic!
Here my take about size..you have what you got, master how you use it and size wont matter except to the hoebags that have stretched themselves out so much fucking everything and anyone, that only bats and fisting will work anyway.. cut or uncut, 5 to 8 average range is all pretty good with me…but if you want to impress me, come clean and cleaned out good. Size will NEVER make up for lack of personality, bad attitude, lack of hygiene, egotism, and drug use..
How in the hell am I suppose to feel a 3 inch “cock”? If it’s not a dick, I don’t want it…
Cocks = anything smaller than 7.5 inches
Dicks = 8 plus inches.
On another note, for a blog that constantly rails about stereotypes concerning gay men gay community and gay sex, it certainly does enough to promote them… id have to agree with the posters who were offended by the size comparison pic. Way to go!
Exmil: sorry that you are offended man!
ive been around awhile ive seen some stuff ok. i mean im seven and a halfe med thick, ive had rejection becouse im small when im not erect but i grow nicely. the thing is ive been told its to big its to small, whatever realy lol. but that being said gay men are or can be mean spirited hatefull rudd hurtfull over this very subject. grow up peopel i mean good god. everyone cant be alike, it like the gay hunger games haves have nots, better hope u have couse if your a have not u are deffinitly the odd man out, well i say everyone counts, ignorent fuckers grow up
Personally, I find some guys with small penises sexy and a turn on. I like the contrast between my large cock and their small ones. During roleplay it can also be a turn-on to humiliate the bottom verbally about his small cock compared to my man-sized one. It reminds them of why I am the top in that scenario.
What chaps me though is that so many guys flat out lie about their penis size. God only gave you so much, and lying about it doesn’t make it any bigger. Once the pants come off the truth is out anyway. I assume that all the lying is based in insecurity… thus, there are an awful lot of insecure men out there.
As someone mentioned earlier, there are a lot of bottoms out there who just can’t take an XXL cock. I know from my own experience! So be proud of what you have, or at the very least, content. Why go through life unhappy about something that you just can’t change?
I think a guys penis is about the least of my concerns. To be totally fair–> it’s the easiest part to accept. Tell the shallow queens to find a mirror and gaze at their perfection giving us all a break from their crap. 😉
I’ve got one testicle; who cares? Everything still works fine right? right.
Some of these stories from men with smaller than average dicks make me sad. I didn’t read all of the comments, but the one by Shardy really hit hard. No man should ever be so out of love with his penis that he is driven to the desire to cut it off. It’s an important part of you and deserves to be loved by you as much as any part of the whole. Our media puts so much emphasis on looking fabulous, having a killer body, whiter than natural teeth, flawless skin and in the case of men a large penis, that it is hard to feel like you belong if you don’t meet those skewed requirements. Well fuck the media. It’s made a mess of how we think in our culture. As long as you’re not an asshole to others, love yourself for who you are and what you have and stop measuring yourself against other men. You’re not them and more importantly they aren’t you and never can be. You are exactly as your creator made you, and if you’re a believer you know that you are made perfect in His eyes. Nobody else’s opinion about that should ever matter.
I want to send a hug out to Shardy and all of the other men who have posted that they feel insignificant because of their penis size. And remember that in classic art, lovers, heroes, warriors and average joes all were depicted with what we now call small endowments. You’re not under-endowed, you’re classically hung. 🙂 🙂 🙂
I tell you all something. My husband, and I do mean husband since we got married last August 23 in a beautiful church wedding in Illinois. We have been together for 16 years. My husband is a large hairy guy, only 5’7″ weighs 290lbs with a smaller, 5.5, penis but he has made me very very happy. I call him my big teddy bearI am a very slender guy only 5’9: and weigh only 145 pounds and I am also totally blind from complications of diabetes for almost 40 years, and most men on this sight have rejected me or called me a freak and told me I have no right on this sight. Even with my blindness I use a computer with a special speech program that reads my screen to me but I do all my own typing. I also am a licensed massage therapist and own my own business and do well for myself. We are both vers guys and still have great sex together even though I am almost 52 and he just turned 46. So anyone out there that claims a bigger guy with a smaller penis is not worth your time you better wake up and smell the coffee. He has accepted me for my health problems and blindness completely and I accept him for his size because having a husband who can make you happy everyday is all that is important. Dave DaveLuvsCock
Considering from a article I read a few years back that said the “Average Size” penis for the human is 5.7 inches. With that being said, I personally feel I’m happier with a 5 to 7 inch cock sliding in my ass by a guy who knows how to work it than someone with a 9 inch cock trying to puncture my rectum. I’ve had both, give me the “Average Size” any day over the few and far between cock slingers out there who cock resembles the radiator hoses in my car.
Hmm. This is a good one!
For me, it varies some times but for the most part, small don’t “turn me on as much”. When I say small cock I’m talking anything smaller than 6 inches. I’m very oral so I enjoy sucking and rimming. 5 inches can’t fuck my throat because it probably wont reach it. But I’ve also sucked off some really amazing guys with small cocks (5.5). Even when I top I love to see a rock hard bottom with a nice package.
Now as for penetration on the bottom…they just feel really weird inside of me. It doesn’t hit the right areas. It takes me longer to “open up” and can be quite uncomfortable. Without giving tmi, it almost makes me feel like I need to use the restroom.
Now, I love men…a variety of men, so I don’t shun men with small penis!! It just depends. I am 30, fit, blk, 8.5 cut/curved. I recently got together with an associate of mines (40 yrs old, thick but sexy with about 4.5/5 inches thick!!) We had been together before and I couldn’t remember why I hadnt gone to see him again. This recent encounter reminded be why…it’s his cock. Short and really thick. It’s very uncomfortable. Of course he thinks he has a “big dick” because it’s thick but truth is, it may be better if it wasn’t as thick since it is too short….then it might be more proportionate. On the same note, I’ve also sucked off some hot guys with smaller cocks and loved it. It just depends. 7 inches or more preferred but willing to consider as small as 6 inches. As I typed that I realized I wasn’t giving much slack lol In a good healthy relationship, I would consider 4 inches!! Lol Hard enough to find a great guy and I be damn if I shut him out because he has a small cock.
Side note: what is it with guys thinking “5.5 inches hung thick ” makes sense? I like to think being hung means that your dick hangs or ATLEAST extends significantly. So how can one be 5 inches hung?
I’m always surprised when a hook-up guy pulls out a small one, because it’s almost never mentioned or lied about, but I like small dicks too. It’s a boost to my shaky masculinity to be bigger witch is not too often being 6″ myself.
Give me a small cock any day.
Big cocks are a pain in the ass.
Just dont lie about the size please.
Poor little Shardy 🙁
What turns you on & what doesn’t–who knows where that comes from and more important it doesn’t matter, realize it’s there & relax & enjoy whoever enjoys you.
For me, a big guy with a little one is HOT. Especially those that stick out even when they are not hard.
That’s one of mine.