A4A : More than 1250 Blog Posts Later…
Hey guys, did you know that it’s been 5 years that I blog for you almost every day? Sometimes I get help from collaborators, to get a different opinion on things or write hot sex stories and some of you even send me texts to post which I really appreciate too. Over 1250 posts were written since A4A blog was created! It’s crazy. I just can’t believe it!
I’m writing this post because I’d like to ask for your help. Sometimes I have the blank page syndrome and I’d like to know what would you like me to write about? Or what subjects would you like me to write more or less about? Check out on top of the page and mouse over all the categories and let me know which ones you like the best. Do you want to see more porn? Stories? Contests? Fashion? Fitness and nutrition tips? STDs/HIV posts? Discussions on “Gay Stuff”?
Also everyone who wants to become a collaborator, feel free to let me know here in the comment section, I will contact you. Just make sure to include your email in the appropriate section before leaving your comment. DON’T leave your email in the comment itself coz you will get lot’s of spams.
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Have a wonderful day and can’t wait to read your suggestions!
Dave
Hey Dave, I would like to become a collaborator, I am currently going to school for business but I consider myself a writer. I’ve been published once and featured in my city’s and university newspaper. Would love to work with you.
Always Chris
Dave, how can I contact you??
I’d like to the see the blog focus more on news (current events and health), entertainment, and the site itself. I’d love to see less of the opinion pieces and the posts that look (purposefully or not) to divide rather than bring the community together.
Dave: Thanks for the great and hardworking job you do. If there were a Gay Guy of the Year Award, I would surely nominate you! Hey — there’s a topic for a blog: nominations for Gay Guy of the Year 2015, and then you pick the winner! Thanks again, Dave!!!
Dave, I think you blog is great. I do hope that you avoid news/entertainment, though, as we all get that information on Facebook or any other blog or news site.
I personally don’t care for the random “what’s your opinion” article because, again, it’s all been done before – but others seem to enjoy them.
Interviews would be cool, maybe hit up some of the escorts/porn stars on here and ask for simple, exclusive interviews – people may enjoy hearing their back stories (and interviews are easy, from a bloggers point of view)
I’ve enjoyed writing several erotic stories for your blog, but I’m not certain that’s what your readers are looking for.
Good luck with the next 5 years!
Enzo (socaltuffguy)
Stop with the utterly pointless Hot or Not posts. No matter the subject, some guys will be into it, others will not, and neither faction will care about the other’s differing level of interest in it.
I would like to see a blog with some supporting information about gay and bi men who came out later in life- many of whom were previously or currently in heterosexual marriages. The times were a lot different 25 – 30 years ago.
To have more jack-off and real encounters material would be great. I really enjoy reading them, gets my curious dick really hard. Take care
I enjoy reading your opinion pieces (not that I always agree with you) as well as your personal pieces, such as your vacation to the French part of Saint Martin. Also like it when you mention little details about Montreal ( I used to go there often).
How about writing about being attracted to non model-esque body types.
Well…one thing’s for sure…he won’t want ME as a collaborator! 😉
you have not talked about watersports/golden showers yet and facials unless I missed it…and I also like the blog about bottoming….thanks…..Jodi….
Would be interested in collaborating.
Would like to see posts that focus on/recognize that gay guys come in a variety of shapes, sizes, ages, builds, socioeconomic classes and with a wide range of preferences for clothing, entertainment, relationships, sex, etc. Gay guys are guys like any other guys. They embrace life in different ways and face a variety of challenges.
Hi Dave,
-long time reader, first time commenter…
How about “The warning signs of a scam profile, to block or report”. I seem to get hit on by them more and more lately and I know I’m not alone. I hate to admit it, but i am a bit of an expert at this. Sometimes I block them, sometimes i report them and sometimes, before I even have a chance to open the message the word “suspended” appears. I’d be more than happy to share my experience with you. Let me know if you’d like a collaborator on this subject.
Congrats on reaching the big 1250! Here’s to 1250 more!
I love the erotic stories, especially the true ones. I have a few I’d love to contribute! When I’ve shared them, people tell me I could write erotica. 😀
Also, I do have a question- I was talking to a guy I met on a4a. He seemed really nice and acted like he was interested in me. Come to find out all he wanted was money. Every time we chatted he would always bring up a question about me helping him in some way. When I refused he became irate with me! I became concerned and blocked him from all contacts. Is this normal on the site? Maybe it could be a blog one day as well.
Okcguy83- Josh. The phrase “you have to kiss some frogs to get a prince” holds true on A4A. I’ve met and connected with some great men here. For every one, there were five or so “frogs”. Weird guys/losers. Guys who say the wanted to meet but would never commit to a time or give you only vague responses to direct questions. Guys with no pictures … an NO ability to supply them .. even by email. I never had ones asking for money. For sure that day will come. I’m always clear about what I’m looking for. If it doesn’t work for them or if they don’t seem clear and responsive, I just fade from discussions with them. It’s all just part of sites such as this. All you need to is avoid guys who are not responsive and are not serious about talking and meeting. Go with your gut reaction; once it starts questioning a guy’s sincerity, it’s probably right. Be a gentleman about parting ways. If they’re asses, well there really isn’t much you can do for them except leave them to their own devices and misery.
@Okcguy83- Josh: Hustlers are becoming more and more commong on this and other sites, so beware. I consider it more proof of the decay of gay male culture since HIV hit and devastated things, but, at least back in the day, the hustlers knew their place. Now, fueled by meth and god-knows-what-else, they’re everywhere, and IN YOUR FACE. A4A has a policy that “pros” have to pay for pro accounts. If you get hit by such a hustler again, turn him in to A4A and they’ll trash his account, citing TOS violation re “pros” using free acoounts…RIGHT, DAVE?? Also, beware of “freebies” from hustlers..lmany are newly pozzed up.
DAVE, I LOVE HOT STORIES THAT ARE TRUE EXAMPLE LIKE TOW BEST FRIENDS , BROTHERS OR THE GUY NEXT DOOR ,, I HAD SOMETHING VERY EROTIC HAPPEN TO ME THIS SUMMER W MY NEIGHBOR SINCE THEN WE HAVE BECOME BEST OF FRIENDS ALSO NOW HIS SON HAS BECOME MY NEW BEST FRIEND TO IF YOU LIKE TO KNOW MORE HIT ME UP
Hey Dave,
I wanted to share a series of stories id like to share.
TheOne: send to me blog at adam4adam.com
Dave. Not sure this is the best place to ask. But I recently met this guy through a sex party. We exchanged numbers ect. He was the only bottom (gang bang) after we exchanged numbers we talked and got along well. We have alot in common outside the bedroom. In the bedroom he doesn’t seem to respond the same way tho. Of course we met at a group sex party… but he doesn’t seem comfortable with just one on one. Is this common? I sometimes like groups but never thought it would be more uncomfortable with just one person than multiple people at one time. Am I the only guy these days that finds one on one sex better than group sex? It’s been an issue with me since especially if live in nyc. There’s a lot of guys so alot more sex
Basically what I’m saying is, it seems to be more comfortable for him to be having sex with multiple guys then just one guy. Is this normal for most guys these days ? Bc it’s more comfortable for me to just have one on one