Speak Out : Man-Pussy
(Guys below is the most popular post of all time on A4A Blog, with 311 comments. I thought I would share it again with you and all the new blog readers.)
There are very few things in this online world that really bother me. Here is one of them: I was chatting with this really hot guy the other day on A4A, having a really great conversation and getting down to business when he asked me: Are you looking to get your man-pussy pounded? My man-pussy? Really?
Now I’ve heard guys joking about this and I’ve used the term before but to use it this way was a real turn off for me. Do I want my man-pussy pounded? I really didn’t know if I wanted to laugh or shoot him. For future reference, it’s not attractive and it’s certainly not a turn on.
There was this guy a few years ago, younger guy. We were heavy at it when he asked if I wanted to fuck his boy-pussy, I kind of blew if off hoping I didn’t hear what I heard and when I started fucking his ass he kept saying fuck my pussy, it was the first time I faked an orgasm.
Obviously you can call your hole whatever you want but remember, most gay guys don’t want to fuck a pussy.
Thoughts? Comments?
g skorich AKA eastvalleyoral
Women have both a pussy and an ass hole. Men have only the latter. I’ve fucked both and believe me they are not the same thing. Enough said.
I absolutely hate the term, whether it is being used in a sexual connotation, or just describing a type of cat, or as an insult, or any other way. I hate it whether it denotes female or male genitalia. I hate the sound of the word. I feel as though there are so many other terms that can be used in place of it. Needless to say, it is a turnoff for me as well.
I thought I was the only guy who gets offended over gay labels. Most gay labels make sex and the people sound so dirty and nasty, not all of us are pig people, nor do we want to be involved with pig people. That is my view on it.
Boy pussy!?!?! Man pussy!?!?!? I too would have faked an orgasm and left without cleaning up. Done and gone! I have never understood why it is called that and to me that is right down tasteless. I am bi married and a man ass or boy ass is not thing like a pussy…Nothing! I will eat a man ass or boy ass any day but don’t call it a pussy.
Call it anything you want in your own mind, but it’s just such a turn-off to call it mangina, boogina or anything containing ‘pussy’. I assume most guys using these names are submissive bottoms, but let’s not use those terms. Yuck!
Don’t really care what they call it. It feels fantastic and I still hit that spot everytime.
just nasty, sounds like a worn out butthole.
Some of us like man pussy especially if you’re fem or transgender!!!!!!
I prefer the term “Mangina”
The word Man-Pussy is a turn-on mostly for a total bottom, but I prefer ass because it is what it is and I can agree that it can be a turn-off for most gay people, because we are attracted to a man( same sex )knowing everything about a man is a turn-on the way they sound, like, smell, feel and the aggressiveness and the confidence that draw you to them. Now I have had pussy before it feels good, but something about a man ass feels way better than pussy any day.
Hey,
If a man is putting it down on me and it feels really good, he can own it, he can call it whatever he wants!
I could not agree more. I’ve had pussy, and I don’t care to be reminded of it, when I finally came to my senses!
Different strokes for different folks; I’ve heard other guys say that and I’d rather not be referred to by that but, it doesn’t bother me. It just sounds really queenie..lol
Let it go fellows!!
I am so in agreement. I find it a total turn off. The same goes for referring to pecs as tits. Or a guy as “girl”. I’m gay. I want to be with a man. That includes man parts.
Hook ups involve silly back and for the. I think we watch too much porn and expect too much
Ah … yes man pussy…. most of the time when I hear this term it’s coming from a married or so called str8 /bi guy. It use to bother me a lot, but as I get older I’ve noticed that men a lot younger then me use it a lot. So I was thinking of the changing times, and terms once used that would mystify a lot of the what I’ll call newer gay. It’s real easy to say something like “oh yuck don’t call your ass that,” or just say that sounds nasty. But truth be, as time moves on terms and “though process” change. So every now and then we just have to change with the times. Just so as not to be out of the loop. I will tell somebody real fast you can have some ass, but if you want some man pussy look somewhere else. There are those occasions when the guy can be so desirable that I just might let him call it anything he wants ,if I’m getting what I want. Just my thoughts and for sure each to their own.
I can’t say I’ve never used the term “man pussy” or “boi pussy” when it has come down to talking about my ass. To me it has its time and place.
I tend to hook up with straight-curious guys…and nine times out of ten, they call my ass a pussy and I go with it because I don’t want to ruin the mood.
If I am fucking with a gay guy and he whips out the “pussy” word, I pump the brakes and I’ve been known to leave right then and there…
Bottom line, I see your point, it’s an asshole not a pussy…but if a hot curious gent wants to eat my “pussy”, he’s gonna get my “pussy”.
It is presumptive for you to speak for “most” gay men. That is unless you have tucked most gay men and that they were in agreement over the term boy/man pussy. Another point that should be considered is the term less or more accepted in other cultures within the diverse spectrum of same gender loving men.
I am the total opposite. As a top (who prefers it more wild than mild), when I am with a young, smooth, pink-holed, bottom, I find it super sexy for them to refer to their hole as a “pussy.” To me, it is their way of saying I’m in control, his hole is mine, do with it what I will, that he is there to be used as my sex toy and play thing– it’s the ultimate declaration of submission. But it’s got to be a MAN PUSSY. Regular traditional pussy (vagaina)? Oh hell no, that’s just sick.
Every time I hear the word, ‘pussy’, I throw-up a little bit in my mouth. Definitely a turn-off.
I agree. I’ve had that said to me. It’s definitely not a turn on. I also feel like it’s demeaning. If a guy said anything like that to me during sex, it would end immediately.
We are men, who are suppose to be enjoy the pleasure which come from being with other men. And unless you are a Male Hermaphrodite we are fucking another mans anus and NOT his “Pussy”.
I had the same kind of encounter with a versatile man whom I had met and as things began to heat up he ask me if I wanted to get my “Man Pussy fucked” or to Fuck his “Man Pussy”. Hearing these words from another younger man (unless you are into that kind of roll playing) is such a turn off to me.
I what enjoy feeling the velvet firmness of another man cock in my mouth or in may anus and to feel my own cock in this mouth and to feel my erection press upon the fleshly peddles of his anus, to feel the head of my cock gently press against… to gently press between his muscle to enter him, to rhythmically feel myself gliding inside anus and NOT his Man Pussy.
I agree with eastvalleyoral’s closing statement you can call your anus (hole) anything you and your partner want or wish to… but as a rule (unless your bisexual) most gay guys don’t want to fuck a pussy.
My two cents on the subject. 🙂
i see it as 2 guys having fun .. and neither of them dont have body parts of a woman..I have always said with me being gay it doesn’t make any part of me a woman ..and i dont want to be talk to or refer to as a woman.
I agree with the man who wrote the article. I do not have a pussy, nor do I want a man who thinks he has a pussy, acts like one or calls his asshole a pussy. It is a huge turn off, etc.
2 terms I hate man pussy and fudgepacker those should be abolished and never spoken
I can’t believe people get upset about this. There are so many things that CAN go wrong in a relationship or hook up … but getting all bent out of shape over someone teasingly calling it a man pussy?
WOW…
Haven’t had a guy say “Man Pussy”. Personally, there’s nothing sexually attractive about it. “Babe” and “baby” are in the same category. No thanks. No thanks.
But in the rich fabric of mansex, if these terms turn guys on, that’s how they’re wired. Enjoy!
Completely agree… it’s an asshole or a butt hole, not a pussy or cunt.
I have to say its a turn off for that to be used man pussy really. I’m a gay man I have an Ass not a pussy.
I think there always is a keyword that individuals have an adversion to, for me the word is “Hole”, sounds vulgar. Though I’m a masculine vers/bottom I don’t mind anyone calling my anus a “man-pussy”. I feel lucky I have a cock and a pleasure zone in the rear and like it or not is similar to a female equivilent, and during intercourse I like the thought that I am breeding with a same sex partner so welcome to the wacky world of sexual preferences. I am up for an appropriate new name for a bottom guys “mangina”!
I think there always is a keyword that individuals have an adversion to, for me the word is “Hole”, sounds vulgar. Though I’m a masculine vers/bottom I don’t mind anyone calling my anus a “man-pussy”. I feel lucky I have a cock and a pleasure zone in the rear and like it or not is similar to a female equivilent, and during intercourse I like the thought that I am breeding with a same sex partner so welcome to the wacky world of sexual preferences. I am up for an appropriate new name for a bottom guys “mangina”!
Sometimes I have to say -“Ethal by god don’t get your panties in a bunch over something stupid” and this is one of them. An mans ass is a multipurpose orifice. It is a hole, a man hole. cum catcher, One eyed cock muncher,baby oven and yes, a man pussy, boy pussy and the many other things I have heard it called in the 43 years I have been sexually active with males (since I was 11 starting with the boy next door) Mancub,Life is to short to loose your boner because you are “Pussy-Phobic” (man holes bleed too and slope out gross, slimy disgusting- ness too) Remember We all came out of Pussy, vagina, snooki-catcher, bleeding slit and the majority of our straight male friends spend most of their lives trying to get back in one and Honey, a hole is a hole. If all it takes to derail your boner and brain is the term “pussy” you got to grow a set, and or grow up or get out of the kitchen because you can’t stand how someone is in heat.–
I too hate the words man-pussy, boypussy, and manhole.. Its an instant sex killer.. Nothing gets me soft faster than some dude using those word… Mood killer big time..
I am a bi guy and it is a big turn off for a guy to ask if you want your man pussy fucked. No I want my ass fucked. A pussy is between a woman’s legs and if I want pussy that is what I want. I want to fuck your boy ass or man ass not a pussy or I want you to fuck my ass…NOT PUSSY BIG TURN OFF
If I wanted a pussy I would be straight. Call what it is an ass, a hole anything but manpussy.
It IS an absolute turn off for me, I think the term man-pussy or boy-Pussy is just plain gross, will make my dick go soft in a New York minute. JUST STOP IT ALREADY!
Don’t feel bad if a guy calls his ass either a boy-pussy or a man-pussy. That’s because he treats and respects his ass like a pussy and it could be a very healthy ass.
I’ve seen a guy’s ass in my life time. I’ve seen some of the best ass that I’ve eaten out and fucked.
But I’ve also seen the worst that I wouldn’t eat or fuck either and I’d make an excuse. So if a guy doesn’t treat his ass right, he’s not worth to fuck.
But your case G skorich, if someone calls your ass a “pussy”, be gentle and respectful with your partner. Ask him to call your rear your ass or your ass hole as it is.
thanks.
100% agree! Nothing turns me off more than that. I love this post!
As a writer of erotica, I use the phrase manpussy, mancunt and manhole, because, in spite of researching names for penises to use because cock, dick and shaft get old, there are not as many for the ass. Sorry if it offends or bugs anyone, but that’s the way it is with writers. Anyone know any others? Let me know. Thanks.
I don’t know anyone who doesn’t think that is an instant turn off. “Man/Boi Pussy”… Blahh!
Lol
It depends on the guy. It doesn’t really bother me what’s said in the heat of the moment, as long as it’s not disrespectful. If they get off on saying it, it’s fine with me. I don’t know about anyone else, but when I’m putting work in, I’m not to particularly concerned about grammar lol
I had to get used to it first though. As long as they’re not straight up saying “man-vagina”, I’m cool
Absolutely not…. The thought of ever fucking a pussy is revolting to me… And just because you call it a man-pussy doesn’t make it any more attractive!
I could careless when I’m fucking some brother. I didn’t care in a hotel and I didn’t care in the Mc Donalds bathroom. He told me he wanted his man pussy beat up. I beat his ass raw. He was a sore ass when I was done with him. Hay if u don’t like it then send them my way. U can have a dry dick and I be the one hitting up his boy or man pussy.
When I’m deep inside a nice butt. The last thing I’m thinking is what he call it.I’m thinking about how to beat that but long hard . I don’t care what he name it. All I want him to do is take in long deep and hard.
GREAT way to get HepC. Off limits to me now for sure.
SWT, I’m bi…each has their own strengths and weaknesses. But I do agree…men don’t have “pussies”…they have asses. Any bottom who comes at me to do his “pussy” gets the eject button.
Its not a nice sounding word. I suppose it’s used frequently by older men who still call themselves “boi”. Which should have stopped 20 years ago.
I prefer having my buttocks/rear end called just my “ass” not “boy pussy” or “mangina” etc etc!!!
Its a huge turn off considering men do not have pussy and when you are a normal masculine man into the same, nothing feminine is attractive
I don’t care what anyone calls their butt hole. I am not a fan of man-pussy but then it isn’t what I am calling it when I pound it. Hopefully it is just a good fuck.
PUSSY IS PUSSY; ASS IS ASS; LET’S JUST CALL IT AN ASS AND KEEP IT MOVING. I NEVER DID LIKE THE TERM MAN/BOI-PUSSY. IT’S SOME KIND OF MANLY THING THAT IF A GUY ADDS “PUSSY” TO IT, IT MAKES THEM MORE MANLY AND LESS GAY. NO SUCH THING!
Only had a few men in my gay sexual life that refers to having a man pussy…kinda made me uneasy for sum reason…however the few that did make a reference…pretty good fucks…the most recent was a 29 y/o fella, his ass would naturally lube…that was hot had the him, begging more for ass play, in the long run. ( had a total of 3 self butt lubers in my time ) two of the 3 were very hot fucks…as for another that referred to his a hole, as man pussy…first time i fucked him, he came just by that, no hands of self, stim on his dick, the next time if fucked him months later, we were more passionate…ya he loved the finger fucking, though as the session went on i was like kissing him really tenderly, he said im about ready to cum…i’m like ya right…fuck within few seconds, he moaned and groaned and shot a load…though didn’t see all of it, cause i was busy kissing on him….his head and what not…we talked more in depth….he kinda sorta on the fem side of things, very masculine in looks, kinda sorta think, he was insested upon back in the day, i suspect he was femminized….he hasn’t been back for his man pussy to be worked, i do have a young boi i do few times a yr. and I never know if he;s gonna be daddies gurl , or daddies boy!…ya an interesting fuck he is too…none the less, it’s man ass, i do , not gurl pussy, never ever again, YUCK!
I personally love it when a butch top boy ask me if I want my cunt fucked or pussy for that matter. It’s just a term boys and I’ve been with both men and women, women don’t scare me nor do any parts on their bodies. Apparently some gay men are terrified of that thought of even seeing a naked woman let along touching a private part or having the term used on them. Whatever floats your boat and gets you off as long as you are not hurting anyone should be solely between the two who are fucking and their mutual agreement on what gets them off the best. Get over it boys seriously it’s only a pussy
I have had a pussy. I have had a man’s ass. Would rather have a man anyday.
I’m clearly in the minority here, which actually makes me glad. To me, a pussy is a hungry hole that is craving a cock. Non gender specific. But after reading these posts I’ll be pretty cautious about using it.
Omg shut up. It’s just a term. Go with the flow and just let it be hot and perverted.
I absolutely loathe the term [email protected] pu$$y
I’m on board with Kev; to get so easily bent out of shape over an erotic term should kinda be at the bottom of the list of worries or woes. I’m turned off when guys that are into S&M refer to me as sir and I definitely don’t want to call anyone my master…but I would, if it really turned my husband on, solely to bring him that pleasure. If someone refers to me as sir and it does rub me the wrong way, I simply let them know I’m not fond of being called that and then proceed to kiss them or eat their ass or pound his manpussy/boypussy/etc…whatever word referring to his ass would turn him on the most.
I feel such a discussion on how a man might enjoy referring to his anus as a pussy, since I feel he’d enjoy having it fucked as though it’s the girl’s pussy in the straight porn he probably watches from time to time…where those straight guys lay it down pretty damn well sometimes. But I feel such a discussion as this is more rooted in the issue of deep conditioning of gender roles in American society. It’s almost comparable to this bisexual guy once telling me that he’d have sex with guys but couldn’t see himself cooking dinner for another guy or showing displays of affection to another guy ’cause that’s what women or girlfriends are supposed to do…and he’s not a girl of course. Yes, a female has a pussy…that gets fucked by a cock. Why would it be degrading or demeaning for a guy to refer to his ass, which he wants to have fucked by a cock, a pussy? Lord know we shouldn’t take it a step further and bring up bareback sex and the terms “breeding”,”seeding”, or when guys ask to get “impregnated”.
I hate the term also, but rarely hear it
Its’ a MANHOLE
It turns me on hard as a rock
Yes MANHOLE
I agree with lonnie there on this one. I’m not ashamed to be called man-pussy, as long as there is a nice big cock to go with that comment. I call it my ass though as in “fuck my ass” have been known to yell that haha!
To each his own!
However, I have never been a fan of ‘playing with the feminine pronouns.’ I’m a guy, and when other guys hit me up with “Hey, girlfriend” it leaves me bummed. I love WOMEN for the feminine, and guys for the MASCULINE. I’m cool with others enjoying whatever they like; as for me, happy who I am, a masculine secure male — oorah!
Exactly the kind of post the gay world doesn’t need. “I don’t like it so it’s wrong”. Why make the people who enjoy a thing feel bad by claiming “most gay men don’t like that”. How do you feel when people trot out “most people are straight”? How about we discuss something that is inclusive instead of exclusive. And stop making each other feel like something is wrong with us for what we like. We have the rest of the world for that let’s love each other instead.
what I cannot believe is that this is even worthy of a conversation. it’s A WORD. that’s all, it can’t hurt you. geesh
I’m bi, and honestly I wouldn’t mind a guy saying fuck his man-pussy, boi-pussy or something like that.
be honest.
most of you who decry The Feminization of The Male Arse only complain when it’s done by a guy you’re not that into, in the first place.
for, as always, it is important to make the distinction that “annoying” is “annoying,” irrespective of whatever the irritant is.
barring one’s being nettlesome, i’d bet All that if, for instance, the guy you think is the hottest in the world lets one or two “fuck my hot cunt”s slip from out of his mouth, you’d almost certainly continue pounding Him.
goddamn, some of you people are frighteningly inarticulate.
So you don’t mind being “…fucked like a slut…”, as written in your previous “The College Roommate Revisited” story, but take great offense to any reference of your anus as a “man-pussy” … while you’re getting pounded like a slut … Curious indeed!
I don’t have a problem with a guy calling my hole a pussy.When they slide in me and do their business, they get a kick out of calling it that.I don’t find it insulting or strange in the slightest. People need to stop being so anal retentive,and lighten up. It is what it is!
As a guy who likes both I can say a man’s hole is definitely NOT a PUSSY! Its sounds funny coming from gay men as saying “Let me feel your man tits!” when you want to feel a guy with hot pecs. I like men.. well manly so I won’t compare them to girls it just sounds silly.
A guy can call it anything he wants if it means he’s turned on, either as a top or bottom. I’m much more concerned about how the guy fucks(or gets fucked) than the terms he is using.
funny… i know TONS of guys who love calling it a pussy. Its always used by submissive bottoms. I’ve heard flaming gay bottoms call their hole a pussy. Quite a few butch “str8” trucker lookin dudes also love it when you call their hole a pussy. I guess the people who “should” be offended are women. The misogyny that gay guys hurl at women is just insane. Bodies are fucking nasty, wet, smelly, things! But gay men are always talking about how gross womens pussies are?? I’ve eaten and fucked pussy. FTMs pussy, Womens pussy, Mens pussy. I love all pussy! If the person is hot,wrap that tight pussy around my Big Thick Black 8 inch cock baby!
I could not agree with you more! Instant boner killer if a guy uses that term with me. Its an ass. We’re gay and we eat and fuck ass. Simple as that.
“Pussy” is derogatory, demeaning, and vulgar language referring to female sexual anatomy. Beyond that the term “man-pussy” co-mingles gender identity issues. Some men go to great lengths to act out their belief that being fucked is a female act/role. For me, the man who likes to get fucked is just that–a MAN who likes to be fucked. Being fucked or cross dressing doesn’t make him more of a female. Besides being crude, demeaning, and vulgar speech, the term represents (to me) an offensive and impossible mixing together of gender issues.
Well it definitely is a mans ass and not a pussy, but I can accept mangina like in the movie. An ass is and ass or anus. To each their own view on it.
This is a great blog topic! I absolutely hate any reference to women when being with a man period. Body parts, names or pronouns! (Ex: referring to a guy with the terms she or her.) I’m having sex with a dude because I love dudes. He’s not a substitute for a woman he is a replacement! I don’t want to limit verbal freedom during the act but that really turns me off. I can easily get a woman but I don’t want one. Stuff like that is born out of a lack of self respect and low self-esteem. Guys who are “Tops” and “in-charge” are just another flavor of that. They have to make themselves feel better about being gay by emasculating their partner. Real men stand on their own they don’t need to hide behind the truth or need name-calling.
I would think that in the new millennium we would be a little more open minded about these stupid details. Most fem guys and total tops into fem guys enjoy calling it a man/boi pussy. I personally hate the word ass, I prefer butt, because it feels a little more forbidden and playful. We are community of different types of guys, not all of us are passable as straight, and we like it that way. Don’t make us feel less than just because you don’t agree.
As someone mentioned above, it’s a popular term used by married/bi men. Works for me; especially when the guy is the stereotypical hyper-guy (I dislike the trite term “masculine” since most [gay] men don’t have a clue as to what it means.)
I like hard/deep fucking a man who has 3 kids, bearded, deep voice, etc. as he screams “Fuck my pussy” – a complete turn-on. Even better when he shows up wearing his wife’s panties or thong under his jeans and wants to be my “bitch.” 🙂
I like the contrast as opposed to a twink (or any guy) with a shaved crotch area. Belch! Talk about losing a hard-on… Same thing with cock rings: double belch!!
It’s just a slang term for the vaginal area of women which was created by some nelly overly feminant homosexual male (which gives all of us who have tried to overcome that stereotype, a bad name) that was trying to be funny, and it stuck for some reason. It tries to equate the rectal sphincter with the vagina in sexual activity, but it’s freakin’ not the same thing! Please don’t compare that nasty yeast producing fishy smelling female body part to our superior bootays!
I can’t really hang with ‘man pussy’ or ‘boy pussy’ or ‘mangina.” It just sounds stupid.
However, if I were engaged in loud growling wild pig sex I could probably hang with “man cunt” depending on how visceral it is at the moment. Yes, that deep dark abyss where the USS Enterprise is plunging into. That’s either giving or receiving. Don’t like it? Go home. Whatever.
I love to eat and fuck wet man-pussy. I like to tear the bitch’s cunt up. Calling it a pussy really bones me up dudes…
man pussy? hey if he had a pussy he fooled you that was an ugly girl the one you fucked…
Ugly turn off IMO. Not the same and personally I have heard many egotistical straight men or bi come on site and use the term and also if you have a pussy as in female to fuck then why to you want to fuck a man ?? Seems like you would be looking for something else. Sorry…ugly reference that goes with often ugly people inside. However, gay men have allowed stereotypes to ruin much to the playing field as many act desperate to take any comment they get, positive or negative just to have an encounter. Sick of gay men acting either pompous or desperate. I have many straight friends that have said this to me and I really can’t argue their point. Get a life men and start acting it.
And pierce.mn1 may I suggest you use creative ways instead of having to use blunt descriptions of a man’s anatomy. You get paid to write. It does not make a story any more erotic what-so-ever. In fact it sounds cheesy and fits the stereotype expected. I suggest you think about it and become a pioneer in the field by starting something more positive for the gay male. Sorry…I don’t but those excuses.
Yeah it sounds gross. It’s not attractive, why do people do it? I’m gay, the last thing I want to think about while having sex is a pussy.
I LOVE having my hole called a pussy. I guess its just my fem side coming out but nothing turns me on more than having a man tell me he is going to shoot inside my pussy and knock me up
I was not in favor of the term as a bisexual guy here. I love pussy, I love man ass. Thought the term pussy and cunt were derogatory when used to describe a man’s ass. I started in the bi game late in life, and always looked for masculine guys, always spoke with respect to my potential bottom guys as I enjoy friendship as well as a fun romp. My eyes were opened a few years ago when I met an alpha male type who wanted me to refer to his ass as cunt and pussy. Since then I have realized that many men desire a top to subjugate them with those terms. Wow.
Ick!
The term “man pussy” irks me. It’s a complete contradiction. Obviously, men don’t have them and gay men don’t want them. “Man hole” is a bit more acceptable to me because, well, we have that. Speaking of annoying terms, who the hell said it was OK to refer to the gay community as “QUEER”? That term is more offensive to me than “man pussy”! I suggest the term “CURVED” to refer to anyone who is outside of the totally straight box! And it’s easier to remember and write than, “LGBTQ…RSTUVWXYZ” (or whatever it happens to be now). The “CURVED COMMUNITY”! Pass it on!!!
And can we have a blog about it???
When i hear a guy say fuck my pussy im already going limp and pulling up my pants. When a guy messages me wanting to fuck my man pussy hes immediately blocked no matter how hot he is.
man pussy. Nasty. Nope don’t use it.
I’m a fem total sub bottom and I have a pussy and thats how I like it used.
No matter what you call it, an Ass is an Ass, you fuck it , you eat it , lick it, worship it, breed it, most time guys never come back anyway, that’s how bottoms are , it getting more and more rear if guys are willing to just be fuck buddies , plus the fact most guys really don’t know how to talk to each other, cause if that’s dirty talk, I would tell him “keep sucking” & just be quiet.
Lol I find this so stupid ! I’ve seen some worn out loose holes that look like pussy I see why the bi str8 men call it that and theirs no way a gay man can be a woman or have a pussy so I find it petty to pay so much attention to something so stupid get over it lol
For some strange reason, it turns me on when a guy says that while I’m f****** him. I said to them myself sometimes. I got hard about it just reading this blog lol.
Thx to errybody dat commented yall jus totally turned me off from fucking men. Yall actin lik females now so why not call it a pussy.. yu get turned off by a mention of pussy but yu gettin fucked or penetrated jus lik a bitch.. smmfh..
I am SO GLAD to see this as a topic! I have often included my disdain for this term in my profiles online. I love a MAN’S BUTT! PERIOD!
If I wanted “otherwise”, I’d be with a female!
It’s a turnoff to me, as I consider myself to be masculine. I guess it would be okay if I acted and dressed like a woman. I’ve heard it called a manhole as well, so that’s not so bad.
Come on men it’s just terms! Ie words ie semantics ( no pun intended) from the sound of most these posts who is ready for Buck Angel aka The Man With A Pussy? Google or Bing him/her makes ya ponder masculinity/feminity and gender identity issues… Now what some calls a hole is purely their business as a partner if that turns you off perhaps you might had a discussion and gotten to know them better instead rushing to sex and being disappointed by your own shallow ways!
This is a great post! First thing, even women don’t have pusssies, they have vaginas. So using the word pussy with a woman is already slang. Second, as a top, I don’t want to think about a man’s hole as an asshole, that term is generally reserved for someone who’s a jerk. And a butt hole is something you take a dump out of (again, not sexy).
When an experienced bottom guy has taken the time to douche and shower and throughly clean himself for sex, the butthole has been transformed to a Kunt (yes with a K). I can now feel confident in licking it, fingering it and fucking it & cumming inside of it.
It seems like a lot of the comments here are very anti-female, almost fearful. Yes, we’re gay, that’s why we don’t have sex with women, but don’t get caught up in the naming conventions (especially if the bottom guy is using the term on himself).
It is my ass hole not a man pussy. I prefer to be made love to and not interested in being pounded like a slice of meat
I just Love a good “Piece of Ass!” Fuck that word, “Pussy!”
all I got to say is who the freak thinks up this shit
I find the term boy pussy, or man pussy horrible. I mostly find this from guys who call themselves “Bi”, & the occasional fem gay guy (you know, the guy that uses girl to call all men). There was one time I was chatting with someone on Growlr who wanted to meet me, & fuck me. He even went so far as to ask if my man pussy was pussy pink. I told him how offended I was at that comment. He went so far as saying that you must enjoy having that pussy of yours fucked really hard. I told him that you must prefer women & real pussy, that you have no desire to understand gay culture, & expect us to follow your fantasy that we’re all feminine acting guys. I even went so far as to accuse him of liking cross-dressers too. He actually admitted he likes cross-dressers. Before I blocked him, I went on to say that I’m not a clown & I don’t do clown fuckers either (drag queens call men who like cross dressers clown fuckers, but most drag queens don’t dress as the opposite gender outside of entertainment purposes, meaning they dress up for the public to imitate an illusion of a celebrity, or an ideal woman, usually lip-sync to songs, & after the show, it comes off). I did not care what that guy said after that.
Not everyone agrees with you. I don’t mind that term at all. It means man’s butthole, what else it could be? If you are a bottom, you will understand how hot that sound.
Sorry to disappoint you. I really like that term.
I like the term, especially boy pussy (or boi pussy). Idk, theres something hot about referring to sexy twinks boy hole as his boy pussy. I like.
It also bothers me to hear “man pussy”. We know what it is so….. It’s like when some ignorant asshole asks “who’s the girl in the relationship?” Damn I hate that.
My x and I were in our room at a low key bathhouse once. It was quiet n dark n low music playing…all of sudden next door we heard guys fucking..they were getting louder n louder which was hot…then one says FUCK MY MAN PUSSY….FUCK MY MAN PUSSY….FUCK THAT PUSSY….we both started laughing out loud n the guys stopped fucking n we heard one guy leave the room lol.
Honestly..if u want to be a girl..get a s3x change….we are men n we have assholes…….the team man PUSSY is annoying n it makes me cringe when I hear it….
Wish more guys were more manly instead…we all have fem traits but COME ON!
As a total bttm cum slut, I love when a guy refers to my hole as a pussy. It gets me wet knowing that he needs to breed me, impregnate me, knock me up with his cumbabies.
if i will need pussy then i will get a girl/woman. but when i am with a man then i will love to have his ass/hole. so i mean is v are here for men then call ass otherwise go for woman for pussy play.
You can call it/me whatever you want, as long as you use me hard 😉
I don’t call it pussy myself but kinda get a lil kick out of it when a guy calls it that
Not sure why lol
Sounds like a lot of folks are butthurt over getting their (choose one or more: manpussy/boycunt/cumslut fuckholes) objectified. It’s just a word. I definitely enjoy owning a hot boycunt and marking it with my DNA after giving him an intense pounding.
That said, it’s usually not the first thing out of my mouth while I’m deep inside a hot bottom boy’s cock holster; I’ll refer to a good hole by other creative nouns: cumhole… spooge dump… thirsty fuck-slot… spunk hole…
And unless you (as a top) have a good sense of the guy (as a bottom you’re planning to fuck) I’d probably not venture into the feminizing nouns until I am fairly certain he’d be receptive to it.
If it’s a pussy, take a piss from it or squeeze a baby out, lol.
It’s demeaning and it’s meant to be. It’s a way for overbearing guys to diminish their partner. But hey, a small subset of our people are into that…it’s code so that aggressive people with low self esteem can find submissive people with even less.
I fuck a straight guy from time to time and he calls it a pussy, man pussy, etc. But it’s good,hot sex so I don’t really care. The word turns him on and makes him get into it more so if he wants me to fuck his pussy I’m going to fuck his pussy. He’s masculine military and hot. I’m secure enough to know my ass and his ass are not pussies. It’s just a word.
It doesn’t matter what the top wants to call it. I refer to my hole as “my hole” but if the guy slanging his dick wants to call it a pussy, twat, etc. I don’t care. I’m getting the dick!
An interesting, fascinating discussion , full of ideas, an absolute beliefs. Only recent years, did I find guys in South Dakota, begin to use the word ” Man Pussy”. The most recent in the last month he was a bit anxious, and impulsive, we texted a lot prior to the hook up. To my surprise, he was a self natural luber, At one point fingering that butt hole of his I could have sworn, I felt a gush of fluid spit on my fingers as I was fingering that hole of his, ya as the session went on, he made mention to his ” Man Pussy, or Pussy”. In some ways he seemed rather fem, using words like ” Baby”. Hence his dysfunctional life, he creates, he has gone silent, as far as I’m concerned he’s a mixed up kid. I am old enuff to be his daddy, he referred to having a g/f. The other one in the past year referring to his butt hole as his ” pussy”, he came over in fem, clothes, I fucked him, he came with no self stim on his dick. The second time earlier this yr. he was less femmed out, only some odd looking underwear, I guess a thong, at any rate, his ass opened up, big time, some spit on his hole, fingering of that hole, yep fucked him big time. Taking a break, I started kissing on him, it seemed natural for the moment, I’m a big reader on body language, and his response at the moment, he then said, I think I’m gonna cum…I’m like ya right, and within a few mins more of me kissing erotically on his face and neck, he came ….no self stim on his dick, what so ever, can you imagine the sensations this guy was having internally to have produced an orgasm with no physical stim on his dick. We lay there afterwards, I asked if he had been insested, upon early in life. He did indicate such, he didn’t elaborate, nor did I pry, however I suspect he was feminized. He was very much masculine, in all aspects, I figured he’d be back for more by now, as I am pretty sure, having an external orgasm from just being passionately kissed is pretty rare. I had another one in my time, who referred to his butt hole, as ” Man Pussy”, and OMG, a self luber….I mean it was thick, moist very, very wet the more you fingered and fisted that hole of his. It was really hot, that hole of his opened up….Ya I fucked him, I enjoyed the natural, fluid, vs. any sort of lubricant, lotion etc. no need to stop and apply more, yep he called that area down there his ” Man Pussy”. I fucked him off and on for a few yrs. the sad thing…yep, it was sad….he was drinking on every occassion, at the beginning just i could tell he had been drinking, though time went on, he’d be intoxicated, and turned my hard on to a hard off….the poor alcoholic man was a turn off to my hard dick. That been my experiences with the terms. However as I read the postings, I see a word that resembles what straight people, have when they so called ” mate” to produce an off spring. That is ” Breed”, yep it’s like an animal, It seems common word in the gay community, breed my ass….as in cum in my ass….well men can’t reproduce…again I equate it back to hetrosexual intercoarse and reproducing. At any rate long story short if I wanted children, I would have continued fucking ” PUSSY”. So all the language, Pussy, Breeding and so forth, ya puts me sorta uneasy, just like the word Daddy, Baby and so forth. I want to fuck an equal, a peer, I crave the sensations on my dick, that you can look at a man, and once in bed, he can be tenderly masculine, giving as well as receiving. The interesting part, as ” bottoms” most haven’t a clue, the sensations, they seek, is that ” prostate” being stimulated in there ass hole, yes this makes us different in another way from women..is our prostate, only in recent times, as I finger a mans butt hole do I go probing around for such an organ, and bi-god, I think I find it, one of my semi fucks that I have been fucking, did he allow such butt play, and well guess what he continued to allow…and a young 21 for his b-day fuck, he allowed such exploration on his butt hole, his body language said it all. I fucked a guy on a regular basis of 6 yrs. we did the son and daddy senario…yep in the last couple I’d finger that hole and find that spot! That ” Boy” has gone a-wall, havent heard from him in months. So to surmise, all this, it is just words, though it has concepts that resemble hetrosexual, intercoarse, and it can be a turn off..I tend to stray from the ” fem-bois” , if I my body responded to fem, I suppose I would have continued with that journey, though my body responses, just went else wheres, some of us gay men, know the transistion period of growth all to well… the experimenation,phase, the omg I don’t know phase, the coming out phase, the disclosing phase, all in the end, growing in our god given tendency to respond to having intercoarse with men. WEll thats a perspective from a South Dakota Man….
1)Im 48 and was with a hot 28yo gay guy for some safe play, frot, JO, verbal, etc. He used the term man-pussy and boycunt. Typically not something I would initiate, but it was fun that day. With someone else in a different situation, probably not so much fun.
2) You guys who get so judgmental on these comments boards make me laugh. Its sex, roleplay, whatever you want to call it. If you don’t like it , don’t do it. Let your partner know you don’t like it. All good. But to judge and preach and get so damn whiny and bitchy my God,…all this from the same group who advocate for tolerance and say don’t judge me because I’m gay. WTF
I enjoy the term when its pertaining to my Ass BOYHOLE
Anyone will like to eat my ass NYC area I’m on Adam
For the record, dear author, you are indeed an example of a being, human. You’re fine entree into the blogosphere is just example of your ability to, at least, utilize a human experience by re-telling your human experience, by which you thoroughly enjoy a human experience. In that handling, your disdain of a man being laid out as if that, more-or-less 1way sphincterhole being pulverized soundly (as if it were a more 2way vagina) by a manrod of storied exchange is evidence of your likeness to a human moment, at least. So, use the human trait of “free will” and flex it into the episode in the moment, real-time; I’m sure your narrator would assuage your preference.
I once got called a stuck up bitch because i told a guy i wasn’t interested in hooking up with him anymore because he called mu ass my boy-pussy
Kev and 8×6 I AGREE with you guys.
I get it, we like what we like, which is different from person to person, but DAMN…some of you guys, (A LOT OF YOU), need to chill the fuck out. Quit being so damn cerebral and focus on the act of fucking.
It’s one thing to not like the term “pussy.” But to fake orgasms and throw a hissy and all that drama, DAMN…stay the FUCK away from me. I don’t refer to my ass ever as a pussy. Never have. But if a top calls it that, fine by me. Just stick that thick hard dick inside till be bust 2 or 3 times.
And while I’m getting the dick I advise a lot of you get some counseling. Cuzz your issues with “pussy” is nuts. For real.
I dislike the term and I have not gone with guys agin who use it
Those of you who use it and you like the term I dint
My a4a profile is here tell me if you will use that word on it
I agree. the man-pussy/boi pussy thing is pretty lame. Don’t get me wrong, you can call it whatever you want & I can consider it lame…I love freedom…bring it on ISIS! The pussy thing seems to be related to the sissy thing I have witnessed on tumblr…not my thing. I love cock, but I don’t need to consider myself a sissy to do so. I want to get fucked in the ass!
A hole by any other name ….
i wish a lot of you “man pussy” bashers could spend even half this much energy on shit that actually means something.
i will admit one thing though: i can thank the Information Überhighway for its perpetual ability to bring from out of the woodwork, and into the Limelight, all sorts of opinions and people which, otherwise, would never be known of
That term is a meager turnoff for me. If I wanted pussy I would be straight.
I prefer man c*nt
I like the word man pussy or boy pussy and especially if the bottom is masculine and calling it his pussy. When I fuck a bottom, to me hew is my woman and I perfer not to fuck fem bottoms. If a bottom calls is his azz his hole, now, that will make my dick go limp in a quick second. I love those submissive masculine brothers that can be your pussy behind close doors
well guys I love calling it pussy, so therefore being a top, you can send all the masculine man pussy to me
Being a total bottom and submissive I go with what the man wants, Some like me in panties and call my ass pussy and some prefer me in men’s underwear and call it ass. Either way I am fine with it as long as I am getting banged.