Speak Out : I Have A Small Penis!
Hi guys, I received this message from a member who would like to get your opinion about small penises so I am just posting the entire message he sent me, let’s discuss about it and comment below!
“Allo Dave, I am aware of an interesting situation right now and wondered if you could bring it towards group discussion. Can we discuss the topic of men with small penises, how it affects their social / dating life / sense of self / sense of manhood? Can we discuss with the group if they would or would not have a man with a small penis as a sex partner / life partner. How do men who are average to above feel about men with smaller penises? Do you reject such men? Can we hear from men with smaller penises about how they cope with any perceived or self perceived pressure about the small size of their penis? How are they treated by other men?
Thank you Dave “
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Two of my buds are small, under 5″. One is thick, the other thin. They are great when it comes to sex. Considerate, clean, reciprocal, attentive, fun.
I’d be a fool to not be willing to play with them and have them in my life now for a couple/few years.
Fully vers guy here with 7 inch penis. I’m a fan of a smaller than average penis. The guys with them tend to work harder to please their bottom. Not to mention they cocks are easier to suck and tease.
I would definitely date and have a relationship with a man with a small penis. That isn’t the only aspect of a man. And size doesn’t matter if you know how to use it 🙂
For me it sucks totally ruined my self esteem.At 30 i am barely comfortable undressing in front of people. As far as dating if its not at least 8 inches were gonna be in a open relationship or i might cheat. You have to be sexually satisfied.
im a 30 year man i live in Cleveland ohio im Orgenaly from Iraq and have small penis some time I be so impressed a lot of gay guys looking for some one hung and im not I think its not abut the size of your penis the important think is have a good time and don’t care abut the size
Im speaking for myself. I like oral sex and size does matter .Last night this great guy came over to suck my dick ,but mostly to rim my ass. It was great at it; but as I positioned my anus on his face and leaned forward on to him what was before me was so unsuckable. It was thin and short .For a minute because of the form I check to see he was hermaphodite ,Im not kidding . I have faced other situations of small cocks in over 40+ years of oralsex . It is not just about the length but the girth .It is the way my mouth forms around a cock and sucking on a straw does not turn me on. If I were to be sorry for them ,then you should be sorry for me because im not 6’2″ blond blue and muscular. I had a 6 years relationship with a guy who cock was 1/2 the size of mine .It was not why the relationship ended but I also did not like sucking his baby dick.
Years ago I dated a guy with a small 3″ penis. I fell in love with it and now seek it. I love smaller. I can orally please him much better. If my life partner was small and also uncut, I’d be a happy camper! Don’t be shy. I’m NOT the only man in the world who likes small penis’. Thanks
tiny little uncut dick here
6’4″, 240 lbs, 44 yrs old, barely 4″ thin uncut with tiny balls
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I am a man with a small softie, yet when I’m hard it’s a decent fistful; I’m also a bottom. Sometimes the size of my dick detours men away from meeting with me and sometimes I feel “shamed” for having a short member. Yet, I always wonder, what’s the use of a bottom having a big dick if they aren’t using it? That being said, I prefer my top with with thickness over length.
I must say I like and welcome a guy with small penis to contact me not only is it nice to get fucked without alot of pain but I love swallowing the whole thing and tonguing the balls mmm horny just thinking about it
The hottest ass in my city is a guy with a small cock. If someone is so shallow as to put focus only on size, move on.
I’m 6’4″ and have a 5″ penis and small sac. Thankfully I made up for it with a bubblebutt and have no complaints as I’ve been a bottom since high school. Not a bottom because I have a small penis but to be honest all the tops I’ve ever had thought it was pretty hot for a tall guy to be not so big down there. It is what you want it to be.
I love small dicks on black men…I absolutely love them! I am a black man with a 2.3 inches soft, 5.5 inches hard cut dick. Please, feel free to connect with me.
5 in the hand!
i love penis of all sizes its how you work it
I have a small penis, about 4.5, God didn’t bless me, so i basically choose to be a bottom. I love bigger cocks myself,and know how to handle them. I myself would not be satisfied with someone with a penis my size. I know some men that do prefer a penis my size though. But for the most part i get rejected! So just hav to buck it up and move on!!
As a man with a small penis, it only reaffirms for me that I truly am a bottom. I enjoy letting a hung man feel superior with me. I enjoy being with an alpha man and everything that comes with it.
Here is what I have been able to discover about dick size with SCIENTIFIC study (not self measurement):
72% of all men are 6” or under
77% – 88% of all men are 6.5” or under
84% of all men are between 5″ and 6.5″
12-16% of men are above 6.5”
ONLY ABOUT 3.5%-7% OF ALL MEN ARE ABOVE 7”
I am the proud owner of an AVERAGE 5.5″ dick. I battled most of my life with a poor self image because I had a ‘small’ penis. In fact, it is quite average and I have come to terms with that.
We have been brainwashed by the porn industry and the media (including this blog, btw) to believe that anything less than 7 or 8″ is small. Nothing is farther from the truth.
If one were to believe the claims on A4A, one would conclude that a) gay/bi men are off the charts on dick size, or b) guys can’t measure and/or greatly exaggerate their size.
Sex can be just as good (or bad) with a guy who has an average penis as it can with a guy who has a big one (in fact, better in my opinion) A big one doesn’t fit in my mouth or in my ass.
I kind of feel sorry for those guys with big ones, really. They seem like they would be in the way all the time, and would scare off men or women when it comes to sex. I’ve seen ads on CL when men complain that their partners don’t like their big ones.
So, let’s get over size envy and get on with the fun! Size queens need not apply!
Good morning ,
I would lke to say that, I don’t have any issues with small penis’s. For I find in the area that I am in its sort of taboo that no one seems to want to be with any one with a small penis in my opinion. Sure you may not be able to get the sensation or satisfaction with a larger size. But there are other ways to please a person other than anal sex.
The guy with the small dick is presumed to be the bottom is what I have experienced. Also bottom guys tend to want a bigger cock if they are going to get fucked,they want to know that they have been fucked. For males and females alike sizes does matter. Too small does not get the job done and too big is well….. can it be too big? lol
I know this is a tough subject for some. My penis is very small when I am not erect. It has been embarrassing for much of my younger life. In addition, I have a hypospadias. Which is where the opening of the urethra didn’t make it to the head of my penis as it usually does. I have had several surgeries when I was younger to correct it, but it still doesn’t look “normal”.
I have experienced a lot of pain over these issues in my life. I wish I had always been the type to say “fuck it”, this is who I am and if you don’t like it too bad. But I have not always been that way. I am much more at ease with my body now than I have ever been. It was a difficult road though.
The fact that I wasn’t at least average size bothered me a lot. None of us wants to really be so different than others. And in the gay world, the penis is everything. With the internet, they are millions of images of naked guys that remind those of us with small penises, just how small they are.
I have even had surgery to supposedly lengthen my penis, which really didn’t do much good. I am sure there is someone out there who has gone to more effort in dealing with this than I have, but I doubt it lol. I have tried it all.
I finally got to a place in my life where I am mostly ok with my penis being small. It is a body part like any other. There are things I find attractive and unattractive on others, so I can’t hold against them that a small penis is a turn off. There are things that turn me off also.
Even with my small penis, I am very sexually active. I even like to be an exhibitionist at times. One thing that really works for me is, I primarily like to be a top. I have no issues with getting an erection at 40 years old now. But when I know I am going to have sex, I take half of a Cialis. Most bottoms are so impressed with how rock hard I am, that the size isn’t an issue. (5 inches at best hard).
Saying all this, we all have to come to terms with things that are not going to change. Focus on the things you can change. Work out more, be more outgoing, make sure you look your best all the time and it will make you feel better about yourself. People find that attractive. As far a finding a life partner and how this would affect him? Size does not matter to me. I can’t imagine having real feelings for someone and letting that prevent me from enjoying the love that I have for him.
Lastly, when you do get rejected because of your small penis, try to get past it quickly and move on. Living within a problem robs you of happiness.
A good question to ask is:
Does penis size make the man who he is, or does
the man decide who he is?
I have a small penis and the fact that I am below average has had an effect on my self esteem. However, I have found that most men truly aren’t about dick size in the sack. I am a bear, not an obese bear, more a hairy large guy. Most men young and old find me handsome and it seems that is more a connection than my penis size. And let me make this clear,just because I’m below average doesn’t mean I cannot satisfy a bottom.I might just be hitting that sweet spot better than those bigger men.
HUGE cock here!!!
I know this struggle. My penis is average maybe a little shy of that according to recent statistics. One thing that annoys me more than anything is when someone puts in their profile that they’re looking for a “hung” man. First, what defines hung? Second, is your asshole so relaxed that only a hung man can satisfy you anymore? Finally, when you ask a guy about size don’t ask the question How Hung? Cause you look like a desperate size queen.
A more satisfying question would simply be what size are you?
In all my years both topping and bottoming I’ve never had a need to have a “hung” man inside me nor have any of my sexual partners been dissatisfied with my performance.
I guess it can come down to personal preference and unfortunately I think a lot of men turn guys down who would give them as awesome lay if they would stop believing that 8+” needed to be shoved into there “tight” holes.
I don’t care what size it is too large is too much for me I just want to know your enjoying whats going on between us small large just know how to use it and enjoy it!
Very interesting topic. I’m about 5.5 uncut and I been rejected by many guys telling no thanks but is too small. It sucks because I find those guys to be very hot. Disappointing but at the same time threes nothing I can do about I have to deal with what mother nature gave me :-/. I just think if you are size queen at least be nice about saying no to someone with a small penis.
I have a small cock (4.5 – 5″) and have many times been rejected or dismissed primarily because of its size. A majority of guys out there are only looking for “hung” guys. Which shrinks the pool for me. I am a nice looking, friendly, and un-pretentious guy, and have been pursued by some really hot guys, only to be “shoo-ed away” (with the back of the hand) once my pants came off. What did they expect? I am a shorter Asian guy. We don’t normally pack 8″ on a 5’5″ body. And don’t get me started on the “no Asians” thing. Yes, I actually got the “oh, you’re so small”. Very hard on the ego, and a definite buzz kill. There is a lot of pressure about penis size, and it inevitably comes up when you are answering an ad. On the up side, however, I have had many guys tell me that my cock is the perfect size for sucking. Bonus for me! No gagging or having to unhinge that lower jaw. I myself, have discriminated against guys with big cocks. If you can’t get the whole thing in your mouth, then it’s just a waste of cock. 5-6″ is perfect. If having a small cock has taught me anything – it’s how to weed out the assholes, develop a thick skin, and appreciate the guys who see past your shortcomings.
A guy has what he has to work with. I can’t fit my cock everywhere I want to. I don’t even think about fucking until I’m on the second or third date with a guy. Smaller guys seem to cum a LOT and multiple times and can bejust as good in bed as an other guy. I have had absolutely wonderful times with guys under4″, fucking also. Bring em on!
Hi, I have a small penis and have had a life time of self esteem issues regarding it. I realize I have no control what I was born with, but it sucks in many ways. It is harder to pee, no real bulge, embarassing in a gym shower, and more difficult to have sex with regarding anal intercourse. Society puts an emphasis on average to larger penises, i.e. women and men like the feeling better, they are visually stimulating, can deep throat and gag on them (if you are into that), feels good to play with etc. I hate having a small penis. Now on the other hand, it is easier to suck and deep throat, and many guys dont really care a whole lot, at least the ones that I have met. I have been very surprised by this also, I thought for sure that I would never be having sex with men because no one would want to be with me due to my small dick, I have been wrong thus far. So, I have what I have and can’t change it so I embrace my unique situation and offer myself to any good men that can appreciate me for who I am.
i have what i would call a small penis , and i have been with men smaller than me. i’m a bottom so the length and girth of my penis really does not come into play , i personally like average sized men 6-7 inch, thats a nice enjoyable size . i think that girth is way more important than length.when it comes to sucking cock which i also enjoy i prefer a cock that i can take the whole way in and not be gagged. if a guy with a short cock works it right it can be as enjoyable and sometimes better than a guy who’s hung …..just my opinion
Its not a deal breaker, but sucking a small dick or big dick isn’t much of a difference for me, but I very much prefer a bigger one when I’m bottom
I love smaller to very small penises. I am “average” size myself, and would prefer average to smaller organs, more than I would ever want a guy with a huge one.
I actually do have a small penis(5 1/2 inches) and it is difficult to find partners because every one seems to want that monster penis along with the tight body guy. my social life is not up to par like i would like it to be. It is frustrating because i get rejected a lot. Dating is almost non existent for me to.
Flacid (rest) and erect is what nature handed out. About 95 – 98% of the guys have to stretch their dicks when they wake up because it is in a “sleep” state and has become very small. Just take a look at the pornos on the net. The guys are pulling on their dicks for the same reason.
Personally I don’t care. Maybe because I’m a Top and I prefer an ass. Nah, actually I don’t judge or look for these things. If he’s a nice guy that is what is important to me. Granted there must always be that chemistry. For me it’s the face. But balls, dick, ass, a few extra pounds, who cares. I guess some don’t know what it’s like to get older or sick. There is a confusion between love and being “in love”.
There I’m off my soap box.
Best fucking I ever received was from a man with a small, 4 inch, penis. I still get hard thinking about how he had my legs way up over my head and was just pounding away at my tight ass. So much more fun than being painfully stretched out by a big cock. I also sucked a married guy once with an even smaller one, 3 inches and a nut sac like a walnut. I put the whole package in my mouth and sucked like a vacuum cleaner on it and he came within a minute. He said his wife never gave him pleasure like that as she said it was too small.
Hi guys. I have a small penis and I have not only come to terms with it, but have no shame in telling people that it is the way it is. I’m only 4″ fully erect and when flaccid you can’t even see the shaft. I normally keep the pubes short as it makes it seem a little bigger but it’s not because I’m ashamed of the size. It’s because it photographs better when I’m sending nudes. I’m vers so I’ve been able to experience the satisfaction of both using my tiny penis to top and having a guy penetrate me while he plays with mine. I’ve never had a complaint about my size. I’ve experienced bottoming for a guy that was 12″ and I can honestly say that he didn’t even know how to use it. He can get guys in the sack because of the size but when it comes down to it, he just shoved it in and made it hurt. Sex is much better for me when the size is anywhere from 4″-7″.
Well, I’m a black guy with a, ‘below-average’ sized penis, for a black guy! I haven’t ever measured it but compared to my four older brothers I have a penis and they got dicks!
I spent a fair amount of time during my late teens and mid twenties in therapy and one subject that came up often was the size of my penis. It wasn’t that it bothered me it was just that I didn’t know how to live with it.
Most guys I met were generous enough to tell me that it wasn’t so small and that the size didn’t matter so during those years I didn’t ever encounter any rudeness or I didn’t have to feel ashamed or compromised because of it.
One thing I used to do is show it to my friends mainly because they didn’t believe me when I told them it was small. They would look, laugh, and then tell me, ‘at least it’s pretty!’
Well, everything was okay until I moved to Europe in my mid-twenties. When I first arrived of course I was still a horny little bastard wanting to get laid because in America the guys had enough game to talk me out of my panties and they made the sex worthwhile and in some cases unforgettable!
The guys here have told me such things as, ‘I thought all black guys have big cocks!’ I’m like now you know that they don’t. And this didn’t just happen once! It had gotten so bad that I just stopped having sex and I stopped trusting guys.
I don’t know if it’s the music or the continent but American guys can fuck a whole lot better than the guys here. There is no passion with the guys here. They just seem to be all blank and washed out inside. The guys in America have something special about them that compels one to want them. Here, it’s like, ‘if we have to.’
It starts with getting undressed, ‘you can put your clothes – on that chair. No candles, no music, no stimulating and arousing small talk, no body movements that make you want him now!
It’s like, let’s start kissing here…shoving his toungue in your mouth until you have to tell him, stop I don’t like that. Let’s now go to the bedroom, you get in that side and I will get on this side…BORING!
It’s been over ten years now, almost 15 years. So what I do now is try and have sex with only American guys when they are visiting Europe. But the problem with that is most of them want to have sex with the natives. So what I do now is get in touch with them a day or two before they leave because these guys are notorious for standing guys up or even delivering half as sex! So the American guys are always happy to get a fuck that reminds them of home and made the trip memorable.
I said that to say fucking is fucking whether you are working with a big package or with a compact surprise. When a guy starts complaining about the size of your dick, get rid of him! Don’t even let him touch you. He’s not there for the sex he only wants to outlive a fantasy where you are of no importance! I’m versitile and the guys I’ve fucked have climaxed!
Well size does matter too me big and long is what I like but yes we can be friends
I have an above average penis, which many guys enjoy. I must say I thoroughly enjoy a small penis. Several of my acquaintances have smaller penises. It doesn’t bother me or them. We just enjoy some wonderful sex together. I personally luv sucking a small penis. I enjoy it and they seem to enjoy it as well. Guess everyone is well satisfied.
Big cocks are beautiful to look at but not all of us can suck them good and if were not size queen bottoms, an average or smaller cock can be welcome. When sucking I lije an uncut cock of average or smaller size so I can enjoy it more .
I have a rather small penis. I have to admit, it does make me feel somewhat embarrassed when I’m at they gym and around some of these hung guys in the locker room and shower area. They never cover theirs, and I don’t blame them. I always keep my towel around me to hide mine. And yes, in the steam room, I have had a few experiences where another guy and myself would start to fool around a little, and he’d reach under my towel and feel mine, and then he’d get up and leave me there. Hurts a lot when this happens. As for my preference, there are other things just as important as this penis on a man. If he has a hot chest, good legs, and / or lots of body hair, these things can make up for a small penis everytime for me.
I know I like them all, big, small, thick, or skinny! I am vers, and prefer smaller for when I bottom.
I am a 67 year old man who NOW has a smaller penis mainly because 8 years ago I was diagnosed with prostate cancer. We chose to go the radiation/lupron chemo shots instead of surgery. After 60 days of radiation killing most of the blood vessels in my penis, I went from 6.5 erect to 5″. I was so self conscious afterwards that I did not want to be rejected and did not have sex for a long time until I met the love of my life who loves my smaller penis since he is a bottom and says it does not hurt when I fuck him compared to a large penis.
Being in an open relationship now, I have found no rejection from others……….most of which prefer it as one other comment being made that says no gag reflex and feels better when I am fucking them. Many gay men are so pretentious because they are not satisfied without a big penis and those are the ones who are not good sex partners because they cannot usually handle the large penis after all.
HI GUY I DO LIKE BIGGER COCKS WHEN I’M GETTING FU_KED BUT ITS ABOUT GOING DEEP IN ME, I DATED THIS GUY WITH A SMALL HEAD AND THICK SHAFT COCK ABOUT 6 INCH HE WAS A VERY VERY GOOD IN BED THE ONLY PROBLEM, HE COULD NOT GO DEEP IN ME HAD HE BEEN ABLE I’VE BEEN IN HAVEN. IF HE CALL ME NOT AND ASK COULD HE HAVE SOME I WOULD HELL YES,DID SAY I WAS A TOP
I’m 54 and finally feel comfortable with my 5.75″ cock. I had to stop comparing myself to others. To be comfortable with ME. Personally, A big dick scares me. I do have a gag reflex, and figure if it can’t fit in my mouth comfortably, it won’t feel right in my ass. I actually was in a relationship with a man that had a micro(under 2″) penis. He knew how to hit my spot. I bottomed with this man for 2 years, and felt very satisfied. I top and bottom. And have had more fun with my partners, now that I’ve become comfortable with myself and penis size…Can’t change what I was born with… You guy’s with small dick… you just keep cumming to me. I’ll make you happy. NO JUDGMENTS here.
My penis is no more than average in length and maybe a little less. But it is thinner than most especially when flaccid. I am a grower not a shower. No one has complained about my dick being on the thinner side but they are probably just being nice. Thin dicks turn me on more but thick ones make me jealous…..strange huh?
Hi, I must admit I love the look of a hung guy. Practically speaking I actually prefer guys with a smaller cock for oral and anal. I’m a bottom. I really like to be able to suck a cock completely without gagging and like to use my tongue and lips together to fully service his cock and balls as for anal an average to small cock hits all the right places for me I have been with hung 9 in plus guys on occasion and those were fun times an average to small cock rocks my world just fine as long long as the guy its attached to knows how to use it. Just my opinion.
Hit me up if you are a small top:-)
As a bottom I have had sex with xxl,xl, average and small penis. I prefer the xl and xxl. A small one can do nothing for me sexually. It actually irritates the hell or of me,I just want them to get up and leave. I want someone whose dick is bigger than mine. And I’m 8.5-9 and thick.
Personally I like a guy whose penis is big but not huge. I like to give deep throat, so too small is no challenge (boring) and too big would just be frustrating. Also I’m a top when it comes to anal sex and I really like a guy with a big handle to hold on to, so my preferred partner is a hung bottom. But honestly it’s not a big deal. In my life I’ve only had sex with a few guys who were too small to enjoy and only a few who were really too big and I hope they found others for whom they were just right
When I was younger, I would cavalierly say that size doesn’t matter. However, now that I am older and more experienced, I know that size does matter. If a guy’s dick is too big, then it’s a problem, and if a guy’s dick is too small, then it’s a disappointment. As with anything else, the trick is to make do with what you have, compensate for your shortcomings (literally) in other ways, and realize that human diversity produces all kinds of varieties in everything.
For my size and stature(5’11” 250) I’m pretty avg 6.5/7 cut. I’ve been with guys smaller and much larger than myself but prefer avg. My boyfriend(bttm) now who is slightly bigger than me (8 thick) says he likes me being smaller compared to bigger guys.
My penis is small abt 5 or 6. Having a small dick seems to be a tabu nowadays as pure bottoms will ask first (how big are you? If not big dick don’t bother). Yes ,this society is about how much you have and that translates to sex as well. Therefore i have been condemned to be a bottom most of the time. And if im a top you better believe i will go deep and deoper and hard and harder. My mind says im not big enough, i am not pleasing him. Why? In other countries size is not an issue.
I unfortunately and under endowed here. I am a bottom so some say my size should not matter but it does. Because od my small penis, I have been the subject of ridicule most of my life. In school, gym class was hell for me , not only because of all the hot naked men, but I am very self conscious of my size. I have seriously been considering researching ways to enlarge my penis, so if anyone of you know of any ways that won’t cost me a fortune, please let me know.
I am 30 years old with a 5.5″ cock. I consider myself average. Although i am good looking with nice abs and well sculpted muscles i waited til i was 22 to be sexually active from fear of rejection from what i perceived as a small penis. This tore me up because i was often hit on and tempted years before. i had so much anxiety that i was unable to get an erection that first time and i look really small when flaccid. I was happy to find out after my second sexual encounter with the same nice guy when i could actually get a hard on that small really was not an issue and that most of the guys that i have been with since have been closer to my size, even if they say they got 7″ on their profile. I am versatile and prefer a smaller or average while bottoming anyway. I have only seen and played with a few 8″+ and not that impressed really
sorry I have big one that prefer guys who do that im aboive agerage
For me, I’m a turtle. In other words, my shaft withdraws into my body exposing only the head when I’m in the flaccid state. I have been fortunate in that all of the guys I’ve been with with the exception of one has made a comment such as, “wow that’s really a nice cock you’ve got”! Of course, that was when I got hard. I do know what’s line to have to 6 inch cock. I’m in barest and locker rooms, and taking showers with a man. I feel like a doll the standard. But as I said, I’ve been very fortunate to have some really nice gas to be with.
Is the guy on the left side of the picture supposed to represent a small penis? There is nothing small about him. He looks hot and perfect to me. The guy on the right side in the picture is freakishly large and a turn off to me.
I hate auto correct. There are several mistakes in the post that just got posted without me hitting send intentionally. I hope it makes sense.
I actually have a fetish for small cocks. I love them and wish mine were smaller. I’m between 7 1/2 and 8 with about 6 inch girth and have guys tell me I’m too big to fuck them and that it hurts. I very much enjoy a man MUCH smaller than 6 inches.. 3 to 3 1/2 is super enjoyable, especially if he has small balls as well. I like being able to get the entire “package” into my mouth at the same time, and the guys tell me it’s a fantastic feeling to have their cock and balls sucked at the same time. I wouldn’t know, but would love to find out. I also LOVE it when a guy can take my cock all the way down his throat. Because of my girth, most guys can’t do it. All in all, I think small to average would be the best cock size. Not all of us with “large ones” feel blessed by it. All of you guys out there with little dicks, rejoice… especially if you’re uncut to boot.
I have a small penis. I really wish these blog posts would make an effort not to equate the size of a man’s cock with a sense of manhood. It certainly doesn’t diminish mine and my closest friends have pointed out I’m more masculine than many gay men they’ve met.
That being said 😉 my partner’s cock is twice the size of mine. When we’d play together people would gravitate towards them. My way of coping with the rejection? Accepting I’m not the only size queen out there LOL I don’t promote the size of my dick because I’m a bottom which in my opinion makes my dick size irrelevant.
Great dialogue it helps all of us to understand better how others look at and view their size. I am very avg about 5″ to 6″ but not very thick. I have always considered myself too small. I appreciate all the thought comments on this topic.
I am great human love everyone no matter but like beautiful 5-6 inch white dick I am no size queen some guys are just so sick on size for what
you guys are so funny actually lol cause everyone of ya know sixe does matter, what t he hell do ya do with a tooth pick other than just that pick your teeth…..
I believe it was susan sontag who coined the term “fascist aesthetic”
I bet if you scratch a size queen you’ll find all kinds of inarticulate right-wing viewpoints
I am a total bttm with a 7″ cut on the thick side. I NEVER EVER hook up with anyone whose cock is shorter and/or thinner than mine…. MAJOR turn off. I do not lke it. they do not do anything for me. I love to feel a man entering both my throat and my … well, you know. Tops should have big dicks period. If they want a nice round ass (and I have that) they should also expect us bottoms to get what we want.
I have 6.5″ seems when a gut sees it they say man that dick is bigger than 6.5 I say I have measured it I know. Well I fell in love with a guy that said he had 5″ when I measured it, it was 3.5″ but I loved it I could please him and he knew how to please me. Yea it seemed he worked harder at it than I did but he knew how to use it. Size does not matter to me it is the person.
I been rejected so many times because of my size. I been having self esteem problems since i was a kid. Even my dad used to make fun of me
because all the males in my family im the only one with a small dick. But i get good comments some times about how good my uncut dick looks. Guys seem to love sucking me and the ones i fucked never complain about it. Is something that is not gonna change and i have to live with it i have no self esteem because of it i used to be a top and now im more of a verse/bottom because of it..but my self i rather been fucked by a 5.5″ or 6″ to really enjoy it that been fucked by a 9″ and just worry about the pain..and had have both sizes..
I have always found that it is not the wand that counts, but the magician. (g)
Big cocks are only nice to look at. I’ve slept with many men in my 20s, different shapes and sizes. The men with the bigger cocks were no fun, it was pain in both ends, mouth and ass. It’s not pleasant. 7″ is good enough anything bigger is not comfortable at all anything smaller for anal is good as long as it’s thick, i just don’t ask if it’s in yet.
I am better than average sized in length and very thick. I have to admit that I USED to be sometimes disappointed when with another guy if they were smaller, but mostly if thinner. I say used to, as since puberty I have been j/o with my cock, so I know what a longer and thick one feels like, so that is what I was used to. I have since learned that while a bog one is a turn-on, no one feature of a guy makes or breaks the deal, it is the whole picture. Some of the biggest ones have the biggest dick of a personality to go with it, and likewise. What concerns me most is if it works, lol. I would take a smaller one that can perform again and, hopefully, again, than a one trick pony. I can go multiple times and keep hard, but then when the other guy can’t, that is where any disappointment for me is. I have learned that the size may be a “Nice!” factor or initial reaction, but that is where it ends.
It depends on the guy one of my FWB recently started dating and he believes in monogamy while in a relationship. We still talk thru txt on and he mentioned to me that he really missed my large cock. I don’t think I’m that big but it is thick. Apparently his current bf is not of a large size. I know my friend he calls him self a bttm even though he is a great top and he says he likes bigger dicks. His all time fact is to have his mouth filled and forced down on it. But he has to either deal with it or ruin the relationship
I personal like a range but try to avoid those with micro penis a condition in which the erect state of the penis is less then one inch. I have had small a 2″ pencil smallest it was easy to take he like pounding me hard and he got off and loved every minute of fucking me I didn’t get much he Barry penetrated me it was like being fingered. I have had large biggest I s say 10-11 I inche’s and very think (black guy) it takes time and patience but eventually he get to pound me hard but I’m always wrecked for a few days but I love it.
Best was my first FWB not first guy but best he meet at least once a week for about 18months. He was not big but he was good. He was like second guy I was with and biggest at that point. It was always great because we would play for an hour touching kissing petting rubbing and then he would fun me he never lasted long but he was one hell of a top he took what God gave him and used it well.
So all matter of personal preference. Small can be good for no holds bar fuck but big can be good to reach those special places that a small or short once can’t touch. Big guys have it hard to with guys that can’t it won’t take it or size queen boyfriends that are in diapers by their mid 40’s
Compared to all the guys I have slept with, I have an average+ dick (in both length & girth). I haven’t experienced any real advantage to sleeping with a guy with a big dick. I prefer an average or smaller dick if I am going to get fucked, mainly because I don’t get fucked often and I don’t like the idea of getting a blown-out, chewed-up bubble gum looking balloon knot of an asshole. There are two things that are a MAJOR turn off; 1.) guys with an asshole that shallows by dick like it’s a fucking tic-tac and 2.) guys who are larger and just try to cram it in my ass. Guys with big dicks often think they’re porn stars and that bottoms just want to get stretched out and messy. They think their big dick makes them a great, irresistable lay. FALSE.
I think this topic has got to be the number one subject that men talk about whether you are gay, bi, straight. I was born with a larger penis ( not my fault). I have been with a man who was probably about 3 inches. It was the worst experience I ever had. It wasn’t because I didn’t like his size. He left his shirt on and every time I tried to grab his penis to play with it, he would move. I finally did get a hold of it and had no problem with his size. But because he did the experience was aweful.
Most men are smaller then me and that’s OK. But I hate it when a guy already has a mind set that I won’t like him because he is smaller. However nothing is worse that when you tell someone how big you are they want to see…then they stare. Then when you try to top it won’t fit. Then you both get frustrated and the evening is ruined.
The size your penis has nothing to do with the size of your heart. You are born with a penis. Use it to the best of your ability. That’s what makes a man sexy and hot!
Mine is so small, I have to take a Viagra just to grasp it with a tweezer to go to the bathroom!! (Okay…it’s a bit bigger, but not much…hahaha)
I know that mine is small, so I end up being the bottom guy…jus tthat easy and simple. And if someone doesn’t want to be with me because it’s so small, it truly IS their loss!
How about that for self-worth?
I just point and laugh – hahahaha – whatever
i myself have a small penis and to be totally honest, I am not at all pleased with it. To make it worse, I have gained about 40 pounds so now it’s even smaller, or at least looks that way. If I am fully aroused, I measure about 5, but on average I would say 4.5 inches average length. Having a smaller cock does hurt my self esteem. I am bi, women are not really into a smaller cock guy. When it comes to hooking up with guys, I get passed by all the time because I am small. I am sure the weight gain has made an impact as well. In addition I have been called baby dick and it does hurt because that’s my manhood and I have to live with it. I am also currently jelqing and that hasn’t really showed any promise but it doesn’t hurt to keep trying. Even if I only grew an inch out of it, I would be a super happy camper.
Not sure on this one. I have an average length penis 6″. However, I have been blessed with a huge mushroom head cock, 5″ around with a 3″around shaft. I have had troubles with anal do to my mushroom head. I sometimes wish that if I had a regular size dick I’d get more action. As far as a penis going into my ass, I have to go with small. I very rarely bottom. I have tried a big cock before, and it was just to painful. A nice small to average cock is the way to go. As my friend say, who has a small cock say, “I’m very oral and anal friendly. I have to agree with him. :)~
A cock head 5 inches around is actually just above average. And a shaft that’s only 3 inches around is 2 inches shy of the average. And your length, Jerry, is a tiny bit above average. All statistically speaking, of course.
Being a top dick size does not matter and definitely would not turn down a hot bottom boy because of his dick size. Although I do enjoy holding on to a big joy stick while in the doggy position and LOVE sucking a big cock size is definitely not a turnoff.
I’m average 5.5 uncut. When I was younger I was embarrassed, but as I got older I learned to use it and that I have one hell of a pretty dick lol. I get compliments on it all the time (with my share fair of rejections) and have never really had a guy complain.
I am 9 inches and thick. Guys have wanted me just for my dick size. It’s just as bad! But all my bf’s have had small dicks. I could care less about dick size! But love a hot ass!!!
How can this man have a Skinny Right Arm and and Enormous Left Arm???? PHOTOSHOP????
GOD BLESS YOUR SOUL BECAUSE THE PENIS AINT REAL
I have a small dick as well (probably 2 inches hard), and I don’t mind it. And I find a lot of guys out there, especially black guys who are really turned on by it. Which turns me on. 🙂 It just another fetish or simple preference for most guys-like chubs or daddies or twinks. For many tops I think it adds to their feelings of superiority and dominance in bed over their small-dicked partner.
I’m not athletic, so maybe I’d feel a bit different if I was naked in a locker room a lot, but I also know there would be guys there turned on by my small dick too, so I’d walk around proudly to let them get a good look! 🙂
There is usually a chat room on Gay.com labelled “small penises” or some such, and a web site devoted to them as well called dinkydicks.com for those wanting to hookup with us small dicked guys or get advice/help in dealing with how to deal with it if you may have been harassed/bullied because of your small dick
I have never had an issue with a small penis. Smallest guy I was with was about 3 inches and he knew how to use what he had. Not only that he was loaded and went multiple times. He was hot and I wish I could see him again. So you guys with small ones wear them proudly and Stand as tall as the rest of us. It isn’t the size that counts it is what’s in it and the man behind it.
A great big cock is nothing if the man who owns it is an asshole!
I’m a totally versatile guy, and for me it’s definitely more about being interested and tuned into the person that you’re with. As for a guys dick, I’m more into technique than size. I’ve been with guys that had big dicks and some were totally boring on bed because they thought that big dick was all they needed to bring to the table
My man is 4 1/2 when he hard. He is uncut so it really is hard to find his dick when he is not. Since he is a bottom size does not matter. His tight ass does. There is a benefit to him being small. Every once in awhile I can let him fuck me and it doesn’t hurt. All is well and emotions,love and our relationship is intact. Size does matter when it comes to the heart.
Ugh, damn small keyboard. To continue: And likewise, I’ve been with guys who were considered small size wise and they were attentive, tuned in and it was an amazing experience. I am told that I have a big dick. I always see that as subjective, but I never let that dictate how I approach an interaction with a guy. Big or small you have to put some interest and some effort into it or its not gonna go well and what the hell is the point of that.
So “small” guys put your focus on your technique and ensuring you and your partner are having fun and not on your size. And for those guys that reject you, especially the ones that do it rudely, consider the fact that you’ve probably dodged a very boring and time-wasting bullet.
I literally have just barely under a 6 in cock. For a long time I felt that I was inadequate for not having a large cock. But as I have gotten older, I’ve come to realize that there are guys out there that like smaller cocks and guys who have even smaller cocks than mine (talk about an ego boost). Luckily for me, I may have a smaller cock, but I have a thickness that bottoms like and have never gotten a complaint about it. You just have to learn how to properly use what you got and not be so self-conscious. I know easier said than done.
I have a small cock. I have always wish I had a bigger cock. After read here there are guys who like guys with a small cock so maybe I just need to find the right guy. I have 5.5 but I do have large balls.
Yes… size does matter and anyone who says it does not is lying to himself. That said, what you got is what you got. Nothing is going to change it. So you have to figure out what things you can do to maximize your tool.
I only play with above average to large dicks. No fun playing with little clittie dicks. So call me a size queen but that is what turns my crank.
I have a gigantic cock and tiny ass. Everyone longs for what they don’t have… When someone makes a negative comment about my ass, I say “you are looking at the wrong side”!
I’m to big to receive oral and some guys turn me down for anal.
I like small even tiny cocks. Nothing is hotter than seeing confident man walk around naked with a small one. Trying to hide your cock is a turn off. Belly’s, back-hair, short, bald whatever can be hot with right attitude.
I prefer a small one compared to a large one. I have been seeing this great man with a 5″ and I love it. Been sing each other for 10.5 years
I’m a versatile gay black guy and I met another black guy with a small dick.I tried to suck on it and he wouldn’t cum;it was a complete turn off.I came to a motel and I also met a white bisexual man with a big dick.When I met him,I was turned on by his bulge.We kissed,I sucked his dick and he fucked my ass.Unfortunately for me he turned against me and asked me to leave his motel.It left me in complete sadness.As a black versatile bottom,I love white guys with big dicks but they’re hard to find.
If you have a small penis at least you will always know that you are loved and admired for who you are as a man and a person and not because you have a Big Dick . It is my personal experience that men with smaller penises are less arrogant and egoic. And I think they are more humble which is a huge turn on for me. Ive been with some really handsome men who are below average and yet they make up for it in character and a really nice body or a hot butt. So for the guys out there who come up a little bit short, you just stand proud…your just as lovable and hot in your own way. Be at peace.
I have a small penis about 4 in and I have always felt less of a man. I guess that I enjoy men who are average or above, enjoy pleasing them orally and in the right situation be a bottom makes me feel good to pleasure them and get myself off in the process
Chemistry is important not the cock size
Most men don’t have dicks above 7″. The average size of a man’s dick is around 5″, and only a few guys (<10% of men from what I've heard) have dicks that are 7" or larger. Luckily, I have a fat 9"X 7" cut piece of meat that my makers gave me. I have a good sex and social life because of it, and my self-esteem is high. I catch people looking at the bulge in my jeans all the time, and the attention I receive is great. Smaller dick guys are usually the more quiet ones because they are ashamed of their lack of manhood. But hey, what can I say? Some of us are blessed with large dicks, which is something most people have the desire for.
Chemistry is Important not cock size
Hello……
First i would like to comment to DEAN and a fw other guys……….you are a totaly fuckin assholes. You guys are very inconsiderate about guys having a small cock. I have been with guys whose cocks range from small (4inches) to guys with huge fuckin monster cocks……..they all taste geat to me. I like any size cock.
I agree a cock being super huge can b aturnoff but only if u leave and take a,l ur narrow minded driens with you.
I myself have a 7″ cock having al thicker cock. When i was younger i thought i had a small cock. Tjrned out i was small when soft n grew bigger n thicker when it got hard. I enjoy having a small size cock to play n definitely suck on. Some of u guys should say yes to sex with guys having smaller penis’s.
I have found that a guy with a small wr cock figured out how to work it to make their top enjoy the sex they r having…….i feel they work harder n so both guys enjoy the encounter. When he susks cock ……………fuck he just GIVES IT HIS ALL N I KNOW I FEEL GREAT when we have hot fuckin sex. But guys……..when u see his cock…….learn how to say no without being a mean fucking dick head……….well guess i should leave now n go run my errands. Have a great day!!!!!!
No matter what your penis size is, be the master of what you got. Iv’e learned this from various bottom friends. Best sex one of my friends has ever had was with a guy that had a 4 inch dick!
I am larger than average (8.5 inches and 6 in diameter). I am a proud size queen. The bigger the better. Being versatile I find small dicks are the most painful when bottoming.
i have a 5.5″ penis. I don’t give a fuck about those people who want a bigger penis. Why? Because there’s enough hot people out there who like my dick the way it is, so I don’t care about others opinions and preferences much. Size queens be damned, they can have their wants. Those with self confidence issues should grow a pair and stop obsessing.
I wish I could meet some of these guys into smaller bones. Check out my a4a profile. Ha.
Versguy1961 yes it can be to big I’m only 8″ but it’s fat and it sucks when my bottom can’t take it till I’m done. I perfer a smaller dick I’m a top but like to suck and that is what works for me
I have an average cock, tat I have been told is thick. I honestly don’t care what size the dudes dick is, I prefer the man behind it. I know a muscular 6′ guy who packs a 5″ and a 5’5″ guys who has an 8″. No one can generalize these. I have seen the multitude of ads and comments “like them hung” even though he isn’t. Just pass on by. As far as feeling “inadequate” in the men’s shower, well, some dudes look small then be really big when excited.
In my humble opinion, its about the confidence and self worth of the guy, not what he’s packing, and I have been scared off by a 10″+ before. I don’t bottom a whole lot, and figured 10-Plus wasn’t the way to “get back into the bottom grove.”
I dated a guy for a little while, and he has the smallest over ever seen. Totally hard, maybe 2″ long, about as thick as the average cuts finger and about an inch of foreskin over hang. He was an incredible bottom and I love playingand sucking his tiny cock and all that foreskin. It’s was just plain hot. !!
OMG!!! The worst thing in this WORLD is to have a small dick!
yes im a guy with just above average penis 712, and even then some guys say or act like its insaficeant, and ive seen guys with 6 or 5 inches just get realy hurt like thay shouldnt even be allowed to be in a setting with larger size guys, its rudd inconciderate, and most of all hurtfull. just saying. me myself i like all penuses no matter the size as long its a clean penis, periode
I’m a top with 6 inches, decent looking, with a fair build. Just an ordinary guy. I’ve been told “no thanks” by a few size queens but, for the overwhelming majority of my hookups, bottoms were well satisfied by me. That’s because I would talk with them before meeting, telling them exactly what I had in mind, and then overdelivering once we got together. It also helped that I never exaggerated my physical description so guys were generally happy to open the door for me and see what they expected to see.
Speaking of expectations, I can recall on a number of occassions that bottoms would agree to meet me even though they “usually never hooked up with guys who were less than 8 inches” only to have them complain that my 6 inch cock was too big for them and that I needed to go fuck them very slowly. That’s when I realized how so many of these size queens were in love with the IDEA of big cocks but few had much experience being fucked by them for real.
Bottom line, if it can get hard and shoot loads, cocks of any size can satisfy.
The brain is the biggest sex organ anyway so, guys, get creative and have fun and see how your bottoms will rarely care about how many inches you’re packing.
SIZE, Size, size does matter. I am a true top but I like playing with big dick bottoms. I love the girth and the weight of the dick. My dick is almost 9 inches. However, I have been told on many occasions that my dick was too big. I have had my share of good ass. However, I have learned a few things along the way. 1) Some guys love big dicks because they don’t have any walls – the booty is so loose, my forearm can’t satisfy them. 2) Some guys want and chase big dicks, but they can’t handle them. The ones that are always running from dick. 3) My dick simply cant fit is some small tight holes. That frustrates me the most. So I guess dick size comes with lots or pros and cons.
Why is it we men seem to measure our selfworth by penis size.Is it due to society?or the way a male is raised,maybe its the underlying narssasistic tone privately amongst society that if your cock is large you must be a better man or more worthy than those unfortunate guys with small dicks.
I am average to above at 7″ and very thick about 6.5″ however im a grower not a shower and have been passed over on many occasions because of that.
wake up and realize that we are all human-you have no choice in the matter you get what you get.
For those meatheads out there that think they are extra special,your not.I have witnessed many hung ,drunk and drugged up jerks that cant seem to get a hardon,while others indifferent because you dont fit into the Hung beautiful people category.
It is hurtful to all to be rejected and there is no reason for rudeness,hate and intolerance by some to inflict your poisonous attitude towards others.
we should all be supportive of each other as men-Im not saying we should all be open to any type at any time as sexually we all have our preferences.we all need to
work on changing attitudes for sake of younger men that are deserving positive role models and healthy sexual environment.Men need to be uplifted and feel good about themselves,the world would be a better place.Can we just be kinder to one another.
Where to start honestly as a guy with a very small cock I’ve never had an issue with it I’m about 4 inches and 5 around hard with my cock hiding in my body soft but it’s never been an issue sense I identify as a bottom not to say I won’t top if requested but it makes things more interesting
When I was 9 my mother drug me from the bathroom to the living room, where my father was watching TV – I had a towel wrapped around me and when I got to my dad, my mother told me to open the towel. My mother pointed to my penis and asked my father if it was big enough or was there a problem. My father handled it well and told her as I got older it would change. Well I grew into average, but that situation left a huge scar on me. I dealt with embarrassment most of my life. I have never really had any complaints and function well as a top or a bottom. I have moved on, but that event with my parents haunts me often!
I am 6′ 235lbs and have a small dick, 4 inch when hard. I tried to be with women until they saw my dick. Many laughed others just did not return my calls. So I decided to be a bottom. I enjoy it greatly and been told I am a great lay. I am looking for more top guys, so if you are out there and want to try me email me.
I’m a top and have never been a “size queen.” I am above average cock size and I’ve had 2 longtime partners who were below average (both were bottoms). Size has never been a consideration for me; all are welcome.
If the dude has a smokin bod with big guns, I don’t care if his dick is the size of my pinky or he has a face like Godzilla. A hot bod turns me on more. Plus I’m more top so his size isn’t all that important to me. Now as far as I’m concerned, I’d like to have a dick that goes down my leg, but I’m “average” at best. Not all guys are size queens and I’ve never been starved for sex. I love small Asian guys who have little tight holes and they seem to love me.
I LOVE LOVE LOVE small cocks!!!!
I have been blessed with superior genetics. Tall, blonde, muscular, and a big fat cock. I am married and seemingly straight. Part of what gets me off is laughing to myself while these little limp dick faggots are blowing me…umad?
I’m mainly an Oral Bi guy. I love to suck dick. I prefer average to smaller, easier to deep throat, get face fucked and fit in my mouth. I like to deep throat a guy and lick his balls at the same time, hot. Easy with a short dick. Now I do like the feel of a very large thick dick in my hands but that’s all. Just my 0.02
Something should really be done to fix the log out tab @ the top of the home page — missing for weeks —
Hundreds of guys appear to be logged on + or ready to chat / when in fact less than most are even @ a computer – tablet – or smart phone
This is very discouraging to many of the ppl I actually get the chance to communicate with — not to mention — maybe most of your followers
My observations:
1. There is a ratio that lives in gay circles. How fit you need to be seems to be in inverse proton to the size of your dick. Ten inch guys can be trolls living in a van, and there will be a line outside that van full of people dying to play with that dick. If you are under seven inches, you’d better be ripped and attractive if you like having a full dance card.
2. Everyone wants to be with someone who is “more” than they are. Bigger, cuter, fitter, smarter, richer. Not all at the same time, but guys are looking for a “conquest” experience, where they bag someone that they never thought they could. So, how a guy views himself has a LOT to do with who he chooses, or settles for.
3. If you aren’t large, you are small. There is no honor for average in the sexual community, even though that is where the vast majority of people are!
4. There are fetishes all kinds, so there are people attracted to even the most unattractive, so there is still someone for everyone, big or small.
5. As evidenced here, even small guys tend to prefer large guys. Also, this is in everyone’s mind almost all the time, so it’s probably an unhealthy obsession. We should focus more on what other things we enjoy sexually in addition to size, and seek out the guys who fulfill the MOST of them.
6. An uncaring, non reciprocating clueless troll with a big cock is probably not as much fun as
a tight bodied guy with a degree,a little money in his pocket,a full conversation in his head and a six inch dick and some self confidence to go with it.
I have a question for you guys! I also have a small 5′ penis. Has anyone with a small penis tried dick pumps or that hydro bathmate and actually gotten results? Just curious.
I really don’t care if a guy has a small or large penis, if we are both into each other then its all good with me. The gay community is to judgmental when it comes to size but when they get a big penis they can’t even handle it . I’m considered as average length(7’5) but i would say a smaller penis is a lot easier to suck. If you don’t have a large penis don’t worry about there is someone thats looking for you…
Dave – thank you for posting my question. Much appreciated! I hope the group appreciates the discussion and that many more people will contribute.
I have had cock from small and thin to long and thin fat and short and fat and long. I have trouble with fat and long though when it goes in just far enough it feels good. Long and thin was a whole new experience as the thin cock was able to reach places that had never been touched before. Short and fat make you feel full and short and thin just feel amazing. My current buddy is mostly a bottom I think because of his smaller penis. It’s maybe 4″ and not very thick. He makes an absolutely amazing bottom, one I tend to prefer over other men but I also enjoy having him flip me over and laying the pipe to my hole. It feels amazing and he is such a hard shooter I can usually feel the spasms his cock makes when he is shooting his load. Very nice sensation, so all of that being said my experience is they all work well for different reasons. Now having a cock that is in the 85th percentile of recorded penis length I find it disheartening when I am rejected because I am not 8″ or bigger. Expand your mind, don’t worry about the size, unless of course you are so loose you can’t feel anything, in which case I suggest exercising that shit and getting it in shape like the rest of your hot body
Take yourselves and all of your patronizing comments to hell! Nobody’s asking any of you to pat anyone on the head or to pinch anyone’s cheek with you alls, ‘it’s alright that you have a small penis jive. Most of you are stupid and underemployed. I would much rather be wit someone who has a penis under 6 inches than to be with somone who can’t and don’t make good life decisions, who is a mean and deceitful person, or someone who has an inferriority complex.
If you think that just because you have a penis over 6 inches makes you masculine or dominant, think again. I have met so many guys with a penis over 6 inches who are punk ass bitches! Guys who have low paying jobs, guys who can’t stand up for themselves or back away when someone attacks him or his friend for being gay or simply mistreated, guys who are afraid to come out of the closet sand remain on the DL because they are too afraid to come out, and guys who simply don’t know that they are actually the ones being little bitches to the desires of gay men.
If you think that having an above average penis makes you special or more dominant or more masculine or more of a man, think again. Most of you are sorry and lazy nobodies!
I wish one of you punk ass bitches would come to me and tell me that you are more dominant or more of a man because your penis is bigger. You know you are punk ass bitches, you’re subserviant to your bosses, you act like whimps when you are treated unfairly by society and you want me, us go think that you have the upper hand? What???
Ya’ll are some ignorant dumb ass bastards. Grow some balls and be a real man! Get a well paying job, donate to charity, help the helpless and then I could maybe see your bigger dick as the cherry on top. In the meantime, know that you ain’t all that, (you being plural).
I wish one of you punk asses would tell me to my face that you’re more of a man because your dick is bigger. Prove it!
And by the way, most of the guys that only want big dicks have sunken in cheeks by 45!
First, what is considered small by the community here?
I have never bottomed before, but if I do, I want an average to smaller penis for the first time.
I have to say, I would consider myself average (6.5-7), probably average thickness. I definitely wish I had more girth and wouldn’t mind 8 inches either.
When it comes to sex or oral though I definitely love the bigger dicks. Im not say 8+ but 7.5 and a nice girth is definitely something Id look for in a man. Im vers, Id probably look for a top/vers in a relationship.
Whether I top or bottom, I am really satisfied sucking on a big dick and stroking it while I fuck him or adjusting to his size and shooting a huge load.
Would I reject someone solely for the size of their dick? Well it truly depends on the size, but probably not. I wont say that it doesn’t have an impact though.
How can guys say because the have a small penis they decide to became a bottom. That’s so stupid. Size does not matter it’s how to use it. Remember, the sensation is around your anus not all day way down. Actually, big cocks can make you bleed and can make your anus lose like woman pussy.
As far as size wise, I am very self concious. I always have to ask my partner if he is still okay with it. I am afraid one day he will not be okay with it and find another guy With a bigger one. I get hard but can’t keep it hard. I would say I am between 3″-4″ when hard. But I do not like it being sucked or having another guy play with it. I prefer just being rimmed and fucked.
I read every single entry and can identify with quite a few of the posts. You cannot change what you have been given by nature. Either live with it and develop a thick skin and accept that you are not always someone’s cup of tea and move on OR just sit alone at home and be ashamed of yourself and never “play” anymore.
Anyone who has a small penis and likes other men of similar size – contact me! 🙂
Hey guys! Hot topic isn’t it? My dick isn’t large either but my sac is huge and lose all the time. My partner loves it and he loves to play with my low hanging balls. He is much larger than I am but we keep one another satisfied 😉
as a older guy who has only turned gay in 2009 I always thought I had a small penis. I dated women and was married have a son.my sex life was marginal not enough to satisfy me many women rejected me due to my lack of size.i was on another site a guy saw my pic offered to give me a blo job,i had always thought about m2m sex so I said WTF I went for it i enjoyed it he gave me a the best blo job of my life, so I sucked him off and enjoyed making him squirm before he came I swallowed his load. since then I have played with both sexes, only guys since 2013now. I’m surprised to realize that i’m about average 6.5-7, I’ve met guys with both small and large cocks either or is good for me. it’s not the meat it’s the motion. It’s the guys attached to it that counts. my long term lover was above average 7″ and very thick I was in love with him and his beautiful uncut dick. that relationship has ended but the lessons learned are still in my pleasure handbook today.respect confidence comunication will go a long way in helping me find myself down the road. still seeking the long term thing but pleasure until then is the goal. As a versa guy I’ll hold any thought until after our first sexual encounter if I want to see him again. I’ve had big dick bottoms, a lot of fun but makes me crazy when I want them to fuck me and they wont, small dick tops sorry it feels like your teasing me your finger I want a HARD dick that can work it. I’ve had a couple bottoms say sorry to big cant take my cock well you saw my pics what you saw is right here right now.DO NOT PLAY GAMES GUYS ENJOY LIFE AND ALL THAT IS PRESENTED TO YOU. And you big dick tops who think your going to get paid for that big dick fugetaboutit get a grip and get a job and get your own!!! DDDD.
What’s ridiculous is how most guys rule out another guy just because he isn’t hung like a horse, isn’t 18 and isn’t a male model. I don’t know what it is with guys who are looking for a teenager who’s packing 9 inches or more in his jeans. If your gay/bi and over 29 your pretty much screwed and not in a good way. It isn’t always a matter of cock size, but I know that’s the topic so I’ll try to stick to that subject. Yes, it’s been my experience that guys will almost always turn down another guy who’s under that 6/7″ threshold based solely on size. Never mind he might be a great guy, might actually be good with his tool and might even be in great shape with a winning personality and good looking too. No instead it’s conquer as many as we can, have as much unsafe sex as we can and get them as young as we can. Oh and you better be packing the biggest cock you can or we don’t want you. Never mind not everybody was gifted to have a big cock. Everybody ages and not everybody can maintain their weight their entire life either. Look, I know everyone has preferences, but if your getting to the point where you have to stick a leg up your ass to feel something, maybe you ought to do everyone else a favor and tell us your a big slut to begin with and you need something huge for your gaping hole. Yes, this touched a nerve and it’s been building for many many years.
I’m a total size queen bottom, and I’ve never seen a dick too big yet…..
ChipperAdams
I myself have a small penis, but I’m also a bottom. So it really doesn’t matter on my end. And I’m not picky, I just want to be pleased. So if it’s 3″ or 7″, as long as I am pleased I am fine. Just wish most guys looked at it how I look at it. Maybe I would have a partner lol. XOXO
I have a small dick (4.5 inches when fully erect, tiny when not), and I think having one is absolutely horrible for a man’s self-esteem, social life, and love life. The things people sometimes say can be so mean (like “I don’t know why you bothered” or–from my father when I was in college–“You’re just a wee little Scotsman,” over and over). I would give almost anything if I could have a fairly wide, rock hard, 6 and half inch cock.
Andy – you’re beating up on yourself too much. I feel your pain. Sorry, you’re going through this. It is what it is. If someone turns you down, too bad for them.
David. – Well said!
Small cock guys are trying harder to please their guys sexually. Big dick guys are just there shoving their big coks in asses, not much passion from my experience. When I was younger between 20-30something I would challenge my hole limit with quite big size penises and they weren’t very all pleasant encounters. I love to play with big cocks, slapping them on my face and my ass, still do. However, nowadays I tend be more Top inclined and willing to take a hard erected small penise anytime as long as the guy knows how to kiss and explore my whole body not just my hole. I myself stand 5’5″ tall with proportional sized cock about 5 in and never have any problem hoisting it up to any willing ass. To some guys that’s a small cock but there’s always large dildo as toy with many sizes up to arm length or red cone ass plug to please their hungry holes.
Yep I do have a small penis. Have been told that when I fuck a guy…I make it feel like I am bigger than I am. I just wish when guys see me naked….the would not be turned off. Take a chance guys. Just let things go…It could be your life time mate.
I love small cocks! As a top, a bottom’s penis size doesn’t matter as much to me as mine does to them. Every now and then I like to take some dick to remind me of what I do to them. I prefer it smaller, as long as it can get in. I like to be able to enjoy it without feeling like someone is digging me out, although I know that’s what many bottoms want. A small penis makes me want it more, as long as the person it’s attached to knows how to use it.
Great topic! I can definitely relate – I dread the “how hung” question you get on Grindr. I’m a cute guy, blonde, lean, muscular and attractive – sporting a 4.5-5″ hard on. I have never had a guy say anything about it, other than “it’s cute.” Guys like to play up size in public as though it actually matters, but if you’re kind, confident and your personality isn’t dull as fuck, you’re gonna get laid. In private any genuine guy will admit that it doesn’t matter at all. Being sexy is so much more than what you’ve got (or don’t got) dangling between your legs.
And if you have truly been in a situation where some guy has turned you down for “not being big enough,” consider yourself lucky… Cuz a guy like that is concerned about getting himself off – not you. Be proud of your stiff little dicks!
Hi guys.
It means a lot. I’m blk 6ft 2… 210 pounds. .. I just recently lost 90 pounds. .. I look great now.i have one problem. My cock size makes me feel inadequate as a man. Especially as a black man. It’s 6.5/ 4.5 girth… many of u might think this is about average(it is when half the world are Asians?) but as a blk man, society and social stereo types have made it so hard for me to love myself naked. It hurts and it affects the way I do everything. if you ask me… I think I’m bi because I try to find that inadequacy in another man. I am bi but it feels as if my dick was big I wouldn’t be embarrased to be with a woman.
I am on the dl. Confidence is huge. I lost the weight. .. my body is looking better… I am very attractive. .. but then… that one thing that it all boils down to; the thing that provides pleasure to your partner; that thing that I hear women and gay men talk about at a round table;
Yes. It makes me insecure in all aspects of life. You try to stay away from everyone and everything… but u feel like ur missing.
IN the past, I have even pondered suicide but, I saw it happen to a family and didn’t want to do that to mines.
I remember growing up as a kid (7 years old) listening to my aunts joke about my dick Asking the question ‘which woman is he gonna pleasure with that.’ I’m 29 no and I still ask myself the question. I have never had intercourse with a woman but I have had oral sex a lot a times (69). I have had 2 girlfriends. .. The topic never came up… but whateva I did wrong, I thought it was my small dick. I have met guys over and over.. With guys, I Knew my weight was a factor… so I dropped the weight… now… I get beyond the first stage to the meet and greet where dick sizes are compared or I get to the oral sex phase to go through it only not to hear from the guy ever again.
To hear someone laugh Or smirk, I only can think that they can see my little secret. I am so uncomfortable with it. I don’t know what to do… and embracing it wouldn’t happen no time soon.
Simple: my dick makes me very insecure in my environment.
I am babbling on but this is the first time I can speak about it because I can finally admit to my flaw because you do not know who I am.
To the guy that ask this question… thanks for allowing to express myself and get 21 years of frustration of my chest. lol. My dick is still small! but glad I could express myself.
I have a rather small dick too, or at least it looks small. I am overweight too, so that makes it look smaller. In all honesty, I think we, as gay men, base our cock judgement on porn too much. We see guys in porn average around 7-8 inches and expect that to be normal, but I don’t believe we should have a “normal” size standard, because all guys are different. I like to think of it like this, a boy will like you for your cock size, and he will be fun for the night, but it takes a man to look past that and see you for you, not just your cock. I think I wuld rather a man in my life instead of a boy.
I’m a gay black man versatile bottom and I have a small 6″ inch dick.To me size does matter.I wish I had a big 9 inch dick otherwise no one would be sexually attracted to me.I used to have a nine inch dick when I was younger and now that I gained a lot of weight,my dick decreases it’s size by three inches because most of my dick size is inside and under my belly.I lost sexual interest when I sent a pic of my small dick to another guy with a big dick.When he saw my dick,he got turned off and completely ignored my messages in the future.I saw pills over the internet and thought to believe if they make dicks bigger,but it costs an arm and a leg to buy them.Is they’re an alternative way to get a bigger dick without the cost of money????
@Cal – Cal, well said!
@Scoutsdad – their loss brother. Their loss.
This conversation is going nowhere until someone sets a standard of penis measurement. Apparently many guys measure from their asshole,their average five-incher becoming a monster eight-incher. Mine is a truly average five to six.
And I love lil’ ones: I can get both Dick and balls in my mouth at once! Pure heaven!
I have from what I’ve read on medical websites and average sized dick. it’s just shy of 6″ I believe it’s 5.75″ erect. What’s bad about it is that I’m a Black male. Anytime someone see’s a black male at a club, bar, bathhouse or anywhere where you might want to meet or hookup with someone they automatically think they’re hung like the men in porn.
Even in places like that I’ve been rejected because I wasn’t their pornstar dream. I know it’s probably just size queens i happen to run in to and it’s probably just bad luck but it always sucks when it happens. I’ve always had hang ups about it because of those experiences of being rejected sometimes I don’t even want to expose myself anymore.
However, there have been a few experiences I’ve had where the person I was with told me that my size was fine and it wasn’t small and they didn’t care. It just seems like 95% of the population cares when a black man isn’t hung. Stereotypes and labeling ruins it for good honest people.
Personally though I feel like the people who get hung up on how big someone is to be with them intimately is missing out on a lot. There are some really amazing guys in this world and allowing that to become their short coming or reason to not be with them is shallow and you probably just passed by on your soul mate of this lifetime.
Finally, when I’m with someone their size doesn’t matter to me. Anytime I’ve ever tried to bottom even average sized ones always hurt for me, I couldn’t imagine what pleasure a man would get from having a 8 9 or 10 inch dick shredding their asshole to sawdust. They are however interesting and impressive to look at if a hung guy would let me play with it I wouldn’t turn it down, but realistically trying to fit something like that in my bottom would be a no-no, as I wouldn’t event try because it can’t be safe for the male anatomy.
I have a 8.5 in penis. I want to try bottoming. I’m afraid of a big penis hurting me so im going to start with a guy that has small one.
Jandy86
@Sean – Glad to know you can finally get that off your chest. Your size is what you have, it is what nature gave. I pray that you find someone who will love you for the entire you and, more importantly, I hope you can love and accept your entire wonderful body and self.
@ Andrew – I am overweight myself but beginning to take off the pounds slowly through walking and a 1500 calorie diet sheet from the hospital. Its not easy let me tell you but I am SLOWLY doing it. It does seem to have a slight benefit to the appearance of my dick. Ever so slight. I will tell you though, the walking and being more active does make me terribly horny more than usual!! 🙂
My two cents based on pretty limited experiance.
I only started having sex with men at the age of 31, just four years ago.
As a teen up to even my mid twenties I was pretty shy about my body and didn’t think my Penis was impressive. Not small but but avarage minus. When I started seeing guys sexualy, I even started getting compliments which boosted my ego. Now after a few years, when I get to think on the other guy’s measurments I lean to the my size or bigger” option.
In practice I am mostly top, though prefer a versatile partner. And eventhough I had partners that had small penises, I didn’t have any issue when I was top.
I do love to suck and use my mouth, and yes to be honest it’s a bit of a let down to do so on a small penis. But I wouldn’t turn one away as long as I like everything else 🙂
My main issues would be the shape or more precisly lack of easteticaly pleasing shape. And I only had one like that, didn’t really want it in my mouth or see it actually (both bad looking and small).
Today I kinda prefer a partner to be vers-slightly bottoms leanings, and yes with with bigger then mine cock. I know, it seems a bit shallow but I like how it fits in my mouth 🙂 and want the menacing promise of it If decide to flip/bottom with them.
I’m 17cm at peak by the way
Cock size doesn’t matter to me. As I have been known to say often”As long as it works properly,what difference does it make?”
There is nothing worse than being black with a small dick. So hard to be taken seriously. They way i get talked to sometime justo dont make no sense. A tad over 5 measured rock hard. Small tight balls. If im in beast mide, i can push 5.5. The way i get talked to and the small dick comments. Smdh
I am a white male 55 years old near Ann Arbor Mich. with a 4 1/2 in cut and shaved penis and I am also bisexual. I like both sexes a lot but I only like other guys who also have a small smooth penis. I have always wanted to befriend a couple were the male is also smooth and she enjoys watching bisexual men preform on her and for her. A guy with a smaller penis is just much easier to satisfy orally and I can get more of it in my mouth.
I’m a tiny dicked guy …. 44, 6’4″, 240 lbs, beefy, smooth but barely 4″ uncut, thin with tiny balls
my size has made me feel inferior my entire life. I’ve bottomed twice but didn’t like it so the kick in the pants is I am a top but due to my self esteem issues, have never fucked anyone as I’m too ashamed of my size and knowledge that I might not even be able to penetrate
The weird thing is I like Small Penis Humiliation and often go on Omegle to show my tiny dick to see what reactions I get but as soon as I cum I feel like crap again. The older I get the worse these feelings of insecurity and despair become …. being a 44 year old virgin doesn’t exactly help
If anyone worked like to chat my email is
markbabydick4inches at g mail
From Toronto but currently work out of the country …. I return regularly though
my dream would be to meet another tiny dicked tall guy like me that feels the same or a guy that would love every little inch of my dick, my turn ons and me… are you out there?
My older brother by nine years has a small penis. I remember as a kid about seven, seeing my brother naked for the first time. He was about sixteen, cut dick, nice patch of hair above his dick. My boy dick was still small, compared to his so I didn’t notice that much. We would stand side by side and pee, also shower together. Never knowing what he thought about his dick. Now our Dad had a nice cut over average sized penis. My Dad and I would stand and pee together when we had too. I always wondered why my brother and dad were not the same size. So moving on a few years when I started growing, my penis getting longer and hair growing down there, my brother was getting jealous about my size. When I was about 21.He and I were in the shower together, he asked if we could measure our dicks, I said sure , he was 3.5 soft and close to 5.5 hard, me I was 4.5 soft and 6.5 hard. He was so upset that the lil brother was bigger then the oldest brother. His dick really didn’t bend and hang over his balls, where mine did and I also have larger balls. His dick just stood kind of straight out. I told him once that he always has a nice bump in his Whitey tighties. But he never really let it bother him, he would be naked any chance he had, change in front of his guy friends. Times when he and my dad and I would shower all together never was ashamed with the three of us. And last but not least he sure could show us in the shower how he could shoot semen from that dick he called small.
I admit that i too have a small dick or more accurate i have a dicklete and as other boys in the neighborhood found out it became very clear that my role was to be servant/bottom for those who had larger as i was taught manly cocks.
I fought this for some but when i was displayed to girls and they began to chuckle while talking about how i should wear panties because no real boy/man could have a cock so small. So, eventually succumb to the truth of my role.
Now at 52 I’m still a pnty wearing servant of men wjo have large cocks.
Guys.. I love small cocks. I know there are a lot gay men out there who are size queens because as a society we are so size obsessed. But, I don’t want a large cock. Small ones feel so much better when I’m bottoming, they’re fun to please orally, they turn me on when I look at them, they are fun to play with when I’m topping, and often times guys with small cocks are better lovers because they learn to make up for their disadvantages with skills. But, guys with small cocks are hard to find because many of them are insecure or ashamed of their size, and don’t put themselves out there. So, please… I beg of you to have the courage and self confidence to put yourself at risk of rejection and put yourself out there. Otherwise, how can I find you? I’m positive I’m not alone and that there are other guys out there like me looking for a nice guy with a small cock to please. Just go on tumblr and see all the small cock sites and all the admirers they have. All those guys beating off to pictures of men with small cocks aren’t there because they can’t find pictures of big dicks. So, please get on those dating apps and announce that you have a small one, then we can find you!
I love playing with small cut cocks (6 inch and under)! Fondling them. Stroking them. Getting them hard and sucking them dry! Over and over again all day long! I’m in the Casa Grande area of Arizona and looking for 1 man or a small group of men, with a small cock to get together with on a very regular basis. Big plus if you wear panties! I’m ddf and a non-smoker. You must host and I’m only available weekdays, daytime hours only.
I know you don‘t believe to me but my penis is under 2 inch tall (Hard). I‘m nearly a Woman, but it‘s ok. Its not a have to to have a big Penis. You can also fist your girlfriend.
I’m a little late/new to this. Many years ago I had a gay-bi black roommate in the military, I had no clue he was sexually attracted to white guys and those who had a small penis really turned him on. I’m straight currently, yet many years later here I am, looking for that black guy who is into white guys with a small penis, I’m totally cool with being his fetish and inside me is this other guy from long ago who was once touched for his first time by another guy so different from him, I want to feel that feeling I had so long ago, that butterfly feeling in the stomach and makes ones balls crawl up, him touching me, I’ve never felt again. I find myself on here wondering, curious, when I watch those porn videos of a white guy with a small penis like mine being the bottom to a hot black guy, I’m excited, turned on, wondering if that really could be me one day. I’m a bit different in that I wish my almost 5 inch x 5 inch was smaller, instead of doing the opposite looking for ways to make my small penis larger, I’ve looked and looked for ways to make mine smaller, I dont want a female conversion, just a much smaller package.