Watch This: Ladies Flirting with a Gay Guy
Photo Credits: Screengrab from Facebook
Hey, guys! Have you ever been asked out by a girl? If so, how did you handle it? Do you flirt back or do you tell them outright, “Sorry, we play for the same team if you know what I mean.”
Anyway, we are asking because it does happen in real life.
In fact, once in a while I would read this very same question online here and there. It’s been, of course, posted by gay men who suffered from the same dilemma. Things get awkward when the asking is done in public places like a bar (usually by a stranger) or while the two of them are hanging out with other friends. With the latter, the situation gets even more sticky because let’s face it, it is harder to say no or to be truthful to a friend than to a stranger who you will most probably never see again. But with a female friend though, now that’s a whole new level of things so I can see where the anxiety is coming from when such situations arise. Other gay men say their knee-jerk reaction is to stutter and make silly excuses that didn’t make sense while some go along because in the end, they have nothing to lose, or so they say.
What about you, though? How do you get out of the situation? Does it happen too often that being asked out by the ladies give you unimaginable levels of anxiety and enumerable nightmares the same way it does to this man in the video? Let’s fervently hope not.
Happy viewing!
sorry i’m gay…chuckle..chuckle…hehe
#himtoo
Wow I just got flash backs to women that have done that to me . They are no better than a straight man I just tell them I’m not interested
The thing I get from girls all the time is…”You’re too cute to be gay!”
Like, really?!
Gay men don’t want to date ugly guys either!
“No thank you” seems like all the response you could reasonably need to give.
If this was a male…
Doing the same things to a female…
It’d end up in court as assault.
A female…
Doing it to a male…
Regardless of whether that male was a wishy washy gay dork as this one,
It’s only entertaining if you are totally disconnected from what’s generally understood to be reasonable, normal, decent behavior of one person to another.
Anyone who finds this in any way humorous is a totally, insensitive doofus.
OMG that was the stupidest thing I have ever seen
I do not mind parody videos, but this video is very unrealistic.
Being hit on by either a man or woman would be flattering. I am not sure why someone who have anxiety, unless the pursuer will not take “No” for an answer. If so, then you are out of flirting territory & have entered stalker phase.
The response depends if you are openly gay or not. For guys who are out, honesty is the best policy. For closeted guys, they will have to come up w/ some type of excuse. The best response is to tell them you are already in a committed relationship.
For someone who is unattractive like me & never gets hit on, I would be flattered for someone to flirty w/ me (man or woman).
I’ve been hit on by women before, only a few times. I’ve told every one of them that I was gay to end the awkwardness and so they wouldn’t waste their time. I usually got asked a bunch of questions after that, like “When did you know when you were gay?” and all that. But I did have one girl say she wanted to try to turn me. I politely said I wasn’t interested and quickly left. I don’t have reactions like the guy in the video, but I don’t like women flirting with me or touching me in a flirtatious/sexual manner.
omg, that’s the dumbest thing I have ever seen
Israeli I think and him and hardware gorgeous. Never had THAT happen but if I had, I’d of asked BOTH back to my pad.
My comment didn’t pass the queen censors Huh? They’re both gorgeous. I’d go home with both of them.
Sorry, I appreciate the gesture, but I m not into you. You are like my sister. If she insisted I will do her. Bad boy
Yeah, cause gay guys are ALWAYS that hot.
OMG!! Thank you soooo much for this. I had a good laugh and I needed to see that.
Oh, yeah, I’m always flattered of course. I just tell them what’s REALLY up, though, one woman, said, “really, what a waste!” Especially, now that I’m older, too. They don’t have any effect on me, though, negatively or otherwise, I just love women, for the opposite reasons that “typically” hetero-men do; they’re minds. I just love to look at a really beautiful woman, though and that’s where it stops.
Yeah, like all gay men are THAT hot.
I find any kind of flirting, flattering. Take it as a compliment ! The video is sad. The perfect dichotomy. A very masculine looking man acting very feminine. Just tell her thank you and move on.
Personally, I have been hit on by men and women. If I am attracted to the female at all, I have had some fun. It’s really rare that I do, but fun is fun and I make it clear that I am 99.5% gay and only want fun from her. Otherwise, I say ” My boyfriend wouldn’t be interested”. That kinda tells ’em!
sex is sex, afterall