Fantasy: The Boyfriend Swap
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Ever fantasized about swapping your boyfriend or significant other with someone else’s? In the bedroom, I mean. Of course it doesn’t have to be a boyfriend, he can be a regular fuck buddy but the idea is to have sex with another couple in the same room and swap partners midway.
If this is one of your fantasies and you haven’t tried it yet but you plan to make it a reality in the near future, make sure you and your partner are both ready psychologically. Hot or not, when all is said and done you might end up regretting if the two of you aren’t prepared for it. Unwanted jealousies might crop up or insecurities even. Some men have issues with their penis size and seeing various guys’ cocks in different sizes in one room all at the same time just might allow long-buried insecurities to come to the surface. With having multiple partners comes a health risk and we cannot stress enough the importance of practicing safe sex. So if you and your partner/fuck buddy aren’t prepared, don’t go into this because it can either destroy relationships or it can bring with it unwanted feelings you may not be ready for.
With that said, do you love to share? Is this one of your sexual fantasies? Have you ever done the boyfriend swap before? How did it go for you? Share with us your thoughts, fantasies, and boyfriend swap stories in the comments section below.
life isn’t like a porn video…there will be consequences
Married bi guy here. There have been several times I dream about being a cuckold to my wife and a black lover and being made to clean up both afterwards. I’ve also dreamed about having my FWB guy bang my wife. Seems the only way I can keep a hard on while having sex with her. I even use a dildo in her after I’ve dumped a load in her and when she’s not looking I clean the cum off of it. Hope this fits the guidelines
I have a few fuck buds and I’ve gotten them together in a group which is fun. It’s fun watching a regular fb fuck another regular. Swapping lovers during the same session is a blast.
Interesting as always. But, seeing as I’ve done this before it’s less as exciting coming across somebody’s thought about doing this. Although it’s still a turn on.
Me and an ex-boyfriend of mine were pretty much “open” but his forever overprotecting me became jealousy against those that gave a little more attention to me than to him. Even after we broke up he was still like this. And I have to take some blame in that because I was still sort of active sexually with him from time to time – but more on the account that I’d go over to his place and we’d (mostly he would) invite over cute guys, get drunk and other things and yet again that jealousy of his would rear it’s ugly face.
All in all, I still like the idea. It’s all kinds of exciting and adventurous.
B.
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I used to be in an open relationship and had a hot fuck buddy who also was in an open relationship. One time we got all of us together and swapped bfs. I got to fuck his bf and he fucked mine. Was pretty damn hot!
Done it a few times in another relationship and it was usually awesome tho once when I was the bottom the fuck was good once his big thick broke my hole open he pounded my hole so rough my hole was sore but could fit two cocks for a week.
“… do you love to share?”
Gay men have had group sexual encounters for years. Monogamy is possible, but it’s rare. The question, then, is a bit odd.
Going into a sexual event with a mindset that you’re “sharing” someone you somehow “own” is a recipe for disaster. Why do you think he’s yours to “share”? You’re setting yourself up for jealousy and hurt. Doubtlessly later you’ll say you’re a “victim” of some sort or you suddenly “found myself” not liking it.
On the other hand, a mindset that all parties to the event are healthy sexual beings who enjoy group sex is more realistic. If you can’t wrap your mind around that concept, do not enter into group sex with someone you have feelings for.
My buds and I often meet as couples or small groups. The level of emotional attraction among us varies for each other. For certain, none of us is “sharing” a guy we somehow feel we own. We all know each other well and enjoy setting off each others’ hot buttons when it comes to sex.
If I had a good boyfriend, we click and we’re good lovers, to be honest I wouldn’t want him to see other people. it sounds hot as a fantasy, but in real life it would be too much to handle. There’s always other better looking guys so i’m afraid i might lose him.
Monogamy is a heteronormative concept that women needed when they relied on men for 100% of their support. Needing men NOT to go with another women was necessary because a divorced woman lost everything.
Straight, gay, or bisexual, study after study proves that men are NOT wired for monogamy. Men can be in love and have a sexual relationship, but they can also have sex as purely an escapist act without love being a part of it.
Gay sex is liberating for many men because to the sexual variety of partners.
So now we have gay activists who have fallen for making gay just like straight so as to be palatable to middle America.
They tell us we must be in love before having sex. #bullshit
They tell us we must be monogamous. #bullshit
My exboyfriend is my brother’s husband. My brother and I were both doing him at one point.
I see absolutely no impediment to trading partners.
Sex is meant to be enjoyed and not to have judgmental bigotry be put on it by the bought-and-paid-for suck boys to the heteronormative Liberal agenda.
I know this isn’t probably going to go over well with esp those who think this behavior is ok and no I’m not a prude .. I love sex with just one man … I don’t care what Amy think that this is ok . And yes I’ve had a 3 way and group . It’s aweful . I don’t understand this mentality at all . The “open relationship” . Those two words don’t go together .. and Group sex with a bf . REALLY?
—Or ANY OF IT !
What’s the point and really are you that selfish and such a pig that one guy isn’t enough . You ain’t the big swingin duck youvthink and seriously you can’t stay with one guy … plus It’s Way RIsky!!!
And do t act like it isn’t or people say if all are consenting involved . Really have gay men always been so selfish and stupid .
No one can claim it’s just sex . YOU ARE HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE ELSE — THATS NOT YOUR BF !!
And that’s ok ? I don’t care what any say that its hot and they’ve done it more than once . To me honestly , you’re just asking for hurt, heartache , Def relationship killer . And honestly what does it say about your so called relationship . Have gay men thought they are so different to engage in this kinda of crap to think they are above the hurt and insecurities and just that honestly you aren’t in the relationship you think if yes DING DING DING. WAIT FOR IT !
YOUR FUCKING SOMEONE ELSE and he’s not your bf !
Andagain it’s WAY RISKY .i can’t stress that enough
Uh Hello !
YOU’RE HAVING SEX WITH OTHER PEOPLE … and HIV IS ALIVE AND RUNNING RAMPANT AS WELL AS OTHER STDS .
And honestly are you really in love and really care for & with your bf /partner/hubby
-if you engage in this . Be honest clearly your thinking with your dick and you must all be one if you can do this to each other .. sorry if anyone don’t like it -I’m saying it I’m calling out every bit of this horrible behavior – threes a crowd and the “third-wheel analogy ” still applies don’t like it Too bad . You know this is the truth . People that do this in porn . It’s porn . This is real life -you aren’t as much in your relationship as you think how long does anyone last with their bf BOT TOO DAMN LONG AND YOU ALL KNOW IT . Two men together for king is a miracle esp longer than months to Esp years and yeah I might be a hopeless monogamous romantic . And it is so much better with just that one guy you love and care for .. Try to dispute me .. you know you can’t !