Fantasy: Are you a Cuckold?
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Do you love watching your fuck buddy or partner getting fucked by another man? Or maybe it is the other way around. You are the one being fucked by another guy while your man watches on the side?
We asked because there is this guy over at Reddit who is facing a huge dilemma and he’s asking readers for advice on what to do about it. He said he has a boyfriend who, as it turned out, is into cuckoldry. His boyfriend has recently expressed his wish to watch him get fucked by another guy, preferably by someone who is “better endowed” and “more masculine.”
Admittedly, the fetish is hot AF for a fantasy but there are plenty of things to consider before doing this. First of all, are you into it just as much as your fuck buddy is? Are the two of you on the same page? And most of all, will your relationship—even if it is a ‘sex buddy relationship’—or whatever it is that you two have survive this?
Cuckolding after all, is not like a threesome where the boyfriend, partner, or husband participates during sex. They don’t, they simply watch you and the other guy go at it. It is hot and kinky, true, but there’s a danger of giving rise to new kinds of emotions that were not there before like jealousy, trust issues, shame, hurt, misery and later on resentment. Sounds like a risky business; it is like asking for a whole load of trouble and for a one-time thing it simply is not worth it. Because long story short, this could ruin what the two of you have at the moment so why jeopardize that? But that’s just me, of course. Go ahead and do it but not before the two of you had talked this out and weighed the consequences thoroughly. As in everything in life, communication is key. Unless the two of you are sure you could walk away from this unscathed in which case that is an entirely different matter altogether.
What about you? What do you think about cuckoldry as a fetish guys? Have you ever done this before? Were you the one who watched or the one who got fucked? Is it as hot as it seems? How did that one end for you?
What advice would you give to this man? If it were you, would you grant your boyfriend or fuck buddy’s request? Share your thoughts and stories with us in the comments section below.
If a top watches his bottom take dick then the bottom has to be prepared to watch the top fuck some ass.
I do this almost weekly with my partner. He usually request that we do it actually. He really enjoys watching me take dick . I think it’s super hot also and it’s making my man happy. I also like watching him fuck other people. Most of our encounters usually turn into a 3 sum though. I have no complaints it’s fun and keeps both of our sex lives very active.
As always with man sex, all is good as long as the parties have discussed and are into whatever the option is or respect that the other party isn’t. 3-ways. Cuckolding. Bondage. Water Sports. Whatever.
If the guy here has “a huge dilemma”, he’s not into cuckolding and should say the honest obvious, “no thanks.” If his boyfriend can’t respect that, then he’s “a prize” of a boyfriend.
I find it exciting….knowing what it’s like to BE there….in his ass….watch someone else go there….
I’m a divorced bi male. Wanted to be a cuck during my marriage. Wanted to see my ex get nailed by a guy with a huge cock.
don’t have a man but i love being watched getting fucked. A group of guy watching and then taking turns fucking me as 1 holds my legs and 1 in my mouth.outside play is hotttttt to.To be naked sucking and being fucked.I know this may not be cuckold sorry
I and my partner like to go to an adult arcade or theater, leaving the door unlocked or out in the open in the theater and we suck and fuck as others watch us. I thinks it’s hot. Both of us agree we have an open relationship, and we don’t hide our having sex from others. I like being watched. Also sometimes either of us fuck and suck others that are in there with us as I or he watches. I see my partner/lover on a regular basis and we do all kinds of other things together that are not sexual as well. Does that make me a cockold?
I don’t believe ‘cuckold’ is the correct term for this situation. a cuckold is someone who has been cheated on without his knowledge or approval. This is a 3way with one partner wanting to get off by being a voyeur. I totally understand and think it can be hot.
cuckold fantasy is not only when you don’t know. The term is used for example when a married man is watching his wife getting fucked by other guys in front of him
If you are in a committed serious relationship then in my experience it let to trust issues, heartbreak & finally a break up. It can & has worked for me with fuck buddies or friends with benefits.
Watching is hot
Wow! Again perfect timing on the subject matter. Great questions. Keep um cumming.
I discussed with my BF of a year (very serious, very quickly) if he would be into this. He didn’t take too much time to say FUCK YES!!! I thought you’d never ask. I was actually asking just to see where his head was at. Like some have said, we made a plan and set limits. I didn’t think much of it after all it was just another dick. Then we decided who was gonna take that dick. He won? (I guess) as I am just learning to bottom. We are very vers together but we’re both tops when we met. We found a guy whe both agreed on and as soon as he saw my BF’s pic (SMOKIN HOT Latino, ripped body 8.5″uc) he couldn’t respond fast enough. He met us at a hotel and we all started kissing, jerking, sucking, getting face fucked etc. we decided last minute to leave it up to the guy joining us whom he wanted to fuck (safe only). Well I handled the blow to my ego as I was not chosen. But my BF said I’m
A great bottom with not much experience. I began to fuck my BF just like we always do. It was so hot watching him suck the other guy off as I drove him deep. It he other guy wanted in!!! So I switched. I was Geting blown and he was standing behind him ready to go. As he placed his head in my BF’s ass and began to tip fuck him something unexpectedly and VERY QUICKLY changed in me. He slid into my BF ball deep. My BF took my cock down his throat. The ole’
Spit roast. As he began to fuck him my cock got very limp. He began to fuck faster. Right away my BF knew something was not right with me. We were talking with our eyes. He could tell I was not happy any more. I neve go soft until we fall asleep. I didn’t not like the fact he was being fucked by another guy. I felt like my heart was being ripped out. “That was my ass!!!” No one had the right to be in ther but me. I know we agreed but the heart took over the brain. My BF stood up and got on his knees to blow me and I was done. Couldn’t focus. Our guest quickly realized what was happening. He was SO COOL!!!! He stopped took off the condom and said,”he guys I had a lot of fun but I can tell you guys have something to discuss. I’m glad you gave it a shot and if you ever want to do it again hit me up. Hope we are cool.” I never hugged anyone so tight as I whispered in his ear,”thank you so much.” He got dressed and left. We felt bad but I felt like shit for letting the guy down. My BF reassured me it was ok. I was so cool with everything right up to the point he slid into him. It was so unexpected. I’m not one to be of a jealous nature. But it happened. He asked me how I’d feel about bottoming for another guy. The Jury is still out.
I am a versatile man, with a (normally) bottom only partner, in an open relationship. In the 6 years we have been together he has fucked me 5 times, 3 of those were after watching me get fucked by another man. Watching, got him turned on enough, to plow my ass. It did make me a little uncomfortable having him watch, but loved how he pounded my ass. Woof!
you’re using the term incorrectly. if there’s consent and knowledge of the act, it’s not cuckolding.
personally, I’ve been betrayed enough that I don’t fetishize it.
My first partner and I soiled start out as a threesome and it would end up that I would sit back and watch. He would even have ex with other guys and video them for me later. I still have those videos and watch them every so often.
My second partner was much more endowed and I wasn’t able to handle him and I always wanted to see him in action with someone else but we never were able to make it happen.
It can be hot and bring couples together closer and it can tear them apart. Much consideration has to be done before this is done.
I love been watched. Had the pleasure of it happening many times with more than one guy watching. Extremely exciting for me. Even so when i was married, loved watching the now ex getting it..
According to the Merriam-Webster’s Collegiate Dictionary, a “cuckold” is “a man whose wife is unfaithful”, i.e. she is having sex with another man WITHOUT the husband’s knowing. Based on that definition, I made a few guys cuckold by having sex with their significant partners without their knowing:
1. In the first half of the 1990s, I made a transgender man MASSIVELY cuckold by having sex with his/her husband at a bath house in Manhattan, NY. The husband was very affectionate and preferred to fuck au naturel while making sure his long, slim, and hard dick reached deep into my innards. Although the transgender and his/her husband would later become well-known and famous, the transgender NEVER knew about the cheating and its consequences until just a few months ago. LOL.
2. Around 2004-2005, I made this arrogant, upstart Jamaican jerk a cuckold by having sex with his “significant” partner at the former “Red Door” sex party in Manhattan, New York. The “significant” partner, a good friend from Middle School and High School that I had not seen since after High School, fucked me passionately and made me come without having to touch my dick. Years later, the Rasta jerk bought wedding rings to legalize his relationship in anticipation of the upcoming legalization of gay marriage in his state. Well, my friend passed away suddenly in August 2011, just a few months before that legalization. LOL.
The universes have a way to take care of matters.
My boyfriend likes to watch me get fucked but our relationship has turned into a more Dom sub type of thing. We made a deal that I would get fucked when he wanted whenever he wants it and honestly its the best thing even when I’m not 100% into I still have to get fucked if he says so. Happened in the early morning the other day…I was half asleep my guy had someone over and he woke me up bent me over and I kept saying no but he just popperd me up and said I didn’t have a choice I felt like just a sex toy being used…. is there a specific name for this type of thing? and is anyone else doing something like this?
All my girlfriends and first wife fucked other guys behind my back, but eventually flaunted it. I thought it was cool they were so sexual. It turned me on. Guys pursued each of them. I acted big, all the guys wanted what I had. Funny thing is all of them eventually left me for guys with huge cocks. We all still live in the same town. When I see them they still flaunt it. My current wife knows everything and has now started dating too. I’m not sure what it is they see in me that I don’t know? -FH