Gay Stuff : Why Do You Send Dick Pics?
At what point do you send dick pics and naked selfies? A month after regularly chatting or texting with the guy and you want to change the dynamics between the two of you? Or right after you guys exchanged hellos? Or is it when you two are already in a relationship?
Most importantly, why do you send dick pics?
We asked because a recent study conducted by Singles in America revealed that 47 percent of millennial men had admitted to sending dick pics. The result is an echo of an earlier study conducted by Mcafee in 2014 titled Love, Relationships & Technology wherein findings revealed that men in general, regardless of age, are the ones who are more likely to practice this habit of sending and receiving racy content at 61 percent. The study further revealed that males aged 18 to 24 were the ones who tend to receive sexual content the most at 70 percent.
Almost 50 percent of the respondents on the other hand, confessed to sharing or receiving intimate content, 16 percent of whom have sent it to total strangers. Lastly, a good fifty percent of those who received naked pictures said they kept it in their mobile device.
The reasons for sending vary but some guys said that a dick pic is imperative if you wanted to get laid and that the only thing better than a dick pic is an asshole pic.
How about you? Do you agree with them? Does sending a dick pic to a potential hookup or partner make sex hotter?
This practice however is a scandal waiting to happen hence it is best to think twice before clicking that send button. Don’t save those intimate pictures on your phone either but if you can’t help it, at least keep your device password protected.
So, why do you send dick pics? How did it turn out for you? At what point do you send one and is it really a hookup requirement like others had said? Share with us your stories and thoughts in the comments section below.
“….only thing better than a dick pic is an asshole pic.” Seriously? Are you kidding me? Asshole pics have to be one of the grossest things. Disgusting. Huge turn off. No one needs to see that.
DM – I could not agree more! Nasty!
Giant turnoff. I’m happy when after a while I become intimate with a bud’s shit hole, but when a guy flames up his Holland Tunnel first and foremost … no thank you.
My question is, does your family know you send or post pictures of your dick? I do not understand how shallow you can be by doing that. I see a lot of profiles of members dicks as their primary on here and it’s a big turn off for me. To me I’m thinking my god how many tricks that this whore has done and what kind of disease he might have. I think it’s better if you make it a private picture. When someone views my profile and I see that their primary pic is a dick pic, I block them right away. I don’t want to chat at someone who really has a screw loose of doing that.
I have a dick pic as my primary because I feel my face pic s/b private. I don’t want family/friends/coworkers to know I’m on a sex site. I’m proud to be gay, but I’m not going to tell everybody what sites I visit on the computer. Just like I don’t want to know their privacy.
I completely concur with you Southernboisb. My profile is composed like yours, for all the same privacy reasons.
You could always use a torso shot as your primary. It doesn’t have to show your face or your dick. I think that’s the fallacy of thinking, that it must be one or the other. I understand the privacy issue, but you can still be sexy without showing your dick right off the bat.
Send within the first 100 messages.
I don’t send them for multiple reasons. Sure, I might enjoy seeing one from a guy who wants to hook up. But to demand photos from me is rude, selfish, and stupid.
I offer a dick pic when someone asks for it. I am very proud of my penis. It is a beautiful cocoa color, smells wonderful and is shaped and sized for fantastic blowjobs. I am told all the time it is perfect – not too big or too small. I do wish I were 9 or 10 inches. If I were packing a huge dick like many guys in A4A I would be showing it off a lot more.. If I had a hot body I would post shirtless pics, too. I haven’t put in the work so I keep it covered up.
I would love that cocoa color and it wouldn’t matter to me what size it was. Had a buddy like that for awhile and I wish he was still around. It’s not that the cocoa color tasted any different than usual, it is hard to explain, but just have a fetish for them and there are not many around.
butt pics are hot, asshole pics are not. as far as dick pics are concerned, one does like to know what one is getting oneself into.
i dont send dick pic’s. cuz i dont want to be treated like a piece of meat.
dic pic senders are pretty much contained as 1. desperate 2, whore 3. nothing else better to offer 4. just a loser . grow up and move on, there is much more to a guy( I would hope) or just plain pathetic!
I don’t mind sending m or receiving dick pics or ass pics. Ass hole pics are kind of gross even tho I’m a top. Although, seeing a dude with a dildo or finger up his ass is sexy. I prefer to receive a dick pic because even tho I’m a bottom, if someone isn’t packing at least 6″ I won’t hook up nor try to build a relationship with them. I send dick pics for the same reason ok the other side. Being a top, I don’t want to get my hopes up if the bottom I meet wants 7+ inches. It just a wage of everyone’s time. Oh and I usually send once we start taking about sexual positions or acts.
it’s just good marketing. if you’re looking to get laid, advertise what you’ve got to offer. it’s efficient.
if you’re looking for an ongoing relationship, show pictures of yourself rescuing puppies.
if a man is scandalized or traumatized by the sight of another man’s naughtybits, that’s an indication he’s not the guy for me.
@EINATHENS
Perfect response! It seems that this topic was written from a puritanical WOMAN’s point of view.
The sexual revolution of the 1960’s and 1970’s was a large scale social experiment for which, as it turned out, puritanical men and women and their sidekicks were not ready. They went to the ULTIMATE length to stop it. Maybe they will be ready a thousand years from now. In the meantime guys (or girls), enjoy your embroidery and the DOLDRUMS!
Im a total top. I never send dick pics out for a simple reason: There are too many collectors who are just saying hello online, in hopes of adding to their porn collection. I readily send my face pic but that is where it ends. I tell them that my stats are real and my cock size is average. But if they want to see my junk, it has to be in person. MANY guys turn away and that suits me fine.
I’ll send if they send or I wanna see what they have but I want them to know what they’re getting into first as I want to know what I’m getting into as well.
I like to view a nice cock but mostly like it to be a surprise as I have no problem if it is small or big as have had fun with em big or small. As for sending Dick pics my boy toy and me do it regularly
Dude better be cool though, if he’s a hot nice guy, it doesn’t hurt to see a little, but if he’s a jerk, sorry honey, you might have that d, pretty face and a hot fit body, but even though this is a hook up site, I still have standards.
For me personally a major turn off are those ultra secretive dl guys that only shows the d, but no face. I’m a face type of guy, I’d like to know how my potential hook up look like before an actual meet. It’s bad enough that some guys look nothing like the picture when you meet them face to face, but no pictures at all, sorry not sorry.
Well said. Thanks for being so intelligent with your comment.
I’m not particularly turned on by cock pictures. We all know what a cock looks like, either cut or uncut. Yes, some are big, some small, I say so what. I’m more turned on by the person who would have interest in me having a fun time together, and it doesn’t even have to be just sex. There is so much more to being gay or bi. Friendship, love, doing things, having common interests, and of course sex. It’s not even a big issue if your white, black, Hispanic, age, or what ever nationality. It’s the bonding of 2 adults that enjoy each others company, friendship, love, and yes sex. A dick picture doesn’t even tell me much about him.