Hot or Not : Erotic Massage
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A relaxing oil massage is always good! How about an erotic massage? Have you ever experienced a massage therapy session that ended up in sex? Was it planned or it simply ended up like that because of the connection between you and the masseur?
It happened to me few years ago. I contacted this masseur for a deep tissue massage. He came to my place, massaged me for a good 45 minutes but the session however soon escalated into something more sexual as he started to rim me and finger my ass. I was a bit surprised at first but you know… If someone licks your ass, how can you stop him? It felt too good and he was kinda cute and fit, so I was rock hard. Of course I didn’t pay that guy at the end as it became more like a hookup than a massage.
Who had a similar experience? Want to share your story? Maybe you fantasized about it? Or maybe some of you would totally stop a masseur if he starts touching your private parts? Are we gay guys more permissive? Comment below!
They can be very hot or they can be bad. It all depends on the person giving or getting the massage.
True, it’s always a gamble!
Licensed massage therapists spend hundreds of hours and incur thousands of dollars in student loan debt to become massage therapists. They then have to pay for licensing tests and for licenses. They then have to pay for continuing education to maintain their license. Anyone who degrades this healthcare profession by becoming a prostitute should be fined and jailed. And u are glorifying prostitution by posing this question. This is despicable.
seth, who said anything about money here?
“I contacted this masseur for a deep tissue massage. He came to my place, massaged me for a good 45 minutes…” So he came over with the understanding he would massage you for free? Payment is implied since we don’t live in a society where massages are free. Be honest about it Dave.
Matt, no, his rate was clearly 70$, but we didn’t even discussed price after the sex part. For both of us it was clear, we are educated adults.
Maybe you should rewrite this blog and include details to show you didn’t pay for sex. Poor writing probably led a lot of people to assume you hired a prostitute and refuse to be honest about it. People can pay for sex all they want but shouldn’t pretend it was otherwise. After all many of us are “educated adults”.
Matt I dont think I need to justify anything to anyone. Especially not on a blog.
And really who does prostution really hurt as long as everyone is being safe?
And it’s clear to us that he was a prostitute and you pandered. Both of which are crimes. Maybe you should just say you paid for a whore who has sex with hundreds of men, who slso massaged u. A ho is a ho.
Yes Seth, I’m a slut whore and I make illegal stuff. 🙂
This only happens because someone invites someone into their living space without a full understanding of what is going to happen. “I contracted” for sure did not include a detailed verbal or written contract about what was going to be covered and not covered under what fee schedule. Further for sure is that the masseur would not have placed his tongue anywhere without having been lead to believe that doing so was wanted and acceptable. In this case, for the receiver the experience was positive. Had the masseur chosen to do anything kinky, or had tied up the receiver and robbed him, the receiver would have claimed himself “the helpless, abused victim”.
ahaha you are funny Hunter. Once again the word i wrote is “contacted” no R in there…
And yes the idea was to get a massage, I love massages. That masseur had an ad in a health/beauty magazine in Montreal. I emailed him, he came, but then he liked me I guess, so we ended up hooking up. End of the story.
“who said anything about money here?”
“I contracted” makes it clear.
“contacted” Hunter “contacted”. I was gonna pay him yes, that was the idea at first…until….
R or no R , “masseur” means “ma$$eur”.
masseur in french, means masseur. And I’m french Canadian
With the amount of money they make im sure they are doing fine. At least the ones i know. And they’re in the worst paying state. Your slut shaming rant is invalid here.
I’m sure he didn’t massage you for 45minutes for free
Seth, he did, but couldn’t help but start to lick my ass… too bad for him, he lost the money. My ass was his pay 😛
You have an issue with paying for sex, because obviously you’re too good for that, but you’re not too good to receive compensation yourself for sex?
Your ass was his payment, so that is a form of prostitution.
right, I’m a prostitute whore. Next!
I’m not Seth, but I will respond for him. Even though you likely won’t approve this comment, as was the case with my last comment.
You didn’t mention money because you technically can’t. Anybody with half a brain knows compensation is implied.
Otherwise, what would be so erotic and fantastic about a free massage from a gay man that leads to sexual contact? Wouldn’t the ultimate and inevitable sex be the purpose of the encounter, if that were the case? And if that were the case, wouldn’t the lacking element of surprise take away from the eroticism of the experience?
Don’t play dumb. It makes you look more dumb.
Cory thanks for your wonderful comment, I always love to read nice messages like yours, always very uplifting.
So to answer your comment, compensation was not implied. Actually it was at first, for the massage, but since it escalated into something else, it wasn’t. Again, I dont pay for sex, it’s not something I personally would be able to do and to be honest I don’t really need to. I usually block users who ask me to pay me to suck my dick, or watch me fuck or fuck me so, not my thing to pay for it either. I rather jerk off watching straight porn 🙂
Anything else?
How did this escalate from a happy ending massage, mutually consented, to “prostitution” as you eloquently put it?
Says a lot about how you see life…..
dear MD, I don’t pay for sex. Thank you.
You said you contacted a “masseur”. That implies it was a professional.
yeah u are right, the idea was to pay him for the massage, but not pay him after he eats my ass…
He didn’t even asked me after…
Wow, what a real angry person. His post talked about a “massuer”, not a cmt. Besides this is an effort for the community to bond over fantasy, since you’re a clear example why the gay community can never get along.
My thought exactly. It is also a gay hookup site’s blog. Not Cinderella’s blog.
I agree with Seth, as a LMT we can lose our license and job for engaging in inappropriate behavior, on top of being fined, you can also be prosecuted as a sex offender. There really is a lot at stake for the therapist if they engage with the wrong client. If you are paying money for a professional massage then that’s how it should stay-professional. Thank you Seth for defending this noble profession:-)
But I would not report the masseur, since I was consentant for the sex part. I agree that it is a noble profession, some masseurs are very talented.
Hi Dave, I don’t mean to keep calling you out, but whether or not there was an exchange of money or if you consented to it or not, what I’m trying to get across is if this person was advertising as a professional, then he should not have crossed that boundary.
I will admit, I have hooked up with a few guys where I have used my massage skills on them, but I didn’t advertise to them and we were meeting up for a good time. Erotic massage is hot and sensual and I love it, as long as it is done between friends/fwb/fb/ lovers, not professionals and clients.
Although Dave, I have seen your pictures, and I understand why the guy couldn’t resist;-)
ML maybe you are right, but I think that if I’m ok with it, it’s fine. If I wouldn’t be consentant, I would have tell him.
If one of my sessions comes to the point of sex, then I don’t charge for it, at that point it’s no longer what was asked for and nulls out the previous agreement.
RSDC thank you. Exactly what happened to my masseur. I still see him by the way, he is a great masseur.
I love massages whether erotic or not. But a nice warm oil sensual massage and oral after a hard workout is better than sex for me. Massage my chest while giving me head or massaging my back n licking my ass melts me like butter.
Happened to me a few weeks ago. After a full masssage, my guy started leaning over my head whilst massaging my back and reaching farther down to massage my buttocks resulting in his cock on the side of my face. Then moved around between my feet and massaged my lower legs, thighs and buttocks. He then removed his shorts and proceeded to kneel on the edge of the table and slide his oiled cock between my butt cheeks. He then asked me to turn over and moved up by my head and massaged my shoulders and specs. Then slipped his hands up and down my abdomen and gradually started stroking my cock. Then he knelt over me with his cock and balls in my face. We ended up 69ing, and he drank my whole load, every last drop and licked it clean.
I definitely plan to schedule again.
I think it is an absolutely wonderful thing. I enjoy receiving massages and try to treat myself at least monthly. Some have ventured to what would be considered the sexual side. I actually prefer that compared to the ones I receive where the masseur makes it completely obvious they will not touch your personal area.
I fucking hate how far back the sex industry has been set by this trend. People lie to themselves saying they don’t pay for sex, but then they hop on a4a and hire a masseur specifically so they can fuck him and feel better about it bc he wasn’t technically an escort.
Guys, gay masseurs are sex workers. If you fuck a masseur, you’ve just hired and used a rebranded escort.
If you want a fuck, why not hire an escort who can also give a massage? Sure, maybe they aren’t trained, but hey – there are plenty of masseurs who lie about their experience, and plenty of licensed masseurs who give shit massages.
The answer is that you’re cheap and entitled. That’s why not. These guys, myself included, are not sucking and fucking out of the kindness of their heart. They do it because of other workers who have poor business sense, and out of a need to remain competitive against other guys who are giving the good for the price of a rub down.
And remember, you get what you pay for. Sure, it’s less expensive, but at what cost?
I’ve done as many as 10 massages in a day. And when people ask me some ignorant question like “so are you just in town visiting friends?”, as if this is some cute hobby I do on the weekends, I always just say yes. Because they are idiots and they can’t handle reality.
Anyway, what I’m getting at is you’re all assholes and the massage for sex model is a terrible idea. It’s conservative, it’s ignorant, it’s anything but good for the sex industry (which gay massage is certainly a part of, whether you’re getting a quick handy or a full deep dicking).
I love giving my partner a sensual massage, usually I like to see how far the session goes as if a more sexual massage takes place. I am not a license massuse but I have been told my hands are magical and I should consider it as a profession. I must admit I love a man’s body and it would be hard not to get turned on. I like using baby oil.
My favorite fantasy and luckily I have lived it out a few times. Love to go to a strangers house for a massage, get naked and lie face down on the bed. Not know just how far he will try to take the massage and what/where he will touch next definitely adds to the exxxcitement.
I will not pay someone for anything.
I have had several erotic massages and just love them….you get a really good massage and then a release….its the best ever….
I love touching and massaging a man’s body, after sex, before, or without! I can think of little that is so satisfying. Working a guys ass or cock with oil just adds so much pleasure to the process.
As a masseuse those happen quite often with me, but differently, they usually end up putting my co*k in there mouth. Or if I find them attractive, I find the temptation to suck there [email protected]$k, or rim there a$$. Which ends up with one of us getting Fucked!
Sensual Massage can be very exciting. There is a lot to be said about the sense of Touch. The Human Body is an incredible thing, and when it’s used in interesting ways, good things can happen. For me when I give a Man a Massage, I want him to feel completely taken care of, so relax and enjoy the experience. When I recieve a Massage I just let myself go, so I can go into state of complete relaxation.
Nothing relaxes the body better then a good massage given by capable hands,and nothing relaxes and prepares the body for all sorts of things..it’s the ultimate release!
I would love a massage from a black man thats hot for sure 🙂
Back in the early 90’s I was managing a small not-for-profit company in Atlanta and under a lot of stress to keep it going. I found an ad for a full body massage by a hot guy in an alternative newspaper. (This was before the internet exploded.) I was surprised when he got totally naked and even more surprised when he got on the table and sat on my rump to rub my back and shoulders, his big dick and balls pressing into the small of my back. Needless to say he made sure I got off. It turned out that without knowing it I had booked an erotic massage with porn actor Paul Bane. Who by the way was the nicest man and gave me some of the best advice I ever received. He asked what I did and said unless my company Coke-Cola or AT&T it wasn’t worth all the tension it caused me. He was right. I left that company and it was the best decision I’d ever made… all thanks to an erotic massage. 🙂
I absolutely enjoy a sensual massage….i live in Johannesburg, South Africa, and unfortunately the only time I’ve gone for a sensual massage was last year when the gentleman assumed i wanted to have sex. He was xute, fit, masculine and his hands were quite good….for all the first 15 minutes until he triwd penetrating me, which BTW, I probanly would’ve consented to had his advert been honest. That day i wanted a massage, not to be ass destroyed by a 24cm thick West african schlong.
Anyway, I’d like to experience it in future, oit of cboice, with full prior knowledge.
There’s nothing good like a good massage after workout or a stressful day. A good complement to spice your relationship and bring focus to your mind.
Went for massage while on vacation and that’s all I expecting. Well a hour and half later I had my first gay / bi experience and lost my virginity . It was GREAT and I have been hooked ever since!
My very first ever m2m play started from a mutual massage between 2 friends.
It was pretty much the same, he slowly kept making contact with my ass and eventually began to rim me and he had me after that, I was so turned on and ready to go that no matter how scared I was I just couldn’t find the strength to say no or tell him to stop, thank god he was not hung. Been a bottom ever since. So yes I would let it happen again but as it was said earlier on here, the unexpected surprise made it so hot I don’t think I would enjoy it as much if it were planned
I had a Therapeutic Massage from an oriental gentleman as he was giving me a deep tissue massage I noticed that he had a hard-on and he was rubbing his penis against my leg to make it a long story short when I was done and got off the table he was standing there and I will pray that his hard-on and smiled and I had him a couple of other times one time I left my shirt behind when he ran out and to give it to me in my vehicle he handed me his card with a cell phone number on it and yes as your cliché goes I did have a happy ending
I was visiting NYC for 2 weeks last summer and by the second week of couch surfing and lugging my bag around I was sore af – so I got on the pro section of a4a and found someone who was reasonably priced who would work out my shoulders and legs for an hour. This was my first time so I didn’t know what to expect – I was 27and am a bit of a frat jock – the guy was a daddy type which I’m totally into. He had me shower and told me to put on whatever I was comfortable with. I started out in my underwear and asked what he would be wearing, and was surprised he asked me what I would prefer. ‘Do you ever massage nude’ I asked, and started sporting an instant chub when he immediately started to undress and I saw his chubby daddy dick. It wasn’t more than 10 minutes into the massage I turned my head on my side to see his fluffed cock inches from my face- I couldn’t help myself and I stuck out my tongue – he noticed this and brought it up to my mouth and continued to massage while I played with the head of his cock. Before long I was sliding down my underwear to expose my ass and he was rubbing his knuckles along my hole. I was pre cumming hard when he finally mounted and fucked me. I asked him if that was normally part of the rate and he said that was his ‘midnight special’ – I was getting a late night massage – anyways, the experience was so hot, and massage was great too. Everyone should try it.
Am I the only one who understands what Dave is saying he didn’t pay any compensation so therefore it wasn’t prostitution in the beginning he was supposed to pay for a massage but since it was more than a massage he didn’t pay
thanks John!
Don’t worry, same haters for years, I’m used to their comments!
It all depends , but ur story turned me on heh heh
I hadn’t had a massage for quite a few years when I contacted a guy in the A4A pro section last year. My desk job and uneven runnunig schedule made for sore shoulders and tight glutes, so needed a really strong guy that wouldn’t get tired or bored trying to get my muscles to relax. Don’t mind getting dick in the process of having a massage, but that wasn’t my main intent. The guy I found (named Dave!) is really masculine, totally professional and very nice. His ad said touching was okay so I knew he probably gave happy endings and my first two visits to his spotless Manhaatan apt. did not disappoint. He really knew how to give the intense rubdown and deep tissue work I needed, finishing with the most expert hand jobs I’ve ever had. For my third visit I booked him for 90 minutes so I would have plenty of time to enjoy his thick cock. In my second session he had fingered my asshole so I made sure I arrived clean back there. He was giving me the greatest massage ever and moved to my legs and glutes a second time after working out my shoulder and neck tension. He kept spreading my legs and running his fingers over my asshole to the point that it felt like I was being rimmed by a tongue! He then began to use his very hard cock to rub my ass while he simultaneously massaged my hamstrings. Before I knew it, his well-oiled cock was penetrating my ass with the most painless thrusting I’ve ever experienced. I knew my time was almost up, so after what seemed like 10 minutes of ecstasy in my ass, I asked him to stop and I turned around and sucked on his massively thick tool and was astounded that such a thick cock had been in me. Can’t wait until I can afford another session with Dave!
my massage was actually a hook up he was a professional massager. he had me strip and lay face down on a narrow table he pulled my cock between my leg so i didn’t lay on it. lights off only sented candles . he ask me to keep my eyes closed as i felt warm oil on my upper back. he stood at my head his crouch just inches away. rubbibing my arm pit i peaked he too was naked massive uncut cock with low hanging balls. his finger tip just brush my erect nipples my body tingled he knew just how how great i was feeling. i took another peak he had become asousded for his cock pointed upward.. now at my lower back n legs avoiding my butt . the closer he got to my ass the harder i was ..i must have been dripping precum. he had me turn over with my eyes closes i could hear my hard cock slap my belly again my pits and nipples areolas only then inner tights finally my cock edggeing me then over on my belly ass play began . a short fingering then a vibrating thin dlldo finally mounted me bare then added the dildo to the party. i had shot my load by the time he was ball deep finally i stood on the floor laying over the table his tender thrusting be came wild deep hard poundings pinching my nipples increasing his tempo i tight my my hole around his throbbing thick cock out came the dildo i hear i am going to cum , inside me i said
3 times faster his cock went ……………………….limp inside me
We never considered in having this option as a erotic massage listed within our directory. I believe that it can be a big ‘turn off’ in experiencing cold hands during a massage, especially an erotic massage.
Although the men here will go crazy at this, a “masseur” is really a prostitute when the massage is done in the nude and when sex “just happens”. Paying for a massage is legal. Paying for sex isn’t. Thus, prostitutes advertise as “masseurs”. They come to the guy’s place, rub his back a little, and then fuck his lights out. I think it should be OK to charge for sex. Why not?
Yes ,we do ha s to go through lots of time and money go be licensed and educated…i don’t consider myself a sex worker but I’d be outright lieing that happy endings haven’t happened …
It depends on the client ,the energy on what happens …every man I have ever massaged has turned over with major wood …deoending again on energy, relationship with person …but if it feels good to me and them I enjoy finishing them off with either oiled stroking or some fine head …and if that’s bad then so be it …never had an issue or complaint …its always after the massage..
oh god, yes….love to have my LMT massage ALL parts of me….gets me off in the long run!