Gay Stuff : Would You Date a Guy Who Does Drag?

There’s nothing appealing to me about a man trying to dress as a woman whether it’s once a month, weekly or other. It’s very much unappealing and I’ve been around more than enough drag performers to know. To answer your questions about orientation and sexual role: I’m gay and if I were bisexual or heterosexual (straight implies if you aren’t heterosexual then you’re crooked or broken) it would still be unappealing. Second, for me it has nothing to do with being top/versatile/bottom or anywhere in between so the answer to that question is unimportant.

All drag queens are bottoms. No thanks.

Simple… NO-WAY!

I would date a drag queen. I am a gay male who also does drag myself. The notion that drag queens have a desire to be a woman is bs. I live my life as a man, as a man i am not feminine, and i only get in drag when i am being PAID to do so (very good money too). My motto to those who wont date me because i do drag is “dont hate my hustle”. Doing drag as a source of income is my thing. Vers in every sense of the word here so no, all drag queens are not bottoms.

I would NEVER date, fuck, or be friends with anyone who does drag. In my unfortunate experiences with the two I have met. They were TOXIC, DISHONEST, DISLOYAL, EGOCENTRIC, RACIST, DRUG ADDICTS! No thanks!

Most of my drag queen friends that i had sex with are tops. Something about proving what a man they are. Either way i have fun with them for the sex not whether they are dressed in drag or as a gay male. I have been fucked by and fucked many a drag queen.

I have dated a drag queen; technically, he was a female impersonator because he impersonated a famous female country singer. But he only performed at drag shows as a hobby. I also had a close friend who was deeply involved in drag and held a high title in the drag pageant circuit. From them, I learned a lot about drag queens and the drag world – enough to know that I would never again date a guy who does drag. Although I’m 100% gay and masculine, it has nothing to do with being attracted to men or women.

Out of drag, a guy can be likable, mild-mannered and excellent company; put him in a gown and he’ll become a self-absorbed, drama-stirring, bitchy pain-in-the kazoo who expects everyone around to cater to her every whim (there’s a reason they’re called “queens”). These traits might just be part of the character they play, but they spill over into life off the stage and can be unpleasant to live with.

Things I learned backstage: 1. There’s a strict set of rules that drag queens’ male escorts must follow. 2. Drag queens are the worst thieves. 3. They’re two-faced and love to hate each other. 4. As a group, they’re hung bigger than the average man.

Married closet bottom here, very very few people know that I am bi sexual, I have heard it all though about you’re either straight or gay and there is no in between

Now if a good looking woman walks in front of me and a good looking guy walks by at the same time, I always watch the woman.
I have been to drag shows and found it very entertaining and have even “hooked up” with 3 of them ( at different times) and I have been friends with a few and they are all very over the top, make up put on with a paint brush, over acting the female part, just not really someone I would ever date.
However 1 of the 3 that I ever “hooked up” with caught me totally off gaurd, he/she was sitting at the bar and I had No clue she wad in drag.
She was beautiful, funny, charming and had me ready to see where things might go. Well long story shortened down a bit. In drag you wouldn’t know she had a huge cock and when dressed in every day clothes wow, very masculine straight act man that you would Never suspect of him even being bi. We dated for almost 6 months and I was falling hard for him/her but I got orders to go to Germany and we just drooped off after a few months of talking on the phone and writing letters, yes this was back in the 80’s before cell phones and texting and even emails.
So if I were to date another 1, it would have to be that unicorn that no one is ever able to find.

Im kind of new to this .But I’ve seen some very good looking drags that wouldn’t mind dating every now and then. You see I’m a bi courios kind of guy who wouldn’t mind trying something new.
But thats just me

There are drag queens and there drag queens! The old school variety were never really passable as women. They were illusionists, and often our gay clowns in the sense of dressing up, performing and being comedians. Today passable seems to be the mark they look for.

I’ve often wondered about the ageing gay man. When ageing means a guy is not getting attention sexually, does it mean or could it mean a revival of the old school drag queen? They could be “old women,” still popular in the circuit, comedians, etc. and still be a part of the culture that shuns them for being older men. Just wondering.

Drags are a no-no for me. I just find I am prejudiced. Weirdest thing is reasons put forward in previous comments are the same reasons usually put forward when effeminate guys (of which I am one) are being prejudiced

Hey Dave, are posts/entries still welcome? Kindly post your email so I can get one through to you.

I find this topic amusing. What I find more amusing the comments. Primarily those who are opposed to the dating of DQs. Usually their responses have many errors to them. A large percentage of DQs are tops and larger number are also big dick tops at that, so in response to “Gay Tony” you should probably check your facts before making base assumptions.

Most are quite manly outside of their drag personas. Are they perceived as somewhat bitchy ladies in pumps yes, but again thats a turn up by person. Not all DQs have that bitchy persona, some are sweet as pie. Don’t base your ill conceived notions off what you hear others blurt out about them, or what you see on television. Expand your horizons and spend time around them. You may learn a thing or two.

Now my fond appreciation for DQs come from the historical aspect of them. Knowing how much of an integral role they played in the rights movement for gays. So in my book DQs rock. So to bash a DQ solely because of your own insecurities as a homosexual you might want to reevaluate your personal life to find out and figure out where you lack as a man. These notions that males have, especially GAY males have are always humorous.

The standardized “role” a man should play. It’s very amusing. Let’s look at the facts. You’re gay,one. You’re already perceived of as being less than by ignorant mainstream society, two. So why are you trying to fit into their realm of living. You’re two men at the end of the day, whether ones fem or “masc”. This foolishness that’s come about within the community between fem/masc types is rather divisive and crass. It’s always funny to read comments about what a man should be like or what a man should do.

When in actuality a lot of supposed “straight acting, masc, discrete” types are the complete opposite of the supposed archetype of what a man is. A lot of these types generally suffer from delusion that they’re better than the softer counterparts. A lot these types have deep seated insecurities in self that they’re still battling and yet to have understanding of. Society placed these views onto the masses. Masculinity isnt a real thing. It’s merely a societal construct that was created in the 30s that then escalated into a hyperactive syndrome in the 60s especially by gay males. Case and point the creator of Tom of Finland, Touko Laaksonen. Who created a hyper masculine image of what gay males should appear to be.

You don’t see our hetero counterparts making statements such as “I want a feminine woman”. Its already implied that she is feminine regardless of the type of woman she is. Gay males are funny little creatures. Guys planning value on such frivolous expectations. Then they’re left wondering why they’re single and still on the prowl. After reading a masses of profiles solely for research purposes I’ve found that a large number of profiles denounce non masc types. Yet so many seek masc types, all of you are online together, so one could that you all would link up and get offline. You know, masc 4 masc. That is unless somebody is lying.

I’m pretty straight/bi. I’m 100% comfortable in my skin and being perfectly honest, yeah. I would date a guy who does drag.

You’d think that gay guys would be more accepting towards different kinds of guys and relationships. But Jesus. So many guys wouldn’t date one or they have issues that im a bottom (“but you’re so masculine”).

And FYI, some of the best tops that I’ve had the pleasure of riding have been feminine dudes, and some of them did in fact perform drag.

No! I would not date or touch a drag queen. That said my best friend was a guy who did drag when we were in college. I even took him to a faternity spring formal. But as for dating or having sex, no, thank you. I don’t even like straight men who are crossdressers and I have know a few. I have had guys come over go to the bathroom and come back in the “new” clothes or stockings, and that would be the last time they were allowed over. As a gay man I want men, nothing else will do. I do not have never dated anyone I thought was a sissy or fem. It’s one of the reason I have sought out straight men to seduce and have my way with.