Love : Happy Valentine’s Day
Hey guys, what are you doing for Valentine’s day ? Any plans?
Will you have dinner with the Love of your life? Treat yourself at the Spa? Relax and chat on A4A to find THE man?
I just wanted to let you know that many years ago on VDAY, I was on A4A and found someone special! We shared 5 wonderful years together and although we are no longer together today, we are still great friends, 5 years after our breakup!
Love does not always turn out to be what we expect, but love can endure. Accept the love you are offered as it is offered and remember love may not look like what you expect it to look like!
Now who wants to be my Valentine? I’m single….. ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
Dave
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I am spending the day… just like any other day, doing the only thing that keeps me sane & grounded…. WORK.. Here at my office doing paperwork, trying my hardest not to focus on what this day is but instead treat it like any other.. Nothing special for me on this day, except a 150 page audit I have to review… Ah, BUSINESS AS USUAL 🙂
Happy Valentines Day! May the force of Love be with you.
Since losing my partner of almost 24 years to complications of his cancer treatment in November pthe day means nothing to me. To make matters worse it’s also my Birthday.
Just another day to remind a lot of people how lonely they are. But I’d hate to be in a relationship where the wife or partner treat you like gold one day, cause you remember and did everything they wanted you to do, and the next day the partner is putting the hate on you, more then likely over something dumm. Oh how wonderful life can be! hehehe
Dave H.- sorry for your loss bud but today reflect on the fact that you had 24 yrs. of Valentines Day. I’m sure a lot of us have never had that . For what it’s worth -Happy Birthday!!
I was going to have a date today but he never contacted me to confirm if we’re still on for tonight. Sigh oh well single again on this day as usual. Probably going to drink at home and alone. Guys are all the same anyways so it’s just me & my hand tonight.
I’m happy for those who find love….. I hope I find mine soon
Wow! I just spent the last 8 hours with a man I met on a4a. We met for the first time today and had lunch at Famous Daves. We came back to my house and spent the rest of the afternoon and into the evening laying naked in bed and talking and getting to knowing each other. Yes, we had a great time! When we arrange to meet, neither of us realized it was even Valentine’s Day. So, you never know.
The Beatles: “Love, love, love. All you need is love.” Happy Valentine’s Day, guys. E M. Forster: “Connect. Only connect.” [email protected]
More like “Happy Pretend to overly profess your love with cheap cards, bland gifts, tacky stuffed toys, nasty candy & flowers that will be dead within a week” day.
Not a holiday I’ve ever cared for. Especially since I don’t see the point in celebrating VD! If I love someone, there are 364 other days of the year I can also express it to them.
So I Hope you found some way to enjoy your Birthday “Dave H”, cause that day is all about you. Happy Birthday!
I don’t know if you found a valentine “Dave”, but now that the day is over. I’m open to friend, FB, lover, and a few other options.
A stranger sent me this random inquiry/message
i have to ask a question? u 2 look like a great couple and in love..why u want a 3rd? or 4th? or whatever..must not be in love with each other? explain that…
i responded with an essay! It’s right on topic.
Perhaps we have a different definition of “in love” than you do. We were almost instant best friends from the moment our paths intersected and ultimately merged. For four months, we spent almost all of our free time together and talked openly and honestly about everything from who we were to what would be necessary if we were ever to have another romantic relationship. However, given that we had both been single for around five years, we had both come to the conclusion that we were destined to be single for life. So, it took us both by surprise when almost four months into our friendship, having never even so much as kissed, we found ourselves missing one another whenever situations called for us to be apart. And, knowing what each of us required of a partner, we admitted we were in love and agreed that we would accept each other’s stipulations and spend our lives making each other laugh and encouraging each other to be the best possible versions of ourselves. One of the things we agreed upon was that we quite liked the options available only with 3 or more participants involved in sex, and we vowed to deny jealousy the power to destroy us and explore the many faces of group play, so long as we only play with others together, with a few exceptions for specific circumstances. We promised to be honest and always make our friendship out top priority. it’s worked perfectly for eight years as of yesterday. We enjoy being with one another with as much enthusiasm as if its a new relationship, and when the right additional playmates appear, we enjoy seeing one another experience our favorite forms of physical pleasure. And our most memorable sex has been and will likely be again with each other. We are more in love than any couple we know, and we insist that the couple that plays together stays together.
Congrats to the guys that have the love of their liveswith them. For a while this and our Birthdays were special to me now it’s another day to remind me of whats no longer in my life. oh well another day taking care of snow removal then relax and do some searching on A4A
To me it just the day before the candy gets marked down half price. My now deceased partner had a stroke on our first Valentines Day together. Ever since, we did not celebrate the day.