Hot Or Not : Bad Boys
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You came across these guys in your life for sure. You know the type of guys that has the dirty jeans/t-shirt looks, the strong attitude, the magnetism of a leader, mixed with the quirkiness of a punk band. Here are some traits to help you identify them:
1) Bad boys master the art of indifference. They understand the very nature of being indifferent when it comes to dealing with guys. They understand that the less emotion they give off, the more emotion they’ll want from them.
2) Bad boys put themselves first. Off the bat, I know this may sound selfish as hell… well, that’s because it is. Bad boys have this way about them in which they understand that some guys appreciate a man who places himself above everyone else. The essence of being a guy who doesn’t alter his belief system or values for any piece of ass can be admirable.
3) Bad boys have use asshole humour. They mix being somewhat of a dick to guys with moments of sweetness. For example he can be telling fart jokes at a black tie event and then invites you in a small dark room for a great sexy moment.
4) Bad boys have the ability to have animalistic sex. Every once in a while, you have to tap into your inner bad boy. And I mean get really bad. Sexually this means hair pulling, spanking, light choking, biting, chaotic foreplay, and any and everything mentioned in the Karma Sutra. Bad boys get away with embodying all the traits above solely because they know how to be an animal in the bedroom.
5) Bad Boys are brutally honest. A bad boy is going to say what’s on his mind and tell you how it is. Nice guys sometimes feel the need to lie or be dishonest to another guys because his approval of him is more important than his integrity and being honest. He’ll get a lot farther with guys because even though the truth might upset them, they’re more likely to respect and trust you because they know you do your best to be honest. It’s hard to bounce back from having a reputation for being a liar.
So do you like bad boys? Even though they can sometimes be a pain in the ass (hmm I like that…), they are adorable and I love them for that!
Dave
I’ve met them maNY times. You want me but you can’t have me with this smarmy, smart-ass look on their face. They enjoy the hell out it. I just laugh at them and say you’re funny. Then walk away. Probably end up very unhappy.
Yes, yes and yes! I do love bad boys!
They’re exceptionally HOTcuz they’re BAD!
Though as I age I’m less inclined to be completely
Vulnerable. Excellent for short period of fun, but
too much of such a wonderfully bad is unhealthily dangerous
Being 32 years + today. Joke for Thanksgiving:
Know how to keep a turkey in suspense?
Lol well I guess I’m a bad boy because all of those traits describe me pretty accurately except for the selfish part. But I love my asshole sense of humor and being a dick who tells it like it is. The animalistic sex does come through every now and then. I’m also very indifferent towards every thing.
I figured bad boys to be more into selling drugs or in a gang type of thing.
Bad boy look, hot. Bad boy attitude, not. Period. And there are people out there who have a bad boy look but when you get to know them they’re damn sweethearts.
There are bad boys, and there are sexxxy bad boys.
The latter is really rare to find.
As long as they are bad in a sexy way and not in a douche bag sort of way, I’ll take a bad boy over a not so bad boy any day.
The real test of how bad they are is when it cums to sex.
“Brutally honest” about WHAT? They lie like RUGS! “Bad boys” can be fun….until it comes time to get rid of one! And yes, been there, done THAT!
Hate them.
As a sub bottom I LOVE serving bad boys!
Being one of the aforementioned bad boys myself I have to say even we like other bad boys. I absolutely hate it when a guy falls all over themselves trying to earn my approval or attention. It always backfires and is what usually makes me search out someone else. Being a bit aloof and making it plain that a guy has other options (just like I do) makes those moments we actually do manage to get together just that much hotter.
I have a buddy who just started dating this guy and if he doesn’t stop trying so hard my friend is ready to bail. It’s a good thing this guy can take a good pounding because according to my bud that’s all he’s got going for him at the moment. Too needy, too in your face with the fawning affection and too much living in their head instead of being present in the moment will kill it faster EVERY time. I’m just waiting to start hearing the “and now he’s stalking me” inevitability.
Sooo not to make this about race at all but quick question im always looking at these categories and i always see the articles about couples in love and videos of having sex and all that good stuff but i never see anything about black couples that are in love or have a love story or hispanic couples as well dont get me wrong its always nice to hear from the Caucasian stand point but there are also other races that have a beautiful relationship as well as hot vidoes just food for thought but have a great day..
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My brain might say it’s better to have a sweet caring guy as my lover but what I crave sexually is the Alpha Male Bad Boy! I need to serve an aggressive man in bed, someone who’s happy to lay back and let me suck then do some skull fucking and then turn me over for a good deep pounding. He is the epitome of maleness and as a sub bottom the kind of man I need.
Lol – it’s Kama Sutra, though gay people probably practice the Karma Sutra a lot, too.
I love a bad boy. I’ve been called a bad boy because I’m opinionated and honest and don’t care that much what people think about me or my opinions, I’m open sexually and tend to take the lead in risqué sex (locker rooms, fitting rooms, theaters, etc) and have a devil may care attitude toward the world.
I don’t know if that’s true; I feel very passionately about this world and the things I care about but maybe I just give off that vibe so that a guy has to work a little to get to the deeper parts of what I’m about. hehe, pun intended.
Hot, definitely HOT!
You list these traits as if they are bad things, yet you’ve descibed me to a “T”. Sadly we are a rar. Bred among men.
I agree, a guy with some attitude can be attractive, to a point. What does that say about a guy who gets emotionally involved with someone who could careless about the guy who admires and loves him, and wants only to please the guy with the attitude. They call that DADDY ISSUES. lol