Gay Stuff : High-Dollar Escorts
Gay males in their twenties and thirties are prime escort candidates with high-dollar clients from coast to coast. Escorts are supporting lifestyles that also include funds for education and career development.
Male escorts are escorting America’s executive class. The clients are often wealthy executives who have disposable incomes capable of paying thousands of dollars for a weekend with a young, attractive male of their choosing. Many in this group of elite clients range in age from forty-five to eighty, some are married, or in a relationship with another male.
A high-dollar escort possesses a magnificent physique, impeccable manners and detailed personal grooming and his resume will include photos taken by a professional photographer.
Have you ever hired an escort? Do you think you will ever? If you did, did you have sex with him or simply used him as an escort; “a man who is the companion of another man, especially on a social occasion” ?
Dave
I had four older gentlemen as friends. They put me through college; I have a PhD. Two died and left me business interests. One has dementia and I have power of attorney and the fourth decided to retire at 80, so I wound up running their business interests instead of going into a career that I got the PhD for. I didn’t see them as clients, but more like grandfathers I never had.
Only by the hour for me.
I would never pay for sex. The escorts on this site from Charlotte are far from having a decent physique. They are not supporting their education, they are supporting a drug habit. If the escort contacts me first, does that mean he has to pay me? I look better than they do….lol.
Have seen escorts on here and on other sites occasionally a guy will ask if I am “generous”. Though tempting maybe once in a while, the answer for me has to be “no”. Even though I am getting beyond my “prime” at 50- almost 51, the idea of having sex with someone without at least some level of mutual attraction is unappealing. Also, while we talk about “escort services” it is in reality prostitution which is illegal. Wonder how many guys have been caught up in “sting operations”.
I have hired escorts a few times. Once was to try it out. Another was because he was a hot Lebanese man and I was really in need of some action. He fulfilled a fantasy of me being fucked senseless after having not cum for two weeks. The third time was because I was in the right place at the right time. He was a well known porn star who I thought was exceedingly handsome, it was my birthday, and I had some extra cash. I arranged for him to come over. Wonderful man, beautiful body, and I loved how I made him moan with my tongue. 🙂
Basically, I will only hire an escort if he fulfills a fantasy of mine. Having sex with that porn star I’ve watched in dozens of videos, a particular scene I want to play out and get right, or something else. For everyday action, there are other options.
I’ve hired a number of times, usually with good success. I have one guy I’ve been seeing for 5 years. We are like old friends—except I know I’m getting whatever I want. Some are drug addicts, the ones I see are outgoing, friendly and well equipped to make me smile.
In regards to the escort who said he considered his clients as “grandfathers he never had”…. That made me LOL!! I don’t think most people fuck their grandfathers.
Could you please tell me how and where to go to be sex worker/slave for wk end im a male wonting to try cock and also wont to sell my self for cash if a male or female or couples wont me for 1or2 wks I am here
Continuing on what I said above, I didn’t set out to be an escort. One of my “grandfathers” propositioned me and he introduced me to his three friends. I’ve always been good looking and athletic, but I became a gym rat to keep the gravy train rolling. I was essentially a paid grandson and did grandfather/grandson things in addition to sex. Word of mouth brought me more men and I am thankful that I am drug free, HIV-, and beyond it. I’m a pretty grounded guy, but by 21 I was so consumed by escorting and school that something had to give and I chose my education. I would NOT recommend a man becoming an escort despite the fact that I had virtually no negative experiences. At first it’s hot to be paid for looking hot and having a big dick, but the reality is that is all they are paying for and there is very little interest in you as a person.
Sadly the escorts on this site are the only ones that will talk to me or give me the time of day
Plenty of guys on a4a who think they are worthy of being high dollar escorts or amateur porn star…delusion runs rampant on a4a too…
I would consider being an escort if I had the body for it seeing as “escort” doesn’t mean being a hoe. The ones in Vegas are nice and I’ve had a few check me out on here but I don’t think I’d pay for sex. I rarely pay for the bathhouse
Sorry but I can’t. Some people can but I’d rather do it old fashion way. Meet new people, find a bf and go from there. I do not judge anyone who does it but like anything else we all have reasons for doing it.
Being “PC” and calling it an escort doesn’t change the fact that it is a whore. No thanks. Never have and never will no matter how good he thinks he looks.
I would venture to guess that most escorts are supporting drug habit of none kind or another. No, I would never pay for sex.
@Kirt_I wish this blog had thumbs up/down…you get a thumbs up from me! I live in a southern cal… believe me, they are definitely supporting a drug habit. However, if I had money to throw away and if I hit a point in my life where I don’t feel like hunting for sex…I’l def. get an escort…if even for an hour.
A whore is a whore no matter if you pay $5 or $5000. Not knocking if you are using your assets, pun intended, to make money but to me a person who sells themselves for money is one of the saddest people in the world.
I was hoping a topic like this would come up. for the past for years I have been seeing paid escort on a regular basis he is beautiful to look at he has a nice personality and I have fallen in love with him. There is very little honesty and the relationship I have with this chosen escort. The relationship is mainly physical; every now and then we discuss life’s issues but it is always a part of the service he provides for money I feel trapped at times and at times I feel as though we are lovers I’m really not sure what to do. Someone help
I have and don’t regret it. We all pay for it in some aspect whether we admit it or not.
Escort…just another name for a whore.
I’ve had mixed success with escorts, though I can’t afford top dollar. My advice:
1) don’t pay up front
2) don’t be afraid to walk away
3) be very clear what you want…especially how much time you’re buying.
4) have a conversation up front
Sex for pay is prostitution. You may call it “older gentlemen as friends” or whatever to sooth your conscience. I understand this is a free country and people may do as they please. Please call a spade a spade! “Not clients, rather grandfathers”? Prostitution is prostitution even if it is to get a PhD, or to work (sexually) for an inheritance.
And? Why don’t you go suck a dick mark?
I have on occasion hired an Escort, not that I have to, because I am a good looking Man with plenty of opportunities and FWB’s, in fact over the weekend in Atlanta, I had one of the BEST experiences ever with a High end Escort. He was definitely all that he proposed to be and more. And he had a HUGE Dick!!! I will definitely see him again.
I post in here rather frequently, and it will likely come as a surprise to many – but I WAS an escort/hustler when I was in my late teens and early 20’s… and the income WAS to put myself through college.
Let me first define my terms: to me, an “escort” provides mostly “social services,” although sex at the end of the evening may happen, it is not the primary activity for the bulk of the “date”. Alternatively, a “hustler” is there to provide a “purely sexual service.” Get the client off, maybe get off yourself, get paid, and get out!
I turned 18 while I was a freshman in college, but I learned even before then that older “gentlemen” in certain clubs would pay good money to spend time with me. Some wanted sex, but some just wanted to “flaunt me” to their peers. Many simply invited me to their parties, where I was to act the part of their lover, and in many cases, I spent the night — never seeing the client naked (in other words, there was often no sex involved). Yes, I was an escort/hustler when I was 17 — I lied, as do so many teens then and now!
With other clients, it was all about the sex — and it helped there that my libido was (and remains) ultra-high, and my penis didn’t (still doesn’t for the most part) soften after orgasm. (NOTE: I’m in my 40’s – this is WAY BEFORE viagra!)
While it helped that I attended a reasonably prestigious college – and that fact was often brought up at these parties – I also had to overcome the fact that my penis is a very normal 6″ in length. Nothing to write home about, and not enough to entice any “size queen” into hiring me for THAT feature! Also, I would NOT say I had any “incredible physique” — in fact, back then, I was incredibly… skinny! at 6’4 and about 170 lbs. dripping wet!
What I was, was sociable, educated in a wide variety of interests, and a SPONGE for information. But I also knew how to “market” myself and “play it up” for the customer! For example, when one client tried to show off his wine cellar to me on our first “date”, he was rather disappointed that I knew very little about wine. That didn’t last long, because I did some homework and when I next spoke to him, I demonstrated that I had taken on the subject with some zeal — and he proceeded to use his stores to teach me the finer points of being a sommelier. I got to drink $100 bottles of wine AND at the end of the night, I GOT PAID CASH to do it!
To this day, I enjoy good wine… and every time I do, I think of that kind and generous old man.
Now that I am in my 40’s, I am no longer exceptionally skinny, and my multiple degrees impress no one in a socio-sexual environment (in other words, I’m no sexual “trophy” any longer). Instead, I am often approached online by young men looking to sell themselves. As noted above, most of these guys are far from any physical ideal, are mostly looking for quick cash (for what I wouldn’t be so crass as to ask).
What surprises me most about today’s “hustlers” (there are damned few that are “escorting” anymore) is that they’ll cheapen themselves so much that they literally talk themselves OUT of a “sale”… or else they’re so full of themselves they equally talk themselves right OUT of a transaction.
With my past, I obviously don’t object to paying for an escort or a hustler. But you (the hustler) have to make me want to — that’s a BIG part of YOUR job!
Some examples:
I know a local escort, call him Jay. He is white/latin mix, has a tight little body, a nicely sized uncut cock, and he can take a big cock anally. (We met at a party). Jay could be a “textbook twink” for some high-end clientele and probably command $200 to $300 a pop — not to mention get some “escorting” gigs (multiple hours and little to no sex). Unfortunately (for him) he DESPISES the “twink” label and look, refuses to shave (his face), wears “grunge” look clothes, and sells himself as a cheap hustler – lucky to get $50 a trick. In the end, he’s like a high-end car dealer (say Cadillac — who has a nice, high-end product) who is focused instead on selling $2 air fresheners.
I also know another local “massage therapist” and escort — call him Nick — who thinks that because he has a shaved chest, decent pecs, and a 7″ cock, that he’s worth $250 a “date” — but all sexual activity is “extra”… He usually talks himself OUT of more business than he could imagine. In keeping with the car analogy, he’s got a decent Honda product (there are plenty of other local guys that look as good or better than him)… but he’s marketing as-if it was a limited-edition Ferrari. He doesn’t fool many, and when a “date” falls through, he usually blames the customer — calling him “cheap” or “wanting a whore”… (which I laugh at… heartily!)
And there is the problem with a lot of today’s young escorts — at least in my area — they either undervalue themselves, or they think they’re God’s gift to gaydom. They don’t understand what I quickly grasped in my college days: they are offering a simple service, and their REAL job is a SALES POSITION: Make the customer happy with what you can give him, and you will be successful. But you have to market the product you HAVE, and you need to focus on the CUSTOMER — not yourself.
Chip
ex-hustler, ex-escort in Wrinkle City, USA
Why not call them what they are? They’re prostitutes. The term escort makes it sound like they’re classy. Selling yourself, even for an education, is not classy.
I have hired escorts before not many but a few. They were handsome, smart, funny, but first and foremost goal oriented men and while the sex was great we ended up as friends for a long time. Sometimes our dates would be a dinner and or a movie.
Yes, I have hired escorts. Many times over the past 30 years. Usually porn-actor types (I have always lived in cities with large gay male populations,such as Houston, San Francisco, Palm Springs). Sometimes an escort is the only way a guy can get topped! Especially if the client (me) happens to have a big dick that everyone else insists on bottoming for. And now that I am older (late 50s), it is getting to be the only way I can enjoy a little physical beauty up close. Unlike Kirt, the escorts in my community are often stunning in appearance.
omg can they work half as hard as I do I totally don’t think so and they want paid lol
Nothing wrong with escorts if you have the extra money. Just be aware that most are not what the claim to be. The idea is to get one regular that you enjoy. Often it can turn into a nice friendship.
I ve never needed the services of an escort but I ve been asked to be one over the years….at 41, I think I cld still be one…..I d hire one to have sex w more so now due to the fact they take really great care of their bodies and look better than most gay men where I live so to get a hot bodied guy, I d pay good money these days since none here look that good where I live
I’m actually a very attractive young guy, and really sweet too. But I’ve had really bad dates recently… one guy raped me, and another guy started yelling at me for not taking cum in my mouth, and when it is a good date I have to work so hard to impress the others.
So I’m really thinking of spending more money on escorts. I’m even looking for a live-in hot guy who wants free rent and small salary.
In my culture (Lebanese) prostitution isn’t regarded as bad and in Lebanon there are TONS of gays who are escorts, basically everyone is an escort.
In america it’s much different, for one it’s hard finding a good escort in massachussetts…
BUT! one thing I will say is that it sucks when the escorts are straight, i hate to think that the guy I’m with is repulsed by my touch, which straight guys obviously hate being touched by men.
I paid for an escort once in Amsterdam and he was so pathetic. From a reputable rent site and first thing he wanted was his money before performing any service and could not get it up. Never again, I wow.
Now Dave – here is a question for you? What is a4a doing for the cheap, awful parasites who crawl up on you while NOT displaying an escort ad asking for money and some ads obviously are not escort ad but they have $$ signs in there? don’t you see them and delete them? They are giving a4a a bad rap!!!
Ricky : We have many PROs on A4A, wether they are escort, hair stylist, trainer, computer professionals etc, we like to offer them visibility in exchange they pay a small fee to showcase their talent and find new clients. Our support doesn’t check if they are “cheap parasites” like you call them. When you see an ad in a newspaper that you don’t like, do you criticize it or you simply turn to the next page? Same here.
A friend of mine worked for an escort service out of Philly for a number of years. It was a shame that he later committed suicide. Very intelligent guy.
What can I say, I”m still waiting for that hot class to graduate, you know the lawyers, doctors and physicist who are hooking their way through college to make themselves better human beings by expelling the lonely people who are looking for human compassion. I find this thread really insulting by trying to making being a hooker legit. The ones who prey on the lonely are trolls, plain and simple. They might have a hot body and have beauty, but they are nasty people who in only in time will be replaced by others who have beauty. Lets call them as they are, Trolls.
escorts in my area are nothing but prostitutes, richer people that can actually afford someone decent to hang out with is cool, but some of the guys i see trying to get money for school are nasty, get a real job!!
escort or hustler? i don’t and never will pay for sex. No different than a female prostitute in my opinion.
I find it interesting, that I responded with not a vulgar response but an opinion that favorable to the escorts described in this thread and my response was deleted right away. I guess there really is no tolerance for opinions opposite this blog. Makes me wonder how many other responses are not published.
kane914: What are u talking about? I dont delete comments…
I’m just not 24/7 in front of my computer so yes comments are posted few hours later.
Do people really think that escorts are paying for college? Majority of them are living beyond their means and buying materialistic things. Im 24 and I would never degrade myself like that. I believe there are other ways to support yourself but sex is just the easy way.
azalean : I personally know and escort who has a very high education and his condo in NYC is paid.
Is it just me, or does this read (mostly) like propaganda to lure “gay males in their twenties and thirties” to consider becoming escorts? Did a lonely, wealthy, older man write this? Sure seems so.
for just 10$ I’ll make you a great dinner 🙂
hamburger helper
vegetables
desserts
beverage yup yup and ill throw in a movie
A whore is just a whore, no matter what you call it or how many glossy overgeneralizations you make about it.
Kirt28202 thanks because I feel the same way about the guys in DC. Escorts, messcorts!
I’ve hired one escort. He ended up being one of my best friends. We did play at having sex, it just didn’t work. We’ve, subsequently, had sex and it was good but not as escort/client. I love the idea of buying impossibly hot men, though…
I have been hiring escorts for 15 yrs now. I am an older gentleman and in the closet. My taste in guys is young 18-25, slim, petite, pretty, and a nice cock and instead of going to gay bars and take a chance of being outed I just hire an escort and get exactly what I want and much easier and faster. As a matter of fact the first time I was with a guy was with an escort. I just love that I get a choice to pick the boy I want.
With as many hungry fuckboys there are out there. I wont pay for sex in such a way. Rather spend an eternity with just my hands. It may be for some but not for me.
I agree with you Kirt!! I am 52, but I have been working out for over 30 years and still hit the gym 2 hours every day. So I am extremely offended when guys on here proposition money in return for me to fuck them just because of my age. My reply is, I am a total top with a good body and a huge cock, hot bottoms are a dime a dozen, and for the record – I look better than you and I am twice your age!!! I haven’t seen a prostitute yet that is hot enough to pay money to fuck! Especially where I live, hot bottoms are everywhere!
I think only ugly and fat old dude. Pay for sex. If u young hot n sexy. And u take care of yourself. U find sex everywhere.
I have hired escorts. The high dollar one that I hired was selfish in bed and talked constantly. It seemed it was all about him. The escorts that are a little older seem to be more attentive and more affordable.
In my teens I worked as a caddy at a very exclusive and affluent country club. Very, very early every morning an older woman would come to play nine holes by herself. The older caddies always joked about her and they all wanted to be selected as she tipped very well. One morning I was selected. She was very nice but on the seventh hole she instructed me into the adjacent maintenance shed, told me to take down my pants and she proceeded to suck me off. Was I ever shocked. Back at the caddy shack all the other caddies high-fived me, pat me on the back and said “Welcome to the club”.
This happened often and one day she said “My husband would love to meet you. I’ll pick you up at three as she handed me a fifty dollar bill”. She was there at three as was I. She drove to a beautiful home with gates, long driveway, vast lawns, fountains. It was gorgeous.
Once in I was greeted by her husband, a jolly fellow, friendly and nice. He said “I understand that my wife has been enjoying your cock and I would also. But you have been perspiring from working all day so how about my wife gets you cleaned up.” I agreed and was taken upstairs where she gave me a bath, dried me off and led me to a bedroom where her husband was waiting for me. She excused herself. In bed he kissed me, held me, sucked me and in a few moments I was cumming. We remained in bed for a while and chatted and he got me off again. I was given another $50 bill and I was driven back to the country club.
The next day the woman appeared at the club and selected another caddy but when she returned from the course she whispered to me “3pm”. I nodded yes. And the whole scenario repeated itself. As it did almost every day for the summer. I pocketed a lot of cash and was well experienced at pleasing a man.
About that time my dad was in the Air Force flying over Viet Nam & Cambodia. My dad went MIA and my mom was devastated; drank and did drugs and was depressed. Later my dad was declared KIA. She was a wreck and running around with every guy in town.
Mom wanted to move back to her family’s farm in Ohio. I did not want to go but wanted to finish school and stay with my friends. My rich lady friend offered to take me in for my last two years. Mom sold the house and moved and I moved in with the woman and her husband.
I was allowed and sort of encouraged to bring my girlfriends home and to my room. The woman and her husband allowed me anything as long as I received good grades and participated in sports and stayed out of trouble. I surely did.
Most nights I slept with the man.
The woman would often spend much time with my little girlfriends talking “girl stuff”. She even took them to her female friend, an OB/GYN doctor, for birth control pills. Some of the girls came to visit my adopted mom after school while I was participating in sports. And they spent much time in the master suite behind closed doors. One of my girlfriends was little blonde Sandy. We were quite sexually active and then we broke up. Even then Sandy visited our home often. Eventually Sandy had a new car, new clothes and college $$$ and…. Unbeknownst to me they were both seducing all my girlfriends—especially Sandy.
But I too received a nice GTO, spending $$$, nice lifestyle and a college education all because of my mouth, ass and dick. I have no regrets and no remorse.
I guess you’d call me a “man of a certain age” at this point (early 50s). I’ve hired a couple of guys in my time… In a couple of cases it was a just a hot buff bodybuilder with an amazing ass that caught my eye… And one of them turned into a semi-regular buddy when I was visiting his town for work. On another occasion the stars aligned so that I was able to hire literally my favorite porn star in the world for a weekend of fun… It cost me some serious cash, but I had a good time… and good memories to savor whenever I see his pics/videos!
Funny question. What happens if they have or had a life change. They can’t collect unemployment? Lol. Just saying. It’s sad they don’t how much self worth they really are. But have the same names as Benjamins, Franklin and George.
I mostly just do it for college and day to day needs. I do have a few wealthy customers are are willing to pay for just talking and dinner. Escorts are not just about sex.I have a guy that pays me just to cook him dinner and chit chat with him. I ejoy it and I rarely charge him because I’m getting a dinner and I’m getting good conversation. So of you guys think it’s all about doing the tings your guys won’t do like being bent over the table while you pound the hell out of us for the 2 mins you are going to last. But I’m just doing it to pay for school the job that I’m going for is a high paying job. And when I get older if I want to help someone out I will. Just saying
2 words: Andrew Cunanan. Escorts? Bahahaha…in 2015? Sad, sorry fucks pay for escorts.
I’ve never tryed escorting but probably wouldn’t actually mind it! I have a very successful career but let’s face it if someone wanted to pay me a lot of money for my time regardless of what was I would be all for it.
I’m a Escort, Have a few High powered/high paying clients. Its very helpful to help me pay my way through school, and not all the time are they looking for sex. You have to be very careful tho, and I’m very selective about who I take on as a client and Privacy is my number 1 rule. But the perks like traveling the world, being in exclusive environments, and white sand beaches are nice.
I always enjoy these topics! But this one especially interests me because I would be interested in knowing how many have hired professional porn stars that escort and if they have had success or luck and love to hear what happened! I see the David Forrest ads all the time but don’t really know if they are legit or not and if you really get a lot for what you would pay! Just curious!
@Matt – lucky dog!! 🙂
@Matt – Would you ever consider going back to school?
Remember you either pay for it upfront or as you go along…
Nothing for free these day..
The irony in many guys saying, “stop trying to make it sounder better than it is…they’re whores.” Well, guess what the rest of the world calls many of you who exchange a few emails on A4A and then stick a total strangers dick in your mouth? Or, should I say “hook up?” Heck, they’d consider them smarter since they’re at least getting paid to do it! Stop being so judgmental, people.
Wow. So much condemnation and name calling here! Reading through the comments, the Attitude is pretty amazing. “Only fat, old, ugly guys pay for sex.” “A whore is a whore, not matter what you call him.” Obviously one man’s desperation is another man’s convenience… For the record, I have hired escorts a few times over the years, starting in my my 20s. In almost every case it was a very pleasurable, positive experience. I actually dated one escort (who really was paying his way through grad school) for a time. He was also a successful porn actor. What was funny (to me) was that in the movies he was always topping twinks, but in real life he was a power bottom who liked bears and older men. I guess some porn stars really can act…
Escorts are not “selling themselves” -They are simply running a lucrative business that is convenient for them, and pleasurable for themselves and others. I have to laugh at the guys here saying it’s bad because it’s illegal. For how many years were our sex lives, our very existence, completely illegal in most places? How many places still have sodomy laws on the books? Sex workers have been around forever, and will continue to be around forever. They are stigmatized through our prudish traditions and puritanical Bible-thumping. I wish there wasn’t so much internalized homophobia shining through all these comments… 🙁
Yes, there are those for whom this is an act of desperation or degradation -but the blog entry was about high-end escorts, which isn’t the same thing at all. Go hire an escort -Or become one. Or don’t. It’s just another experience you could choose to have (or not) while you’re on this earth. And what happens is between you and him, and nobody else’s business.
If paying, or being paid for, sex floats your boat, that’s fine. Your choice.
Sex based on character vs. sex based on cash works for me. Have never paid for or been paid for sex. Not planning on changing that. I sell myself based on character; the guys who chose to play with me get that. Just as I get theirs.
But if a cash transaction works for you, hey great. Go for it.
Must be a pitiful life to never be anything more to anyone than dollars signs…no wonder gay men hate themselves so much and are among the highest rates of permanent sexual diseases…id pay for an escort only if he were highly recommended and only once so i could say ive done that…but self esteem wise, if you are nothing but a dick and asshole every one gets to use for cash, it understandable why they dont have an value and low shelf life. Glad my image in the mirror doesnt hate me over the thickness of my wallet stuffing. I wonder if Dave will let this past his censoring. He typically hates hard cold truth when he can justify it as being anti gay…ive no problem with gay men, i play a lot with them…but i do so, well aware of the many sobering truths of that lifestyle.
What I find disingenuous here is how many commenters are being moralistic prudes when in fact older men being generous to younger men in exchange for favors rendered is a central, pervasive, and time-“honored” tradition in gay culture.
While it is perfectly fine to have the value of not paying for sex or selling oneself for money, it is bullying behavior to call men who choose to do so “whores” and to berate and denigrate them.
I have zero moral qualms getting to know my four “grandfathers” and to accept their generosity in paying for my education and for trusting me to take on their business dealings.
Yes resources flowed my way for favors, but the “Eliza Doolittle” I used to be has been replaced gentlemanly behavior.
I’ve hired a number of high-dollar escorts and have never been disappointed. I’m a good looking guy, in my mid-40’s – and look younger. I’ve got a decent body. But it’s convenient to hire someone for a little fun. I’ve been seeing a guy in Vegas for the last couple of years. He’s hot, he’s fun, he’s witty, he’s intelligent. I feel like I’m getting a pretty good deal. As a matter of fact, he’s traveling to my city soon and we’ve set up another appointment. Can’t wait! And about some of these posts about the escorts not being honest or having drug issues, this guy doesn’t exhibit any signs of drug behavior. I’ve never even seen him take a drink of alcohol. He didn’t even tell me he’s a CF porn star. I had to figure that out for myself.
I too have hired escorts over the past 25 years. Some have become friends and some have remained in contact in a respectful manner. Yes, some were flakes as with anyone you meet. The reason I hired escorts was to shorten the “game playing” time meeting someone with the long hours I kept in my working occupation. Am I ugly? No, I’m not. At least the good escorts know if they don’t do a good job will shorten something which could be profitable as in any business. Can I be judgemental, no I can not. If you don’t feel you need to hire one, as someone else has said “just skip pass it or turn the page”.
I was just 18 when I found out that the reason I’d been invited to a fancy party in Knightsbridge, London, was to be auctioned off. I won’t name names, but at least one name most of you would recognize. I was just discovering myself, so my needs were still developing, but the one thing I could not face was being fucked on demand for a full year by some fat old rich guy with no interest at all in my enjoyment.
I’ll never know what could have been. At the time I left, the bidding for one year of ownership was standing at More than I could make in 10 years in my job at the time. It would easily have put me through university and more. It wasn’t my choice but I fully understand why some are tempted.
I paid for it once a few months ago, I have to admit I felt a little dirty after I left driving home, but of course have contacted him since… Me late 40’s, young craigslist 23 twink was looking for play for free with peers, $ with older like me. He was so fucken hot, perfect young body and was really into sex. I fingered him then fucked him and shot my load. He wanted $50, I left him his $50 on the couch after and left. We both got what we wanted.
I worked as an escort in DC and Los Angeles off and on starting at 22 after graduating college and quit at 43 only because I moved home to help out caring for a terminally ill parent. After their death I decided to remain and built a construction business which I continue to do to this day.
I’ve read alot of whats been said so far and felt I might provide a perspective unique in that it comes with a level of experience that you don’t often find. I have pretty much seen it all as far as the sex trade goes but that is not the same as saying I have DONE it all because I haven’t. Seeing is not doing.
I have worked on and off, for agencies considered generally upscale that varied from being exclusively catering to women, others exclusively for men and a few that catered to all persuations and in between. Even one that specialized in a variety of fetishes, masters, mistresses, S&m and B&d and a fully equipped, etremely lavish and well appointed dungeon. I also worked privately with other female escorts giving private sex shows and “couple calls” from m/f couples possibly bi or straight who liked playing another male female couple. I was quite good at what I did and I was able to build a list of regular clientelle which meant I could disengage having to rely on referral services or agencies. More importantly I didn’t have to fork over a 40% cut on every call.
When I say I was good I mean aside from having a certain degree of attractiveness, sexual skill, the ability to perform when required (of less importance for an escort then it was for guys I knew doing porn, to have a big cock certainly helped)if one was to be remotely successful as a MALE escort/hooker/whore/callboy/hustler it’s all the same so pick your poison it matters not. Interestingly female escorts had a very different, much more relaxed set of rules in almost every single aspect than males. To be continued
Wow…so much hate and judgement on here. Hilarious how many guys will brag “Oh, I’m so hot, they should pay me” or my personal favorite “sex for money is the EASY WAY OUT!?” Oh REALLY??
Maybe you should try it…see how “easy” it is.
I had to escort for about a year, after my parents kicked me out for being gay…I had no where to go, no money and I was face with a decision, bang this dude, and have a hotel room for a week…or sleep under a bridge…Would you kind and generous and fucking judgmental guys take in a homeless gay teen?
NO! Because I might have stolen your silverware. But I guess I should have just demanded someone give me a job, oh and pay me in advance so I could have somewhere to sleep and shower before and after work.
Gay men need to STOP being judgmental DICKWADS if we ever want to not be judged by the rest of the world…Oh I would NEVER disrespect myself like that…hookers are the SCUM of the earth…oh, but I come to a4a to HOOKUP BAREBACK with as many HOT TOPS AS i CAN FIND mmmmm….Please, more than 75% of guys on here have unsafe, random sex with strangers on a regular basis. Whatever you can point to to make yourself feel better.
What is wrong with paying for sex? We pay for cable TV? We pay for food? You have something I want and I’m willing to pay you for it and I have the money you want. Who cares what motivates the “seller”? Whether he is putting himself thru school or supporting a drug habit – it is up to the “buyer” to behave responsibly ALWAYS and have safe sex! What difference does it make what the “buyer” motives are? It is up to the “seller” to behave responsibly ALWAYS and have safe sex!
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All this is nonsense, disgusting on many levels, and pathetic on many levels.