Fantasy : 8 Things To Know About A Threesome!
Having more than one partner at a time, especially when they’re both pleasing you, is one of the ultimate fantasy. But, what’s the reality behind this fantasy? I’ve ticked it off my to-do list many years ago and can give you some tips to make sure your threesome is story-worthy.
1. Threesomes are not like porn!
There are body parts making funny farty noises, slapping against each other, you will also sweat profusely and there will be a lot of re-adjusting position.
2. It can get confusing!
Should I put my legs up? Roll over into doggy? Is it better if I give you a hand or use my mouth? With body parts shifting wildly, you’ll have to think on your feet and embrace the moment to get the most out of your three-way.
3. Try not to pair off!
You will probably enjoy one person more than the other and it can be a serious buzzkill to leave someone out of the fun. So make sure everyone is included even if you’re simply rubbing their chest while your mouth and ass are busy doing other things.
4. Your mouth will never be closed!
Prepare to have your mouth working at all times. It will either be moaning or occupied at sucking cock, rimming or kissing.
5. Communicate your terms!
Define your limits before you’re too deep. Are you fine with blow jobs, but not penetration? Make sure everyone is aware of everybody’s sexual role. Let your partners know and stick to the rules. Have a safe word in case you get uncomfortable.
6. Foursome (or more) can be hot too!
If you’re having a threesome and two people get hot and heavy, the third wheel can feel left out. Maybe invite another person into the mix to ensure that everyone will have a fabulous time.
7. Stay safe!
Regardless of who you’re with, always stay safe. Also be sure to switch condoms between sex acts and partners, even if you know everyone involved. You never know the history of who they were sleeping with before you!
8. There will be bodily fluids everywhere!
Your body and the bedsheets will be covered with cum, saliva, ass juice and maybe more if you are kinky. Make sure to have some towels by the bed and prepare to do laundry the next day.
Have fun guys!
Dave
Threesomes and groups are my preferred kind of sex play. It’s all good and everyone has a nice time!
That last picture is my favourite position in a threesome. I love 69’ing with a guy while he’s getting fucked. I try to be safe during sex, but there’s something hot about a guy pulling out and shooting his load on the other guy’s ass, then letting it drip down on my face.
Threesomes are great, but you’re absolutely right…everyone needs to have chemistry or someone will feel left out and that can be really awkward.
3somes are GREAT!! Talk it over before you start.The goal is two guy’s are working over one guy and you switch around.There is plenty for everyone if you work together.The greats climax’s I have ever had. Is when I’m getting fucked and getting a blow job at the same time. If there is a 4th in the group, a cock down my throat would be OUTSTANDING!! I all way’s tell the guy’s ahead of time, this is the ultimate for me and if it happens. IT HAPPENS!! Have fun and be safe…
I’ve always wanted to try a 3 way have a guy fucking my ass and a mouth full of hard cock. But I have meet the right two guys yet 😉
In my experience, threes ones can be great if there’s enough communication beforehand so you know which two are giving pleasure to which one.
Without communication, you end up in the bed, watching your lover get laid. And that is the opposite of great.
I must say 3some’s are an experience indeed. And yes, been there, done that is all I can say. Definitely never pair off unless one of the party is too tired or just want to watch some hot live action which is interactive, not like watching porn.
I have always maintained that the best 3somes are with a partnered couple. They know each other so much of their focus will be on the 3rd person. Additionally, they are clear on what they are looking for so a lot of the awkward fumbling will be kept to a minimum.
does having the dog hump your leg while youre getting fucked count as a threesome? just asking.
3 some? hell I would be happy with a two some lol
MFM is the hottest sex on Earth! Hard to come by, but satisfies all of my sexual needs in one setting.
As a gay couple me and my husband get propositioned for a 3 some on a regular basis. 90% of the time it is fun and the sex is great. The only time we have a problem is when the guy is clearly into one of us more than the other. Sometimes their into my husband more than me cause he has a big cock, or sometimes their more into me than my husband cause Latinos are their thing. Either way it is a total buzz kill for the two of us and a sure way to never get invited back.
Our hottest ever 3 way was actually with another couple whos partner just wanted to sit back and watch while we took turns using his husband. The entire time he was cheering us on and giving his husband nasty directions to please us better =)
Threesomes are great when I can get them,and a four some is even more fun. I’m all bottom and like having guys in both ends at the same time.
It’s even hotter for me when I’m blindfolded before all the clothes come off and can’t tell which one is which while they take turns using me.
“…cum,saliva and ass juice…”
Well I’m turned on now.
I would like to be pleased by two men, perhaps, and would like help in pleasing the other man, but I am concerned about what it does psychically and spiritually, to expand one’s intimacy beyond that of two people bonding. I like to think that when two are together, it is a threesome with the Divine. I’m not sure threesomes are approved of. I wouldn’t want someone perceptive to be able to look at me and see how far I’ve gone, which happens. It definitely has to have a positive intent. If the sex is sort of incidental to the bonding, all the better, I think. But, yes, how do you happen to find the two guys when it is so hard to find one? It seems to easy to fall into trashiness. If you’re not picky, yeah, guys might do it just to do it. That’s not what sex is about. Then you might as well go to a bathhouse and risk your life. Doing it with a couple has social ramifications. I have a former hook-up who just wants to top who wants to do it, but how do I find a third he likes? It’s just too tricky, it seems. And so much equipment is required. I got a wart from finger-fucking the last guy I had, so it’s not just condoms, it’s rubber gloves, space-suits, rubber sheets, etc.
I hate threesomes. Too much going on and not enough before hand communication, ever….. 3 is an odd number. Someone will always feel like they got the short end. Always. Lol
I hate threesomes. Too much going on and not enough before hand communication, ever….. 3 is an odd number. Someone will always feel like they got the short end. Always. Lol no orgies? FUCK YEAH.
I meant to say NOW ORGIES? hell yes.
3ways are either very hot or very awkward. I’ve experienced both. Been the bottom, the middleman, and top in them. 4ways are easier tho. Partners often find it hot doing it with another’s partner sat the same time. If everyone is vers and into it the combinations can be endless!
Can be hard to set up, but worth it. Helps if people are open-minded and have reasonable expectations. Bottoms always seem to want to be the only bottom there and be the center of attention all the time (and vers guys always want to bottom). Since it’s hard to find more than one total top at a time (who isn’t shy), this works best when people are willing to tone down their expectations and spent at least part of the time letting someone else be the center of attention, performing their less-than-favorite role, or doing the guy who isn’t the hottest other person in the room.
And with all group sex, it’s better to be the second hottest guy in the room 😉
I to like threesomes, with two hot bottom boys begging for this King Size Cock. I’d stick my dick in every open Pleasure Opening that craves for this Chocolate Bar.♡
A couple met me at my hotel. One guy gave the boundary of no fucking. I agreed. After 15 minutes of kissing and rimming and sucking, one of the guys suddenly got off the bed and accused me of starting to fuck his guy, which was not true. They got dressed, leaving me naked and alone and confused on the bed. It was quite strange. However, an hour later, I had a 19-year-old with a 9-incher up my ass.
I have had only one threesome ever. I’m a bottom guy and I got two tops to come over so we could have some fun together. They took turns fucking me back and forth. One guy blew a big load in my face and then he had to go. Things got weird after that because the other guy was talking about wanting to fuck the guy that just left. It was understood that I would be the only bottom there, or at least I thought it was understood. After he came he left and I haven’t invited him back. I want all my fuck buddies to feel comfortable and in this case I was the one who was uncomfortable. I’m sure I will try again one day. Orgies are all kinds of fun. Once I got fucked 8 times by six different guys. Two came back for seconds
@O’Shea “…cum,saliva and ass juice…”
Use proper English: that’s “…cum, saliva and santorum…” (ref. Urbandictionary.com) LOL
It helps when having a 3 way with a partnered couple if they leave their feelings for one another at the bedroom door. If a partnered couple is inviting a 3rd to join in for fun, everyone needs to be an equal.
Hot damm I’m hard now…
Just 2 guys short of a threesome….
Thanks for beating me to the Santorum correction, makes for more solid imagery, although now there’s the probability that the term will expand during the fucktard-fest that defines the conservative race from the White house…
I’m skeptical about a regular 3-some , however, I can’t knock it until I try . Although I never have done it but my fantasy is a little more greedy and self fulfilling by having double pig roasted on both ends (2 cocks in mouth, 2 cocks in ass) and being sucked by a fifth guy. LoL
Darrel Duggar that made my day lol
latinlust69 your 100% right, Thad I hope you got that 9″ phone # for a later fun date, I’ve done mfm-mmf-mmm the mfm’s were back when I was str8 I thought I was in heaven till I tried mmf & mmm so far only 1 time did it get awkward because the other top was not able to keep it up then he was kind of pushed aside, we tried to suck and worked to keep his dick hard but it didn’t work so we carried on while he watched, so I feel 1 out of six 3 ways is not bad odds
Have never been lucky enough to be in a mmm 3way,but it has ALWAYS been my number one fantasy to be the middle man.One guy filing my mouth and one balls deep inside my ass and painting me white.Thanks to all who have opened my eyes to the logistics of planning it out and making sure no one is left out,much love and mad respect to all who have shared
I am proud of being gay. I am proud of who I am and I am glad that I am free to love somebody. However, do you really think three some, foursome are something really that important in all the gay community. I mean just because you are gay doesn’t mean we all should be decadent and all get involved in orgies. I mean do we even have some guidelines moral standard that we at least follow. I am for equality and such but how can we be recognize as such group of loving citizens if we all do is sex and hump each other until we bust our nut. Are we gays are just liberated fucks or what?? I would like to know. Can we just be like some people who are in love and have a family and just normal conservative homosexuals.?? we fight for AIDS but sometimes we don’t because we still condone to such polygamous relationship how does that justify our right to be respected or be given the kind of recognition if we all promote threesome?? I just want to know??
It’s been forever since I had a threesome. What I remember is that if u were the guest with a couple, then someone will be jealous of you if you perform something better than they do. This was not really an issue with buddies/roomates that invited a 3rd party. Main rule is make sure everyone gets off because whoever does not is gonna feel a strange type of way.
Experienced 2 threesomes so far, my first happened when I was 19 and I was with a 37 year old partnered guy who’s partner was 35 and both very goodlooking guys. The 3 of us were in their pool and made our way into the bedroom, they made me feel absolutely incredible, we shared kissing, oral and they both took turns rimming me, at times they were both rimming me. They fucked me well, I had no clue I could repeatedly cum like I did. I was a repeat visitor at that home for about 3 years, then they moved 600 miles away, I really miss them. My 2nd time was with older guys also, we had a good time, I was what’s called spit roasted, which was alright,
but nothing like my first. I think there should be no selfishness in a threesome, everybody should share the experience.
I love threesomes. I love having two cocks in my mouth at the same time and I love being spit roasted too. My favorite way to finish is on my back jacking myself while my guys kneel on either side of my head jerk off all over my face while I hold my mouth open and stick out my tongue.
I’ve done a fair number of 3somes in my lifetime and one of the things I find most incredible about them is all 3 of us kissing at once – all together; all 6 lips and 3 tongues all interlocked. Why is it you never seen that in any pornos? I just don’t get it – it’s an incredible feeling. Anyone?
3 ways can be fabulous, but like a lot of others have said all 3 parties must be into it. My ex and tried it a couple of times and I always ended up just watching or leaving the room. It never occurred to him that it there were 3 of us there, lol. one of the many reasons he is an ex.
@Timmy
Yes, indeed. You are ENTIRELY grammatically correct!
And in formal English, such as doctoral theses, that would be the three S’s:
…semen, saliva, and santorum.
An awful lot of guys are into 3 somes and they can be great. the best ones just sort of “happen”
I’m a top who usually hosts. On more than a few occasions I’ve had a fb on his way or already at my place & I’ll get a message from another bud who I’ve played with. I like sub guys so I have invited the third over without telling my current guest, the buzzer rings & more fun starts. Never had anyone freak & leave. The key here is knowing both parties & knowing they are open to 3some. Also have had couples approach me & for the most part they have been fine too.
Here’s some advice to bottoms & cocksuckers, If you are on a hook up site or app say you are looking for a 3way upfront. I’ve been online setting up a new guy to come over and after several messages, the bottom will say if you have any buds I’d love to service you and your friends. 1) I’m not your pimp & want my cock sucked, I don’t care about anybody else’s cock but mine. 2) If you want 2 or 3 guys to fuck you it’s your job to find them. 3)Think about it dumb ass, After setting things up you say you want another cock. Great way of saying my cock isn’t enough for you.
4) if you are planning to get fucked you HAVE to have be showered & prepped. If things get “messy” be ready to be told you will not clean up here. You will put your clothes on over your shitty ass & get shoved out the door.
Very important, after a 3way or any hookup where you are the host, the other parties rinse off first & leave before you do. If you have any kind of script in your bathroom, put them someplace else safe. Don’t set yourself up to ask an MD for an early refill. They may not & your insurance prob won’t cover it.