Gay Stuff : Unlock Yo’ Pictures!
I came across this Rihanna “Bitch Better Have My Money” parody converted into “Bitch Unlock Yo’ Pictures” on Youtube and I had to share it with you guys. The Parody was created by Arron Malachi, check him out, he is a funny character!
The idea behind this parody is SOOO real though. It happened many times that I talked with dudes with locked pics and even after talking for a bit, no face or body picture was shown….and they keep on asking questions like it was normal: ” what are you into?”, “what cock size?” etc etc. Dude do you think I want to talk about these things before seeing your God damn face? What if you are not my type at all? Your pictures are my #1 priority. If I don’t like your face, you might have a 14 inches dick in your pants, it’s not gonna happen! I understand that you might still be in the closet, but do you really think I will suck your dick without seeing what you look like? Maybe some bottom whore will, but I won’t!
So “Bitch Unlock Yo’ Pictures”!
Thoughts?
Anonymous
Totally agree.
BUYP – NOT an unreasonable request for me. As much as I fantasize about being a SLUT …. It is just not in my DNA. If I can’t get by the face …. I don’t care about the rest of the body. God knows I’ve tried. It just does not work for me. DAMMIT! Especially IF you spent a considerable amount of time flirting with each other! So … BITCH, UNLOCK YOUR PICTURE!!!!
So just to clarify…
You’re a bottom whore if you don’t care what someone looks like, don’t need a pic, and willing to randomly suck/fuck any stranger’s dick?
You are not a whore if you require a picture first to verify that you like the guy’s face before agreeing to a random fuck or dick suckoff?
Seriously, dude? Why should I have to show my face online? Why not decide after I/you come over? I can understand (only a little) not wanting to come all the way across town without knowing what I look like first, but if I’m the one coming to YOU, why is it SO important that you see what I look like RIGHT. NOW.? if you don’t like what you see when we meet, we go our separate ways, no harm no foul. You can’t wait??
Another thing that ticks me off is guys that ask for my photo without showing me their photo.
and what’s with needing a photo in the first place, anyway? Are we all such shallow fags that we can’t even imagine being with someone who isn’t drop dead gorgeous? most of the guys with this attitude are no adonis themselves.
I am Iinto hookups so I do not care what a guy looks like. I only care about his body and cock pictures not face. And if he wants to suck my cock, and he asks me for face pictures I tell him, do you want to suck my cock or my face? Because you are not getting any face pictures ever. I will send him body and cock pictures. This is why I love glory holes because it is anon. I have been going to them a lot more often.
Happy to unlock my pictures with new guys I’ve had a couole of initial chats with about what we’re seeking and with guys are are within a reasonable travel distance. If there seems to be a match about what we’re looking for and a reasonable chance that we’d get to meet, it’s a go.. Also any time unlocking pictures comes up, the requestor needs to open his first.
There is no excuse in 2015 to have no pics. PARANOID BS. They worry about a disease and state so but yet they might be a disease period…like in the head. there are so many filters on this site to keep protected. It is totally unacceptable as are half the egos maniacs on site. Puckable…and I find no pics to be more offensive than the act of asking for something in of in itself. EGO ! PARANOIA ! LIARS !!
I don’t unlock for everyone for 2 reasons. Number 1, Conversation is very important to me. If a guy is impatient, only interested in face value, or not willing to have a conversation, he isn’t for me. I always start as friends before I jump in bed anyway. Just because we’re friends doesn’t mean I will sleep with you. Number 2, I live at the threshold of bigot hell, so I’m not out. There are plenty of bitter, shallow, dead beats out there who would love nothing more than to destroy my career by outing me. I, as well as a close friend have been threatened by such guys. Please try to be a little more open minded for those of use who don’t have the luxury of living in San Francisco.
what the fuck sent a text of your face if like the vibe only ass block to many ass hole on the line
I’m in the closet. That’s the way it is. I don’t show face pics unless I’ve seen one first. End of story. Have to be careful.
Firstly I think it’s amusing that an article on unlock is written by anonymous. LOL
We have the option for what is seen publicly, what is locked, and when to unlock. My public photos are intended to give some idea along with my stats as to what I’m like. One of them shows me from the tip of the nose down. I have reasons of professional sensitivity to not want my face all over the internet.
If I’m talking to a guy and we both feel a real interest I have my face pic and x rated pics that I can open. But please don’t ask to see any more of me than you are willing to show of yourself. Isn’t that fair? What’s with the “you contacted me first so your pics should already be opened? Are yours?
If someone sends a polite greeting there is nothing worse than the cold one word response of “unlock.” Ask me nicely or offer to open your own.
Or what about the guys that have no pics at all and demand unlock? Or they ask for your cell and/or email and then they’ll send. Give me a break!
I really wish A4A had a system where we could decide which pics to open and which to keep locked for each situation. Maybe I only want to show my face and save the goodies till I see yours. Or I want to open all to some people and not all yet to others.
Either way, they are my private locked pics and the decision to unlock is mine and at my discretion, not some one worded demand – unlock!
I don’t have any locked pics on my profile. Why? Because I prefer to be upfront about my looks. If the guy likes what he sees, he can msg me, if not, move along to the next, pls.
That being said, I don’t hookup without seeing a face pic, sorry. Mine are out there, so unlock IF you want to get together.
I’ll unlock my pix if I damn well want to…. that’s why we have lockable pictures to begin with!!!
I guess I’m a little weird compared with most gay guys -I want to see a face pic, not a dick or ass shot. Soft or hard, a dick is a dick, and very few asses look all that special. But a face tells you a lot about the man. So many guys say they won’t meet without seeing my cock first. I have several face pics to share, but refuse to post dick pics or other not-quite-G-rated photos. As far as unlocking goes, he who asks unlocks first. If I contact a guy first I always unlock. If someone contacts me without unlocking, I won’t request that he unlock unless the talk gets sexual -and then I need to see who I’m dealing with. Friendly chat and banter I can do with anyone, but if you want to get sexual I need to see your face. And if you need to see my dick instead of my face, then we’re not gonna work out.
On a side note: Why is it that so many guys post naked body pics when they really don’t have very good bodies? I know beauty is always in the eye of the beholder, different strokes, etc. but I think a friendly, smiling face would generate a lot more interest.
Didn’t quite care for your name calling.
I have to agree with Admir on the fact that not all of us live in SF or have the luxury of living completely “out” lives. I do try to have a chat first and I will chat with other faceless profiles and meet with them also. I like to meet in a neutral location, but if invited over then I’ll go. I have been catfished before by someone who had all of a fake pic up with fake stats so I don’t hold it as too much of an important issue. I have also ran across a lot of hustlers who really should post in the “PRO” section. In short, I do hookup and if we know what each other look like before meeting, that’s fine, but I also don’t care if me meet blindly.
I agree 100% it’s the law of attraction,if I am feeling your conversation and what I read in your profile. I will unlock my photos for you. Hell anyone can write a beautiful profile but the proof is in the seeing.
24Kplay
My main priority is dick size-yup. I’m a total size queen. I don’t really care what age (over 18 of course) or race or what they look like as long as he has a nice big dick. That is the cock whore in me. I would like to find a strong good looking well hung black man to wake up with every day, but until then…as much big dick as I can get!
What an annoying song.
Doramo and greagorry, it seems like you guys only have a face that only a mother would love or too old for anyone or a troll. A face pic means everything here. My gripe here is why is it ok to have a picture of your cock as your primary pic?
Why deal with a person that shallow. Do does your mother know your picture of your cock is on the internet? When a person leaves a trace on my profile and their primary pic is their cock i block them right away. As there’s something wrong with them. Stranger danger, i don’t want to disappear and star in Dateline on friday night
I have in my profile that I do not post or send face pictures. Guys will still contact me first and when I show some interest, 99% of the time they will ask “face pic”? This is so disrespectful. Sometimes I think this all Charlotteans know how to type. I’m not good looking nor am I ugly, I just don’t want my face posted on a sex site or being sent around on email. Go to facebook and look at all the face pictures you want.
What about those of us with “no locked pix at all”?
We have to beg someone to “open theirs”? Fuck that!
Playing the picture game is for “second graders”……….
“I’ll show you mine if you show me yours”
Wanna see my pix? I’m not afraid, check out
1HUMANMALE
Seriously this is what is wrong with society. If you are online to date and get to know someone for more than meaningless sex. Then no a face pic should not be your number one priority. What if you fell in love with who someone is rather than what they look like.
Did someone actually say it’s fine not to show your face until you show up at the guy’s house?
There are no words. Wow.
I won’t respond without face pics. If some guy walked up to me on the street with a ski mask on, I wouldn’t make conversation with him either. It’s no different online.
What drives me particularly insane is when I get a message from someone with all their pics locked asking “Got anymore pics?” My profile has (non-nude) shirtless body shots and several face photos. If you haven’t shown ANYTHING, why on earth would I be inclined to share more pictures with you?
I agree with Gizmo, I so sick and tired of seeing someone post a pic of their cock or ass in place of their face…don’t get me wrong, I love to look at cocks but I want to see the face first. You can have the worlds best cock and ass, but if the face doesn’t turn me on then it’s meaningless what you’ve got in your pants. A4A should have a policy that requires you to have a face pic or else no profile at all. I’m sick of hearing guys whine that they’re not out so they can’t post a face pic…NewsFlash…It’s the 21st. century, not the 1950’s, it’s ok to be gay now. I live in the most god awful red conservative bible thumping holier than thou jeeezus freak state of Oklahoma and yet I have the courage to post my ugly mug on this site as well as a few others. When I see a profile that looks interesting but there are no face pics or the pics are locked, I just skip it and move on. Guys should realize how many chances they are missing because of no pics. If you want to lock the pics of your junk ok, but not the face. In this day and age there is simply no excuse for not showing your face.
Well, at the top, let’s get THIS out of the way…anyone who’d hit me with “YO’ pictures” would probably draw a block based upon that alone. So, the issue doesn’t matter, because you’d never get a reply. GOT IT? Note in profile: NO ‘HOOD RATS!
That this discussion thread even exists astonishes me.
1. Whether or not I will be PHYSICALLY attracted to someone depends on what they look like. That’s called logic.
2. Since I’m not here to make friends–my profile states as much–I need to be reasonably assured that I’ll find a guy physically attractive BEFORE I invest time chatting with him.
This doesn’t mean I’m shallow; it means I’m human. I don’t apologize for needing more than a sparkling personality to get an erection.
For me, face figures prominently into attractiveness, so I need to see your face.
Why is this concept so baffling to some?
If you don’t unlock, I have no reasonable guarantee that I’m chatting with someone I’ll find physically attractive.
My time is valuable. I expect yours is, too. I don’t care to waste it on idle chitchat with someone to whom I am not physically attracted.
If I wanted a friendly, platonic conversation I’d hit up a friend, not log on to A4A.
Worse yet, those who won’t post a face pic, even behind a lock.
You don’t seriously expect me to just take your word for it when you promise I’ll be physically attracted to you, do you?
I suppose I could go to the trouble of traveling to meet you just to find out if I find you attractive. After all, I have nothing better to do than run around the city meeting strangers so I can get a look at them.
What’s only slightly less crazy is the expectation that I’ll give you my phone number or private email address so you can send me a pic.
How about I just give you my street address?
In fact, why don’t we all just post our street addresses on our profiles?
After all, I want to be as accommodating as possible here, because I’m sensitive to the fact that you have reservations about posting your face pic–even behind a lock.
Just show up at my apartment. If I’m not attracted to you, I can politely shut the door and assume that will be the end of it. Please, faceless strangers, stop by anytime!
Better yet, how about those of you who don’t post pics or who keep them locked only look at other profiles that don’t have pics or keep them locked?
My face and torso are public. And I’m pretty sure all of these pic-less Romeos aren’t hitting me up because they were moved by what I wrote in my profile.
I wish there were a way for A4A to create a filter that automatically blocks profiles without pics from EVEN VIEWING those with pics…
On the concern or interest for unlocked pictures, I have one point to note:
•My personal Online search requests the site to return results of only those with pictures. With that noted, that search does include other personal pages where the main photo is locked. I generally refrain from viewing those pages. In these pages with pictures results, there however are others with no main picture, but I know that when I view these pages that there’s one or more public pictures inside the pages. I understand, psychologically speaking, that many if not most men respond very well to imagery; let’s say here that this is compared to words.
I cannot end this thread submission without acknowledging something that had been listed by an earlier submission in this thread. I’m paraphrasing here, but it was something of assuming of any given man having ‘a disease in the head.’ And I’m guessing that such a conclusion can be reached if the man has no picture or even–if he does have a picture that the image exudes–for lack of a better term–nuts. Of course there are many diagnosable diseases out there, but sometimes, I like to think just to myself that there are unwritten diseases that aren’t quite as easy to diagnose–like: Mean, dumbass, rude, inconsiderate, stupid, ignorant, misinformed… anyone may take it from here, but I have some positive and happy things to do elsewhere.
The singer’s voice hurt my ears. It’s funny for like 3 seconds then I couldn’t listen anymore. All these homos trying to be Tenor I’s.
If I’m fucking you I want to see your face. Sorry if you’re in the closet or whatever. If I don’t know what you look like you’re not coming over. Too many gay guys play games and try to fake their way into your bed. Forget it. It’s sex. I can be picky about who I’m sleeping with.
Dating, chatting and all that? It’s less important because I’m investing emotion and time into you so there’s more that can catch my attention and attract me. But just fucking? I need face, body, ass and cock to even consider it.
There are some REEEEALLY dumb guys posting on this one, and I’m betting large that they’re all Millennials. The Millennial gay boys grew into this life with no mentors, as a lot of them died, and the survivors mostly went into hiding. This is rather obvious, as they’re growing up to be pretty obnoxious and insufferable, not to mention shallow. Oh wait…isn’t that ALL of the Millennials??
I have my face on display because I was tired of dealing with the “unlock” demand. Perhaps that’s reckless of me, but I’m out and don’t have a high profile career.
In spite of that, I still get asked for more pictures. There’s really no pleasing people on here, though I can understand if someone really wants to know how you look before you come over; they are revealing their home to you, after all.
You can see very clearly along this thread where the Millennials are versus those of us who had to deal with playing it cautious.
Do I want to see a guy’s face? Sure, but I completely understand if he feels he needs to keep it locked. I will chat with a guy on here for hours, if I’m so compelled and I don’t ever have to ask him to unlock. A conversation online (or even the telephone!) with ANYONE does not require one’s face to be seen. If you can’t deal with that, you have issues.
If I want to meet up with a guy, I’ll ask to trade photos. And if I ask, I will unlock first. If they ask, they open first — and here again is where the Millennials’ arrogance kicks in. They think even if they ask first, the other guy is supposed to just comply. Nope. You ask, you unlock. I ask, I’ll unlock. It’s not rocket science, kids (and I use the term specifically for some of you).
Have I hooked up with guys sight unseen? Yeah, and most of the time I’ve been pretty pleasantly surprised. You might want to try it sometime. A photo is not always the best arbiter of whether you want to hook up or not. Faces move. People smile. You don’t get that in a static photo. And yet so many guys base their decisions on that. Ridiculous.
Maybe A4A needs to make this an option in ones profile. Either check the option for “Yes Face Picture” or “No Face Picture”. You would only see profiles that match your face picture selection. I myself prefer a well fit and maintained body and good hygiene if it is a casual hookup. We all have or requirements and rules and that will never change. I would never meet someone without seeing some type of photo. Next topic: Getting gay men to read the profile before they contact someone….
What amaze me is sometimes i see the same cock or torso pictures on Craig’s list With a face picture too!. Now wtf is that???
That was TOO funny. After reading all that bitchy attitude coming from that post to scroll down and see it signed “Anonymous”!?!?! Gonne be laughing on that one all week!
Signed,
Anonymous
Peter, I think it’s on purpose, he is a regular collaborator.
My face pics (two of them) are unlocked. The private picture is what you’d think it is. So, now, here’s a situation I frequently encounter…
Some dude with one locked pic chats for a bit, and then unlocks his pic and expects me to unlock “because fair is fair.”
Or, how about this one: Guy with NO pic wants to email me a pic of himself, and then expects me to email more pics “because fair is fair.”
And how many times are these pictures the size of a postage stamp, or else they are very far away and you can’t really get a clear idea of what they look like.
I totally agree! We are not children here,why play games?? Hmu on a4a @harjuka
These days even with all the social strides that we have made I’m really not so proud to be gay at all. I guess I’m old… (just turned 30). I still can remember the days when I chatted on this thing with people endlessly and had wonderful conversations with many different men from ALL OVER THE WORLD without ever seeing a pic, and actually enjoyed it immensely. I learned so much and grew so much, learning a lot about how other people lived, knowing their values, goals and aspirations. I am a better person today for it. This to me was NOT a sex site, it was a place to “conversate” and socialize and if sex came up – no problem. But people were so much more open-minded and respectful.
It’s really sad that these “one-track minded” gay men have such a limited “space” and “tolerance” in their lives to even engage with another user online if he’s not drop-dead gorgeous. I think it is so shallow and indicative of a small and very limited mind and outlook. And just for the record to all who say that this is a sex site. I met a guy on here over 10 years ago, we have never had sex, but over these years have had the most beautiful friendship where we have supported each other through so many life changing events (good and bad!) It all started from us liking each other’s profiles, even without a picture on display and our conversations started even though we lived oceans apart in two different countries. He now lives in the US and now we meet with each other every few weeks and have have developed a beautiful lifelong friendship.
It’s sad that these shallow queens on here can never appreciate the value of such a friendship as it’s all based on how handsome a face or how sexy a body or big a cock you have. I really should say goodbye to the good old adam4adam days as I knew it, in fact they should change the name from adam4adam to slut4slut!
calling “millennials” obnoxious, insufferable and shallow and saying that “we” had no “mentors” is really fucking vapid and irrelevant to the original posting; just as irrelevant as the comments above that are saying “idc about a guys face, I just wanna fuck.” no one cares. congrats on embracing your sexuality. as for the “millennials” quip, this is the one thing myself and my close friends are fed up with. why do older gay men feel the need to think they are superior to “millennials”? because they were around for Stonewall? because they witnessed the AIDS epidemic? because all their friends died? we don’t fucking care. i mean, sure, we appreciate it, but leave it for the history books. move on with your life.
anyway, we’re talking about pics and unlocking. great parody. and it should be common social media courtesy. with “catfishing” being the Internet’s favourite past time, you never know who you could be conversing and sharing information with. another problem with profile pictures on this site is that most of them are fucking dated. most of the butthurt comments above, which I’m going to bet dollars and doughnuts on, are most likely from men who have had the same profile picture from the last decade (you know the one, at some outing or overseas trip or a beach with the date at the bottom) AND who have been the same age for the last 15 years. (also, if you do have a pic up along with stats, why do they not match? you’re 5’9 with a 36 waist, but you’re 120 lbs? queen, please. have a seat. we “millennials” are on to your shit.
just post a picture. if you’re not out and are afraid of having your world turned upside down because of dick, then don’t sign on here. and someone above really said “am I going to suck dick, or suck face?” wow. but anyway, just post a goddamn picture. an updated, recent picture. i don’t care what your dick, ass or nuts look like. i have the same body parts, too.
but who gives a fuck what I think? i’m just an obnoxious, insufferable and shallow millennial.
cheers.
It’s 2015. There is absolutely no reason why anybody on a gay website shouldn’t have a picture of their face. In my personal experience, I’ve noticed that the guys that are hesitant to post face pics are either a.) paranoid, or b.) winning in every area except face.
I don’t care if you’re built like a brick shit house and hung like a thoroughbred. If you are busted in the mug, it’s not gonna happen. Why? Because your face is the part of you I’m going to have the most visual contact with during any length encounter, either just sex or something more long term. To answer a question I saw earlier in the thread, why is it so important to see a pic before we meet? Um…To make sure you aren’t a fucking psycho, for one. You bet your sweet ass I google search your pic to make sure you don’t pop up on courtview. Before you step foot in my building, I will know your first and last name, your cell number and your email address…it’s called ‘insurance.’ If I go missing or my property comes up damaged or stolen, I will be damned if you disappear into anonymity.
“If I get there and we don’t like each other, we just go our seperate ways, no harm no foul.”
Yeah, except that isn’t what happens. We get “Well I drove all this way for nothing? Really?” or “the least you can do is touch it.” We get badgering and begging at our doorstep. The last thing we need is someone calling the landlord and filing a noise complaint because some loudmouth can’t handle rejection as well as he promised and pounds on our door for fifteen solid minutes. (It has happened.) You want to know why people screen for face pictures? It discourages creepers, psychos and stalkers. That’s the vibe you send out when you have no face picture and refuse to give one. Sorry honey, but I’ve had to blow guys before just to get them to leave, it wasn’t something I want to repeat…so yeah, show me that mug or it’s just you and rosie palm tonight.
If someone is on a gay website, chances are they are there for dick…so chances of being outed to straight people are pretty slim. The only way a straight guy could find out is if he had a membership…to a gay site…on the off chance that he could discover who around him is gay. Seriously? That’s paranoid as fuck.
As for the option b…try not to be so self-judgmental. Just because you don’t think your face is attractive doesn’t mean others feel the same. Often, the things we dislike the most about ourselves are what others find appealing. How do you ever hope to find an ideal match if you hide your face like some kind of mail order bride until you show up on someone’s doorstep? Get real. That may work now, while you’re young enough to be picky and toss people away as if they are disposable…but as you age and the pool gets smaller, what are you going to do? When the options aren’t as plentiful and the nights get colder, you still gonna be okay taking a chance on the door not being slammed in your face when you’ve aged ten years, but your profile hasn’t?
Grow up, guys. If you want a faceless fuck, stick to gloryholes.
If a guy smokes, it’s an instant turn off no matter what he looks like. If he drugs, same thing. I need to see a face, I don’t care what the body, dick or ass look like. That’s how I’m wired. I need to see a face that I like. Call me shallow if you like. I’ve been called worse in other situations, but i know what I like. If someone doesn’t like that i’m that way, then can always find another guy to match their choices, and leave me alone. It’s called being an individual.
I completely agree! If you want to talk or ever have a hlchance at meeting show me what you look like! Yeah I might get hard and Jo to that hot body or dick pic but if I see your face and find out you’re busted as fuck, I’m completely uninterested!
As for being in the closet, if you’re worried about other people finding out about your pastimes, keep your ass in the closet. You are there in that situation for a reason. I’m pretty sure you wouldn’t put a bag on your head to meet in person so why do it online?
Some of you that think there is no harm in posting your picture must not live in a very conservative area. Virginia is a employment at will state and being gay is not a protected class. I think most bosses in this area would not hire and possibly fire someone for being gay. I will post a face picture when you post your bank account and a promise to support me when I am jobless.
This topic is what is wrong with the gay community and men in general. I get the writer is trying to be ironic by posting let me see your face by anonymous but really? Then there is the idea that is played in comment after comment that a face pic is all you need. Who is to say if the face pic is even them, or them from 5 years ago? Then there is the idea that you can tell all you need to know by the face? Really? If you are Danny Devito why do you think Brad Pitt is going to hookup with you? Know your station in life and be honest. The Internet brings all kinds of issues to dating? And those of you wanting to say this is Christian mingle, its not. If you are looking for true love on a site where porn is on a constant addloop you are an idiot. This is a hookup site. You can put makeup on a pig all day at the end of the day it’s a pig. Also no one should expect what they can’t give themselves. You don’t want to put your face pic up because you are a closet case don’t meet people and expect them for bare all for your enjoyment. If you can not be out because of where you live move. Grow up be a man. Don’t act like a little boy. The world is not mommy and daddy . No one owes you anything. You don’t have the right to expect anything from anyone.
My face pics are posted up front. My cock pics are locked.
I never ask someone to unlock, without unlocking my pics first. The only thing I won’t do is post a full nude, face and cock pic.
I don’t care who see’s my face. And I don’t care who see’s my cock.
You just have to put them together.
That is without doubt the most awful song I have ever heard. Who are you, you untalented, annoying person? I don’t have a photo because I’m trying to figure out how to upload one using my tablet. But when I do if the ones who reject me outright because of the fact there is no photo contact me boy I’m I gonna give them a piece of my mind. And it will be a face pic. I hate it when guys have a pic of their various body parts. I don’t care. But I understand when guys look at my profile and there is not pic. They think I’m Frankenstein ‘s monster. Perfectly understandable. Yet for me its not that way. I don’t feel the same. It’s exciting waiting to meet that person for the first time to see what they look like. Have I been disappointed? Yes, but just how it goes. Looks aren’t everything. I want to know what kind of person you are. How do you conduct your life? How do you treat people? What kind of heart do you have? Is it fibrant, beating full of life or is it a dead, cold, souless, heartless stone? Unfortunately on a4a most of the men don’t want to give you chance to get to know them. You are not a person. You are there as a thing to satisfy their lust. But who am I? I’m someone with all the hopes, fears and wishes and apprehension about my life and future as are you. Who are you to treat me as I’m not?
Actually, I prefer meeting guys without seeing their pic; it adds to the excitement. And besides most of the guys here aren’t physically attractive so if I look at their photos too long I tend to have second thoughts and most times I change my mind about meeting and even chatting. Actually, after seven years using this site I’ve never come across any photos where I felt the guy was so good looking that I just had to meet him! I normally settle for guys in my vicinity who has time to meet.
As for meeting I guess I prefer having regrets after the hookup rather than before. It’s been in my best interest to focus on the potential fun and not on the majority of these mugs here.
Terrible song.
I can partially agree with the post though. That person sounds extra shallow so I hope his looks are able to back up what he’s into. The “Dl” thing is so played out. Tired of profiles with just torsos or memes or cartoons or quotes. If you do not have a pic I will not respond. Thats like meeting in public and you have a box surrounding you with a meme on the front. Words only describe so much and it seems the same profiles with no oictures also have no profile information filled out.
And that song is terrible.
What makes it worse is when they ask to see your locked pics but they don’t even have the courtesy of unlocking, emailing or having pics to show in the first place but are the first ones to have in their profile “no pic no reply.”
Also that song is terrible.
hey.
if you don’t wanna show yourself, then you do you, boo boo; but, please, don’t be “that guy” who wishes to retain complete anonymity, yet still proceeds to ask me to unlock the rest of my pictures.
for, at the moment, my profile’s pictures shows both my face and upper body (back from march of this year {i’ll be updating my pics soon, j.s.y.k.})..
..the question thus begs asking, “who are you to be evaluating me for ‘worthiness,’ without having to be subject to same?”
FaceFan pretty much said it all, with his reply to those [misguided] souls, who maybe didn’t understand the implicit intent of the original poster’s — which i assume to be, “if you can see who i am, then you need to let me see who you are too, bud.”
If someone asks for me to unlock before we talk it’s just an instant delete
I’ve met guys with pics that are old pics and certainly don’t represent them anymore at all, and I’ve met guys with horrible pics that certainly didn’t do them any justice, and I once met a guy without a pic who said he had a 10-incher (which he did) and I certainly didn’t care what his face looked like when he fucked me with that huge thing. So life is a crapshoot. Take a chance sometimes, and it’s fun.
As many opportunities I may have missed because I won’t meet without a pic, it doesn’t affect me. The statistics are real. Us people with photos wil have 3x more conversations, which can lead to whatever we are looking for, even if we’re not model hot or thin. Meanwhile, a person who has no pic can be gorgeous, successful, hung, and tight… But who’s going to take their word for it? This is the catfish generation. If people are lying about what they look like and have pics, I even less likely to believe what you claim without pics.
And no, I will not give you my email or phone number to send it to me. There’s a private pic option for a reason. I respect your privacy and reasons for it… But your pic better be on the site we are chatting on.
i have body shots only since i am closeted and married. My pet peeves are the guys that show no pics at all, ask you for a face pic and havent shown u any pic never mind face pic of themselves.
Second pet peeve is guys who send u a smile or a message telling you that theyre interested but dont unlock.
If someone wants a face pic, i will send it to their private email address not here, as long as i get one first. and plese dont tell me u only have one email address. Do i think pics are important? U bet, once i posted pics the number of hits increased tremendously. its only natural for any man to want to at least visualize who he is going to meat with. Lets face it you do have to be somewhat attracted to who u want to sleep with. Thats nature, pics are a great way to break the ice. just my opinion. ;-}
THANK YOU, Lhb, for amply proving my points beyond all argument. Yes, we WERE around for Stonewall, and yes, we WERE around for the repeal of sodomy laws, and yes we WERE around to witness hundreds of our friends/lovers/buddies die, and yes, we did march in the streets when PRIDE was formed, and ACT-UP and all that, and yes, we rallied for marriage equality, so YES, it DOES matter…because YOU get to reap the benefits of all that travail. Just because you have the attention span of a gnat due to overindulgence in techno-crap and drugs and bad parenting does NOT make these things not matter. If it weren’t for us, you’d probably have a nice criminal record right about now.
This “Unlock Pics” is ultimately what turns people away from this site including myself! Why is it fair for you to know who your speaking with and not vice versa. The DL assholes fuck it up for everyone!
THANK [email protected] You SAID THAT!! You took the words right out of my mouth. I find the ones that are 40+ and think they can pass for 30 something to be hilarious. AT least look the age you’re trying to pretend to be, IDIOT!
I agree. But sometimes I don’t care for a picture, but only if I feel like you’re of quality and are genuinely interested in a friendship— trust me, I can tell. What I really hate is when guys message me because of the pictures that I have up, but their profile is blank. The only reason you messaged me is because of my picture, so why should you not having a picture be an exception? FUCK OFF!
@fshpinc “On a side note: Why is it that so many guys post naked body pics when they really don’t have very good bodies?”
I was surprised when I first started playing at the large number of guys (good looking or not) who enjoyed playing with the “or not” guys. Not all guys are primped, preened, and practically perfect as the photos on blogs here always depict. Some how that’s the Standard of Gaydom. In reality, look at profiles. Primped, preened and practically perfect guys are few and far between. I’m not one of the lucky ones, but I have more sexual fun now in my 50s than I ever did in my 20s. And with guys of all kinds of shapes and sizes.
So that “don’t have very good body” which doesn’t attract one guy, will be a hit for another. Guys come in all shapes and sizes. For that reason, they cum in all shapes and sizes with guys who trip their triggers … primped, preened and practically perfect … or NOT!
Its 2015 why hide yourself
Ed, if thats the situation, then your hopeless of finding anyone on this site. There are more places to go if your afraid of losing your job at McDonalds. We just dont want to wadte our time chatting then find out you look like the phantom of the opera with a 10 yr old outdated picture.
I dont think there is some department at your job scanning at gay websites looking for you.
yeah, it’s 2015. but there are also people out there who are not beneath jumping a guy who admits to being poz in their profile after seeing their picture, if they see them out and about. There was a guy in my hometown who shared a face pic with someone. That someone then proceeded to plaster his pic all over craigslist with lies about how he was spreading hiv to everyone and anyone. Less than a month later, he was **murdered** by a group of thugs who saw and believed the Craigslist lies.
So, no. I’m NOT going to give you a face pic. If meeting up and THEN deciding that you don’t want to do anything isn’t good enough for you, then you can kiss my ass. I’m not going to put my life in danger just to indulge your laziness.
Doramo. Then just don’t expect much on here. It’s the same thing if you pick up at a spot or bar. They can cut you up and place you in their freezer for family thanksgiving. Don’t call us lazy.
I don’t see anyone talking about the elephant in the room- I think people would feel more comfortable opening their pics if there weren’t so many scammers on Adam who copy your photos and use them for their own desires, including creating bogus pfiles with someone else’s pics to extort people in some way. It would be great if this could be prevented but it can’t. As a result, I will continue to be selective about for whom I open my pics.
Gizmo,
If my job were at McDonalds I might not be so worried about loosing it but I have a good job that makes the payments on my house, car and boat. I really don’t think there is a department at work scanning gay web sites, but I am pretty sure there are some churches in the area that do. Please don’t wadte your time talking to me. From your replies I can tell that no matter what you look like or how nice a package you have, you are all DICK.
P.S. Yes I have hooked up a few times on this site. If we meet and the chemistry isn’t right we make nice talk, have a cold beverage and go our separate ways.
Most guys on here are looking for a hook up, we are not interested in faces & if you need one, look somewhere else. Most guys I deal with are married/partnered and don’t want their business out there, we just need a little extra on the side.
Most times a face pic is a turn off for me, it’s never as good as I fantasized about. If a guy opens his door and has an unattractive face, I look away cause I’m just in there to fuck some man ass and leave. That’s the way it is.
Just because your momma loves your face, doesn’t mean we’ll all love to see yours.
Better to keep the mystery with faces, I do want to see body/dick/ass pic though.