Fantasy : Voyeur Or Exhibitionist?
When you workout in a gym, you get to see hot men in underwear, wrapped up in towel or even naked. Many guys at my gym are not shy at all…some are maybe overconfident or simply like to show what they’re packing! At my gym I see naked hotties all the time and wow…. I like it a lot! I guess I’m a bit voyeur!
I have many fantasies in my head like this hot straight hottie that I see every day at the gym. I fantasize (and jerk off at night) thinking about having sex with him in the locker room. You know the saying “your imagination is your preview of life’s coming attractions.” So who knows, maybe one day it will happen!
So in the comment section below, let me know if you are more voyeur or exhibitionist and give an example that explains your choice.
Dave
Yea, I’m the guy that walks around with a boner and makes eye contact!
I am equal opportunity , Have sseen both sides of this over the years at the Gym
Voyeur. Exhibitionism will wind you up in jail, oft times.
Why fantasize about straight men?
einathens: why not?
I’m definitely an exhibitionist. I work hard to stay in shape and really enjoy showing off, preferably nude. I am more of a grower so I like to be a little excited which is never difficult if I know others are checking me out. My favorite place is a clothing optional campground in western Wisconsin. Open sexuality is allowed so I let myself get fully erect and show off for all who care to watch. It’s a great feeling walking around the grounds nude and hard!
Well, I’m definitely a quiet and totally perverted voyeur. I always make sure to look just long enough so that the object of my visual affection has no clue that I’ve just mentally raped him, dated, married and divorced. I am by no means an exhibitionist cus my mind is always mentally fucking any and all hotties. Thus, causing me to get a boner. this happened a lot back in my gym going days that i eventually just showered at home to not go through that embarrassment. Im lucky i didnt get thrown out of some gyms….LOL
Oh, definitely an exhibitionist, well, more so when I had the bod to go out and make a good impression. Clothing was invented to covered up old fat bodies, people. You see fat old guys walking around the baths swinging dick and you understand the necessity. I’m not the exhibitionist who stands naked in front of his apartment window (okay, a few fishbowl fucks with guys that don’t believe in drapes). I’m more of the nature boy exhibitionist, though cell cams and recorders have me less likely to engage anymore. Who wants to be the laughing stock of YouTube? . Oregon has no nudity laws (a few local statutes….there was a problem a while back, some old troll deliberately standing naked in his front yard daily waiting for the school bus to pass….and it was rural, so he fell outside of any jurisdiction). Warning, open sex and even exposed hard-ons will get you lavacious and lewd charges. No boners. But nudie holes and hot springs abound all over the state. Some of what you see is hot, but like society in general, most is not. I was a big cold water fanatic, stripping and hitting streams, rivers, waterfalls, all the while sporting wood no matter how cold the snow melt. I’d even go in the dead of winter, walking naked half mile thru two feet of snow to crack the ice on my favorite steam bend and ease my way in up to my shoulders, with the underlying fantasy that someone out there was watching. I would have the most amazing orgasms straddling some snow covered log, lying back and jerking off as I lay there shivering and shaking uncontrollably. mile high spurts.
That said, I never engage in sex where the underaged might catch a glimpse or be offensive to the public at large. I love backyard orgies, outdoor bathhouse pools (hello, Houston), backrooms, etc. I love giving shows having sex with other guys in main areas at baths and sex clubs….right up to the point some fat bastard feels he has the right to come up and try to spit slick a finger up my ass. If two guys engage, and they brush off your advances, then respect them and back the fuck off and count yourself lucky to be witness to a live sex show. Bath owners, how about a large room in the center of the building like an octagon with windows all around and a locking door so exhibitionist can play without interruption? A few perks, table, sling, St. Andrew’s cross, you decide. My favorite bar story is Lafittes upstairs during Mardi Gras. The place is packed shoulder to shoulder, downstairs and up and I’m looking at the balcony and how those don’t collapse is beyond me, how the upstairs doesn’t fall amazes me with that many people. Anyway, the drink line is barely distinguishable, guys lining their shoulders up in a winding line through this sea of guys and as my position in line works its way up past the pool table, I get this tug at my belt. I look down and there’s this blond guy crouched under the table smiling up at me. I give him a grin like, thanks for being attracted, and the crazy guy proceeds to open my fly and starts to bob up and down on my cock. The sea parts a bit and guys start hooting this guy on. So I’m standing there with my dick and balls out and pretty soon there’s two hundred guys watching me get blown, laughing and hollering. Fun shit.
Hell I’m both… I’m not builxt at all and i have a tight swimmer’s built aka what most of gay culture would say a “twinkie” body. I flaunt my body in person or on webcam like I’m a Greek God.. At my age I’m proud of it. 38 yrs old, 5’3 tall, 110 lbs.. If you have any doubt, come by profile and check my profile pics.. My username on here is bitesizetreat.. I say flaunt your body, rather skinny, fat, or built like you selling a suit by Armani during Paris Fashion Week and hell enjoy the view too…
I plead guilty to both! I am proud of my 7.5″ and am happy for anyone interested to notice. I also can’t help glancing (leering) at other guys in the locker room as discreetly as I am able, and whenever possible try to time the end of my workout with one of the hot guys I know aren’t shy about showing their stuff.
While most of the time it leads nowhere there have been occasions when I have found some quick action. A couple times a guy jumped in the shower with me, once I sucked a guy off while he was facing into his locker, couple times I have traded bj’s in the sauna, and once I even got fucked in the tanning room by this gorgeous kid. I’m not sure if it is just all the nakedness, or that working out makes guys horny, but it can be a great place to find a hook up. Shame it doesn’t happen more often though.
Actually Im both i live in country and have a neighbor guy tthat has friends over alot they set and drink in his garage all time sometimes i go over to however his garage is bout 50ft from my horse barn and thy always come out by the tree to take a piss so i get to see all them do this. i night i came home from working out in pasture it was bout 10:30 i went in took hot shower grabbed me couple of beers and went on back porch in my towel i was seeting there and my dick was half hard and throbbing so i started to stroke on it i was getting into it and it was feeling so good i wasnt paying attention to anything else around me. I was good and hard my nuts were slappinmy ass as i was jacking off and was so close to cumming i leaned my head back closed my eyes a minute and didnt hear my neighbor buy walking up just as I was busting my nut he walks on the porch and was like damn man nice load ( i shoot a huge load ) i tried to cover up he was laughing and said man finsih off man dont waste it after i finished i cleaned up ran in got a pair of boxers on grabbed acouple more beers for us went out and was like man im sorry i didnt know anyone was around he like man dont be sorry that was an impressive view and nice load man we talked a bit and he kept adjusting himself a bit i noticed he saw me looking and said you like to see it i was like sure ( this guy is 55 yrs old build like brick shithouse and hot chest covred w hair to ) he stood updropped his shorts and a 11″ hard dick sprang out needless to say i was on my knees since then we have became close friends
I’m a little of both..love checking out guys at the gym, and being checked out. Particular passion for spanking, and thoroughly enjoy being bare-assed over a lap in front of a group…and often spanked by more than one at once :). If I ruled the world, clothing optional would be EVERYWHERE
It’s definitely an exhibitionist for me, I love showing off my hard,9.5 inches of Hard Cut Cock! I must admit it’s so pretty it gets me to precumming just looking at it.
Stone
love the gym !im with backinlou , always try 2 time my shower with another hottie ! God i love being in the shower & lockerroom with hot naked men !
Definitely a voyeur…always have been. I know what I enjoy seeing and am not ashamed to admit it. Some gays have such a meltdown over looking at/enjoying straight guys…and I totally don’t get it. If you have the body worthy of admiration and enjoyment…flaunt it. Chances are good I’ll enjoy the view. I don’t need your resume or personal preferences to enjoy your scenery!
I have a friend who is mostly str8 (married, 2 kids), but who enjoys being an exhibitionist. Alcohol enhances the effect and usually turns him into a stripper and lap dancer. It isn’t exclusive to me, women get the show too. I don’t mind it at all…he is a triathlete and has the body and I’m allowed to look and even touch some. I know how far I can go and he enjoys it. I’m perfectly ok with it!
I guess you can say I’m a little of both… I’m a huskier Latino dude that like to look and be looked at.
I “wood” be an equal opportunity person for both. Enjoy watching, but like to show my stuff as well. If you live in, or visit, my city, I’m open to gym time!
I enjoying looking very much. I don’t have to gawk at a cock, although I have, to see what they are showing. If your going to walk around naked and you have a nice cock, people are going to stare. I don’t mind being watched either. I have been caught blowing guys a couple of times. My cock stays in place while I’m outside.
Gay, straight, bi, trans…..who cares! We wouldn’t be on here if we didn’t like looking at other guys.
Who is that hot guy in the GIF?!
I’m much more of a voyeur, but i notice sometimes in order to exercise this fantasy i must become an exhibitionist myself in order to entice my subject to become an exhibitionist. I’m 7.5uc (small by black guy standards or expectations) so not really comfortable showing off but will do so if i know i’ll get to see a naked bod myself. Definitely have been known to stand nude in my window enticing my neighbors to strip down. 😉
I’m a voyeur. I don’t stare while in the locker room nor do I do the shower, steam room, sauna or whirlpool thing. It’s always good to get a quick glimpse of a hot guy getting dressed or undressed. I’d much rather see a cute, well fit guy on the gym floor working out. Besides, the gym is a place you are suppose to be exercising, not spending hours in the locker room.
Neither really. I’m not a gym person. I walk for exercise. It never fells to amaze me how arrogant and self absorbed gay men are. There are other people in the world. The world doesnt revolve around you. I understand you think it does but it doesn’t. I told a friend of mine most gay men need to just plainly get over themselves. He wholeheartedly agreed.
I am 50% Voyeur and 50% exhibitionist, I love it when I am surrounded by a group of guys who all want to play with me just as much as when I am watching a same scenario’s.
both for sure, i’m average hung and average looking 60 yr old man, my lover n I went to a place in Leavenworth Kansas clothing optional place we were fucking in the camper with the curtains open guys walking by I loved it sucked him off at the campfire in front of 4 other gay men and 2 lesbians it was SO HOTTTTT, and when I go to the gym deff checking the guys out no luck there yet tho and have been checked out by some younger guys, I’ve been doing a twink that’s 20 yr’s old and we play on cam on another site and have had 249 people watching me fuck him silly, That’s my personal record. I frequently turn my cam on when playing with other guys too and love showing my skills and theirs to if they don’t mind showing their face on cam…….DDDD
Agree with Einathens. For me, guys who present themselves as straight are off limits, including any fantasies while jerking off. It’s a matter of respecting their sexuality just as gay guys want (demand, feel entitled to having) theirs respected.
Having the balls to reveal yourself as gay to a hot looking guy to see if he enjoys mansex is not out of bounds. Today, there are many “straight” guys who do. If he does, great. If he doesn’t, then that’s to be respected.
On the Voyeur or Exhibitionist thing, neither really does anything for me. I’m more interested in getting guys in my paws for play than looking or flaunting. As with all things with men, being a voyeur or exhibitionist is just another entree on the buffet. If you enjoy it and are with people who do, enjoy.
I guess a bit of both. I’m proud of my 7.5″, and get many compliments when seen, and not shy to show it when possible. However, your opening “GIF” image is my ultimate Voyeur pleasure. I love seeing a well built man in a pair of boxer briefs. I get rock hard immediately. I guess I’m unique … or am I? Perhaps it is because the boxer briefs act as a wrapper to the package itself, … because given the opportunity my goal would be to strip those boxer briefs off and go to town!
Both, I’ve been a stripper in the past.
And I always look when I see a nude man.
I like both…especially outdoors. Really like watching other guys engaged in sexual play and like being watched while I’m playing with a guy or guys. Fortunately here in Palm Springs the weather is great for outdoor action and 30 gay resorts provide plenty of action.
I love getting naked and walking around outside where other guys can look at me. But I also love looking at other nude guys too. When I go to the gym I always walk around nude in the locker room. Wish there was a all male nude gym because I would love to go to the gym and be able to workout nude and watch other guys workout nude too.
I love being naked and showing off. Especially in the shower i drop the soap alot to bend over and show my smooth ass off. Also love finding places to get naked and sun bath naked. Love being watched, touched or having sex outside.
I’d say I’m more of a voyeur. I have several experiences with being a voyeur, whether it was my high school gym locker room or a gym like LA Fitness in Pittsburgh. Being around a bunch of hot guys either naked or wrapped a towel around their waist, its hot just being voyeur and fantazing about what could happen.
I too would love to know who that hot Adonis is in that GIF!
Call it for what it is, we all look at naked people. Gay, bi, and str8 men look. That is simply a fact of live. We want to know where we rank in that “department” which few really talk about. “How do I size up” next to the other guy.
At times, in the gym, guys walk around showing off their abs or the fact that they are finally toned. It may not have anything about showing off their dics. Yet. we look at the whole package. Obviously, there are those that do want to show off thier “package” and we still look.
As far as previewing and thinking about what could be, look them straight dead in the eye, ask them about their workout routine, or ask advice. Sometimes this leads to friendships or a chance encounter at breaking the ice. Once that is done– anything can happen.
I personally like the steam room or sauna. A leg pressed against another does not need a word to pass on “that message.” Looking is one thing but feeling is quite another. Frankly, I like both!
If I looked that fellow above, you’re darn tootin I’d be flapping and waving around for everyone to see.
Hello Gang ( & GangBangers !) & hope you’re all well ! It seem guys are to fickle ?? I’ve had a Lt fb since 2010 & we rendezvous every Tue eve. @7pm & sometimes @4:30pm on Sundays ! I wouldn’t mind 3X’s a week ,but that hasn’t happened yet ?? Sometime I hook up with other Btm DudeZ , but most are Extremely Erattic & too finikey ?? Some guys want the World w/ a fence around it ! I Topped one DUDE 2X’s & he was still Unhappy ? OK Whatever ?? TakeCare & Be Safe ,DW
I’m a bit of both. When I go to the gym I’m going commando. I usually try for locker 69. I put on an AC jock and hope someone decent looking likes what he sees. I take my time hoping to catch a look at a naked hottie. I’ve seen some grew ass and cock in locker-rooms. I’ve always wondered tho. Why do hot “straight” guys get naked and hide their cocks, but bend over with their backs to you such that you can almost see their tight, often shaved, butt holes?
If I looked like that guy, you’d be damn right I’d be swaggering, flapping, and flaunting about.