Health : Doing It In The Butt
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Anal sex is not just for gay men and not all gay men do it in the butt, but most gay men will have butt sex sometime in their life.
Anal sex is not just about pleasing the top, your anus and rectum have tons of nerve endings and pleasure from anal sex can come from simple penetration and/or the stimulation of the prostate gland.
Taking care of your butt is an important part of taking control of your overall health but it is not always easy to talk about with your doctor about your ass. As gay men we need a doctor we can talk to about anything especially your sex life and your ass. Your doctor need to understand the health concerns that are unique to gay men. If you do not have a doctor that you can be honest with the Gay and Lesbian Medical Association can help. Now back to your butt…
Anal hygiene is important but you should not use enemas (douche) as flooding your rectum with water can dehydrate your colon, making you more likely to get an infection. To be as safe and clean as possible, you should first, wipe your ass with a moist cloth to clean the outside, avoid eating a few hours before anal sex to help ensure your bowels are empty, and then before bottoming, fill an ear syringe with warm water and gently squeeze the water into your rectum, learning out any feces that may be lingering.One of the most important factors in caring for your anus and enjoying butt sex is getting to know your body. Before bottoming you should really know your ass well. Spend time exploring the sensitivity of your sphincter muscle (the muscle that controls the opening and closing of your anus) and how it reacts to being penetrated, when and how it relaxes and when it tenses up. Playing with your sphincter muscle can be fun alone or with a partner. This form of butt play can be something you can both enjoy prior to anal penetration (rimming can be a great way to start). Once you know your ass well, anal sex will be smoother and more pleasurable for both you and your partner.
It is important to communicate and to stop if you feel uncomfortable, experience pain or have any bleeding. Try different positions, a position where your knees are bent and drawn to your chest (on your back, chest, doggy style, etc.) will straighten out the anal canal and make penetration easier.
RELAX, breathe deep, take your time, and make sure you are comfortable physically and emotionally, as hot as it may seem to get pounded, remember, fantasy and reality can often be vastly different.
The more you care for and know your butt, the better your anal sex will be.
Dave
I love taking it in the ass but NOBODY is getting in there until I’m sure that I’m TOTALLY cleaned out! I really don’t think an ear syringe is going to tackle the job!
I’m glad you covered this. As a bottom, I am always concerned with being totally clean in my butt. I want it so clean, you can eat it and it’s just nice sensual skin. Nothing hotter than a sweet, clean, fresh asshole. I see it says douching isn’t recommended and that using an ear syringe is better, however, it usually takes more than one douching to get my butt totally clean of remaining feces. I think I will take a chance and continue to douche, because I had an experience with a couple of different guys that was unpleasant. Both guys KNEW I wanted to eat their ass. Both of these guys both had stinky holes of shit. Can’t eat that with that smell. So, i will douche to have a completely clean and smelling fresh hole.
I love to btm I usually douche before sex and it takes time to get really clean. Is there something else that can help us out like a cream to insert in my butt to prevent infection. The infection part is scary what would I do without hot anal sex
Lool that ear syringe shit is bull shit ok. Here u go coming from a seasoned pro. Don’t eat for about 6 hrs. In that time u will take a shit when u do douch afterwards amd don’t stop till water runs clear. If u know the dick is really big double douch. Squire the water in u refill the bottle and do it again. Walk around do jumping jacks do what u gotta do make sure you are clean bitches. I have to finger myself to get all the water out cuz I am very tight I don’t have sex much cuz many gay men are just nasty. Do accidents happen yes of course but do yours best to prevent them. If ur using a condom use a lot of astroglide if going raw I recommend baby oil gel. Lotion will get it in but if u tear a little it will burn. Have fun bitches
Use probiotics to keep things healthy down there.
The article before this talked about douching. This article says don’t douche. I’m a little confused. I love to bottom, but want to be completely clean inside and out. I thought I was completely clean the other night, then scat. I was so embarrassed. My partner didn’t like it either. How do you really make yourself totally clean? I always hose myself out, but sometimes it shows up.
* remember, fantasy and reality can often be vastly different.*
Truer words , and all that
No idea why this guy is giving health advice. Douche, people, don’t listen to him.
I am a top, have only bottomed 3 or 4 times. I have never enjoyed it (feels like I am about to shit), but has never hurt. I am told you get used to it. My main issue is I am fearful of not being clean enough, and would like to be able to at least offer to be Vers for boyfriends (don’t want to be limited sexually). I have heard the ear syringe tbjnfs from many experts/ resources including medical community. But many Btm friends say what I am reading here — gotta douche. Though I wonder if it’s a self – perpetuating cylce: people who douche aren’t eliminating fully due to dehydrated colon? Thoughts? Also, as a top I dont’t mind some mess. Even expert cleaners if we are fucking for 45 min or so with my Dick (8×6) some is gonna come out.
Seems there is just contradictory info out there!
I personally have not had any problems yet using water to flush out, and i have to agree an ear syringe won’t cut it! If i know someone has a smaller cock, then i don’t worry as much, but with my preference of 7″ or larger i want to make sure i am totally cleaned out!
Lube moistens me right back up, so i don’t worry.
I use a 6 quart enema bag, fill it with warm water, I run water over my wrist till it feels good and warm then I fill the bag, add about three table spoons baking soda, or I tables spoon Epsom salt, I use a 20 inch well lubed colon tube attached to the enema hose, I run the colon tube in about 15 or so inches and turn the water on slow, let it fill you up, expell the water etc. on the toilet, repeat till water runs clean, 3-4 times always gets me clean about 20 inches deep. Then wash the hole area with some good body 2ash fingerings your hole with some soap.. Now lube that hole and get ready to take it… I started this when I was 17 yo, I have always cleaned my hole a couple times a week for some good analysis play.. Probiotics keep the good bacteria and my doctor says my assignment is quite healthy for 53 yo man:~] I cannot stand an unclean hole
Dave- thanks for posting this, especially after all of the tops that commented on the blog’s previous post demanding that a bottom douche before sex.
Hygiene is important, however, douching isn’t good for someone or safe, and the gay top community shouldn’t be demanding bottoms to do something that is unsafe. It’s that simple.
I belong to other sites and I read a post that talked about using mineral oil as an enema material. I have seen bottles in the constipation relief aisles but I kind of got the impression that isn’t what its meant for. Is it suitable?
Just for info purposes… Cleaning your butt hole is not dangerous…but the constant use of chemical enemas is dangerous. The chemicals used in enemas will damage your rectal system and cause you to need an enema to facilitate evacuation of fecal matter…ie u will get to the point of needing an enema in order to have a bowel movement. Using plain water does not do this and you will still be clean enough for some anal fun.
An ear syringe will NOT clean out your ass…unless you’re only eating tic-tacs! If you’re gonna bottom out, use a hose (fire hose should do the trick) and flush that shit out, literally.
Clean it SO well in case a HOT top wants some ass to mouth play!!!!
the fear of enemas is more myth than reality. There is risk with using the “fleet” type eemas from dehydration, but a well balanced enema isnt that big a deal…if concerned drink a gator before and after…There is nothing worse that a messy cock coming out of a bottoms ass
I’ve had the experience of hanging with a bottom who no matter what he does, his hole just CAN NOT get clean enough for sex? There is always fecal matter left in there! Has this ever happened to anyone else?
You guy’s don’t deserve to fuck a man’s ass. Really don’t eat for 6 hours!!!!! Go to hell with that. Especially when everyone is looking for “RIGHT NOW” and can’t be bothered to give a guy time to get himself together. And what about if you’re in a relationship, what happens to the spontaneity. Or do you just stop eating all together.
First of all you need to realize that except in rare occasions no one is planning to be unclean. Are there guys with poor personal hygiene sure but that is a choice and no amount of shaming is going to change that. But in the end you have decided to fuck ass and that’s what ass is for so it’s going to happen sometimes.
Second of all the bottom shaming needs to stop. I have had guy’s I’ve met up with time after time with no problems obviously indicating I take the time to be cleaned out, but one rare accident and suddenly I’m persona non grata. And the idea that someone “doesn’t know how to clean” is ridiculous. Sometimes despite your best efforts your body is going to do what it’s going to do.
Third practice what you preach. The most annoying thing to me is a top that asks a bunch of questions about how hygienic I am and then shows up not having showered properly. I actually don’t mind that, but why is it okay for you to come over straight from work having not showered, but I’m supposed to have not eaten and spent and hour getting ready.
Finally, the ear syringe actually does work, unless you’re planning to get fisted or take someone who’s really long it gets rid of what’s left after nature runs it’s course and there’s a lot less change of extra water getting trapped to cause problems later. It may take two or three goes but over all the process is faster that with full bulbs. You only believe douching is better because you’ve been conditioned to believe that. And of course the time honored tradition of “I don’t do it that way/ I don’t like it so it must be wrong”.
This is a case where everyone is different and every situation is different. I don’t believe in any kind of chemical douches or enemas. I’ve tried enemas especially in those quick play times but I just don’t like the degree of control that you give up when taking those. Thankfully I’ve always known the few times when danger is about to interrupt the fun and for me when I’m using an enema it always feels like danger is approaching so I’m less confident. Get you a nice shower nozzle, put it on warm and gently hose yourself out.
I’m a top and have never enjoyed at all being a bottom. The last time was in 2004 and that was a friend. There’s nothing worse than a dirty smelly but hole. I won’t go near it. Anal sex is fine but bottoms and tops please keep it clean real clean.
What a great article I am a bottom and pretty much know my azz. I’ve had the pleasure of having regular sex with some very well endowed men. Whom taught me the inner mechanics of my rectum. I remember after having sex I always had to soak in tub with the hottest water and bubbles to relax and tighten my hole. During sex he was so huge inside me, he left me completely open. He explored all of my rectum in every position. I always use an enema before sex- I never had any problems. I think most importantly is to maintain that tightness and closure. I believe not only keeping yourself clean, but maintaining a grip for him to enjoy is phenomenal.
The saddest part about the comments on this and the previous post is the mindset that the bottom has to “respect the top”, “make the top happy”, do this that and the other for the top. It’s horrible to hear that bottoms are “scared” of being unclean. Sex should never bring fear. And it’s the way people are treated that creates that problem.
Last time I checked sex was about two people enjoying mutual pleasure. I’m not advocating bad hygiene but if a top is going to have a melt down over the occasional accident he’s just selfish and immature.
I just drink milk since I am lactose intolerant. I get good diarrhea and flush the excess with my shower massage head. I get very clean cuz the guy who breed me never has shit on their dicks and no smell or after taste since I suck out the excess cum out their dicks. No lube or oil needed. Just a little spit on the dick head and that fucker slides right in pumping life giving fluids into my cum hole. But every bottom has his own way to clean out. Unless a top, which I still have who are mud surfers. Don’t need to be clean!!!
all these guys whining about a little shit need to grow up; ever been a dad or worked in a medical profession (particularly an inpatient hospital)? lol
seriously… you guys are like “grrr i am a big masc top! sports! cars! beer! OMG POOP!!!!!! OMG OMG OMG WAHHHH WAHHHH POOP!!!”
sounds like i need to start passing around my daughters copy of “everybody poo’s”
First off: Marc — you’re a moron. Sit down, Beyonce.
An ear syringe won’t cut it. Who are you fucking, a Ken doll? Get an enema bag from a medical supply place and use warm water. No Fleet enemas, no chemicals. You don’t have to use the whole bag (unless you’re Willam or Detox, then run wild), but fill yourself (not a lot; good guideline is open the hose and count to five), hold, and then release into the toilet. Couple of times should be fine. Then shower up and enjoy.
For those people saying that takes the fun away from “right now” (shut it, Marc!), you could always do this before you go out and then see what happens. Can’t hurt to try.
Accidents do happen, but I have yet to meet any gay guy who wants to fuck a mudpit. Except Marc, of course.
I am like a 90% top guy, and can do without being a bottom, especially since there’s enough of ya’ll out there. The most gorgeous guy wanted me to bottom for him…a spontaneous thing and I just ate Mexican food…and I asked if we could connect later…he was like “probably not, I’m horny now”. I told him I just had lunch, but he didn’t seem to care, but I did, but at the same time I couldn’t pass this opportunity up. To make it a long story short, we hooked up and he didn’t seem to care that I didn’t douche… Personally, I can’t tolerate dirty bottoms, even when it’s spontaneous, a douche and shower is definitely a must…I encountered unclean bottoms and the encounter was very short lived.
If you are going to douche ( I think you should) when using a Fleet Enema bottle, dump the liquid out and replace with warm water. You will enjoy this and not dry out your rectum.
I agree with Marc regarding the reality in trying to keep the ass clean for being a Bottom and how ridiculous the Tops can be after demanding the Bottoms to go such distance but then just come and stick out their stinky cocks for simple penetration without showering courtesy. Accidents in anal intercourse will happen regardless how thorough the Bottoms try to douche or using the bulb with water before sex. If the Tops can finger themselves with douche to the point of no shits left in their asses then they will understand how much work required before a socalled hookup sex that they so want to be spontaneously all the times. Not everyone is experienced in douching or having sex everyday but at least try to have good hygiene and explore your hole yourself on normal daily basis or whenever you can so that when the time to meet it is not too much a chore. Yes Im talking to the newbies,Tops and Bottoms. And Total Bottoms remember that not every hole has the same tightness to be accommodating a big cock, small arm, or even a finger. I often prepared myself in the shower thoroughly before a date but when the sex occured there sometimes were traces of embarrassment left on the condom tips especially if the guys have huge cocks. Nobody likes to see or smell shits in the hot moment unless you are into scat but just have to keep an opened mind. Always come to a date prepared with condoms, lube, shower before and after the sex, baby wipes or moist toiletry, and definitely understanding that it’s just another load of laundry for your bedsheet especially if the guys already wash or clean themselves beforehand. I would stick to versatile guys because they will get or understand this bottom issue better than the Total Tops (clueless) or Total Bottomless do. LoL
I seldomly douche and I’m always clean. Eating a well balanced diet with fiber is the trick and probiotics can add to that. The inside of your asshole shouldnt be filled with shit if you are a healthy, regular person. A shower is fine, douching isn’t necessary to eat an asshole…you are not going inside of it! Also, the ear syringe IS a douche. you’re squirting in water and expelling it. Part of sex is spontaneity, so it’s an ass, it is what it is.
PLEASE DOUCHE!! Bottoms!! I’m mostly a top and I can’t tell you what a turn off shit and the smell is! It’s ok to douche. My grandpa even said people in his day cleaned out their bowels that way. It’s like getting a colonic! Just take some probiotics (gut friendly bacteria) So your stomach doesnt lose its defenses . Raw Sauerkraut is great, chuck full of probiotics. Also watch what you eat. Heavy processed foods will give you nasty heavy shit lol
Personally, a totally clean ass is a Best one to dick down. I have fucked dudes and females in the ass. The females seem to have had the cleaner ass. But I have had a few dudes with Clean holes. My dick is Thick and big so I open Ass up wide stretch those walls. I have had a few dudes shit on my Dick, but honestly the ass was feeling so damn good, I didn’t pull out until I busted. Hated the smell (gross) but like I said I wasn’t wasting a good nut but I will take a clean bottom any day. I do believe that cleaning the ass with certain things certain ways can dry the hole out therefore making it easy for tearing and bleeding. Research it and go with what you feel is best & safe for you, only you know your ass better than anyone else. Now any phat booty bottoms hit me up.
I been taking in the ass for thirty years or more . I have a shower hose in the shower i turn on the water to the right temp than insert it in my ass until i feel it filling up in my abdomin area i than squat down and let it all out you have to have a drain that can handle the waste going down it . I do this several times i normally jerk off before i finish as that relaxes the muscles or what ever and normally the rest of the water comes out . I do this until i get nothing but clear water . I am usually good for a few days with out douching again . I have not ever had a infection . I find it relaxing and in a sence a real big turn on simply put i enjoy it and do it often every week .
A nice clean Ass Hole is highly recommend for a great time with me. Ive got 9 inches of dick and I like to go deep. So a nice clean Ass is always essential to a great time in bed with me. A good clean dick is also important as a good clean Ass .
As a top, my only suggestion to add to this article is that shit happens, pun intended. Sometimes a bottom gets clean and a top still winds up needing to hit the sink afterwards. (I’m trying to be classy here, but you know what I mean.)
Anyway, whether it’s hooking up or LTR, when it happens, don’t be an asshole top. Tell the bottom it’s not a big deal–because it isn’t–and not to be embarrassed–because he is. A good bottom does a lot prep work for a top, and shouldn’t have to feel ashamed because some prick treats him like a toddler who doesn’t know how to wipe.
No anal sex for me. Period. And the article and the comments have completely convinced me I have made the right choice. Gross.
my first time I had anal sex I was 13 and I love it ( after the hurt and sore for 3 days) I knew I want ed more. I have had many lovers. It feels good having a big dick inside me.
This is why I will not get into anal.
I have never fucked a guy that there was not scatt.
Such a shame. They all claim they are clean.
That is impossible.
If you get fucked right scatt will appear.
No thanks, I will stick to mouth and hands.
Why turn what is to be a wonderful moment into a shit filled smelly mess. I pack a long thick rod that always ends up going places up there that bring on the bad stuff.
Marc in response to your reply: Inexperienced bottoms are always the first to hate. What in my post give you the indication or suggests that I am scared? Furthermore, why would I desire to be “unclean”? It’s like arguing with an oxymoron. Yes, I always take great care of my ass, besides it is what this post is all about….and my men loves it!
Been fucking butts all my life and a little shit has never turned me away or stopped me from enjoying the moment. A shower is essential though for a good rimming!
Sad to hear all the discouraging comments here. First off, the author is giving advice on the right thing to do health-wise. It is not the best advice for being clean however. I have been bottoming for 8 years and have been fucked countless times. My partners have always eaten my ass before and after fucking me. I have never had an issue, ever, with being “dirty” back there. It is something I take pride in. If it helps anyone, here is my process:
First I eat clean and healthy. Not everyone will but it ensures I’m not “sludgy” and gross in my stools. Second, I drink adequate amounts of water. For me it’s a half gallon daily. Third, prior to bottoming I go thru a prep routine. I use the bathroom as often as the urge comes. An hour before sex I fill an empty enema bottle(Walmart $2 for 2 bottles with saline that I empty out) and fill my ass with luke warm water twice. I stand and touch my toes for about a minute to let the water flow back into my bowels. When I can’t hold it anymore, I empty into the toilet. I do this twice. Then I get in the shower and do a single bottle in the shower as a rinse. I use coconut oil as lube. This helps with the health and dryness factor. I finish my shower and prepare for the fun. I have had 9.5″ cocks in me and have taken multiple cocks in the same night(I know I sound like a slut haha). It is totally possible to be completely accident free if you simply put a little thought and effort into it. I’m in no way unique but 8 years is a great record.
Good luck!
I love ass – both eating it and breeding it – and a clean hole is a good thing to eat!
As others have said, “shit happens”, and unless it is a mudslide, I’m not gonna complain. I’m a bit bigger than average, and I tend to be very rough when I breed a boycunt, so I’m not gonna be too surprised if I get a few spots of crap on my cock. Though I’ve had some guys do me the kindness of cleaning my cock with their mouths off after the fact, heheh!
For me, it comes down to that I’m only gonna ass play with a guy I know so well and am so connected to that I’d take a bullet for him need be. Because I know him so well and am so connected that I’d take a bullet for him, I’d be willing to pleasure him beyond the matter of there being some “matter” up his chute. And of course, he would have waved a red (or brown as the case may be) flag ahead of time if he knew there might be “matter” to deal with. In that case, we just might chose “Plan B” for sexual fun. If not, we’d now what we’d be getting into.
If you’re a guy on the prowl for the next hottie on the street or at a club (because that’s how you roll when it comes to mansex), yeh, foreign matter might matter. Good luck. That’s just not the road I travel on.
I’m a top… if any bottoms need help making
sure they are clean, let me know and
I serve as a top-tester… we can re-check several
times-a-week if you want to make sure
everything’s okay.
I’m happy to help 😉 *wink
Kudos to Marc…well said! An intelligent thoughtful man. Wish there were more like you!
I’m amazed by the comments here expressing disgust with butts and anal sex. Grow up, shit happens and everybody poops.
Nicki Minaj has taught me that the shit on your dick when you pull out is called “truffle butter.” Isn’t that a nice name that helps you take the shit on your dick in stride.
I consider my self a ver/bot but 9 our of 10 times I will bottom. I have a routine that I go thru before I met or hookup with anyone. I use a shower douche that I can control the flow into my butt and I also use a 15″ long colon hose. Before I start the shower douche I generally use a enema bottle like Fleet to get the initial area cleaned out. Then into the shower I go. Now of course I use a little KY so things enter easier and I start with the hose to get things high up in the colon loosened up and head to the exit. The shower is convenient since you can wash things down the drain.
This is the first part of the routine, then I dress and go about my business. Now about an hour later, I head back to the shower. I have now allowed time for the water that entered me to work it’s way down and out along with anything else that may be heading that way also. I use the shower douche again with the standard end washing out again. I will then allow another hour for this to work its way out.
Finally when its been about 3 hours since I started I may use a finger but generally I use a small dildo I have and work my ass with it to get the liquid that has flowed down to get it out. This also will help tell me if I am clean if it all comes out clear.
I know all this takes out the spontaneity of having sex but like so many others that have mentioned on here dirty sex can just ruin a night for both of us. I also try do my best to keep in mind the size of the cock I am going to have also because it’s not just the length but girth plays a big part in it also. You have to remember that a cock in your ass creates suction and if you are not really clean this will draw thing out.
I think Marc said it best. He’s obviously a thoughtful and intelligent man. And, I’m thinking would make a great partner for someone if he isn’t already. And, AJ…Marc never said that he wanted to fuck a “mudpit.”. Perhaps, you’re one of those tops that need to have the bottom feel embarrassed when something happens that they did not intend to have happen.
I LOVE anal sex, and always do my best to clean out thoroughly. Yet sometimes I don’t get as april-fresh as I and my tops would like. If that happens, I am mortified (all the more so if it’s a hookup and I’ve never fucked him before). I feel embarrassed and ashamed, and it definitely ruins the sex! I’ve had tops who, after a little accident, went ballistic and accused me of deliberately shitting on their dicks (I only do with a couple tops i know who are into it). Then I’ve been with some who say its no big deal, or that it comes with the territory or some such words of reassurance and comfort. Take it from this Bottom, you tops: it’s going to happen occasionally. How you handle it makes all the difference for your bottom!
An “ear syringe” won’t come close to cleaning my ass out before having anal sex. I have an anal douche bulb which I use and it does the job quite nicely.
I used to be a total bottom. Ive had those embarrassing moments. I however will not douche. Its uncomfortable and can lead to bigger complications down there.
I go #2 or a regular basis, will always do it before sex, and then shower afterwards and make sure I clean really good.
If that isn’t enough for you, or you’re scared of an “accident”, then you’re having sex with the wrong hole buddy. You might consider sticking to mouths instead, or toys.
Actually, Scott, I’m versatile, so I’ve been on both sides of the anal debate.
Accidents do happen. And I’ve never embarrassed a bottom when that’s happened. Nor have any of the tops I’ve been with embarrassed me.
By the way, love how you spun my comment to make both you and Marc look like absolute angels. Where are you two registered? Crate and Asshole?
Hmmm how come no one is talking about the fact that douching, a foreign object/material is not your rectum releases your bodies natural defense systems? Or more colloquially you’re warrior cells which HIV attaches to? Essentially you’re sending the vulnerable to HIV soldiers out. Your rectum, like a vagina, will never be spotless—-if anal sex is a part of your life, shit too will be a part of your life. Fibers, warm water, patience, cleaning gently and some fore thought to sex solve these issues. I’m often dumbfounded and saddened at the obvious reasons for sti transmissions that so many men obviate from their consciousness. It literally manifests “too dumb to fuck.”
Wake up: protein shake, sleep a few hours, enema, enema, dildo session in the shower with a bottle of poppers, immodium AD, water enema, back in the shower with a dildo and bottle of poppers – ready to fuck.
Actually, AJ, I didn’t put a spin on anything. The following 4 are your direct quotes. (1) First off: Marc — you’re a moron. Sit down, Beyonce (2) (shut it, Marc!) (3) Accidents do happen, but I have yet to meet any gay guy who wants to fuck a mudpit. Except Marc, of course (4) By the way, love how you spun my comment to make both you and Marc look like absolute angels. Where are you two registered? Crate and Asshole?
AJ…there is no need to put a spin on your comments. They are rude. And, other than saying your comments are rude, I have refrained from using profanity and from calling you any names directly or indirectly.
And, no angelic claims were made on Marc’s or on my own behalf. You, on the other hand, do keep providing evidence of something other than angelic origins.
Most sincerely and no angel,
Scott
I read these comments in here and realize that the AIDS holocaust must’ve killed off all the smart people who knew what they were doing.
I haven’t read through all the comments, but wanted to point out that everyone also has a second sphincter muscle about five inches past the first opening. Having both sphincter muscles played with is quite over the top, but does require a really long cock.
i dont care how many times you douche…the deeper you go into someone’s ass the more crap you gonna pull out…thats a fact !!!
I love fucking guys asses, a little shit never bothered me because I wear a rubber anyway. It’s usually quick hook ups, so there’s no perfect cleaning beforehand, but I must say have never come across anyone gross smelling…I’m sure they are out there, just that I have not had the unpleasure… To me being a top is a boost to my fragile masculinity, I dominate another guy (his masculinity) when I’m fucking him. That may not sound like what everyone wants to hear, but it is what it is…
Interesting thing, one guy said he thought about doing bottom but it was uncomfortable like feels like he has to take a shit all the time. Well it is important to clean out as so many have good advice, keep flushing until it comes out clean. Flush toilet to see that the water comes out clean, a wipe with toilet paper should be no marks too all common sense. Any little bit of shit gets in with the dick thrusting back and forth tears you up so being clean keeps you from getting damaged or injured. You should not still feel the evidence of having been fucked 2 or 3 days later. Using a vibrator like an insertable egg vibrator or vibrating dildo is remarkable, it helps relax the sphincter and also helps you to get used to things being inserted and not have that I have to take a shit feeling all thru the getting fucked process. Get a vibrating insertable egg type vibrator, put it in a condom and lube it and push it right in there, even if you are inexperienced its remarkable how it loosens you up relax that sphincter and go ahead and leave it in there running and let your top have at you. The vibrations can excite your top and add pleasure to him. If you are inexperienced and need it to be a short fuck to break you in somewhat, the vibrations might quicken him some, but something about it gets rid of that I got to take a shit really bad feeling when getting fucked. In fact it it can make the whole experience dramatically better for the bottom and after a few times you can take a fucking without it and have it be just as pleasurable. An inexperienced bottom expecting to be tore up, tightens up and that only makes it worst for you. The vibration not only loosens you but distracts you from expecting to be tore up and its just really easy to just open that opening up and let him slide in nice and easy. When you fully relax your butt muscles you will be surprised how easy a much bigger cock then you ever thought possible can slip right into you nice and easy no pain during sex or when you have to take shit the next day. I used to get tore up bad when trying anal when younger… once I discovered what vibrator does for you back there, hell cock wider than what I can fit in my mouth slips right in back there, no pain and they dont have to take a slow entry at all for me to get used to it.