Gay Stuff : Your Ideal Man
It’s Friday! I hope you guys had a great short Easter week…
Today I’d like to know what is your type of man? Over the years managing the blog, I’ve read from many of you that you are “tired of the gay stereotypes”, that there are “not enough average guys in porn”, that “the gays are too plastic and all about the look and muscles” , that “there isn’t enough diversity in the community” etc.
I want to know what gets YOU off? What kind of man do you like the most? I am not only talking looks here, “envelope” and personality! His shape, his ethnicity, his size, his height, his sex role and age, but also his education, his values, his humour, how extroverted/introverted he is etc.
Is he short, Asian, bottom, shy and submissive? Is he a tall bear, versatile and goofy? Is he Black, with a nice bubblebutt and a big heart? What is your ideal, the man of your dream? Make sure to leave your username at the end of your comment, maybe your ideal man will read it and will want to chat with you or even meet you, who knows?!
Have a good Friday!
Dave
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My type of man physically i like chocolate man could be african-american, latino, mix.
Masculine guy with big thick legs…bald, hairy. Very very sensual. Great kisser…
Depends on if the guy likes to top or bottom. 5’9″, toned, cock size is what it is, witty, nerdy is fun, cuddly and lockable is a must. Sense of humor, some ego, honest.
Could you share your thought on Yohambie, Ginseng and Horny goat weed to increase sexual desire
My type? Well, there is the type I like to look at, the type I like to play with and the type to go wild with. Several times, I’ve found that a guy who may not be too appealing to me visually is a blast in bed. In general, I prefer to stick with guys closer to my age who don’t have that many extra pounds on them. Just an average guy. To each his own.
My ideal man is a down to earth outgoing Black man that some what romantic and spontaneous. Education level doesn’t really matter to me. A man that can communicate give support when needed. A man that would like to spend time together but not to clingy.
Bludragon0783
My ideal man?
A gentleman who has a solid understanding of personal hygiene.
I am extremely fortunate to have a number of guys in my life who meet those criteria … excessive, intolerant, labeling, and unreasonable as they may be.
Hi Dave in the picture , number 1 and 4 cute but also they need to be smart and into conversation more than sex I’m not looking for a “hunk” just a guy to get a life with
Anywhere from average with a flat belly and bubble butt to twinks :-). Preferrebly under 5’10” Hispanics or whites
I will take all four of the guys pictured that is a normal guy for me.
i want an older latin beefy but toned man who loves me as i him..adventerous..responsible..patient..caring..passionate..confident ..loyal and honest..i would be his and that would be enough..nice dick and plenty of stamina
THe perfect man for me would be white, 30 to 45 years old, hairy body, nice legs, nice arms, a good deep strong chest, a fair sized cocked (cut) with a mushroom head. I love for him to have dark hair and blue eyes. He needs to be in fair to good shape, but a few extra pounds is fine. He should be honest, funny, loving, passionate, like kissing, holding each other. He should be a top man and one who takes care of my needs sexually while I take care of his. He should be confident but not cocky, masculine and self supportive. He should be loyal and I’d be the same for him. It would be great if he was a slow cummer too ! LOL !
My ideal man would be BLACK, able to support himself. A total top(7+) likes to kiss, be somewhat romantic,and like to cuddle. I prefer younger guys than me(51), but older, up to (55) is okay as long as they have a wonderful personality. They need to want to touch me without me having to say anything! It would be nice if he rolled over in the middle of the night and touch me! Just show the affection that is good between 2 people that love each other have.
I was married at one time have (2) kids and would be nice to have someone that is family oriented. Needs to be completely drug free( not even 420) and not an alcoholic.
I don’t think that’s too much to ask for!! ( Eastsidefun)
My ideal man would muscular hung cut or uncut 35 to 50 years old vers/top and wants a ltr.
Blue Collar LATINOS !
I like Strong Featured Rough Men that do PHYSICAL Labor.
MIGUEL COTTO the Boxer is my Wet Dream.
There is NOWHERE on his body that I don’t want to know what
it tastes like !
BORICUA POWER !!!!
Miguel Cotto is strong as an Ox, but a loyal Loving
father / family man. I fell in love with him with the HBO show about training before his fight – when his trainer teased him about needing 2 Limos – one for Cotto and one for his Balls, he just smiled like a little boy and said ” be have ”
PAPI CHULO !
I would like a man that is taller than me, so 5’8 or taller covered in tattoos with blue or green eyes tan and brunette but race white. 8+cut cock and has a job a car and lives on his own or has roomies. He would be smart charming and loves to cuddle and also be 100% committed, no open relationship which lacks in the gay community due to hundreds of years of politics. We should be able to go out drinking and also have nights in. Someone in shape that could help me with my fitness goals since I am a little chubby. We will do things together but also separate since we do have friends. My screen name is Lucazy27
Ideal type…the type of guy who does not exist.
Masculine, white, country boy, who is top.
Someone who looks like Scott Eastwood from ‘The Longest Ride’.
My ideal guy is average build, can be hairy or smooth. He must have nice, strong hands. He must like rimming me, and must enjoy getting blown. Any race is fine 🙂
My ideal guy is at least 40 years old, average build and height, masculine, “renaissance man”, a little geeky, very intelligent, mature, engaging and is of a different ethnicity. He is not afraid to be affectionate and express his love of me, privately and in public. He is witty and humorous. No matter what he is doing …fixing a garage door, reading the newspaper, playing racquetball, attending a fundraiser…, he always look good. Sexually, he is a slut. I married him 7 years ago.
White & Latino guys are into mostly White, Latino or Black guys. Bigger dick the better, Taller the better and with money the better, always sex everyday the best.
We are not into either Asians or Filipinos, they’re very
ugly with funny eyes and noses.
My ideal man is “alternative,” — long hair, baggy clothes, listens to heavy metal. Unfortunately, GUYS LIKE THAT DON’T EXIST in the gay world. However, if by some miracle you are out there, hit me up on here at VikingVengeance! Show me that I am not THE only one of us out there! m/m/
so, i’m a divorced father, who after returning to the single life discovered that i started to enjoy sex with a man. it started with a guy being very persuasive and persistent about wanting to suck my cock.
it was fantastic. eventually, although still very much into women, i have explored and tried alot of aspects of having sex with men. at first, i thought i was all top, but as time went by i came to realize that i liked being a bottom more.
that being said, i still enjoy a great blowjob. i just like the feeling of a fairly large, above average guy pushing his cock into me, stretching my tight ass. there’s feally nothing quite like it.
however, i still have some, i guess most gay guys would call them ‘hang-ups’, but to me they’re just dis-likes, that seem to be the norm for most gay guys i meet.
one, i don’t really like to make out with a dude. i just don’t like it, and if i do ever get to that i would’nt want a guy with facial hair to kiss.
and while on that same track, hair, to me is just not all that hot. i’m so much more turned on by a guy who, bare minimum, trims his body hair as well as pubes down to at least the mid 1980s style. spitting out pubes just does nothing for me. although i know most guys like the grizzly adams thing, i just don’t.
i used to, even around the end of high school, enjoy watching str8 interracial porn, i liked that the guys had huge cocks and they were such a tight fit in a white girls pussy. but apparently somewhere deep down, i wanted to be that white girl, i like a GL fit smooth well-equipped black guy, uncut is cool, if clean, or cut either way, but i’m thinking yeah, i think black or mixed guys i like the most.
one other thing i still don’t get, i have to have a guy who is fresh out of the shower. there’s no way i could even attempt to get down with a stinky dude. yuck. but again, i know some cats dig that. it baffles me.
anyway, i know guys will say i’m all gay and to stop living a lie and whatnot, but truth is i love women, and i really like men. sorry but that’s who i am.
A stiff dick with hugh nuts with lots of cum!
No heart, no brains or any other body parts required
I don’t have a dream man. It’s my belief that a dream man is someone in your head that you compare everyone to when you are in your immature gay phase (when you first acknowledge you’re gay). As you get older and reality sets in (and fantasy fades), you should be more open to a variety of men. This dream man usually is the cause of much of the criteria and discrimination plaguing our websites and the community. Because of him, really good men can’t find orher good men because they are too busy looking for him and not at qho truly exist.
That’s a easy one. It would be a hot Blackman , who appreciates a good bottom! Who knows how to hit that ass, likes his dick sucked by a passionate bottom. CutlerX would do fine. Lol
My ideal man has to be hung and thick as pop can or thicker I’m a little submissive and like anything from mild to wild and be will to experiment a down to earth person who likes outdoors
I like twins and hot bubble butts. Obviously bottoms or version guys are good,as I want to try a nice cock sometime. Maybe that’d be you.:)
Physically: I love guys with a bit of meat on them, not obese but not thin. Someone with nice eyes, teeth and smile. Personality: honest, respectful intelligent, outgoing, outspoken, someone who values communication. Oh above all, sense of humor is a must. I love humor and laughter. Which is funny, because most times I look serious. Anyone interested? my twitter account is @joeydavid
My ideal man, any skin color (black, white, and Latin tend to be the most common around my area). Older man, anywhere from 30-58, give or take a few years. Total top with a caring, funny personality. Fitness it not a deal breaker, often times I like a belly, but I’m not into morbid obesity. Bears and daddies turn me on, but body type is not a deal breaker either. Hairy or smooth, both can turn me on. I’m very versatile when it comes to type of man, I can be attracted to anyone. But as long as he has a preference for topping, I’d be happy 🙂
bookguy29
I would like a total bottom whose fem but not loud or flaming publicly. When we’re in private the fem you act turns me on. Love seeing you dress for me privately or just fem none masculine undies. Soft features, smooth body and NO facial hair. Loves to kiss, cuddle or makeout. My biggest turn on is turn on is intellect. The one i seek is hard to find but is out there!!!!!
Like a couple of people have said previously, this “ideal” man depends on what I’m looking for. For example, I find all four of the men pictured at the top of this post very attractive, and since they are not physically very similar, I’m not sure I even have an ideal man pictured in my head.
I’m bi and married (it is what it is), so I’ve no illusions of finding Mr. Right and settling down with him. I do have fantasies of finding a regular buddy whose body I can get to know really, really well while he does the same with me.
If I have the choice, I go for hairy (although smooth is nice, too), but I do NOT like ultra shaved and plucked. I’m not crazy about so-called “femme” guys, and I definitely don’t find drag queens sexually attractive. They are typically very funny and entertaining, though, and I admire their creativity.
Intelligence and a sense of humor are as important as physical traits, and probably more important, really. I like long, leisurely sessions in bed that include sex with conversation in between. I need to be able to laugh with a guy and I get off on guys who can make me laugh. I’m more top, but if we flip, I want the guy to have a clue what he’s doing and take his time.
Frankly, my “ideal guy” is one who will take his time in bed to enjoy the moment because that’s why I’m naked with him.
I liked guys with shaved heads or short, military style cuts and I love em with tattoos. Preferably Latino or White but race isn’t much of an issue with me. They don’t have to be super buff gym rats bu I tend to like them thin. Personality wise, someone who is not arrogant. Modest but approachable. Intelligent. Someone not into gay club music. Someone who likes music that isn’t mainstream. A guy who doesn’t use terms like “Yaaasss” and “grrrll”. I won’t say straight acting because I hate that term. Someone hwo is just themselves.
Of these 4, I must say, I’d choose #3
My Ideal man… is someone who is seeking to share a sexual friendship (not necessarily a LTR) . To explore erotic pleasures; share in the Erotic joys of pleasures being swept along by once imagination; allowing ourselves to experience the excitement; the pleasure of getting lost in them, to share new experiences, to discover new sensations which brings pleasure to one another’s partner, seeking to enhance each other lives by the sharing those pleasures, those passions that come our way.
A man who would enjoy all the pleasures of pleasure being shared, given and received. whither he is versatile, top or bottom.
A man who is seeking a mutually pleasurable stress-free sexual friendship with a touch of humor mixed in to make each encounter memorable.
A man who is clean, well groomed and Hygienic with a considerate, gentle, easy-going personality (non-smoker, not into drugs).
A man who is not seeking a one time encounter. Some one that is not into the “Meet, Greet, Cum and Run” Mentality. I have Nothing Against those who are, and enjoy this way of thinking and meeting… It’s just not for me.
Race, Age, Color and size (height or cock) is not an Issue. For there are more than 32 flavors in this beautiful world and I have a spoon in which to enjoy as many flavors as the muse may bring my way. 🙂
Much taller or much shorter than me.
If you’re bigger than I am or as big as me it has to be muscle, knowing someone will have the knowledge to help me better myself physically is important.
All ethnicities are valid
Not to picky about age unless we are getting over 40.
Netflix lover.
Lover of food. I love to cook you need to love to eat.
Passion. Must be passionate about something other than the gym, sex, or your own appearance.
I like masculine guys I can shoot pool and drink a beer with.
Established. I have my own place, job, and car. I like my men to have at least two of those.
Bonuses:
Grammar is a turn on
Tattoos and mild piercings are a turn
I like vers that prefers bottom, but lives eating ass
Traveler
Homebody
I have a nerdy side, wouldn’t mind if you did too
Having a foot fetish
Loyalty
This is me Btwilol1990
No such thing for me, the uniqueness of every guy that I find attractive can be a turn on.
I’ve given up on the vain, shallow, self absorbed, mindless, vapid fashonistas that seem to predominate in the gay “world”.
I don’t give a SHIT what you drive, wear, or what designer/singer you find the “best”.
Live is a give and take, and I’ve found very few “men” that fit the paradigm of “tolerable” [and knowing myself that I’m FAR from being any type of “saint”, so I admit my shortcomings and live life].
There seems to be an ongoing requirement that isn’t being me, obviously by the SAME men haunting this site 24/7.
And gay men still seem to live in that adolescent stupor that “love finds THEM”.
Yeah, good luck with THAT convoluted concept………
Skinny, white, hairless as possible n has his foreskin
Wish more guys weren’t ok w bring avg……a great face will go a long away but only so much I can do w a great face or great personality…doesn’t take much to eat better or workout…guys are lazy
One Love color,size,shape and type because it is what you feel right after your encounter with him that is important.
Dream man… tall, beefy muscles, hairy chest, smarter than me, self sufficient, and has normal interests….
What I don’t like is an Asshole who tries to speak for others in this case Whites and Latinos and says something stupid Like “We are Not into… about Asians and Filipinos (see WhitesandLatinoGuysdon’tlikeAsiansFilopinos) above.
The Asshole doesn’t speak for me. Handsome, strong and warm are 3 adjectives that come to my mind when describing a lot of Asians. (Filipinos are Asians while all Asians aren’t Filipinos.
Sure there are ugly people in Heart, Soul and looks in all races, but the question I believe is What is your idea man.
I am really not sure what this says about me, but I like men with a body type similar to mine. Not skinny, not fat and hairy is good. The important thing is that he is intelligent, can carry on a conversation and is a good person inside.
Generally I like a darker skin than mine. A Latino, with a cute little butt, smooth hairless body, petite (height does not really matter to me but since we are talking about our ideal man, I do find shorter guys appealing), affectionate and a great kisser would certainly assist with the physical side. As for age, me being older (57) I generally am attracted to younger guys (than me) but like a level of intellectual maturity in the person. Therefore this may mean my ideal guy would be 40 or older – although like anything, there is always some flexibility. Honesty and communication are important to me. Somebody who is capable of stringing a few sentences together is a plus. Oh, did I mention, I also like a potential partner to be fit looking. A slim waist helps here. A slim waist with a little butt is just so sexy (lol). And lastly I like monogamy and someone who will be there for me emotionally – as I would be for them.
My Type? Hmmm. If he can tell me which Class on WoW is his favorite and why, Which Superhero is his favorite and why, or Which Pokemon is his favorite and why then I’m hooked!
I do have a dream man, but when actually looking for a boyfriend or husband, I just have some guidelines. I don’t consider it settling, just recognizing that real people are human.
My guidelines are: employed or in some kind of education or training (no NEETs), at least average intelligence, a pleasant personality and some minimal care for their health and pyhysical appearance. If you see someone with something along the lines of “HOT Certified (Habitation, Occupation, Transportation) and you should be too”, that’s probably me. There are probably more but I think all those are easy to meet and I make sure I have some or all of these on my profile.
My dream guy has more purely physical requirements: at least 6 feet tall, any eye color other than brown, outdoorsy, dominant and masculine while still managing to be nice and sweet, moderately to very athletic. There are also a few more things, but I think this gives enough of the picture. I never expect to find anyone who exactly fits this description though, so I never put it on my profiles in case someone gets the wrong idea that they are a laundry list of absolute requirements.
My ideal man would be kind,honest,caring handsome,musclar,light drinker.
He would have to be at lest 7″ with a big mushroom head, trimmed body hair, nice ass.
Sexually he would have to be open to being versital, shoots a huge load, great kisser, love to rim out a hot ass, love to swallow a huge load, and give it back to me.In other words a hot sexually man!
My ideal man would be older, taller than me, honest, loyal, masculine. The whole lumberjack look wouldn’t hurt at all 😉
My ideal man are ones that I see at the gym that are white, usually straight or married. Any height is fine as long as they act like a man behind closed doors and in public. Any color of hair (or shaved) and eye color are fine. Men that look like John Stamos, Freddie Prinze, Jr. and Enrique Iglesias have always caught my eye. I would put my screen name here, but these 3-guys don’t come on here….lol.
Just a heads up that the fact that you automatically paired asian with the qualities of “small, bottom, shy and submissive” is pretty offensive stereotyping. I get that its just an example, but the fact that that’s the example you picked is pretty telling.
Part of me hates saying that the ideal body type for me is a few levels beyond jacked, but that’s the honest way to put it, so read the rest before judging me too hard. I’d want a guy (top so we’re sexually compatible) who has aspects I’d like to have (like the muscles) who’s willing to share and get me there while I have something (like my knowledge of a lot of sciences) that he wants to have and I can help him obtain, so we can help one another grow in the ways each of us desire. We’d also have some other common interests we’re not quite going to our potential in so we can again improve one another along those lines and become the people we truly want to be. In that sense the ideal guy would be imperfect since we have to have ways to help one another become our own ideals. A relationship that’s not too open would be good, too, but I wouldn’t mind at all if he wanted to do something outside every now and then. Also, race doesn’t matter; why do so many people seem to have a problem with Asian guys? (I’m white, for the record)
I love Asian, latino and white men, younger very smooth and hairless with a small uncut penis but the biggest thing he has to have a heart ache soul
Ideal man for sex is 20-35,bottom, race not important, HWP. For a relationship, 35-50, bottom, latino would be nice, HWP, humor, self supporting and have some interests outside bed.
Physically I like a guy that has good muscle tone all over. Race is open as long as the guy looks neatly groomed, smiles nice, and has a masculine essence. Laugh like a man, walk like a man, and talk like a man is my simple formula.
Hi guys,
How interesting to read all of the comments on the BLOG comment. While I certainly understand (and RESPECT) all of the views and expectations expressed, I see that we’ve not come a long way over the past few years.
For me, my “ideal” guy would be (as noted in my A4A profile Lkn4NkdFrnds) younger than me. I am . Average to fit body. Nice cock. I am 6 and average girth. My height to a little shorter than me would be nice, but I know that’s not going to be easy to find at this stage. I am hoping that there are still a few of you out there who fit the expectations and will be willing to show up “as you are”.
Honesty and integrity are VERY IMPORTANT to me. Any response should be verifiable through PIC and profile. Trust me, I will do the research.
Local is he best. I live in North Naples Florida (SW Coast, Naples). My preference would be to meet someone that’s local and available.
Sexually, I am versatile and prefer that in my man, however, a total top is acceptable, as well.
Be able to carry on an intelligent conversation. I speak English. But love a Latin accent.
If you are still reading, then you must be interested. So I am going to close this for now. If you want to know more, hit me up!
ADAM44ADAM: Lkn4NkdFrnds
I have profiles and memberships under same name at Manhunt and AOL. Also, have some postings on Craigslist.org.
Guess that’s all for now. If you need more about me, please let me me know.
Thanks,
Steve
Happy Hunting to us all!
Why do I need a type ? We were born of flesh with people men and woman. I’ve had it all before I could start over. So why do I need a type. Age has never been an issue. Young,old,unaware..you name it. Now when it comes to sex; isn’t that a matter of discovery ? The idea of being on a wild treasure hunt and just enjoying it all. Or being fearless enough to explore your dark desire and let the emotions role. I have my quirks of course but what about discovery?
Who needs a type ?
Kevin @ Sexyoralbrown
My type? Definitely he is BLACK, TOP ONLY, HUNG, on his 30ties or even 40ties and LOVES a BUBBLEBUT (i’ve got one) and definitely (again) want to commit! That would be a dream! This is my black prince. Besides all the sex and physical thing, I would love to have by my side a man who cares, who wants to commit and have a partner and build things together, share things together, have a calm life, who is there for love and support me and accept me the way I am (with all my qualities and flaws and all). I want to be married!
I guess this the only way I get to express my ideal man. First off I like tall men 6’3 and over who’s 100% top I like men with a unique physique between 200-240lbs race unimportant. I would prefer someone in their mid 30’s to late 40’s. I like a career driven individual that knows how to achieve what he wants in life without procrastinating. I like a cheerful giver like myself someone who is not stingy with his time nor love last but not least I would like a one mans man I don’t like to share my men with NOONE BTW I’m smart, shy at times, college educated and most important I’m employed with a vehicle. So if you out there msg me SN: DEEJAE
All I’ve ever wanted is a Marine drill instructor with a doctorate in interior design who can write prescriptions.
In a perfect world, my ideal man would be a total bottom of any race–although I have a weakness for East Indian, Latino and Arab men–who’s masculine, moderately hairy, uncut and fresh/clean, has a high sex drive, height-to-weight proportionate (firm and tight ass, and great legs, which includes well-shaped and developed calves) and takes care of his body, which means non-smoker, no drugs, etc. although a non-to-occasional drinker is fine. He would also have a great smile and fresh breath.
Intelligence is a must, able to hold an engaging conversation, has a sense of humor/likes to laugh and doesn’t take himself too seriously. He should also love/be passionate about life and goal-oriented.
Lastly, that same passion should spill over into the bedroom making for hot, sweaty marathon sex and love making; but he should also feel right at home afterwards cuddling, kissing and just being downright affectionate.
My ideal guys is between the ages 20 to 30. Someone who is slim.. who is looking for someone to enrich their life. I am not a big fan of Memphis but since I am here on assignment for 3 yrs. I am going to make the best of it. I would like to suck a dick today. I hv a fetish for the uncut and underware. I look good everyday. I am a professional that works hard. I need someone to play with.
My ideal would be a 6 foot, average to muscular build, smooth Black guy with a cut 8×5.5″ dick, smooth round bubble butt, short hair, hygienic, well educated, introverted feeler, vers/bottom, into sci-fi, history, and philosophy, and Buddhist. Age 35-55. (Smoothtanwhitebo)
Chubby bear or a chub that’s comfortable and proud of his body and his size down there. And of course he knows how to grind it.
..Charlie.. A priest coz either or, healer or a shadow they can hold their own. Spiderman coz his a great superhero that dont wear underwear outside his suit. Pokemon is Dragonite and Mew. Both have the same attitude and both can be powerful.
I want somebody to share Share the rest of my life
Share my innermost thoughts
Know my intimate details
Someone who’ll stand by my side
And give me support
And in return he’ll get my support
He will listen to me when I want to speak
about the world we live in and life in general…
Though my views may be wrong
They may even be perverted, he will hear me out
And won’t easily be converted to my way of thinking
In fact he’ll often disagree
But at the end of it all he will understand me
I want somebody who cares for me passionately
With every thought and with every breath
Someone who’ll help me see things in a different light
All the things I detest I will almost like
I don’t want to be tied to anyone’s strings
I’m carefully trying to steer clear of those things
But when I’m asleep I want somebody
Who will put their arms around me and kiss me tenderly
Though things like this Make me sick
In a case like this I’ll get away with it
(SOMEBODY ~ Depeche Mode)
I like latinos, whites, and asians. I have a thing for pasty white guys and red hair lol. I’m attracted to guys shorter than I am (6’1″) that have a sense of adventure and like exploring new things or places. I think chemistry is what makes it for me.
My ideal guy doesn’t have many specific physical qualities.
I like men of all colors.
But I love big thick men. 6′ and above and more that 200 lbs.
I love that football players build broad shoulders and big legs.
But deep down, he’s gotta be slot more than that.
He’s gotta be cool with family. And intelligent enough to understand my humor. I hope he’s funny and goofy but mature and can be serious.
If he can change my oil and cut my lawn that would be super amazing.
And if he dresses well that’s an added bonus
white, 25-35, slender, 8+ cock cut, big balls, butch
This question instantly reminded me of the time I hooked up with a guy back in college and as a means of “breaking the ice and getting comfortable with each other” we looked at one of his gay porn magazines on his night stand. We just laid there in his bed and played “who would you fuck?” It was very interesting how our tastes differed. For example, two models were on a particular page, he preferred the blond, while I immediately started drooling over the black haired guy with the darker/tanner complexion. I also remember that he was instantly drawn to the 9inch uncut guy on another page, while I picked the smaller CUT dick.
But in the end for me, it is all about personality. I can be attracted to a guy of any race (it’s 2015 people, a good guy is a good guy, if you can find one consider yourself blessed) and in any said scene–nerd/gamer, athletic/jock, EMO, wolf/cub/otter [I really wish I knew what exactly made a guy one or the other there], but if your personality and attitude are ugly, I could care less. One Johnny Rapid in the world is more than enough…that’s right, I went there. LOL
Through the years (I am 55) I have learned that an “ideal man” is, very simply, one who is responsive. I know that I have someone good when there is an easy flow of interest and contact and passion between the two of us. This happens rarely, but an ideal is rare, by definition.
Tall, darker complexion, dark features hair eyes, educated, good conversation, not out, masc. Sincere, funny, likes music. Traveling, animals,independent. As far as appearance. ..can also be tanned, tall, blue eyes…with same qualities as education etc.prefer versatile or bottom ….again this would be ideal man but a guy with a good personality, and things in common go along way .
I like a guy with pulse, respiration and a hard cock. My preference is to find a guy with a cock that my size or larger, uncut and who likes to flip. But I will consider a top or a bottom. Small and cut is OK … All I ask is that I be just as happy having sex with him when I wake up in the morning as when we first ….
If I am still happy the next day, I hit the jackpot. I am rarely happy and when I am I don’t let go easily.
My man is short under 5’7 slim , no big belly . Small dick is better under 5inches , any inter
Hi Dave,
Awesome question…made me think a bit. My “guy” ideally, would be spontaneous. Open to me pulling him close at night, perhaps accepting of me making love to him at 2 am. My baby would be a bottom in bed but my best friend in all other places. You know, someone I can talk to about everything? Not just the pretentious stuff. He has to be ticklish so that I can have something to threaten him with if I don’t get my way. I insist that he be a cuddle junkie, and an urban explorer, not afraid to try new things and see new places with me. I’m sure I’ve already asked for too much but let me continue by saying he should be as attractive to me as I am to him. A guy who can not only spell, but be able to define accept and honor monogamy. Finally, he has to be a good kisser. There! I just created a character who does not exist!
Spankedit
The ideal man is not someone I can describe physically. He can be any race, tall or short, slim or muscled, bald or with a full head of hair. The important things to me are someone that has goals in life, is a good person to their family and others. My guy should be willing to share life, work and responsibilities with me. Haven’t found one yet but I’ll keep looking and trying my best to be a good catch for him when we find each other.
One who likes to get fucked bareback 24/7 and one who loves to suck and swallow
A guy that is passionate and loving. Someone who is funny with a brain. A guy that is taller than me and loves to cuddle n grabs me in the middle of the night. Loverboi14
My kinda guy is tall most definitely a dominant top, hairy, with a little bit of scruffiness to him funny, full of life, emotional but not feminine, with his head on straight and with a focus on bettering himself, romantic but in control. Lol….I sometimes think maybe I have too much of a perfect image of my kinda guy that it makes it hard to find him, I don’t plan on settling for less though so find me
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Someone who are not totally about himself and what he wants. A good sexual experience needs to be something everybody involved needs to enjoy.
My guy would be an ex Military, 6’2″ about #225 with an over active libido like me. He should be white (my preference). He should Love being outdoors most of the time. And he should want to fuck every single night.
My ideal man:
5’10 and up
Athletic build
Vers
Active and adventurous
He would be someone who came from a wholesome background as myself. High school athletics and extracurricular activities that carried on into college. He’s fair and kind to all, and not just me. A gentleman that is strong and brute but can double as a cuddle-bug. Lastly someone who will challenge and motivate, love and be loved unconditionally.
Here’s to you bud, wherever you are, whenever we meet!
My ideal is an average looking man, that appears to be hiding something. I mean hiding his ability, to physically/sexually interacting with a man. A man that wants and allows, himself to fondle, touch explore, look for the erognous zones of another mans body, and allows another man to explore his…there is certainly more to our erognous zones, beyond the butt and cock. My ideal man wouldn’t have to describe himself, as ” GL or VGL ” as I have met some pretty downright ugly vgl/gl ‘ers in my time. The all time, like ideal man would have some hair, on his buttocks, in his butt crack, hair packed in his arm pits, a scruffy hairy face, the ideal man would allow his butt to be pleasured with lotion fingers and a tongue, allow a guy to find his prostate and see how much stimulation he can tolerate. The outstanding ideal man would have a butt that becomes naturally lubed..( yep have had 3 in my life, two of thems were incredible a-holes ) for the ultimate butt fuck experience. I have only been with a few in my time that came via just butt-fucking them that was hot in an all time man, though one, came via just allowing to be kissed as I was kissing hime passionately, he came, ya that was oddly hot for him no doubt. SO an ordinary looking man that can let his inihibitions down, relax receive, and give in the sexual content, do what feels natural for the moment and to allow for a heightened intimate exchange, and oh be careful, don’t use words like intimacy…that freaks men out! Like there trapped and now in some sort of committment. My ideal man is weight and height proportionate, and keeps a clean body. Keep the superfical bull shit out of it, such as how you go to the gym, you go out doors, …lol..it;s like omg…the men in my area, i’d really like to know the last time they been in the YMCA, life is in survival mode. It can be amazing if a man can just relax….relax, lay there, and allow a man to touch him , the sensations he can feel, that he hadn’t ever felt before. I had a 26 y/o, boy surprisingly that was more in touch with his body, than most of the men I have ever met in my time, he’d yelp for more, beg for more touch…the poor boy hit it from this region because of his own dysfunction of managing himself, though I can only imagine how he is missing the touch i gave him and how his body begged for more….I was only responding to his body language, it was a no brainer!
My ideal guy is a ginger. Definitely not limited to a ginger, but if I could choose… He would be buff and you wouldn’t have any idea he was gay from his overall appearance. Around my height (6’3) and outgoing. We would just be two interracial gay guys, enjoying life together and helping each other better ourselves. Definitely ideal.
-stomax
Skin and bones with a brain.
one who DOESN’T CHEAT!!!! and LIE seems to be most of the fag ways.
Caucasians
Hispanics
Africans seemed to be the popular dating hookup in the gay bar club sex club. Guys headed down ignored at Asians like they’re not interested. Unfortunately.
Asians is the xenophobia.
I remember heard Hispanic guy (Bullied) with light skin yelled clearly to Asian guy “You do not belong here go home”.
Then Asian guy walked out of the club. Who knows Asian guy might hurt himself.
I prefer a black dark skinned man because I am a black man. I don’t date guys younger than me so he has to be older. Taller than I am about 5’11” and a top. Because I am a true Libra I love spontaneity. He would have to be spontaneous also. Some who is a good kisser, have s good sense of humor, can communicate effectively, and not affraid of what he feels. As for a body type I like thick men. I love thick men!!!! His education isn’t all that important. What is important to me is we connect on three levels: 1. Spritualy 2. Emotional and 3. Mentally.
As for hygiene- I don’t look at guys that even look like they have bad hygiene.
My ideal man is very masculine, laid back who’s more introverted like me. He is a dark skin black man who is a top about 6’0-6’4 in height. He has to be somewhat educated…at least have a high school diploma. Lol. This is all I’ll say for right now.
I can look at any type of man and find something physically attractive about them. Whereas looks are the surface and if I was only judging on that I guess I just find the male body and appearance attractive. What I seem to be attracted to the most is Ginger/ Red Heads, Bears, and men with an exotic look to them like men from brazil or middle eastern. I love all different types of races I feel like if you limit yourself to one type you’re missing out on experiences in life whether they be ideal or less ideal experiences.
In the bedroom when I want to be intimate with anyone I rather play the passive role. I would rather my partner be more active and a bit more aggressive. Probably would want someone who is a vers/top and who is very passionate and skilled in what they do. Size doesn’t matter to me.
Latino or white guy, medium height 5’6-5’9, proportionate wieght 150-170, nice ass, doesnt have to be chiseled, loves to do things outdoors like camping, rafting, and hiking. If Latino or european would love someone who is bilingual (to help me learn).
Jandy86
VIP: White Black Latino or Mexican. That’s my very important person. 😉