Hot or Not : Orgy
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I’ve never participated in such parties, but the little devil in my head would LOVE to! I promised myself that one day I will try. Maybe not in my city though…I think I would be too shy to see people I know (yeah I’m like that…I can be a slut sometimes, but sometimes I am shy!)I am aware that in NYC, there are orgies/group sex every day. For “hot guys only”, “black guys only” , “latinos and black only”, “sons and daddies only” , “bears only” etc. So, depending on what you are looking for, there is something for you!
Have you ever participated? How was it? What did you like the most and what did you not enjoy? Let me know what you think about it and also if you play safe during these parties?
For those of you who like orgies, check out this hot scene with Dario Beck, David Benjamin, Derek Atlas and Sebastian Kross, it is definitely very hot to watch. I jerked off watching the video last night 🙂
Dave
Totally want to, but not in my town. A very real fantasy of mine… Would love to be a bukkake boy for a group of insatiable partners.
About 38 years ago I accidentally found myself in such a situation. I ended up teamed up with the oldest guys there , he must have been 40 years older than me and I was really wanting the host but the old guy was very experienced and kind of hot. But definitely NOT the sort that I’m either attracted to or in search of .
I have been on more than one occasion asked here on a4a if I can host an orgy , and by total strangers nonetheless !
Call me old fashioned but I prefer my intimacy one on one. I don’t like the lack of control that comes with group sex , especially if it involves people who are complete strangers.
I have only had the pleasure once to be part of a small 7 man orgy. It was a very interesting erotic experience at least for me it was. We all met at a friend home, He had laid out his enclosed Sunroom with Four large air mats, towels and a couple of bowls filled with condoms and lube, surrounding a small four person Jacuzzi. He and his partner greeted me a the door, where his partner lead me the guest bathroom where they had laid out bathrobes and a place to place my clothing a person items with a little sign with read… “No MEANS No”, “Ask Before Doing” and “Play Safe, So You Can Play Another Day”
After removing my clothing and a shower I was taken to the sunroom. They had dimmed the lights down with music in the back ground playing. As our number began to grow so did the pleasure being given and received.
What liked the most was exploring the erotic pleasures with a group of men… To allow myself the pleasure of being swept along by our imagination as what we did together, allowing ourselves to experience the excitement, the pleasure of getting lost in them, to share new experiences, to discover new sensations in giving pleasure to one another’s desires or passions.
What I didn’t enjoy was the time seemed to go by too quickly 😉
I hope to Host my own party in the not to distant future.
I used to host party’s a couple years back ….I started it when my heart was torn asunder by this guy I was really falling for but after he left I was just empty feeling….I knew getting another b-friend would not be a solution so watching some group porn I had an epiphany…party’s…I have u heard of them in my city but I’m not Finna pay 10 bucks to get in and fuck around….none of those party’s where hits at all….mine on the other hand where hot…..every thing was free from the porn to the drinks weed condoms lube everything and they would go on all night I never seen so many dudes going at a to time in my life I would of made porn company’s jealouse and some of the wild stuff I saw . There would be about 20-25guys just but as naked u couldn’t make it up and it was all black dudes so u know it was extra hot this was back in 2010…I might of had about 20 party’s like that about 2 a month..to this day people still ask me when is the next one….I’ll still doo a group thing but no more than 5 and I don’t advertise anymore but as far as orgies 2 thumbs up all day…shouting out from the Lou.
I have participated in many orgies, and many of them fueled by poppers and alcohol. They’ve been great fun most of the time. I had the best sex of my life at an orgy about three years ago.
I visited a couple that I knew well, and they invited another guy to play with us one night. We were supposed to be taking a break from sex, and we were in the kitchen drinking and smoking and having conversation. Then someone grabbed the vegetable oil and used it for lube… you can guess what happened next. The four of us just went nuts on each other, screwing, sucking, get screwed, all raw and nasty and oiled up. It was a great sensation. It felt like swimming in the warmest, most perfect water ever. Let sea and sky be awash in our lust… We all blew huge loads that night, and more than once.
And a good half-hour later, I was lying on the floor of the kitchen, staring at the ceiling, letting the goosebumps flow over me. It was the most fun I had during sex, and certainly the most spontaneous. Some may not consider this an orgy – maybe more a 4-G. LOL. But it’s still great sex, and that’s better than none.
Love orgies!! All those naked bodies and all those hard cocks!!
Orgies are the most fun you can have if you care nothing for your sex partner or your own STD status. Orgies perpetuate STD’s. That’s a fact of life even gay men can’t ignore. If you like poking strangers you care nothing for than by all means have as many orgies as your body will let you. If killing other gay men for your personal pleasure makes you feel icky, don’t orgy.
I really not sure being about orgy , group sex .. Well when we fall in love one person . We can’t do that , and don’t wanna do that .. Not about fun or anything .. Just about person who we care, live and love
YES I love orgies!! I go to a party once a month and have the time of my life. I get there just be fore 9 ( which is the time it starts) and stay till 1 or 3=2 in the morning. It is nonstop hot sex all night! I am worn out by the end of the party 🙂 I love all the different guys there and they seem much more uninhibited in that atmosphere. It is set up bath house style and I shed my clothes as soon as I walk in the door and get ready for action. I am not a hot young guy I am a chubby older 56 yr old but I am amazed at the guys that love to play with me! I cant til Friday night which is when the next party will be! I always play safe at the parties as it is always anonymous. I may be an older guy but there is still a huge fire in the furnace LOL Cant really think of anything I didn’t like about these parties the hosts are great guys and so are the participants. The only thing I would like more is that they were held more often LOL I usually suck a lot of cock there and I only top safely.
Orgy?? Please, I can’t even find someone for a one-on-one.
I like orgies and sex parties, but only in Public Licensed Venues for one reason only… safety!!!. I would not attend someone’s private home orgy or sex party; if 4 dudes collaborate to rape you and deliberately infect you, damn, what can you do?
Whenever I’m in London, I make sure I visit The Vault and Nudity at Vauxhall. I only go on mandatory nudity days…. I watch others fuck, I fuck as much as I want, and I know I’m totally safe.
I’ve been to a couple of parties and hosted one. The one I hosted was at an upscale hotel in Chicago. A couple of hotties showed up and a kinda bearish guy. It was fun but not really what I expected. I guess I wanted more kink and it was kinda vanilla. The other two were hosted about an hour away from my town – I like it that way. It was cool with porn playing, a sling, and several hot guys. I was fortunate to be the centerpiece for awhile with several hot guys sucking me off, groping me, making out with me while get sucked off, offering their asses up to me. I wish those guys would have another party soon. I’m always up for a good time.
ohhhhh the memories of Cinema Follies in DC….
Orgies are very hot! I’ve personally been to many and have had a wonderful time. With the variety of cock to choose from, especially when you’ve got one up your ass while your sucking a big cock, and you’ve got two other guys there working your nips while you jerk them off, all the while these guys hands are rubbing you all over your body is a feeling everyone should try. I like to fuck as well as get fucked, but at an orgy you can be as free and nasty as you want, and everyone needs to explore their other fantasies. We only live once!
If done right and safe they can be fun. The most interesting one I went to was at this guys house. The guy that I decided to meet did not own the house or live there. I walked in and about five guys were fully dressed talking while open was playing on the TV. The guy that I thought I was nearing was not there (yet). I found out that he found a guy host and nobody was told there would be others there if was kind of a surprise orgy. Finally the guy that had done this showed up. Turned out he wanted to film. It. We of course said no all 6 of us went upstairs stripped and went to town. The guy that called me us all turned out to be a minute-man. He can first and left after he left it got more wild. Sucking fuck even some DP action.
At age 48 I had my first 3-way (I know, that’s not really an orgy, but it was to me). I had opportunities in my early 20’s, but I turned them down; I was too shy. At 48 I was still too shy, and I surely wasn’t the one who initiated it, but I played along. I was the top, and I had two bottoms anxious to be fucked by me. I felt intimidated. I had a hard time maintaining an erection. It just felt awkward to have someone else watching. I would have no problem Watching an orgy, and maybe jacking off, but I wouldn’t like to be an active participant. It would also be different if the orgy was solely oral and not anal; that I could do.
Orgies are defineatly hot. You can esplore your limits and the pleasure that you receive as well as give is undiscribable.
I’ve been to a few, the largest being 16 guys, that party lasted almost 3 days ( or so I was told, I left after 10 hours) You have to try it once in your life even in your own town :))))
Like the guy says, if you can’t even find one guy, how are you supposed to find two or more? To me, group sex is not an orgy. An orgy is a party with food, wine, entertainment, and lovemaking, Roman style. The lovemaking would not necessarily be out in the open, perhaps preferably not.
A sensual experience with a few guys seems like it could be wonderful, yet I feel an orgasm is not meant to be public.
I once tried to have sex with three guys, and they just launched into it, tangled groping, and it was repulsive. And dangerous.
If there is not an atmosphere of absolute respect for each other, and safety, which would mean no rimming, then it is just group sex, which I find mostly disgusting. Ugh,ugh, grunt, grunt, agh, who wants to hear those sounds?
If it’s not like in the movies, all orangey, gauzy, perfumy, why do it?
I spend a lot of time trying to think of a circumstance in which even a threesome might be a natural occurrence, and it eludes me. Even in college, had I the chance, my better judgement was already in place. I think you have to be kind of young or dumb to take the risk. I don’t know.
I feel like if I am really with a good guy, it is already a threesome with God, because He participates, watches. Can He with a group? I think not.
Something sacred is lost. It’s just animal behavior. Maybe I have trouble being an animal.
I love a good orgy. My favorites have been the ones I’ve run into at bath houses. Safe environment, hot guys, uninhibited pleasure for everyone, new participants showing up randomly, What’s not to love.
If I’m in a more romantic mood sure 1 on 1 sex is more where it’s at.
However I’ve also been in some very sensual orgies. Hell I started one once when I was giving a guy a massage and we were both so into it that we attracted a crowd. At one point towards the end of it he was on his back being face fucked, having his dick sucked, being fucked and had a cock in each hand. Gotta love a hot uninhibited bottom in a good sling.
Orgies can be hot, but…Well to me an orgy is more than a four way and only have been to one outside of the baths. It started out awful. No guys my type and too much T. Then this guy came in with his flip bf bottom boy. Realm hot but not my type. Dif lick his hole before being pushed away so he could get gang banged. Got face fucked by the guy while he watched his boy get used. I left right after we both shot.
Would love to give it another try tho;
Orgy=instant hard on…the more dicks and ass the better. The sounds, scents, and the endless fucking is beyond hot to me.
At 62, it’s only in the last 3 years that I’ve started going to orgies/ house parties. Happily, I’ve stayed in shape and don’t look my age, naked yoga having freed me of the inhibitions of being naked in front of a group of men. Fortunately, there are a few couples who’ve been generous enough to host (at a nominal cost for clean-up/ extra to charity), and I’ve gotten on their invite lists. Two of the parties have rules about condom use while the other doesn’t. There may be as few as 8, but another usually has 30-90 guys coming and going. In my opinion, it’s a great way to experience the touch of another, and feel the excitement and release of sexual tension.
Nothing is as hotter as a group of men willing to share their bodies an emotions.Of course,playing safe is a must and keeping focused on sharing pleasure…
I like hosting orgies in my home. The problem is making sure you got the right type of guys together which means having enough tops, vers, and bottoms. Race is not factor because it allows everyone to fulfill their wish list. Plus, you want to have guys you know because it helps you set the mood of the orgy to be safe or bareback. Also, watching a guy you had sex with get fuck or suck adds to XXXcitement as well as watching everyone CUM!!
I am a 55 yo bottom that loves orgies. My earliest forays into the orgy scene were in the 80s and were fueled by cocaine, poppers, and alcohol. I was a young hottie starting to expand my sexuality when I met an older, gay businessman who hosted parties in the Ft Lauderdale area. I was an eager, willing, and highly desired participant and enjoyed being the center of attention surrounded by successful, confident, cool, sexy mature men. Though I am no longer the hot young twink I used to be, I still enjoy receiving the attention of multiple, mature assertive top men, so I work hard to realize these scenes. For me, surrendering myself to mature sexy man whom I trust to act responsibly is a huge turn on, which I hope to continue experiencing for years to come. It’s all about building and maintaining relationships with men who share mutual sexual goals. I love orgies.
I have hosted a few group sex parties at my house, around 7-9 guys. Few times a friend will put an add out saying he’s coming over to my house and then invite guys over to use me with him. During those orgies the fun part was that I was blindfolded. I’ve been to the sex parties in NYC loads of fun. Always played safe.
I have participated in an a few orgies. In both cases, the guys could be rated between warm, medium hot and extremely hot. For me, it was like the roller coaster ride that ended too soon. Group sex is somewhat akin to going out to lunch with a group of friends. You can spend too much time deciding where you want to go, how you want to do it and what you want out of it. Some say the more the merrier. I say, the more the complicated-er. If there was a way I could pick the guys in advance and sample each one at a time, Id be all over it. Orgies are a bit overrated. One on one is better. Quality over quantity.
I think the fantasy of an orgy is very arousing.
I think an orgy where attentiveness and respect are present would be wonderful.
Personally, I was accidentally part of an orgy. I was brought to a residence by a friend to his friends (two others) residence. I wasn’t aware we were going to have group sex, but because I was ‘new’ to all of it, I took my cue from my friend.
We all got naked and started touching each other. Then the attention from all of them was on me and it was a mixture of exciting, on the edge of sensory overwhelm. Then I found myself pinned down with lots of kissing and touching while someone with a very long and very wide penis preceded to try entering me. Becoming scared and overwhelmed I tried to decline, but was unable to since I was pinned down and my mouth was always being occupied by someone. I was forcibly entered, was in tears, and as the ordeal progressed became paralyzed and catatonic. By the time the passion had subsided they realized my condition and were alarmed.
These men had not intended this outcome. They wanted my full participation. It was unfortunate that an opportunity wasn’t provided for me to object and/or slow it down.
It was a learning experience for all of us.
Since then, I have always sought one-on-one intimacy only. But who knows what the future holds. It can be a very erotically stimulating experience.
But I would caution that you know everyone that is involved. Both for limits and if you desire to stay disease free.
Have been to the local Dallas Bath/Gym, sometimes hot, sometimes not. I am also on the invite list to 2 other weekly parties. Being a total bottom, I love finding 2, 3, or more tops, many willing to do me at the same time. It helps that I am somewhat of an exibitionist.
I have the opportunity to attend one that’s carefully held twice a month. Something that’s been going on for a number of years. Invitation only and guys who show know each other. Strict rules about what “thank you, but no” means. Also, condoms are readily available. All guys are “vetted” in advance to ensure behaviors are understood (such as no standing around in your clothes, no sitting the the corner watching others while you jo, etc.) All of which would be too creepy. In reality, most of the guys who show know each other because they have attended for years.
Another one is smaller and is held every few months. All the guys know each other. If a “newbie” is brought in, it’s because one of the guys (or a few) know him already. Again, strict rules about behavior (no paring off behind closed doors, no clothes kept on, etc.).
I’d have no interest in attending one blind … where I didn’t know the guys at all. Yeh, it’s be “wild” and “carefree” but I value my wallet, car keys, and health thanks.
When I was younger they were fun. Now I rather have that one and only
Have had fantastic times at orgies, never a bad scene. I am pleasant smiling guy, not shy and I think that has goena long way. The absolute minimum is 5 guys the best well up to 50! The better the numbers there is a lot less pressure. no still means no, but yes means so much more.
I was held down at the end of one orgy by some “associates” who had been watching me fuck my brains out and blow a lot of loads, they decided to see how many I really had in me.. we wrapped up at eleven, it was only 2 drops but it qualified.. great memories. It was only possible because it was great men and a great audience
A couple moths ago I fou my curious self at one (I got the invite from A4A actually)
I ran into one guy I had previously met at a pride festival and another guy I hooked up with in the past I ended up going around with him and then moving on…the experience was ok not as exciting as I though. All in all I would seek it out again but will probably find myself at one again.
Orgies are a definite yes.. used to attend two regular monthly parties, one hosted in a hotel one in a private home.. 5-20 men all with the same goal.. m2m fun… everyone is respectful and “no means no”.. from watching and jerking to sucking and fucking.. my work schedule changed so I haven’t attended in a while but think about them every day.. so if you’re ever in central PA and want to participate, check the “parties and Events” page here or MMFM on Craigslist!
they hardly turn out as planned but had a few amazing experiences where id hos a few older hairy men to breed me. im into the daddyy son fetish and love being fucked by pigs
Definitely on my bucket list, but prolly will never happen. Nothing hotter than seeing the hubby enjoy himself while you enjoy watching and doing your thing too. Still a nice fantasy though.