Gay Stuff : Into Daddies?
Many younger men like the company of older men and vice versa. But why? Some will say that these younger guys have “daddy issues” or that they didn’t had a great relation with their dads and this is what they are looking for in a relationship. When they see a younger guy with an older man they automatically think the boy is an escort.
Older men into younger are usually associated by society to perverts. Some think they are paying the boy to be with them. Some say that they simply miss their younger years and appreciate the company of a younger guy to keep them cool and hip!
Whatever the reasons, we don’t care, right? Who said an older man cannot be with a younger? I personally enjoy older men, probably because I didn’t have a great relation with my dad or a great connection with men in general as a kid, I don’t know and to be honest I don’t really care. I like the feeling of being “protected” by an older man, that’s all. And I find them more attractive than many younger guys.
What about you? Do you like to date or hookup with guys that are your age or you like to go older or younger?
FYI, I discovered a nice porn site recently that focuses on older/younger sex, check it out here and let me know if you like!
Dave
No daddy issues here, great relationship etc. I’m a 27 y/o bi guy and from the young age I discovered I was bi, I have always been into the older/daddy types. As the article stated, the “protection” a daddy offers is nice. With that, there is somethign very kinky and sexually arousing about the daddy/boi tandem. A daddy just knows how to treat his “boi.” to me there just seems to be sometihng right about a daddy having a “boi” and “boi” having a daddy.
I’m an older man ,late 60s and like men of all ages but find the men in their 40s like me not only for the sex,i give great head, but for the input I have into these type relationships. these men are normally married or in relationships with women but enjoy this type of sex.i think the really young guys in their 20s are to much into themselves and haven’t experienced a lot in life or sexually so are still searching. Also, daddy son or that type we normally assume the younger one is their for financial reasons moreso than the sex.
I hear all kind of explanations to satisfy some physiological needs but I haven’t heard anything about being a simple attraction. I’m attracted to younger man and I was always attracted to younger. Whenever I was younger I was attracted to men my age and now that I am older I’m still attracted to the same age I was then. Of course it goes without saying that they have to be over 21. I had a really bad relationship with my father and it didn’t make make attracted to older men then. I can’t speak for everyone else but for me its about attraction.
Hate the term and remember being 19/20 when I came out. What are referred to as daddies these days was just the creepy old guy sending me drinks at the bar back in the late 80’s. Hate it when I’m referred to as a “daddy”.
I’m 55 and prefer younger guys because I’ve met up with too many guys my age with erection issues. Nothing turns me off more sucking a limp dick for an hour trying to get a guy off. I love having a young man drop his pants for me and see a raging hard on pop out.
My husband is 20 years older than me. We havebbeen together for 15 years. I had a great relationship with my father. So that whole theory flies out the window with me. I say love is love. People should not judge !!!
When I was in my twenties I actually preffered older guys. They were much better lovers. They took their time and were appreciative of what they got! They knew exactly what to do!
Guys my own age were all about the orgasm….theirs. Wham bam
Now that I’m olders it’s funny but I prefer younger guys. Their cocks are harder and they cum multiple times!
I’m 45. Personally, I’m attracted to younger men (i.e.,
20’s)…but 30 must be the kiss of death!-The college aged
guys around here seem to always list “No one over 30!!” in
their profiles! What’s up with that?
I prefer younger dudes. Im 43 and will usually hook up with 18-25 yo dudes. I didnt start fooling around with guys til i was 38 so i feel like I missed all the fun and im trying to relive what I missed.
hell no. and i dont like the “dad/son fetish” either, even if the two men aren’t related, the very fetish is incestuous in its name, which is gross.
Its really hard to tell anymore about who’s younger, and whose older, I’m 30 years old and there’s a hot guy at my work and yeah just found out he’s 21, and I’m 30. Somewhat of a difference, point is I have not had the greatest relationship with my dad and I like older guys even if they have kids that doesn’t bother me at all. But as long as they don’t look older like there age I’m fine with that. But I can only seam like I can find younger guys only. I prefer older because of more mature, grown up, and decreases the chance of being unfaithful. If any of this makes sense.
Now that I’m older (50s), I see why the older dudes enjoy the younger guys. I had no issues with my Dad, but I do enjoy looking and having sexual relations with a younger guy. Their bodies are just so succulent when they are young. Mine once was, but those days are gone. LOL So I, for one, APPRECIATE the beauty of the male body – especially at a younger age. I hardly ever hookup, so my joy is mainly looking and jacking. 🙂
I’m 22 years old and I always been attracted to older men for some reason. It’s not because I had daddy issues, me and my dad have a good relationship and he’s like my best friend. When I was 19 I met this older muscular guy in his 40’s. We had a like friend w/ benefits relationship. I was ready to be in a relationship but when I was with him I didn’t really care about our age difference. Long story short we were together for two years until he felt uncomfortable about our age difference. Even though we moved on we are still good friends.
Nothing hotter than getting pounded by a nice hairy daddy.
As a kid I was always hot for my Dad. Not Daddy but Dad. I loved the physical contact, his muscles, big and tall. When I wrestled in high school he was always there. One night after a tough loss being comforted by my Dad…I know he saw my boner…I really wanted him to mention it but he just smiled and winked. Most likely where my Incest fetish cums from.
I am 38 and am dating a guy 10 years younger than me. We been together for almost 5 years. I dated a guy before him that was 5 years younger and we lasted 7 years. In both cases I never paid for everything or “took care” of either of them. We were always equal partners and both contributed financially to the relationship. Only problem I ever had was the immaturity, which was expected…Honestly, I am only attracted to younger smooth guys. Men my age or older, though good looking, just don’t do it for me. In fact, if men my age or older is all I could date or hook up with, I would probably not be much into guys. Just my 1000 cents. I am a masculine bearish guy here by the way into college jocks and twinks…lol
When I was younger I liked the attention of older men. I didn’t get any attention from my older brothers, except one, and the attention he paid me, I would have been better off with out. Now that I’m older, I like the company of men closer to my own age. I find older men as well as younger men tend to have different interests, and we have trouble relating outside of sex. I wouldn’t have believed it when I was younger, but now I realize there is more to life than sex. LOL
I personally love older men.. I am 27 years old and I have always been attracted to them.. I do not have any “daddy” issues, and my relationship with my dad is excellent.. So I say to anyone who is with an older man, keep going!!!
I am a daddy and would love to find another daddy that is my type. Those daddys on that site you posted are hot as fuck and I would be on them like white on rice. I think that would be the ultimate scenario for me. I do enjoy younger as well. Particularly young twinks. Being muscular, they tend to want me to have my way and I love having my way.
No one should care who is with who. Once it is a mutually beneficial relationship where both parties are happy and safe – its no ones business.
what I see that is sad gays will ridicule younger and older guys for dating yet think it is great when a celebrity dates or marries out of their age group. Just doesn’t make any sense, love knows no age.
I am 48 years old. I have to say i really enjoy younger friends company. Obviously I like sex with young adult guys, but moreover, I have a protective feeling to them, maybe a teacher-student or master-pupil situation. That circumstance happens beyond sex, i mean it occurs in different aspects of my life, so most of my friends are younger than me. Probably I have a touch of sympathy and comprehension with them. And really I like it.
I absolutely love getting fucked by a hot hung muscle daddy.
Love bending over and letting them use my holes and forcing me to swallow their sweet hot cum or cumming all over my face.
Hi. Voice of Experience here again…with an important announcement. These days, with gay “culture” headed down the toilet because of meth addiction and “poz gifting,” there’s only TWO reasons I can think of why a 20-something, pozzed up, painfully thin, tweeked out guy would hit on a guy my age for “companionship”…he wants and “needs” meth, or he’s looking for an older hungry ass to fill up so he can “gift” him with his toxic semen, since he can’t get any of the neg boys his age to take him….unless he can get them to smoke up, which brings us back to point #1.
I prefer older because of the experience and the fact that other younger guys are idiots and too superficial and no value.
I’m older!! I really don’t care about the guy’s age. It’s his over all attitude and enjoyment of making love with an other guy. Some young guy’s are looking for a daddy figure and I can play that roll for them, if that makes them enjoy what we are sharing together in bed. I’m not a top or bottom, so I can enjoy and I hope my partner does.
Love being a daddy and having sex with hot daddies!
I enjoy the company of a younger man, I am an athletic inshape guy for 54 but look like I am in my 40s They just know how to please an older daddy, and I love to please them as well 🙂
I love daddies…..maybe because I would be considered one…LOL I’ve been with both ends of the age spectrum..30 yr olds to 65 yr olds and ages in between and guess what?,,,, there are jerks, drama queens, prejudiced assholes, predators and lowlifes in all age groups! But there are also many, many nice guys that are compassionate, caring, loving, and not only concerned about about their own pleasures. Like being a successful salesman….just keep knocking on doors and soon enough you will find a sale but only after many, many rejections. In my younger days I never thought about age being an issue…I just like being with men…older, younger, or the same age. There were mature men that had years on them and mature men that hadn’t so many years on them. Maturity is not measured in age.
I love sexy guys, younger, but not boys. But I really only seek guys around my age. I wish I could find more young guys interested in me though!
I find older daddies hot because they have more experience and they know how to use that experience to make sex feel really good!
I really like older black men. I’ve wanted a black daddy for a long time. I get really turned on by it.
As a “dad/daddy/papi”?
I find the smart ones enjoy us older in shape guys a LOT. They know that we have the wisdom and experience they don’t.
We’re ADULTS and if you choose to be with ANYBODY, that’s your business, NOT society’s business. What you do behind closed doors and with whom are YOUR business.
Guys think I’m robbing the cradle, when actually in truth? They look for ME.
Roleplay with a younger gent is also a lot of fun too 😉
Most older guys (like myself) sure appreciate the younger men who prefer older.
One of my ex’s was 27, less than half my age, lived with me, and it was a win-win deal for about 3 years. The sex was great. I probably would not do that again though.
Guys hit on him just about everywhere we went and the temptations were just too great, which eventually killed the deal.
I still prefer younger, unless the guy is also a jock who looks about ten years younger than his age, as people say I do. My next LTR, if there is one, will probably be with a guy 10 years younger or less.
Good topic. The younger/older dynamic is alive and well and very cool.
I generally like to stay in roughly the same age range as I am. But what usually happens is that younger guys come after me…so I feel like I’m in this conundrum. I have a lot more in common with guys who lived through the same times that I’ve lived through and can get the references I use in my day to day language and humour. Sometimes I’ll reference something and the younger gay guys just don’t get it because they’ve never watched DuckTales or Jem and the Holograms. They haven’t watched the original Transformers cartoons or M.A.S.K. (no one remembers M.A.S.K.) and even global events seem lost on them. I told someone when I was younger I lived in West Germany and it blew their mind that I wasn’t talking about the western part of Germany. They didn’t know there used to be two Germanies.
I don’t get mad at it – you can’t expect people to just know the same things you know, but that’s mainly why I gravitate toward men who are around my age +/- 5 years.
What ends up happening, though, is all these 21 year olds want to hang out and learn about wines and the world and get fucked all night. Which…I don’t know that I can complain about that necessarily but it’s not generally high on my list of what I’m looking for. But I guess everyone needs a play-pretty from time to time. It makes you feel like “oh…I guess I’ve still got it!” haha.
Yes I like older guys a lot! But a lot of the ones in my area are just too fat for me lol
I came out at 34 yrs old n luckily have been hit on by men of various ages but it seems that the min i turned 40..BOOM it was daddy this n papi that…..the older i ver gotten the younger guys are that hit on me…. the biggest age difference i ve had w a bf was 11 years an i win t do it again…..i have two biological teens an i don t need to raise my bf as well……. sex w younger guys cann be fun but t fun but overall i d prefer someone my own age but usually those guys are going after the 21 yr olds so at this point i m open to whoever is into me n i m into them as long as they have their act together
I love daddy and son relations I have one with my own son and am always looking for a daady type for myself also
I do hate web sites that show older Men “Daddies hooking up with Younger guys “Boys or Twink” cause it come across as FAKE,yea , I think is done for Money, that’s all or most young guys want now, “Sugar Daddies” most of the young gay guys I know, have more than one sugar Daddies, if an older man who doesn’t show he has money, what young guy wouldn’t be interested,
I’m 52 and still enjoy the company of a “Daddy.” Its fun, exciting playing the boy.
I don’t usually post comments to these blog postings, but this one caught my attention. I am a bisexual 21 yo man, I am not now, nor have I ever, been attracted to my father in a sexual way. I’ve always had a wonderful relationship with my father. However, I do have a daddy fetish, I love older men, and I feel like it’s one of those primal urges that I’m more attracted to the older men than I am to guys around my age. That’s not to say I’m gonna be in a relationship with one, (I’m not out, nor do I plan to be out at any time) but I know that if I was in a relationship, it wouldn’t be for money or whatever, (I’m a really independent person, I hate the feeling that I owe anything to anyone) i would be in a relationship with that person because I cared about them. I’m just more sexually attracted to someone who’s more mature, who’s around middle aged, that’s just what I like 🙂
I feel that is is fine for younger and older to be together and I am nearly 37 however, why is it that there has to be a label for everything in the gay world!?
I don’t mind the attentions of younger guys (I’m 51) but it’s a total no-go when they expect you to pay for everything and treat them as if they are a gift to you. Unfortunately there are too many of them who want to take advantage of you, rather than have some sort of real 50/50 relationship.
No need to go too deep I think. It’s all a matter of taste! some like older, mostpeople think younger guys are more attractive. So just look for what is attractive and don’t bother about ages etc.
I’m a 24 yr old yng guy that actually likes older guys between 30-45… Didn’t really have a great relationship with my dad but don’t think that’s the problem… I just like older guys, They actually know how to handle and control my cock 😉 so any fla “daddies” lol
God bless younger guys who like older guys for companionship, love, conversation, sex, whatever. I’m in my 50s and still in shape and am grateful when a guy in his 20s or 30s has his tongue in my mouth or his cock up my hole. Bring on those younger guys: I will take ’em all!
My main problem is with the term “daddy” (that said, I can picture myself with anyone about 18 to over 50). It seems like, with the gay community, the time you become “old” is around the age of 30. After that it’s just “shades of daddy”, in a sense, while really it’d be best to just forget all of that and go with who you really connect with. Only connect!
I don’t like my dad at all, I never wanted to have sex with him him though. I like men my own age, I’m 29. I like a guy that is mature, not being a slut like most younger gays who tend to be shallow and vain. I like a person that has depth and value. Older men don’t turn me on either, they tend to be kind of desperate seeming and out of shape a lot of the time. Its all about what I want and see in a man, his age is secondary unless its an obvious problem.
Im not into daddies, I feel I can look after my self, but I do get turned on by guuys a little older than me, im 22 and I tend to go for people 25-30 or maybe a little older (32 or 33) cause of the maturity and I enjoy the company of someone older and more experienced in life than me. I know I may be a little immature but I try to better myself for the ones that are older than me, mostly causefof my attraction to older dudes, I suppose im attracted to guy a lil older than me but I always want a big bro type to hang out with both sexually and non sexually, just for the connection and fun I coukd go on longer but I doubt I can
Im not into daddies, I feel I can look after my self, but I do get turned on by guuys a little older than me, im 22 and I tend to go for people 25-30 or maybe a little older (32 or 33) cause of the maturity and I enjoy the company of someone older and more experienced in life than me. I know I may be a little immature but I try to better myself for the ones that are older than me, mostly causefof my attraction to older dudes, I suppose im attracted to guy a lil older than me but I always want a big bro type to hang out with both sexually and non sexually, just for the connection and fun I coukd go on longer but I doubt I can
Im not into daddies, but I do get turned on by guuys a little older than me, im 22 and I tend to go for people 25-30 or maybe a little older (32 or 33) cause of the maturity and I enjoy the company of someone older and more experienced in life than me. I know I may be a little immature but I try to better myself for the ones that are older than me, mostly cause of my attraction to older dudes, I suppose im attracted to guy a lil older than me but I always want a big bro type to hang out with both sexually and non sexually, just for the connection and fun I coukd go on longer but I doubt I can
Im not into daddies, but I do get turned on by guuys a little older than me, im 22 and I tend to go for people 25-30 or maybe a little older (32 or 33) cause of the maturity and I enjoy the company of someone older and more experienced in life than me. I know I may be a little immature but I try to better myself for the ones that are older than me, mostly cause of my attraction to older dudes, I suppose im attracted to guy a lil older than me but I always want a big bro type to hang out with both sexually and non sexually, just for the connection and fun I coukd go on longer but I doubt I can
Im not into daddies, but I do get turned on by guuys a little older than me, im 22 and I tend to go for people 25-30 or maybe a little older (32 or 33) cause of the maturity and I enjoy the company of someone older and more experienced in life than me. I know I may be a little immature but I try to better myself for the ones that are older than me, mostly cause of my attraction to older dudes, I suppose im attracted to guy a lil older than me but I always want a big bro type to hang out with both sexually and non sexually, just for the connection and fun I coukd go on longer but I doubt I can
Im not into daddies, but I do get turned on by guuys a little older than me, im 22 and I tend to go for people 25-30 or maybe a little older (32 or 33) cause of the maturity and I enjoy the company of someone older and more experienced in life than me. I know I may be a little immature but I try to better myself for the ones that are older than me, mostly cause of my attraction to older dudes, im attracted to guy a lil older than me but I always want a big bro type to hang out with both sexually and non just forbfun
Im not into daddies, but I do get turned on by guuys a little older than me, im 22 and I tend to go for people 25-30 or maybe a little older (32 or 33) cause of the maturity and I enjoy the company of someone older and more experienced in life than me. I know I may be a little immature but I try to better myself for the ones that are older than me, mostly cause of my attraction to older dudes, im attracted to guy a lil older than me but I always want a big bro type to hang out with both sexually and non just forbfun
Im not into daddies, but I do get turned on by guuys a little older than me, im 22 and I tend to go for people 25-30 or maybe a little older (32 or 33) cause of the maturity and I enjoy the company of someone older and more experienced in life than me. I know I may be a little immature but I try to better myself for the ones that are older than me, mostly cause of my attraction to older dudes, im attracted to guy a lil older than me but I always want a big bro type to hang out with both sexually and non just forbfun
Im not into daddies, but I do get turned on by guuys a little older than me, im 22 and I tend to go for people 25-30 or maybe a little older (32 or 33) cause of the maturity and I enjoy the company of someone older and more experienced in life than me. I know I may be a little immature but I try to better myself for the ones that are older than me, mostly cause of my attraction to older dudes, im attracted to guy a lil older than me but I always want a big bro type to hang out with both sexually and non just for fun
Im a bi man in my 30s (im 34 yrs old). In my experience, age comes with experience and knowledge and mental maturity. and I think thats what attracts most to the ‘daddy’types. I do tend to relate better with the older generation (40+) than those in my age group (28-39). I do find that the younger generation (18-29) are in that mindset that their lives are open and sometimes are very shallow and indifferent. Being a man thats not out and do prefer the solitude and quietness and privacy, gravitating towards the older guy who is stable and more private, secure, know what they want, and done the ‘been there, done that’ part of their lives is what attracts me the most.
To Aaron, Yes, i would love to find someone closer to my age (+/- 5 yrs) where i live so that we can share the same references, same experiences, same environmental/social/mental culture, and such, but its like i’m in this age group where we are still searching, is unsure, and want to stay in the glory days of their 20s.
Its always fun to find someone who can relate to you esp in regards to your childhood and growing up. I loved watching Jem & the Holograms, Transformers, M.A.S.K., Ducktales, and so many other childhood cartoons, and its fun reminiscing with someone who can relate and relive this time in ones life where it was all innocent and young and magical.
I am a 64 year old man, who enjoys the company of younger men. five years ago I met and fell in love with a 19 year old. not only was he a great lover but he was a great human being. tender, caring, good looking. the entire package. I enjoy the younger persons vitality and energy. maybe I am hoping it will rub off on me.
I loved an older man that was 18 years older than me. I was 31 at the time now I’m 38. hes sexy as hell in the bedroom. but age has no effect on me because I loved older and younger than me. Its about their personality and perkiness. its about knowing someone for truly who they are. I have no daddies issue at all. so let get to know someone before you judge them on age.
Isn’t it funny that when many people see a 55-year old man with a 22-year old man they either think it’s perverted or that the younger man is a paid escort, but when they see a 55-year old man with a 22-year old woman, they nudge each other, wink at each other, and secretly (or perhaps not so secretly) envy the older man and wish they were in his shoes?
As an older guy, I prefer younger guys. I’m just not attracted to most guys my age. I’m not looking for a relationship, just occasional fun times with an attractive guy. I’m not always looking for sex, either. I luv it when I’m in the lockerroom and a younger guy undresses without trying to hide what he’s got. A real turn on is when they bend over naked and show their hole, cock and balls. Also hot when I’m in the sauna and a younger guy lets the towel slide open a little so I can peek at his cock and balls.
@MistrFistr — I think you’re the one on drugs because if that’s how fucking jaded you are about younger guys and older men…you’re out of your goddamned mind. BTW, stop proclaiming yourself the “voice of experience” because clearly the only experience you have is being out of touch with the entire community. Damn.
Personally, I prefer mature gentlemen because they’re better in bed than most guys my age. I used to have a fuck buddy who was about 25 years older than me and the sex was consistently hot. Damn, I miss that.
Got to admit.. I think it’s because I fuck with experience that younger men are attracted to me. And it is also because of my fine sexy looks and tight body…
as a daddy I been doing great didn’t really like the Idea at first now ok with my position in life have only been with 2 older men than myself,most were less than 10 yrs younger,since my long term fuck bud moved on 10 yr diff I have been getting hit on by much younger men wow the sex has been great, but some of them are a blo go type of thing,they don’t want to get to relax and enjoy the time together, my youngest so far is 19 and OMG hot bl/bl/smooth/5’9″/160lbs/8″/ sadly he’s not interested in a LTR, so I will just have to wait and see how this all plays out..Dean
Aaron yes I agree with your statement,former Daddy I think that what killed my LTR he loved the club scene me not so much,and your right about guys hitting on him but he was good bait other guys hitting on him we had a few join us just because he was there w/me —- so no complaints … Dean
Age is just a number. it is whats inside of the guy that counts. And how good his mouth and hands are.
And what is between his legs.
A healthy relationship of any kind is good no matter what.
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I like the daddy/son dynamic! Some of the best sex in my life were with older men, 50+ in age. In my opinion, I like how they know what they want and are not afraid to show you who’s boss! That’s a big turn on!
I like men of all ages. Ima younger dude in my 20s. Like find others around my age but its something sexy about seeing a mature inshape to muscular man. As long as the understanding and chemestry is mutual I think its cool. Older men have dated and married way younger women all throughout history.
I am in my early twenties. I pretty much only have eyes for 30+ yo men. And to go with that, my partner and I have a 30 year gap in between us. I like the protection factor they provide. Just something about it I guess.
I prefer older guys usually. There’s more passion when it comes to sex with them. There’s no real rush. Young guys are nice to look at, but usually their full of themselves. I actually feel protected when I’m with older guys.
Great topic. Thanks. Im 49 and prefer men younger than myself. I started graying, and aesthetically prefer dark-haired guys without gray. I also like the protective feeling I can offer. I’m very much a kid myself so enjoy hanging out with guys that live an active lifestyle of sports, biking, camping, etc. I also want to start a family so it would be nice if my partner were younger so the kid could have a younger parent. I don’t think I’d want to seriously date anyone younger than 36 though, as I need a man who has already come into his own.
Living in Philly. Say hi if you think we might be a match.
my experience is chemistry is the ke no matter what young, old reach poor but chemistry I’v been with a lot of people Iam 45 years old and I can still fuck 20 years old guys.
I am 54 and enjoy the company of younger men – 20 something’s are my weakness. I totally enjoy the sex with guys half my age (college town) so I do have productive relationships occasionally. Most don’t ask for money, some do, but I am open to exchange things for a good time.
I love older men! Lost my virginity to one of my dad’s friends. I was 18 he was 40. Love the feeling of an older man pumping my tight pink hole with his big daddy dick, fucking me like a bitch. I’ve always gotten off on making older men cum.
I like older men so much I became one.
Im 48 in a college town. Younger guys outnumber us, and they all seem to want us. Fun for the occasional romp, but for a relationship I need someone closer to my own age and experience level.
I’ve always been attracted to older men. I lost my virginity when I was a teenager to the husband of one of my mom’s friends who was in his late 30’s at the time. I just met up with a daddy in his mid 60’s a couple of days ago and was appreciative of the time he took in making sure I was enjoying myself, rather than just plunging into my ass as some 20 year olds I’ve been with are wont to do. Long story short, I don’t have any daddy issues but can appreciate an older man’s experience in the bedroom.
Now that I’m 53, I have become the daddy. As much as I feel flattered by the younger guys, there is something unsettling about them. It always feels like they they’re only there for themselves and not for a mutual relationship. I prefer men younger than I am but generally in the same age group that I’m in.
Age is not an issue for me personally. I am attracted to, and seem to be attracted by, guys of all ages.
Hey, if a guy of any age wants to put an exclusion on guys of certain ages (much as they do with “hairy”, “slim”, “muscled”, “HWP”, etc.), that’s his choice. For me, doing so just seems to mean someone is going to have a better chance of someday finding themselves old, alone, bitter, and laying the blame for it all on someone else.
I always thought young guys were hot and they got hotter as I got older; now it’s not quite so simple. My partner and I have met some young (and I do mean YOUNG) guys who have not had any intimacy with their sexual partners. One said he had never kissed a guy…! To me, they seem to hook up just to fuck, and Christ! don’t even use any lube! I guess doing it raw is all right if you like that, but to me, comfort is main priority. I am extremely lucky: my partner and I have been together 28 years. These younger guys fuck around on each other (not that we didn’t…we just adapted to it rather than split up), but what is worse or so scary is HOW MUCH they do it and without protection. One guy had two boyfriends: the first one wanted to do threesomes and wound up leaving him for their first encounter…and gave him AIDS as well. I mean, this kid’s life is completely altered before he is even 21. Younger guys are okay but I find the best sex comes from those closest to our own age, who are not expectant of anything, just enjoy the contact of two men, the closeness, the sex, the kissing. I don’t know what these younger gay men are doing but none of them that we have met seem able to meet anyone; and if they do, the relationship is doomed from the outset, flawed with so much fucking around that they don’t last very long.
The real problem, is people feeling the need to fit into labels and buzzwords, and projecting each others definitions to them, without really communicating. The focus on sex and sexuality, is so reductive to the person, as a whole, reducing them to an object and conquest. Someone will be older, therefore the other is going to be younger by default. This focus on rigid superficial statistics, which change constantly. Considering, at least in my area, most of the profile have not been updated in at least 3 years, yet most demand face pics, this and that, etc… yet don’t ask the same of themselves, and admittedly skew their own numbers to get laid. Deceptive? Who are some of them trying to deceive? It’s sad and laughable, that so many have profiles on other sites,some multiple and on the same site, promoting something entirely different, like “sex only”, will post full nudity on one, and sexual proclivities, and a completely different set of statistics and interests, with different names, yet with the same pictures, and again, from a long time ago, some with even a date and time stamp. I’m really not sure any more what this all has to do with being “gay”, and I’m not lumping myself into that group, having to be defined by that alone, from the inside as well as the outside.
I’m a 22 year old, and I love guys of all ages. However, there is something hot about a guy that is 35+ with a more developed body and man meat. It might have been the whole twink stigma surround guys my age that turned me off. Most guys I met were hairless twigs, and that turns me off so damn fast. But with older guys that was generally not the case. Also, since I’m not wanting a relationship anytime soon, I like NSA sex and generally older guys know dating someone that could be their son is a turn off. I’d kiss or suck or jerk a guy my age and they automatically think…… “oh wow that was so… what are we?” Yikes lol.
A4a should make that one of the “looking for” check boxes. This would help identify those that are okay with younger/older than themselves.
I’m 28 and i enjoy the company of older and younger guys. Doesn’t matter to me(to an extent). I usually end up dating older though, becaude I enjoy thr corting peocess. Getting to know a guy on a personal level befor the physical stuff happens. While there are guys older and younger who like the same, I’ve found that more often than not that the older guys tend to do and say the things I like. Plus its nice being with a guy who in in a point in his life where he knows what he wants for the future.
Coming out in my teens was hard enough. My family didn’t know how to relate to me being gay. They were there for me in every other way. They just couldn’t relate to the emotional/sexual side of me. Guys my own age then were fun as friends but we were all looking for some stability and the safety or comfort of a more mature man. But if he were my dad’s age – no. Maybe I was looking for an older brother or uncle?
How do you define a daddy anyway? I think there could be a wide range of opinions here.
Older men can still be attractive to me IF they aren’t physically busted. I enjoy younger for their looks and bodies. I have been blessed with looking a good deal younger than I am. I can be a nephew/son for the right guy. Or maybe be a dad/uncle too as long as they don’t expect me to support them financially. I don’t want to be supported either.
So I guess for me it’s a combination of a guy’s mind and body. Sometimes you only get one or the other. The ideal is to find a guy with both no matter what the age. And they do exist in both age groups – just hard to find!
My age or younger for me
if you have can’t be with someone in your own age group, you have issues. plain and simple. make excuses, but the fact remains that men/boys who are with someone from a much different generation are in that relationship because they are missing something in their own lives.
The whole Daddy/Son thing seems to be really popular lately. Personally I like guys my age(40-50). But it seem like all these younger guys are into me. I’ve never been one to turn down a good looking guy no matter what their age or ethnic background- call me an equal opportunity hoe. So now days I find myself being very popular with these young guys and I’m kinda really getting into it. I love the role play and all that. Its something I never thought I would like when I was younger- but good sex is good sex!
I am an old man (69 really) and I love the beauty of a young body. I don’t get into men my own age or older. I love the look of a young muscular body and a nice hard dick. I don’t know about the relationship issues. I never think about them. I just like to fuck a young guy!
Bi guy who just started playing with guys in my late 40s. At first started playing with young guys, but now enjoy men of all ages.
I’m 55, solid, hung n hairy, and I get quite a few younger guys who hit me up. I love it because I’m sexually attracted to tight bods and bounceback skin. And the raging hardon on a young guy is a bonus!
Guys who have an opinion about others’ relationships simply need to keep it to themselves. No one needs their judgments. If a relationship is symbiotic, fair, honest, loving, and caring, then it works and no one else gets a say.
When I was 25, my bf (Michael) was 37. We stayed together for 3+ years (until he got caught sucking off a dude in the parking lot and lied to my face about it).
When I was 32, my bf (Aubrey) was 18. Ours was a long-distance relationship, but I traveled to his location as often as I feasibly could… and to this day, I think of him as “the one that got away”… in many ways, I’ve never loved another as deeply as I loved him (and to be honest, I STILL have feelings for him!)
Now, some 15+ years later, I’ve met up with dudes less than half my age and I’ve met up with dudes well over a decade older than me… and let me say that I’ve found winners and losers at both ends of the spectrum!
Age is just a number. Maturity is what matters. I’ve met 19 y/o kids with the maturity of a mid-life executive, and I’ve met 50 y/o “kids” with the maturity of a middle-schooler.
Mind you, I’m not judging either set — but a “mature” 20 y/o is not going to get along with a “party animal” — regardless of his age!
For me? I like a man who can handle himself, but who has the self-confidence to be vulnerable in private. I abhor drama (well, unnecessary drama), and so I find I’m most compatible with the 30-50 set. That DOES NOT mean I don’t give it a try with guys outside that age range, but it does mean I have “altered expectations” when I do 🙂
Age is just a number… matching maturity levels is far more important (with relation to age expectations) if you ask me!
I like older guys but at the same time I won’t date a guy who is 45+ and above that wouldn’t be able to sex me 24 7, haha reason why I like older guys because I want or need a man in my life someone to be strong make me feel secure in his arms help me in decision making show me the pros n cons in situations and older guys tends to think smart in dealing with problems in relationships unlike sum younger guys they’re arrogant and quickly jump to conclusions please don’t get me wrong younger guys this is just my preferences. I’m attached to guys who is older than me especially if he’s manly|muscular|hairy|shaved|in good shape|speaks with his manly voice and when he is on top of me making passionate love his body must somewhat covers me makeing me feel completed.
I like older guys because they tend to be more easy-going, easier for me to deal with, have a conversation with, and they are usually solid about what they want sexually. I’m not sure where my attraction to older guys comes from. My dad, who passed away when I was 15, and I had a healthy relationship, so I don’t I’m looking for a “daddy” being attracted to older men. My dad being 50 when I was born could have something to do with my liking older guys. I’ve always been more comfortable around older guys/people versus guys/people my age. I guess my dad being so old played a big part in that. I’ll take an older guy over a young guy any day.
Since I was younger I liked guys that were older than me, when I was in middle school and started to feel attraction for a guy, I was mostly attracted to guys in high school or a year or two ahead of me, in high school, I liked my English teacher, but my very firts boyfriend was my age, well 8 months older than me, after that I dated mostly guys that were older than me, probably cause I didn’t had good relationship with my dad or to be honest I didn’t even know the fucker, but like you mention I like to feel protected, and that is what I like about an older guy.
I do like older guys but I can’t bring myself to be interested in an older guy that isn’t financially stable, or one that uses slang and foolery of that nature.. It really bothers me. I think like most guys my age, we are attracted to their lifestyle, and I rarely see HOT daddies but I do see older men that I could start a life with, looking past their features.. I was 19 when I first started openly dating older men. He was like 65+. I’m 24 now and I think it’s slowly fading away. But an someone please explain to me the 18-25 thing.. It doesn’t make sense to me. Why not 18-29??
I’m still a closet bi, my 1st couple of guys were my age. But once I had older men I really enjoyed it. They take their time and really appreciate my body. I love the compliments they give me and how they seem to do anything to please me. I even enjoy guys 60 plus, kinda messed up but I feel like I’m doing them a favor by letting them have me. Well any daddies in ORLANDO please message me
I am amazed that when I turned 60 I thought my days of having fun with younger guys would be over, however just the opposite has happened. I find I get hit on by more 21 to 39 year old guys than I ever have. Most have profiles that say they are not into older guys, but then they are the ones that hit on me. When I ask them why, they usually say they dont want their friends to know they are into older guys. I have been with my current boyfriend for 10 years. He is 35 now. His biggest complaint is that when we are out and about, I am the one getting hit on by younger guys. Life is good at 60.
I am 52. Been single for 11 yrs now. Being over 50 is like one foot in the grave in the Gay World. Just yesterday I got a message from a guy asking “why the Fuck, I was on the site?” Then followed up with “because I was too old for Grindr” Even tho he was hiding his face with no pic. (We all know that NO pic – No Dick). Then we all have “types” that we are attracted too. When that is stated…The exact type you state Hits on you all pissed off. Guys, just because you find something you like, the feeling may not be mutual on the other side. Gay Marriage is a touchy subject also. Pro Gay Marriage wants the same “rights” as Hetro couples. But want to live it by their own elite rules. Marriage is committing to one another. Not “playing with permission” I am not a prude by any means. But being in a committed relationship is just that. If your “playing on the side” That is CHEATING. I know alot of you will disagree. But it is the Truth. You cant live life with the same benefits, but live by different rules!
Love this topic! For me I have always been attracted to older men. Although I have never been in a relationship when i think of a future I see myself with an older man. I feel a mental connection with them,and can’t wait to meet the right guy.
-VersedudeNj