A4A : Who Are You?
Hey guys, I thought about doing this so that we get to know each other a little bit more. I saw that many of you are regulars on the blog, but I don’t know you yet and other guys too.
So maybe you could start by mentioning your A4A profile name, your age, where you live, what is your work, if you have kids and other personal things. Then if you are single or not, if you are gay, bi or curious. Then what you dream about and where you see yourself in the next 5 years, what you would like to accomplish and what is the ideal YOU.
You might find love or a buddy through this blog….who knows!?
So i’ll start:
I’m Dave (lol), my profile name is….(drum roll) athleticdudemtl. My profile is sometimes in NYC and sometimes in Montreal because I travel between both cities all the time. I work for Adam4Adam’s social medias and blog and I am also a stylist, personal shopper. So if you are busy with work or don’t know anything about clothing or fashion but want to look great, that’s where you hire me! I do shopping spree with or without the client, wardrobe analysis etc.
I’ve been single for 3 years now, dated a man for 6 years previously. I am not really looking for love, but if it happens, it would be great, I’m not opposed to it. I usually like men that are very sporty, athletic/muscular and 100% top. I rarely connect well with versatile men or bottoms in a relationship and for sex, even less. My plan is to move to NYC permanently in the next year or so because I love this city a lot, the guys are hot, very driven in their work and life and very busy doing many things (like me) and I love the energy of the city. Ideally I would build my styling empire in NYC, also record an album (remember that I sing?) and still work for A4A!
So there you go, now you know me even better, share who you are with the rest of the A4A population and connect with the guys you are interested in. Please guys no personal email and no websites on the blog, I will delete them.
Have a wonderful day guys and oh… I really like to write for you every day by the way! I really feel like I accomplish myself when I write about something and I like the digital connection we have. So thank you all for that!
Dave
I’m Alex, 23 years old, and I live in Houston, TX and work at this cafe. I have two little 5 year old twin brothers that I often babysit and I’m gay.
I’ve never had a boyfriend or even been on a real date. It’s a really small dating pool in my city. You have to have enough money to travel throughout the state and to NOLA to actually meet enough quality men to find a match.
I’d prefer to be in a relationship because hooking up doesn’t satisfy me as much.
I am an artist and musician. I dream about a successful career as a singer/songwriter and electronic musician, and also of owning my own cafe/bar/restaurant in Denver, CO selling gourmet vegan and organic cannabis desserts. I actually already started designing the structure. I want everything on the menu to have a cannabis option and the entire structure to be a glass cylinder with a glass dome top in the middle of a ring of tall trees with wooden decks connecting the trees to the dome and gardens on the ground.
In the next 5 years I want to co-own or own my own business, my own house or condo, and I want to be expanding my business to include a high end resort/spa style bath house that caters to international clientele.
I want to then use my money and connections to give back to the city by planning affordable urban housing close to downtown that caters to lower income young people in exchange for a few hours community service on the grounds a week and really cheap rent to expand the parks department for gentrification and urban expansion as well as to meet the needs of the new generation trying to find work and living space in a housing shortage and bad economy.
Oh and my A4A name is gaianphoenix
NICE ONE DAVE. I’M ANONYMOUS SO THAT’S ALL I CAN DIVULGE 😛
NEW YORK CITY IS CUT-THROAT. THAT CITY WILL CHEW YOU UP AND SPIT YOU OUT BEFORE YOU EVEN KNOW WHAT HIT YOU. ALL I CAN SAY IS CONNECTIONS, CONNECTIONS, CONNECTIONS! YOU’LL NEED THEM.
HAVE FUN!
Hi, I am a straight married dude who logs on here to get his cock sucked and swallowed by all you cum hungry bitches.
Hi. My name is Leland. I most often go by Lars. My A4A username is sinfully_delicio. I am 28 years old, living in New Mexico. I would say where but you will most likely never hear it again because it only has a population of 300 people. LOL. I do drafting/administration work right now. I really like my job and I am always learning more. I am single and have never has a serious relationship. Gay here. In 5 years I hope to have my bachelors in Electrical Engineering and have a steady job.I like to meet new people because where I’m from, there really isn’t too many new faces…. If you wanna chat, hmu on A4A. 🙂
Looks like I get to first (or close to it). My real name is Randy, but my screen name is DoggyDad. I was born and raised in Maine a few years ago but have lived in Ohio for 7 years now. I moved here with my partner, but he passed away last year at the age of 58. We were raising 3 dogs together. So for the last year it has been me and my 3 boys. It has been a hard year for me, but having my dogs have helped. We did not have a lot of friends before and I have not made that many since he passed. I have a few at work, but nobody I have known long enough to talk with about anything personal. I have other family here, but they have been consistently supportive and I do not feel comfortable talking with them about how hard this year has been for me. Personally, I feel that I was lucky to be in a relationship once and don’t think any guy would ever be interested in me that way again. I have never been a “catch”. Guess that is all I will say, now I am starting to get depressed again.
Hey guys Im Will my profile screename is bluedragon83
I live in North Florida but will be moving hopefully within the next yr not sure where yet though. I love the outdoors listenin to music. Imattracted to masculine men total tops not into vers guts sexually i like athletic guys. Guys that are motivated in life
Well now..this is kind of cool..ok..ok ok ok..im Brian..my user name is captainhooklives..Im 6’4 230 lbs height and weight proportionate..since I got a receding hairline in my 20’s, I decided to shave my head completely bald..lol..cant imagine myself with hair anymore. .im currently staying with my straight best friend whom I recently came out to.. in gulf shores, Alabama and work in Louisiana. .im 41 yrs old (don’t think I look it. .lol) and a supply vessel captain registered and licensed through the U.S. coastguard in the oil fields in the gulf of Mexico..working 28 days on and 14 off..I’ve been a top all my life until this year..lol..what happened was..I met up with another top that I wanted to top but he had plans on topping me..this is no bullshit I promise. .well..we were both strong masculine guys so we decided to have a real wrestling match ..the one who got pinned was gonna bottom..well..we started..and about a half hour in ..BOTH EXHAUSTED..he pinned me..well. .he took his claim and I never knew that kind of pleasure so I continued to bottom…that said. .im still friends with him but were not an item..so im single..I plan on staying in my field and achieving higher licenses by continuing my nautical navigation schooling. .will be a forever student. .lol..ive moved around alot through my life but seem to be setting roots here..I do not have Dave’s sense of fashion. .I usually send people to shop for me if there is a special occasion. .lol..yea..im still all boy 😉 always been a blue jeans and t-shirt kind of guy..as my profile states..im not “out” but not “in” either. .im the kind of guy that if you ask me a question. .I’ll tell you no lies.. not detectable as a gay man naturally..yea yea..I will make the finest tuned gaydars fail..lol..though..some of you may read my profile snd get the wrong idea of my character. . I use A4A for purely sexual encounters because Ive given up looking for love on these kind of sites..I prefer to have drinks and conversations face to face at a social to get to know someone by interactions. .you can hide your true character behind a computer screen but not in person.. thanks for the blog Dave 😉 you can get a feel for someone by reading there input and opinions as well if there focus is on the subject at hand and not a personal sexual outlet.. thanks again
My name is Carlos I’d like to know you and maybe we could have more
I’ve been on this site for almost 5 years and haven’t gotten lucky yet , and that’s with what is probably the most word specific profile on the whole board. But I hardly blame it one A4A . Just being in a fucked up location where 99.5% of the members don’t give a rat’s azz ‘who you are’. If I played the nice social thingy and listed the shit I do ,have done and where I’ve been I bet it would scare even more of them away .
This is the internet and I refuse to put up pics ( I’ve been well trained ) I highly doubt anyone has any interest in ‘who I am’ , all they see is an age and if it’s out of their unspecified preferences range you could be Jesus Christ with a 17” cock , they’re not interested !
Hi my screename is njrealguy and I live in Central New Jersey…I am married to a woman and out to her and our 3 kids. We elected to stay married for a variety of reasons but it is really a very lonely existence. Been poz for 4 years and undetectable and very healthy.
My a4a name is MakeMeABird – gay guys here in Texas (especially in the smaller cities) can be cruel and cutthroat so I always think of that scene in Forest Gump where the girl runs in the cornfield and says “God make me a bird so I can fly far, far away” lol.
I’m 37 but constantly get pegged for 28 so I feel good about my genetics. I live in Central Texas (Killeen/ Fort Hood area) about 45 min north of Austin, Tx. I’m the Office Administrator and Guest Service Coordinator for a Wing restaurant here in Texas, as well as a Trainer and the occasional Server when I need some quick cash. I’m also in school working on my second degree (1st was in Music Performance) in Linguistics, specializing in French and Mandarin Chinese.
I’m gay and single. I feel like most gay guys are still remarkably self-UN-aware; that is, they spend far too much time trying to fit into the mold of “this is what being gay means” and far too little time actually figuring out who they are and what they want in life. So generally I’m never really looking to date anyone but I give everyone a chance because you never really know who you’re going to connect to. I’ve dated NASA engineers, had lunch with an Ambassador, and shared some McNuggets with someone on their lunch break. Everyone is somewhere on a journey; I try not to be a jerk about it.
I feel like most guys value physicality above all things. They never really build a good foundation of solid values so all they want is a pretty face and “hot” body. I love a hot body as much as the next gay but if Mr. McBody gets hit by a bus and his face gets scarred up, most of his “hot” friends will never speak to him again. Physicality is here-and-gone. I want a guy with a deeper foundation. And if he’s hot…well hey, bonus for me!
In 5 years I want to be finished with my degree and working in an Embassy, D.C., or translating languages through military contracting or corporate business. That’s me in a nutshell. I’m ridiculous.
You are an awesome blogger Dave and I enjoy reading your posts.
My name is Ren. From El Paso, Texas. (Sucks here.)
Profile: megaExE . Consider that a nickname until I get really comfortable with anyone to tell my real name. I’m a full time college student and I have a part time job. I actually met my ex boyfriend on A4A but we only went out for a week. I broke up with him because at the end he became a psycho. Not mentally crazy, just that he turned into a completely different person and things happened on the day we broke up. Anyways, I’m on a break from dating. I have hooked up before in a way to relieve my sexual frustrations from stress. I got tested clean last month and hope to stay that way next November. There are times I would get together again with the same guy before but mostly end up being a one time thing. Now I’m more into finding friends especially those I have a lot in common with. If something develops, I would let it happen. I have a lot of female friends. Maybe that’s why I have a big thing for men as much as women. (I am bisexual!) I like verse men a lot who can do both roles and sometimes those who top. Preferably masculine! The more dominant the better. Dominance drives me crazy and wanting more. I have a thing for older men but now want someone close in age or age range.
More about me, I enjoy working out a lot, gaming, watching japanese animation, I have a weird taste in music. I’m also multilingual in English, Spanish, French and Italian. (My music tastes go far into those lovely romance languages!) Polishing my languages so I can live abroad in Europe and renounce my citizenship here. Well can’t wait for more posts from you Dave and you are hella sexy!
Also if we have things in common feel free to message me.
I’m Roland but I like to go by Mikey.(middle name) I’m 25. My screen name is Saveme89. I’m a former navy corpsman who likes to just have fun. I’m still looking for work but I live in Gulfport, MS and travel to mesquite,nv on occasion. I’m homoflexible and hope to eventually find a guy compatible to finally settle down.
My name is Wayne, my profile is Lonely336. Im from NC. 38yo Single, bi, white big guy. Never had a bf or gf. Not alot to choose from here. Everyone likes the fit trim jock type. I work as a security supervisor. Outdoor type guy. Hope to find the right one someday. Really enjoy giving oral to guys. Easy going laid back no need to get in rush for things. If you in NC check me out.
Nice pics Dave… Good to put a face to the blogs lol. Question, what is your ethnicity? Are you mixed (mulatto)?
Me: no I’m french Canadian, white 100%. On my mom’s side we have aboriginal blood, like 8 generations ago….that what explains the little tan 🙂
Hi. My name is Clinton. 44 y/o. Soon to be 45. I have 2 profiles. Nubian dick & Mandingo dick. I’m Single. Born & raised in Syracuse, NY. Bi-guy here. I fool around with guys, but I only date women. I’m HIV+. Tested poz 12 yrs. ago. Even though I be on here looking for hook-ups on occasion, I am only looking for an HIV+ female to date. I have 3 adult kids. 2 boys 22 & 21 and a daughter 20. Yeah, I was busy. I’m on S.S.D. for my HIV & mental health issues.
Hey, name’s Mike. I’m 31 and back in graduate school for math after entirely too much time off studying math. I’m in Albany, NY (studying at UAlbany…good place for algebra and topology, but unfortunately I’m more into analysis). I’m gay and…sort of vanilla at the moment in all ways. I’m geeky, but want to be a little something more. Sure, studying analysis or at least statistics would be nice, but I’ve gotta find a guy to bring out the best in me who needs somebody like me…get into better shape, start playing with all the creative things I want to do someday…and of course to being out the geek in him. Yeah, that’s probably too much to ask for, but it’s always a hope, right?
So maybe you could start by mentioning your A4A profile name, your age, where you live, what is your work, if you have kids and other personal things. Then if you are single or not, if you are gay, bi or curious. Then what you dream about and where you see yourself in the next 5 years, what you would like to accomplish and what is the ideal YOU.
Hey guys,
Here it goes…
Profile: kwniceguydl
Age: 33
Live: South Florida…way south
Work: Government
Kids: No but would like them
Single: Yes:(
How I butter my bread: I date women, but fool around with guys discreetly when single – see previous answer:)
I dream about finding my soul mate, winning he lottery, having some kids, and living a long, fulfilling, happy life.
Next five years: hope I’ve make a dent in fulfilling my aforementioned dreams:)
What I want to accomplish: to leave the world a better place than I found it.
Ideal me: I think I’m pretty swell…so just want to maintain:)
Email me sometime if your interested in chatting or more…have freedom to travel:)
My name is Michael and my username is mbamike. Yes, I have an MBA degree.
I am gay which I finally accepted a few years ago after many, many years of denial.
I live in a small town in [East] Tennessee where being gay is not accepted due to heavy religious influences.
I had my first gay sexual encounter in 2009 with a guy I met on this site. I was on a business trip out of town and searched for someone to “pop my cherry ass.” This guy was a godsend!
He was in this town to study for his second master’s degree so that he could qualify to counsel the veterans as they return from Iraq and Afghanistan. He is a counselor by profession and has a PhD in education.
He answered a gazillion questions about being gay and gay sex for me during our time together which was an entire weekend. I will always be thankful for the help Chuck gave me as I accepted myself as being gay.
Of course, we fucked like rabbits also! Our fuck sessions would last up to four hours! I had never had four-hour sex in my entire life at that point! It was the best sex of my entire life!
When the following Monday came along, my ass was plenty sore, but I was more comfortable with myself as being a gay man.
Since then I have hooked up with several guys from this site and other sites as well. I get tested regularly for STD/HIV and use condoms most of the time.
I currently work in retail, but I hope to re-start my career in supply management. I am willing to relocate if necessary.
I hope to be able to live openly and freely as a gay man one day. Right now, that is not possible.
My name is Danny. Im from Buffalo N.Y. I work in the food service industry. And am seasonal with WDW. My profile screen name is whitecoco13.
I’m a contradictory person; I’ve yet to fully understand who I am and everything about me. But then again, don’t we spend most of our lives doing that anyway?
Anywho, I like climbing mountains of gravel, trekking through the forests, and chillin’ to some wicked music. Of which (music), I have a great appreciation for, my interests ranging from Heavy Metal to House Trance to Rap.
I’ve been hurt and I’ve hurt people. Lord knows, some relationships can suck… and others can just open your eyes to new possibilities of emotion andpassion.
Where do i see mysrlf in 5 years? Well right now;
Just living for the moment
I live off the hope, That life is more that just survival, That there lies a beautiful truth, Within a simple smile. We are all perfectly connected, By a need to be understood, A need to understand The mystery of the unexpected. Is there right from wrong? Is there a soul within a song? Do we have a right to be free, And decide where we belong? Some say love is a myth, and faith but a wish, Yet if this be the case. . . I would rather die in a lie, if truth would decide, That life is a meaningless waste. I live off the hope, That we are more than we seem. I live off the hope, Of the things unseen, That we may live off love, And breath off of dreams. This is how i choose to live my life, in every way possible
I don’t know where im going in life. I mean I don’t look ahead to far in the future for the fact we aren’t promised tomorrow and can go anytime you know
My name is Brandon, and my screenname is bg29316. I live in the upstate of South Carolina. I am 6’2″, 175 ish lbs. I am in the field of education, and am working on my Masters. I would love to have more gay friends, and to settle down eventually.
What’s up I’m David, I’m 35 yrs old and living in Lancaster County, PA. Truth of the matter is that growing up in a conservative area can be a challenge in itself. The early 90’s saw very little change and the marginalization of homophobia in 7th I endured was almost like a Scarlet Letter that followed me until I was 18. After high school I did my best to try to get along with people but sometimes some of that venom I had kept bottled up slips out a little bit in conversations.
Over a period of years I saw the opportunities elsewhere in more gay friendly places. Seeing the allure of American Adult Film industry, or online on the Internet was the fast track to fame and success where being provocative and sexual was rewarded 9 times out of 10. However the reality of the industry was often a number of suicides that happened. Leading me to learn from the mistakes others have made including my own given the opportunity.
I’d rather exchange obscurity for scrutiny many times over, because after feeling like an outcast at such a young age can lead to a hunger for many things. From personal experience fame and fortune often take a back seat to the hunger for love and acceptance.
My name is James, and I live in the Mid west in Indiana. We are still fighting for same sex marriage, but it’s closer than it was this time last year. I am a warehouse worker, but am on disability while awaiting for a Liver transplant. I am 56 years old, and am a bottom. My A4A name is Kokomo53btm, and I have been in a LTR in the past, we was together for 7 years. I like men close to my own age, and love the out of doors. I love going canoeing, and hiking! I’ve been on A4A for years and have met a few guys, but nothing long term as of yet. In 5 years I hope to be post transplant and back to work. By then I’ll have my home and car paid off, and life will be easier.
I am one of 11 siblings and our mother who is 89 years young lives with me. I am the 2nd from the youngest, and am close to family. I’m out and my family is very supportive of my life, and have been close to many of the men I’ve dated over the years. I don’t bring men around my mother unless it looks like they are more than a one or two night stands.
Hey My Name is Jay my screen name is Kiddo2323 Born and Raised in the Beautiful island of The Bahamas I am 22 I love to travel I am single just looking for friendship right now but hit me up if you wanna know more!!
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Nuff said.
My A4A name is……oh, which one do you need? I have multiples….The Good, The Bad and The Evil One….lol.
Call me S, my profile name is Quixotic7. I’m 6′, 170lb., and I primarily live in the basement (read between the lines and think about what I just said). I live in Orange county, CA border of Long Beach and I would LOVE to travel more! I do work, but thats for later.
I’ve been single for over 5 years now, dated my share but only had 2 official BF’s before. Honestly, I was scared of commitment and felt like if I was with someone I would be “missing out on something” but I was… and that was having a relationship. However, I am not really looking for love, but if it happens, it happens. I like guys whoa re between slim, athletic, and fit. I try to keep myself in good shape and the same attracts me in a guy. Im definitely more of a bottom but sometimes I do need to check someone’s oil. haha. I want to start a business. I’ve had an idea for over 10 years and need to just do it. But I feel like it’s something that will be life altering for me and many others. A whole other story, I guess. But besides that, I love the idea of traveling, although I haven’t done much of it. I want to visit Australia, Greece, France, Italy, and Prague most of all. Then maybe stop off in the Czech Republic and find me a husband and bring his ass back with me. 🙂
I want friends and guys who know about give and take and not just take and take. it’s all just about respect.
Did I miss anything?
Im in my 30s and still in the closet. i feel so alone I sometimes dont see the point of going on anymore but also cant bring myself to end it. so i just exist… I quit my job because i couldnt be motivated to anything anymore so now i have my finances to worry about too. No one knows though because i put on a happy face for my friends and family – im the life of the party and loved by all. but what would they say if they knew the truth. Maybe theyd be cool with it – who knows? but at this point im too old to come out. i want to get married and have a kids but how…i dont think i’d be able to live a lie.
Hi I’m Bil. I live in Stone Mountain, GA after living in Midtown Atlanta for the last 12yrs. I’m 50, 5’8″, 138# and at present growing out my greying red hair(don’t ask it’s a long weird story). I’ve been lucky enough to be retired for 4yrs and travel a lot. I’ve been single for a long time now. I love being single except I miss having someone to share holiday and special moments and would love to find a travel buddy. Being retired has its good and bad points. I have all the free time to do all the things I want but I don’t have a daytime playmate because everyone else is working during the day. I’m kinda stubborn but I have a fast wit and a caring heart. Just don’t get me too drunk or I’ll start telling people what’s wrong with them. lol All in All I’ve had a very interesting and wildly tangential life.
J’adore les francophones Canadienne! hehe…Canadian aboriginal or Australians? (I’m an Aussie!)
Hi everyone. I’m J. My Adam screen name is James_valor. I’m 24 years old. Born and raised in the Philippines and currently lives in Colorado. I’m a full time military/student. I’m majoring in biochemistry. I am planning to go to med school and hopefully be a doctor one day. I’m single never been on a serious relationship. I’ve only gone on a few dates. I’m gay.
heymikee here in phoenix, name is mike, hanging out having a few beers and seeing what pops up!
My name is Brian (A4A profile name is Ben_Literal). I’m 26, I live in Irving, TX, and I’m an artist and musician masquerading as a retail slave. I’m shy, mostly a homebody, and I love music, food, and cartoons.
Sn: t_wilson2013
A little about me… my name is john and I live in Houston. I have been single for 5 years and am hoping to change that… I am training to become a manager and am working on an advice column on YouTube… it really is my way of offering true friendship to those in need of someone to turn to…
As far as my dreams, I have had many of them and failed many times. That still doesn’t mean I roll over and call it quits. I take pride in the fact that I am a fighter because that’s how my family has raised me…
In the end I do want a family so I can teach my kids to love unconditionally. It took me forever to learn that so now that I have I want to spread that love to the world…
I hope I can one day meet. That man who I can build a world with… and not around. If you are interested then hit me up! I won’t bite…. well, I do but you won’t bleed!
Hello Gentlemen, my name is pharaohs. I am a bisexual man who lives in Southern California. I am a masculine, dominate top guy. Who is looking for a classy, fun, adventurous, educated guy. My interest includes the Art’s World Cultures, Gourmet Cooking, Arabian. Horses , Trips to Las Vegas and other places around the world, . I love the Ballet, Italian Opera, French Champagne, Antiques.
I live in Nashville ,TN I don’t need to watch or be like a drag queen to prove that I am A “Proud GAY MALE”
got you !!
Hi guys.
I’m Michael, sn: Azalean. I just turned 24 in August and it has been awesome. I’m a virgin, bottom, cute, and wild. I love having fun, traveling, and laughing… a lot. I am currently studying Media Production in hopes to move to LA in a year or so and pursue a career in TV Production. I don’t have many friends, I’m not sure why…lol… but yeah I love meeting new people, so if any of you wanna chat or get to know me, feel free to inbox me. I’ve never been in a relationship because I don’t aspire to be in one. I feel like I’m not mature enough to be in a relationship because I don’t know how to reciprocate love. But, when the time comes I hope to be in a relationship with a handsome, tall, hunky, and intelligent-black guy. We will have beautiful brown skin babies.
Middle-aged married guy here living in the Upper Midwest US. We have two adult children who have brought us what could well be permanent additions to our family. Time will tell. Experiencing my first “restructure” in 40 years in the workplace (will skip the details, let’s just say it’s not affirming). I never fit the 1970s/80s “gay guy” mold and fled it, going “functionally straight”. The whole loud, fem, pink thing was not me. Have found many other gay men who are similar and have developed a good group of half dozen or so buds that I get to play with regularly, usually meeting one or more of them once or twice a week (which is humorously more sex than I ever got in my younger years or in college). They’re all quality guys I value and plan to have in my life for years to come. And when I’m “hungry”, they beat the hell out of having to hunt for some new Mr. Right Now!
I’m Tony live in Flagstaff AZ small town I’m 26.
Sexually a passive (not submissive) gay bottom verse. I’m an alumni in Delta Lambda Phi (Omega) shout out to my Lambda Men
Always up for meeting guys for whatever.
Stay safe “)
My name Is thomas.. live and from philly..28 yrs old..tephilly11
Came out as bi-curious in grade school to my 8th grade class; but not my family, not till highscool. I dont truly know what I consider myself due to society’s need to put a label on everything. Im attracted to both and honestly wish I could have both and be in a three-way type thing. Ive been down that road with two guys 10 years ago, didnt work for me. Was always in open relationships.
Played baseball for a good 10 years. And I am very athletic as is. But I cant stand to watch sports. I wanna play.
I work for pretzel factory; overnight shift at that. So no social life for me. I get weekends off but to busy sleeping it away most the time.
Single for a little over 3yrs.
Play playstation3; Alot.
Smoketree; alot
Hello my name is Dee and my screen name is mrfantastic4.
Born and raised in Texas and like to treat people with respect.
I work in medical records and go to school but when I’m not doing that I enjoy going to live music and road trips. I also enjoy eating and cooking, like animals and try and be a great friend to others but, I am always told “your to cute and such to be single”. No its just that I’m selective in my process and rather take my time.
I would enjoy a friend, a buddy that I can be a guy with and do random things and be comfortable around. Just be yourself and try and be opened minded about conversation and go from there.
I have 2 brothers, 2 sisters and family oriented
Thanks for reading
Username: drkntwstd
Age: 43
Live: Susanville, CA (very far north, about an hour west of Reno, NV)
Work: Disabled and College student
Kids: 2 my son is 15 and my daughter is 12
Status: Divorced/single
Right now I am figuring out who and I am after spending 16 years married with kids and living a lie for part of that time. I always had a hard time figuring out where I fit in that I wasn’t being the real me. Coming out 2 years ago has made me happier than I have ever been in my life. I have learned not to care what others think of me and not be ashamed of who or what I am.
I am currently working on my BS in Environmental Science and hope to find a job making a difference once I complete the program.
I’m really not sure where I will be in 5 years. Not ruling out the possibility of a bf or husband but not wanting to rush into anything that I am not ready for yet. I still feel that I have some exploring and growing up to do so enjoying life and it’s opportunities.
I enjoy many types of music, art, photography, swimming, the beach, movies, and just being with friends. Have always wanted to travel but have never made it that far out of California.
I’m a nobody. Nobody knows me and nobody cares.
I’m a native Texan, an androphile, a total bottom yet I have a Dom streak.
I’ve been HIV+ for over 30 years, and have been undetectable for 17 years. I’m more relationship oriented so I’ve been celibate for about 3 years now since I left my ex of 7 years.
I first experimented with pumping in order to achieve some foreskin restoration. Then I went balls in and went “nuts” with it. I finally “came out” on A4A as a ball pumper to see what sort of reactions I would get. Mostly guys just want me to show them how I do it but not so much to play. A4A will not post all of my photos I suppose because they think they are photoshopped? My fetish is so erotic even alone, and the safest sex going.
I would still like to find someone to share my life with, and I have a lot to offer. Maybe I’m too particular, but my NSA hookup days are over. I want to date, and have a little romance first or nothing.
Hiya Bitches!
My profile name is Cockfab (someday I have to change that s/n). Mid-fourties (hate to admit that). Partnered and not looking. I also have several pets and kids. I use this site to look at pics and to chat. I enjoy communicating with ppl and sometimes just being a jerk 🙂 That said I’m also somewhat comical in my approach to life. I’m a professional living what most ppl see as a pretty envious lifestyle. Very stable middle class and bored like hell! In the next 1-2 years b/f and I will be selling out entirely here to relocate, start a business and generally to start over. Ever wake up in the morning and know this is it? Had that thought in my head for way to long. Time for change. My opinion about “knowing” yourself….what a damn joke! We “know” very little. Just planning to continue to live, grow and try to keep it interesting. One thing I do know is one day I’ll be dead. Would like to experience as much, good and bad (sigh…ying yang thing) as possible.
Best wishes to ya all and please LIGHTEN THE FUCK UP! Really it’s not all that important.
I’ve enjoyed some of the topics that have come up on the blog from time to time. It helps cut through the monotony of seeing the same profiles over and over.
My screen name is SELRAHC and I reside in the capital of Texas. Say my screen name in reverse and there you have my name. 40 yrs old, single, never had a bf, loves to keep active and travel.
Work in healthcare and hope that in the next 5 yrs I will have finished all the home projects that I have planned. 100% top and never had the urge to bottom. Attracted to other physically active men, whether the body type is short stocky, tall athletic, big beefy.
Take things as they come. Sometimes they all just come at once.
Real name is Dan. A manager for a world wide company. It sucks. A4A username is nicky1974. Been with my partner for 16 years and still going strong. No regrets yet lol. Made a few friends on the site since majority rather hook up. Not for me but thats cool. Born and raised and still live in Honolulu, Hawaii.
Have no clue where I see myself in 5 years. Hopefully in a new job. I have a 20 year old son who made me a grandpa 3 weeks ago. Fuck, I old lol. But loving every minute of it.
I have to say, thanks to everyone with pics. Its great to look at. Especially dick pics. They are awesome. Alot of them make me jealous lol.
I am Tancredo aka here as T-Buff. I am a freelance entertainer and writer. I have done porn and think of doing more. I have a partner for almost 12 years in an open relationship and it has been a thrilling life. I am very down to earth person yet I like the adventure and push my boundaries but keeping my feet on the ground. Open to any question in private.
Well, other than the writer, Dave, I guess I am the only other Canadian to post.
Profile name: Mr2uboy
Live in our Nation’s Capital: Ottawa. Settled here for love & kids. Neither worked out. Came out of my closet in 1999-2000 when I met by chance a hot international exchange student that decided to take on the responsibility of “educating” me. He returned home, and then a few months later I met an older man and fell in love and we lived together for 8 years. In 2008 we separated and have not spoken more than niceties since. Fell in love with another man in 2010, but we realized our friendship was more important. He died 4 days after Valentines Day in 2012. Not sure I can “fall in love” again, but open to a special companion/friend. Miss the feeling of sleeping all night with one guy. Going to dinners, movies and dancing or just hanging out. Total top (Dominant), in a mostly bottom city with 2 Universities and a college there is no shortage of hookups. But sometimes, a quiet meal while watching a flick and cuddling on a very cold winter’s night would be heaven. Problem is, I am not sure I could settle down, again. Would take a special man with a lot of patience to rope me! I can see an alcoholic/drug abuser/lay-about a mile away, now, but still have a soft spot for the underdog.
I have resigned myself to the very real possibility that I will die alone. I have friends but no one special anymore. I am NOT sad, not happy, but living life the best way I know how, trying to do as little harm as possible along the way. The reality is: It doesn’t always get better, but it can be less painful.
Have read a lot of these postings and I have seen and been there, too. Feel sorry for you, want to reach out and give you a big Canadian bear hug! Hang in there, boys! Someone will come along. Get up, go do your thing (work/study) make a life for yourself and be happy with who you are…and one day maybe he will be standing across the street thinking, “Gosh, he is hot!” and you will see the twinkle in his gaze, get a little bulge in your pants as he crosses the street to say, “Hello, there, handsome.” It happened to me 3 times so far…kind of looking for a 4th! 🙂
PS: I am not a great travel guy. So come see me in Canada! We LOVE gay men. We even marry some of them!
my profile name curbtm1
I am 45(don’t feel like it but I am…LOL)
live 2 hours from DC….near blueridge pkwy
married and curious yet.. regret for not acting on my curiosity in college.
still deep in closet and reluctant to meet anyone for sexual encounter. Mean while I would love to find a bud to chat(could be erotic chat time to tie, too)and know him better, if I am available….LOL(lame right?)
HMU if u like my profile:-))
PSS: I agree, Dave, you are HOTT! wow….good luck in NYC.
Hello, my name is Alphonzo. My screen name is wantyou2. I live in Alexandria, Virginia. I was born and raised in Wash., D.C. Doggydad, you and I have a lot in common. I moved here to be with my late life partner of 26 years. He passed away last year and the past year has also been a very rough,lonely, difficult and depressing year for me. I have become very withdrawn and deeply depressed. My question to myself is how do I go on with life alone after spending half of my life with someone else who was just as much a part of me as I was of him? I’m still waiting for the answer to that one, but in the mean time I have joined a couple of support groups, I’m seeing a therapist and I’m doing some of the things that I like to do to keep myself busy. I love listen to my music, cooking, reading and doing things around the house. I’m not much of an outgoing person these days, I’m more of a homebody, which is pretty much what I have been for the past 27 years. Dave, I too love your blog and enjoy reading the comments that others post on here. Some can be helpful and enjoyable others can be hurtful and just down right cruel, but it is what it is and we are who we are. Too each his own! lol In five years, I see myself living in another state (hopefully Atlanta, GA), having my own painting and handyman business up and running successfully. Doing some traveling and visiting some of the places that I and my late partner always wanted to visit. Canada being one of those places. And thanks again Dave for another great topic and you and everyone else have a wonderful and blessed day.
“So maybe you could start by mentioning your A4A profile name, your age, where you live, what is your work, if you have kids and other personal things. Then if you are single or not, if you are gay, bi or curious. Then what you dream about and where you see yourself in the next 5 years, what you would like to accomplish and what is the ideal YOU.”
Hey! Well, my name is Ty (Tyrus): my profile scrn name is GApeach14. I’m 31, black male who relocated from Northwest Ind. to ATL 2yrs ago. I’m a self-employed sketch artist; I been working professionally for 8 yrs now! I sketch people mostly but I could do other subjects with other mediums. No kids of my own but I’m a loving uncle of three and I love being an uncle to my little nieces! If I don’t have kids of my own someday, I will hopefully see myself molding kids minds by becoming an ART teacher! I am partnered with my love of 5 yrs this December! I got lucky when he found me on a website that’s something like this one and the rest is history! I came out to my family when I was 29. With my coming out to my family, I found my voice became more confident with my art. I’ve gone to study fine arts in IN. and done my very first exhibition 7yrs ago. Fast-forward to this year, I hope to return to art school and do more art shows in ATL. That’s what I want to do within the next 5 yrs! If anyone, needs a sketch artist…hire me and I’ll hook you up! 🙂
First I want to say too that I really enjoy your blog and have picked up some valuable information from your posts. I have recently begun blogging myself and realize that it can be a fulfilling outlet.
With that said – My screen name is BobbyLVC
I live in Lancaster County, PA – not a hot bed of gay activity unless you are in the clique. I have met some nice guys on this site and also some scary guys.
I am 55 – but people I meet keep me in the mid to high 40’s – I’ll take it!
I have not kids unless you count a dog and a cat
I have been on disability for over a year because of problems from surgery but I am happy to say that I will be returning to work soon.
I have had several short term relationships over the years. I had one chance years ago to a really good man. I was seeing someone else at the time who lived closer than the good man. Eventually I turned down the good man for the one living close by. I regret those actions daily. the local guy was a major jerk – though the sex was great – but the good man would still be with me. The last relationship I had was about 5 years ago. He was a top with some kind of STD and did not want to do anything to protect me. One night he told me that I would love him even more if I would let him top me. Shortly after that I realized that we did not have a relationship but that I was a booty call for him. Since then I have been single. I would love a relationship, but with someone not sex with someone. I prefer to top, but I have bottomed from time to time.
5 year plan – retired from my current job and hopefully writing more seriously than I have been. Which means hopefully making money from my writing. I also would not be opposed to moving to a larger city with a more thriving gay population. I don’t have many gay friends – my friends are mostly straight. It would be nice to have some gay friends to do things with on the weekends.
I like college sports – especially football and basketball, gardening, eating out with friends, coffee shops, and travel.
Keep up the great work on the blog! And thanks for this.
Hey Guys,
My name is Brandon, my screen name is Multib
I am a Houston native, 24 years old, and I am in retail.
I am openly gay, no children yet but I would love to have children, a husband, and a couple of dogs someday. Of course, well after I have a stable career and have traveled the world first lol.
Five years from now, I would love what a degree in media communications or production, (or anything in the audio feield) and I want to
Whoooops didnt mean to hit send…. *hides face*
Hey Guys,
My name is Brandon, my screen name is Multib
I am a Houston native, 24 years old, and I am in retail.
I am openly gay, no children yet but I would love to have children, a husband, and a couple of dogs someday. Of course, well after I have a stable career and have traveled the world first lol.
Five years from now, I would love what a degree in media communications or production, (or anything in the audio field).
I love music. The very fibers of my soul is made out of it.
I’m Steven. My username is Igggy lol I am 24 years old turning 25 next year. I work at a payday advance company own my home and live in beautiful Yucca Valley California. Friends and family know I am gay otherwise most people don’t know. But I do not hide it. I am from a huge family of 8. I love hiking and listening to music. 🙂
Name is Devin (Admn1) on a4a
I’m from Dayton OH. I’m 23 and I’m a OTR trucker. I’m a team driver my location is always changing and I’m a horny MF that prefers hook ups SAFE for now due to my job I’m home about every month in a half . I come from a family of lazy people I chose to become a driver and work hard so in 5 years I can date and have a home built and open a luxury car dealership in Vegas.
I have 6 brothers all younger and my grandmother raised me and she extraordinary I’ve learned so much from her
Thanks everybody!
as a member of the black urban gay community ive herd this once or twice in high school and my time in jobcorp…I simply said you can be straight all you want afer I get my nut…lets fuck and you can go back where you came from
Hello everyone. This is a great idea, Dave.
My screen name is 35WMDD and I live in San Francisco.
Was a little surprised to see that there were no other posters (yet) who are from the area. No matter.
I moved to San Francisco from Los Angeles. I’m 36, white, and just recently came out to myself. I was in denial for way too long. Still, my sexuality is just one piece of me and does not define me.
I work a full time job and I am a student in Berkeley. Just recently I have some extra free time – something I haven’t had since moving to the Bay Area. Which means I haven’t been able to make many connections since being here. It would be cool to meet another guy to hang out with, grab a drink and who knows? I’m not opposed to more but I do like to take it slow and get to know someone. And that mentality keeps me single. San Francisco guys tend to move a bit quicker (a generality and one I found to be more often than not).
Please feel free to hit me up and talk. It’s a bonus if you live in the area but also open to talk with a potential friend from somewhere else in the world. Once again: 35WMDD is my screen name. Thanks!
I’m Abhi, profile name is indiantopguy. I’m 31, live in Galveston, Texas (noticed a few guys from Houston posting on the blog!). I’m a biomedical scientist. I’m gay and taken 🙂 by the most amazing man whom I met on a4a three months ago and I couldn’t be happier! I’m out to all my close friends and parts of my family. Lucky to say that it wasn’t an issue for any of them. My straightest of straight guy friends looked at me when I came out to them, smiles at me and went on to talk about normal things, didn’t even consider my sexuality to be an issue. I enjoy reading, cooking, watching movies, tv and sports, mostly indoors kinda guy, but can be persuaded to get outdoors. Five years down the line I want to see myself as successful, independent scientist at a good university and hopefully married to my boyfriend :). I don’t have kids but would definitely want to have kids – biological or adopted, doesn’t make a difference to me.
Looks like I’m the only one here from oklahoma. My username is here4now979. Just turned 24 a few days ago. Have two college degrees but currently working at an Italian restaurant as a server. My goals mostly consist of getting back into catering management and event planning and moving out of the state of oklahoma! Lol anyone looking for a roommate?!
As my A4A name indicates I’m from Central Florida and my real name is Greg. I’m gay and have known I am since I was a kid. I have a doctorate degree and am a professional so I work a great deal and don’t always have time to devote to my personal life which hinders my ability to find and maintain a real relationship. I have lots of straight friends, both men and women, and I find that encouraging as most know that I’m gay and don’t seem to care one way or another so it gives me hope for the future.
Dave,
Hello! And I want to tell you how much I enjoy your blog.
I am a 58 year old gay white male, living in Kettering, Ohio a sub, of Dayton
I work for CVS Pharmacy, Inc., where I have been employed for 36 years.
I have just began a new relationship, with a man of my age, which I like. My only hope is that, it will work out, due to the fact, that I Love him so.
In my spare time, I look after my Father, and my Auntie, which in it self is like a full time job. I enjoy spending time with my family, and my close friends, dining out when I can, and traveling.
Have a wonderful weekend, and do be safe.
Sincerely,
Alan Gray
Hi guys,
My name is Mike. My profile name is E4effort, don’t ask why I chose that profile name, just came to me I guess.
I live and work in Orange County CA. Raised and grew up in Palm Springs. It’s going on three years and I’m still not used to this crowded city. I long to move back to Palm Springs or somewhere quiet where houses are built far in between and I get to see and feel real quiet.
I tested HIV + five years ago and It’s been hard finding anyone on line. It seems like dating sites are to superficial. People are not looking for friends or to build relationships. someone on this post said it best, ” They never really build a good foundation of solid values so all they want is a pretty face and “hot” body.” Believe me, it’s not hard to get a pretty face, but it takes real effort to build a relationship and I feel many are not willing to commit – Enough said.
I’m an IS analyst, and a pretty good one at that. I’m not sure how I chose this field. In college, I really didn’t know what I wanted to be when I grew up so I ended and majoring in almost every major that you can imagine. After some trial errors I narrowed down my major.
I’m real and sensitive. I expect my friends to be the same.
Kranker in here but Brandon in person. My sexual orientation is Pansexuality.
I chose the name Kranker because one of my favorite bands out there are named Angelspit, and one of their CD’s is called Krankhaus, which is also my favorite.
20 years old taking online classes from M.I.T. (Massachusetts Institute of Technology) for my Biology, Chemistry, and Biochemistry degrees.
Planing to change my degree to criminal justice and investigation (I’m looking at you on that one,Phoenix. Lol).
I live in Long island,New York, in a town called Westbury.
I’m an artist ever since I was born. I draw and paint, I’m a make up artist, I play guitar and the bass and I’m currently learning how to play drums, and and cook.
I’m a body modification enthusiast, which brings me to the next point of what I see myself doing in the future.
I’m planing to become a Body modification and Suspension artist. If not then I would like to become a forensic specialist in Toxicology, Or a scientist specialist in Cancer Research.
I’m a X-men fanatic. I grew up watching Marvel series such as Spiderman, The Fantastic 4, but the X-Men were always my favorite.
Yes, I do indeed have a kid but not necessarily a Human being, but i do have a living different species from the Animal kingdom.
I have a kitten named Rocket, and he’s the best thing that has happened to me in years. I love him very much. ❤
Currently single, for those who wonder.
I speak English (obviously)
Spanish
French
German
I know a little bit of Russian
And I know how to read in Icelandic (The language from Iceland for those who don’t know. Lol)
If you have any question or comment, feel free to message me.
-Thank you all who took the time to read this. 🙂
Hope you have a wonderful Day/Night.
dd57dave For 10yrs plus at this site
My photos have always been full body nudes. 🙂
57 150 redhead 5,9 naturally smooth freckles
Gay out in my early teens., back then it was about older men
Most where wonderful experiences
As a teen/ 30s or so I had a boy butt, bubble butt at lest that was what I was told.
My first was bareback ,no AIDs back then.
Exhibitionist enjoy nude photographs of me alone or with other men, sex photographs available
Total bottom almost negative 7.5×4 lrg low hanging balls
dAdrianSg is my a4a profile. I’m 26. Currently in a relationship. I mainly log into a4a to check out profiles with my partner. That’s about it. I’m a sign language interpreter. From El Paso, TX.
I really enjoy reading some of the articles posted on this blog. Some are very informative. Hit me up if you wanna chat.
My name is Ralph my user name is posted above. Feel free to peruse my profile.
I’m divorced twice, Known I was gay since childhood. Only recently acted on it. I am so far into the closet, that I’ve found all my Christmas presents.
It took four years on A4A to find my Prince Charming. Trust me, I had to kiss a lot of frogs along the way. Maybe you know him. He maintains his profile here too. However discretion being the better part of valor, I won’t disclose his profile name.
I’m very happy to have such a good friend that I met here on A4A It’s all working for me.