Fantasy : Straight to gay is it OK?

To go where no man has gone b 4. Ive had a few str8 friends that would always cum 2 me when they were inbetween girlfriends or that time of the month. I loved it & so did they. LOL

In my neck of the woods, it’s because all the gay men are FAT and all the women are FAT as well. Come tothink of it, all the married men are FAT too…I seem to have a theme going here

str8 guys are MORE manly than gay men. they dont have the drama either. not the hangups, gay men have. i have a nice list of bi men i have sex with. all are married or have a gf. we enjoy each other. no complications. i am 55 yrs old and just average in looks. guess i am lucky.

I was straight and married with children, I traveled a lot in business. I would go to bars for a relaxing cocktail after working all day. I was sitting on a bar stool when this hot blonde dude came up and sat next to me. We talked and laughed for an hour and he kept getting friendlier. I felt his hand move towards my crotch, I didn’t know what to do so I let him. He started rubbing my crotch and my cut cock started getting hard, I was kinda embarassed but it felt good. I had not seen my wife in two weeks. He bought me a drink and a shot of tequila and we steped out onto the patio, we were the only guy out there. Once again he began rubbing my crotch making my cock rock hard. He pulled down my zipper, pulled my stone hard throbbing cock out and began to suck it OH FUCK WHAT WAS I DOING, WHY DID I LET HIM…it felt so good sliding in and out of his handsome cock hungry mouth and down his deep throat. I was totally confused but I loved it, now when I go back to Austin Texas, he cums to my hotel room and we play all night long, I got to eat his squeky clean bubble butt ass which made him stone hard, then he fucked my hot tight virgin latino ass nice and slow making sure not to hurt me, now after a few months of experience, I love to ride his cock as I look deeply into his blue eyes and I love to eat his squeky clean bubble butt ass, don’t know how long this will last but I’m loving it.

I personally find it to be an odd thing. The truth is that what makes us gay is our sexual behavior. So, if a man has sex with you then he isn’t straight by definition anyway. It’s why we always put the word straight in parenthesis when we talk about it. That means those who seek that are saying hey are attracted to men who can’t live in truth with themselves. I think that is sad. I suppose if you want to accept the role of a sexual predator then you might see it as “harder game to hunt”, but that in itself is sad too. I for one am comfortable being gay and only want to sleep with guys that are equally as comfortable with themselves.

Don’t know I don’t deal with so called straight men, they want their cake and eat too. They their girlfriend or wife or one side and boy toy on the other, I say pick one.

Bluntly said, I think its kinda twisted, in the bad way, to “turn a straight guy out”. We as a community cry and petition and rally and complain and stand against people and groups that try to convert or “fix” us into seeing the world with out homosexual tendencies. These people and groups put our community through hell, to change us. Why should we stoop to their level and try to do the same. Now if a “straight guy” has “gay sex” on his own, thats fine…hes just curious or bi. But why should we make that “choice” for lack of better words for them? We should be better than that…right?

It’s totally about what we “can’t have”! The chance to be the first to change a “straight” guy, yum! It’s overly exciting!!

I guess it has to do with something that we can have.
At work there is this guy, i know he has a girlfriend and i know he is straight, but at the beginning i was giving signals to him that i like him eve thou a knew i couldn’t have him. He was very friendly with me so he also gave me the impression that he might be into me. But after a while he stop talking to me and i stop trying, to the point we grow apart.

So i guess is that we want something that we can’t have.

BTW don’t whistle to a straight guy you might get in trouble and not the good kind of trouble lol.

What does straight really mean?! I know that for myself I had known about my aesthetic and sexual attraction to men since adolescence but choose not to act on it until just before my 26th birthday where I already had one child. Now I have two children and consider myself bisexual though not actively pursuing women. Gay men are often confused about what to think of my choices and how to view me, nevertheless there should be a limit to any objectification of the body and/or individual. If you respect yourself and others, then there is no reason why it should not be ok, especially if you do not harass or force yourself upon anyone!

Actually it’s all a matter of perspective. If I go to a gay bath house and see only men with men, one assumes their all gay even if that isn’t true. On internet adult sites one never knows who’s who per se. I find more bi married bottom guys at say the tubs than actual gay males like on this site. That’s because gay guys seem to be into countless emails and rarely if ever show up. I freely give out my phone number only to find no call and 3 messages online when I check again. Straight to gay. At least the “straight” bi guy will show up even if it is only at the tubs 🙂

This is waaay too complex to tackle in this fashion, but I’ll take a stab. On the surface, I think part of the sexual turn on is that there’s some uncertainty as to the outcome — will he or won’t he? — so we have sexual tension that is (all too often) lacking in gay-on-gay scenarios. In other words, it has become too easy to have sex with another gay man — so, yeah, some boredom. Hence, also, the rise of barebacking. So, I’d also expect there’s an aspect of being turned on by the taboo. But, subconsciously, there’s more going on. As suggested in the blog, there’s probably some internalized homophobia — or an aspect of it — Namely, if we can turn them gay then maybe we aren’t so “abnormal.” Or, perhaps even: if they can “go gay” then maybe we can “go straight.” Again, an attempt to “normalize” homosexuality. Or, even worse: Misogyny — as in, “I can tempt a man just like a woman can and/or please a man better than a woman. A woman is no match for me. I am more powerful than a woman.” More to the point, the successful seduction of the straight man would also, by extension, suggest superiority over him as well. So, I’d attribute all of this to pride and Ego. It’s about dominance and the need to feel powerful. Which brings it all, neatly, back to the challenge. One can hardly feel that one has honestly dominated someone who was a sure thing all along.

For me the pursuit of straight men is generally a fantasy but has happened before as well. I think we want them because we always want what we can’t have. That’ just human nature. But also for me personally it’s the subliminal allure of stealing a player from the other team so to speak. Just knowing you can is a very sexually powerful feeling. Had a str8 buddy who was really against gay sex until he broke up with his gf and hadn’t had sex in 3weeks. He was so horny I got him a tiny bit drunk and gobbled his cock and ass. Felt so good he asked me several more times to do it. Felt awesome knowing I got this ‘str8’ boy to change his perspective.

Interesting question. I’m a straight guy. Yep, it’s true. I like watching straight porn with a man and a woman, lesbian porn with two women, three ways with two women and a man, two men and a woman, and a little bit of gay porn with two men. It’s just fantasy and play for me (it’s just sex). I imagine it’s just a fantasy thing for gay men to watch straight guys crossover. It will be interesting to see how the replies to this question play out.

More interesting to me is how so many gay men insist there is no such thing as bi or straight just playing around. It’s not like a gay man is suddenly straight if he has sex with a woman for fun.

Nothing to the illusion, its “the Tiger or the (Wom -?) Man”. We love nothing more than the question. Only an older (Adult) person chooses to recognize that “change isn’t always best” because after a certain point, it becomes scarier than the alternative.

1) The conquest—it can be a “notch on your cock” (as it were) to have successfully bedded a straight man
2) They’re really just like us—Lots of verbiage out there about how straight men are different from gay guys. Successfully seducing a “straight” guy can be proof in point that straight men aren’t so different from gay men, after all–didn’t someone say that the only difference between a gay man and a straight man is a six-pack of beer?
3) I personally believe that only a few people (of either gender) are totally hetero or totally homo. I believe there’s a vast majority of people in the middle range who have the capacity to be aroused sexually and experience sexual gratification with their own gender given the right set of circumstances, time, setting, relationship between the parties, etc.

PSS… man I would have emptied his nut sack in a second.

Hot straight guys are a challenge. Most hot guys know they’re hot and love the attention. Some are open minded enough (read curious) that they play along. Some will go farther than others in the right circumstance. I believe in the Kinsey scale

Speaking from personal experiance. Its more of the forbidden fruit angle. Growing up with mostly straight friends and having crushes on 90 percent of them its always been a fantasy to connvert them…..at least for a night. When I look at porn I always look at it as a fantasy deal anyhow so it just works for me. 😀

It’s fantasy bullshit created by porn producers. They found a formula that sells so they push it on the public. I guess the idea behind it is supposed to be that a heterosexual guy can be so hot and horny he will fuck another man. Similarly the porn industry pushes lesbianism, (“is that a word?’…anyway,) on hetero men. Supposedly it’s hot to see two women hook up. African-american men are stereotyped too. Big dicked thug pounds white ass. Think about your sex life in reality and what turns you on? How much if any of it is what you see in porn? Real people don’t even fuck in those positions they show! But we’re horny. We watch porn. The fake images the producers put out there sells. Me personally I look for flicks which show two guys into eachother making love. Which are few and far between and getting harder to find.

the allure of the forbidden fruit.

This is a great topic and hope I can add my 2 cents coherently on this blog. Let me first start off by saying I am re-evaluating myself for personal reasons. I came out AGAIN to my son (whom I’ve had custody of since birth). I say again because all while growing up I talked to him about sexuality and my sexuality at different periods of his maturity. Last conversation was at his entering high school, 10 years ago. This Jan 1, 2012 I sat him down and we talked again. He doesn’t really remember detail but said the same as back then, “Dad, you’re my father and I love you” . And added, “I figured as much…”. I never paraded men around him while growing up, not even a very special friend. Of course I did my share of creeping around for hook-ups, etc, but I never brought that home so to speak. Guys that I had long affairs with (to me meaning slept with more than once), I made sure they appeared to be str (BINGO), as if we were just buddies hanging out on the town or a sporting event, etc, in other words, doing macho manly things. The point of this testimony I guess to be really honest with my son, people around me, and most importantly myself. I have made a lot of changes the last year as to who I am; very big step. and I am ready for a LTR, “INTIMATE”!!!!!!

I am currently reading a book I’ve had for years and never even read the introduction. A self help book entitled “Intimacy Between Men; how to find and keep gay love relationships)”. I read a little and reflect on it, re-read passage/chapter, reflect again. So it’s gonna take me a while to get through this 242 page small book and so far I am seeing a lot of myself. Authors claim it’s a good thing if I can relate and identify…

All that being said, let’s get to your question or observation. I don’t know! For the sake of argument, it is an on going unanswered question. I believe all men str or gay love to be admired by other men in every way (physical, achievements, acquisitions, power…). How that admiration is accepted is different between two men and two women. You know the comedic scenario where a woman can compliment another woman on a physical attribute or article of clothing, etc and even say how sexy or hot she looks. Males can not do that (str) without being uncomfortable or how it is directed, etc. MASCULINITY and what that is and how it’s understood, is the key word. That varies from culture to culture as well as society to society and eras. For three obvious views, just look at America, Europe, and third world countries. Three completely different views, opinions, and practices.

Seems pop culture has a lot of influence on now WE think and do. Look at how the porn industry had changed. Yes I do enjoy watching. It’s safe sex for me if you know what I mean 😉 It has always struck me odd, the reality based porn. Str guys doing gay things. The categories (one I just mentioned), Str To Gay, Gay for Pay, I’m a Married Man, etc always entice us for that str acting or str man! What always kills me is, the models are looking at str porn (zines or video or dvd)….

Is it the freshness (not gay fucked out) of a str man that appeals to us? IDK! Is it the challenge ( I can have you if I really want) of a str man that appeals to us? IDK! Is it the masculinity (so butch and rugged) of a str man that appeals to us? again, IDK! I think it is a combination of a lot of things.

Me, I seem to be attracted to guys I can’t have (gay or str). Given the situation it left ample time for flirting, cruising, and fantasy. And you know what, I never got with any of those either. If the opp came knocking, I wouldn’t answer. I enjoy the chase, wouldn’t want to ruin that 🙂 I do find myself attracted to str men and str acting gay men. It’s just my preference ok! I like a “butch” kindda guy. But I really hate to use the phrase “str acting”, it’s so negative to us.

I’ll end this for now, I hope the read your reply, and others. I hope I kindda stayed on point. But you see I like to talk 🙂 Stephen, you have raised a very good discussion topic. Hurray for you! ;-*

-MarqueeTee

While I enjoy little sinister plots to get guys who seem straight, I’m almost always sure he is probably still in the closet.

As for my sexual preference, I enjoy gay for pay sites and what not–but honestly it’s because I prefer masculine men. If I wanted to date somebody feminine, I’d pick up a chick. I think it’s more of a rebound from the more feminized aspects that ‘gay’ takes in the mainstream media.

I remember watching Queer Eye when I was a teenager and thinking most gay guys I knew were like Ted, but it seemed the proper way to act was… well you get the idea. I think that’s true, the majority of gays in my area are just normal dudes…

I think you are confused! I think the only reason is that we want to believe that there are more gay guys out there and its somehow satisfying when a straight guy enjoys gay sex.

It’s like how you were never allowed something growing up but saw it all around you all the time, just wanting to try it, I’ve had sex with a “straight” guy before, the first guy (other than his gym buds and doc to see his junk), we flip flop, It was great, it felt different but you know its more than likely a once and “never speak of this again, or else” situation. We see guys we find sexy with their gf’s and feel bad, but for that one moment you win inside. well that’s how I see it!

With any sort of sexual fantasy or fetish, there is always going to be a crowd that will be associated with the “forbidden” or “impossible” moment, which more or less describes just about every “straight to gay” fantasy out there. I know many straight guys; while I tease them a lot, I’ve never met one who I thought I could convert if I simply tried hard enough. That doesn’t mean that I can’t get off on imagining what it would be like if they DID decide to “experiment” with another guy.

As for making men into sex objects…it’s a difficult topic. The sex drive of the average male works entirely differently than the sex drive of the average female. While this isn’t universal, many men are actually *empowered* by being made into a sex object, as it validates them as being virile, and having appeal. Some men get off on that while others don’t, and women are often the same way – ask yourself, if you see a group of women going to a club/bar together, how often have they seemed to be competing? It happens, and we ALL do it, consciously or not.

Back to the original topic though: fantasies are just that – imagined circumstances. Left at that, there is no harm in the fantasy, and thus nothing wrong with it either. Now, trying to force yourself on “a straight” becomes another issue entirely…so why not just leave the fantasy to yourself? Or maybe a good friend who likes to fetish roleplay! It may not be quite the same, but hey, a good roleplaying couple can have tons of fun in the sack. Go for it!

Enjoy your porn and stop letting Christian pseudo-feminists find a way to make you guilty about it. It’s a fantasy. It doesn’t have to be coherent, it doesn’t have to be realistic, and it certainly doesn’t have to preach a message. It’s not sinister, it’s a fantasy.
If you want to analyze it to gain sometime of “deep understanding” from it, how you interpret it is going to depend on your hermeneutic and your viewpoint. Nobody can tell you what the “true meaning” is because there is no true meaning. Just like art and religious scripture, Everyone who looks at porn interprets it differently.

Hey, I can explain my poibt of view. To me its a game. You see I personally like sex. But I dont come on to straight me becaus I dont know how they will react. So its a thrill when I get the chabce.

I am a gay man that has lived in a small town in Indiana all my life. There isn’t a whole lot of gay guys where I live. So when I go to a bar, its a straight bar. So I flirt with a lot of straight guys. Sometimes I get a guy who is curious about what it would be like to be with another guy. I don’t think it’s wrong, I think its promoting understanding to what it means to be with another guy. Everyone goes through a stage in life where they wonder what its like to be with a same sex partner, I just give straight men a chance to experiment with that fantasy, or curiosity.

yes, to all you r questions. i think all are valid and true. there’s one factor with straight men that you didn’t mention and that’s the fact that we are partaking of that forbiden fruit that’s so hard to resist and so appealing.

Maybe it’s about approval. I feel like straight men look down on gay men for liking anal sex. If you can get a straight guy to like gay sex, than you can tell yourself that it’s ok to like it too

I’m bi, married, and not out. Since I have a strong appreciation for both genders it’s hard for me to let go of the idea that every man has a little homosexuality in him. My intrigue with straight men is determining which of them would explore that part of them with me. I think that even the straightest of men have wondered about having a beautiful cock in their mouth. My gift to all men, gay or straight is the opportunity to taste mine.

for me, When it comes to ‘str8″ guys… it isnt because im tired of other gay men….
ITS THE CHALLENGE. Getting a str8 guy who every one says “oh hes straight, you cant have him” is a challenge AND I ACCEPT!

I think that happened to me. I had a girlfriend, and one fine day I was giving someone a blowjob lol!” see how easy it is to turn??!” lol!”

Today’s society is driven by the “All Mighty Dollar” which in turn can make even the straightest of men do things such as gay acts, if the money is right. I am not saying that if you want a straight man to have sex with you you have to pay because that is illegal to some degree. Although if a straight man wants to have sex with a gay man they I do not see the issue. No matter who you are there is and will always be a wonder of “What is it like to have sex with another man?”, and the same can be said about women. So I would think that it is by luck that some of these men get that wonder fulfilled and make money while doing it.

Objectification is and will forever be one of those things that is and isn’t. In some aspect everyone wants to be noticed in some way or other, though there is a chance that you can fall into a stereo type. Some do not care because they are getting the attention that they want. All-in-all people have their own reason for wanting what they want, it is the rest of society that views wonders and experiments as wrong and degrading. But that is all in the eye of the beholder. On a side note when you throw religion in to the mix that is asking for a lot of problems. I do not condemn religion but I believe that there is a place and time, and state and personal choices is not one of them.

It all comes down to preference. A lot of guys do prefer a more masculine type. Straight, or “straight” is usually synonymous with “macho”. Therefore straight often will be defined guy who exudes masculinity in a way that comes naturally. You don’t even have to like vaginas anymore to be straight. Just watch sports, say “bro”, “dude” and “man” to everyone including your own mother and be able to describe a car beyond its size and colour.

For decades, in athletics men have banged each other in numersous ways. They’re gripped each other. They’ve thrust against each other. Afterwards, falling back breathless. Not much different than sex. With acceptance of gays growing over the past 20-30 years, straight guys have crossed the line to sex with buds. They must have asked, “why is it that only gay men get great sex with no strings attached?” For them, sex with women is good; sex with men much simpler, much more straght forward (pun), much easier.

It’s they are more masculine and not catty guys who say they are masculine but are pretentuous, picky, and judgemental. They are carefree and spontaneous, they like to go hunting, play basketball, softball and ride motorcycles, instead of going to the mall, online shopping or watching Rupaul’s drag racing. Ill take masculinity over everything. As long as they have a job or car. Blue collar is a plus. So u dont have to deal with the grimminess of nasty cut throat corporate attitudes.

I don’t know about anyone else but for me it’s always been a fantasy to be some str8 guys first. First guys to suck him and first guys he sucks. It turns me on.

I’m not offended by str8 going gay. if anything, men are finally willing to submit to the desires of their bodies, and curious about things. I think it’s a great thing when a str8 guy discovers that he really enjoys a gay (or other man) fucking him and feeling the urge to kiss and be kissed by the other man. It’s a matter of self confidence.

U can’t have a str8 hot guy. U want what you can’t have. Just like str8 men wanting hot lesbians. Plus str8 men more masculine and don’t usually don’t shave or trim.

Remember the Golden Rule! It’s not Gay if it’s a three way.

Definitely ok. What could be wrong with it? If a str8 guy sleeps with us it’s his doing. He’s an adult and is responsible for his actions. Been with a few “straight” guys (yeah right) and it’s just plain hot seeing him experience man on man sex for the first time. Can’t wait to do it again.

See for me honestly I don’t believe that a true straight man will give a gay man the time of day. For the so called “straight men” I believe that they are already curious or on the DL they may be a little more complicated to get too because you have to be their type and very discrete but there gays at heart

i think its ok . its nsa get off and get out

Oh, and in response to your last questions… why is it so hot, or is it? Well, just depend on who you ask. Its not one or the other, its unfair to cast a net like that.

And your last question, “is it okay?” Of course it is. If you say its not, you’re judging someone for their own personal preferences in what turns them on. And I think the gay community has been judged too much already, so let’s not keep doing it to ourselves.

It is the present, in the near future I feel that a lot of people are looking pass the labeling of ones sexuality. I don’t think there is a such thing called orientation, preference or stereotypical label. I think people are more aware of what they find attractive, what turns them on, and what works best. As for me, I love men, only men, and all I need is one man. Women are gorgeous and sexy, but I don’t find females attractive. I know who I am and know what I want. So the question is would I sleep with a straight men? No, but do I fantasize on turning him out? Sure! But it boils down to. Do I really want a penis that has penetrated vagina in me, let alone my mouth. Why would I want something that has been inside something that has nothing to do with me? Man is the least of my problems, but I will tell you this. I follow my intuition, not trends. So if this straight/gay thing is what’s trending, I will leave it for the rest to follow.

We’re only human, we want what we can’t have.

Well, if it was “Gay gone Straight” we would accuse the far-right of some kinda plot against us! Shit like “Bait Bus”really does make us look bad! Straight boy suduction has always been a theme in porn, but their is a growing trend towards “Straight boys fucking” I might catch hell for this, but straight guys don’t fuck each other..BI guys do.

What’s cool about seducing a str guy is it is nsa and willing to try anything. Uncool is married men.

I’m personally a little miffed by the whole thing too. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve watched a few of the films where “converting” a straight guy is the theme, and they’re pretty hot. I, however, feel like the reason that they’re hot is because they put guys with the personality and the look that we idolize in everything else into those films which makes them more intriguing. On the scale of Tinkerbell to Tim the Toolman Taylor, I’m somewhere in the middle. Sometimes, it feels like the “straight guy fantasy” has made guys who should be in my peer group ignore me for the rougher/tougher looking guy to my right. I can try and convince myself that they’re missing out, and I can make myself agree. But it doesn’t change the fact. What I will say, however, is the ones where the “straight” jock goes for the nelly queen are kind of hot… Does that negate my own point?

It shouldn’t matter whether a guy is gay or straight! Gay men everywhere should NEVER hold another guy’s sexual preference against him! I wouldn’t discriminate against him just because he might be straight! I’m an equal opportunity cockwhore!
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In my opinion any straight man that will have sex for money is not that straight to begin with…

I have often heard this: “A gay man’s biggest obsession is the straight man.” I believe there’s a lot of truth in that – at least for me. Because a straight man is considered “taboo,” it makes him even more desireable.

I personally have never found a gay man that smells as good as a straight man. Pheromones have a huge effect on me of the degree of attractiveness of a man. So far, all the gay guys I’ve ever known smell almost the same, and it’s a smell I can’t stand. Straight guys seem to exude a different type of smell, something less sickly sweet than I’m used to.

You know there are lots of guys out there that are constantly talking about pussy, and for some reason (I don’t know why)they have a different look about them. I kid you not! It is this look that I find so fucking attractive. And they are also the first to slam gay people. So don’t you think I should hate them? I do! But guess what. They truly make my dick hard. Oh, by the way, this is in MY experience. But I absolutely know, just as some guys like to only fuck, and some guys only like to get fucked, that I am not alone in my experience. The key word is “some”. My point is that we’re all different! Speaking in terms of gay and straight is fucking pointless in my opinion. A guy who likes other guys will either openly talk about dick and sound like a fag, or he won’t say jack shit! And it absolutely sucks because in this world a guy who likes chicks will sound like a stud if he talks about pussy. But don’t lie because heterosexuals like you to prove yourself and before you know it you will have a bitch right before you and if you don’t truly like pussy, you’ve already lost your game.

I think its all about the gaydar, that the straight guy isn’t really straight, he is only closeted, he probably was checking you out before you even noticed, because he was looking, hopeing, horny, and if the time.and place is right things will happen, the supposedly straight, gay guy’ will act on something he’s been suppressing. because he is in the closet

The ‘convert a straight’ guy phenomenon that’s taking over the gay porn scene a wow to me. Guys like Cody Cummings & Samuel O’Toole, gay for pay, purely disgust me. Sites like, baitbus, ungloryhole & others are sad.

I am convinced that everyone is bi… if they haven’t tried it they’ve thought about it… just need to get the fellas when they are feelin’ it for a guy… that won’t be always but it will happen, guaranteed

ADD to Header (hehe) “Happens everyday!”

I think it’s more because women are such a bore and at the same time want their version of equality which means they want the rights they had and then more which leaves us men with less rights than ever. I never disliked sex with women, it was the rest of the time I couldn’t stand them.

Plus it is true that anything we are not supposed to do is always more fun.

From my experience, I’d say its a waste of time. These days most guys, are full of shit. Especially online. I’m 46 and proud of my age, however this is the one thing that I have to lie about, because most of the young guys that I might lean towards feel that if your over 30, your considered that daddy’s age and that’s too dam old for them, and most of the guys that are in the my age group of 40 and above are usually on bullshit and they want to play a lot of games, and if we throw in the race card, the all of them are FULL OF SHIT! So to answer your question, STAY STRAIGHT MEET YOU A NICE FEMALE BE HONEST AND TRUTHFUL WITH EACH OTHER, AND MAKE IT WORK!

I think it’s bc str8 men are more straight acting + they don’t have all the gay drama that all the other gay boys do. I think woman are beatiful but after the men been married for a while they get sick and board of the woman and woman don’t really like or know how to suck good dick like us. And how to let the man fuck u really really good besides the pusy. And I know a lot of married men who are married but have sex with men and even have a relationship with other gay men and they are happyier with there bf men or there gf or wife’s. And if a straight guy fucked a MAN he is not str8 at all …….. U can’t be str8 and fuck guys. You can’t be BI: I don’t belive in that shit. Ither ure gay or straight if a straight guy fucks a guy the first time to try they like it for sure and want more and don’t want to go back to woman …..

I think that a lot of guys are open to whatever works for them at the moment. I don’t go looking for straight guys, but I have profiles on a few hookup sites. My profiles say that I love to suck dick, no strings, nothing needed in return……..and I get a lot of messages from guys who say that they are straight. I don’t really care whether they’re straight or gay, as long as I find them attractive, and they are willing to let me satisfy my oral fixation. I’m single and have no desire to change that, but I do enjoy sex from time to time. I think our society puts too much emphasis on labels……everybody is supposed to “be” something, conform to some definition……..well, I don’t think people in general can fit into societies confining definitions.

Do we really need labels?
I can only guess why for others. For me,, as far as sites, such as this one, it seems a label is required, even tho 90% of the people here seem to just not see or want to see what we put in our profiles. I am sexual…. what does that mean? In my case, I am secure/ comfortable in my own skin. I enjoy sex, that’s the way it’s supposed to be, makes sense to me, I mean we’re not writhing in pain during, after, or even when we’re just thinking about it.( if you are , you might need a doctor, maybe a psychologist.)
I never had any misconceptions about sexual pleasure. I love women, always have. Have a great,long marriage,I enjoy a great sexual and emotional connection with my wife.
I realized early on, I really enjoyed my cock, cock is good….(grunt). I am sexually interested in cock.
however, I generally do not, in my every day boring aspects of life,find myself checking out guys.
I am checking out women…..Hm-mm, nothing strange here.
I love getting my partner off, love the fact that I am giving that pleasure, love the feeling of the sexual connection. For me it’s totally natural to be, sexually with another guy,I love the sexual connection I can have with a guy, can’t get that with any woman. For me, this enriches my life.
As with all the other aspects of my life and how I live it. I really couldn’t care less what anyone thinks of me. Well maybe a couple of people,they know me, and what I do in bed is not even a brief thought for them.
So what fits??? within the confines of this arena..
I am Bi. also bottom (with a guy) (guys, if you havn’t been there, I can’t explain.)
More notable, I am genuine, just being me, have had a bit of time to refine that. Totally fine with who I am.
As far as fantasy….watching good looking guys enjoying each other, I’m all for it, any way it’s labeled…

I see a lot of what amounts to ‘Thou Shalt Nots’ in the comments here – Thou Shalt Not Have Sex With A Married Man, Thou Shalt Not Have Sex With A Straight Man, Thou Shalt Not Enjoy Having Sex (OK, I made that one up).

I am gay. I’m also a veteran, athlete, writer, and technical photographer. I’m lots of things, as are most here. But when did we add ‘Judge Of Others’ Behaviors’ to our credits?

I hate to use ANYthing from the bible, but there’s a lot of truth to the notion to ‘let he who is without sin among you cast the first stone (depending on whose bible it is).

Gay Person A believes in this and not in that. Gay Person B believes in THAT and not THIS. Gay Person C… you get the drift. Are these people who have nothing better to do than to sneer at others really that faultless?

Here’s an old French peasants’ saying (I heard it on ‘The Tudors’, uttered by the Oh-So-Hot Henry Cavill, “Praise the god of all, drink the wine, and let the world be the world”.

let’s look at the ancient cultures like Rome and Greece. They married women and procreated with them, but they hung out with other men and fucked them for fun. Sure they fucked women for fun, but there was a risk of pregnancy. That and women expect you to talk to them and treat them like they matter. Men, take things for what they are. So, they fucked men for fun. It’s human nature to like both. Society has just made us think our way out of it.

Well im a bisexual male and have had more than my fare share of straight men. In my opinion its to have something thats missing in our out gay culture. Masculinity. Straight males are generally our first attraction. Men being or seemingly manly. I love a good feminine guy but gimme a manly dude anyday. All in all they bend over and take it just like any out gay guy. Some better than others.

A straight guy has a place near my lake side cabin. He must be around 30 y/o. He’s a construction guy. I have seen him and his girl friend 3-4 times in passing. Maybe he has seen me swimming and sunbathing naked, although i thought no one could see me, it’s very private. Recently he came knocking at my door and after chatting for 10 min i realized he was asking to have sex with me …although he never uttered the word ‘sex’. He said he kept having dreams about me and and that he was getting married soon and he want to try ‘it’ with me before getting married. He also said that i was the only guy he has ever had such dreams or thoughts about. For a moment i thought “poor guy i should help him out!” but i wasn’t turned on by him at that moment, and ‘straight’ is not a plus for me, so i refused his charming invitation to do ‘it’. But i’ve never seen him other than all dressed in his dirty construction clothes. This summer i’ll try to invite him to join me for a swim in the lake to see if i change my mind. Sorry guys to leave you hanging like that, maybe this summer i’ll have a juicier story for you 😉

MOST DEFINITELY INTERNALIZED HOMOPHOBIA! Being gay is just like being right or left handed. No big deal just variations on the human condition. When one looks to “act straight” it is just a COWARDLY way of living. Being masculine or feminine should NEVER be equated with or “being straight”. Once a “straight” man has sexual feelings NOT actions toward another man he is no longer straight PERIOD! The rest is just a charade.

The preoccupation with straightness is just a desire to fit in and not feel different. The world still turns and water is still wet no matter who one has sex with. I find it really lame when there’s conquest or trickery involved in getting some guy in the sack. It speaks volumes and is more exciting when someone can’t wait to have sex sit you because of you.

Lastly, the friends with benefits, closeted bisexual and married guys who have sex with other men are just using them and are afraid of having feelings for another guy. I would love to live in a world where I can be at a football or baseball game and kiss my man when our team scores and no one would bat and eye. That day will only happen when the cowards come out and gay sex is just as significant as another flavor of ice cream or beer.

Tyson, why do you have a problem if other races want to bottom to white men? Should races just stay with each other…..or if a white male’s involved, he should be the bottom?

My opinion Part 1

As a straight then bi then gay (LOL), I have my own opinion about this whole straight guy has gay sex. When it comes to sex and purely sex, I believe lots of people fall into a range of sexual orientations, meaning men have sex with women, women have sex with men, men have sex with men and women have sex with women. However, when it comes to who you fall in love with, emotionally relate to and want to spend the rest of your life with, you are one or the other. Sex is sex but who completes you is totally different.

My opinion Part 3

Stop trying to get straight guys to have sex with you. The real men are those who have dealt with themselves and are honest about who they are. If you are bi, then be honest with your partner and have full disclosure. However, most guys (and it’s usually men) want it both ways. The nice “straight” accepted life but the gay sex when they get the urge. I was there and it takes so much energy. Coming out was the hardest thing and best thing I have ever done and I have never looked back. Like one of the comments above, it would be nice if we could say not have labels and be who we are. That being said wouldn’t it be nice if we who do identify as gay, have all the legal rights of “straight” people? Think about it!

The one thing in life I regret is sleeping with my straight best friend.

To be honest, I personally do not like straight guys because they are just focused on getting their cock to blow a load and then want to go on with their happy ass. Well, guess what buddy? I’m trying to bust a nutt too. I’m gonna stick my dick in your ass and down your throat. Besides, there’s all this drama that comes along these so called straight boys because they don’t know what to do. They want to please their dicks while pleasing society but meanwhile are unhappy and don’t know why. Well its because they are not living for themselves and that’s just too much drama. I didn’t come out until 2 years ago and I haven’t looked back since. I love my community and wish I would have come to terms with myself sooner but since I didn’t I am not gonna miss anymore by chasing some straight dude. I’ll gladly find some queen that’s down for loads of fun ; )

I agree to every one but the one that touches me the most is the post that says how society has tried to change us gays str8 and that we rebel against it so why should we stoop down and try it on str8 men…the way i see it u can be gay,str8,curious,or bi for all i care as long as i get your dick now i know that makes me sound like a horror but i dont give a shit im just here to help them figure out what they are i have 2 married men that i still meet ad i live 5 miles from a marine corp base so i get a lot of str8 curious ppl that i blow and never hear from again so with that said why do we care whats there label as long as there HOT and u get there dick its all good right?…

Sounds hot. All I can say is that I’m in. I’ll send you a pic later if you respond.

Shane,you got it right man! 110% correct!!! Gay men generally live lives true and have the currage to go for want thay want, “straight”(GAY) men hide and live dubble lives lying & manipulating the people they say they love the must! Never really loving them in the true sense of the word! So many of them are really emotional vampires,living off other peoples true emotions,void of any real consciousness or empathy themselves! Men who are called “Down low” or “str8” are really Selfish,greedy, and weak! They are in my opinion just the worse innd of man!